Well I am trying to become one and slowly I am improving people ask me to hangout and I am meeting more people/getting numbers. I read how to win and influence friends. I have been using what it said in the book. I know it is a skill which is why I am challenging myself this week to meet someone new everyday. Got a number on my first cold approach and I plan to do some more this week. I have a friend who is a social butterfly and he is not the best looking but he pulls in people especially hot chicks. I know I need to continue to get better to be on that level. Is there any thing else I can be doing to build a social life abundance than this or does it just take time? Any more books to read or tips would be greatly appreciated.