Enter me.

18yo Beta ass AFC.
Move to new town to get away from parents and shit friends once I become of age and finish High School. Get shit fast food job and walk 3 hours each way just to pay the bills. To be honest, now that I am red pill aware I understand completely why I was in the predicaments I was at a younger age.
Meet attractive woman at said fast food restaurant. She is taken (by fat but rich beta) but me being young, somewhat attractive, and overly confident in spurts at the time was able to game her into sleeping with me. My first Plate so to speak.
We move in together TWO months later. I fall into her frame. I become dependent on her and completely transform my being and goals to please her. I had no real understanding of what it meant to be a man and I was manipulated. Taken advantage of. Pussy Whipped.
So foolish.

Fast forward (almost) four years. We are married, Complete ONEitis, THEN I Find TRP.
Now that I have read up on TRP and completed The Rational Male I am fucking depressed. I look back and see the shit tests, see the beta ass behavior I was exhibiting, see the ONEitis for what it truly was. First thing I did was hit the gym. I have had to problem going 4 times a day, becoming more social , setting definite goals, and actually improving myself. And in this, I am at peace. ( No matter what is to come I will be OK )

I thought now that the veil has been lifted I would be able to switch over to Alpha mindset and behaviors, and create a somewhat decent and meaningful LTR until the inevitable Hypergamous nature of my wife kicked in just as it had before when we first got together. I made my bed and so I must sleep in it right? Tonight I see now what her true intents are.

My wife was seemingly receptive to this. She immediately gave way and stepped into my Frame. I have been gaming the shit out of her and been getting sex MUCH more frequently practically every night. I have been met with little to no resistance and now I know why.

Because of my self improvement, I was given an opportunity through my new friends to work for an incredible company. I am set up to be making around 5 grand a month where for the last 4 years I have been struggling to reach financial stability moving from shit job to shit job just to pay the bills. My wife has helped with money on occasion but never without shaming me in some way about it. We talked on a joint bank account after we were married (before TRP) and we MUTUALLY agreed to not do it. We split everything 50/50 mostly money coming out of her account and I pay my half to her in cash. She spends her money how she wants and I mine.

Tonight she confronts me ( second day on the job ) and demands we get a joint bank account. Claiming she remembers the conversation from before and that I was the one who wanted to do it. After I insisted she had the story incorrect she then switches it on me and says she only said no TOO because she didn't think I was "ready" to have a joint account with her. Had I not been Red Pill Aware, I would have agreed and I would have been the true Beta Bucks provider. Once denied, she unforgives the debt I owed her (about 1K usd) and now wants the bills to be taken out of my account. ( i assume as some sort of "punishment" for not agreeing to set up the joint acc) She has been disrespecting me ever since our conversation and is now sleeping on the couch. I see my wife not as the dandy unicorn I once did but rather the manipulative woman she truly is. The Rational Male and TRP have not lied to me and my wife is slowly slipping up and showing me her true colors. Every one of her actions is truly thought out with her prerogative in mind. A tough pill to swallow.

I come to you now, seeking advice I know that you can provide. I plan on sticking to my guns and keeping our accounts separate but I feel that it will soon become a case of "My happiness or Your money" and I want to be prepared before that storm blows into shore. I already feel that since we are married the "glass is already shattered" and this might be the pebble that causes the windshield to give-way. I do not want to be in a shit relationship but I do not want to take divorce lightly. Is there any way I can rectify this shit and straighten her ass out?
I will supply more info as requested.

Also would be appreciative of any advice from others who swallowed TRP after saying I do or any other veterans who can shed some light on this grim situation I find myself in.
Am I fucked?
Now 24YO , No children , No home, Married for just about 1 year.

Thank You