Hey brothers. I have been redpill aware for a while now but there is one thing I don't completely get. Can you be nice to a woman.... If she views you as the alpha male. You often hear that woman want a nice guy but that she views as alpha and I think it's true but not sure. I wanted to get your takes on it

This inculedes taking her on dates, buying her stuff and all that beta shit

NOTE: this is after 1 month dating