My best friend says I'm controlling towards my LTR (who won't put out because she's supposedly still a virgin at 25). She says I don't show her any affection. The reason for that is I've grown to mistrust women, borderlining on paranoia since I've been hurt badly in the last relationship. My friend also says TRP is a bunch of losers. Since TRP I've grown apart from him. They both want me to be less of a dick but I'm bitter about a lot of things. I struggle taking people's advice rather than my own that's why I'm still a purple pill loser. Any comment is appreciated.