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22	Have a very good LTR with lots of green flags but found out she lied about n-count		nastynickdr	/r/askTRP	19/01/16 08:42 PM
4	LTR grew up without her father but gets along with him. Still a red flag?		nastynickdr	/r/askTRP	05/11/15 03:11 PM

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1	Question about DEERING and STFU > Can you please stop eating in the car as it makes a mess and I just cleaned the car? She fully knows why she shouldnt eat in the car. No need to explain it to her. She wouldnt do it if she respected you. As you said, she sees you as a fat fuck who doesnt own his shit, hence no respect for you. You wouldnt need to hell her why she shouldnt shit on the floor, do you? > Can you please vacuum the house - She: why? Me: because we have friends coming over and I would like the house to be clean. …	/r/askMRP	10/05/19 12:19 AM
2	[FR] career-beta under transformation, I think I'm passing her shit tests, but I'm losing interest Man you still got a long way to go. Pretty sure you have read zero of the sidebar. Start with no more mr nice guy, which is you 100%, and then when I say no I feel guilty. Do it. You really need your mommy to tell you or your wife what you should be doing? > Me (trying to maintain frame) You have zero frame. Work on that. Stop DEERing to your wife for starters. > What I really want to start is the "please...just leave, I don't see any future for us" discussion. See what a faggot you ar…	/r/askMRP	30/04/19 11:26 AM
3	When to try? When to give up? Quit trying to figure out what she thinks/wants. Dont do cold war, thats what bitches do, I used to do all the time with my ex, and yes I was a weak bitch. Even if you "win", you lose, as you may have already noticed. You are the man, you lead. You do what you want. You feel like kissing/fucking? Dont overthink, go for it. If you get shot down, you go with a "maybe some other time" attitude, go focus on something else, completely unnafected and not butthurt. Go lift, work on your projects, rea…	/r/askMRP	29/04/19 01:33 PM
6	What's next? There may be. But do you really want to? Is she worth all the hassle? What does she brings to the table? you dont have any kids with her do you? you fucked up badly, by vetting poorly, marrying a wall-hitting alpha widow with 2 kids and being mr nice guy captain save-a-hoe. What I would do if I were you: - Get the best attorney you can and divorce her the right way (lots of posts about divorcing the right way here, use the search). Make sure you wont have to pay child support for kids wh…	/r/askMRP	28/04/19 11:48 PM
6	Found a text suggesting lunch with guy from gym. Should I say something? hey man If your woman wants to cheat on you, she will. Period. You cant prevent it from happening. It doesnt depend on you, you cant control what she does. If you cant accept this, then dont get into a LTR and just spin plates. She could be going for a quickie on a motel with a co-worker during lunch time. A quick blowjob in the bathroom. You would never know. Instead of worrying about her cheating, focus on you. What could you be doing to improve your life? Improve yourself? Make more mon…	/r/askMRP	13/02/19 07:20 PM
20	Tired of Sex Denials with LTR 5 months is still honeymoon phase. She should be craving your cock. If she isnt, its very likely she sees you as beta. Can you turn that around? Yeah, but you will have far less headaches just leaving her and getting someone who actually craves your dick. And dont even consider upgrading her even further if she isnt craving your cock. > threatening to leave This is weak. You either leave or you dont. Dont play games. This is just a LTR, if the relationship is not satisfying you, you simply w…	/r/askTRP	28/01/19 01:38 AM
3	Discovered wife has had an affair, have kids, she doesn't know that i know Sluts will do things that slut do. If wasnt this guy, it would be another. So you found out your wife cheated on you with 18 other men, you are gonna go after all of them cause its their fault they fucked a married woman? Its her fault she fucked the other man, unless she was forced to. If anything, he should thank this guy for showing him that his wife is a cheating wore, so he can move on with his life and not spend years/decades married to a whore. > Wrong. She'll find another BB to marry…	/r/askMRP	25/01/19 09:42 PM
2	Is marrying an older woman a bad idea? The only valid reason to go through all the risks of marriage is If you want to start a family. She os already 39, kinda late for that. And women age faster than men.	/r/askMRP	05/01/19 10:39 PM
0	Should I cut it off with LTR? Or? First thing, what do YOU want? Do you want to get married anytime soon, and have kids? Only move in with a woman if you plan on having kids soon with her, otherwise just dont. If you dont want kids, dont even consider moving in with a woman or marriage. Now, if you do want kids, is this girl good wife and mother material? The way she is right now, not what you think she should be. You cant change her and cant fix her. If not, cut it off. You are too young go get entangled with a woman. You…	/r/askTRP	13/12/18 09:21 PM
1	How screwed up is this? Or do we have it about right? You want to fuck, you initiate. If you care that she may be playing games, or what her "true intentions" are, or if she gets pleasure from shotting you down, or whatever, you are in her frame and doing it wrong. If she shots you down, you go do your own thing, unaffected and not butthurt, or go bang some other thot if you dont have a problem with that.	/r/askMRP	11/12/18 03:21 PM
3	Low T - acta non verba? Being fat will increase your estrogen, which lowers your testosterone. If you arent primary hypogonadal, you can increase your test levels without injections. If I were you, I would try to go the natural route before going the TRT route. If you get a shitty doctor you can be screwed for life. TRT is complicated and you need the best doctor you can afford. Lose the fat, eat right (eat only REAL food), sleep enough, lift. You could also see if a doctor can recomend you clomid and/or tamoxifen …	/r/askMRP	07/12/18 05:07 PM
1	Just realised that my wife makes absolutely no sense when she argues. What do you guys answer to "you hurt my feelings"? > but I still feel bad. Give less fucks	/r/askMRP	07/12/18 04:58 PM
1	Going from dating to serious without showing too much investment > We spent the last 24 hours together having wild sex, bonding, being intimate. Yeah, NRE - new relationship energy, enjoy while it lasts. You can care about her. Bond with her. Enjoy your time with her, your turn with her. But the moment you start being needy, paranoid about what she is doing, what she feelz, why she did this or that, you get stuck into her frame, and she starts losing attraction. As a man, your main focus should be on your objectives and mission. One of the side effects …	/r/askMRP	27/11/18 07:40 PM
1	Going from dating to serious without showing too much investment > I'm mostly just interested in advice which successfully guides me forward with this girl Maintaining the relationship is her job. Your job is to be a high value man that women want to fuck / have relationships with. She is the one who needs to want to be exclusive with you (she should be EAGER to have your exclusivity), and then, based on what you want and your vetting, you accept it or not. The more needy you are, the more your value decreases. Get yourself busy.	/r/askMRP	27/11/18 07:00 PM
2	FR: Filed this week; Lawyer "How did you get so mentally prepared for this?" ; Her "Ok...this is how it is" > A good guy wouldn't camp out in the backyard of a married woman's house and make smores with a married woman's daughter". Blank stare from her. Thats DEERing. Thats bad. > If the roles were flipped, how would you see it?" She then saw it but boy was it amusing seeing this. DEERing again. You are still wanting "to make her see things the way you see". That wont work, she gives zero fucks, if it FELT right it was right. > She was again perplexed by the guy that was sitting in front of he…	/r/askMRP	12/11/18 06:17 PM
1	Shit test feedback > is that the only reason that you are talking to me Yep, shit test. Either ignore or A&A. As long as you dont use logic / defend yourself you should be fine. "Actually, I want a house, two kids and a dog with you" "Nah I was expecing you could make me a good sandwhich" "What were you thinking would happen? Im not that easy, you gotta buy me dinner first!"	/r/askTRP	06/11/18 06:01 PM
11	How to apologize? Should I apologize? Dude Stop being a needy bitch You texted, she ignored. This should be enough. What you do? What you should be doing. Work on yourself, lift, meet new people, work on your projects, game other chicks. When she comes back, IF she contacts you, you meet and ser where you stand, without being a butthurt beta bitch. PS: she doenst deserve more than plate position ATM, she has to show shes worth the upgrade.	/r/askMRP	04/11/18 01:20 AM
2	To plate or put on hold No sex for YEARS? At 30ish years old? Do you have kids? If not, just handle her the papers. "You are a great person, but it turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single again. Here are the papers for you to sign" > I have always had a moral code of not cheating and have succeeded so far in upholding it despite the dead bedroom while still gaming and flirting reasonably regularly She hasnt fucked you in YEARS. Thats breaking the "marriage contract". The worst part is you complying to …	/r/askMRP	29/10/18 05:05 PM
2	Struggling with concept of frame in my situation Are you resetting everyday? Or you are being an angry chump who wont even look at her face everyday? Everyday when you wake up, you treat her good. From your own frame. Treating her good is not the same as catering to her demands. Tease her, game her, be upbeat. You are a man on a mission. Her bad moods have no effect on you. You play your nice card until she plays her mean card, then you remove your nice card. (MMSLP) Also make sure you are leading her. Whats your vision for the future? Wha…	/r/askMRP	26/10/18 05:40 PM
12	New to MRP after wife had affair The biggest thing that makes you a faggot is that you are still married to a woman that you know that has cheated on you. She tried to branch swing, Chad just pumped and dumped her, now she comes back to her safe beta. Until new Chad comes and it all happens again. Very likely she has done this before and you never knew. Stop being a fag, serve her the divorce papers and move on with your life. It can be a new awesome life now that you have your eyes opened, it only depends on you.	/r/askMRP	19/10/18 05:59 PM
1	Maintaining frame after serious injury What she needs is to know that you´ll handle shit. You have to pass the message that "everything is going to be alright honey, i got this". Stay always in control. Never get desperate. Do what you have to do to heal the faster you can. You can still lead her. What you cant do is act like a child and her as your momma. Then things go to shit.	/r/askMRP	16/10/18 07:08 PM
1	How do i stop seeking for approval? Start being a man? Stop being a pussy? Stop being the pathetic naive nice guy? go to amazon.com search "no more mr nice guy" buy the book, read it. Then read it again. And again. Also lift weights like your life depends on it. No, jogging and zumba arent enough. Lift.	/r/askMRP	16/10/18 07:01 PM
2	Want a LTR, plates too distracting So you are divorced for 6 months and already wanna entangle yourself up again? Too soon. Also, you have to decide If you still want to have more kids. If you dont, dont even consider living together with a woman.	/r/askMRP	09/10/18 01:02 PM
2	Can it be done? Wow, if you could just say "no" to all this shit ehh??? hmmmmm > She trough a glass truough the appartment and screamed to Get me to help her. Classic stuff here. Psycho entitled bitch marries beta mr nice guy. Any guy who has a little bit of self esteem would have nexted the bitch when she did this. No kids? Just leave. She is low quality, you are low quality. Read the sidebar and lift. Be single, get some plates, screw up, travel, get new outside hobbies, grow a backbone, meet new people…	/r/askMRP	04/10/18 04:31 PM
8	Big dread game improvement but kissing is a problem, advise please > I desperately dont want to lose her Ah yeah, there we go. 10 years red pill my ass. So you got the "i love you but im not in love with you" talk. What you do? Same as every other guy here. Put in the work, read all the sidebar especially NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, stop being unnatractive, start being attractive, eat right, lift, read the MAP book and set your goals and objectives, work on YOU, develop a strong frame independent of your wife. Then, when you have unfucked yourself, when you make…	/r/askMRP	01/10/18 09:54 PM
1	OLTR and plates If I were you I would treat It just like exclusive talk regarding plates: its up to her to bring It up or not. And If she does, come clean, and its up to her to accept your terms not. Of course, dont make her feel like a cheap slut, but you should know that since ur good at game. If she assumed you didnt have a GF for whatever resson, well, her problem. Just like when a plate assume exclusivity without you ever agreeing to.	/r/askMRP	01/10/18 01:41 AM
6	Newly Red Pill Aware, fast gains, but..... > text message history was always cleared, a severe change in her demeanor that mimicked the lead-up Athol Kay's steps 4 and 5......she just no longer cared about me and let me know it. Said things like we never should have married, we should have separate bedrooms, we should just end it, etc, If you dont have kids and your answer for that isnt "Theres the door" then you still got a very long way to go. > I've made/things I've learned -could easily replace or upgrade to a different woman if …	/r/askMRP	26/09/18 09:39 PM
15	Women are just as sexual as men > this is biologically false due to testosterone levels. This is BS. Women have less test, but in women test has very few functions, so it mostly goes to libido. Im men test has dozens of functions. > but I also think there might be more to it as women tend to be sexual with an LTR more for the closeness and intimacy Lol, wrong. The reason SOME women will mostly fuck only in LTRs is social convention / religious / fear of slut shaming. They want to fuck Chad as much as you want to fuck the h…	/r/askMRP	26/09/18 11:38 AM
4	I hurt her Wow, you are all over the place man. Get your shit together. So, you are NOT married, your fiancee has no sexual interest in you, you cheated, you are a mess and you dont know what to do with your life. Thats easy to fix. Easy easy. Im gonna give you a hint: DO NOT MARRY THIS WOMAN. She already has no sexual interest in you, and what you think, marrying will fix that? Just dont. You are setting yourself up for a shitty life. Make sure you always wear a condom so you dont bring kids into this…	/r/askMRP	23/09/18 09:28 PM
5	Difficulty accepting my new reality. Its normal, you are going through the anger phase. Just make sure you dont get stuck in it. You have been lied your entire life. Now, its up to you to turn your life around. Also, dont blame your wife. She is just doing what women do, and she will continue to do what women do. Its not her fault you chose to be weak, lazy and a doormat. Your story is no different from most of others here. What you do? Keep pushing that GAS. Make sure you get a GYM membership and start picking up heavy shit of…	/r/askMRP	21/09/18 11:48 AM
4	Emotional affairs? Attention, validation, bitches love that. Its not unusual for women to trade sex for attention and validation. She has your full attention when you are inside her. Now, betas are happy to be time whores while having nothing in return. They got nothing better to do than being emotional tampons, listening to her problems and trying to "fix" and "save" her. Attention and validation from Chad is a lot better than from some beta, but any attention is better than none, so depending on her needyn…	/r/askMRP	14/09/18 07:49 PM
1	I want to like my wife again You are the guy who whined on a previous post about wifey almost killing your dog right? You got lots of good advice there and seems like you followed none. You just DEER. Leave her, cheat on her, or dont. Just make a decision, stick to it, man up and stop being a faggot. And decide it before you knock her up, as you can get away from this pretty easily if you decide to. No one will decide your life for you. or maybe you should post this on relationships and get the you should taaaaaaaaaaa…	/r/askMRP	14/09/18 12:26 PM
2	Leadership skills? Read your post again. Can you realize how you sound like a woman? How feminized you process of thinking is? How you are afraid of what other people think of you? How you get butthurt when other people dont do what you want them to? How you are not in your own frame? Think of some guy you look up to, that you admire, that you see as THE MAN. Would he be afraid of "picking something that everyone is going to think is lame or something they don’t feel like doing and then I look like a control fre…	/r/askMRP	12/09/18 02:48 PM
10	First post: Wife cheated on me with a chick...what would you do? You are a mess right now. You need to unfuck yourself. Thats a process that takes lots of time and effort. Also you wifed up a woman who is not wife and mother material. First thing, you gather evidence of the cheating. You talk to a lawyer who will help you make the divorce the less costly possible for you. You are gonna talk to you wife and calmly inform her that its over. "You are a great person, but it turns out we are not compatible. Our marriage is over, I want to be single again. I wish…	/r/askMRP	10/09/18 02:13 AM
2	Anger causing me to break frame. And how to proceed with this. Smirk and tease when she shit tests you, tells you what you should do, tries to control you. Now, getting your dog almost killed isnt a shit test. I dont know If you have kids, If you dont you should strongly consider finding a less shitty woman. I wouldnt want someone who does this be the mother of my kids. But you do you.	/r/askMRP	08/09/18 02:29 AM
0	Anger causing me to break frame. And how to proceed with this. Your 4 yr daughter tells you should do this or that. Tries to control what you do. Then you: 1) get angry as fuck and scream at her 2) get butthurt and use all your logic to defend yourself and explain why you do what you do 3) It doesnt affect you the least, you smirk and tease her If you let what other people say about you affect you means you are a faggot. Just give less fucks. Now, her cunty entitlement almost getting your dog killed has to be adressed. Put your big boy pants on and do somet…	/r/askMRP	08/09/18 02:08 AM
5	running in circles, need help nailing down a mission Structure you life so you can always have choices. Abundance mentality is not only for women. If you cant leave your job, you are screwed. Just like if you cant leave your relationship, you are screwed. The more commitment you put into a relationship the harder it is to leave (co-lease, cohabitation, joint account, kids, marriage, etc). If you have lots of bills to pay, mortgage, kids school, whatever, makes it harder to leave your job. If you had your shit together, you could have emmergenc…	/r/askMRP	04/09/18 07:59 PM
1	How do I hand situations where my wife wants to sit down and “talk about our problems”? Reward her with your time, attention and affection when shes acting good. Remove those when shes acting shitty. Reward good behaviour, punish bad behaviour. Add MMSLP to your reading If you havent yet.	/r/askMRP	03/09/18 11:32 PM
3	How do I hand situations where my wife wants to sit down and “talk about our problems”? WISNIFG read it, then read it again. “The way I treat her” “I just want to be loved” This is manipulation 101. See how its not a "concrete" case? Its not something like "I didnt like when you said im a cunt" "I hated when you farted in front of me". Its something you just "cant win", its just a power play, her spewing feelz and drama, her wanting to draw you to her frame and you to cater to her demands, whatever they are. And if you do fold, she loses respect and attraction to you. So, i…	/r/askMRP	03/09/18 11:11 PM
7	LTR/Fiancee job relocating, how to deal? > I'm not moving, this is not an option, Your answer is in your post. What else you need? Explain and justify your decision to her, to the others, to the internet guys? How about you do what you want to do?	/r/askMRP	30/08/18 06:03 PM
2	Need advice: handling a procrastinating wife you put her on a pedestal (you think she is such a special snowflake who would never do xxxx like the others) you signed a contract that says she is allowed to have 50% of your shit plus alimony if you decide she isnt worth her weight anymore Thats why she does what she does. You can be an awesome man who she is willing to follow. Maybe you´ll get to the point where you are awesome and she still wont follow you. But thats not your case, you got a LONG road ahead. So start putting in the work. Al…	/r/askMRP	29/08/18 10:00 PM
2	Natural Alpha Traits - Sources havent you tried stuff like HCG or clomid? If the problem isnt directly in your balls (primary hypogonadism) it could work.	/r/askMRP	27/08/18 11:20 PM
4	5 year LTR gave number to a guy LDR is invisible relationship, where you only get the downsides of a LTR (drama, problems, your and her hamster running, getting cucked) and no benefits (no sex, if you fuck other women its cheating and drama) > Do you guys think I should dump her? Yep. > I honestly think that it would be better if she fucked some guy You dont need an "excuse" to dump her. Bitches need to blame their shit on other people and make their decisions based on what other people think of them. Men make decision…	/r/askMRP	27/08/18 06:53 PM
1	I have no idea how to handle shark week, every month it gets more insane 1) give less fucks 2) get out of her frame 3) dont let her nonsense affect you 4) stop being a bitch	/r/askMRP	23/08/18 11:47 PM
10	Cucquean ex? Bad idea Remember, she can easily get sex anywhere, anytime. She wants to be gangbanged by two guys tonight? Easy. All it takes is her to be willing to spread her legs. Whats hard to get is commitment from a high SMV man. So, she has some other motivation for this. Very likely she wants to "win you back", she wants your commitment back now she sees your SMV is increasing. Or she just wants things to use against you on divorce, claim you raped her, hit her, etc. There is no good outcome for you f…	/r/askMRP	21/08/18 03:20 PM
1	Shitttests Give less fucks Stop trying to change other people. Let other people make their choices, you make yours. Dont let other people BS affect you. Do NOT enter other peoples frame, by letting yourself be affected by what they say, DEERing, arguing, etc. YOUR FRAME, always. Tease the other person, A&A, or just go "cool" , grin and do whatever you want to do. Its as easy as that. "I know you have no faults" "Thanks" (big grin) "No one has ever died from smoking pot" "Cool" > one of my hobbies is debati…	/r/askMRP	20/08/18 05:26 PM
2	Rationalizing Her Bad Behaviour? Accepting it? > I usually tell her, that I'll always watching her actions instead, so I it appreciate wheenver she opens her vagina for me You dont really tell her that, do you? If you do you should check your austim spectrum with a doctor. > Anytime she spends time with her, she's excluding me from the "group". Mommy doesnt let you play with her friends? Dont you have some more interesting things to do? Lift, grab a drink with your friends, go work on your outside hobbies, work on your projects? > Could bad …	/r/askMRP	30/07/18 09:30 PM
3	Another kill the puppy scenario > I acted completely indifferent to her saying the second week in a row about wanting to leave. The only answer for "I want to leave" is "You know where the door is". > Basically what I have learned is that she is so hurt from my verbal abuse that she has built a wall and even if there are changes, it’s just a matter of time until I change back No. Shes just not attracted to you. > She asked me to move into the room where my furniture is but I think I will continue sleeping in the same bed as be…	/r/askMRP	28/07/18 08:50 PM
4	Requesting advice on navigating main event with LTR. I'm hoping she will give it one more chance. Yep. Definetively the prize. No way a man who is 7 years "red pill aware" would write like a woman, DEER and get butthurt over the replys you get here. More likely a troll.	/r/askMRP	23/07/18 08:43 PM
1	Infidelity question. Then thats It. "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her exes" and dont sweat about It, Go Focus on what you should be doing. If she does It again you handle her the papers.	/r/askMRP	20/07/18 08:48 PM
1	Question about control in the relationship When you are deeper on your journey her shit tests will simply amuse you. Her shit only affects you if you let it. Learn to have fun with them.	/r/askMRP	18/07/18 08:09 PM
2	Is it recommended to call out the wife when she holds long term grudges? This is the disgust of when someone who she is not attracted to / a "creep" makes a move on her. Ever seen on public places when some guy makes a move on a woman and she makes an "ewwwwwwwwwwwww" disgusted face? As men we dont really understand that, since we would stick our dick in about anything warm provided we are horny enough, but women dont operate like that. Its her bodys way of saying "I dont want this loser genes inside of me and having a baby with shitty genes". Of course she doesnt th…	/r/askMRP	16/07/18 07:32 PM
11	The tears flowed last night You again? All the advice you needed you got on the previous threads. If you are not following it just marry her and enjoy your shitty marriage and dead bedroom. Also seems like you are autistic, you ever had a doctor check that for you?	/r/askMRP	16/07/18 03:53 AM
3	Setting boundaries or just butthurt? Dude, shes your EX and you are still acting like a needy bitch. You got no abundance mentality and no self respect. Work on that. Heres what you do: Text her "Things clearly arent working out between us. I wish you the best of luck, goodbye." and block her from facebook and all social media. Dont answer to texts or calls. Stop being her time whore. But I have to learn somehow and my fear is that I will fuck up the next relationship if I don’t learn on this one. You are not ready for a relationsh…	/r/askMRP	16/07/18 03:20 AM
4	LTR 7.5 years left for a week/ You have changed. My ex-LTR cheating on me and leaving was the best thing that could have ever happened 3 years ago. Its what made me find TRP. If she didnt, I would be the same depressed skinny fat sack of shit I was, probably married to her, a feminist 6 years older than me lol. What a good beta boy I was. As for OP: no kids, not married, shes not attracted to you, maybe never was. Let her go and find her beta and you move on with your life. Now its time to figure out what YOU want out of your life. Have some f…	/r/askMRP	16/07/18 02:42 AM
14	Boundaries. Rambo. Comfort. DNGAF Every woman I have ever met, even ones who married complete losers, were super excited about their magical weddings. Yours wont even give a shit about FLOWERS, wont go to counseling, wont stuff envelopes. She clearly gives zero fucks about this wedding and has no respect for you. As a man, your commitment is the biggest gift you can give to a woman. Your time, attention, affection, being the oak, solving her shit, providing, fixing family problems and so on. You should be giving this as a REWARD…	/r/askMRP	12/07/18 09:30 PM
6	Is it possible to find a virgin for LTR in the modern age? Church is full of born again virgins. They were full blown sluts, "converted" to whatever religion, and now that they regret it, all those guys dont count. Religious girls are also know for taking it up their asses so they will remain "virgins". There is a famous "celebrity" in my country who admitted to having had sex with more than 2000 men as a luxury escort. Made millions, spent all on parties, drugs and whatsoever. She almost died some time ago because some shit she put on her butt to make …	/r/askTRP	10/07/18 09:22 PM
3	LTR of 8 years shows no interest in sex whatsoever Married Man Sex Life Primer No More Mr. Nice Guy pretty sure you havent read	/r/askMRP	10/07/18 09:00 PM
12	LTR left without notice I want to meet other women. This is your decision, own it. Let her go. The sooner the better. Dont worry, plenty of white knights out there to "save" her.	/r/askMRP	09/07/18 09:40 PM
2	LTR Said I Scare Her "You scare me, I dont know what you are capable of, you need to open up more to me" "This is just the way I am." "But blah blah blah!" "If you are unhappy with the way I am, you are free to find someone who is the way you want"	/r/askMRP	09/07/18 06:49 PM
2	How to handle this? "Dont worry you still my favorite" Always with a big grin. Her: "blahblahblabh" You: "Someone is deserving a spanking" What are you afraid off?	/r/askMRP	05/07/18 08:03 PM
2	Family and friends driving me crazy over EX. Ill be honest, I only read the first paragraph, but this is the important part. My friends, family and social circle are all up on my ass about how this girl cares about me and yadi yada Bad reply to them: Our relationship ended because blah blahb blah but its not my fault, I did everything right but blah blah blah she did this I did that blah blah drama she packed and left without saying anything blah blah Good reply: Thanks for the advice. Then you do whatever you want to do. You dont need to …	/r/askTRP	04/07/18 09:40 PM
9	The difference between being Captain Save-A-Ho and legitimately helping your partner? The thing is, if I am in LTR and one day I get fat, fall into depression, start drinking, lose my job, and so on, I want my partner to give me a lot of room to help myself and recover before dumping me. Thats a huge ass covert contract. "Ill treat her good so she has to do the same for me". "Ill earn good money, do the dishes and clean the bathroom so she will want to fuck me". Doesnt work like that. Also theres no way in the world that you could know if she would give you "room" before dumping …	/r/askTRP	04/07/18 12:31 PM
8	Had a Tinder date and now I realize what I'm missing in my life https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2x07ox/beware_the_sunk_cost_fallacy/ You do realize that she did all sorts of stuff with the guy she cheated on you with right? At least the one you know about. Not married, no kids, she cheated, you cheated, she is not attracted to you. What else you need to walk? Also, you want kids and she doesnt, so you two are not compatible for LTR/marriage.	/r/askMRP	03/07/18 03:48 PM
4	My wife doesn’t want us to be together anymore after we’ve just had our first baby. Then we got pregnant. God, cut the BP shit. Do you have a vagina? Some women get fucked up in the head after delivery. What you do? You do you. Follow your MAP. Do what you should be doing. Be the Oak. Dont let her break your frame. My only fear was that I did not do that early enough and it’s too late for me to prove anything else. More BP crap. Why do you think you need to prove shit to other people? Why are you afraid of that? Remember, YOUR frame. I’m not entirely sure what she wants You are…	/r/askMRP	30/06/18 01:22 PM
6	Main event or just the end? Yep. You didnt post your height, weight, PRs, so you are most likely fat. Or skinny. Should I just kill the puppy now and move on, or is there any hope that she will come around finally, and if that is the case , what would your advice be? No kids? Bye bye. You were her BB from the beginning, she was just never attracted to you. You are the safe realiable nice guy she settles down after her party years with bad boys. Just dont forget if you keep being the same, the same thing will happen with th…	/r/askMRP	29/06/18 03:15 PM
2	Wife crossed financial boundary, how to respond? If I had a wife who was a SAHM she would have a monthly allowance to spend on whatever she wants. There would be a separate budget for food, supplies, bills and stuff, but this money she would spend as she wills. If that was the case and I addressed beforehand that any home spending over $500 would have to be addressed and she did what yours did, I would simply inform her "cool, but this is coming out of your money". Also, own your shit. Having your teeth whitened or whatever is no excuse to hav…	/r/askMRP	28/06/18 12:52 AM
3	Wife likes the idea of me but hates me in practice. Read this OP Also, do NOT knock her up until you figure out how to unfuck yourself and your life. Your post has lots of beginner mistakes which means you havent read the sidebar. You can still get away from this pretty cheaply if needed, unless you agree with her "angel of the house" shit (LOL) and you will owe her some huge alimony. and she does not want kids Do YOU want kids or not? Or let me guess, you dont know? You do realize that marriage is completely rigged against men? You do realize th…	/r/askMRP	25/06/18 02:09 AM
2	The nature of women... Good post overall, but screw this: patiently await her response No thanks. She controls HER intimacy with me, but she isnt the only woman that exists. As men we need to strive to be the men that women need to have great sex with. Eh, seems like you are too much into women´s frame. So your purpose is to be the men that women need? Nah. Dont forget that as a man your mission should be your priority. Your mission drives you, everything else comes after. When you are the prize, its women who make an…	/r/askMRP	21/06/18 09:36 PM
3	FR: Came in her mouth, she wasn't happy I was doing you a favor You are her beta bucks, the guy who she decided to settle down with, but most likely you are already aware of that. Words that come out from your mouth wont change that. Dont bring this up again. If she does, tease her, A&A, just dont DEER. Keep working on yourself. Raising on your SMV. Figure out what you want and where you want to be. Draw your MAP and start working on it. Figure out what you expect from your wife. Is having a wife that wont let you finish into her mout…	/r/askMRP	21/06/18 09:23 PM
2	JV at the Varsity Tryout Was my comfort assumption correct? If you are a beginner and have been a spineless beta for years on, you can assume everything as shit tests. Comfort from a weak fatass beta means shit to her. Theres a post about that somewhere, cant find it right now but use the search. And judging from the quantity of "yous" she throws in, yeah, shit test. Whatever you did is better than DEERing. Just remember this is a marathon. She´ll want to fuck you when she wants to fuck you, words that come out from you…	/r/askMRP	20/06/18 02:11 PM
1	Questions about BF, Lifting, and Testosterone levels Your test is on the lowish side. You should also check estrogen and thyroid hormones. Work on raising it. You could try naturally first. Stop eating processed crap, eat just real food. Do everything that is said here for at least 3-6 months and re-test: https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/ Or you can go the TRT route, but you need to research a lot about it and get a GOOD doctor, or he can screw you up for life. https://www.amazon.com/Testosterone-Guide…	/r/askMRP	15/06/18 07:58 PM
1	Is this DEERing? And if so why is this bad? Read this: https://www.google.com.br/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/ Read WISNIFG and NMMNG. Then read this whole topic again.	/r/askMRP	14/06/18 12:44 PM
1	My wife just gave birth about a month ago, she’s shir testing me like never before faggot oh her father "erupted" on you? Too bad, nothing you can do eh? Bad things just happen to you and nothing is your fault, poor you!	/r/askMRP	11/06/18 09:04 PM
7	Is the reason for shit tests to change us men? Shit test, aka fitness tests, are mainly tests to check If you are good enough for her / test your frame. Change is good if It comes from you because you decided you need to change, and then you put in the work required for the change. If you let other people change you, especially If you let your wife walk all over you and manipulate you, means you are weak, and women resent weak men. A weak man is a loser. Worry about absorbing the sidebar, working on yourself, building your own frame.	/r/askMRP	09/06/18 05:51 PM
2	I feel like I’m fucking this up "All i want is my beta husband who will catters to all my demands, do everything I want, treat me like a queen, give me foot massages. And when hes the spineless weakling he allowed me to turn himself into ill fuck Chad and divorce his ass". Do the stuff you want to do and that need to be done. A&A her shit. Dont DEER for fucks sake. Draw you MAP and start following it. Indepedent if she "agrees" with it or not. Live your life like you were single. What would you do? in my defense she’s home a l…	/r/askMRP	07/06/18 02:32 PM
11	What’s RP take on no fap? At the end of my last LTR, about 4 years ago (which brought me to RP) I started having ED. I was 30, healthy, lifted, low bf, ate well. I could have sex once in a while, but with half-limp dick and zero desire. I couldnt even masturbate anymore, it took forever to get it to half-erect and would get limp real quick. I used to fap to porn almost daily during that LTR, but it was a “gonna shower, why not fap first” thing, and not out of hornyness. Since I was 14 I would fap to porn almost daily. So…	/r/askMRP	06/06/18 09:15 PM
1	Gaming while trying to stfu... Think of STFU as not DEERing.	/r/askMRP	28/05/18 06:45 PM
4	Today I have been discriminated against I dont care if you are a millionaire executive or whatever. Abundance mentality is key to everything in life. Build your life so that other people´s shit will affect you the least possible. If you have a job you cant quit/get fired, no other sources of revenues, no savings, not investing in your career etc, no secondary income, you are screwed. They fired you, the reason doesnt matter. Who´s behind it doesnt matter. Gender equality is unfair or whatever, doesnt matter. Just like when a woman bre…	/r/askMRP	25/05/18 05:55 PM
5	Not sure how to handle vacation situation Did you even read WISNIFG? I guess not. First, you decide for your own reasons, if you are OK with having a girlfriend that goes to a dating trip on Europe or whatever it its (I wouldnt, most men here also wouldnt, but you are free to make your choices). You either are OK with it or you arent. You dont need to explain or justify that to her or anyone. If you are not, you say something along the lines of "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who goes on a dating trip to Europe withou…	/r/askMRP	25/05/18 12:21 AM
4	The only way to avoid being cheated on, her branch swinging is higher SMV than her? Theres no guarantee. There are rich women married to rich studs who thousands of other woman desire and they fuck the pool boy or her personal trainer. Whores gonna whore. What you can do if you want a LTR is vet very well, check to see if she is willing to be submissive, good relationship with father, not feminist, low n-count (good luck with that) and other green/red flags. And even then theres no guarantee, even if your SMV is way higher than hers. Or you could just not commit.	/r/askTRP	21/05/18 09:56 PM
1	Ex wife moved back in town from 2000 miles away, came to our sons bday party I threw, she tried kino on me This kind of post makes me see how much even redpilled men are still trapped into the feminine imperative. Sit back for a second and exchange WOMAN for MAN in your post. Imagine that for whatever reason, a male friend you trusted deeply fucked you over, used the flawed legal system to take almost everything you got and legally took your child 2000 miles away for 5 years. And theres a good chance he can use the legal system to fuck you over again. And now he wants to come back and be on "good ter…	/r/askMRP	21/05/18 09:47 PM
2	Ex-LTR Pissed That I Left Dinner 'Abruptly' - Help Me Understand over time she turned me into total beta bucks People only do shit to you if you allow them. Dont be a bitch. H: "Think it's really apparent how rude you were immediately after I said I didn't want to kiss you." Y: "Im a rude man" Dont engage via text. Give less fucks. Tease her if anything. You reply seriously to her shit, you lose.	/r/askTRP	02/05/18 09:52 PM
1	dealing with severe pms https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/	/r/askMRP	02/05/18 09:41 PM
1	Fuck it or fix it... it means they will do what women do. They are all hypergamous, some are more, some are less, some are just entitled cunts who think they deserve the world because vagina (those are the ones you stay the fuck away). doesnt mean that they are all shrews or whores, but if you are a beta bitch weakling its 100% guaranteed that she will turn into a shrew and will likely search for better cock, some (the less promiscous) will leave you first, some will test waters (fuck chad) and branch swing if they …	/r/askMRP	30/04/18 04:34 PM
2	Fuck it or fix it... Right before the wedding I caught her texting a dude inappropriate shit. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand you still married her. Guess who´s fault is that. AWALT doenst mean all women are entitled whores. Be a man worth a shit and always on top of your game and dont commit to a whore. You need to vet VERY well and even then theres no guarantee, but in this case your vetting sucked. No kids? Start over. Whatever you do dont knock her up until you figure your shit out.	/r/askMRP	30/04/18 12:14 PM
3	Did i go Rambo? Good lord. Just get a gym membership or buy the fucking equipment. You dont need to babble about how you are the judge of your actions or whatever. You dont need her permission. Stop acting like her kid. "I just got a gym membership" or "I bought the gym equipment, it arrives next week". Done. Not so hard.	/r/askMRP	26/04/18 06:10 PM
1	I've lost all interest in women. Read the MAP book from athol Kay and way of the superior man. You need to draw your MAP, set objectives, goals, define your mission. Women will come and go, and If they arent supporting your mission/adding value to your life, she should be gone. You used to make women your mission and that sucks, since you cant control what other people do. Its a mentality change and It may take a while to fully settle in your mind.	/r/askMRP	25/04/18 12:01 PM
3	Whats next ? "Why are you acting so different from before? I had you in a box, you cant just change like that! You should do therapy!" Faggot: starts sweating, gets angry and defensive: "What are you saying? I dont need therapy, im just focusing on improving myself and focusing more on me, why is everyone telling me to do therapy? You have to understand that im just trying to improve myself!" Man: totally unnafected, because he gives zero shit about what other people think he should do or not do: "Thanks for…	/r/askMRP	24/04/18 09:23 PM
1	"Convinced" into marriage at 23; now don't know what to do... (story & questions) AFAIK it should be rather easy to get an annulment on your wedding if you two havent had sex yet.	/r/askMRP	23/04/18 12:47 AM
2	I’m missing something obvious and I’m blind to it Now my problem. She requires a very blunt form of acknowledgement surrounding everything she does or says. No, your problem is that you are entirely into her frame. You are scared of her emotions and you are walking on eggshells. "Oh my GOD! What if I upset her? Shes gonna give me a hard time that night!" She is mommy and you are a scared little kid. Its a shitty dynamic for a relationship. How about you start living your life for YOURSELF. Stop worrying about what she will think if you do this …	/r/askMRP	19/04/18 11:54 AM
1	The Case of the Sticky Beta (Alpha?) hahaha similar shit happened to me with my ex fiance (which drove me to TRP) All of a sudden she entered 100% full blown bitch mode. Denying sex (never had in years). Would explode on me for anything. Suddenly I had to change, I wasnt good enough anymore. Beta bitch me started walking even more on eggshells and catering more to her demands. Drama, drama and more drama. I checked her facebook for chats, nothing really concerning, but i saw that there was always some guy on the search on top, her …	/r/askMRP	18/04/18 04:47 PM
4	I decided to soft-next this girl and I think she's calling off my bluff. Here's what she said. What should I do? the right reason to soft next a girl is when she is giving you drama. In this case seems like you are the one giving her drama, because you are heavily invested into her and have oneitis. I got slightly pissed she didn't come see me. lol.... she should be the one worried that you are going out with your friends and some bitch could "snatch" you from her, but its actually you afraid of losing her. It wont work this way, she has to think you are higher value than her. Make up your mind: do you wan…	/r/askTRP	16/04/18 11:37 AM
1	Wife is going through IVF due to my male infertility issues. Should I accept her not working? I'm not sure what to do from here. She seems perfectly happy staying at home and going to her random IVF appointments So she dreams of having a big family, of being a SAHM (you dont think shes going back to work after having a kid right?), wants her loans paid but wants to put zero effort to have that and expects all to be handled to her by mr.betabucks, until she gets bored and can get a divorce and have her cash and prizes. She also showed little hesitation to the idea of taking donor sperm, b…	/r/askMRP	11/04/18 12:05 PM
1	[FR] A new world + an actual question So have you fixed low T yet? You need T to be a functional man. Will make you want to achieve stuff, do stuff, be more confident, gain muscle/lose fat, and will make you want to go after thots, and you wont be worried about the chance of whatever happening, you are just gonna want to do it.	/r/askMRP	10/04/18 05:54 PM
1	What to do with ex's belongings? Mail to her address, or leave it at her parents/friends house. Dont talk to her about it, just do. Then its not your problem anymore.	/r/askTRP	05/04/18 02:05 PM
8	Plan to smoothly leave LTR of 4 years after she raises marriage and buying a house together. But somehow she still seems to want marriage and children with me. Of couse, you are her beta bucks. Once a month sex BEFORE marriage, guess what happens when you marry. If there was just some book on the sidebar about not feeling guilty... hum...	/r/askTRP	03/04/18 11:53 AM
3	The right way to Next and Vanish? If you go of course you escalate. If for whatever reason you get shot down you leave and ninja bomb.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 01:45 PM
3	The right way to Next and Vanish? You are overthinking, there is no possible way to know the outcome of this. If you have time to waste, then go. You are emotionally invested in a tinder slut who has a BF and you dont have abundance mentality or other options, thats the bigger issue here and thats what you need to work on.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 01:39 PM
1	Please help me with my current nexting . Do I call her out? I am really lost, she probably doesn’t know why I’m nexted her. What can I do? "You are a great person, but it turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single again. Wish you the best of luck". Do you think that a girl that does what your GF does is what a LTR worthy girl does? You either accept that she does what she does, or you dont and you walk. Dont try to change her, you cant. You can only change yourself.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 01:33 PM
2	The right way to Next and Vanish? You are her backup plan. Very likely on this "date" she will give you "hope" that something might happen someday. No, dont call her out. If you dont want to go on this "date", then just dont. "Hey, something came up, i cant make it today. Maybe some other time". Then vanish.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 01:28 PM
9	[UPDATE] Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash? The thing is: everyone is free to make their choices in life. But our choices have consequences. Women are free to choose to slut around or not, for their own reasons. You are free to accept to commit to a woman who has whored around or not, for your own reasons. Women entitlement/feminism make them belive that you are fucking obligated to accept that shes had 10 entire footballs teams inside of her, and when shes done "having fun" she will have prince charming waiting for her for her disney mar…	/r/askTRP	01/04/18 10:47 PM
1	GF texting with her ex and meeting him to give him back his stuff + a present for the good and bad memories - while I'm away? "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who is still in touch with her exes" Then its up to her. She does it, you walk.	/r/askTRP	22/03/18 09:42 PM
5	Ever try to start an online business when you're married? If you let your wife babble affect you its all your fault my man.	/r/askMRP	06/03/18 11:24 PM
2	Unspoken medium/hard no during sex, along with "you're so handsome"... This led to a discussion with my wife doing the talking. Yeah negotiate attraction. And then jump through her hoops and she will be soaking wet for you, just count on it. Dont forget to put the dishes in the dishwasher the right way. Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/80adtt/what_worked_for_me/ Game, tease, get muscles (bodyweight is not enough), rock solid frame, outcome independence. Do attractive things, stop doing unnatractive things. And stop negotiating sex/attraction. Whe…	/r/askMRP	02/03/18 06:41 PM
39	My plate told me she doesn't like sucking dick. What do Your 3 options are shit. Show lack of outcome independence and abundance mentality. "Thats fine. Karen and Lisa love doing it"	/r/askTRP	28/02/18 07:39 PM
6	A Nice Guy Lies Start giving less fucks. Its a shit test. Whatever you say is good, as long as you are not serious/affected by it. You dont need to come up with a super witty answer. Say anything with a smirk. Stop walking on eggshells. Stop being afraid of her reaction. Stop being afraid of her emotions.	/r/askMRP	28/02/18 12:09 PM
1	Girlfriend/wife hooks up with another girl... consider this cheating? Not LTR material. Not wife material. Not mother material. Great for plate. Does she have hot GFs? Seriously, dont consider girls who had trains on her and are "bisexual" for fun for a serious relationship. Unless you are fine with being a cuck.	/r/askMRP	27/02/18 12:42 PM
3	The talk is coming she left 3 days ago but she stills needs to call each evening to chit chat So what? Use those 3 days as a soft next. Dont respond. Look, you are still in her frame. You are afraid of "the talk", while you should be focused on your mission. You should have more important things to do than being worried about your LTR (who isnt even your wife) spewing her fee fees on you and possibly breaking up with you (which most likely isnt the case, she justs wants power/control over you). Your mindset should…	/r/askMRP	24/02/18 11:48 AM
3	Has anyone read Blackdragon's books? I read the "unchained alpha male something" when I found out about RP. Pretty good book overall, helped me open my eyes to lots of things. Talks about his life experiences and how he improved his overall quality of life, has a lot about abundance mentality, reducing drama, stopping being a bitch and start acting a man and so on. He does uses lots of acronyms like OLTR, MLTR or whatever which I dont remember what means. One thing I dont agree is that he considers a cohabitating open LTR a viable …	/r/askMRP	21/02/18 05:46 PM
3	General Question Regarding Theory Of Female Body Agenda & Mating Schedule women are likely to cheat during ovulation She craves alpha cock during ovulation, doesnt mean she will cheat. It can be your alpha cock. women are more drawn to beta characteristics during the latter part of her cycle Yep, doest mean she will have an emotional/physical affair with some beta. Yeah maybe she will reach out to some beta orbiter for validation/comfort, but from there to cheating is a huge step, and most likely her orbiters are low value. Seems like you are too worried about being c…	/r/askMRP	21/02/18 05:17 PM
1	Constant initiating Chad doesn't need to constantly chase the wife around Chad has his wife and plates. And doesnt have oneitis. Initiate when you feel like fucking. Remember to be kinoing/gaming/teasing her beforehand. If you get a hard no, dont get butthurt and go do something else. A good tip is to not initiate on bed time, its hard to "do something else" without being butthurt when its time to sleep.	/r/askMRP	19/02/18 02:21 AM
1	FR Advancements good lord man you are totally in her frame, no wonder she doesnt respect you. Think of all this shit that happened. Now imagine instead of your wife, it was your 5 year daughter talking. How would you respond and what would you do? Stop taking her seriously for fucks sake.	/r/askMRP	15/02/18 08:16 PM
2	Girl wants more after 3 months of no contact How do I respond to this and keep it casual? Dont overthing stuff. Keep banging her, and if/when you get the "what are we talk" you tell her "You are a great person but Im not looking for a relationship at this moment". Then she is free to accept things as they are, or you go split ways. Is there any avoiding this given the history? Seems like you are "scared" of being trapped into a LTR. You are not obligated to be in a LTR with anyone. Blah blah blah, story doesnt matter. Keep seeing her, bang…	/r/askTRP	14/02/18 12:50 AM
1	If Your Mission is a Business Mission and It Fails, What Next? I found out the company had changed You made your mission something you cant control. Shit happens, things change. Also, no abundance. Lets say you are a web designer. You also love rock climbing. You are also know a lot about health supplements and such. You build websites as a freelancer, using various websites where you can offer your services and you have a website to show your portfolio. You also have a website that explains everything about rock climbing and has a decent number of visitors…	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/02/18 11:31 PM
4	Women who branch swing Its hypergamy doing its job. Women are hypergamous and emotional beings. When she is into you, she wants your attention all the time and "loves" you, as long as she sees you as her best option/as a high quality man. Then something happens, like she meets some dude who she thinks is better than you, you start doing low value stuff, you allow yourself to be betafied, you get lazy and fat, then she no longer is attracted to you and loses respect to you and she "turns the switch off" and now you are…	/r/askTRP	11/02/18 02:27 AM
12	Secret Phone Most likely your best option is to keep your mouth shut, gather more evidence, see an attorney and make your exit plan. If you want to be 100% sure for peace of mind´s sake, you could wait for her to come home: "I saw that phone on your shoe box ringing. Unlock it and show me." If for whatever reason she doesnt let you see it on the spot (when she has no time to delete anything), time to see an attorney and plan your exit. The bad side of this approach is that you are showing her your hand and t…	/r/askMRP	07/02/18 01:17 PM
3	Her guy friend, insults... seeking advice. Your frame is shit. You need the sidebar right now. You are acting like a scared little girl. Start with NMMNG and WISNIFG. You are not even married and she already treats you like shit and has no respect for you. Nothing gets better with marriage, remember that. Things just get harder, since your power to ninja bomb out of her life gets diminished, especially after kids. About the guy friend thing and one-on-one dates with him there was a topic about this same thing here a few days ago. Long st…	/r/askMRP	06/02/18 08:47 PM
3	Advice on Bulking & diet. My bad, I read 6'1"	/r/askMRP	06/02/18 04:32 PM
2	Advice on Bulking & diet. 162 lbs at 6"11 is way too thin. You need to chug in more calories. Good way to chug in more calories is by drinking. Theres lot of weight gainer shake recipes online, aim for something like 30% protein - 50% carbs - 20% fats. Eat what you eat right now PLUS the shakes, dont replace it for meals. Two years ago my then new GF started to lift, as she wanted to be "fit and hot" like me. She was one of those skinny types. I taught her to lift and made weight gainer shakes for her. She gained 14-15lb…	/r/askMRP	06/02/18 03:22 PM
3	I just got my marriage annulled after she nuked 11yrs and 6 weeks of marriage. Lost still. Which is really shitty because we went to a couples counseling session 4 weeks after she moved out and she lied about leaving to fuck around or that "theirs was anyone else". She blamed me for everything and said that she's leaving because i don't "handle her emotions well enough". Lol what an entitled cunt. But none of that matters. Gather all evidence of her cheating, go se an attorney and make it so that there is no link between you two after everything is handled. Block her from everything a…	/r/askTRP	06/02/18 11:45 AM
19	She ended it last night. Best way to handle fallout? She would still like to be "close friends" because I am such a great guy and she enjoys my company. Yep, she wants to keep your comfort and her errand boy. You got no kids, you just go "OK", see an attorney and your relationship to her now is completely "professional". After everything from the divorce is handled, keep her completely out of your life. Then its time to draw your MAP and start pursuing your objectives and mission. What should I do? Charge her money for looking after the dog? Tell …	/r/askMRP	05/02/18 01:22 PM
13	Dinner with another man WISNIFG has the answer you are looking for. You have to think for yourself and for your own reasons: Is it OK for me to be in a relationship with someone who goes on one-on-one dates with other men? Is someone who does xxxxx worthy of my commitment? Cant I do better than someone who does xxxx while in a relationship? Would I rather be single or be in a relationship with someone who does xxxxx? If you are not OK with it, you are gonna say something along the lines of "im not going to be in a rela…	/r/askMRP	02/02/18 04:15 PM
15	So why do women shit test themselves out of a decent relationship ? The continuation is: The Wife Store Floor 1 - These women are pretty. Floor 2 - These women are pretty and have big tits. Floor 3 - Floor 3 was closed since there were zero visitors.	/r/askMRP	01/02/18 09:42 AM
7	Need Some Help Analyzing Wife's Offer For Duty Sex I'm no physical specimen but I'm decent-looking, have a solid and high-paying career, and am a good father and provider. Beta qualities wont make her want to fuck you. Then it hit me, clear as day: my wife is not attracted to me sexually. Realizing this and that going through all her hoops and giving her back rubs wont make her want to fuck you is the first step. Now you need to step out of her frame and build your own. The advice to you is pretty standard: get out of her frame and start doing w…	/r/askMRP	29/01/18 08:23 PM
2	I fucked up. Need advice on where to go from here So what you are thinking is "This could be my mission, but will other people/my wife approve it?" Who cares if it makes you more attractive or not? Still not in your frame. Your thought proccess is feminized due to blue pill conditioning, you need to work on that. Let me give you an example. You know whats powerlifting? Huge guys competing on their category for the max total of bench/squat/deadlift. On the heavyweight category or whatever the name it is called, lots of guys have a huge gut. Do y…	/r/askMRP	26/01/18 02:43 PM
9	I fucked up. Need advice on where to go from here She she she she she she she she felt "belittled, intimidated and disrespected". She finds you repulsive. I bet you are fat. I was looking at her sexually while she was talking about something I didn't really felt like listening to and she got pissed. Good lord. How deep are u into her ass? You DESIRED YOUR WIFE! BLASFEMY! MAY THE GODS HAVE MERCY UPON YOUR SOUL! My plan was to work on myself for a year How about you work on yourself until you die? And you need a LOT of work. Remember you are doin…	/r/askMRP	26/01/18 10:40 AM
6	Got 'dumped' by a plate. Thoughts? "Stop thinking about it. Next" but I'm not quite the RP wizard yet. What else can you do? Enter inside her head and command her to want to fuck you? am I right to hard next her now? No need to hard next. Shes most likely pushing for commitment. She was expecting some reply like "But I love you, be my girlfriend!" Just reply something like "Oh OK" and leave it at that. If shes interested she´ll reach back to you. If not, theres billions others out there. Plates break.	/r/askTRP	25/01/18 08:58 PM
24	Do I live in a hellhole, or are girls like this everywhere? In my country theres a ton of girls who were promiscuous sluts that join a church/religion and then all of a sudden shes a born-again-virgin in her head. Of course if she regrets it it doesnt count, the hamster does all the job. I know a handful who now have a BF/fiancee who they would only fuck after marriage, after years of being party-sluts.	/r/askTRP	24/01/18 07:54 PM
8	the elephant in the room Of course she only showed you the parts that would have no big deal. How can you be so sure she didnt fuck him? You cant. For me that would be enough to walk. hoping to catch her texting her tomorrow. You are totally into her frame. If you are gonna be like this you are beter off ending it on the spot. Dont be a bitch for fucks sake. I was scared she would see him and so I saw her the same day and asked can I see that she blocked him Man, STOP BEING AFRAID. You are a fucking MAN. Whats the worse…	/r/askMRP	24/01/18 11:15 AM
2	Talking to my wife makes me feel like I am insane Are women capable of telling the truth? Their truth is whatever they feel at a particular moment. If you let your life be guided by what women say you are screwed. Thats why its mentioned here every time... YOUR FRAME, live on your own terms, you are the oak in her shitstorm of feelz. Unshakable. Combine the hamster with the entitlement that comes from feminism and you got yourself an unbereable bitch. You screwed up by marrying a feminist. Why you let her babble affect you? Now what you have to…	/r/askMRP	23/01/18 01:05 PM
1	Finding balance between Anger and Acceptance. Lift man Lift angry https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1fve31YUX8	/r/askMRP	22/01/18 11:43 PM
1	Teach me your ways! You do what you want to do, independent of what she does/says/feels She doesnt want to fuck? Dont negotiate it. Just shrug it off and go do something else that you want to do/needs to be done/work on your projects/ on your MAP (do you know what MAP is? read the book) completely UNNAFECTED AND NOT BUTTHURT, that part is very important. You are looking for a set of magic words that will make her want to fuck you. "What if I said WANT instead of NEED?" It doesnt work like that, she will want to spr…	/r/askMRP	22/01/18 01:44 PM
6	Does MRP work if you never had it? MRP fixes the man, not the relationship. Most of the times the relationship and sex improves as a side effect of increasing your value. If you were her beta bucks from the start then most likely she never had any attraction and respect for you, and you are most likely better off finding new woman(en). You and your wife come from religious background so in my opinion is that this is fucked up from the beggining, since you both got married because its what "the others" expected you to do and it wa…	/r/askMRP	18/01/18 10:25 AM
14	"When a man (40+) hasn't been married, it's a red flag." it's absolutely infuriating People can say whatever the fuck they want. The problem is if you let it affect you, it only affects you if you allow it. but because I haven't been able to come up with a good counter. When you go deeper in your journey, you will realize you dont need a good counter. All you need is not care about what the other person is saying. Needing a counter is "this person said something so valid that I must use all my logic to refute it, so everyone can see im right and the o…	/r/askTRP	08/01/18 07:23 PM
1	Shit tests Nah. You dont / you never / you always shit tests Your responses are good. Actually the response doesnt matter, as long as you are not affected by it, dont use logic to reply it and dont buy the beta bait. If she turns out to be too much of a hassle and not adding value to your life, time to walk.	/r/askTRP	08/01/18 10:36 AM
13	is my gf a whore ? Or do I need to treat her better? Bissexual are whores. All of them. Also you dont commit to a girl who lives with another man, especially her ex. Have your fun with her, have treesomes with her, have her as a plate. Dont commit.	/r/askTRP	08/01/18 02:12 AM
1	How come even if you fit into a woman's ideals of beauty and personality, share similar background (same religion,race, etc) and the girl is open for catch, she won't necessarily be interested in you? In particular why would they prefer poor abusive partners who are flatout terrible father material? can understand liking someone who is completely incompatible personality wise but why would women chase after loser men who not only ABUSE them physically but are even terrible fathers to their OWN KIDS and RELATIVES? Its one thing to chase a fat poor bum neckbeard. tingles women cant think ahead, they live the present. The guy gives her tingles, she wants to fuck him. Hes not father material? Screw that. I cannot understand this logic. Thats your problem. You are trying to see logic where there…	/r/askTRP	04/01/18 01:14 AM
2	LTR going bad. Really need your guys advice. Heres the thing: Women love drama. Shes needs her rollercoaster of emotions. You need to be unphased by all that shit. You fell into her frame. You are acting like her girlfriend. The fact that you posted lots of irrelevant texts between you and her shows that you still dont get it. Cut the texting, cut the crap, text is for logistics, call/meet in person if its important. A man that is busy pursuing his mission and has stuff to do insnt affected by womens drama. If she turns out to be too much …	/r/askTRP	02/01/18 07:00 PM
3	Many lifters on reddit say women aren’t more attracted to them after bulking up. Is this BS? Google "mens health cover", thats the body 99.9% women have hots for. If by bulking you mean getting bloated, no definition and a belly, then no, lots of women wont like it.	/r/askTRP	02/01/18 06:34 PM
9	Trust my gut ? how could I think of abandonning my family "just for sex" Male shaming 101. Your wife is not obligated to fuck you, but you are not obligated to be in a relationship with someone who doesnt want to fuck you/is not attracted to you. Sad that so many men fall for this. I dawned on me finally a couple weeks ago that she doesn't want to change, she wants ME to change BACK to... to what exactly ?Whatever, something safer. Yep. Took you that long? So here I stand. Marriage was/is falling apart. Wife s…	/r/askMRP	02/01/18 06:05 PM
5	Feeling like lowest scum on earth. Nexting her will make me look like the biggest asshole on earth She cheated. Let her be the guy she´s fucking problem. Kill your ego man. Stop caring about what "the others" think of you. Be your only source of validation. Enjoy your freedom and new life. Now onto your MAP, dont hit the brakes.	/r/askMRP	27/12/17 03:19 PM
16	Affair with a Married girl Is this new pussy worth the risk of fucking up your family? Only you can answer that. Judging from your questions you ARE gonna screw up if you go forward with that.	/r/askTRP	26/12/17 01:54 PM
60	LTR oraganising a canoeing trip abroad. Didn't invited me. Help with frame and confront, please. K What you have to think is this: Is it OK for me to be in a relationship with someone who does xxxxx? Is someone who does xxxxx worthy of my commitment? You either are OK with it or you arent. You have to decide if you are or not for your own reasons, you dont need to convince or justify it to anyone. Confronting her about it will lead to nowhere, its only a display of weakness. If you are not OK with it, you say something along the lines of: "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone w…	/r/askTRP	26/12/17 12:46 PM
9	Does my father already knew about The Red Pill? Sorry for your loss. Its not that your father was red pill. Its just that it was common sense knowledge back then. Probably his father taught him that, back then when men were masculine and women feminine. "Dont marry a slut", "Be always improving yourself", "Women lie to manipulate/get what they want", "Dont settle for the first woman you fuck, bang a lot of them to know how they operate", "Be always ready to leave if your relationship goes to shit", "Find a young, submissive, high quality, pre…	/r/askTRP	26/12/17 10:13 AM
3	On the Unicorn Its called a unicorn because It doesnt exist. Its a woman that would never leave you, cheat on you, fuck you on demand, treat you like a king even if you turn into a complete loser, get fat, lazy, poor, sick, etc. Etc etc. Think something like Rockys wife on the movies. There are however quality women that are compatible with you that are likely to stick around and not cheat provided you are high quality enough. So instead of being worried about finding your unicorn you should be worried about w…	/r/askTRP	25/12/17 10:09 PM
21	Girlfriend texting another guy Not GF material, no matter how much you hamster.	/r/askTRP	25/12/17 09:57 PM
2	Concerned ex wife is planning on stealing my son's car. How best to prevent her from doing this You dont, you cant control what she does how should I handle it if she does Call your lawyer	/r/askMRP	21/12/17 09:37 PM
7	Having your reality smashed The reality is that most people are shit, men or women. What you do is cut shit people out of your life, keep people that add value to your life around.	/r/askMRP	20/12/17 02:37 PM
3	Overcoming Arguments No, no. You need to get to the point that you dont need to "overcome" arguments. When you are in your own frame you arent phased by anything she does/says/thinks. You laugh at her shit tests. You slap her ass after. And no, shit tests never stop, she will be always poking to see if your changes are for good (and she knows your weak spots), if you are man enough for her, or its just another thing you start and quit. If you are justifying yourself to her means that what she said is so valid and sh…	/r/askMRP	19/12/17 02:31 PM
4	Why Red Pillers can't accept that skinny guys can be successful with girls? Instead of finding excuses to not lift you could be lifting Great that you can get laid by being skinny. If you had 10-20 more pounds of muscle you would get laid more. All it takes is 4-5 hours a week for decents results and change in your physique, provided you are not fucking around.	/r/askTRP	18/12/17 05:38 PM
6	Dealing with feelings of anger and resentment? Yeah bro, its not easy. It sucks. But a man gotta do what a man gotta do. You are not obligated to endure a life of not having sex because your wife doesnt want to, dont let anyone shame you for this. Embrace the pain and use it to motivate you going forward. Instead of praying for a lesser burden, work on getting stronger shoulders.	/r/askMRP	15/12/17 10:56 AM
4	Dealing with feelings of anger and resentment? Your situation is the same as most guys here. Focus on yourself, make and follow your MAP, set your goals and pursue them, get outside hobbies, do courses that will help you professionaly, go grab a beer with your friends, all while being irrationally confident, outcome indepedent and holding your frame. Also be fun, witty, keep gaming your wife independent of the outcome. Laugh at her when she gets bitchy. Nothing she does, says, thinks, feels can shake you. Figure out what you want and set a d…	/r/askMRP	15/12/17 10:19 AM
6	Dealing with feelings of anger and resentment? why should I spend time on a woman who does not want to fuck me anyway? you shouldnt	/r/askMRP	15/12/17 09:42 AM
3	Is this her insecurity at play? She wouldnt need "closeness" or "feeling connected" to fuck dwayne johnson. Dont fall into her frame. Keep improving yourself, doing your own thing, owning your shit, increasing your SMV. Initiate when you feel like. She shuts you down because "blah blah blah", you go "Ok honey, maybe some other time" and keep working on what needs to be worked. Set your deadline for things to come around, and if she still wont have tingles for you the way you want after that, its time to walk.	/r/askMRP	12/12/17 06:36 PM
1	A year into trp hardmetalen with an ltr and I think it's crashing.. Good lord what else you need to dump her? Did you really read any of the sidebar?	/r/askTRP	11/12/17 08:10 PM
1	let the plate break or is it just a shit test Yeah shit test, she expects you to beg her to not leave. "It was good seeing you too, cya" Then she might reach out to you again, you set a date, escalate, have fun, same shit. If not, you had a good time together.	/r/askTRP	11/12/17 08:00 PM
5	Wife basically cheating, need to be smart next few months. Any advice? Need to do this right and she has to feel all of it. No, no. This is you being in her frame. What she does, feels, thinks, doesnt matter anymore. What matters is what you want to do, what are your goals and what are you going to to do reach them. Within 4-6 months get another place and temporarily separate. Why? What you expect with that? You married a slut, this wont unslut her. She´ll ride a mile of cock during that. Or you think shes gonna be speding months crying in the corner of her room th…	/r/askMRP	11/12/17 09:30 AM
2	Almost fully recovered. Need input how to deal with the abundance of sexual opportunities while being in a (once again) very satisfying LTR Yeah equality Bro My suggestion: dont promise exclusivity. "We'll see where we stand when you get back". Then you do what you want to do while shes gone, and when she returns you decide what to do.	/r/askMRP	09/12/17 05:13 PM
2	Almost fully recovered. Need input how to deal with the abundance of sexual opportunities while being in a (once again) very satisfying LTR If you were really the shit as she says she would be DREADED of leaving you 5 months without her pussy. Watch her actions. but if one or two accidents occur So if she falls on a cock or two you are fine with it?	/r/askMRP	09/12/17 10:43 AM
6	[FR] Just Say NO better yet: "we CAN talk when I get home". Then its up to her to bring it up, dont even sweat about "the talk".	/r/askMRP	09/12/17 10:34 AM
1	How to tell a plate she has to qualify for an LTR Keep doing what you are doing. Keep seeing other women as you please. You are not exclusive until you have agreed to, if she thinks she is in a LTR with you its her problem. If/when you get the "what are we" talk, you then decide if you want to commit or not. If you dont, you say something along the lines of "You are a great person, but im not looking for a LTR at this moment. You are free to accept things the way they are or we go split ways". If she goes apeshit if she discovers you bang other…	/r/askTRP	08/12/17 03:27 PM
3	Anyone had a chance to read her diary of her time before you? Holy shit man Any red flags you noticed before marriage?	/r/askMRP	07/12/17 11:18 PM
3	Presents and Social Skills I can see, that she is expecting the same. Uh, do what you want to do. Wanna buy her gifts? Do it. Dont want to? Then dont. Or are you afraid she´s gonna get upset? I have always let the social stuff be handled by my SO's Thats bad, I can bet you operate under her frame. I was like that, I was the guy that was dragged to places by my ex and was like a boy following momma. Makes me cringe just thinking about it. Dont do that. From your opinion is it worth investing in social skills when you don't…	/r/askMRP	07/12/17 10:44 AM
5	LOVE and THE RED PILL. Is it possible? Yep you can. As long as you are always ready to walk when things go to shit and dont get blinded by oneitis. But she will never love you because of "who you are", her love is opportunistic, based on what you can offer to her at a particular moment. She does however unconditionally love her children.	/r/askTRP	06/12/17 11:36 AM
1	What's a good response to, "are you talking to any other girls?" Look around "Uh, you are the only one here"	/r/askTRP	06/12/17 11:29 AM
1	Keeping frame when wife's parents are visiting WISNIFG has the tools you need for this. Read it and implement it. I get the impression because my wife is their only daughter they still see her as a child (she's 30+) Doesnt matter. Thats their problem, not yours. Dont even try to change this. Focus on what you can change (you). It feels awkward and that's what causes my frame to drop. You feel guilty because as you said she is their only daughter and you think they are just doing it for her good, so you are fine with being stepped on for that…	/r/askMRP	04/12/17 01:58 PM
10	Hypergamy Big difference is that women are protected by law. If you are married and trade your wife for a younger one, she gets to divorce rape you. Man and women are biologically different. Hypergamy is a "feature" of women, while poligamy is a "feature" of men. The same man can impregnate hundreds of women, but for a woman to have a kid is something VERY costly. Why would a woman get impregnated by a low-mid value male when she can do it by a high value male? She wont get commitment from the high value …	/r/askTRP	01/12/17 11:56 AM
6	LTR's Girl's Night Out This is a BIG red flag. Ask her why she cheated. If she shifts the blame on HIM, "he wasnt there for me" "he didnt give me enough attention" "He always did this/never did that" you can bet your ass she will do the same to you. If she completely admits it was her fault, she was wrong and she regrets it deeply, then there might be a chance.	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 09:07 PM
2	LTR's Girl's Night Out The thing is, if your GF thinks you are THE MAN she wouldnt be wanting to go on GNOs. She should be the one wondering "what will my hot stud of a BF be doing at a saturday without me, what if that bitch from HR hits on him!" But you are the one dreaded instead. I like to think like this: if she is going to cheat she will, GNO or not. And the more she cheats, the sooner you find out and dump her ass. So disregard this, focus on being THE MAN, the man that any GF you have thinks "im so lucky to ha…	/r/askTRP	30/11/17 09:05 PM
3	FR: A main event that needed to be had. You did good for most part. But this woman seems insane and a drama queen, does she add any value to your life at all? Sex must be pornstar and she must be hot as fucks for you to put up with shit like that. Women are prone to drama, but some are a lot more stable. Im now in a 2 year LTR who has given me ZERO drama so far. Zero entitlement. Zero bitchiness. I wouldnt even think this was possible a couple years ago given my relationships experience, its amazing what happens when you live life acc…	/r/askMRP	27/11/17 01:18 PM
1	Got dumped, everybody tells me I'm in the wrong. Just let it go. The relationship is too damaged. She resents me, I resent her, game over. This The question: My friends seem to think that if I apologize and go through a process of "winning her trust back", she'll forgive me. I feel that this is groveling. Yeah, then put the ring on her finger and spend a lifetime begging for sex with a woman whos not interested in fucking you Do you want to spend a lifetime of drama, and with a woman that has "mismatched libido" (which by the way is mismatched…	/r/askMRP	26/11/17 09:01 AM
2	Is there a way to implement TRP into a relationship? Read Married Man Sex Life Primer, its a must read for any guy wanting a successful LTR, despite the name.	/r/askTRP	24/11/17 08:26 PM
1	called out gf for wrong behavior, might have lost frame? Call her out on it? No. She is your GF. What you have to do is vet her. Let her show her true self. She is what she is. She does what she does. Then, based on her actions, you decide if she is worthy of your commitment or not. You cant control her or what she does, but you can control you and your choices. Is this acceptable behaviour for you? It either is or it isnt. If its not, its time for her to take a hike and you go find yourself better woman(en).	/r/askTRP	24/11/17 08:19 PM
1	(Men are Polygamous) Women are Hypergamous, which is really a form of Monogamy? hmmm, hard to say. Monogamy is very hard when you have options, man or woman. If you are an optionless beta its easy to stay monogamous, its not like they will get offered pussy out of nowhere. If you are alpha its very hard to stay monogamous. Now women, even when not very attractive are constantly offered sex, so it takes religious/social conditioning for them not to become sluts.	/r/askMRP	24/11/17 07:30 PM
1	(Men are Polygamous) Women are Hypergamous, which is really a form of Monogamy? Monogamy is a social/religious construct. Its better for building stable families, but its not the natural state. Religion tries to enforce this by being against contraceptive methods, forcing women to remain virgin until marriage and so on. We know that this isnt the natural state. The natural state is a few men, the top, the alphas, who will have harems of women who will compete for their seed, and will look for betas for provisioning/security. Why would a woman get impregnated by a low class …	/r/askMRP	24/11/17 06:47 PM
2	Ex LTR trying to get validation? stop overthinking, treat her like one of your acquaintances "Thanks, you too" Dont talk about the past, dont get into feelz talk and you should be good.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 08:30 PM
1	1 Cycle of steroids to speed up progress? nope Brazil	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 12:56 PM
1	I [25] Started talking to a woman [32] with a kid [12] ,would like some insight But I want some insight before I even move forward. Wrap it up and dont commit to her and you should be fine. Stop overthinking shit, set a date and escalate. Its not like you are gonna marry her, and if you even consider it, you are out of your mind.	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 10:02 PM
1	LTR started following a half naked nobody on IG No, dont bring it up. Just watch what she does. She is what she is. Be non-judgemental of what she tells you, let her show her true self. Dont try to change her, you cant. Watch her and vet her and decide if she is worthy of your commitment, or not. If something is a deal breaker for you, then you address it, but not in a bitchy way. Lets say she just ran into her ex at the market, and she tells you "Hey, I just ran across Chad at the market, he wants to meet me for cofee!". A bitch move would b…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 09:55 PM
1	LTR started following a half naked nobody on IG "what's the big deal, you followed some random nobody in his underwear __ months ago" Bad. Totally in her frame and reacting to her. This is exactly what a woman would do. Instead, think of what you want to do. What do you expect of a relationship. Is she meeting your needs in a LTR? Does she respects and looks up to you? Is she worthy of being your LTR? Do you accept what she does and what she is? If not, time to walk. And yeah, your precious snowflake will find other guys attractive and will t…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 09:25 PM
2	1 Cycle of steroids to speed up progress? It was clomid (50mg)+ anastrozole (0,5mg), reducing dosage over time I felt pretty normal. But I felt awesome during the cycle. I was kinda depressed, had recently broken up with my ex who led me to TRP. I remember when the test started to kick in... Suddenly lots of energy in the morning, will to study, will to work, will to approach girls on the street, irrational confidence, and it seemed like girls were checking me out all the time. I felt totally like... Chad. Test is the shit. The pump you…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 09:09 PM
2	Mom tells brother that marriage is good, how do i convince her otherwise How do I convince her she is wrong? You dont. You just go "Yep, marriage is wonderful". And then do whatever the fuck you want with your life, dont tell me you need mommy´s approval? Shes free to have her own opinions and so are you. You dont need to convince her or anyone of anything.	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 02:46 PM
10	1 Cycle of steroids to speed up progress? Why can't I just do 1 cycle then, maintain what I've achieved through it - it's not like it's disappear over night is it? My experience: I did one "light cycle" of 400mg testosterone + 60mg oxandrolone per week, for 10 weeks. I had already been lifting for around 5 years and was 180lbs at 14-15% BF at 5"11. I went to 200lbs and gained around 15% strenght on my lifts, and today, more than one year after that, I am at 192lbs with same %BF while retaining almost 100% of the strength I gained. I do …	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 02:40 PM
3	Do I break up with her? 1) Did you "officialize" it yet? If no, just keep banging her and dont bring any exclusivity talk up. Then, if/when you get the "what are we" talk, you say something like "you are a great person but im not looking for a relationship at the moment. You are free to accept things the way they are or we split ways". 2) If you are already official, you break up with her calmly and amicably. You are informing her you are breaking up with her, something like "You are a great person but it turns out we …	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 02:20 PM
2	How am I suppose to handle a LTR with a HB-10 without going nuts? unicorn or not (she isnt) put that pussy on the pedestal like you are and you are gonna get screwed. Badly. I bet I could lock her forever if I started lifting. Lol. You should lift, but this is the wrong reason. She should be the one worried about locking you down. And no, you cant lock her down, you cant control what other people do. What you can do is make yourself worth a shit by being a high value man, and she may stick around, or not.	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 12:56 PM
2	Girl would not go out with me unless I fell into her frame? Uh, and what are "her terms"? No sex she said? The slut dating script is this: set the date, go, escalate. If you get shot down, soft next. Screw "her terms".	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 12:51 PM
1	Got my testosterone levels checked. How do I interpret these results? Its on the lowish side considering your age. Follow this: https://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/01/18/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 12:37 PM
6	Do I break up with her? she has a bit of a reputation as a slut. Keep her as plate, do NOT commit to her. Have your fun with her and enjoy your turn, nothing more than that. And YES, the past matters, you cant unslut her, dont fall for this BP bullshit.	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 12:19 PM
1	How to feel safe? I am in constant survival mode. My LTR feels the blocked energy If you got your shit together your woman will relax and feel safe. If you dont, she wont. You have to fix yourself. You should see a psychiatrist. Also, lift like your life depends on It. Also read about stoicism and stop worrying about stuff you cant control.	/r/askMRP	21/11/17 02:14 AM
2	Help me understand why my LTR wants to leave. she tells me that she loves me, that I'm "perfect," and that it's her that's "fucking everything up. Thats a bad sign, reads to me like "you are a great guy and dont deserve what im doing to you", which usually includes having sitted on another cock. You are asking the wrong question, you are asking WHY she is acting like that. The truth is it doesnt matter. It could be that theres someone else, or she is just losing attraction to you, or god came down to her on her dreams and told her to leave …	/r/askMRP	19/11/17 07:57 PM
1	The more I STFU with her the better life is with her? STFU doesnt mean you have to be mute Just dont engage when she is "triggered", responding to womanese logic, and dont DEER. Keep it light, playful, be witty, tease her, dont try to use logic to respond to shit tests, and dont enter her frame and you should be good.	/r/askMRP	18/11/17 07:31 PM
3	Girl text herself from my phone but then doesn't respond You have two options: use your telepathic powers to enter inside her head and command her to reply the text. Or you could not give a fuck and move on to other girls.	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 08:08 PM
2	FR / Small Victim Puke OK man. Your wife cleary has no respect for you. Thats a fact. You already know that no amount of talking will change that. First thing, get out of her frame. Let her sulk and never allow yourself to get dragged into her sulking. Remember, whenever she shit tests you like the air conditioner thing, you treat her like shes your 5 year daughter. What would you do if you stepped on your daughters sand castle and she got all pissy about it? You set the mood around the house. She is bitchy? Pass besi…	/r/askMRP	16/11/17 01:58 PM
8	Caught my current LTR snapchatting her beta ex, she lied about it and doesn't know I know yet, worth it to call her out? Call her out on It? No. She will see you as an insecure bitch (which you are) and your "god Alpha" status to her is gone. What you have to do is decide for your own reasons if you are OK with being in a relationship with someone who snaps/keeps in touch with her exes. You either are or you arent. If you arent, you say something along the lines of "im not going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her ex". No justifying, no explaining, no buts. You inform her, then its up …	/r/askMRP	16/11/17 01:13 AM
4	Comments on specific situation, response to semi-aggresive text message First one Dont bring this up at home, I know you´ll be dying to since you seem to be into drama, just dont. If she does, you grin and turn it into something sexual, like "someones been acting badly lately and deserves punishment" Also, get out of her frame and read the sidebar, you clearly havent	/r/askMRP	14/11/17 06:43 PM
2	Friend is making a huge mistake... Should I even say anything? Uh tell him exactly that Then its up to him to follow it or not.	/r/askMRP	14/11/17 04:36 PM
1	Post-divorce life Once I started making good money, her expectations changed. Bigger house, nicer car, vacations, purses, spending money, etc. I Have always taken pride in providing nice things for my woman, so she didnt really have to twist my arm for these things. This is where things went south... She had you in BB category from the beggining, but you only see the real version of her when she has the ring on her finger and has popped your kids. The constant is this. Women use pussy as a commodity. Married wome…	/r/askTRP	13/11/17 02:27 PM
2	Discovered cheating AFTER taking RP Shit man you sould like a woman. You are butthurt over some internet stranger´s opinion. You are explaining yourself to someone you dont even know. I can only imagine what a DEERing bitch you are in real life. Your wife fucked up your family the moment she sat on another cock. It was enterily her decision. She didnt give a fuck about her daughter security. She didnt give a fuck about you. She didnt give a fuck about her family. And now you are gonna reward her by keeping your commitment. You kee…	/r/askMRP	08/11/17 09:15 PM
-2	what is wrong with women sleeping around during their 20's. Wrong? No. Everyone is free to make their choices in life and suffer its consequences. But they are very likely to be poor choices for a LTR. Not to mention STD risk and since they are getting married older it will be harder to have kids. Also women age faster than men, so they getting married in her 30s will leave hubby with very fewer "hot wife" years. She is also more likely to cheat, since she´s used to ride a variety of cocks, will be less likely to pair bond with hubby and doesnt need emot…	/r/askTRP	07/11/17 06:01 PM
5	Suggestions on how to undermine the crab bucket You do that by being a bad-ass irrationally confident high value masculine man that wont fall for her shit tests and feminist shit thrown at you. You just laugh it off when it happens. You show her by action how a good relationship works. Then, if she values you enough and sees you are worth a shit, she follows you. If not, well, back to the hunting grounds. You dont need "direct attacks". You dont need to defend yourself. Forget about "red pill patriarchy", shit where did you come up with that?…	/r/askMRP	06/11/17 01:50 PM
5	My wife is my PA, how do I reprimand her? Or do I just fire her now? Dont work with your wife. It will fuck things up as you already noticed, and this is just the beggining. Inform her that she is a great person and wife but this working together thing is not working, and you value your relationship too much so you are gonna hire someone else. Note: you are INFORMING her of your decision, you are not discussing, you are not defending yourself, you are not explaining, you are not rationalizing, you are not involving feelz. she has to follow my lead like a normal e…	/r/askMRP	06/11/17 12:41 PM
9	LTR falling apart - she "feels trapped". Sent me email describing her feelings That same night she confessed that she had feelings of wanting to fuck other people, especially girls its over brah, unless you are fine with being a cuck. Yeah she lives with you, yeah you have her on lease or whatever, but she has to go. Its over. Dont even try to "understand" her feeeelz letter. She lost attraction to you and wants to ride the CC. Pack her stuff and show her the door. I don't enjoy partying that much and prefer to stay at home. Find a girl thats compatible with you if you wan…	/r/askTRP	01/11/17 01:17 PM
3	You are breaking up with your oneitis - would you bring up her bad behaviors? No point. She is what she is, you wont change her. Shes not LTR material. Telling a slut she is a slut wont do anything good for you. She will hamster about it, place the blame on you (how DARE you looked her facebook!), gaslight, etc etc etc.	/r/askTRP	30/10/17 04:57 PM
1	What is a good comeback to a woman brushing off this opener? Just by looking at you and how you carry yourself she knows if shes attracted to you or not. Then comes the shit testing to see what kind of man you are and if you fit on whats shes looking for (fun fuck, beta bucks, baby daddy, etc). But if shes not interested in you from the beggining nothing you say will change that, you are better off investing in other women who could be. If you need to get the last word in a conversation means you care about what that person thinks of you. You need to prov…	/r/askTRP	30/10/17 02:43 PM
2	LTR broke up with me. How to proceed? As I see, it's her decission and there is nothing I can do to change it. Yep. My guts tells me that she has an orbiter and she want to take a chance Doesnt matter or just a ride in the CC Very likely, but doesnt matter, shes not your GF anymore so you shouldnt care less if she was getting daily gangbanged by big black cock dudes. Not your problem anymore. What matters is that you dont put your time and effort with someone whos not interested you and is not worthy of your commitment (if you are l…	/r/askTRP	30/10/17 01:52 PM
2	What is a good comeback to a woman brushing off this opener? I can tell by body language whether she really doesn't read much or is just being dismissive. If shes not interested nothing you say will change that. Move on to the next. a good snarky comeback so I can at least get the last word in? that. Why do you need the "last word in", are you a woman? Why do you need her validation? Why do you care about what some stranger thinks of you? Those are all beta bitch/feminine traits, you should drop them. Tell her "Oh ok, have a nice day" and move on with you…	/r/askTRP	30/10/17 01:31 PM
21	Backsliding and Major Failure VP at this stage in her life I'm the best chance she has. Thats her problem. Dont get her pregnant if your relationship is shit. I feel stupid for considering to have children now. Permission granted to change your mind. I have an absolute no disrespect boundary and yet again, have no way of enforcing it. You can enforce it, you are just scared to do it. A boundary that you wont enforce is not a boundary. Leave.	/r/askMRP	27/10/17 05:33 PM
7	As a woman, I have a request. I am setting myself up to have a successful career and a comfortable life. opinions on what you guys think I should or shouldn't be doing Its your life, so its up to you to make your decisions based on what you want. You want to have a good career and income? Go for it. You want to be a housewife, kids and a dog? Go for it. You want to be a slut and sleep with as many men as you want? Go for it. My suggestion is, if you want to start a family someday, im assuming you are going to look for a high…	/r/askTRP	26/10/17 08:45 PM
3	LTR wants more commitment? Should I tell her "ok"? (she's the one who didn't want to in the beggining) Women change their mind all the time based on their feelz, dont even call her out on it. You want to wear it? Do it. You dont? Then dont. As long as you dont do it because she is "demanding it", you should be fine. It's this a comfort test? (I'm confused) She thinks you having the ring will make other women not want anything to do with you because you are "taken".	/r/askTRP	26/10/17 08:15 PM
9	Do not shit where you eat... If you value your job no	/r/askTRP	26/10/17 07:59 PM
1	Verbally establish boundaries when LTRing? Let her show her true self. Then you judge if shes worthy of your commitment based on her actions. Dont try to change her, she is compatible with what you are looking for in a LTR or she isnt. If really needed, no more than a "I wont be in a relationship with someone who does xxxxxx", then its up to her to do it or not. If you tell her exactly what you are looking for and shes smart enough, she can trick you and will emulate being LTR material until she has your commitment secured, and then you …	/r/askTRP	26/10/17 07:29 PM
1	Am I shooting myself in the foot here? If shes fucking you eagerly and on demand, following your lead, not being a harpy/bitch, eager to see you, pleasant to be around, means you are on the right track. Just remember that she can get lazy when she has the ring on her finger.	/r/askMRP	26/10/17 05:26 PM
3	Asking for sex in phase I Well, thats up to you. Some guys get so bothered and butthurt for being rejected that it might be better to not initiate and completely focus on other stuff. My suggestion is: if you feel like having sex and you can handle rejection like a man, you initiate (you dont "ask" for sex btw). If she shots you down, you go do something else, but you have to be completely unnafected or butthurt. Try initiating and having something scheduled right after, for example she shots you down and right after ask…	/r/askMRP	26/10/17 12:01 PM
2	Having a hard time with this reality. You mean to tell me that even women who have morals and self respect are going to cheat? No, but they all have the propensity to. You are giving cheating too much focus. Focus on what you want and what you control. "Im gonna build an awesome life for myself" "Im gonna be the best father I can to my child". Thats valid, it depends only on you. "Im gonna marry, be with her forever and she wont cheat". Oops, thats bad, since it depends on something out of your control: another person. If you are so…	/r/askMRP	24/10/17 10:06 PM
1	Managing dread on both sides Keylog her phone if you must. Install a VAC recorder on her car. Keeping mentally masturbating yourself over this wont do shit. But the bigger problem here is that you are still afraid of her emotions and you are in her frame. Be awesome, build an awesome life, be a high value masculine man. She is welcome to join you as long as she behaves, or its upgrade time.	/r/askMRP	24/10/17 02:50 PM
1	How do you handle it when a woman gives only a vague commitment to first date? She is implying that your time is less valuable than hers. She is busy, you are optionless. "Ok, let me know until tomorrow if you can make it or not" No reply tomorrow? Ghost.	/r/askTRP	24/10/17 01:43 PM
35	LTR Trickle Truthed me about cheating Once a cheater always a cheater right? Very likely. There will be some time that she will get "bored", you didnt give her enough attention, "im not haaaaaaaaaaaaaappy!", etc, and as we know, then it only takes the right Chad at the right time saying the correct words. You can do better. This is the kind of girl I refer to as "bored bitch": you have to keep her "entertained" 100% of the time, giving her highs and lows, push and pull, or she gets bored and sits on another cock. I bet she has no ho…	/r/askTRP	24/10/17 11:18 AM
6	For those of you in a relationship, what would you do/how would you react if she suddenly ended it? Why do you care about "correct" responses? Why do you care about what she thinks of you? If its over its over. Just dont be a whiny supplicating faggot and it should be good. H: "We should break up because you always blahblabblah and never blahblabhalbh" Y: "Yeah, it seems like we are not compatible. I wish you the best of luck. Heres your stuff, theres the door."	/r/askTRP	23/10/17 08:30 PM
3	How to incentivise her away from her orbiter You have to think for yourself and your own reasons: What do you want out of a relationship? What do you accept and what you dont? What are your terms for keeping your commitment to a woman? YOUR terms, not "other peoples" terms. Are you OK with your GF texting other guys and hanging out with them? You either are or you arent. Is this a deal breaker for you or not? If thats a deal breaker for you, you tell her something along the lines of "Im not going to be in a relationship who hangs out one o…	/r/askMRP	23/10/17 04:09 PM
2	Not sure weather to next or stay Like it was said, you are still too "raw" to understand lots of things. Thats why you need to spend some time reading the sidebar and internalizing it. You ARE controlling. First thing you need to understand is that you cant control anyone else, but you. You cant change anyone, you can only change yourself. Make yourself a better man and most likely the attraction and respect your GF or whatever woman feels for you will increase as well. Or maybe not, then you go find another woman (women?). Ins…	/r/askMRP	20/10/17 02:37 PM
5	She wants to have an FFM threesome, what's your move? U know that all it takes for women to have FMM FMMM FMMMMMMM is her be willing to spread her legs, right? If my GF ever brought up wanting to get fucked by another guy she would go back to plate or be gone.	/r/askTRP	19/10/17 08:19 PM
4	Update/Advice needed This. Same thing happened to me. Full beta mr nice guy, engaged to a feminist yougogirl 6 years older than me, found out she was cheating, at least even for the cringeworthy creature I was cheating was out of the line. Im glad this happened or I would most likely be the same depressed sack of shit I was living with a harpy. Shes 39 now living with like 5 cats, and the wall hit her HARD, while im on my prime.	/r/askMRP	19/10/17 10:41 AM
4	Update/Advice needed stopped partying so much to spend time at home and with me So "emotional affair" and lots of GNOs eh? would like to make it work "working on the relationship" is womanese for "cater to all my demands". Its blue pill bullshit. There is no such thing. You can only work on yourself, and the relationship may improve or not. Separate for a while is also bullshit. Shes gonna ride a mile of cocks, and when she gets gets tired of being pumped and dumped she will reach back to you to get her safe BB back…	/r/askMRP	18/10/17 01:52 PM
3	How do I approach this. You shouldnt be afraid of what she´s gonna ask. If you are afraid of "losing her" you arent ready for this. Just tell her the truth. "I need to bang other females because I cant stay monogamous" or whatever. The "why" doesnt matter.	/r/askMRP	16/10/17 07:40 PM
2	How do I approach this. I already have explained to her how men and women cheat for different reasons. Quit trying explaining shit. You dont need her approval or anything. You cant "make her understand" anything. You make your decision and inform her of it, just remember you cant know for sure shes gonna accept it. "You are a great person and our relationship is great, but I cant stay monogamous. I will bang other chicks, ill be discrete, use protection and not embarass you. Its up to you to accept that, or we´ll have …	/r/askMRP	16/10/17 06:59 PM
7	I've recently come to realize I was psychologicaly abused by my ex. You were weak and a bitch abused your weakness. Stop looking into the past, its gone. You made mistakes, and thats OK. Improve yourself, turn your weaknesses into strenght. You are only manipulated by others if you allow others to. And if someone succeeds into manipulating you, its your fault. Its all up to you. But do I confront her? No. Why do you care about what she thinks of you? You can have zero benefit from this situation.	/r/askTRP	14/10/17 02:08 AM
5	Next? Gut feeling based on interaction keep smashing her if you want, just dont consider her for a LTR and you should be fine.	/r/askTRP	14/10/17 02:03 AM
14	Massive shit test by wife last weekend Lots of red flags. Text confirmation that she cheated. She is acting like she is single and hanging out with a slut. You are completely in her frame. A woman that looks up, respects her husband and is "afraid of losing him" wouldnt dream of doing shit like that. Perhaps I’m being harsh? More like you are her bitch. everyone saw and I don’t have to put up with it so Stop caring about what "other people" think, see, do, say. Think for yourself, make your own decisions for your own reasons. This is…	/r/askMRP	03/10/17 10:08 PM
9	Should I/how can I get over my past of being a codependent loser and loving a massive slut? OK man. You were weak. You made a big mistake. Lots of big mistakes. You commited to a slut and let her treat you like trash. Yeah that sucks. Thats done, dont look back. You cant change the past but you can build yourself a better future. It only depends on you and the effort you are willing to put in. Being sorry for yourself wont do any good, and no one gives a shit about what you did and what you think. Read the sidebar and start improving yourself. Read the sidebar books and start applying …	/r/askTRP	28/09/17 09:46 PM
5	GF finally got me to crack. What would you have done? The real question you have to make is: why did you commit to a whore? She is low value. You commiting to her shows you are low value as well. Shes clearly not LTR material. Have your fun with her if you enjoy her company and sex, and thats it. Never commit to a slut.	/r/askTRP	28/09/17 09:35 PM
19	Someone in this sub said "you'll know when she wants to branch swing/wants to dump you", so my question, what are some telltale signs that she is gonna do it? Also: suddenly develop new insterests/hobbies My ex suddenly become interested in running, became a buddhist and listening to surf music. Guess who was a marathonist, buddhist and playing in a surf music band. Remember women mirror the man she is "in love" with, thats part of entering his frame	/r/askTRP	20/09/17 07:40 PM
1	AWALT but mine... I don't think she lied maliciously. Just because she was afraid. You are still rationalizing for her. You are still making excuses for her. She knew if she told you about her past early on you wouldnt marry her. Like other people said here, its not your fault the shit that happened to her. The lying was also bad on her part, period. Now, its up to you to accept this or not. You cant change her past, or the fact that she lied. You want to give this a shot? Cool, the path is the same as any guy he…	/r/askMRP	15/09/17 04:42 PM
1	Ok I know this has been asked a lot but I can't get it up I know it's nerves and probably porn induced ed, but is there I way I can just use some brain power and make this happen tonight? 20mg tadalafil/cialis If thats hard for you to get, try to get horny goat weed from some supplement store also you CANT be fixated on this. Have some relaxing tea before or use some drug to calm your nerves. If you are fixated about it, you are gonna fail. Just let things flow naturally. And of course, cut the porn.	/r/askTRP	14/09/17 08:59 PM
3	LTR has been responding to her ex's texts and she met up with him to give him some stuff of his without telling me haha sheiiiiit	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 06:21 PM
6	Girlfriend wants to stay at a guys house after a party You cant control her or what she does. You can only control you and your choices. What you have to do is think: Is it OK for me to have a GF that sleeps over at another dudes house? Is a girl that sleeps over at another dudes house while in a relationship LTR material? Is she worth my commitment or is she just plate material? Dont get mad at her, fight, argue, try to convince her of anything, control her, mate guard her. Dont try to change her. Just let her show her true self, and based on her a…	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 11:44 AM
8	Meet up with an ex? All you need to know about this is here: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/ This girl wants closure. She wants to make sure she made the right decision by dumping you. Maybe she expects you to beg to have her back. Dont give this to her. Maybe the other guy(s) she was fucking just pumped and dumped her and she wants her safe option back, until a better one comes around. Either way you gain nothing by meeting her. Also you are too young to be in a LTR. Use this time t…	/r/askTRP	12/09/17 05:28 PM
9	Found out that my "unicorn" (ltr of 5 years) is stalking a fitness trainer in her gym, she doesnt know i know, should i do anything or ignore? You are overeacting. Do not confront her about this, it will make you look like an insecure wimp and she will just deny. Your precious unicorn WILL find other guys attractive and WILL get tingles from them. Thats completely natural. And yeah, they all like shredded guys, even the ones who say they dont. Just google mens health cover, thats the kind of body 99.9% of girls get tingles for. What matters is if she takes any action about this,or makes any move on those guys, or doesnt reject them, or…	/r/askTRP	12/09/17 01:28 AM
1	Hard time breaking up with LTR Heres the thing man: She is what she is. She does what she does. She has the issues she has. You cant change her. You cant make her "see" things the way you want her to. You cant change anyone but yourself. You either accept that she is who she is or you move on. What do you have to do is think for yourself: Is she worth of my comittment? Am I getting my needs for a LTR met? Or should I dump her and go look for someone else? She said she'd be happy to go without sex and that i should expect sex …	/r/askTRP	11/09/17 09:44 PM
4	SO loves to wear revealing clothes. "thats just me and how i dress you wont change me" Shes right. You either accept that she is going to keep showing her tits around or you dump her and go find one that doesnt. Think for yourself and your own reasons: "Is it OK for me to give my commitment away to a woman that does this, or not? Is she worth it?" Also, this girl seems like plate only material. 7 months is hardly a LTR, and if shes acting like a cunt now, its very likely to get worse. Her actions should show that she is "so lucky …	/r/askMRP	11/09/17 12:26 PM
2	I'm confused af from this text. Never discuss feels over text. The correct answer to a big wall of feelz text is always something like "we can talk about this in person if you feel like" (or ignoring it if its negative/drama/shit test). Discussing every point her hamster made in feelz text is beta as fuck. Your answer was good. Dont bring any of this up when you meet her, if she feels like she can bring it up, and then you address properly. Yeah, she most likely want to be exclusive with you. But that doesnt really matter, wha…	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 02:56 PM
3	I'm imprisoned by my own ego everytime I'm around my girlfriend's family. Its because you care too much about what other people think of you. This is a nice guy trait. Nice guys want everyone to love him. After all, hes so nice! How could someone NOT like him? So he ends up being everybodys bitch, because he wouldnt want to upset anyone. Also, he makes decisions based on "what would other people think of me if I did this or that", instead of doing what he wants to do for his own reasons, and decide the course of his own life. You just have to stop caring about what ot…	/r/askTRP	04/09/17 09:37 PM
1	Girl I'm dating never says "thanks" or shows any appreciation... Why do you Care about "correcting" her? You cant change anyone except you. She is the way she is. She either meets your needs/standards for a plate/ltr/whatever or she doesnt. If she is an ungrateful entitled cunt but fucks good and on demand, she earns plate status and nothing ever more than that.	/r/askTRP	04/09/17 07:47 PM
3	Me [35M] my gf [28F]. Have I found one of the good ones to settle down with or a THOT I should just pump and dump? let 5 guys fuck her times 3 gave blowjobs to another 5 times 3 We've been dating now for about 5 months and it's incredible! honeymoon phase I think she'd be a great mom and an amazing wife. You are never gonna know her "true form" until she has the ring on her finger and popped your kid. Look, shes not a special snowflake. You are not special. You should be focusing on YOU. This post is all about her. Are you lifting? Eating healthy? Owning your shit? Have a good career, looking for better pros…	/r/askTRP	01/09/17 05:35 PM
2	Soft next works but now this... Just ignore her or reply her: "K". Dont put any more effort into her. My question is, does limiting text to just logistics hurt your chances sometimes or is this just a natural filter and her response is really just showing me that I should stay away from her anyway? If you were her Chad she would be making excuses to meet you and ride your cock. She sees you as emotional tampon material, so dating you is a chore, and you only win the "prize" of her presence if you ask how her day was, listen to…	/r/askTRP	29/08/17 10:49 PM
5	LTR girl has been lying Let me tell you something that happened to me My ex before i found about TRP was VERY emotional. She would cry/get emotional for about anything. Everytime I would like be out of a town for 2 days she would cry when I was leaving. She was clingy and all over me all the time. I always thought that if she would ever cheat on me, she would get all emotional and she wouldnt be able to hide it. Then, all of a sudden she became a total complete bitch. I snooped and found out she cheated, it was 100% ce…	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 06:57 PM
8	She is lying, however she hasn't cheated on me yet. What should I do ? K. Tell her this: "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her exes" Then its up to her to cut him out of her life or not. She doesnt, you walk.	/r/askTRP	27/08/17 02:23 AM
1	Females & Guy Friends Clearly someone not worth investing in? For a plate? Why not, as long as shes banging you. For LTR? No.	/r/askTRP	27/08/17 01:35 AM
2	Ex keep coming for the D Keep banging her if you want and if you can handle it emotionally. Just dont fall for her bullshit and NEVER consider comitting to her again. Shes a cheating whore. Shes coming back cause she likes your dick and she has hope you may LTR her again, she will try to "prove herself" harder and harder to make you commit. Too bad you wont.	/r/askTRP	25/08/17 11:38 AM
4	"What are you really looking for" shit test "A big house, a dog and five kids" Answer anything, just dont be serious about it. Its a shit test. If they dont reply, dont sweat about it, just move on. Maybe she was seeing you as BB material but you showed you arent, and she is on BB hunt mode. So you are better off looking for other girls anyway.	/r/askTRP	25/08/17 11:21 AM
9	How do you respond to height shit test in an LTR? imagine what a bitch she will be when you move in together/marry her a LTR worthy girl is sweet, kind, feminine, submissive, pleasant to be around, "lucky to have found you" and treats you like a king time for a demotion	/r/askTRP	24/08/17 11:26 PM
8	What does it mean when a woman in an LTR says she wants more "passion"? Now when she says she wants more passion? What does it mean? She is looking for a guy that gives her tingles to fuck her brains out	/r/askTRP	23/08/17 06:54 PM
7	How to make my younger brother not move in with his GF? My advice to him was to read the No More Mr.Nice Guy Book to at least open his eyes half-way and sober him up. Good. Gift him a copy. Then its up to him to read it and be interested, you cant make that for him. If he is interested, you share your ideas, and give him more RP material to read, like Rational Male and so on. Not much more you can do, sometimes a man needs to put his hand on fire to learn how bad it burns. how can i stop him from buying that ring and moving in with her You cant. That…	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 09:03 PM
2	FWB says she wants to be just friends "Ok sure" Then completely ghost her. When she contacts, you are "just busy", "have a date tonight", etc.	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 08:50 PM
1	Why are girls immediately nicer/more receptive/seem more interested once they realize you have a girlfriend? As a man, you see a hottie, she is young/pretty/hot, thats all it takes for you to want to bang her. You dont care if she is rich or poor, if she has a degree or not, if she has lots of friends or not, if shes famous or not, if she has a good career or not, if he has good social skills, if she is captain of whatever sports team, none of that matters. She is hot, you want to bang her. For women its different. All of that stuff matters. And the quickest way to "determine" that is social proof/pre-…	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 04:05 PM
6	A girl I regularly have sex with says she can't give fellatio because she was molested as a child. What do I do? Have other girls for fellatio Dont commit to her unless you are willing to have to cheat to have your dick sucked, which sucks. No pun intended. Also, dont play captain save a hoe. If shes fucked in the head, she should seek therapy and fix herself. You cant fix her. Go after healthy girls.	/r/askTRP	22/08/17 12:48 AM
5	LTR raising her SMV Now, im on a frame in wich I think all this sudden changes are mostly because she want to impress another dude rather than me. Watch her actions. Is sex going down? Is she disrespecting you? Protective of her phone? Saying she needs space? Saying how "controlling" you are? Wanting to on GNOs? Is this a thing I should be worried about? Being worried wont do anything for you. If she wants to cheat/leave, she will. Just keep watching her actions. Keep doing the stuff that you should be doing, havin…	/r/askTRP	21/08/17 05:44 PM
1	Am I supposed to tell my "GF" she's been downgraded to plate status? This whole time Im thinking we just have a casual situation going K. If you never verbally agreed to be in a exclusive relationship with her, you are not. If she thinks she is, well, thats her problem. Its up to her to bring up the "what are we" talk or not. You keep doing what you are doing. If she brings this up again, you tell her something along the lines of "You are a great person but im not looking for a commited relationship at this moment. I want to remain single for now. But i´ll unders…	/r/askTRP	21/08/17 02:27 PM
2	Girlfriend showed up in the middle of the night crying. I told her to leave. I feel terrible. What can I do ? Hummm if there was just some book teaching how to not feel guilty there on the sidebar... You did the right thing my man. She is not worthy of being your LTR. Dont second guess yourself.	/r/askTRP	21/08/17 11:38 AM
5	I say hi to a new girl at work and she instantly tries to beta zone me, WTF? "wow really? so now just saying hi means I'm your servant?" You were butthurt. Bad. Could have just denied her request. Is it that easy for an HB6 to recruit new white knights Yeah, easy as taking a crap. Thirsty white knights are everywhere.	/r/askTRP	18/08/17 02:37 PM
2	Convo with dad, then convo with wife telling him what a loser I've been my whole life and how I'm going to change things before I rob myself of a wife and him of his grandkids. No, dont do that. You ACT instead. Keep acting and becoming a better man. Let your actions speak for yourself. I do want to have a healthy, sexual conversation with my wife. Dont do that. Whats the point? As you pointed yourself, she doesnt know the "why". She doesnt really know what she wants. She only knows the way the FEELS. You act, she will react by FEE…	/r/askMRP	17/08/17 05:23 PM
1	Silent Treatment, Don't Touch Me, and Expressing Her "Feelings" - What to do? Read this: https://illimitablemen.com/2015/09/04/a-most-solipsistic-nature/ She will NEVER admit her own fuckups. Its just the way woman are. Your problem is that you are a whiny weakling who cares too much about shit she says and keeps mental masturbating yourself about it, when you should be owning your shit instead. You are trying to apply logic where there isnt. FEELZ prevail above logic in their head. You cant change that. Now, what you do when she is acting like a cunt? You punish her. Wha…	/r/askMRP	17/08/17 02:38 AM
2	Getting wife to eat healthier as well? She keeps giving me bullshit arguments on why she believes that she is doing OK, such as: She is right, she is not obligated to do shit. She can eat healthy and exercise, if shes willing to. Or she can give excuses if she doesnt. You cant make her do it. Also, you are not obligated to remain married to a fat lazy slob. Its up to you to accept that or not. so having more SMV doesn't motivate her. If she knows you arent going anywhere she wont be motivated. She has the ring on her finger, she has …	/r/askMRP	15/08/17 02:52 PM
5	LTR pressuring for marriage I know every relationship goes down that road. Look, you already got great advice here, you should start following it, read the sidebar, read the posts here, and read /r/deadbedrooms. This alone says you are not ready and you havent read the sidebar. You are NOT ready for marriage, and you will have a shitty marriage if you do it with your current mindset. If you really want to marry her, after you weighted all the pros and cons, have your shit together, it should be because its what YOU want to…	/r/askMRP	15/08/17 12:00 PM
1	Wife told me to stop flirting with other women in front of her Am I supposed to be flirting in front of her. Do you want to flirt in front of her? Do it. You dont want to? Dont. Of course she is going to SAY she doesnt like it. But you can bet your ass she FEELS more attracted to you when you flirt covertly and you woman sense the other girl is into you and has "fuck me" eyes. Yeah she will get mad, but also more attracted. As long as you arent doing it autisticaly and being completely overt about it, flirt if you want. When she tells me to stop flirting in…	/r/askMRP	13/08/17 09:29 PM
8	Ghosting ex LTR; Success & Horror Stories? You went after her again and she got the thrill of you validating her and she playing with you like her toy. Then you called her a psychopath, showing that she still gets into your nerves and that you still care. She wins.	/r/askTRP	13/08/17 03:24 AM
2	Wife thinks something is up H: "Why are you acting weird?" Y: "I´ve been kinda weird lately havent I?" H: "Well you´re acting weird." Y: "Guess you are right, I´ve been acting kinda weird." H: "Is it because you are having an affair?" Y: "Hahah, no im not. Aww is my little princess worried?" Then resume your normal activities / working on your MAP. Anything but taking her seriously or DEERing.	/r/askMRP	13/08/17 12:33 AM
5	Wife thinks something is up Read WISNIFG to learn how to deal with those. Let her think/feel whatever she wants, you arent responsible for that. Keep following your MAP, and fog/Agree and Amplify/pressure flip when you get those kinds of questions. Most likely you dont know what those mean, so read the book.	/r/askMRP	12/08/17 07:59 PM
15	Women don't hit on men, they "put themselves in his vicinity"? Women make themselves available. Also this way she knows she wont get rejected, its her that can reject or not the advances of men. Men go after what they want. They put themselves at risk. They put the effort to get what they want. If he gets rejected, he goes for the next. A man that is weak, unconfident, not willing to take risks, wont do it. He will hamster reasons not to. Thus, he acts like a woman. A feminized man. A beta.	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 03:42 PM
1	Clever/Cocky/Confident responses to a woman assuming you're going to try to have sex "why are you always thinking about having sex with me?" "Not only with you!" "I think about those great burguers you make as well." "don't try to be smooth" "Im just a smoooth criminal!" "Oh so you just think im that easy?" "So you were just thinking of using me for sex?" You need to have the mentality of outcome independence. Abundance mentality. Literally give zero fucks about what she said. If it works out with her, great! You bang her. If it doesnt, cool! Theres thousand more out there. You …	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 02:25 PM
3	What is the black pill? Losers pill Putting effort is hard, so just whine and do nothing. Thats black pill.	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 02:17 PM
3	LTR Monogamie? Its OK to have an open relationship as long as you have zero strings attached to the woman. No living together, no shared lease, no shared bank account, no kids, no marriage, no nothing. You should be free to walk at anytime. Thats called plating. An open marriage ts a great deal for the woman, bad deal for the man. The man will have to endure all the downsides of marriage, like having to deal with her drama, family problems, provide to her, support her, give her time/attention/affection, deal w…	/r/askTRP	10/08/17 05:25 PM
2	FR - Rambo at DL3? Oops... can I recover? You married a slut. You cant unslut her. Shes not wife material. Shes not gonna be a good mother. No amount of dread, manning up, owning your shit will fix that. Do what you want with that piece of information. Seriously, you dont have kids right? If you have any self respect left, walk away from this shitshow.	/r/askMRP	10/08/17 03:30 AM
2	Would you rather settle for anal sex with a plate who wants to "remain virgin", or next her because you are not getting the whole package? Anal plate only? Seems fucking great! As long as you have other plates of course. This is why I laugh at guys wanting virgins to marry. Her ass has been used as a cum dumpster dozens of times and the poor fella will never know. Nah, he will, when she suddenly feels guilty and confesses (not before she has the ring on her finger and popped a kid or two of course)	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 10:10 PM
6	GF writing about her BFF's brother Its like half ot the posts here are about LDRs. Fuckers wont even read half a page of the sidebar LDRS DONT FUCKING WORK ITS A IMAGINARY RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU GET ALL THE DRAMA AND ZERO SEX AND GET CUCKED	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 10:05 PM
6	Reject to get in friendzone, look what happened next If you bought the tickets before making out/banging her its all your fault. I really dont get to underlining female motive to act like this. She wants an orbiter for attention/validation/pay her shit, maybe a backup plan. Maybe shes just crazy. Doesnt matter. Me rejecting to get in friendzone makes her mad ? So what, why do you care? Maybe shes crazy, maybe shes an entitled cunt, maybe she feels whatever, it doesnt matter. You already estabilished you wont be in the friendzone. So dont. Her "mot…	/r/askTRP	09/08/17 03:12 PM
1	Friends too worried if I am banging or looking for a LTR. Does it happen with you? Uh, why do you care? You dont need to explain yourself, justify yourself or convince anyone of your decisions. Do what you want to do. "Im not looking for a relationship ATM". "My dick is sore of so much pussy". "Actually I decided to turn into a leasbian". Done.	/r/askTRP	08/08/17 10:02 PM
7	Got caught going Through FWB phone If she knows she is a side chick its enough to know that she is not LTR material. Quality women are not side hoes. You seem to like drama, going through the phone of a side chick... And all the drama that will happen when your GF finds out. And her n count is a lot higher. You got a lot of work to do on yourself. Seems like you are following the "needy alpha" path. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/07/26/the-three-types-of-men/	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 08:35 PM
1	I have a question about really attractive single moms on tinder.. Oh yes, its possible. Keep dating and banging her, and when you get the "what are we" talk you tell her she is a great person but you are not looking for an exclusive relationship at the moment, and be ready to hold your frame. But its very possible that she will be gone at this point If she had you in baby daddy category. I am on IT as well and i used to be the typical skinny fat dorky dressing shy nerd. Make sure you dont do that. Lift. Be outcome independent and have irrational confidence. Le…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 12:45 AM
2	I have a question about really attractive single moms on tinder.. I am only 24 but I never get matched with women of the same attractive order who don't have kids. Thoughts? Thats whats online dating is like. Girls SMV are inflated, since getting dick is really easy. They have tons of dick offers daily, then they can choose the better one. Whats HARD for them to get is commitment from a high value man. If you are just looking to get your dick wet, then go ahead. Just make sure to always wrap it up and never commit to any single moms and you should be fine. And…	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 12:29 AM
2	Girls I date never accept responsibility when I call them out on being late/flaky Why are you calling them out on whatever? She is late/flakes, you give her a low priority or just next her. No need to be butthurt. Stop trying to change other people. You dont need to "correct" anyone. They are what they are. Most people nowadays are shitty anyways, women or men. You act accordingly.	/r/askTRP	07/08/17 12:23 AM
-1	Questions on dating You game ones that are in your city. Not worth the hassle, you are gonna turn into their gfs/emotional tampon via text Good books or podcasts on dating-game? book of pook, Day Bang: How To Casually Pick Up Girls During The Day. Just start aproaching with outcome independence and irrational confidence, be cocky and fun, give zero fucks about the outcome. I want these girls pursuing me, instead of me asking them if they want to go out. Eh, it may be possible if your SMV is way higher than the girl…	/r/askMRP	06/08/17 04:29 AM
1	Any Redpillers with LTRs that has one or more big tattoos on them? Is it a red flag? Yes. But if this is the ONLY red flag, then it should be manageable. As long as its not something whorish like a pepper near her pussy, tribal above her butt (tramp stamp) and so on. But if she has any tatoo like that she most likely will have tons of other red flags.	/r/askTRP	05/08/17 02:45 PM
4	The dating site avalanche effect. What if married women start finding out about this? Women know they can get dick whenever they want. Dick is cheap, dirty cheap. Now, commitment is harder to get. Commitment from a low value man is still somewhat easy to get. But commitment from a high value man is HARD to get. Thats what women compete for.	/r/askMRP	04/08/17 07:00 PM
1	I'm conceding on the immovable Alpha wife thing.... Is it possible? Yes. Should you expect it to happen? No. You do you. She may come along for the ride, or not. Want an example? Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/6lwkfg/an_almost_hilarious_transformation/ (but as she says, you have to be THE man. A man´s man.)	/r/askMRP	03/08/17 09:45 PM
1	Wife doesn't want me to go on certain trips You are in your wife´s frame. Seems like shes the awesome one and you are begging to be taken along for the ride. "Please mommy let me come, I promise I´ll behave myself!" It should be the other way around if you want it to work. Dont you got important and fun shit to do?	/r/askMRP	03/08/17 09:37 PM
6	plate says "i'll never give you a blowjob" "No problem. Sophie, Tina and Helen give great BJs."	/r/askTRP	03/08/17 05:27 PM
2	Anticipating MLTRs "marking their territory" on my Facebook wall You are worrying about shit you shouldnt be. Who cares if this one or another tries to "mark her territory"? Or add whatever stuff on your facebook wall or? You are not commiting to any one of them right? If any of them starts bitching, you just hold your frame on not commiting. "You are a great person but Im not looking for an exclusive relationship at this moment, if you dont agree with that then we should split ways". Then go no contact and she will probably reach out to you wanting to meet, …	/r/askTRP	03/08/17 03:37 PM
5	What about "beta" girls? girls who couldnt access sex at all? Even a 2/10 fatty can fuck a different man every day of the week if shes willing to. All it takes is her willing to spread her legs. She swipes right on some guys on tinder, arrange a date and get fucked. There are plenty of horny fuckers willing to fuck about anything. Now, getting commitment is a completely different story. The beta equivalent of a woman would be a girl that keeps hopping from dick to dick trying to get commitment from a man but just gets u…	/r/askTRP	02/08/17 12:09 PM
6	LTR wants me to change Is she more insane than average women you have came across ? Nah, shes just tyring to break your frame. You did good. She does not like my good posture and says why can't I walk like other people Hah this one is new to me! how did you handle it ? Hold your frame and never let a woman change you or your opinions If she wants marriage and you dont then you two are not compatible, you either walk or keep her as a plate.	/r/askTRP	02/08/17 12:05 PM
3	Semi blew it - steps forward I spend too much time talking about 'us', and that it does the opposite of making her feel attracted to me. Listen to her, she knows what shes saying. She also displayed quite obviously that she has pretty much emotionally checked out by saying that if I want another type of relationship then I should find someone different. She doesnt want to be your mommy. Is the progress now lost? No. Did you stop owning your shit? Did you regain your fat and lost muscle? Are you acting like a needy beta weak…	/r/askMRP	02/08/17 12:35 AM
1	What can I do to get this crazy ex-plate to understand it's over? You cant "make her understand" anything. Especially If shes crazy. Block her on everything, dont reply to texts and stop banging her for fucks sake. If she really shows up at your job, you dont let her in, call the cops and get a restraining order on her.	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 04:50 PM
1	Girl keeps bringing up her ex boyfriend. Keep teasing her when she brings it up, dont commit to her and you should be fine, as long as you are banging her.	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 02:49 PM
3	I feel like I'm never going to have a healthy relationship if I can't look past girls' sexual history. Is that true? Its like women spending their youth bouncing from cock to cock trying to find mr. perfect: a hot strong tall confident cocky sucessfull alpha who falls head over heels for her, will never cheat on her, follow her orders, ask for her permission for everything, never leaves her alone to be with his friends/do his own stuff and be her doormat and does everything to "keep her happy". He doesnt exist.	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 01:19 PM
5	Random message on facebook after no contact You still want to bang her? If yes, set a date, get drinks, escalate If she doesnt show up or shots you down, or begins with the friends shit, hard next	/r/askTRP	31/07/17 12:56 AM
1	Best practices for intro to TRP You are doing what you can do - point him to the rational male, maybe gift him the books. But you cant make him read or be interested by it. If he reads and is interested in discussing it with you, then you start digging more. If not, oh well. Its like the saying, you can lead the horse to the water but you cant make it drink.	/r/askMRP	31/07/17 12:48 AM
2	Is this what a branch swing looks like? I met an HB6 air hostess via WhatsApp Air hostess are sluts. All of them. They are plate material. While we're yet to have "the talk", she's basically been a GF for the past couple of months. Shes not your GF until you agreed to be exclusive with her. And its up to her to bring "the talk" up if shes willing to. Keep her as a plate. She said she's busy on her next days off. You should be busy too. Learning new stuff, improving yourself, meeting/banging other girls. She refuses to come back to my …	/r/askTRP	28/07/17 09:51 PM
5	Bumble just sent me this email...sigh. You shouldnt care	/r/askTRP	28/07/17 09:27 PM
3	Is Established Male Non-Monogamy the Cream of the Crop of MRP? "Finally you got a new car. Maybe we shouldn't divorce after all." "Now that you got this position, maybe we shouldn't separate." Wow, just wow. She really straight told you that? Man. She respects her turds more than she respects you. Even a prostitute wouldnt be so direct. You married some special kind of whore didnt you? Ignored every red flag on the list I guess. while we had dinner at a restaurant Why the fuck are you still paying her dinners and listening to her talk shit about you? to blo…	/r/askMRP	27/07/17 09:12 PM
6	Why does a high Female n-count damage pair bonding? the idea of a lifelong monogamous pair bonding mechanism in humans seems ludicrous. Monogamy is NOT natural. Its a religious/social construct. Actually marriage, back in the days when most women werent full blown whores, was a good construct for betas, since it was their shot to have a pussy locked down and a family. The "ideal" scenario for women evolutionary speaking is having spawn from alphas for the best genes possible and having betas to help raise her children/provide/stick around, since …	/r/askTRP	27/07/17 06:23 PM
3	A beta dance class teacher asks me to be more sensitive with women. How should I respond? I tried explaining to him that women are very well capable of saying "no", but that did not convince him of course. Dont do that. Heres what you should have done, assuming you really arent groping women like an autistic fuck: Tell him "OK" Keep doing what you are doing Dont dance with the russian girl anymore If he keeps nagging you tell the manager/his supervisor that he is harassing you.	/r/askTRP	27/07/17 05:48 PM
4	If a girl ends up being boring and wasting my time, and i decide to next her. And shes asks why i lost interest. What do i say "I prefer to get to know people by talking face to face" Then set a date. If she doesnt want to go, next	/r/askTRP	26/07/17 01:13 PM
8	Ex is literally begging to have sex with me...Terrible idea? Shes gonna be cuddling you after sex, tell you how she misses what you had together and asks you "what are we". You tell her you are not looking for a relationship at this moment. Shes gonna cry, guilt trip you, shame you, get pissed, "Im not good enough for you? "So you are just using me for sex?", gonna bad mouth you to mutual people you know, and you are gonna have to hold your frame. If you can walk from this completely unnafected then you should be good.	/r/askTRP	25/07/17 06:21 PM
5	Ex is literally begging to have sex with me...Terrible idea? If you have rock solid frame and would never consider upgrading her to LTR again (which she WILL want) and always using a condom it could happen. But if you have to ask this here seems like its not the case.	/r/askTRP	25/07/17 05:51 PM
1	Wife gets pissed/makes fun of certain hobbies You frame seems shit. (I'm a WWE fan, don't make fun of me, I have watched since I was 9) You are explaining and justifying yourself to internet guys. My guess is you do the same all the time with your wife. "Pretty please, let me watch my game without mocking me, I work for 9 hours a day and cleaned the bathroom as you ordered! Pleaaaaaaaaaaaase!" A man with a strong frame gives zero fucks about "other peoples" opinion of him or what he does. You´ve been here for 4 years, did you read MMSLP? WI…	/r/askTRP	25/07/17 05:18 PM
3	Friends from beta past seem to throw jabs, or am I just being unreasonable? Easy. Its easier to drag someone down to you level than improving yourself and lifting yourself up. They see your success and get envious.	/r/askTRP	25/07/17 04:04 PM
7	Girls with rules, red flag? Just laugh at her "rules" and tease her about them, whats the problem? If you are following her "rules" you are beta. Remember she makes rules for betas and exceptions for alphas.	/r/askTRP	24/07/17 10:06 PM
2	Why do women insist on you vomiting your emotions to them? never quite gave the spark that one of her old relationships did "Im not getting the same tingles I used to get from Chad that im getting from you" "its hard for me when you seem like you don't give a shit" "You should be begging to have me back like a spineless weakling or I wont be sure if I made the right decision of leaving you" Dont cave man. And the problem here is not that she wants you to "vomit her emotions" on her, its just that she thinks she can do better than you (or is already fuck…	/r/askTRP	24/07/17 09:52 PM
6	SO is bitchy and disrespectful too often, should I leave? Do you think it's worth trying or beyond repair? Her becoming an exact copy of her mother scares me as hell. Yeah this is very possible, i´ve seen it happen over and over. One year in and she´s already a disrespectful cunt, is a bad bad sign. She should be shit scared of losing you and thankful to have snatched such a high quality man as you (are you?) She seems entitled, and not admitting mistakes is also a bad sign. And her idea of a relationship is what she has seen of her mother and father, …	/r/askMRP	24/07/17 06:54 PM
6	Your opinion of open marriages? Its a great deal for the woman, bad deal for the man. The man will have to endure all the downsides of marriage, like having to deal with her drama, family problems, provide to her, support her, give her time/attention/affection, deal with PMS and bitchiness, constant shit testing, nagging, fix shit, financial problems, etc etc, while getting a bit of starfix sex from her once in a while after Chad used all her holes as he wanted, and if for some reason hubby wants to be out he will lose half hi…	/r/askMRP	24/07/17 02:51 PM
1	BDP relationship of 2 years. You cant fix BPD. Its not your fault that she is crazy. Maybe she can fix herself if she is willing to put the effort and see a good therapeut/doctor. The best choice for you is walk and find a girl that isnt broken. You commited to a BPD girl because you were broken as well. A "healthy" guy would just see her crazyness and think "shit, this girl is a nutcase. Im out". But you, being mr. white knight, thought "im gonna fix this girl and she is gonna love me forever for it". No, doesnt work like …	/r/askTRP	24/07/17 11:52 AM
1	Girlfriend says she is unhappy in relationship, should I leave her? Oh yeah, I bet she has a big ass list of things you should do that would "make her happy", every beta thing in the script that "sitcom dad" would do. Shes just trying to betafy you, not that she is evil for doing that, its just that its what she thinks it will "make her happy". But if you start caving to her demands she starts losing respect and attraction for you. Just tease her, A&A when she is shit testing you. Punish her by withdrawing your time/attention/affection when she is acting like a …	/r/askTRP	23/07/17 11:45 PM
2	Girlfriend says she is unhappy in relationship, should I leave her? Im unhappy = I think I can do better than you and im not getting enough tingles from you. Very high chance of Chad involved. Is It salvageable? Maybe, you need to apply dread, maybe soft next her for a few days and increase your smv. But the questions you should be making are: is she worth It? Am I getting my needs met? Should I be putting up with bitchness and a woman that second guesses me and doesnt value my commitment?	/r/askTRP	23/07/17 10:45 PM
2	is she helping me, or modifying me. she often likes to 'correct me' and say... "you know, when i feel like this, you can say something like 'im sorry etc etc etc'". Internalize this: You are NOT responsible for her feelz. Its not up to you to fix her feelz. Never say you are sorry for the way she feelz, you should only be sorry if you really did something wrong. Instead, give her a bear hug, "im here for you babe", or just tease her if its a shit test. etc. Stop taking her so seriously. the problem is, i don't know how to handle t…	/r/askMRP	21/07/17 08:41 PM
4	Should I just keep ignoring this girl i used to orbit? Most likely you are better off nexting her. However, if you want to give this a last shot: Set a date not like "lets hang out just us one on one", frame it like "Im going to bar xxxx saturday night at 10pm, would be cool if you tagged along". This way its not a "date", you are going to a bar and have a good time and she is free to join you or not. If she goes, you two get some drinks, you escalate, if she shots you down for WHATEVER REASON or doesnt show up, hard next.	/r/askTRP	21/07/17 02:52 PM
2	On the strong woman fuck this is gold	/r/askMRP	19/07/17 08:13 PM
6	Wife is spending time with her coworker during our "trial separation" want to stop handling this so poorly. I want space is womanese for "I want to ride Chads dick and try to lock him down, if he just pumps and dumps me, i´ll get back to you." "Trial Separation" is horseshit. You dont even have kids. Walk away from this, read the sidebar and apply it, improve yourself, spin some plates, and THEN you may consider another LTR again.	/r/askMRP	19/07/17 06:07 PM
2	What to tell girls when they want to get serious and exclusive? without letting her go She may go, or she may not. Remember that plates break. Thats where you apply abundance mentality. First thing, you dont bring the "what are we" talk. If she assumes for whatever reason that you two are exclusive without you ever agreeing to it, well, thats her problem. Its up to her to bring this up if she feels like. Then, if you want to remain single, you tell her something along the lines of "You are a great person but im not looking for a relationship at this moment. …	/r/askTRP	18/07/17 08:52 PM
4	"You don't NEED a man" Its OK. You dont need to convince them or anyone about your opinions and life choices. You are free to make your own decisions and you dont need to explain why to aynone. Im guessing you respect other people´s opinions and so they should respect yours as well. If a particular family member doesnt, you can say something along the lines of, in a very calm and respectful way "I understand the way you feel about this, but I am free to have my own opinions about this matter, you are not obligated to …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/17 01:06 AM
4	I'm not attracting the kind of man I want. RP Ladies, can you offer any advice? It was 3.5 years, and when it ended my partner told me that I had ruined his life, he had been miserable for the last 3 years, my touch made his skin crawl, and that no one would ever love me again. It took me years to recover from that, which included therapy and a lot of self discovery, personal acceptance and forgiveness (of myself as well as others). Dont sweat about this. A man who would tell you something like this is a weakling. You are not responsible for his happiness. And if he thinks …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/07/17 02:58 PM
1	Is she a unicorn? Unicorns dont exist, thats why they are called unicorns. Quality women, LTR worthy women do exist. And yes, AWALT applies to all of them. But if you screw up, if you get weak/beta/needy/broke/etc she WILL be gone, she will either cheat or leave you, rest assured. Keep your shit together and your chances of a good LTR will be higher. You should be morre worried about being a high value man, having an awesome life, having your shit together than if your woman is a unicorn or not. She is hitting th…	/r/askTRP	17/07/17 02:48 AM
3	Question on low testosterone in 27 year old and potential solutions Plant-based, very conscious eater, dialed in macro nutrients, well sourced food, etc. Are you vegetarian? That might be it. Also make sure you are not overdoing your "heavy cardio" and getting enough rest. Read this: http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/01/18/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/	/r/askTRP	14/07/17 05:05 PM
1	lifting plateau - how to overcome Yeah, take a week off. If you want to gain you should up your calories count, make sure you are eating a lot and resting a lot. Also learn about periodization/progression, theres lots of videos about it on youtube. If you go to the gym day by day doing the same shit with same weights you are not going to progress and you are most likely gonna get burn out. Im gonna give you a simple example (not saying its how you should do it, just an example). Lets say you can bench 50kg for 10 reps, and you b…	/r/askTRP	14/07/17 03:33 PM
1	26 Female No Kids. Do I have hope? Now I am freaking out because according to TRP once a women turns older than 27 men don't really look for LTRs Best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. Second best time is today. If you are not entitled, not bratty, not slutty, not fat, not into drugs/partying, feminine and willing to be lead by a high quality man you are ahead of most women today. Should I start activly searching for men who want that? Sure. Search for men that want the same as you, that are compatible with you. Keep your n c…	/r/askTRP	13/07/17 05:28 PM
8	UPDATE: Oneitis, Depression & Suicide Dude, it doesnt matter. Why do you think you need to "understand her angle"? She added "at the moment" because she wants you to think you still got a chance with her. You DONT. She wants you to orbit her, to validate her, to be her emotional tampon, to give her a ride to Chad´s house so he can facefuck her, and then cry to you about how Chad fucked her ass so hard that she cant even sit today, isnt that clear enough to you? This is why everyone will tell you to cut contact with her. You are stil…	/r/askTRP	13/07/17 12:32 PM
1	Beta < Married < RedPill - Please Help I see my wife not as the dandy unicorn I once did but rather the manipulative woman she truly is. Really? She cheated on some dude to be with you. Shes a branch swinger. Yeah, unicorn for sure. That alone should be enough for you to walk. That aside, dont do the joint account thing, stick to your guns. You are allowed to change your mind for whatever reason and you dont need to explain or convince her of that (did you read WISNIFG?). If she wants to divorce you for that, show her the door. Whate…	/r/askTRP	12/07/17 02:19 PM
13	I've read up on red pill and I think i will just take the blue pill The foundation of TRP is self improvement. Its about becoming a better version of yourself, learning about the sexual market and relationship dynamics is part of that. You want to spin plates? Being a high value masculine man will help you succeeding with that. You want a LTR? Being a high value masculine man will help you succeeding with that. You want to marry and have kids? Being a high value masculine man will help you succeeding with that. How to be a high value masculine man? Sidebar. But …	/r/askTRP	11/07/17 08:25 PM
7	Is my GF Marriage Material Is one year enough to destroy the basis of our relationship? Man, one week is enough. And what exactly is the "basis of a relationship"? Your relationship will be good for her until you can provide value to her. If you had a 10 year great relationship but today you can provide zero value to her, shes gone. And if you are married she is taking half of your shit with her. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1anu3q/briffaults_law/ Can I recover from this if I demonstrate quality leadership…	/r/askMRP	11/07/17 05:08 PM
2	Need lifting/life advice Check Mark Rippetoes youtube videos on the form of lifts. Theres lots of videos of him teaching students how to do them, very good videos. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMAiNQJ6FPc Also, if you are skinny/skinny fat you should focus on gaining weight, even if you get a little more fat. Focus on getting strong for a while and worry about burning fat later, I see guys that weight like 140 pounds with girly arms worrying about how to lose belly fat instead of just gaining weight and getting stron…	/r/askTRP	10/07/17 09:12 PM
27	[M24] Thinking about losing my virginity to an escort, but I'm terrified of HPV and genital herpes. I need The Red Pill perspective on this dillema Use a condom and you are good, stop overthinking. Just dont put your tongue into her mouth/pussy. You will come to realize that sex is nothing special and pussy is cheap. Will be good to release your anxiety.	/r/askTRP	10/07/17 07:35 PM
3	How to change my LTR decision about moving to other city? Dont hamster yourself into a LDR. You can keep in touch with her while she is away if you want, keep her as a plate, keep things open. Do not commit to a LDR. Make it clear to her. "You are a great person, but im not going to do a long distance relationship. You can go, and when you come back we may see where we stand". Stop with this manipulating shit. It is betaish and reeks of lack of abundance and weakness. Let her do her choices, and you do yours. Your choices should not be affected by what…	/r/askTRP	10/07/17 04:51 PM
3	GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history with blah blah blah im gonna be unhappy hamster hamster hamster she she she she she You need sidebar bro. Man up. You are clearly mr. nice guy. What do YOU want? She goes, you next her. Blah blah blah 4 years... sunken cost falacy	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 09:10 PM
2	AMALT? Tough times creates tough men Tough men create good times Good times creates weak men Weak men create tough times	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/07/17 06:07 PM
1	Is it ok to be annoyed at females for being the way they are? You are going through the "anger phase". Things are the way they are, you getting pissed or not will not change it. What you can do is adapt to the environment, dont be a beta bitch and be the best version of yourself that you can be. Set goals, objectives, pursue them and develop yourself along the road. You dont hate dogs for barking right? Thats just what dogs do.	/r/askTRP	06/07/17 09:55 PM
8	My girl is trying to make me into a cuck. I am not down for that shit. Holy shit man. You need to have some self respect. Respect yourself, or no one will. Heres the thing, your GF is a whore. You dont LTR whores, you dont MARRY whores. Its a bad, bad, bad deal. You cant "unwhore" her, you cant convince her into "responding right", or whatever. She is what she is. Heres what you do: next time you meet her (not at your place), you are gonna tell her: "You are a great person, but it turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single again. Wish you the best of luck…	/r/askTRP	06/07/17 09:43 PM
10	Is it beta to care about your girlfriend's sexual past? Plate? Who cares LTR? Not beta at all. Quite the opposite. Dont LTR a slut for your own sake. As a man you should value your commitment, which include having STANDARDS for giving your commitment to some girl. She has to earn it and be worth it.	/r/askTRP	05/07/17 09:20 PM
5	Is this a fire-able offence? It was a shit test. If you got mad and affected and showed It to her you Lost. Your response was bad, since you addressed It seriously, she wanted a reaction out of you and she got It. Could have agreed and amplified or just teased her about It. Dont need to next her for that, since shes a plate, but never consider upgrading her.	/r/askTRP	04/07/17 08:12 PM
1	WWYD - Plate Gets Tingles From Someone Else Shes a plate. By saying stuff like that shes trying to raise her value, since if the roles were reversed it would be a indication of high value (other girls wanting to fuck you = your SMV goes up). Correct way: Give zero fucks/tease her about it. "Wow, he seems like quite a catch. Is he hot"? "Maybe he would be down for a threesome eh?" Always with a big smirk on your face. And yeah, keep focusing on yourself and other plates. Dont hamster yourself into a LDR. Keep in contact with her while she …	/r/askTRP	04/07/17 01:59 PM
2	Ex crying to me she feels no purpose in life Those are signs of a BPD or at least emotional manipulative woman. What are going to do, get back together with her so she doesnt kill herself? Doesnt work like that. My brother had an ex like that, but he was weak so he went back together with her multiple times, despite me, my parents, everyone telling him not to. Ended up getting cucked. And also, you cant fix crazy. Its not your fault that she is crazy, suicidal, BPD or whatever. Want to help her? Advise her to see a therapist, thats the bes…	/r/askTRP	04/07/17 01:48 PM
1	making progress, DBR remains "Also, she tells me constantly how handsome i am and how much she is in love with me, and when we DO have sex, it is always at least good but more often than not great!!! (something we agree on)" Fill in the blanks: Watch what they _, not what they _. So, you are not even married and you have got yourself a DB already. Not entering into the LTR sharing thing, which for me is a huge DLV (if you like seeing your woman being ravaged by other guys for whatever reason do it with PLATES, you dont need…	/r/askMRP	03/07/17 05:40 PM
5	Wife came home late for third time in a month so I cancelled our weekend beach house trip. Am I over reacting? Thats a bad sign. Your wife regularly going on GNOs AND getting wasted without you is a really bad sign, not the behaviour you should expect from a wife that respects and is attracted to you. What you did just came out as butthurt. Read this: https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/	/r/askMRP	01/07/17 02:09 PM
3	How to deal with LTR issue First you have to decide, for yourself and for your own reasons, if you are OK with having a GF that keeps in touch with her ex. You dont talk to her about it, you dont "try to understand why she feels she needs to keep in contact". You decide and then inform her of the decision. Y: "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her exes" H: "But blah blah blah dogs" Y: "I understand the way you feel, but im not going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in …	/r/askTRP	30/06/17 09:26 PM
11	Question about commitment/relationships/sex - gatekeepers Women are the "selector" sex. They are the ones who select the mate for sex. As you may have already read/understood, an "average" woman can have sex with as many "above average" men she wants, but having commitment from an "above average" man is a completely different story. Its up to the man to accept to commit to a woman that wants to commit to him, or not. Think about this: If you wanted to have a threesome today, what would you have to do? (not counting paying for it). Would be kinda hard, …	/r/askMRP	28/06/17 02:30 PM
1	Gf apologized, how to go about it? "She was being ridiculous and making a whole big thing out of nothing, getting emotional, kinda rude & ungrateful over something stupid. " Treat it as a shit test. Dont let it affect you, dont get angry, dont raise your voice. What would you do if your 5 year old daughter gave you a tantrum because you stepped on her sand castle? "Awww my little princess is upset?" "Come daddy is gonna help you build a new one!" You did right. Withdraw time/attention/affection when she acts shitty, increase it w…	/r/askTRP	28/06/17 11:21 AM
3	What type of test is this really? You dont have kids right? You wouldnt want an "open marriage" right? Your marriage is one year only and its already a DB right? My guess is that your relationship already sucked before you got married, but well that doesnt matter now. Well, if it was me It would be enough to walk. If you want to give this a shot, you could tell her something along the lines of: "I would never do an open marriage. If this is what you want, then it means we are not compatible and we should get a divorce". If shes …	/r/askMRP	27/06/17 09:17 PM
1	Proper "Next Her" technique "You are a great person, but it turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single for now. I wish you the best of luck". Dont shame her or anything, or say something like "im breaking up with you because you do this or you are like that", because it opens a "please I promise im gonna change, give me a chance" line. Never do it at your place, because she may refuse to leave, and it SUCKS having to force her to leave, and she can make a scene, scream, break stuff etc.	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 06:29 PM
2	Did i do the right thing? Improve yourself, increase your smv. Theres no easy fix. Read the sidebar and apply It. I would suggest for you for starters: no more Mr Nice Guy, when I say no i feel guilty and married man sex life primer (this one is a must for anyone in a ltr)	/r/askTRP	26/06/17 02:22 AM
3	Did i do the right thing? No, she will look into your phone only if you allow her. Its your phone. Set your boundaries. She will act as shitty as you allow her. Yeah, she will bitch about you to her gfs. So what? Thats just what women do. You cant stop that. As long as its not you dealing with her drama, you shouldnt care. Never let women drama affect you. And if she says break up blablabla show her the door. If you dont value yourself no one will. My guess is that you are completely into her her frame. You are scared of…	/r/askTRP	26/06/17 01:47 AM
5	Did i do the right thing? She said: ohhh as soon as i wake up you stop your phone eeh? Me: Well yeah i was gonna switch movie it was just bad timing -> BAD. You DEERed (defend/explain/excuse/rationalize) when she was shit testing you. Beta and unnatractive. Me: Well yeah, I was talking to my other GF. -> GOOD Shes giving you drama and you are entering her frame. Give less fucks man. You did right by leaving. Soft next her for a couple of days and then resume as if nothing happened. DONT ANSWER HER TEXTS/CALLS while soft …	/r/askTRP	26/06/17 12:52 AM
3	LTR - Lack of appreciation So shes fat, hit the wall, and is an entitled disrespectful cunt and threatens to break up with you over minor shit. And thats 6 months in, which should be honeymoon period. No amount of "talking to her about your feelings" will fix this. You have to ask yourself, why did you commit to her? Why are you still with her? Walk man. Walk. Respect yourself, or no one will.	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 10:48 PM
4	In an LTR with a girl whose very devoted to me. However I find myself despising her because of her sexual past. Should I spin plates/cheat? What a load of bullshit. So he is OBLIGATED to accept being in a relationship with some woman who has had 200+ dicks inside of her, or even a prostitute, or he isnt "man enough". Lol, "man enough to deserve her". The correct is answer is: Everyone is FREE to make their own choices. She is FREE to choose to fuck as many guys as she wants, fuck a different guy every day of her life, have orgies, threesomes, or not. Its her life, her choices. She doesnt need to explain or justify that to anyone. If…	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 07:08 PM
5	Wife ghosted me on business trip Shes making your hamster spin. Seems like you are in her frame. SHE should be the one wondering "what is my hot stud husband doing now, is he chatting up some hoe at a bar??? Why isnt he returning my calls??" If you are really suspicious, keylog her phone or something and collect evidences. Asking her about it wont do any good, if she fucked/is fucking Chad she will lie about it anyway. And you should be asking yourself, how long it would take for you to replace your wife with hotter/younger pla…	/r/askMRP	21/06/17 11:22 PM
1	When a situation like this arises with my LTR what's the proper way to handle it. Just give less fucks man. H: "You are being such a dick!" Y: "Oh you want dick?" Be less available when she is being bitchy. "Cant do this right now, I am busy. Talk to you later". You dont need to address and rationalize every shit she throws at you. Remember shes acting on feelz.	/r/askMRP	21/06/17 06:05 PM
5	What does it mean when the wife offers that you could fuck someone else? But this is bullshit. Who needs that crap from an ex wife, like calling on birthdays or something. I don't get how she would want something like this. Validation and attention. Women love that. You would know if you read the sidebar. If you give that to her and is not fucking her, you are her orbiter. You are low value. Look at the facts man. You are unnatractive to her (you dont say anything about you, my guess is you dont lift, your diet is shit and you have a dadbod), she says you should fuck…	/r/askMRP	20/06/17 03:16 PM
-4	shit test help. "only the pretty ones"	/r/askTRP	16/06/17 12:58 AM
2	Gravity of the Scenario is irrelevant, shit-tests are shit-tests No, theres no benefit. FEELZ reigns over REALZ in her head. Shes acting completely on emotion, you trying to "make her see" things rationally wont work and just put you into her frame, so that "the things she is screaming at you are so valid that you have to use all your logic and intelligence to defend yourself and show how shes wrong". Even if you are completely right you lose, the exact words that are coming of her mouth doesnt matter, what matters is the way she FEEELZ. Shes letting her FEEL…	/r/askMRP	15/06/17 10:23 PM
4	How do you respond if your GF does something wrong? Its really up to you. You have to figure out what your bondaries are, what you accept and what you dont accept from a LTR, for your own reasons. Lets say you dont accept that your GF keeps in touch with her ex(es). H: "I ran into my ex yesterday at the supermarket. He wants to meet me for coffee to catch things up". Y: "Cool. But I wont be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her ex" H: "Hes just a friend now! Dont you trust me?" Y: "I trust you, but I wont be in a relationship…	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 04:14 PM
3	Should I forgive LTR or next? Shes not LTR material man. Plate at best, if you could handle it emotionally, but seems like you are not ready for that. She will never fully respect you. Is better for you to start a fresh new relationship with a girl who wont see you as beta.	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 04:05 PM
3	If you must co-habitate, what are your tips to avoid ruining it? so its not just me, i thought i was at /relationships	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 02:02 PM
1	Very odd situation with LTR Her having a kid at 16 is a red flag. Not telling you about what happened 5 months in is a bigger red flag. I dont know how old she is now, but if she was a single mom at 16 she most likely started fucking around early, her count must be sky high right now, which is bad for a LTR. You have to ask yourself, what wouldnt she be willing to hide, if she was hiding this fact?	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 01:18 AM
2	Single Mothers Have your standards. Not all girls are party-club-hopping-entitled-sluts. There are LTR material girls out there, but you have to dig. Meet them, plate them, see if they meet your criteria for a LTR, if not, you walk, or keep her as a plate until it breaks. Yeah most western women nowadays are not LTR material, thats just the way things are, but that doesnt mean you have to commit to a party slut/single mom. Single moms are NOT worth the risk, just read up stories about them. She´ll play good to…	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 07:04 PM
2	Curiosity about second marriages Keep in mind that not ending in divorce doesnt mean the marriage is "successful". Keep in mind how many of those marriages that didnt end in divorce are between people that cant stand each other anymore, doing it for the kids, have cheated on each other, dead bedroom, etc etc.	/r/askMRP	09/06/17 02:33 PM
5	Need a reality check - ex-LTR wants me to take her back https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/ You saw for yourself that LDRs dont work. She lied to you and was sleeping at some dudes house, thats not something a LTR material girl does. Should you forgive her? Well thats up to you. I had an ex who cheated on me (broke up when i found out) and after a while I forgave her, and today I give literally zero fucks about what she did, in the end it was good, made me find about TRP. But COMMIT to her again? No fucking way. She proved…	/r/askTRP	08/06/17 10:10 PM
9	Girl I'm seeing says she just watched this video and now wants to break up The only response to a girl wanting to break up with you is showing her the door. And yeah commiting to a cheater is a bad bad idea.	/r/askTRP	08/06/17 08:48 PM
0	Not sure how to take this... So you need mommy to validate you so you know you are moving into the right direcion? And that small comment made you DEER and hamster eh? Sidebar man. Sidebar . When you have improved yourself more and absorbed the sidebar, the reply that should come to your mind to when she says "I dont want you to xxx" will be something like "oh you dont have to want It baby" with a big smirk on your face.	/r/askMRP	08/06/17 02:18 AM
2	Sleepover at her orbiter You are trying to convince yourself that its ok for your wife to have a sleepover at another mans house. Its not, no matter how much you hamster. It clearly shows your wife has no respect for you and you are most likely a cuck. Your relationship is a mess because you are a mess. Think for yourself and for your own reasons, are you OK with having a wife that has sleepovers at some dudes house? If you are not, you clearly state that to her. "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who sl…	/r/askMRP	07/06/17 12:14 PM
1	Lost frame a few months ago (insecurity) Dont worry about that. Just keep it going, improving yourself and following your MAP. Does she ever bring that up? If she does, whatever she says, dont let her affect you, give zero fucks and A&A or whatever always with a smirk. If you let whatever she says affect you, you "lost" the shit test. Just give less fucks about what she says/thinks of you. A "stong alpha leader" as you say wouldnt care about that.	/r/askMRP	06/06/17 03:53 PM
3	update relationship boundaries! No, what you did is not "cold". Far from that. You are still a nice guy. You still gave her options about this. You still explained to her why what she did is bad. Your girlfriend added random dudes on snapchat, was snapchatting them and lied to you about it. Thats a deal breaker for a LTR, unless you are a spineless beta. Everyone is free to make their choices. She is free to add random dudes on snapchat, snapchat them, send nudes or whatever. You are free to accept to be in a commited relation…	/r/askTRP	01/06/17 07:24 PM
13	1 Word Text You are giving too many fucks about this. First step: start giving less fucks. Shouldnt have sent that eye roll text, shouldnt have inquired her about the note. Yeah those are cool ideas to game/tease her, but dont get butthurt if she doesnt respond like you want her to	/r/askMRP	30/05/17 11:29 PM
1	Newbie: should I stop initiating for a while? Your Focus should be on improving yourself. Learning How to game your wife is part of that. That said, initiate whenever you feel like but be completely outcome independent about It. Screw her "schedule". She rejects, you just go "ok" and go do something else, completely unnafected and non butthurt.	/r/askMRP	29/05/17 01:33 AM
1	Pushback on prenup What advice more you need here? No prenup, no marriage. Her excuses doesnt matter. If the guests already paid for whatever doesnt matter. If you already paid for the ceremony doesnt matter. But blah blah blah doesnt matter. Check with a lawyer to see if you need witnesses or something when she signs it so she cant claim it later that she was coerced into doing it or whatever. You are risking half of your assets and almost certain alimony since she doesnt work for a woman that is most likely infe…	/r/askMRP	28/05/17 03:18 AM
0	She blows up over the littlest shit You are not "allowed" to make mistakes? Allowed by whom? You are not required to listen to her bitching or anything. You are still afraid of what she says and what she does, and what she thinks about you. Over wiping a fucking counter. She clearly doesnt respect you enough. If it was her job to do this, and she forgot that, would you ever treat her the way she treated you? Im guessing not. Just dont let her break your frame, dont discuss over stupid shit, dont let her get into your skin. And you…	/r/askMRP	26/05/17 02:20 PM
1	Girl found another girl's jacket in my car. She's acting up. What do? Just keep doing what you are doing. Its up to her to bring the "what are we" talk, then its up to you to decide to be exclusive with her or not, if you think shes worth it.	/r/askTRP	19/05/17 05:27 PM
4	Should I second guess complements from my wife? Stop overthinking shit man. What difference does it make, if theres a "hidden reason" for her to compliment you? Keep working on you. "Thanks babe."	/r/askMRP	18/05/17 12:22 PM
3	LTR to make a trip with ex Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/4qfmgs/me_25_f_with_my_boyfriend_30_m_of_6_months_we/d4t933i/ See what Pete does. Be more like Pete. Pete is the man.	/r/askTRP	17/05/17 05:13 PM
2	What she says and how she behaves Its a shit test and spilling feeeelz (I bet she sent you this over text/email, NEVER engage the hamster via text) Treat it as such. She wants to betafy you (not because she is "evil", its just what she THINKS its the best natural course of a relationship), and if she has success in doing that and breaking your frame, she loses respect and attraction to you, and the relationship starts going to shit. Just dont forget to reward her with your time/attention/affection when she is acting good. Reply …	/r/askTRP	16/05/17 07:48 PM
2	She wants to see my phone unlocked The whole point of MRP is bettering men, making a better you. There is no fixing the relationship, you can only fix yourself. Usually a side effect of you improving yourself, owning your shit, being a high quality masculine man and building yourself an awesome life is your relationship with your wife getting better and you getting more and higher quality sex. Your wife may come along for the ride, or not.	/r/askMRP	16/05/17 04:20 PM
1	She wants to see my phone unlocked You dont need to explain it to anyone, or to your wife. You either are fine with sharing your password, or not. Your choice. Make your choice and inform her of the decision.	/r/askMRP	16/05/17 04:17 PM
2	Does Romance Ever Work? Depends on how she sees your SMV. If your SMV is high, romance = "aaaaaaaaaawnnnnnnnn so sweeet!!" If your SMV is low, romance = "ewwwww creep" Thing is, is not romance that will get you the girl or not.	/r/askTRP	15/05/17 01:19 AM
2	"Can you hold my purse/bag?" yeah, shit test. "nope"	/r/askTRP	15/05/17 12:27 AM
1	What to do about her friend? "I asked him why and tried to get him to explain himself and he told me that my going away was to see "another man" a deal-breaker, that he'd been in this type of situation before and wasn't going to go through it again. I asked him if this was an ultimatum - I hate ultimatums, they are tools of abusers - and he said "No, its not an ultimatum. I've decided to break up with you. I have not presented you with any options. I just came to say goodbye." Pete likes the sidebar	/r/askMRP	13/05/17 02:58 AM
9	What to do about her friend? Well, for me that would be a deal breaker. Think for yourself and for your own reasons: Are you OK with this or not? Its not a matter of "right" or "wrong", you either accept that your wife does this or you dont. You dont have to explain the "why" to anyone but yourself. If you dont accept that, you STATE that to her. You dont explain why, you dont discuss, you dont get angry, you dont rationalize. Her accusations doesnt matter. Y: "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in …	/r/askMRP	12/05/17 12:32 PM
2	Mother-in-law wants me to apologize to her husband. You got caught up in her family drama. Thats enterily your fault. Your wife having your back or not about this makes no difference. If her stepfather was right or wrong about blah blah blah or person x said bleh bleh bleh makes no difference. You know hes a shitty person, and you dont need to be around a shitty person. You "next" him from your life. Dont go to his place again. When/if you talk to him, be completely "professional". Not butthurt, just deal with him like you would to an ex, no feel…	/r/askMRP	11/05/17 06:30 PM
2	Intermittent fasting Could be overtraining, could be not enough rest, could be stress (eating less stresses the body), could be not enough calories (you need fats for hormones/testosterone)	/r/askMRP	09/05/17 06:48 PM
2	Wife constantly shit tests brother inlaw "I just asked her what she wanted me to do about it" No, never do that. You either do something or you dont, and own it. Then you got butthurt and DEERed on the drive home. Should just have teased/laughed about how she has a crush on him or something and that she deserves a spanking for misbehaving. You dont need to "know how to interpret her extreme anger". You need to get out of her frame, to give less fucks and leave her presence when she is acting like a crazy bitch. Reward her when she is a…	/r/askMRP	09/05/17 02:40 AM
3	Do's and don'ts with a cheating plate? Shes a cheating whore. You dont LTR cheating whores, you plate them. Unless you are fine with being a cuck.	/r/askTRP	08/05/17 03:25 AM
5	So I married a covert narcissist... now what ? Dude, have you ever read anything about projecting? About BPDs? BPDs make you believe YOU are the crazy one. If you are weak enough, a BPD woman will destroy you and make you kill yourself. But in the end, its your fault for being a spineless weakling. The big problem here is not if the woman is BPD, narcissist, whore, or whatever, it is the man being a spineless weakling. The thing is, she is the way she is. If she is really a strong idependent narcissist woman as you describe, thats what she i…	/r/askMRP	05/05/17 07:32 PM
1	Situation with LTR's guy buddy arising. If she fucked him, hes an ex. Like I said, its up to you to accept this or not. I wouldnt. You are too wrapped into "thinking what she might be thinking that you are thinking blah blah blah". Cut the drama, make the decision and inform her of it.	/r/askTRP	05/05/17 01:51 PM
1	Situation with LTR's guy buddy arising. First thing, if she wants to fuck this guy or any other she will and theres nothing you can do to stop it. What you can do is dump her when you find out. Remember that you cant control her, you can only control you and your choices. In this case, seems like he is an orbiter and she likes the validation. But if she really fucked him and lied to you about it and is going to some event with him is a big red flag. I wouldnt accept my GF keeping in touch with her exes. If it was me I would dump her. …	/r/askTRP	05/05/17 01:30 PM
15	Wife needs facebook validation... is my response better to be presence/affection or time/attention? "Im gonna like your stuff right now" (grab tits/ass) Game her, tease her, be fun and witty, keep things light, keep improving yourself. Forget about this facebook crap.	/r/askMRP	04/05/17 01:43 AM
1	Real time - need advice Oh god, shes gonna give you THAT LOOK! And shes gonna SHIT TEST YOU! Damn! You should be pissing yourself right now! How about stop being afraid of your wife and her feelz eh? And get busy with important stuff, like your MAP and improving yourself.	/r/askMRP	04/05/17 12:23 AM
1	An email from the wife Really, why are you arguing over that shit? Why you married a feminist? Apart from that: Dont reply to the email, and if she brings this up again, hit her with "I am free to have my own opinions, and so are you. My opinion is not going to change". Im pretty sure you havent read any of the sidebar, as theres a book that covers this very well.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/05/17 10:20 PM
3	When girls friendzone you they don't actually see you as a friend Nothing new. She will use you for favors / validation / rides / emotional tampon / ask you to take care of her dog while she fucks Chad / complain about how Chad fucked her ass so hard she cant even sit now. Thats why when you get a LBJF talk you just go "OK" and completely ghost her.	/r/askTRP	02/05/17 08:25 PM
10	Handling "Girl Code" You deal by giving zero fucks, having abundance mentality and gaming/banging other girls. Let the door open. If she wants to fuck you, she will reach out to you. You keep gaming/banging other girls.	/r/askTRP	02/05/17 04:31 PM
7	[LTR]How to cope with a feeling of guilt after breaking up with LTR Read When I Say no I feel guilty Do you want to break up wit her? Then do it. For your own reasons. You dont need to justify your reasons to anyone. You are not obligated to be in a relationship with anyone. You are free to make your own decisions. Cut this crap about justifying the breakup. YOU DONT NEED TO JUSTIFY YOUR DECISIONS TO ANYONE. Women need to, because they care so much about what "other people" think of them. They need to come out as the "poor victim" to have support from others. Yo…	/r/askTRP	02/05/17 01:56 PM
1	Comfort or shit test? I could use a little advice. Her:"she's really in a bad place, she needed me right then, your WANTS can wait, blah blah blah". You: "you think I don't need sex" - BAD. Beta butthurt. Suggestion: "Sure honey, maybe tomorrow". Then resume your activities. IN A NON BUTTHURT WAY. H: "well, I don't know what you're doing, but I like it" Y: "if you say so, your actions say otherwise" - BAD. Beta butthurt. Suggestion: "Thats great babe!" (Lift her up/slap her ass) As for her text: "We can talk about this at home". Any reply other …	/r/askMRP	27/04/17 07:53 PM
1	My wife recently confessed something to me she did 3 months before our wedding. How do I handle this? You married a whore. You cant unwhore her. You still havent taken the red pill (share her to "keep her happy"? For fucks sake) She straight told you she is not attracted to you. She straight told you she cucked you and that she is a whore. Shes gonna cuck you for the rest of your life and you are gonna be MISERABLE about it. If you want to have a woman that you "share" with others, swing, orgies and stuff, have her as a PLATE and dont live together with her. So shes free to fuck whoever she want…	/r/askTRP	26/04/17 01:12 AM
4	Worried about an LTR You CANT fix her, no matter how much you want. You CANT change her. You cant change anyone but you. She needs professional help and she needs to be WILLING to fix and change herself. If she doesnt want to, theres not much you can do about it.	/r/askTRP	26/04/17 12:58 AM
3	Frame, BPD and Comfort Tests Do not reply to any FEELZ email/text. She is just spewing FEEELZ and nonsense she is feeling at the moment she is writing and most likely wont even matter too much a few hours later when her feelz change again. Either no reply or "We can talk about this when im back home." (then dont bring it up, she will if it still concerns her, then you comfort/A&A/fog according to the situation, as long as you dont let her drag you into faggotery again). You keep doing you. She is afraid you might leave her …	/r/askMRP	25/04/17 09:14 PM
3	Did I handle this right? What would have been better? Ler her be upset as long as she wants, as long as you dont let it affect you. She is prob used to you running to do her errands and fixing her feels, so she wants it to continue and will shit test about it to see if your changes are permanent or just something that will pass soon. "Im upset, do something about it!" Response to her text: "Ok babe. Whats for dinner tonight"?	/r/askMRP	25/04/17 06:44 PM
2	Shit test help Cancel date night, use it do to some outside activity, some martial arts class, beer with your buddies. Keep improving yourself, keep doing being attractive, keep working on your MAP. Do the things you have to do to keep your house in order. Not in a butthurt way, not in a "look mommy, i did the dishes!" way. Just do what you would do if you were single. Do it because it is your house and you want things in order. Also punish her by using your cards: Decrease your time, attention, affection spen…	/r/askMRP	25/04/17 06:38 PM
3	Ex Girlfriend is insane for attention. It hurts... She is NOT LTR material, no matter how much you hamster. Let her get gangbanged by rappers, its her life, her choice, nothing you can do about it anyway. You do you. Block from all social media, ghost.	/r/askTRP	24/04/17 12:25 PM
2	Is going for a higher status or alpha girl a death sentence? For plates? Sure. For a LTR? No, it wont work long term. If she is the dominant one in the relationship she will soon lose respect and attraction for you. Also those kind of girls are usually a BIG pain in the ass and feminists. Note, even if she makes more than you, you can still be the dominant one in the relationship if your frame is strong enough. She can be the boss at work, but when its just the two of you, you show her who is the boss.	/r/askTRP	24/04/17 12:15 PM
9	12 year LTR just ended The relationship is over. Yeah she was fucking this dude. Why she did it, was he better than you or not, for how long it was happening, if the relationship was good until now, doesnt matter anymore. Take what happened as a lesson and improve yourself. She had you by the balls and you accepted too much stuff you shouldnt have. Lift, hit the sidebar, improve yourself before ever considering a LTR again. Hit the market, spin some plates, have some fun. You are free now. Also, you say you are not in…	/r/askMRP	23/04/17 04:25 PM
1	Can looks negate everything else? Can you change your height? No. Can you change your race? No. Focus on stuff you CAN change. Lift, get buff, dress/groom well, learn game, hold frame, be passionate about something, develop new skills, learn new stuff, do outside activities, be social, be fun. Theres a gym instructor at the gym I workout. Hes 5.6" at most, far from handsome. But dude is BUFF. Also he is charismatic, fun, girls fawn all over him, very social. He has a GF who is at least 10 years younger than him with perky tits a…	/r/askTRP	22/04/17 11:46 PM
2	Are these BPDs? Nah, those are just shit tests. They think having other guys wanting to dick her is a display of high value (since the opposite is true, other girls wanting to "steal" her BF from her it would be a SMV increase for the man). GF: "My boss gives me free gifts, blah blah blah" BF: "Cool, maybe you should date him" If BF gives fucks, he loses. Gives zero fucks, wins.	/r/askTRP	22/04/17 10:49 PM
2	How to grow taller at 16? When I was younger a had a cousing that was very short. When he was around 12 he started a treatment to stimulate growth, i think it was with HGH. I believe it also had to do with it had to be done before your "cartillages closed" or something like that, i dont recall because I was young as well. Do some research and see a doctor. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10021470	/r/askTRP	20/04/17 11:24 PM
23	Does it bother anyone else to find out that the girl who made you wait 3-5 dates to have sex has had one night stands in the past? Yeah, because she classified you as beta bucks. Women make exceptions for alphas, rules for betas.	/r/askTRP	20/04/17 02:46 PM
6	Wife read my secret diary and shut down. Am I handling this correctly? "prepare some special defenses for the imminent onslaught" You are still giving too much fucks. You are still afraid of her. Not much you can do other than resuming your daily activities and improving yourself. She will shit test you a LOT to check if you are really changing or its a temporary thing, you just hold frame, A&A, fog, or just STFU and dont let her get into your skin. Remember that you are doing this for you. You do not want to go back to your bitch ways, or do you? It is possible th…	/r/askMRP	20/04/17 12:45 PM
2	Need relationship advice: sex declining, attitude changing. Read that book, you will find the answers you are looking for. You also need "no more mr. nice guy". And from what I read, dude, you are still plugged in. You got a LOT of work to do. Keep in mind that you CANT change her. You can change and improve yourself, and she may follow you or not. Most of her friends being guys is a huge red flag. Her offering her place for some dude to sleep is a huge red flag. The boundaries you spoke of are up to YOU to set.	/r/askTRP	20/04/17 01:37 AM
2	anyone else's gut telling them that the actual blue pill was that men in their 30s with their shit together get laid a lot? Dude why are you making threads about this shit over and over again? Im gonna give you a hint: if you are autistic you are gonna have a hard time meeting people and getting laid. Work on that. Work on improving yourself. Work towards a goal, find a mission, a passion and work towards that. Men that have a strong vision/objective/mission attract people to their frame (including women). Shake off that "I have to get married by the time im 30 or im gonna be forever alone" feeling. Even if you do ma…	/r/askTRP	20/04/17 01:20 AM
2	Running into an ex-plate Uh, you want to bang her? Bang her. You dont want to? Dont. Simple as that. About her choosing to be a feminist / party slut / doing drugs or whatever, those are her life choices and theres nothing you can do to change her. Maybe you can give your opinion and thats it. She is the way she is.	/r/askTRP	18/04/17 05:14 PM
6	Wife with no sex drive Go here /r/askmrp. Read the top posts. Read the sidebar there. Get those two books and read right now: Married Man Sex Life Primer and No More Mr. Nice Guy. Start applying the 12 leves of dread (note: dread doesnt work if you are a fat fuck with no friends and no life): https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ Some small hints: There is no easy fix for this, you have to be willing to put in the work. Your wife has low sex drive FOR YOU, s…	/r/askTRP	18/04/17 04:18 PM
7	When do you let a new girl know? Its up to her to bring this up, dont worry about it. You keep doing what you are doing. If you never agreed upon being exclusive you arent doing anything wrong. Then, when/if she brings up "the talk", its up to you to decide if you want to be exclusive with her or not. If you dont, you just state that. "You are a great person but im not looking for a relationship at this moment, I like things the way they are". Yeah, she may try to shame you, guilt trip you into a LTR, cry, yell etc. You just ho…	/r/askTRP	18/04/17 02:20 AM
1	Girls best friend is her ex Yeah, have your fun, practice. As long as you dont commit to her you are fine.	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 09:14 PM
3	Any Advice for Enforcing Boundaries with Ex Wife? Yeah, talking about it will certainly fix it, like he fixed his marriage by all the "lecturing" he gave her. Still trying to "fix" her after divorce seems like a bad move. Seeing a lawyer to get at least 50/50 custody of the kid seems better.	/r/askMRP	17/04/17 08:44 PM
12	Have you tried dieting to increase testosterone? environmental / shit food we eat nowadays / being couch potatoes genetics take hundreds and hundreds of year to change. The result you got was pretty awesome, congratz on it.	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 06:04 PM
2	Any Advice for Enforcing Boundaries with Ex Wife? Dude, she is your EX. You fucked up by putting yourself into this situation. Why the fuck are you at her place? Why the fuck are you "lecturing" her on whatever? You pick up your kid and leave her at her place, and thats it. Further contact with your ex is only "professional". If she starts proving she cant handle her child, talk to a laywer to get custody of your child.	/r/askMRP	17/04/17 05:02 PM
6	What kind of shit test is this? If im not mistaken some material in the sidebar says that for women the biggest "fear" is not her man getting side pussy, but her losing her provisioning / your resources going to another woman (women?). But this is a path you want to thread carefully. She may feel she is entitled to fuck other men by "allowing" you to bang this chick, or she decides she wants an "open marriage". Then its a bad deal for men. Also you should post this on /r/askmrp	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 03:54 PM
4	EX wants be to release her name from our apartment lease. She wants out, she pays. Crystal clear. Plus she already kept a $2k ring.	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 03:48 PM
1	Feel like a Moron 1) You both are very young. Shes 18, shes still gonna fuck around a LOT. So should you. 2) You got very strong oneitis. You "fix" this by banging other women and stop pedestalizing her. 3) Her endgame concerning YOU is keeping you as her orbiter for validation, favors, free meals and telling you how hurt her ass is from all the pouding Chad gave her yesterday and how he treats her so bad but she cant stop thinking about him. I would suggest you escalate next "date" and try to plate her, but sinc…	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 02:48 PM
2	Am I being Beta by not saying anything and if I do anything is it considered "mateguarding"? She doesnt respect you. He doesnt respect you. You dont respect yourself by accepting this situation. Yes you can do something. Lots of things you can do. Canceling the trip and going home, dumping a disrespectful bitch for example. Dont confront her about this, it will lead nowhere, she will hamster and you will just look weaker in her eyes. She allowed him to do it, so she doesnt respect you. Most likely she will let him fuck her if the situation comes, and "it wont be her fault, it just happe…	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 12:35 PM
1	Female friend shit-tested my ideals. Held frame, but not sure if I did it right? Problem is you care too much about what she thinks. You fucked up by entering her woman logic. You just state your opinions and leave it at that, dont try arguing with women, it will lead you nowhere. Dont try to change her mind, you cant. You dont have to explain her WHY you are in an open relationship, its your life, you are free to make your own choices. Whether she agrees or not with this is not your problem. Who the fuck she is to think she can tell you what to do? "We have an open relation…	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 12:15 PM
3	Broke up with LTR just now but have to live w/ her for 2 more days help?? Thats emotional manipulation so you wont leave her, dont cave. Its a sign that your girl is BPD. Stay the least time possible in your house. She will most likely try to pick up a fight with you, and if she does, no not TOUCH her as she can claim abuse. And dont fuck her anymore. Things you can do: Call her parents all tell them she is threatening to kill herself (its not your problem anymore) / Call the cops if things start escalating. Call the cops on her and she wont ever try to threaten suici…	/r/askTRP	17/04/17 12:00 PM
3	DAE experience Low Sex Drive? 1) Do you fap? If you do, try stopping for a while (a couple months would be good) 2) Is your diet good, healthy? Eating real food? Enough good fats? 8 hours of sleep each night? 3) Check your testosterone / estrogen / prolactin levels	/r/askMRP	15/04/17 01:29 AM
1	Why get married? You´d have to check the laws of where you live, but there are lots of cases os prenups that get voided for reasons like "she was coerced into signing it" or whatever reasons.	/r/askMRP	14/04/17 12:49 PM
1	Why get married? Heheheh I think you got it wrong. I dont want to change your opinion or care if you maintain it or not. I posted FACTS on why marriages are bad for men. If you are looking for white knights to save the world you should try here: /r/TheBluePill/	/r/askMRP	14/04/17 03:54 AM
1	Why get married? Until law changes (if ever), marriages are bad for men. Period. In the great majority of cases its the man that gets screwed in a failed marriage, not the woman. There are plenty of cases of men having to pay child support for kids from previous relationships of the woman he married, yet I have ever to see a case of a woman having to pay child support for kids that arent hers. (Equality huh?) If you want to discuss about "equality" you are in the wrong place. Also you should refrain from making …	/r/askMRP	14/04/17 03:25 AM
1	Why get married? Nah The highest quality man she could land that would be willing to get married	/r/askMRP	14/04/17 02:41 AM
7	Why get married? Ah yeah, i would counsel my daughter to get married and my son to not get married Good deal for women, bad deal for men	/r/askMRP	14/04/17 01:37 AM
4	Why get married? Bad deal for MEN I could say the same for men: any men willing to risk 50% of his assets, having to pay alimony, and all other risks of marriage is either low quality or a fool. High quality men dont need to get married to have his needs met.	/r/askMRP	14/04/17 12:13 AM
9	What are the chances she really had sex with him and cheated on me? Dude, doesnt matter if she only kissed or she got fucked in the ass or whatever. She just showed you she has no respect for you and is a cheating whore. Next, unless you are fine with being a cuck. Not LTR material.	/r/askTRP	13/04/17 09:07 PM
2	Potential plate trying to feminize me You answer a shit test by not adressing it seriously and with a smirk on your face, meaning "I give zero fucks about what you just said". You used logic on your reply, so you failed. What she said affected you, so you failed. " I didn't think my hair made me look like a douche, blah blah blah".	/r/askTRP	13/04/17 09:04 PM
13	Why get married? Marriage is a bad deal for men nowadays. Period. You can live together, have kids, joint income, be monogamous (or not) all while not being married.	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 04:37 PM
2	Girlfriends sexual past. Not LTR material Also you are very young. Not the time to settle down. Keep fucking this girl if you want but dont commit. Invest in yourself, learn new things, do new stuff, improve yourself, lift like a motherfucker, game more girls.	/r/askTRP	13/04/17 02:22 PM
1	Where I am: Request for critical advice Ah yeah, so everytime your wife fucks someone else you just hire a PI, find out where the guy lives and give him "the fear of God" and its all good eh? I bet you snoop on her phone daily or almost daily looking for her next adventure. Sure seems like a good way to live.	/r/askMRP	13/04/17 11:59 AM
1	Trying to convince friend to take the red pill. I´d suggest gifting him a copy of no more mr nice guy / married man sex life primer. Those were big eye openers for me. If he is interested he will read, but you cant make him read. You cant shove the pill on anyones throat. People only change if they are willing to. Then, if he reads and is interested, you can discuss more RP stuff with him.	/r/askMRP	12/04/17 02:23 PM
5	Quick question re "Do I look fat?" or "Do I look tired?" or whatnot... Short answer: she wants attention. If you address it seriously, you screwed up. Tease her. Fuck with her. http://www.finerminds.com/love-relationships/do-these-pants-make-my-ass-look-fat/	/r/askMRP	11/04/17 05:56 PM
7	Confirmed. She's cheating Sure man. You are FREE now. Do what you want with your future, you can make it awesome, its all up to you. You dont need her passwords anymore, stop obsessing about this, for your own sake. You already got the proof you needed, no point anymore. Its over.	/r/askMRP	11/04/17 01:13 PM
2	I think my STR is nexting me, help "she seems to want to keep me on the hook, but she's backing away from a serious time commitment and wants to continue her party lifestyle while having me as a comfort blanket." You are right on this. She wants to be able to party hard, bang Chad, Brad and Jamal and still have you as a comfort blanket as you say. The only response to when a woman wants to break up with you is "Ok. Heres your stuff, theres the door". This girl is plate material, I dont know where you came up with her being a "tra…	/r/askTRP	11/04/17 12:29 PM
4	Confirmed. She's cheating Kudos on you for finding your balls back. Save ALL cheating proof. Dont tell her you know. Act completely normal and serve her the papers. I know you must be angry as fuck at her, but the one you should be really angry is at you. Its not your fault that she is a whore, but it IS your fault that you married a whore and it IS your fault that you got back with her after you knew she cheated.	/r/askMRP	11/04/17 11:48 AM
2	My plate/potential girlfriend is still texting her ex, what should I do? Tell her something along the lines of "You know, my girl doesnt keep in touch with her exes". Just state it. Dont justify it, dont explain, dont rationalize. Then watch her reaction. Dont tell her you looked through her phone. If she lies about it or still keeps in touch with him, she has gained her "nothing more than plate" status forever.	/r/askTRP	10/04/17 06:39 PM
5	LTR asked, "What is your weakness?" "kryptonite" "blondes with big tits" "my calves"	/r/askTRP	10/04/17 06:32 PM
7	Girl tries to put me into orbit, I soft next her, she comes seeking validation I think you did good. Held frame well. She seems like an entitled basic bitch. Yeah your value increased in her eyes. Enough that she wants to fuck you? Hard to know. If you want to give this a last shot, I would suggest setting up a new date/time. Dont mention any of that shit about you ignoring her, resume as if nothing happened, nothing more than "oh I have been busy" if she keeps pushing. (note: not SORRY that i have been busy). Be ready for a barrage of shit tests. "I´ll be at club xxx satu…	/r/askTRP	10/04/17 04:43 PM
2	Where I am: Request for critical advice Well for me the obvious thing is that you are still commited to a cheating whore. Is she adding value to your life? Is she really worth your time, attention, affection? She is low value, and you sticking with her just shows you are as well. She will never fully respect you, knowing she gave you the ultimate shit (cheating) and you are still with her. She knows she can crap on your head and you will still stick around. Sex is infrequent, she doesnt want intimacy, doesnt accept your leadership (an…	/r/askMRP	10/04/17 02:00 PM
1	How do you break up with a plate without her losing her shit? Dont let her guilt trip you into a LTR. I dont really see any screw up, she just seems to be into drama, like all girls. Its up to you to want or not to be exclusive with her. You dont need to justify, explain, rationalize to her why you dont want an exclusive relationship if you dont. You just stated her the facts: "I dont want a relationship right now". Then its up to her to accept this or you split ways. Dont cave.	/r/askTRP	09/04/17 09:30 PM
1	Battling some anxiety and upset Good lord Stop being a faggot for your own sake She wants a divorce? Give it to her. You dont need to explain/justify to her why you want to divorce. You wanting it is enough reason. Think for yourself, for YOUR own reasons, not based on what the others will think, your friends will think, your/her family will you think, do YOU want to divorce her or not?	/r/askMRP	06/04/17 06:14 PM
2	Could use some criticism to turn this shit around I dont know whats your point with this post. But if you stick with this woman just make sure that you are aware that she WILL do it again. You could be brad pitt and she would still be gargling with other men cum from time to time because... well, shes a broken whore, and thats what they do. You are gonna be a cuck for life and you are gonna have msgs from facebook wives saying your wife was fucking their husband. Everytime you see her scrolling facebook, you are gonna wonder if shes sexting som…	/r/askMRP	06/04/17 04:00 AM
1	shit test about your ex! What to say? "Turns out we werent compatible" "We both changed and it wasnt working anymore" "Our life options were too different"	/r/askTRP	05/04/17 07:29 PM
13	Girlfriend cheated - What is the best way to break it up Good option 1: "You cheated. Its over. Heres your stuff, theres the door." Good option 2: "Turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single again. I wish you the best of luck". Bad option: "You are such a whore! Whyyyyyy did you do that to meeeeee?? I dont deserve that! Wasnt I good enough for you? Blah blah blah!" You shouldnt worry about her feeling bad by this, this means you are in her frame. The best "revenge" is you increasing your SMV and she realizing you were quite a catch and she "…	/r/askTRP	05/04/17 07:08 PM
1	Desperate for help with an unfaithful partner Well, its up to you. Are you willing to be together with a person who does what he does? Assume that he WILL do it again and WILL lie about it again. You are going to struggle with that for the rest of your life as long as you are with him. Some people are cheaters, some people lie a lot, you cant change anyone but yourself. People are what they are. The rest you posted is just hamstering and feelz. Also you should post this on /r/RedPillWomen/	/r/askTRP	05/04/17 03:27 PM
1	Plate Theory. All is fair in love and war? Or is it possible to be honest and still keep on spinning? You never commited to any of them right? So you are free to fuck other girls. You dont need to be manipulative, you dont need to play games. If any of them "assumed" you were exclusive for whatever reason, not your problem. Having "the talk" or not its up to them. You just keep doing what you are doing. Then, if/when she does, you decide for your own reasons if you want to commit to any of them or not. If not, you say something along the lines of "You are a great person but im not looking for a …	/r/askTRP	05/04/17 03:11 PM
4	Battling some anxiety and upset You are in your wife´s frame. Time to start being in your own. Your actions are dictated based on what she does. Thats no way to live. You are clingy, insecure, weak. Are you owning your shit? Lifting? Dont you have any friends to hang out with while wifey is away? Outdoor activities, sports, martial art class? Do you have a MAP? What level of dread are you on? What do you want out of your relationship and out of life? If you wife wants to cheat, she will and there is nothing you can do about it…	/r/askMRP	05/04/17 01:18 PM
10	Could use some criticism to turn this shit around You are salvable, if you are willing to put in the work. Your marriage is not. Fix yourself, get your shit together, be the best father you can be for your kid. You married a broken whore and no, you cant fix her or change her. You want to help her? Cut the couple therapy shit and pay her a good therapist and maybe she will fix herself if she is willing to. And you dont have to stay married to her for that.	/r/askMRP	05/04/17 02:25 AM
1	AM I RAMBO??? REALLY??? Dont worry, you are far from red pill rambo. You are on the way to finding your balls back, keep going. Cut the DEERing. You have all the right in the world to play basketball one night per week, you dont have to explain her why, she doesnt have to like it. You wanting to do it is enough reason. Dont forget, you are your own judge and you should be leading your family. And yeah, you shouldnt knock her up again, unless you REALLY want another child (YOU want, not her).	/r/askMRP	05/04/17 01:05 AM
3	Ex-girlfriend keeps contacting me, doing "nice" things after we broke up "I thought maybe we could become FWB because of how forward she was about keeping in contact...but she seems against any attempt to escalate beyond making out. Will tell me no flat out." She wants to keep you as an orbiter, for validation, for her emotional tampon. Yeah maybe she feels guilty, but who cares? Maybe to complain how her current BF fucked her ass so hard that she cant even sit today. Ghost.	/r/askTRP	04/04/17 01:58 AM
7	Trying to not resent my pregnant wife She married a BB that cant even provide, and she has a baby inside her, thats why she is pissed. If you had "ingested the pill" that should be clear for you. Cut the bullshit and get a job. "Blah blah dont trust daycare". Oh well, cant have it all, can she? She can stay at home and take care of the baby if she wants. You get a fucking job. Stop being a weakling.	/r/askMRP	04/04/17 01:33 AM
7	Tips or code-cracking to help with son's shyness? Talk to him about it. Tell him to look people on the eye when talking, to not let what people say/do take him down. Is he being bullied at school? I was when I was little and it chipped away my self worth until i had zero self esteem. It made me always look down when walking, have poor posture, being really shy, thiking people would make fun of me and that I was weird, and stuff like that.	/r/askMRP	03/04/17 03:01 PM
15	Ltr's are hard and the female hamster amazes me sometimes. A tale of shit and comfort tests. This girl sure craves drama. Some girls LIVE for drama, thrive on drama, some require less. Dont cave in. She gives drama, you completely ignore her. Then when she is sane again you resume as if nothing happened. Remain stoic and unnafected by her outbursts. A&A/tease her/ignore when she shit tests. But if shes not worth the hassle, leave. My previous LTR was a drama machine. And beta bitch me always caved. Explained, rationalized, that she shouldnt be like that. Stop playing games, be direct, j…	/r/askTRP	02/04/17 02:58 AM
2	Advice Request: How red is this flag. Well, its really up to you, if its a deal breaker to you and you are gonna dump her anyway if she does it, it would be better to let her know beforehand that if she goes the relationship is over (setting a boundary). Then she is free to go or not. We can see here that OP´s mindset still has to evolve. He is thinking "what does the Red Pill rulebook says about your LTR keeping in touch with her exes, should I allow her or not"? when in reality it should be "I am a high value masculine man. Is thi…	/r/askTRP	31/03/17 02:07 PM
22	Advice Request: How red is this flag. Im going to copy and paste a reply i gave to another topic. Lets say something is a deal-breaker for you in a LTR. For example, your LTR wanting to "keep in touch with her ex". You decided, for your own reasons, that you arent going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her ex. Then your LTR hits you with: H: "Hey, I ran into my ex at the supermarket and he wants to meet me tomorrow at the cofee shop to "catch things up". Y: "Cool, but my girl doesnt keep in touch with her…	/r/askTRP	30/03/17 09:42 PM
3	Is PUA Real? PUA is kinda like TRP but without the self-improvement part. They focus on game only, lack concepts like rock solid frame, IDGAF mentality, being the best version of yourself, being a high quality man. PUA will most likely get the "HB of his dreams", then will think "i dont need to keep playing the game, i got the girl", will get lazy, she will betafy him and the relationship goes to shit, cause he lacks the core principles, if he was a BP bitch he will remain a BP bitch but with game.	/r/askTRP	30/03/17 08:57 PM
1	It's all just one big covert contract Well yeah, if you are doing it because of your wife then its a covert contract. You should be doing it for you. Its up to you to live a happy, fullfilling life on your own terms, with the quality and quantity of sex that you want if you are willing to put in the work, but its not guaranteed that will be with your current wife. Once you ingrain into your head that you cant change/control other people, that your wife is not obligated to desire you/fuck you, and you are not obligated to remain marr…	/r/askMRP	30/03/17 06:20 PM
1	Why does she insist on having MY attention? "Writing this all up, seems to me like they're signs of interest, however any time i'd invite her to drinks with work friends- she'd rather stay home. Or I'll be going to an event, she'll decide not to go, and head to the beach instead.." You are not her first option. Women will travel across the country to fuck a guy she is dying to. And will find excuses to not fuck a guy she doesnt want to. "Only now she comes up to me at work to ask WHY I haven't responded to her messages, I keep myself from…	/r/askTRP	29/03/17 03:29 PM
1	Girl extremely great and submissive in bed, boring and bitchy everywhere else + how to deal with disrespect? You dont need to drop her You dont need to LTR her Use that as an experience. You are young and you are gonna screw up, thats normal. You can keep her as a plate. Sex is good, right? So keep fucking her. If she starts giving you too much shit then you drop her. Keep improving yourself and gaming other girls.	/r/askTRP	29/03/17 03:17 PM
2	We all want sex initially so why does it seem like we naturally disapprove of sluttiness? Well, you didnt wife her up, so you are fine. Shes damaged goods. Wifing up a woman that has had 100s of dicks in her, was "raped" while traveling, fucked up childhood, mom who did drugs, is not a good idea, that would just make you captain save a hoe.	/r/askTRP	29/03/17 01:22 PM
6	Need to break up with my bitchy girlfriend. First thing, decide if you want to break up with her or not. If you want to, thats enough reason. You dont need to give her "excuses", or explain, or justify, or do it because she did something wrong etc. Seems like you already decided, your decision is final. Then just clearly state it to her. "You are a great person but this just isnt working anymore. We are not compatible. I want to be single again. Wish you the best of luck". Yeah, she will bitch, she will cry, she will try to manipulate you…	/r/askTRP	29/03/17 01:09 PM
3	Need some advice on how to respond I second this. You would have to be a fucking strong oak alpha with dark triad skills to "maybe" make this work. You are textbook captain save a hoe. It sucks but she is damaged goods. Its not your fault and you cant fix her, she just is. "That being said, her hamster wheel isn't on the wheel the same way other women's is." You clearly got a long way to go. Keep reading. Keep improving yourself. Keep lifting like your life depends on it.	/r/askMRP	29/03/17 12:06 PM
4	My FIL thinks I'm banging my MIL You are making a problem out of something that is not your problem. Really, you called HIM out for the way he treated HIS wife? Dude. If hes a psychopath / PTSD veteran its his problem. If you want to help him, tell your wife to talk to him about seeing a psychiatrist, and thats it, then its up to him to see one or not. Just ghost the fuck out of your FIL and MIL and get out of that drama. I ghosted some of my ex-LTR relatives for a lot less than that and I was still a BP bitch. When your wife g…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/03/17 12:20 PM
1	How to pass this shit test You pass this shit test just like any others: by not being affected by it / giving zero fucks. Your response "what maybe means" was bad, and her answer just shows she is an entitled cunt. Ghost her for a while. If she wants to see you saturday tell her you made other plans already (and you should make. Start gaming other girls if you arent). And you should write her off as potential LTR, she should be eager to spend time with you, which clearly is not the case.	/r/askTRP	28/03/17 11:57 AM
2	Girlfriend hangs with ex Im going to copy and paste a reply i gave to another topic. Lets say something is a deal-breaker for you in a LTR. For example, your LTR wanting to "keep in touch with her ex". You decided, for your own reasons, that you arent going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her ex. Then your LTR hits you with: H: "Hey, I ran into my ex at the supermarket and he wants to meet me tomorrow at the cofee shop to "catch things up". Y: "Cool, but my girl doesnt keep in touch with her…	/r/askTRP	27/03/17 09:02 PM
2	Petty Behaviour 2.0 Do not fuck her, do not touch her, do not yell at her, do not be with her on a one-on-one situation. All communication via lawyer/email/any method that can be shown as evidence. She WILL try to manipulate you, she knows where your buttons are and will push them, do not cave. Completely professional from now on, no feelz involved. If she starts to go apeshit instantly grab your phone and start recording.	/r/askMRP	27/03/17 06:07 PM
1	Ltr on being cold Thats a shit test. "Fix my feelz. Be a good beta and say nice things to me!" Read about shit tests to learn how to deal with those. Bad way: take it seriously and DEER (defend / explain / excuse / rationalize). "What are you talking about, im always saying nice words, like blah blah blah" Good way: dont take it seriously when she is shit testing you, give less fucks, tease her, use fogging / agree and amplify or just STFU if you dont know what to say. WISNIFG is a must read.	/r/askMRP	27/03/17 05:10 PM
5	Going cold on the second date? Yeah, seems like LMR. Shes a slut but doesnt want you to think shes a slut. Well, its really up to you. Is she worth the hassle or not? My suggestion is: Set up a new date, escalate. If you get shot down, ghost. Three dates with a slut with no sex means shes put you into BB category. Chad would have dicked her at first date.	/r/askTRP	24/03/17 03:14 PM
1	Why do some guys think unicorns are real, have you ever met a unicorn? Unicorns? No. Decent women that are wife material? Yes. But if you turn into a fat slob BP bitch even a unicorn wont be enough. So forget about all this BS and focus on being the best version of yourself. So if you DO intend on having a family and getting married, when a decent wife material girl crosses your path she will be more likely to be attracted to you.	/r/askTRP	24/03/17 03:05 PM
3	Petty Behaviour If your mindset is this then you are never going to walk away. And she knows it. You are worried about what "the others" will think if you divorce her. "The others" have to think its her fault, damn! No matter what happens in a divorce she will talk shit about you to "the others". No matter what happens, it will be YOUR FAULT in her head, and she will tell that to everyone. Even if you divorce her because she cheated on you, it will be your fault because you didnt give her enohgh attention, or b…	/r/askMRP	23/03/17 02:51 PM
14	Frame is under fire - am I going in the right direction? So, not satisfied with a LDR, you chose to have a LDR marriage? So you can be secure with having sex like 2 times in a year? Why? So you can have all the downsides of marriage, like risk losing half your shit, having to provide, paying alimony, 99% chance of getting cucked and all the drama and all that comes with marriage so you can have PHONE SEX and a good dose of daily drama on phone? God. So she spent HALF OF YOUR marriage on her parents house? Why the fuck did you let this happen? A marria…	/r/askMRP	22/03/17 12:12 PM
2	Gentlemen, I need your counsel. "We can talk about this at home if you feel like", then radio silent. Then, act as if everything is normal (and it is). If it concerns her, she will bring it up, then let her vent. Acknowledge her feelz, but dont try to fix them. If its a comfort test and she has been acting good, reward her with your time/attention/affection ("im here for you honey", bear hug, change her mood/make her laugh, etc). Remember that you are not responsible for her feelz. Focus on changing her mood, not her feelz.	/r/askMRP	21/03/17 07:58 PM
3	4yr LTR broke up. Want ring back. You are your own judge. It has to be a fair reason for you, what "the others" think about this should not concern you. The BP bitch is still inside you, work on that. If I were you and I really wanted that ring, I would ask for it back. Not "Hey, I want the ring back because its not fair that blah blah blah". Just "Hey, I want the ring back." If she starts giving you drama for that, leave it alone, think of it as part of the price for "her services".	/r/askTRP	21/03/17 05:19 PM
4	Girlfriend said we're "spending too much time together". I've been in many LTRs and spent just as much or more time with them. This is the first time I have ever encountered this. How should I react? Time, attention, affection. Thats what you have to offer in a LTR. Your GF should be eager to have your time/attention/affection. Seems like your current LTR thinks your time and attention are worth jack shit. Give her her time: forever	/r/askTRP	20/03/17 11:58 PM
14	LTR asked to go to house party... I apparently failed shit test? "So here's what happen. One of my main goals in this relationship is to increase my skill of maintaining frame, be more alpha, etc." Yeah brah, keep lying to yourself. You dont need to commit to a bartender to "increase your skill of maintaing frame and be more alpha". This girl isnt LTR material. Plate material. Do what you want with that piece of information.	/r/askTRP	20/03/17 09:53 PM
15	Wife accused me of having crush on her sister Wow she accused you! Thats so serious! You´d better explain yourself right now! You dont look at her sister that way! Give less fucks man. "Problem with your sister is that birthmark she has just beside her cunt, instant boner killer"	/r/askMRP	20/03/17 08:55 PM
1	I need some advice on SL5x5 Read the link, and make up your own mind. My experience: I was one of the REAL skinny kids. Then, on my early 20´s, my diet of soda + pizza + burguers led me to 170 lbs skinny fat (im 5"11). I have been weight training for 7-8 years now, and today im 205 lbs at 15% BF (clean bulking right now), and I have less fat than I had at 170lbs.	/r/askTRP	20/03/17 06:40 PM
1	I need some advice on SL5x5 Yeah, pulls, chins and dips are great. If your form is shit, cut back the weight. Also, make sure you eat more. You should be 210+ at 6"2. If you cant stomach it, use weight gainer shakes / buy the ingredients and make your own, eat the quantity of calories you are eating now PLUS the shakes. As long as you keep adding weight to the bar, keep eating more, untill you stall and then you begin cutting if you want. Make those beginner gains count, they are great. http://startingstrength.com/article/…	/r/askTRP	20/03/17 06:06 PM
1	LTR giving me a comfort test? "I have no idea what you are talking about" That so hard?	/r/askTRP	20/03/17 05:56 PM
3	Question on frame, STFU, earning the right to complain, and "My girl doesn't..." Lets say something is a deal-breaker for you in a LTR. For example, your LTR wanting to "keep in touch with her ex". You decided, for your own reasons, that you arent going to be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her ex. Then your LTR hits you with: H: "Hey, I ran into my ex at the supermarket and he wants to meet me tomorrow at the cofee shop to "catch things up". Y: "Cool, but my girl doesnt keep in touch with her exes." H: "Why cant I go? Dont you trust me? Hes just a fri…	/r/askMRP	20/03/17 03:45 PM
2	Weakness and vulnerability Depends on how you do it. If you dont act needy / desperated you should probably be fine. Lets say husband was fired, has 2 kids, wife is SAHM. 1) I was fired today! Shit, what are we gonna do? We dont have anything left at the bank, all those bills to pay, mortgage, how are we gonna feed the kids, pay for their school? Finding a decent job is so hard nowadays! We are screwed! I need your help! 2) I was fired today. We have enough savings for at least 12 months, we also have that investment that…	/r/askMRP	20/03/17 12:46 AM
2	Last night backfired, how to proceed? Every girl will be a slut for her man if he is high value (your mindset is still trapped on the "good girl myth" https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/10/good-girls-do/ Big ass covert contract of date night -> sexy times. Trying to negotiate desire and TALK TALK TALK. If you were her Chad she would be eager being on her kness, doing anal or whatever you wanted. How to proceed? Act as if nothing happened, proceed kinoing, being fun and witty, teasing her, you set the mood around the house, do NOT e…	/r/askMRP	17/03/17 02:49 PM
1	Update on my frame RE: parade should have stopped at: M: I'm going to the parade, and I hope that you'll join me.	/r/askMRP	17/03/17 12:24 PM
2	How to get your wife to understand weight-loss? Seems like shes interested in doing it, but doesnt know exactly HOW to do it. Lead. When she brings this up again and asks for your input, do the math for her. "So, based on xxx method, you should eat yyy calories a day for weight loss". Tell her exactly what/when to eat, design her a meal plan, how many calories, what exercises she should be doing, help her set her weight loss goals, bring healthy food and cook it with her, etc. Then, if she still isnt willing to do it, its on her. Remember tha…	/r/askMRP	16/03/17 08:59 PM
1	I need advice on ending awesome relationship. The decision is really up to you. Do you want to marry her and have kids? For your own reasons, not because its what your family, or "the others" expect you to do. You do you. You dont have to justify it to anyone. Decide, and then stick with her, or not. Maybe you are gonna find someone even better than her in the future, maybe not. Maybe she is great wife material, maybe a couple of years from now she decides to break up with you / cheat on you, slut it up and whore around, who knows.	/r/askTRP	16/03/17 12:07 AM
3	How can I work out my other leg muscles while resting my quads? Every doctor will tell him not to lift heavy weights. He should see a sports specialized doctor. As for other exercices that dont focus on quads: Good mornings, deadlifts, anything that is posterior chain dominant.	/r/askTRP	15/03/17 11:58 PM
2	Ltr shuts down the notion of anal First thing, is not having anal is a deal breaker for you? If it is: "Well, im not going to be in a relationship with someone who isnt going to fulfill my needs in bed" (which is the truth). You dont have to and shouldnt force her to to anything, she is not obligated to do anal, and you are not obligated to be in a relationship with someone who doesnt. Its up to you.	/r/askTRP	15/03/17 11:51 PM
4	PMS and Frame Effects Me: "From the moment you got home you haven't said a nice thing to me, it has all been said with a tone. You couldn't even hug me properly." Oh, you poor momma´s boy. Momma hasnt been nice to me! Stop DEERing man. Start giving less fucks. Your frame sucks, work on that. The potato thing is the typical "you always put the dishes in the dishwasher in the wrong way!" and you go "im sorry i´ll stop now! Anything else i can be useful for m´lady?" Cringeworthy.	/r/askMRP	15/03/17 02:35 PM
4	Should I skip starfish sex always? (Sex strategy advice needed) Nah If she finds you attractive / sees you as high value she will want to bang you The rest is just hamstering and excuses	/r/askMRP	15/03/17 12:20 PM
1	What's important in a relationship? I saw your post on deadbedrooms. Im gonna give you the best advice for now: DO NOT KNOCK HER UP. Use a condom and dont rely on her for contraception. DO NOT KNOCK HER UP until you have read the sidebar, manned up, she is fucking you eagerly and frequently and you figured out what you want from your relationship and your life. Dont let anyone make your life decisions for you. Keep in mind that you CANT FIX HER, but you can FIX YOU if you are willing to put in the work required. Not having kids wi…	/r/askMRP	14/03/17 10:36 PM
1	Why are modern men so weak? http://www.returnofkings.com/86495/6-steps-to-becoming-a-good-male-feminist	/r/askTRP	14/03/17 06:44 PM
1	Am i second best? She lives in another country? So this would be a LDR? Bad, bad, bad...	/r/askTRP	14/03/17 06:27 PM
1	Did I just fail a shit test? recent LTR withdrew sex and... You did mostly OK. You did kinda bad when you explained yourself as in "teasing is not nice, because blah blah blah". She knows very well what she is doing. Never explain yourself when she is shit testing you. Never defend, explain, rationalize, excuse when you being shit tested. Just ignore / A&A / give zero fucks. You should just have calmly put your clothes on, act completely unnafected and non-butthurt, "Hey, Im taking you home now" , drop her off and disappear for a couple of days. This way…	/r/askTRP	14/03/17 05:24 PM
2	LTRs pushing hard for cohabitation/"moving the relationship forward" Ok, her goal is to cohabitate and get married. Now, what do YOU want? What is your goal? Do you want to get married and have kids? Think for yourself and for your own reasons if you want this or not, not because its what she wants, or your parents want, or "society" expects you to do. You should only be living together with a woman if you are planning to get married and have kids. Then, if you dont want to, you DONT cohabitate with her. You clearly state that to her. You dont DEER, and you tell …	/r/askTRP	14/03/17 04:32 PM
1	[LTR] Constant emotional support, shit test? Dont be her emotional tampon. "Oh, my little cupcake feels needy? We can talk about this when we are together" Then dont bring this up. Most likely her mood will change and it wont matter to her anymore. If she does bring it up, never try to FIX her feelz or tell her that the way she feelz is wrong. Just acknowldge her feez, as in "I understand that you feel this way", bear hug her , "Im here for you" and continue the day. This of course if she deserves it by being a good/pleasant company, enthu…	/r/askTRP	13/03/17 08:16 PM
1	Those that prefer LTR's - do you have a good checklist for a suitable partner? As long as you dont turn into a beta schlub and always keep improving yourself and maintain yourself as the prize you should be fine. Remember that you can only control you. She might one day decide she wants to hop on the CC / break up with you / become a feminist / cheat on you etc, so you have to always be willing to walk. She seems like a fine lad but dont pedestalize her or things go to shit. Its also common that the woman will not show her "true final form" until she has her commitment sec…	/r/askTRP	13/03/17 06:35 PM
1	What would you do if your girlfriend's friend kept giving her feminist literature to read trying to convert her? Just laugh it off / tease her / a&a if she starts with that kind of bullshit. But in the end you cant control her, you can only control you and your choices. Its her choice to become a feminist or not, and its your choice to be in a relationship with a feminist or not.	/r/askTRP	13/03/17 02:49 AM
1	Please, Tell Me I'm Being Crazy. Please. See, your action is "wait for her to notice" HER FRAME GET OUT	/r/askMRP	10/03/17 08:01 PM
2	Woman I'm seeing mentioned guy 2nd time so far Why do you care? Do you consider upgrading a 38 year old as a LTR? And you are 25? Let her do whatever the hell she wants. Shes most likely just wanting to raise her value. "Theres other guys wanting to dick me, so you should lock me quick or someone else will grab me!"	/r/askTRP	10/03/17 01:50 PM
1	What is the proper way to Red Pill new folk? You are not "red pill" 2 months in We know how you feel. The world just opened before your eyes and you want to spread the word. It doesnt work like that, you are just gonna make enemies I would suggest gifting him a copy of NMMNG and WISNIFG. MMSLP maybe. You cant make him read it, but if he reads and is interested you can discuss more RP stuff with him	/r/askMRP	10/03/17 11:30 AM
2	Nevermind the hours you do for them, not enough flowers then you suck Awwwwnnn mama´s boy got butthurt cause he didnt get her validation? Oh, she doesnt give a crap about your problems, shit you should be owning? Who would have guessed? Did you read any of the sidebar? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/31mtcd/never_sacrifice_a_thing_make_her_sacrifice_for_you/	/r/askMRP	08/03/17 09:44 PM
4	Dealing with Anxiety (Hers) Stop trying to reason her excuses. She is not attracted to you, thats why she doesnt want to fuck you. Sex isnt the problem. The lack of sex shows that something is bad. Fix that and sex will most likely fix itself. Fix you. As you say "I’m an out of shape beta POS". Work on that. Read the sidebar. You cant "fix" her anxiety, but you can bet your ass she will feel a lot less anxious if she knows she has a confident high value masculine man that handles shit by her side.	/r/askMRP	08/03/17 09:27 PM
32	"I'm not one of those easy girls" If you want to bang her, always escalate. Stop listening to what she says. In almost all my tinder dates and my friends the girl always says something like "uh you are the first one im seeing from tinder" "i´ve never went home with someone i just met" "im not that kind of girl" blah blah blah. Just ignore, smirk and keep escalating. If she is wasting your time, ghost. You dont need to explain why.	/r/askTRP	07/03/17 01:45 PM
3	If you make plans with a girl to hang out, should you use the word "date" to clearly state your intentions? Yeah its bad cause it puts pressure. "Im going to the zoo at yy:yy on saturday, would be cool if you tagged along" This way she is not "required" to go, you are gonna have a good time if she goes or not. Shes welcome to join you and have fun.	/r/askTRP	07/03/17 01:06 AM
47	My ex broke up with me on Friday because we argued that men and women can't be just friends Dont argue with women. Dont explain your perspective. Dont rationalize. Dont excuse. Just state it. You already made your mind about it, no point discussing it. Your last question doesnt really matter, what matters is your opinion and decision about it. Y: "My girlfriend doesnt hang out with guy friends." H: "Why cant i hang out with my guy friends? Dont you trust me? Stop controlling me!" Y: "Im not saying you cant. Im just saying that my girlfriend doesnt hang out with guy friends". Thats it. …	/r/askTRP	06/03/17 04:24 PM
1	How to deal with obsesivelly jealous LTR? Hmmm, loses his house in a divorce rape and goes live in with 40+ year old crazy single mom who behaves like a 18 year old. Suggestion for your "friend": dump her, improve himself, lift, gift him a copy of NMMNG / WISNIFG / MMSLP. No, he cant fix the "situation", but he can fix himself and avoid putting himself in a shitty situation like that again.	/r/askMRP	06/03/17 11:22 AM
1	Holding frame in a tough situation. Dude, his family can support him and love him as much as they want. Your daughter being around a potential child molester has nothing to do with that. Do what you think is right to protect your family. If others agree with that or not and may come to resent you its not your problem. Plus you can be sure your wife will respect you more for that.	/r/askMRP	05/03/17 05:54 PM
2	Blowjobs are a "special treat" improve yourself to the point where she thinks "i´d better be sucking his dick on demand or he will find himself someone who does"	/r/askMRP	04/03/17 06:44 PM
1	How to talk to fiancé about shortening vacation ? Man up before considering marrying her, thats the first step.	/r/askMRP	03/03/17 09:31 PM
19	"Are you a fuckboy?" "Amen", thats a good reply.	/r/askTRP	03/03/17 06:44 PM
2	FR: Monkey Wife Fight Let her bring it up, she is the one that has a problem. Next time dont say "LETS talk about it tonight", you are kind of making a commitment to talk about it. You say "We CAN talk about this tonight". Stop anticipating and overthinking about this. Act like everything is good. Keep being fun, light, playful, witty. Dont let her bad mood drag you down, dont enter her "im in a bad mood so you should be too" frame. You said you barely talked to her for 2 days, this way you are just confirming that y…	/r/askMRP	03/03/17 04:13 PM
6	"My boyfriend is really amazing, we're really in love" Stop the mental masturbation. All this shit you mention is useless information and you falling into her game. You want to bang her? Make a move. She will either want it or not. "Im going to club xxx at yy:yy saturday, would be fun if you tag along". She goes, you game her and make a move. If she shots you down, you go game other chicks at the club and ghost her.	/r/askTRP	02/03/17 08:17 PM
1	I'm not THAT interested in getting laid; should I just check out? Stop jacking off and lets see if you still dont want pussy. Well, being single you have a lot more freedom, not having kids/wife to support and worry about and then alimony / child support to pay if/when things go to shit. Wanna switch careers, risk your cash on some crazy idea, be gone for a week or two? Just do it. Wanna go live in another country, be a monk for one year at a buddist temple or something? Cool. Buy a sportcars and drive around for a month or two, banging some sluts along the wa…	/r/askMRP	02/03/17 07:54 PM
3	How do I address when she does something annoying You need to read NMMNG and WISNIFG. Ingrain this in your head: You are NOT responsible for her feelz. You CANT fix her feelz, no matter how tempting it is for you mr white knight to do it. Dont be her emotional tampon via text. "I feel like blah blah" = "Im bored. I feel like blah blah blah and its up to you to fix that, so lets hear some of your suggestions to make me feel better until im entertained enough". Just answer "We can talk about this at home". Let her have her girlfriends as her emot…	/r/askMRP	02/03/17 10:53 AM
0	Her: "What makes you so interesting?" "I have x-ray vision. Hmmm, boobies" Really, just agree & amplify. Its a shit test, so address it like one, dont reply it seriously. She wants you to validate yourself to her, fuck that. She should be the one validating herself to you.	/r/askTRP	02/03/17 01:38 AM
3	Being good in bed: of a woman is a virgin and an alpha RP man typically wants a girl that's good in bed, how can she be a quality woman if she hasn't had sex? "Men like sluts". For plates / one night stands? Sure. For LTR/marriage? No way. What are you looking for, landing a high quality man or being passed around like a joint for years on until you hit the wall and not being able to pair bound with any man anymore? Its up to you to make the decision. You want to land yourself a high quality man? Focus on being a high quality woman. Qualities like being sweet, feminine, pleasant to be around, enthusiastic sex, not an entitled bitch and not a whore. Yo…	/r/askTRP	02/03/17 12:56 AM
2	LTR asking me if she can go to a wild nightparty. Showed her the door. Failed the test? Y: "My girl doesnt go to this kind of parties" M: "But I wont do anything wrong! Just fun! Dont you trust me?" Y: "I didnt say you cant go. But my girl doesnt go to this kind of parties". Then she either goes or she doesnt. She goes, shes no longer your GF. Plate at best.	/r/askTRP	01/03/17 07:05 PM
2	Moving to a new city and main place wants to come Read this: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/ As for the club slut thing, of course you shouldnt settle for a club slut, but you cant think that she is the only girl out there who is wife material (oneitis).	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/03/17 03:15 PM
3	Moving to a new city and main place wants to come This is a decision only you can make for yourself. Do YOU want to marry and have kids soon? Then do it. If not, dont. The only reason you should be moving in with a woman is if you plan on doing those soon. But, if you are doing it because you are "afraid of losing her" then its for the wrong reason. You are still very young (27) and your post reek of oneitis. "She is wife/mother material and im afraid I wont find one like her in the future if i dump her now and might have to end up with some us…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/03/17 02:00 PM
1	Should I stop her, set a trap or ignore? Ah, that too.	/r/askMRP	26/02/17 12:56 AM
3	Should I stop her, set a trap or ignore? My ex all of a sudden lost interest in visting my grandma and some other family members in another city, which she always loved to go and we used to have a good time. A bit later found out she was fucking a coworker. Since she cared deeply for my grandma, MAYBE she would feel bad/guilty being around her, at least thats the conclusion i came to.	/r/askMRP	24/02/17 07:28 PM
1	When she get's jealous and starts asking...[LTR] "She wants to meet you, isnt that weird? She keeps asking if I have a GF" "Oh, shes my other GF." Whatever you say, say it with a grin, not seriously.	/r/askTRP	23/02/17 08:31 PM
1	LTR is a LDR for 2 & 1/2 months and getting more and more frustrating Really, you expect that she will help on your thesis? And you are getting butthurt because she is not giving a fuck about it? Did you read any of the sidebar? Read about covert contracts and female solipsism. Your problems are your problems. Its up to you to own your shit. If you expect a woman / wife that "will be there for you when things get tough" you are gonna have a BAD time. https://therationalmale.com/2015/09/02/solipsism-i/ Other than that, its really up to you to keep this LDR or not. …	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/02/17 01:26 AM
3	Found out gf cheated on me with her ex- any advice for a first time break up? "You are a great person but it turns out we are not compatible. Here´s your stuff, theres the door. Wish you the best of luck." Dont bring up this thing with her ex (she was cheating on you while engaged? wtf did you expect), you sneaking her phone. She will just lie about it / play the victim card / gaslight / how could you go through my messages! Its all your fault! etc. Cut the drama, you dont need that. Make a clean exit. And dont LTR single moms again.	/r/askTRP	23/02/17 12:28 AM
7	Am I only one of your girls? "you got the best tits of them" If you dont want a LTR (Note: its up to you to want it or not) , if / when you get the "what are we" talk, you tell her shes a great girl but you are not looking for a relationship at this moment and you like thinkgs the way they are. Dont defend yourself, dont give excuses, dont explain, dont rationalize. She might cut you off if she really is looking for a LTR, or not. If she sees you as high value she will most likely keep your balls empty. Theres no way to kee…	/r/askTRP	22/02/17 09:11 PM
1	Liar wife equals cheater wife? God Get the fuck out of her frame Stop being unnatractive Yeah, shes giving shitty excuses. Yes, shes gaslighting. Yeah, she might cheat. She might not. Stop listening to the shit she says, its just babble. Stop taking her so seriously. You are so scared she might cheat! What if she does, then your life is over? Oh god, she screwed your life! Its all her fault! If she wants to cheat she will cheat, and you cant stop that. You build an awesome life, be awesome and she should be thankful to be par…	/r/askMRP	22/02/17 05:06 PM
10	Fucked on the first date, now "wants to take it slow" "im a whore, but you seem like a Nice Guy and im tired of being passed around like a joint, so I dont want you to think im a whore"	/r/askTRP	21/02/17 09:38 PM
5	How to plate ex LTR? The response you want to give is bad, you are DEERing (defend/explain/excuse/rationalize). Thats a beta move and is unnatractive. She knows she wasnt drunk when you spent the whole day together. Give less fucks. Keep it light and fun. "Hah, you sure were! I had a good time!" If you want to plate her, invite her to do something, as in "Im going to club xxx at yy:yy tomorrow, would be fun if you joined". Keep banging her if she is willing to, and if/when you get the "what are we" talk you tell her…	/r/askTRP	21/02/17 04:27 PM
1	LTR trap with plate that wants me to be her alpha Its simple. You want to LTR her? She fills your "LTR material" checklist? Do it. You dont want to? Dont do it. But if you are doing it because SHE is insecure, or SHE is forcing you to it, or SHE blah blah blah, then its for the wrong reasons.	/r/askTRP	20/02/17 03:54 PM
5	I think I've been "alpha" widowed, but the female version. No, you just have oneitis for a hot slut. You just lack abundance mentality. Go out there and fuck 10 other women.	/r/askTRP	20/02/17 01:44 PM
1	Potential LTR likes beta-orbiter validation. How should I handle this ? A woman who enjoys attention and validation? Surprise. By your text you are clearly a nice guy. Work on that, you need more masculinity. Sidebar has what you need. Figure what you are looking for in a relationship, whats the best FOR YOU. What you accept and what you dont. You dont "talk to her" about what you accept or not, you decide it for yourself and for your own reasons. My LTR certanly has no guys calling her/texting her that kind of stuff. No, I would not be OK with that. I set that kind…	/r/askMRP	20/02/17 01:39 AM
1	TRP's view on having influence on a child that isn't genetically yours You are hamstering having a LTR with a single mom with a fucked up family (father abused kids). Also, if she is the dominant one the relationship will go to shit. Run man. Run.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 08:18 PM
1	How do you deal with plates that are touchy with other guys? You mentally check "not LTR material"	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 08:15 PM
3	MY possible Blue Pill Existence. Please Help. Lift, eat healthy Read the sidebar Improve yourself Be the best version of yourself you can be Thats it. Stop overthinking shit. Yeah society is shit nowadays. Yeah feminism sucks. It will only "torture" you if you let yourself be affected by it. Can you stop feminism? No, so ignore it. Life is not fair, get over it. Focus on what you can change (you), forget about what you cant change. Get stronger, get better, improve yourself and your life is gonna be better. Stop making your life about women…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 06:23 PM
2	Passive aggression and soft nexting Thats not passive aggressive. Thats a power play. You show her, via action (ghosting her), that you wont put up with her shit. When she acts shitty you wont be there, since your time is too valuable to be spent with some entitled unpleasant bitch. Since women crave attention and drama, her hamster goes wild and she becomes more attracted to you. "Why isnt he replying me?" "Is she seeing that bitch from HR?" "Maybe he doesnt like me?" In any kind of relatinship/contract, theres always one side th…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 04:24 PM
2	A Woman Just got me Fired For Starving her of My Attention One of my goals is to be as independent as possible in every aspect of my life, so shitty people´s shitty decisions and problems wont affect me. Like, being an independent professional/being your own boss. Or, if you want to remain as an employee keep always improving yourself profissionally, doing courses, learning new skills, keeping in touch with potential employers, saving money for harsh times, etc. so if your job gets shitty you leave and get a better job (just like if you are with a woman…	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 03:38 PM
1	How to not turn a little beta in an LTR? Its all about holding frame. If your frame is untouchable, nothing a woman says/do/thinks will affect and change you. Read Married Man Sex Life Primer, its a must for any man wanting a healthy LTR.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 03:30 PM
3	How to handle a girl who's fuck the whole crew? Hoes gonna hoe. If not with you, with others. Not your problem.	/r/askTRP	17/02/17 03:27 PM
7	failing comfort tests? Hold her tight "There there, i am here, everything will be alright" Kiss on the forehead Dont forget to reward her with your time and attention her when shes acting good. If she really feels the way she said, your time and attention have high value for her.	/r/askTRP	16/02/17 08:26 PM
2	ltr doesn't want to introduce me to her new group of "friends". Red flag? Ok man First thing, you dont deserve anything, you dont have the "right" for anything from her. As a man, its up to you to go after what you want. "But but but, i treat her so well, so I deserve this or that!" No, you are wrong. You dont. Think for yourself: is this behaviour you expect from a GF of yours or not? Your GF going out with some guys, not introducing you to friends, etc? If you are not OK with that and still want to see where things are going with this girl, you STATE to her: "Im not…	/r/askTRP	16/02/17 01:45 PM
3	Can trust ever be regained? See? All it matters is you. YOUR feelings. YOU are hurt, even though you are the one who screwed up. YOU feel bad. What about him? His feelings doesnt matter. Now look the post of a beta: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5u71gs/absolute_omega_newly_redpilled_realized_that_my/ Its all about this GF. She she she she, her her her her her. Oh god, what is he gonna do if he "loses" her? After all, she is THE ONE! He is some fucked up dude whose GF is BPD and suicidal. You know whats gonna hap…	/r/askTRP	15/02/17 02:35 PM
3	Can trust ever be regained? she showed her tits to some guy on snapchat, he made sexual comments, she invited him to come over to her house lol Yeah the guy did the right thing: dumped her ass. As for the post question: no I would not take back a girl that did what you did. Having cheated or not. Only manginas and beta would, which seems not to be this guys case.	/r/askTRP	15/02/17 01:54 PM
2	Control and manipulation successful troll is successful	/r/askMRP	15/02/17 01:22 PM
2	How to hold frame with shit test from wife that causes major disturbance in everyday life? A woman who wants drama and attention? Who would guess? Oh you end up having to "bargain" with her, thats your only option huh? Poor victim you are, nothing you can do here eh? Beg her a lot, explain why you have to sleep to get up early and go to work, im sure she will understand and respect you completely. Talk talk and talk more.	/r/askMRP	14/02/17 12:58 PM
2	Update to my me going on lunch during work lunch break with a female colleague k imagine you have a 5 year old daughter You took her to the beach. You accidentally stepped on her sand castle she had been building for hours she gets all pissed, throws a tantrum, writes a note "i hate you" and leaves on your laptop what would you do?	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/02/17 12:01 AM
1	How have you men dealt with seeing a family member get married with a red pill lens? Gift him a copy of married man sex life primer and no more mr nice guy. You cant make him read, but if he does and is interested, discuss it with him.	/r/askTRP	13/02/17 07:18 PM
2	Do you guys set rules with your plates that want an LTR, or do you find somebody that is already LTR material? You cant "make" some girl LTR material. She is, or she isnt. Just watch her actions. Watch for green and red flags. There are plenty of posts about green and red flags on TRP. Read and then figure out for yourself what you expect and what you dont from a GF, and watch her actions.	/r/askTRP	13/02/17 02:35 PM
3	Got my gf to admit she has cheated on x-husband, should I continue to date her or move on? First thing, you are LTRing a divorced woman when theres plenty out there that never married. Hope shes not a single mom and post wall. Second thing, she broke her marriage vow by sitting on anothers man dick. Yeah very bad, and she will most likely do the same to you. Those two things would be enough reason for me to never upgrade a woman to LTR. But its your life, so up to you. A good question you could make her is why she cheated. If she doesnt take full responsability for it, saying she scre…	/r/askTRP	10/02/17 08:58 PM
2	Is ghosting acceptable? Yeah. Kissed his cock man. Look, you are hamstering reasons to stay with a cheater. She just showed you she is not ltr material. She broke your trust. Now there you are worried checking her phone. If you had abundance mentality and outcome independence you would dump her ass. And now you are scared to dump her. Grow a pair man. Dont need to ghost her. "Look, you are a great person but it turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single again. Wish you the best of luck". Dont tell her is beca…	/r/askTRP	10/02/17 03:59 PM
5	LTR and male friend why the hell is your GF meeting new "male friends" via text? Is this behaviour you expect from a GF of yours? Shes probably a validation/attention whore. Yeah, shes testing if you are a bitch who will put up with this kind of shit.	/r/askTRP	09/02/17 11:41 PM
3	Do you guys even miss your LTR/Wife when you're apart? How do you deal with LTR neediness? hahahah what a load of crap "Women generally need to feel emotionally connected to their husbands first, and then the desire for sex grows out of that connection" "Remember the adage, "happy wife, happy life." The simplest way to keep your wife happy is to make your marriage a safe place for her to be. Talk with her, know what she likes and what makes her tick. Connect with her emotionally, and you may be surprised how quickly your love life improves." Weird, isnt it all about "equality"? Why do…	/r/askMRP	09/02/17 02:19 PM
2	Went on lunch with female work colleague, LTR is fuming You feel like you have to explain yourself to internet guys. I can only imagine the amount of defending/explaning/excusing//rationalizing you do to your wife. This only shows you have a lot to improve. Read NMMNG/WISNIFG/MMSLP. No, dont bring this up anymore. She gives you the silent treatment? You remain completely unnafected. Tease her ("come on honey! It was just a BJ, she doesnt even swallow!", be funny and witty, be cocky, let her fume while you work on your projects or do whatever you want…	/r/askMRP	08/02/17 07:38 PM
4	How to swallow the "people cheat" pill? Figure out what is your mission and what are your objectives in life. Set goals and pursue them. Self improvement is great. Focus on you. Work towards something. Hint: mission/objectives/goals involve YOU. "I want to be always there for my kid" "I want to do a MBA to improve my career" "I want to improve my squat/bench/deadlift by xx% / "I want to gain x kgs of muscle and lose x kg of fat" "I want to make new friends and new outside hobbies" "I want to improve my bicycle ridings skills" "I will …	/r/askMRP	07/02/17 03:01 PM
2	catching up with an ex "as friends" Theres a reason in TRP we preach "no contact with exes". Weaklings like you cant handle. Shes trying to string you along and you are falling for it. Shes getting attention and validation from you, which she craves. Dont even try to plate her, she will fuck you up. Tell her you are busy and ghost her.	/r/askTRP	03/02/17 01:16 PM
3	When even your in-laws s-test you. "Well, do whatever you want! I am not going to defend you because I am not your mom!!" Shes right. Well, you are living with them. Its their rules. They see you like a loser husband that their daughter married and cant even support his own family. Like you said, get a job and get a place for you. Dont let shit they say affect you. You respond logically to a shit test and let it affect you, so you fail. Zero fucks. Laugh it off. Why do you care so much about what they think about you? Your value …	/r/askMRP	03/02/17 12:45 PM
6	Know it all wife and unfortunately losing frame Ohhhhhhhhhh did she hurt your fee feeeeessss? How dare she disrespect you? She she she her her her	/r/askMRP	02/02/17 08:50 PM
0	Hook, line & sinker Dude, you want to bang her? Bang her. Dont want to bang her? Dont. Then own it. Cut the drama. Just remember, she may fuck your image at your job, she may destroy your marriage, her BF may come after you and cut your penis off. Or not.	/r/askMRP	31/01/17 08:48 PM
1	LTR wants to go on holiday alone. Any advice? Yeah, those are signs your LTR is going south. And its been less than a year, so expect things to get worse. Heres what you should do: decide for yourself and for your own reasons if you are fine with her going on a vacation by herself or not. No one can make this decision for you, its up to you. If you are not fine with that, you clearly state it to her. "Im not going to be in a relationship with someone who goes on vacations by herself". You dont explain why, you dont defend yourself, you dont…	/r/askTRP	31/01/17 07:32 AM
5	Wife want a boobs job, shit test? did I handled it well? Man. Get the fuck out of her frame. She is right. Its her body, she is free to do whatever the fuck she wants with it. She is free to make her own decisions, and so are you. Read when i say no i feel guilty, shes trying to manipulate you, and you, being the nice guy you are, are falling for it. What you have to do is decide, for yourself and your own reasons, is: Are you fine having a wife with a boob job, or not? If not, you simply state you wont be in a relationship with a woman that gets a bo…	/r/askTRP	30/01/17 05:55 PM
1	Too much alpha in LTR. Behaved like a dick. Was preparing to 'apologize' when I came over. Didn't have to because she was dressed up and ready to fuck me 'You're not my father. Stop fucking telling me what to do' Shit test, disrespectful. 'I didn't go out with my friends yesterday for us, you know that right?' Trying to make you feel guilty, manipulative. Most of those are shit tests and her trying to manipulate/guilt trip you. As long as you pass shit tests/dont let her manipulate you, you should be fine. As you pointed, she is fucking you eagerly, going out of her way to please you, etc. She seems to have some feminism/equality BS ingrained in …	/r/askTRP	30/01/17 05:28 PM
1	Why bother? yeah At the very least she sent him nudes with something stuck up her pussy/ass. If you stay with her she will respect you less than she does now. Yeah, it sucks. As the others pointed, think for yourself: what if you werent married to her, would you accept this? Treat this as a business that gone bad. What would you do? Cry on and on and on about how all business suck and Trump is a capitalist pig and all business are doomed to fail and the world is so unfair, or you cut losses and start a new …	/r/askMRP	30/01/17 02:03 PM
1	FR - Main event & on my way out Any red flags you noticed before marriage?	/r/askMRP	30/01/17 11:58 AM
7	Crossing boundaries Imagine a mom with her kid is at walmart. The kid is being a complete brat, bouncing around, running around, touching things, dropping stuff on the ground, etc. Mom gets angry and mad, shouts at him, he keeps doing it. Tries to negotiate with him "Stop doing this and you can have some candy", he has the candy but doesnt stop doing it. She then tries to reason "Why are you doing this to mommy? Mommy gets very upset when you do this. Do you like to see mom sad? If you loved mommy you wouldnt do it…	/r/askMRP	28/01/17 12:52 PM
6	I'm always feeling jealous from my GF's past experiences 20 dudes is what she told you, so prob a lot more. Not LTR material, this kind of girl will never be satisfied with only one cock for the rest of her life. Be thankful that you followed your gut.	/r/askTRP	27/01/17 05:31 PM
2	Learning to un-fag "Can you be like a gentleman"? "Sure m´lady!" And caveman the shit out of her. Look, you are still deep into her frame. Stop taking her so seriously. You are still afraid of her emotions, afraid to "lose her". Until you ingrain in your brain that you are the prize (and work towards that), and you have really interntalized abundance mentality and outcome indepedence, you will struggle a lot. Give less fucks. She gets moody, shit tests you? Laugh it off, slap her ass, tease her, A&A, always with a…	/r/askMRP	26/01/17 08:19 PM
1	Low T and lifting question Lifting will give you some test boost, but will not make a miracle. Your test is pretty low for your age, maybe you should consider TRT. If you go the TRT route, get the BEST doctor you can get, if you screw with your hormones, depending on what you do, theres no going back. And research a lot before doing it. Read books, good articles. Clomid is a nice help for now. Some things other than TRT to check: Check your vitamin D levels. Make sure its way above 30 ng/ml. If you supplement with vitamin…	/r/askMRP	26/01/17 06:01 PM
2	"March" Inspired Nuclear Shit Test Your response wasnt bad, but your frame sucks. You are caring too much about what she thinks. You are being 100% logical with an emotional woman. Give less fucks, STFU or A&A when she is bitching, decrease attention/affection/time when she is acting like a bitch. Reward her with dinners, attention and your presence when she deserves it. The problem here is that she doesnt respect you, hence the bitchiness and the "you should tolerate my bitchness because I fuck you". She doesnt see you as a high…	/r/askMRP	26/01/17 10:51 AM
2	Passed a shit test yesterday...sex today. Coincidence? Wow so you gave her the silent treatment! You sure showed her whos the man! Make sure that when she asks you "whats wrong honey?" you scream "NOTHING!" and stomp to your room!	/r/askMRP	24/01/17 08:31 PM
1	Lost too much muscle on my cut? 154 lbs at your height is skinny. IMO you should bulk to at least 180-190lbs and then cut. Also get your test checked. On cuts you should be consuming a ton of protein and lift heavy to signal your body not to waste muscle. You should read starting strength and mark rippetoe blog/articles. http://startingstrength.com/article/maybe-you-should-gain-weight	/r/askMRP	23/01/17 04:53 PM
4	Wife won't have sex bc of election This shows your marriage is not as solid as you think. Its like the guys who says "we have a great marriage, but we havent had sex in 2 years". Stop trying to make her agree to whatever, "make her see this or that", or to change her mind. State to her, in a calm and firm tone, that she either stops this nonsense or you are bringing in the divorce papers. And if she doesnt stop, bring them in.	/r/askMRP	23/01/17 04:42 PM
7	Do I need to verbalize a break up with my long term girlfriend? blah, blah, blah. Why are you comitting to a woman that fucks other guys? That is now long distance? What you expect? She´ll call you "Hey hows it going? Chad hurted my ass so much yesterday i can barely sit today. And today im gonna see Jamal, he is known for his big black cock! What should i doooo?" Dont be a chump man. Have her as a plate or whatever, but dont commit. Why wait 2 months or whatever to end it? Call her. "This is not working anymore. I want to be single again. Thanks for the goo…	/r/askTRP	23/01/17 01:44 PM
4	Dread without looking butthurt 1) Thats a covert contract. You expect her to do something she doesnt even know you want her to do and you get butthurt when she doesnt. Read NMMNG. 2) Dont engage via text. "We´ll talk when we get home". As for not being butthurt, what you have to do is have abundance mentality, outcome independence and give zero fucks. Work on yourself, on your projects, on your MAP. If you truly believe you can replace her in a heartbeat because you are the shit, you wouldnt worry so much about that stuff. If…	/r/askMRP	23/01/17 11:48 AM
4	Wife overtly communicates lack of attraction. What should I do? Sex went down AT the honeymoon? Thats bad. Seems like she settled for you. Did she ride the CC hard? CC riders will hardly be satisfied with only one cock for the rest of their lives. So, you got her "commitment to work on it for the next 6 months"? Did you really understand the material? There is no such thing as "working on the relationship". Thats BP bullshit. What do you want her to do? Tell her she is your wife and she should be enthusiastic to fuck you, maybe show her your marriage papers …	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/01/17 03:33 AM
2	Red Pill Married 20 years to button pushing low self esteem wife Lol man No one gives a fuck about your sacrifices. Especially a bunch of internet guys you dont even know. Your friends, your family, your wife? They dont give a fuck about it as well. Its expected as "your job as a man" to make sacrifices. What matters is the value you have to offer RIGHT NOW. Kill your ego. And the fact that you feel the urge to explain yourself to a bunch of internet guys shows you are far from being the super alpha guy you think you are. Sidebar, lift, own your shit and leav…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/01/17 03:15 PM
1	How do I make sure a plate knows she's a plate? If you didnt have "the talk" then you are not commited to any of them. If a girl thinks she is your GF when you have never agreed to, well, its her problem. You dont have to worry about that. If you read any of RP theory, you would know that its up to her to bring up "the talk". Then you decide for your own reasons if you want to commit to her or not. If you dont, you say something along the lines of "you are a great person, but im not looking for a relationship in this moment". Then she is free…	/r/askTRP	17/01/17 11:12 PM
3	Alpha → Cuck → Alpha? This is fucked up man. This relationship is fucked up. But ts really up to you to accept this or not. Are you fine with being a cuck or not? If not, you walk. Theres is a very high chance she will be screwing behind your back. You are better off starting fresh again if you want a "normal" relationship. Look, if you have the fantasy of big cock guys banging chicks, get some plates and call them up when you wanna watch them get ravaged by big black cocks. But you dont need to commit to the whore. …	/r/askTRP	09/01/17 11:12 PM
1	My Girlfriend (LTR) is becoming distant and cold...dread? You are too young to be worried about this. Worry about exploring life, meet people, improve yourself, learn new things, learn how to lift and eat right, read books, game chicks. If you are afraid to lose her, your relationship is already doomed, she should be the one afraid of losing you if anything. Seems like her SMV is higher than yours, dread wont work when its like that. Seems like shes not into you anymore. Bitches love attention and wuv wuv, if shes not getting it from you, she is gettin…	/r/askTRP	09/01/17 11:04 PM
0	Question about flirting and initiating Good. Give it time, it takes time. Keep working on yourself and keep yourself busy, really busy. Its good that she sees you as easygoing, thats how it should be. Just please dont explain that its because you are now a red pill man and have been reading books about how to be a man. Hard no? Kiss on the forehead, "maybe later babe", zero butthurt and go work on your projects/lift, you should be busy. Remember, you are doing this for you, and, if after some time, after you have been improving yours…	/r/askMRP	09/01/17 06:34 PM
1	Question about flirting and initiating Your response is bad, you DEERed (you explained your actions). You got serious when you should have been light, fun and witty. Also, if she finds you unnatractive, the "I wanna fuck your tits" is gonna be creepy as fuck. Be playfull and witty, be fun, be attractive, tease her, dont be serious when she tests you/shoots you down. You dont say what you have been doing to improve yourself, if you are working on your MAP, if you have been lifting, owning your shit, having hobbies outside of the house…	/r/askMRP	09/01/17 05:46 PM
1	"Thank you friend" shit test You are only friendzoned if you allow yourself to. She is not required to fuck you, only if she is willing to, and you are not required to be her doormat/emotional tampon, only if you are willing to. Yeah it was a shit test, and you came off butthurt. Next time just ignore/AA. "Yeah, friend with benefits!" "You know, girlfriends get to see each other tits!" "Im gonna be your girlfriend, but you should be aware that im a lesbian." Ignore her babble, stop being her emotional tampon via text, set a…	/r/askTRP	09/01/17 03:18 PM
1	Recently Unplugged & Questioning my Entire Marriage (x-post from /r/AskTRP Seems like a classic case of nice guy marrying a cluster b chick. http://www.nicolamethodforhighconflict.com/women-traits-bpd-men-stay/ You case wasnt even the alpha that got betafied, you were the beta in shining armor from the beginning. She even straight told you she wasnt that into you, but hey, you seemed like a safe guy who would never leave her, so she settled for you. She did some effort to keep you around until you put the ring on her finger, and now that she knows you arent going anywh…	/r/askMRP	08/01/17 01:18 PM
2	Wife with questions Provided you are not a troll: 1) Check /r/RedPillWomen/ 2) Anti depressants can screw libido / general will to do stuff 3) I dont know if he fought any real combat / killed people / saw people die, but if he did, this can really fuck a mans mind up. While he was in the army, he had all that "ideology" surrouding him, living it day by day, being reinforced daily, and now that hes retired its all gone, and he may be questioning himself "oh god what have I done!" If this is the case, what MAYBE cou…	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 02:50 PM
2	Boundry question Did she allow you to post here? Do you know what DEER is? Do you know you should be leading? Did you read NMMNG, WISNIFG and MMSLP? Do you know what frame is? Why you are totally into her frame? Do you even lift? A good starting point would be to stop popping kids into her, maybe its good you are not getting laid.	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 01:34 AM
3	Don't want to be a social retard anymore. Need help. amazon kindle store	/r/askMRP	03/01/17 10:33 AM
5	Don't want to be a social retard anymore. Need help. Yes you are in the right place, if you are willing to put in the work. Theres no easy answer and easy fix. You need to read the sidebar. My suggestion is: start with no more mr nice guy, when i say no i feel guilty and married man sex life primer. Short answer: you need to man up. Your response "help her find one guy like that" was good by the way, extra point if you did it with a smirk on your face. You have to improve yourself. You probably care too much about what other people think of you, s…	/r/askMRP	03/01/17 10:21 AM
13	Guy's GF wants to go on holiday vacations with another guy; BF blows up Quora Related QuestionsMore Answers Below My new girlfriend is going on holiday with her female friend and 2 male friends. She doesn't know that I know that the 2 boys are going also. ... Is it OK for my girlfriend to sleep in a bed with her male friend? Why does my girlfriend hangout with her male friends for movies and dinner as couple? My girlfriend told me that she is going to meet her ex-boyfriend in a hotel room for 2 nights and 1 day to end everything between them and she... My 3-month girlfrie…	/r/askTRP	03/01/17 09:43 AM
8	Need advice on LTR assaulting me hahahahahah now set a boundary for spitting man then a boundary for throwing hot coffee at your face then throwing stuff at your face You already set the boundary and she broke it. The part you got right is "a psycho bitch is a psycho bitch". You either accept that she is one and will continue to be or you move on. Bad part is that if you accept that she will just respect you less.	/r/askMRP	03/01/17 09:01 AM
0	Unsure if I fucked up? Dont bring this up, it will just make you look weak and she will lie/trickle truth if something did happen. If you are looking to marry this girl I would suggest looking/keylogging her phone, or just leave for good if you cant trust her for whatever reason. Seems like you are too much into her frame. If you really thought you were the prize you would just laugh at the situation and mentally lower her "marriage material" score. Remember you are not married to her, all it takes for you to walk is …	/r/askMRP	03/01/17 12:02 AM
2	My wife got a little out of hand at our New Years Eve party So you are a cuck and scared of whats gonna happen when you confront her about her breaking your agreement when you have VIDEO proof of it? Assuming you are not a troll: "You fucked other guys without my consentment, thats not what we agreed to." I really dont get what you get by marrying a woman that openly fucks other guys. Make her a plate or something like that. Call her up when you wanna masturbate to her getting assfucked by big black cocks and be done with it. Why are you gonna risk half …	/r/askMRP	02/01/17 11:48 PM
6	FR I fucked up again yeah, because your case is so special, so leaving the house wont work for you right? You are such a special snowflake and so is your wife. You dont even need the sidebar man, its not for your special case. If her locking the door bothers you that fucking much, leave the house and when you come back calmly inform her that "if you ever lock me out of my room im gonna divorce ur ass".	/r/askMRP	02/01/17 04:23 PM
3	[request] LTR shit tests When you have improved yourself to the point that you know you can get better/younger/hotter women than your GF, ingrained what is abundance mentality, DNGAF mentality and that YOU are the prize, whatever shit she says /does wont affect you, because you know you are the shit and you are always willing to walk. So you will just laugh at her/AA when she tries to test you.	/r/askMRP	29/12/16 01:52 PM
1	FR: Wife accused me of something I didn't do, how to hold frame in those cases? You need to read when i say no i feel guilty right now. Just stick to your point. "I left the tablet here last night" "But its not there anymore. Blah blah blah, you put it somewhere else" "No, i left the tablet here last night" "Im so angry at you right now, its your fault blah blah blah blah" "I understand the way you feel, but i left the tablet here last night" Dont get upset, dont get butthurt, dont scream, dont DEER. Always state what you want to say in a firm and calm tone, and go on with …	/r/askMRP	29/12/16 11:29 AM
3	Just waking up. Critical shit test in progress. Need help. Yeah man, you fucked up a lot. Really, you were OK with your wife going out on her own? Road trips? I really doubt she didnt get dicked any of those times. Start lifting right now, quit the fucking pot, start owning you shit and man up. Start making the decisions and leading, dont be afraid of her or of what she does. For your own sake, not for her. Keep reading the materials. Anyway, about NYE, my suggestion is, tell her: "Im going to [travel to some place fun/fun activity] with the kids, you s…	/r/askMRP	29/12/16 10:58 AM
2	My GF visited her ex's house. How should I handle this? First, decide if you are OK with her going to his house or not. If not, you state: "I wont be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her ex". You dont explain why, you dont rationalize, you dont defend, you just STATE it. She may call you an asshole, controlling, you dont trust me, blah blah blah. You hold your point. "I understand the way you feel, but I wont be in a relationship with someone who keeps in touch with her ex". You cant stop her from going, but if she goes, she is …	/r/askTRP	28/12/16 09:03 PM
1	Family issues guidance My family wants this, they are religious, they say that, think that, my LTR wants this, we are happy together, blah blah blah. You really seem like a BB and captain save a hoe. You still havent said what do YOU want? What benefit will you get from marrying her? Do you want kids? Do you see her as a good candidate for the mother of your kids? Are you owning your shit? Lifting heavy, hobbies outside of the house, male friends, killing at your job? Hows your game? Do you want to marry and have kids…	/r/askMRP	27/12/16 09:20 PM
3	Girlfriend shows negative emotions in a negative way What she wants is attention. You should give her attention only when she deserves, by being a good gf, pleasant company, respectful, enthusiastic sex, etc. When she is acting like a irrational bitch, remove yourself from her presence, unnafected. Tell her in a calm and firm tone "we will talk when you arent acting like a 5 year old" and get out of the house. Depending on what she did, be gone for a day or two, turn off your cell, and then resume the relationship like nothing happened, dont bring…	/r/askTRP	25/12/16 12:56 PM
5	Odd change in behaviour I´d say she wants to hamster that her cheating is OK if you are too. Most people here are against it, but i would keylog her. I´ve actually HEARD this from some female intern where i work, basically saying that her cheating on her BF is ok, because if she ever found out that her BF cheated on her she would forgive him, so its all good. If I were you and didnt have kids, would be walk time.	/r/askMRP	23/12/16 02:21 PM
3	Eventually all women show their true colors - My Story 1) You played nice to get into her pants 2) Shes not obligated to be attracted to or fuck you. Yeah she gave some lame excuse because she knows you are a weakling and didnt want to hurt your fee fees. Also you were not obligated to be her doormat, but you chose to. 3) It was never your turn. She fucked Chad because he is attractive, and you are not. Become attractive. Chad was straightforward, didnt play games, didnt play nice to get into her pants. He just went for it because he felt like doing…	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/16 05:04 PM
1	Whats the SMP like for a mixed race person? Why do you care about that? Can you change your race? Focus on what you can control.	/r/askTRP	22/12/16 04:33 PM
3	Wife calling me out on not OYS. How to handle? Her: "You didnt handle xxxxx as you should!" Him: "I started it, but I couldnt finish it, because of im so stressed out from work, and xxxx happened, and its also your fault, because you didnt yyyyyy, blah blah" vs Him: "Yeah, I could have handled that better, couldnt I?" And of course, op needs to start owning his shit. Not TELL HER he will own and fix shit, just start doing what he knows he has to. No "look look mommy, im driving!". Just start driving.	/r/askMRP	22/12/16 09:46 AM
1	How to deal with sjws everywhere Just dont engage man. They are free to think as they like and so are you. You dont need to convince, explain yourself, justify yourself to anyone.	/r/askTRP	22/12/16 12:24 AM
3	Ex girlfriend dumped me, slept with someone else, then attempted suicide Nothing you can do but get away from this shitfest. Tell her parents she should see a doctor. If she contacts you, tell her she should see a doctor and block her on everything. You cant fix her.	/r/askTRP	21/12/16 12:48 PM
1	"Why do you do that?" "Im on a quest to find myself" with a smirk whatever you say, dont take it seriously, its a shit test.	/r/askTRP	21/12/16 10:44 AM
1	Gf has guy friend who crossed boundaries Doesnt matter. Decide if you are fine with that or not. If not, "I wont be in a relationship with someone who xxxxxx"	/r/askTRP	20/12/16 07:30 PM
5	Gf has guy friend who crossed boundaries Lol man, Shes dreading you and you are falling for it. "Look at how high value I am, theres other guys wanting to fuck me! You´d better value me!" If she wants to fuck him she will and theres nothing you can do to stop that. And if she does fuck him, sooner or later you will find out, dump her and upgrade to a younger/hotter/higher quality woman (provided you are putting in the work on improving yourself of course, that you should be anyway). Are you the prize or not? Dont meet him, you should h…	/r/askTRP	20/12/16 06:37 PM
3	Dead bedroom Until you quit thinking you "deserve this because you did xxx" you are fucked my man. You dont deserve anything, its up to you to GET what you want. Read the sidebar. And get out of her frame. No, you cant make her "see" things. You do you. What you can do is improve yourself, put in the work, read the sidebar and man up. MMSLP is a must read for you.	/r/askMRP	20/12/16 02:18 PM
2	Why do I feel down when a guy that's not my friend tells me what to do in front of girls? You feel bad because you are getting AMOGGed Means he is the dominating one and you are the submissive, he wants to show he is "stronger" than you. What you do when this happens? Completely ignore, make fun of it, agree and amplify, flip the script. Anything but taking it seriously, getting butthurt or doing what he said. Be unnafected.	/r/askTRP	20/12/16 01:15 PM
1	Muscle loss after injury? Muscle memory Google it	/r/askTRP	20/12/16 01:04 PM
3	DREAD: Chance to talk to my ex with my current gf nearby. Should I do it? If your "main purpose" is showing some girl this thing or another thing you are doing it all wrong. This means you are in her frame. Do what you want to do. Feel like talking to your ex? Go ahead. Dont feel like it? Dont do it. But dont stop doing it because you are scared of what your GF will think or do.	/r/askTRP	20/12/16 11:27 AM
2	TRP wont work on her. Dayuummm isnt Jane some special snowflake! Propose to her NOW man, what are you waiting for!!!!!! Your well written quality post proves that NAWALT! Damn, everyone here is so wrong!	/r/askTRP	19/12/16 09:43 PM
3	My 30 day plan You can talk to her. Flirt with her, tease her, be cocky and funny. She starts bitching, you remove yourself from her presence, unnafected. Her bad mood doesnt affect you. Just dont DEER and dont take shit tests seriously. Give zero fucks and keep working on yourself and your MAP. Dont be afraid of her or what she will say, dont overthink stuff. If she asks you why you dont talk to her, pretend that your lips are glued to each other "hum hum hum hummmm" Books, if you havent read: NMMNG, WISNIFG,…	/r/askMRP	19/12/16 09:12 PM
6	Lost girlfriend to hotter/bigger guy. Next time just end it. Dont keep going on and on on WHYYYYYYYYY DID YOU DO THAT TO MEEEEEEE ARGHHHHHHHHH. It will just fuck you up more and she wont tell you the real reason, she prob dont even know it. She just wanted to sit on some other dick and feel her rollercoaster of emotions. Its her life, her choices, you cant control that. But you can control you. Lift, improve yourself, vet better before upgrading someone to LTR. "You cheated, we are done. Here´s your stuff, there´s the door."	/r/askTRP	19/12/16 08:43 PM
1	I really wanna cut my LTR some slack, but she's being annoyingly irrational Well, if she god mad and pissy at you after she asked your honest opinion about the matter, its all on her. Like I said before, you cant fix her emotions and you cant change her. She is the way she is, what you have to consider is if shes worth keeping despite her flaws or not. What you have to do when shes being completely irrational is not engage. STATE that you arent fine with that and leave. Shes having an emotional outburst and screaming at you, you dont talk back at her, argue, scream, etc…	/r/askTRP	19/12/16 10:20 AM
3	I really wanna cut my LTR some slack, but she's being annoyingly irrational You really need to read no more mr nice guy and when i say no i feel guilty. You are DEERing too much (defending / explaining / excusing /rationalizing). Dont do that, it doesnt work and just makes she respect you less and less attracted to you. Dont try to use logic when she is acting irrational. Your job is to be her oak, be a strong man who isnt affected by her emotions. You are not responsible for the way she feels, you have to ingrain this in your head. You cant "fix" her emotions. Her: "My…	/r/askTRP	19/12/16 02:32 AM
1	FR: Don't be unattractive This is gold. Newbs should really read this. Didnt let her shit affect you, did the shit that had to be done, didnt DEER, she had her rollerocoaster of emotions and felt the FEELZ she needs so badly and came home to her unnafected oak. New guys, this is how you "man", not the BP shit fed to you every day. Oh and she hadnt planned the xmas shopping at the first call, it "came up" after she realized he wouldnt be home when she wanted liked a good trained puppy.	/r/askMRP	16/12/16 10:53 AM
2	Suspect wife is starting emotional affair I dont agree with that, this is cutting the wrong side of the rope. If shes gonna whore, it will be this guy or another. Recently, where i live (not US), some wife of one of those motorbike club guys was caught cheating with some college boy. Motorbike club guy shot the dude who can now only move his head and is a vegetable for the rest of his life. Husband was imprisioned for a few months but was released due to not having any past crimes or something like that. Guess who was seen on the back o…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/12/16 07:33 PM
2	Her son read this mate, and repeat it to yourself until you ingrain it in your brain	/r/askMRP	15/12/16 06:14 PM
1	How do I end my beta LTR in the most alpha way possible? First thing, decide for your own reasons if you want to break up with her. My opinion is yes you should, she is fucked in the head and a slut, not ltr material. But its your decision to make. Then, if you decide to end things, inform her the decision. "You are a great person but it turns out we are not compatible. I want to be single again. Wish you the best of luck". Dont argue with her, dont blame her for stuff that went wrong, dont say that its all her fault, dont say she needs to change, don…	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 11:53 PM
5	Progressing Beta; a story of taking the first step to ridding myself of my harmful ways Good lord man, so even after "taking the pill" you still beg the whore to be exclusive with you? Man... You got a looong way to go. Be thankful that she didnt accept it. I hope you realize that it isnt this girls fault. Its all your fault for being a spineless weakling. Fix yourself. Lift, read the sidebar, keep improving yourself and never try to LTR a slut again. For your own sake and sanity.	/r/askTRP	13/12/16 09:15 PM
0	What do you do when she has a dread breakdown ? Hold her tight "Come here, give daddy a hug." You dont need to explain yourself, defend your point of view, tell her how she should be doing this or that, go on and on about them feeeeelz, just hold her tight and SHOW that things are gonna be good IF shes willing to be a "good girl". Kiss her forehead and move on with your day. Reduce your time/attention/affection when she is being a bitch, but dont forget to reward when shes acting good. Dont forget to be funny and witty around her during the d…	/r/askMRP	12/12/16 05:45 PM
3	Covert Ex wants to show me off on NYE Man, you really need to read no more mr nice guy and when i say no i feel guilty, and start implementing it. You dont own her or anyone any explanation of the decisions you make. You dont need to convince, explain, make anyone see your point of view. Its just a waste of time, and you cant change anyones mind. Only that person can change his/her own mind if he/she is willing to. First, decide for yourself and for your own reasons, if you want to see her or not. Then you communicate that to ther. …	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 02:08 PM
5	Covert Ex wants to show me off on NYE "Luci didn't want to be in a relationship with me" "She doesn't want this LDR." Thats the most important thing here. The rest is just blah blah blah blah fucking blah. You are totally in her frame and just reacting to what she does and says. Dont. And if you read TRP material, you would know that LDRs are BAD, not worth it. See her if you want, plate her, fuck her, have fun with her. Dont expect anything more than that. Yeah, expect that shes getting dicked by other guys because she most likely …	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 01:37 PM
2	Best books to read to keep an LTR strong? married man sex life primer	/r/askTRP	12/12/16 12:59 PM
1	Update II of wife xmas eve plans. Until you stop expecting appreciation, doing stuff expecting her validation you are still gonna be her bitch. Do what you want to do, have to do and has to be done. If she likes it, appreciates it or not, its her problem.	/r/askMRP	12/12/16 11:28 AM
1	Update II of wife xmas eve plans. "My wife has this idea that men are subservient to their wives and should be loyal and be happy with no affection, boring sex and no recognition. Women can just do what they want and don't have to look good or act sexy. Women in her circle get together and freely complain about the flaws in their husbands, totally oblivious to their own. My wife sometimes hosts these sessions. It is amazing to watch." Seems like you married a "strong independent woman". Should have vetted her better and looked f…	/r/askMRP	11/12/16 11:18 PM
1	"Am I an 8?" "I need a closer inspection to find out"	/r/askTRP	11/12/16 12:59 AM
4	Deadlock Stop acting and thinking like a woman and being on her frame. Do what you want and should be doing, for yourself, not because of how you imagine she will react to it. Yeah, dont initiate for the rest of your life, that will sure show her! Stop playing those games with your wife, this only makes you more unnatractive and look like a bitch. A high value man doesnt have time for shit like that. If you read any of RP material you would know that your biggest power is your hability to leave. Nexting …	/r/askMRP	10/12/16 11:20 AM
1	A previous flake has returned Set date/place to meet. Dont be her emotional tampon. She is the one making the effort to see you (she is the one driving 30 minutes to you or whatever). She flakes again, you ghost her.	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 09:05 PM
5	Best tactic for monster shit/comfort test. Your response is bad. You are DEERing. Dont. Dont enter her frame. Dont take her seriously, dont take shit tests seriously. Keep working on yourself, on your MAP. Keep being playful and witty. Be in a good mood, dont let her bad mood affect you. Focus on your projects, go out when shes being bitchy, do your outside hobbies, grab a beer with your friends. Keep sleeping on your bed, tell her she is welcome to join you. Give her your time/attention/affection when she is being pleasant, dont give it…	/r/askMRP	08/12/16 08:06 PM
4	Started implementing into relationship, got the shit test right away? "Yes im gonna put it in the ass" "Yes id like some ass" She wanted the dick, you didnt give the dick. Failed. For the record, the only important word she said was ASS. You should read as: "xxxx xxx xxx ASS xxx xxx". Means pay attention to my ass. She wants to know if you desire her ass. She is offering herself to you. You know when you woman asks the "does this pants make my ASS look fat"? The right answer is "Hum, let me check it better. Take off your pants" and give her the dick.	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 07:35 PM
3	What's the big deal about cheating? Why are you going to be in a relationship with a girl that fucks other guys? Have her as a plate. Meet her, fuck her, send her home. Then shes free to fuck whoever she wants. Now, "open relationship", especially if she lives with you? Fuck no. You will be providing to her, dealing with her women problems, PMS, family drama, mood swings, pay for her shit, emotional tampon, time/attention/affection etc etc etc, and when shes horny, she goes out, gags on Chads cock and has her ass fucked, then Chad…	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 05:21 PM
5	Her crazy commitment standards. It doesnt matter what could possibly be going through her mind. What matters is: will she fullfill your needs as a plate/LTR? If not, next. Oh and dont be surprised when you find out she blowed/had her ass fucked by Chad(s).	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 05:03 PM
1	Is a RP LTR possible with ex after BP LTR and AWALT? hahahah True, true.	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 11:17 AM
3	Help, please :-). Pseudo-g/f fooled around at beginning when "talking"--Told me now, and it kind of stains my view... Long distance and a slut. Thats a catch man. And you sure enjoy drama.	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 12:00 AM
3	Is a RP LTR possible with ex after BP LTR and AWALT? Well, assuming you are not a troll (hard to believe seeing the logic here and taking responsability for actions, but oh well): 1) You cant "awaken him from beta sleep". He has to be willing to do this himself. 2) You cheated on him. He will never trust you 100%. And if the does accept you back, he shows that his self-respect / self-worth is low, as he is showing that he has no better option other than going back together with a cheater. If he was really high value, he should have tons of better …	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 11:32 PM
1	Broke up with cheating girlfriend, need advice moving on As you continue reading the sidebar, improving yourself and time passes, you are gonna figure out that none of this matters anymore. All you should get from that is the experience and the lessons learned. You LTRed a slut. Sluts are no good for LTRs, they are plate material. The moment your GF says she wants to "open" the relationship its already over. You either demote her to plate or dump her, because its 99% sure that she was already getting dicked and just wants to make it "official" so she …	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 10:42 PM
4	Pseudo-Plate wanted status check to "see what we are" - How did I handle it? You did good. Maybe DEERed a bit (defend / explain /excuse /rationalize). You dont need to do that and you shouldnt, its a display of low value. You dont need to explain/justify yourself or your decisions to anyone. You are your own judge. Just STATE what you want to say and she is free to accept or not. You didnt need to tell her that you were talking to other women. Let her hamster run free. Keeps you misterious / gives her tingles. "You are a great person, but im not looking for a comitted re…	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 10:15 PM
1	Should I love myself as a whole? What if I rationalize my bad traits and habits and stay like that? What if I love being miserable because I am currently miserable? blah blah blah i must luuuuuuuuuuuuuve myself the way I ammmmmmmmm Set goals and start pursuing them. Track your progress. Read, research, learn, implement. Start by lifting and keeping your diet in track. Read the sidebar if you havent, NMMNG and WISNIFG are must reads. These books alone can change the way you view the world. Stop overthinking, cut the bullshit, excuses and do what you are supposed to do. Only you can do it, no one can do it for you.	/r/askTRP	07/12/16 12:48 PM
6	Stripper girlfriend? God why are so many guys willing to commit to sluts? For fucks sake.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 02:09 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - December 06, 2016 wow man, get the fuck out her frame for fucks sake. No wonder she doesnt put out. DO NOT NEGOTIATE DESIRE. She shoots you down, you dont be butthurt and go do something else, dont fucking negotiate. You want her to desire you? Be attractive, dont be unnatractive. Read MMSLP if you havent.	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/12/16 11:00 AM
1	Is it possible to get over a slutty gf's past? Yes its becoming more and more "normal" nowadays but you sure dont have to accept it. You are not obligated to be in a commited relationship with anyone. You dont have to settle for a slut. Everyone is free to make their own choices. You can choose to settle for a slut if you want, but you are not obligated to. Women can choose to fuck around if they want, but they are not obligated to. Use trp principles to be always improving yourself and becoming the highest quality man that you can so that w…	/r/askTRP	05/12/16 08:38 PM
2	Is it possible to get over a slutty gf's past? This is NOT insecurity. You have your standards, stick to it. Sluts are NOT for LTRing. If she told you 20, its more likely close to 50. There are girls out there that dont fuck everything that moves, find a less promiscuous one for a LTR. Do you imagine the mother of your kids as some girl who fucked 50 other dudes? "Mommy how did you meet daddy?" "Oh mommy was on a proccess of finding herself and having sex with a different man every weekend, but when mommy met daddy, oh, he was number 82, it …	/r/askTRP	05/12/16 08:07 PM
1	She says "you aren't sleeping with me" advice on what to do? Ignore her words. Meet her (if you feel like), be fun and witty and escalate anyway. If she shots you down, dont waste any more time on her.	/r/askTRP	05/12/16 07:58 PM
3	She's text-fucking some other guy. Dont be a bitch and bring this up if you werent exclusive. Shes free to fuck whoever she wants. No need to end it, you can try to keep her as a plate. But def not LTR material. Sluts are not for LTRring unless you like drama or being a cuck.	/r/askTRP	05/12/16 05:04 PM
2	I've decided to go mute.. Make sure that when she asks you "Whats wrong honey" You scream "NOTHING!!!" and stomp to your room	/r/askMRP	05/12/16 12:40 PM
1	LTR threw away my stuff, wouldnt even ask about throwing it away, acts as if it was nothing Yeah. Lack of respect and manipulating, guilting you into making her FEEEEL bad about moving in blablablah. Internalize this: you are NOT responsable for her feelz. Dont argue WHY what she done is bad. Dont EXPLAIN why. Dont RATIONALIZE why. Dont fight. She knows she acted bad. Just STATE that this is behaviour you dont tolerate. If she does shit like that again, pack her stuff and show her the door. Forget about the note, shes just spewing feelz. Dont enter her frame. Be the oak, dont let her e…	/r/askMRP	05/12/16 12:27 PM
2	Can I trust a teen plate she doesnt want kids Remeber: add IN THIS MOMENT to whatever she says. She will change her mind when her FEELZ change. And use condoms man. "I never want kids IN THIS MOMENT".	/r/askTRP	04/12/16 01:47 AM
1	Persistent/Constant Shit Tests - RP You already know the answer. She wants her beta bitch back. She knows hes deep down there, somewhere. Dont cave. You are still taking her too seriously and DEERing. That "Lets try that again. Im sure you dont mean blablabalbla..." Seriously, cut that crap. When shes shit testing you, treat her like the 5 year old child she is being. Would you explain with all your rational logic why you do this or that to a 5 year old? Her: "You´re being an ass" You: "Damn right I am" You: "Yes i´d like some ass…	/r/askMRP	02/12/16 09:57 AM
5	How to Handle Apologies From Your Wife Also be careful to notice when its a real apology or just another shit test. My ex LTR would go "Im sorry for being a bitch earlier", I would say something like "Its ok, you had a rough day" and she would go "Dont you have something else to say?" wanting me to say im sorry as well to make things "even". Oh well, like the spineless bitch I was I would usually do it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/12/16 03:18 PM
1	Dread Game not working (that I can tell). Am I too late? "August, 2016 she files for divorce." It was already over. Just pull the trigger, move on with your life, quit that drama. Time for her to collect her cash and prizes.	/r/askTRP	30/11/16 07:13 PM
1	Having a healthy view of woman Dick is dirty easy to get. Commitment from a high value man is not. There are quality women there who dont fuck around. No, not unicorns, but quality women? Yeah, but you have to dig a lot trough the shit to find a decent one. Use trp principles to be always improving yourself and if you want a high quality woman, vet the hell out of them until you find one.	/r/askTRP	29/11/16 09:36 PM
2	Update on Career Beta - New to MRP Stop asking what she wants and asking her what are the "rules". You set the rules. "Im gonna sleep in my bedroom, you can go sleep wherever you want". Stop DEERing. Stop this trial separation shit, you either divorce her or you dont. You KNOW that all she needs to get new dick is be willing to spread her legs right? Figure out what YOU want and inform her of the decision. Give an ultimatum only if you are 100% willing to follow through, or just dont. Keep working on yourself.	/r/askMRP	28/11/16 03:56 PM
2	Outlandish ST coming in 3...2...1 TL/DR: You are scared of your wifes emotional bullshit email which you dont even know if you will receive that you can simply reply with "ok" or completely ignore. Get out of her frame.	/r/askMRP	28/11/16 01:49 PM
3	My LTR attempted to play mind games? "You never xxxxx" = classic shit test Response is same as any other shit test, like AA/AM, dont let yourself be affected by it.	/r/askTRP	20/11/16 06:32 PM
3	[LTR]How should I view this? Its not a comfort test. Note the "you dont care about me". The answer to this is the same as any other shit test, like AM/AA As for the heels thing, becoming more attractive/raising SMV and dread is the key. If OP were brad pitt she sure would wear them every time he asked, and wouldnt go to some party saying what she said.	/r/askTRP	18/11/16 09:16 PM
1	Handling demoted LTR to plate She most likely wont accept if you go straight "we´re fuckbuddies". It will trigger her ASD. She is not some slut, is she! She has to have plausible deniability. Keep seeing and banging her, dont bring commitment up. Then, when and if she does, you go "You are a great person but Im not looking for anything serious IN THIS MOMENT". You may even throw in some shit like "I feel like I need to find myself (lol)". The "IN THIS MOMENT" part is important, so she can hamster she is not a slut because th…	/r/askTRP	18/11/16 07:00 PM
1	Advice on being threatened / Fucked my friend's girlfriend The saddest part here is that the dude is willing ro fuck up his life forever over a whore.	/r/askTRP	17/11/16 08:09 PM
2	Drunk Captain Getting Silent Treatment Yeah man, you kinda screwed up. Not taking into account the fact that your frame is weak and you have been a drunken captain, she had to do mac and cheese on her birthday. When she asked if you wanted anything else (I bet it was on a "anything else for your highness" tone), you could have just gone "get dressed, we are going to xxxx". About the silent treatment, never let her bad mood affect you. Keep being playful and witty, tease her, work on your MAP, go lift, grab a beer with your friends, w…	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 05:58 PM
14	GF wants to experience uni life and go casual. I'm hurt what to do? You dont have a GF anymore. Plate at best. She wants to "experience" new dick, she will get it, and theres nothing you can do to stop that.	/r/askTRP	17/11/16 10:33 AM
16	Are red flags from years ago still relevant? Plate? OK. Wrap it up, always. LTR? Only if you are completely out of your mind. Or if you like being captain save-a-hoe.	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 08:48 PM
3	Wife Very Low & Wanting Divorce (x-post from /r/depression) Just read his post history, he already scheduled marital counseling, and is talking and talking and talking about his FEEEEEEEEELZ with his wife. Hes prob gonna ignore all of this. Oh well, gonna learn the hard way. Or not.	/r/askMRP	16/11/16 03:19 PM
3	"Don't think, just say what's on your mind" How to not become exhausted in social situations? Well, at least for me, the problem was that I was too worried about what people were thinking of me. If i act like this, people will think this, if i act like that, people will think that. Give less fucks and do what you wanna do, and dont worry about the others, and enjoy yourself. Open yourself to new experiences. Not everyone is gonna like you, and thats fine. At least thats what works for me. When you dont know what to say, just ask stuff about the other persons life. Everyone loves bragging…	/r/askTRP	16/11/16 02:31 PM
2	Ok, Me and my ex are playing games..... You are weak, and you need to fix yourself. Stop obsessing with this chick. Yeah, she WILL get dicked a lot, yeah she WILL lie about dicks shes has been taking, and theres nothing you can do to stop that. Let this chick go. Its over. Dont dig up the trash. Move on, read the sidebar and improve yourself. No one is going to create a step by step guide for you. Read the sidebar and stop being a whiny pussy. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/	/r/askTRP	14/11/16 06:15 PM
7	Friend said she thought I'm asexual, i'm not. "Actually im a lesbian" Dont be affected by it. If you are, its a display of low value. Give zero fucks.	/r/askTRP	14/11/16 04:51 PM
2	If closure is a womans shit test of putting you in a box, Doesn't it make sense to always end things on bad terms? End it badly = gives her drama. She loves it and will feed from it. Bad attention is better than no attention. End giving zero fucks = you are the prize and she knows it. She knows you are a high value man who can replace her in a heartbeat. "You are a great person, but this just isnt working anymore. We are not compatible. Wish you the best of luck". Whatever drama she throws at you wont affect you.	/r/askTRP	14/11/16 04:44 PM
3	What to say when she calls you out on your changes... Hahahah, its always about them When your woman asks you "Are you upset", "Are you mad" what she really means is "Are you mad at me?" Her: "You seem distant lately. Are you upset?" You: "Nah, its just that the part of the software im coding that should do some calculation this way is screwing up somewhere and I cant figure it out" Her: "Ah, I see." (instantly loses interest, its not about her)	/r/askMRP	14/11/16 02:15 PM
4	How do you know your girlfriend is not riding the CC on the side? Bad troll is bad	/r/askTRP	13/11/16 03:40 AM
3	Took the red pill a month ago. Wife already pretty alpha. Been doing the MAP, and SHIT. HIT. THE. FAN this morning. I need some reassurance I am not permanently fucking up my marriage. "She was clearly overreacting, but she did go to her emotional limits this morning, so I need to make sure I know what the fuck I am doing for my next play. " You are still in her frame and just reacting to whatever she does/acts. Plus you TALK too fucking much. You care too much. You are seeing this as a "game" where you make the right moves, say the right things and she will worship you and beg for your cock. Doesnt work like that. What you should be asking is: what am i gonna do to fix and im…	/r/askMRP	11/11/16 06:48 PM
1	Daddy Issues I´ve been for years trying to get my brother, father and mother to lift. Each of them got their own excuses. My brother enters the gym and leaves within a month. I explained him about lifting, dieting, blah blah blah. Four freaking hours a week, thats all it takes for a huge benefit in looks, health and well being, but nah. I cant because blah blah blah.	/r/askMRP	11/11/16 06:19 PM
24	LTR wants to abstain from sex entirely because of pregnancy fears Id go to with "I understand how you feel, but i wont be in a relationship with someone im not having sex with" Then she either steps up, or she doesnt. If she doesnt, he walks.	/r/askTRP	10/11/16 06:36 PM
1	Lifting is Bullshit (for the average guy) Are you lifting heavy shit off the floor? Heavy shit above your head? Squatting? Pushing to your limit? Hows your diet? Or you just do a bro split with lots of machines and curls and fucking around the gym?	/r/askMRP	10/11/16 04:24 PM
3	UPDATE: Wife threatening divorce have four kids HELP! God, 2 years of "reading the sidebar" and his ultimate goal is to fix her. Damn.	/r/askMRP	09/11/16 04:08 PM
1	Turning an interested girl into a plate and not an LTR Easy. Keep doing what you are doing, never bring up the "commitment" part, and if/when you get the "what are we" talk, you say something along the lines of "You are a great person, but im not looking for a relationship at this moment, you are free to accept this as it is or we split ways". The "at this moment" part is very important, because gives her hamster material to spin, that she will keep fucking you but you MAY reconsider in the future, so she wont be just some whore you bang strings-fre…	/r/askTRP	08/11/16 05:18 PM
3	Ltr becoming increasingly religious and distant You cant change her, but you are not obligated to be in a relationship with her. And she isnt obligated to have sex with you, or to be non-religious. If she wants to be a religious fanatic just like her family she will, and theres nothing you can do to stop that. What you have to think is: are you ok with that or not? If not, tell her something along the lines of: "i wont be in a relationship with someone im not having sex with", which is the truth. She may yell, she may cry, she may try to sham…	/r/askTRP	08/11/16 04:59 PM
2	Other Guy Booty Messaging is a Shit Test? Yes, shes testing you, and making you know theres someone else interested on her to make her value go up. You seem invested in this girl, or you wouldnt be worried. Shes a plate, so treat her as such. If she is interested, she will contact you again. Give zero fucks. As long as you dont turn into her orbiter (you fuck when you meet) you are good.	/r/askTRP	07/11/16 06:15 PM
1	How to handle FIL manipulation Actually that would be a good "excuse". It takes the weight of the decision out of her hands and put at it yours, as it should be. You are doing what you think its the best for your family, if other people wont agree with that, its not of your concern. If her FIL calls you after that, talk to him, in a firm and calm tone. "I understand the way you feel and i am thankful for your offer, but i dont want my wife and kids staying at a RV". Broken record/fog the shit out of it. Yeah he may resent you…	/r/askMRP	06/11/16 11:29 AM
1	How to respectfully decline "Im dating someone, I FEEL a connection between us so I wanna see where this is going first" Bitches cant argue about your FEELZ, just like you cant say that what a woman FEELZ is wrong, so there you go. Just be aware that this may make her more attracted to you, as she will want to show you she is better than your other girl.	/r/askTRP	04/11/16 07:54 PM
3	After a long chat with seemingly interested HB7/8, she dropps that she has a bf. What's my next move here? Ignore her babble. Dont let her drama affect you. Stop texting so much. Set a date, escalate. Be fun, witty and confident. If she shots you down, next. Her: Blablabla my bf blablaba, cheating is bad blablaba You: No problem, im not a jealous person	/r/askTRP	04/11/16 07:33 PM
1	Female Therapist Yeah doesnt matter if you are fat. Just be yourself right? If you are fat, depressed, spend all your day in your momma´s basement watching anime, playing games and masturbating, working a shit minimum wage job, just keep doing it, otherwise you wont be true to your true self right? Then someday the perfect woman who will just love you the way you are will come down from the heavens and you will live happy everafeter. You should be always be focusing on being the better version of yourself. Keep …	/r/askTRP	04/11/16 07:26 PM
1	We both cheated, please help guys! Ah, the thrill of drama. You are too young for a LTR. Be single, improve yourself, have fun, meet girls, study, travel, learn. And this chick is batshit crazy, stop trying to understand the "WHY". She is a woman, she will do shit that women do. And you got yourself one that is high on the crazy and drama queen scale. Watch her actions, thats what matters.	/r/askTRP	04/11/16 02:57 PM
2	How to deal with people asking me to get married? "Yeah sure i do" "Still looking for that special someone" The mindset is: give zero fucks. You dont need to explain/justify your decisions to anyone. No need to get mad about it.	/r/askTRP	04/11/16 12:24 AM
1	What's the best approach to saying "I'm leaving you"? You are the classic nice guy. Go out of your way to please others. You dont want other people to not like you, so you make yourself miserable to prevent that from happening. You make up excuses and are not true to yourself and to others. Imagine you enter a store, and some salesman offers you a painting. You just dont give a fuck about paitings and dont like them. Instead of just saying "thanks for the offer, but im not interested" you go into the "i really wished to buy that, but for external r…	/r/askMRP	31/10/16 09:57 PM
1	What's the best approach to saying "I'm leaving you"? She WILL make you look shitty, no matter what. Even if she cheated on you, it would be your fault, because you never did this, or you always did that. Yeah, she will talk shit about you to her friends and family. Yeah, she will be the poor victim that did everything right and you will be the bad guy that didnt care about her feelings. Stop worrying about that, its something you have no control of. Stop looking for excuses to break up with her. You dont want a relationship with her anymore, for y…	/r/askMRP	31/10/16 09:21 PM
1	What's the best approach to saying "I'm leaving you"? Cut the part that you say are unhappy and that you THINK that you wont ever be happy again with it, and that she discussed this or said that. This will give her room to try to manipulate you into saying she will change, and crying, and your frame seems weak so you may buy into it and stay in a relationship you dont want. You already made your mind, for your own reasons, thats good. Stick to your decision. Laywer up, do whatever logistics stuff needs to be done, and when you are ready, INFORM her…	/r/askMRP	31/10/16 08:38 PM
3	A common fitness dilemma. Big or Lean? go to google, search mens health cover, search images. Thats the kind of body 99.9% of women get wet for. My suggestion is, if you are skinny, get some decent size even if your bf% gets a little high, then cut focusing on not losing muscle (this if you are natural).	/r/askTRP	31/10/16 06:26 PM
10	I want to break up with my girlfriend, how do I do it? "You are a great person, but this is not working anymore. We are not compatible. I want to be single again. I wish you the best of luck". Dont tell her you are breaking up because she does this, or because she is like that, or that she disrespect you in front of your family, or that you dont like that she always xxxxx. This is what women do, and will open room for her to tell that she will change and behave and try to cry and manipulate you and you will be stuck in a relationship you dont want t…	/r/askTRP	31/10/16 06:14 PM
1	Low testosterone levels (200) 22M go see a doctor	/r/askTRP	30/10/16 03:13 AM
1	Any advice on how to prevent mental time being spent on slander from my ex during our blue pill divorce? Why do you care about what her family told you, or think about you? Or that you need to "show them" that they were wrong? Stop that shit, you cant control that. Focus on yourself and improve yourself, and stop caring about what people think about you. Think about your male role models. High quality succesfull men. Do they give a fuck about what other people are thinking about them? That if he does this people will think this or if the does that people will think that? No. So quit that shit.	/r/askTRP	26/10/16 05:49 PM
3	FR: follow up to 'I have nowhere else to post this' Her: Blablabalba be my bitch and behave and ill give you a blowjob You: Hahah, Payment upfront. You: Nah, maybe if you behave i´ll let you have a taste of my cock (leave). You: You should be lucky that im giving you the opportunity to taste my fresh hot yakult with live probiotics.	/r/askMRP	26/10/16 03:48 PM
1	LTR moving in from another country Part 2 You are scared of asking for your stuff back? Good fucking lord. Do yourself a favor, never see this girl again so she has opportunity to find a real man. You didnt read anything of the sidebar right? "We are done. Im going to be there at 8pm to pick up my stuff". Thats what it takes. Not that hard. Quit being a bitch, for your own sake.	/r/askMRP	25/10/16 06:02 PM
1	5 months into MAP. Huge shit test failed. You got a long way to go. She has zero respect for you. She totally dominates you, bitches at you and you just go "im sorry mommy, im sorry! I did this because xxxx! Dont punish me pretty please!". Im surprised she even fucks you. You are totally in her frame and afraid of her. Did you even read NMMNG and WYSNIFG? You dont have kids right? Does she add any value to your life? Why are you still with her?	/r/askMRP	25/10/16 05:41 PM
3	Trying to go slow, fucked up and got into a mini main event. So you are fine with your wife "keeping in touch" with an ex? Having an emotional affair with him? And dont be blind, she most likely has been getting dicked by him. Come on, even on your honeymoon she was keeping in touch with him? God. If I were you, id move on. "Not keeping in touch with exes" is a boundary i set early in any relationship I have. She seems low quality. Not surprisingly, so do you. Fix and improve yourself.	/r/askMRP	25/10/16 04:37 PM
2	Can you make the switch while in a LTR? Your life is not fucked. You arent married to her, dont have kids, you are young and you dont even live with her. Leave her right now and focus on improving yourself. You have to read no more mr nice guy and when i say no i feel guilty ASAP, they will be really eye openers for you.	/r/askTRP	21/10/16 06:52 PM
2	Can you make the switch while in a LTR? Lol man six months really? And you arent even married? What are you expecting, to not having sex for the rest of your life? Nothing can scream low value more than this. She has no respect for you, a woman that doesnt fuck her man for six months has no respect for him. Good lord. Dump her ass yesterday and focus on yourself.	/r/askTRP	21/10/16 06:44 PM
2	Can you make the switch while in a LTR? Well, you could give it a try. She will resist, she will shit test, she will nag. If you are truly improving, holding frame like a boss, being the oak, having abundance mentality and outcome independence, not giving a fuck about what she does/thinks/acts/says, lifting / eating right, having hobbies outside of the house and having a good social life, not defending/explaining/rationalizing your actions and being overall a high quality man, it could work. You should be doing this stuff anyway, with…	/r/askTRP	21/10/16 04:23 PM
2	Moved in with my SO 1 year ago, she is been going up in weight steadily since then. How do I deal with this when she has previously had an ED? Design her a training and meal plan. Tell her how many times she has to lift weights per week, cardio, what kind of exercises, what she should and should not eat, what quantity, explain why, etc. Ask her to go to the gym with you and teach her. Set goals. Schedule her a BF% test, bloodwork test for blood sugar, triglycerides, HDL / LDL cholesterol, etc. , repeat the tests after 3 months, show her the numbers so she can be happy with the results. Simply telling her that she is overweight and she …	/r/askTRP	19/10/16 04:18 PM
1	If my wife sees me as a beta loser, does it really matter if I treat comfort tests as shit tests? This is something you cant control, so stop worrying about it. Yeah she will talk shit about you to her friends/family/social circle, about how she is the poor victim that did everything right and you the bad guy who did everything wrong. Stop caring about what other people think about you. Think about men you admire, high status men, your role models. Do they give a shit about what people will think if he does this or that? No, he does what he wants to and owns it.	/r/askMRP	18/10/16 04:37 PM
4	Passed on sex, opted for sleep. You did right. You showed her your time is valuable. Dont apologize for this. Best course of action is give zero fucks about this and resume things as they are. If things like this keep happening / shes not putting out, you walk. No, dont explain / excuse / rationalize. You leaving already sent her the message. She even apologized, she knows what she did is bad. Women know very well when they are being bitches and testing you. Now she either gets on track, or doesnt, then you walk.	/r/askTRP	18/10/16 04:30 PM
1	If my wife sees me as a beta loser, does it really matter if I treat comfort tests as shit tests? Stop this excuse shit. You decide if you want to walk or not, for your own reasons, and then you own it and do it. Leave the excuses for women. "I left him/cheated on him/am unhaaaappy because he always xxx/never yyyyy". You will be the bad guy in her head when the relationship goes to shit, no matter what happens, so just fucking do what you want to do.	/r/askMRP	18/10/16 04:10 PM
1	LTR Wants to be Celibate Well, if she really wants to be celibate, its her choice. As it its your choice to keep having sex. If this really happens, means you are not compatible. Tell her that and move on with your life.	/r/askTRP	16/10/16 12:16 PM
1	Ex still trying to keep tabs on me?? Why do you care what she thinks or what she is trying to do? Block her number and block her on social media.	/r/askTRP	11/10/16 08:46 PM
10	TRPs thoughts on Open Relationships Plate? Good for the man. You get the sex that you want without giving away your commitment, can walk in and out as you please. From what you described seems like a "plate with more emotional attachment", so seems fine. "Open Relationship", especially if she lives with you? Fuck no. You are the one paying the high price here, dealing with her women problems, family problems, providing, emotinal support, PMS, drama etc. while Chad just fucks the shit out of her and sends her back to her safe BB at…	/r/askTRP	10/10/16 12:57 PM
1	Possible to become top 20% if genetics are against you? Where i workout, theres a gym instructor who is prob early 30´s. Hes far from handsome, hes 5"7 at most, but hes jacked as fuck. Prob something like 190lbs 10% BF. He has a cute petite GF early 20s with perky tits and a nice ass. Girls flock around him. Hes witty and fun to be around. My point is, stop giving excuses and put in the hard work required. You know what you have to do and what you have to fix, so fucking do it.	/r/askTRP	10/10/16 12:31 PM
2	Wife affair... Bla bla bla bla She she she she Im unhaaaaappyyyyy, so i will cheat on you, but its your fault!!!!!!!! What about you? What are you doing to improve youself? Are you lifting? Are you fat? Do you have outside hobbies? Friends to hang out with? Owning your shit? She cheated, its over. If its your fault or hers, doesnt matter. Move on, improve yourself and read the sidebar. No man, dont get back with her, you will just prove her that you dont have any self respect, you will never be able to trust h…	/r/askTRP	08/10/16 02:49 PM
1	Went Rambo and I think I've nuked it... what now? "actually I fantasize about fat midgets" "About other men as well" whatever is the reply, cant be serious. Shit test.	/r/askTRP	05/10/16 08:58 PM
7	LTR Question Theres no way to know her dick-count for sure. She will lie about it, especially if she is looking for a LTR. Dont forget that when she was drunk, when she didnt enjoy it, when she was on vacation, when it was anal only, when she was traveling, when she was finding herself, "doesnt count". The more you dig, the more shit you are gonna find, more cocks you are gonna find she sucked. What you should do instead is keep vetting her. Look for green and red flags. Ever cheated on a boyfriend? Not LTR …	/r/askTRP	05/10/16 06:34 PM
3	How to avoid women hunting for guys with careers? Oh well, you want a woman who will "love you for who you are". Doesnt work that way, thats the BP you talking.	/r/askTRP	03/10/16 10:24 PM
1	How to pass this comfort/shit test You are using logic against feelz. Feelz always win. You are trying to negotiate attraction, this doesnt work. She pushes you away because shes not attracted to you, and she doesnt know why, she just FEEELZ like that, you asking why wont do jack shit about it, aside from making her feel less attracted to you. Becoming more attractive and less unattractive will. You: logic logic logic? Her: feelz feelz feelz You: So if you feel your feelz, why dont you logic logic logic? Her: Feeelz feeeeelz FEEE…	/r/askMRP	03/10/16 08:38 PM
1	LTR of 2.5 years mentions rape "Ultimately, no penetration happened at this time" Welcome to trickle truth Yes, its a big red flag. Big enough to break up? Well, then its up to you to decide.	/r/askTRP	03/10/16 04:23 PM
1	LTR (1 year) decided she wants to go to NOLA with only her girlfriends instead of inviting me. Should I be worried? She goes, shes a plate.	/r/askTRP	03/10/16 04:18 PM
13	Logistics, Logistics, Logistics. Trying to time a break-up is getting me down. You are doing it right. See a lawyer, save all proof of her cheating, and strike in the right moment. Stay stoic, dont blow up with her, dont get emotional, dont fight with her. If I were you, I would do whatever is possible to leave the business with my share, or sell my share to someone. Even if its a good business, I would leave. After shit hits the fan, dont be one on one with her to prevent false abuse claims, only talk trough lawyer. Yeah you will take a hit, but nothing you cant recover f…	/r/askTRP	03/10/16 04:14 PM
2	Ex broke up with me, immediately started seeing another guy, tried to be on good terms with her, couldn't do it. Its over man. If she was cheating or not it doesnt really matter, but theres a good chance she was and she was trying to branch swing to this other guy. When a girl breaks up with you, means shes already checked out of the relationship and you mean SHIT to her. She already hamstered all reasons inside her head on why its your fault that the relationship gone to shit, and its your fault if she cheated... And you just noticed that this girl is NOT LTR material, going straight to your house after f…	/r/askTRP	30/09/16 03:51 PM
5	How to help a LTR who lost a loved one without seeming like a Beta? Just acknowlege her feels and let her vent. Dont try to fix it, or give suggestions on what she should or should not do, or tell her she shouldnt feel like that (how dare you question her FEEEEELZ?). At the end, give her a tight hug and tell her "everything is gonna be alright". Let her grieve. All of this considering she has been a good GF, not bitching, supporting you, good sex quality and quantity, respectful etc, so you should reward her good behaviour.	/r/askTRP	29/09/16 05:28 PM
2	Should n count of your plates be known? You will never know for sure. She will lie about it, especially if shes looking for a LTR, and it lowers your value.	/r/askTRP	29/09/16 05:21 PM
1	Surprise visit to a LDR ex? Good lord. So having sex once each 6 months, having to beg for it is fine for you? Ghost her for good and improve yourself. Meet local girls.	/r/askTRP	29/09/16 04:25 PM
-3	Ex wants Kindle back (gift she got me long time ago) Yeah, return it. Mail her.	/r/askTRP	29/09/16 04:22 PM
1	Question about Propecia/Finasteride http://propeciahelp.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=3757 http://propeciahelp.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=2002 http://propeciahelp.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=4391	/r/askTRP	29/09/16 04:20 PM
1	LTR turned plate? "No, I want you for those tasty sandwiches you make me" Whatever you reply, do it with a smirk and dont address the question seriously. If she keeps fucking you, you are doing it right.	/r/askTRP	28/09/16 09:00 PM
1	Question about Propecia/Finasteride get buff and grow a goatee	/r/askTRP	28/09/16 08:31 PM
3	Was I in the wrong for calling it off? Yeah, commit to a cheating whore. You wont be the next cuck, your love will be stronger than everything man. You are just another ride on the CC for her. You either enjoy it as it is or let her go.	/r/askTRP	28/09/16 06:05 PM
2	Question about Propecia/Finasteride google propecia help forum Forum for men with PERSISTENT sexual, mental & physical side effects which CONTINUE DESPITE QUITTING Finasteride (Propecia, Proscar), a 5AR inhibitor drug for hair loss, prostate enlargement & prostate cancer.	/r/askTRP	28/09/16 06:00 PM
6	Girl rejects me. 2 weeks later, my close friend says they are in relationship. You already know the answer. You acted beta, you were weak, his SMV is higher than yours, hes the better option. Disregard whatever bullshit they said to explain it . Cut contact with your "friend" and her. No revenge, no fight, no argue, just ghost. Dont be butthurt, take this as a lesson. Read the sidebar and improve yourself. Kill the beta.	/r/askTRP	27/09/16 07:23 PM
2	Mandingo alpha widowed wife Tell your "friend" that open marriage is a very bad deal for men. Wifey having free access to 10" big black cocks while having her safe BB providing/dealing with her problems at home is part of it.	/r/askMRP	27/09/16 06:01 PM
1	Ex still toying with my social media accounts. To get a reaction out of you. She got what she wanted. What she would like the most is you calling her and asking why she did it, we hope you wont do that.	/r/askTRP	27/09/16 05:52 PM
1	plating my Ex (Shit is About to get Real) If you want to plate her, dont say that. Stop texting her so much, especially about "love" and shit like that. Dont be her emotional tampon. Go silent for a while, when she msgs you again you set new date/time/place and escalate. If she gives too much shit, ghost her. Be witty and fun. And you sure dont even think for a second about being exclusive with her. And dude, you reached a point that most guys cant reach. She overtly said she wants to be with you but wants to "keep her options open". Sh…	/r/askTRP	27/09/16 02:15 AM
2	Has anyone managed a mutually non-monogamous LTR? What was your experience? Check out blackdragons blog about that http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2013/12/01/how-my-open-relationships-usually-look-s/	/r/askTRP	27/09/16 02:06 AM
2	Why would my ex text me then do that Why do you care? Why are you texting your ex? Block her number, block her from social media, move on and improve yourself. She wanted validation, the moment she knew she still had you on the hook she lost interest. TRP 101.	/r/askTRP	26/09/16 07:05 PM
3	Why do women hate when you're improving ? They are just running the feminine imperative. You shouldnt have muscles, you should just "be yourself", aka be the fat loser that you always were, and wait until the "perfect girl who loves you like you are" comes (a post wall fat single mom for you to "save"). Oh, and the fact the this "perfect girl" also fucked half the town doesnt matter as well. What you do? Give zero fucks.	/r/askTRP	26/09/16 11:41 AM
4	I agreed to let my wife have sex wither ex If it makes you feel any better, she was already fucking her ex. Its just that now she wont feel guilty by doing it. Yes, your precious special unique snowflake is a whore. And you agreeing to this just shows that you have no self respect.	/r/askTRP	25/09/16 01:58 AM
2	She's always been hunting me but my scenario is ridiculous as fuck, how do I get over this guys? Wow, exclusive masturbation buddy? Good lord, you are fucked up man. Stop that shit right now and go meet girls who are around you, on tinder on whatever. Get your dick wet and you will get over this shit.	/r/askTRP	24/09/16 04:49 PM
2	Career beta sleeping separate Well, you cant make her desire you. You can make yourself more attractive, this can make her more attracted to you or not. You can have more sex, maybe not with her, but there are other billions of women out there. Yes, its a long road, keep improving yourself and get yourself to the point where you can get all the sex you want and sleep in the same bed with your woman. But there is no guarantee that this woman will be your current wife.	/r/askMRP	24/09/16 03:57 PM
2	I think I'm giving up Did you read any of the sidebar? Yes you could leave. But if you dont improve and fix yourself, the same thing will happen with the next woman. Yes you could stay with her, improve and fix yourself and see how it goes. Dont forget that when she says the will never want to have sex with you and never will, you have to add "right now" at the end. Its what she is feeling in this moment. A few months in? Who knows. If you had read the sidebar you would know that. Stop taking everything she says so s…	/r/askMRP	24/09/16 01:38 PM
1	Career beta sleeping separate First you have to think: Are you OK with having a dead bedroom? What value does she add to your life? Do you have kids, why are you still with her? Is she really worth all this hassle? Now that you have your place for yourself, arent you better off improving yourself and finding a woman that really is attracted to you and wants to fuck you?	/r/askMRP	24/09/16 01:28 PM
4	Being transparent about a female admirer starting a new job at your work place: how to handle dread? Wow, mr natural alpha who is overweight and doesnt lift, you better hurry and show your wife all your conversations with this woman on facebook before she gets real mad!!! Imagine you hiding that hideous secret from her, bad bad! But dont forget to say you are sorry and its not your fault that you are so alpha.	/r/askMRP	23/09/16 09:12 PM
1	Bulking with coeliac diesese and lactose intolerance? Best way to chug extra calories in is by drinking. You can make your own weight gainer shake. proteins: 100% isolate whey (its lactose free) carbs: any kind of gluten free flour (rice, potato starch, tapioca, or even maltodextrin, but its devoid of any nutritional value) fats: some kind of nut flour for fats (almond, cashew, walnuts) Try aiming for something like 20% protein, 20% fat, 60% carb. Take around 600 calories worth of it daily (depending on how much you are bulking). Dont substitute yo…	/r/askMRP	23/09/16 05:36 PM
1	Reading too much into it, or real sign? Yeah she prob wants the D, but you shouldnt stick it in crazy, especially if you are kinda related to her	/r/askTRP	23/09/16 03:59 PM
3	Holy Fuck I Fucked Up Bad and Need Some Help "You are a great person, but it turns out we are not compatible, and im not ready for a relationship, hope we can still be friends" (the friends part is BS, just to decrease the chance of her going apeshit on you at work)	/r/askTRP	23/09/16 11:36 AM
1	Holy Fuck I Fucked Up Bad and Need Some Help Plates cant cuck you, you are only cucked if you commit to her. And after she looked your phone you should have already cut her out of your life. Yeah you did shit where you eat. Dont touch her again, keep things professional, treat her like a normal acquaintance, and let things flow. If things get nasty, carry a recorder to record whatever conversation you have with her. Save any texts you have from her saying stuff like she loved what you did last night in case of rape accusations.	/r/askTRP	23/09/16 11:34 AM
2	MLTR thinks she hurt my feelings? lol Who cares about what the shit she posts means? This is not ltr material.	/r/askTRP	23/09/16 11:16 AM
1	How to deal with ex-gf Sad thing is that this is the kind of girl that needs a strong man in her life. Yes she needs help, but you cant save her. You wanna help her? Get her to see a good psychiatrist/therapist. She has to be willing to fix herself, you cant do that for her. BPDs will fuck themselves over and whoever is weak enough to be attached to them. Take your time and read this: http://www.sharischreiber.com/anycost.html http://www.sharischreiber.com/articles.html	/r/askTRP	22/09/16 01:41 PM
3	Girl worried about keeping my interest. Red flag? All girls crave attention. She wants to qualify herself to you, means shes interested. She seems a bit needy, but nothing out of ordinary.	/r/askTRP	22/09/16 01:01 PM
1	Amused Mastery, Comfort Test, Update Theres a post about the drunken captain that you should read, try searching for it. Imagine that for years on you were the drunk captain, passed out on the deck with booze by your side. Your wife was the captain controlling the ship. Sometimes you would drunkenly try to reach for the controls and your wife just would go "here, take another bottle and go back to your place" and you complied. You cant just expect to take control back out of nowhere without her resistance and her thinking you are g…	/r/askMRP	21/09/16 08:24 PM
1	GF having a go at me because I commented on a photo. Standard stuff, just here to discuss it Good options: Soft Next for a couple days, then resume as if nothing happened. If she still brings it up, soft next more days or hard next Agree & Amplify: "Yeah I was thinking about a threesome with her" Pressure Flip: "If you are really gonna make a fuss about this, then it seems like we are not compatible" (she tried to frame herself as the prize, but YOU are the prize. She wants to walk, she walks. And this is the truth, she seems like a controlling bitch, not a good quality for a GF, trust …	/r/askTRP	21/09/16 12:32 PM
2	Loving wife and kids , is it possible? Women nowadays are a lot more entitled, sluttier and less feminine. Men nowadays are a lot weaker, emasculated, and there are fewer and fewer real masculine men. Recipe for shitty relationships and marriages. You dont need to worry about being a "red pill man". You need to be a masculine man. I bet your father is a decent masculine man, and your mom is a decent feminine woman. I bet your father put in the work to be the captain of his household and worked his ass off for the sake of his family. …	/r/askTRP	20/09/16 09:26 PM
2	Loving wife and kids , is it possible? Its possible if you are very high quality man with a high quality woman (quality women dont fuck around, so its a lot harder to achieve that nowadays)	/r/askTRP	20/09/16 09:21 PM
2	Should we be taking girls on dates? As long as you arent paying for their shit, I dont see any problem. Just dont take her to a date and be her "girlfriend", always escalate.	/r/askTRP	20/09/16 06:12 PM
1	Girl only wants to see me for a favor Yeah, the thing is he doesnt even get pity sex, so here he is below a BB.	/r/askTRP	20/09/16 04:50 PM
5	Girl only wants to see me for a favor Hes not even BB. Hes just a work drone for favors and emotional tampon. Just say you cant go because you are busy and ghost her. Stop being a doormat.	/r/askTRP	20/09/16 04:05 PM
8	Dropping a LTR just before she hits the wall..? You dont need to justify yourself to anyone. You are your own judge. Weight the pros and cons and make your decision. Do what you think is the best for you. You want to dump her and be single? Do it. You dont want to? Dont do it.	/r/askTRP	20/09/16 03:59 PM
1	Shit test? "You're always right" "Damn right I am" "Glad that you know it" Always with a grin	/r/askTRP	19/09/16 08:51 PM
1	I have this sick feeling in my gut after realizing all the manipulation my ex dished out on me. Wanting to learn from this. When I Say no I Feel Guilty is the best book on that subject IMO.	/r/askTRP	19/09/16 06:14 PM
1	I have this sick feeling in my gut after realizing all the manipulation my ex dished out on me. Wanting to learn from this. Well, she was just being a woman. Its actually your fault. You were manipulated because you allowed her to do it, and you acted weak. So what if your friends fuck her? Not your problem anymore. Forget about that revenge shit, its not worth it, just shows that you still care about what she thinks and need her validation. Now let that shit go and improve yourself. Giving her zero of your time and attention will be the best "retaliation".	/r/askTRP	19/09/16 06:13 PM
2	Do women love to travel? They like excitement. Traveling is exciting. Foreign and exotic cock is exciting. And it doesnt count because she was "finding herself", or it was vacation, or she was drunk, or she needed it, or whatever her hamster tells her.	/r/askTRP	19/09/16 03:20 PM
1	Failed a comfort test with LTR, now getting radio silenced. Two can play this game, right? Dont justfity/spin, dont rationalize, dont explain, dont excuse. This is just you entering her frame. Your actions should speak, not your words. You should be busy being awesome and focusing on your improvement and projects instead of worrying about this. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/07/11/several-real-life-examples-soft-nexts/	/r/askTRP	19/09/16 03:13 PM
1	need advice on getting over my longterm girlfriend fuck 10 other women	/r/askTRP	19/09/16 01:23 PM
1	Meeting a girl who I was beta to online. Is all hope lost? Dont overthink it. Meet her, hold your frame, dominate the situation, keep your cool, game her, escalate.	/r/askTRP	18/09/16 08:58 PM
1	What are a few tips to keep your LTR from cheating. Read married man sex life primer The best you can do is be the highest quality man you can be. What can reduce her chance of cheating is risk losing her very high quality man. She knows she can get sex anywhere anytime, but commitment from a very high quality man is a completely different story. This decreases your chance of being cheated, but theres no guarantee. And if you do get cheated, you will be in a good place to get better/younger/hotter women.	/r/askTRP	18/09/16 08:50 PM
3	Gf sister get to visit her - she acts like she doesn't have time to see me Yes you can You are not obligated to date her. You are seeming like a girl needing attention. Stop texting her, let her miss you. Dont be her emotional tampon. Meanwhile game other girls, improve yourself, read the sidebar.	/r/askTRP	17/09/16 12:27 PM
17	Girl at bar rejected me found out I was doctor, gave me number, what to do As long as you dont consider her for a LTR you are good.	/r/askTRP	16/09/16 02:56 PM
6	Plate viable for LTR even if she is seeing other guys? This may sound blue pillish, but for a LTR you should be looking for a girl who believes in "true love". If she was "in love" with you, completely infatuated by you, she wouldnt feel like fucking other guys. If shes eager to jump on other guys cocks while your "relationship" is still fresh, imagine what happens when she gets into a LTR with you and gets bored.	/r/askTRP	16/09/16 02:25 PM
6	Lifetime LTRs, are they possible? Read Married Man Sex Life Primer Possible? Yes. Easier years ago, very hard nowadays. Can be done if you are a very high quality man with a high quality woman. (Hint: quality women dont fuck around)	/r/askTRP	15/09/16 10:27 PM
1	Should I keep old ex's sega or send it to her Wow man. WOW.	/r/askTRP	15/09/16 06:58 PM
2	Update: LTR has been inconsiderate and disrespectful lately. On day 3 with no contact. How to proceed? Shes trying to betafy you. You always do this, you never do that, you dont care about my FEEEELZ, bla bla bla. She wants a good beta boy doormat by her side. Its not that shes a bad person for doing that, but she thinks that if you are her good little beta puppy she will be a lot more "happy" in the relationship. We all know what happens when she finally succeeds "changing" you. Yeah, she didnt want to touch you and then she was cyring, and then she felt tingles, and then she feels sad, and then…	/r/askTRP	15/09/16 02:42 PM
2	Will denying being a beta not hurt me? If its something she could do just like you, or you have to get out of your way to do it for her, yes, shit test. If you are next to an object she needs, or she needs something that she cant reach, or something like that, then do it. You did right. You are not even fucking her. You can be sure she respects you a bit more for that, most guys would have done what she asked. Dont be the guy that holds her purse while she rubs her ass on Chad´s cock on the dance floor.	/r/askTRP	15/09/16 12:48 AM
6	I used to hate TRP but as I grow older I'm starting to believe in it. What TRP tactics should I use on this girl? Why are you going to meet her? Dont you have anything more important to do? She sees you as low value and knows your time aint worth shit. You think you are gonna "tell her how you feel" and shes gonna say "oh I love you too! Lets go to my place to fuck!". No, not gonna happen. Text her that something came up and you are busy and ghost the fuck out of her.	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 11:29 PM
1	I used to hate TRP but as I grow older I'm starting to believe in it. What TRP tactics should I use on this girl? Yeah you sure know a lot about TRP right? You are her time whore. She uses you for validation, attention, whatever. She gives you "hope" that one day you might bang her, just enought so that you wont be gone, but shes just playing you. What you do? Completely ghost her.	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 11:27 PM
1	"I feel like you don't care if I trust you" Tell her something along the lines of: "I understand how you feel, but im not looking for a exclusive relationship at this moment. Its up to you to accept it as it is or we split ways"	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 08:21 PM
2	Should I dump her, and how? (long post) Actually shes not the enemy. He is his own enemy. He is weak and fucked up. This is only happening to him because he allows it. If it wasnt this girl it would be another one. He needs to dump her and fix himself.	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 08:14 PM
2	Should I dump her, and how? (long post) She, she, she, she, she, she, she. What about you? What do you want? What are you doing to improve yourself? "She's fucking my head. It's basically psychological torture, psychological rape. How can something like this be even legal." She only does that because you allow it and you are a weakling. You are not obligated to endure this, you are not obligated to be in a LTR with her. This relationship is already doomed. She has zero respect for you. Lol, she even talked about being married to multi…	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 08:06 PM
3	"I feel like you don't care if I trust you" https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/ Ex-LTR is a plate at best. Dont LTR her again. In this case, if you do, she will shit on your head and will always have the excuse that she is doing it because you cheated on her in the past. There are billions of other women out there.	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 07:56 PM
8	Shit test: "You think you'll get the privilege?" Lol, shes just teasing you. "You know, im a man of privileges"	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 04:12 PM
3	What is the deal with women who are around 30 and never had a LTR? They have been riding the CC for 10+ years, and/or some sort of big mental issue Not LTR material	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 04:10 PM
5	What do you consider as "baggage" in a woman? Every man dating a crazy/BPD girl should read this to save himself from all the trouble	/r/askTRP	14/09/16 04:01 PM
2	Women and guy friends You dont confront her about it. If its a deal breaker to you, you state it. You dont explain why, you dont argue, you dont rationalize, you dont excuse. "I wont be in a relationship with someone who keeps hanging out with other guys" . You cant make her stop hanging out with other guys, but you are not obligated to be in a LTR with her. Then she is free to accept, or not. If not, she is nothing more than a plate.	/r/askTRP	13/09/16 04:12 PM
1	Losing erection when she's on top? I used to be like this as well. I stopped fapping for porn for about 6 months now. Problem is gone. Im rock hard just by kissing, and sex is so much freaking better.	/r/askTRP	13/09/16 04:02 PM
2	LTR has been inconsiderate and disrespectful lately. On day 3 with no contact. How to proceed? She acted wrong, now she must correct it. She contacts you and apologize. Dont contact her first. If she doesnt, then its next time. Time/attention/affection/commitment is your power, dont give it away. She played her "mean card" (being a bitch), you play your "mean card" (remove yourself), until she plays her "good card" again, so you play your "good card" (reward her with your time/attention/affection). If she bitches about stuff like that, dont explain, rationalize, apologize, excuse. Dont en…	/r/askTRP	13/09/16 02:17 PM
2	How can I keep my LTR invested during period of low SMV? If you show her that this is affecting you and you show that you are weak, she will lose interest. Be always in control. Keep teasing her, flirting with her, slapping her ass, being playful. Be the oak. Be always working on getting shit fixed and improving yourself. Imagine two men. One gets fired at his job, gets home and tells his wife, sobbing and desperate: I´ve been fired! Oh my god! We have nothing left at the bank! How am I gonna pay our bills? How am I gonna pay the school for kids? Feed…	/r/askTRP	13/09/16 11:00 AM
1	So what now, next her? Ignore this other guy. Why do you care? Set up a meeting, escalate, if you get shot down, next. Dont pay shit for her. Not that hard. Not like you are gonna marry her.	/r/askTRP	12/09/16 11:28 PM
2	How to defeat gaslighting and guilt tricking? Wrong way: use all your logic to defend, explain, rationalize, excuse what you did and why, and try to make her see your point of view. Right way: give zero fucks and dont enter her frame. A&A, ignore. Whatever she says or does, your opinion/stance wont change.	/r/askTRP	12/09/16 05:29 PM
26	My ex cheated on me and that affected my life severely, now my job is in danger and I have to propose a solution to this to my boss. 1) Dont contact your ex, your ex´s mother, no closure, no drama, dont explain yourself, dont rationalize, etc. Block from social media, block phone, and move on with your life. Its over, it doesnt matter if its your fault or her fault, or what you did was wrong, or what she did was wrong, blablabla. 2) Tell your boss you are going through a rough time because you broke up with your GF and start owning your shit. If you do get fired, oh well, move on.	/r/askTRP	12/09/16 05:07 PM
5	my girlfriend using silent treatment on me Dont enter her frame. Act as if everything is normal. Use this "silent treatment" time to focus on your projects. Dont keep asking her "whats wrong babe" and try to please her like her doormat. If you dont live with her, ignore her until shes acting decent again. You already asked her out, she ignored, dont msg her again until she does, and dont bring this "silent treatment" shit up, proceed as if nothing happened. If you do live with her, dont let her mood affect you, keep doing your shit norma…	/r/askTRP	12/09/16 02:02 PM
1	Says she didn't ask me to? Did you read the sidebar? As the man, your sacrifices are nothing more than expected. Equal rights? Only when its to her benefit. The response? "Oh ok" and never spend any more dime on this bitch.	/r/askTRP	10/09/16 03:34 AM
1	Are romantic gestures beta? (Writing poems, etc) Depends, if she sees you as high value, she will love it. Think about Brad Pitt writing a poem for any girl. If she sees you as a low value creepy beta, it will disgust her. She will call her friends and laugh about it.	/r/askTRP	09/09/16 04:35 PM
3	[Update] Girlfriend disrespects me in public Wow Glad that you found your balls back, gj	/r/askTRP	09/09/16 04:33 PM
3	How do I catch a cheater? Well, since you are about to next her, most wont agree with what i´ll say, but you could ask her to see her phone and see her facebook, whatsapp msg, etc. If she denies it, or hands you the phone after a few minutes (time to delete msgs) you are 100% sure to next her.	/r/askTRP	09/09/16 04:27 PM
1	Going out with male friend on drink on friday night She goes, she proves she is not LTR material. Dont stop her from going, but if she goes, she is either nexted or nothing more than a plate. Your reply was good.	/r/askTRP	08/09/16 04:03 PM
3	FR: The Infallible Fallacy Dude if I were you and had no kids, i´d be out of that shit next second. Good lord. You feel down for a friend leaving and you get a "fuck you"? Fuck that shit. Fuck her.	/r/askMRP	06/09/16 07:47 PM
5	Ex got pumped and dumped, contacts me Stay away from crazy. The rest of the story doesnt matter. Ghost.	/r/askTRP	06/09/16 07:32 PM
2	"I think I love you" "I think i love me too"	/r/askTRP	06/09/16 06:40 PM
7	How to deal with people who want me out What can you control? Can you control what other people think of you? Can you make other people like you? Can you control your bosses opinions? Can you make your female coworkers work more? Can you make them stop being feminists? Can you make other people appreciate the job you do? No. You cant control other people. You can control you. Focus on what you can control. Abundance mentality, outcome independence, stoicism, frame, are not applied only to relationships/women. They should be the basis …	/r/askTRP	06/09/16 12:40 PM
6	She cheated.... Another failed LDR. There should be posters everywhere warning "DONT DO LDR YOU FAGGOTS"	/r/askTRP	06/09/16 11:39 AM
15	Girl played me? Please help Reading your text i was waiting for the "she was abused" part. So raped, worst than i thought. Look, i know that you being the nice guy that you are, you want to save her, you want to fix her, you want to use all your logic to understand her, and you want to use this logic to fix her and make her see your point of view. You cant. This girl is damaged goods. Shes fucked in the head, and its not your fault. Shes most likely bpd as well. If you get into a ltr shes gonna fuck you up, you being the n…	/r/askTRP	06/09/16 12:39 AM
1	Don't you want someone to talk to at the end of the day? Lol, "I cant get laid, so I hate women and will go MGTOW" Talk to your friends (you got em, right), call your momma, your brother, your sister, visit your family, whatever. Dont expect your GF to be your momma, she wont. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Set goals, pursue them, improve yourself, lift like a motherfucker, get a good job, or open your own business, game girls. Life is awesome.	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 09:30 PM
7	breaking up: leave 'em better than you found 'em vs. twist the knife slowly? She, she, she,she . Doesnt matter. What do YOU want? Whats best for YOU? You finally realized that this LDR is a bad choice and you want to end it, right? So do it. You dont need to justify yourself, or explain her that you are breaking up because she lied about this, or lied about that, or that you think she cheated, or she did this, or blablabla. This is just unnecessary drama and wont change the outcome. "You are a great person, but this is not working anymore. We are not compatible . I wish …	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 09:25 PM
2	Shit test "Are you mad at me" Yeah, thats fine as well. As long as you arent butthurt and dont bring up her flake. She knows what she did and that its bad.	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 06:34 PM
2	Plate makes a joke about me having beaten her up last night You did right about making it clear that you dont like this, you did kinda bad about explaining it. You dont need to explain what you accept and what you dont to anyone. Keep it going normally. If she brings this shit up again, is clear that she doesnt respect you, and may use this against you, thus has to be nexted.	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 06:31 PM
2	Will she be faithful while I'm in basic? Think about getting married AFTER you are done with military. Unless you are fine with being a cuck.	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 06:27 PM
7	Shit test "Are you mad at me" "Hey, im good, just have been busy". Remain normal conversations, dont bring up her flake, set new date/time/place, and if she flakes again, ghost her.	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 06:23 PM
-9	My LTR nexted(?) me for going on vacation with my buddies. Most likely she was "confused" (between you and chad), and now that you went to this vacation, she made up her mind. If she saw you as high quality enough / her best option, she wouldnt have done that. She already nexted you. Shes already getting dicked. Its over. Dont contact her anymore, block from social media, move on with life. Dont be surprised if when you come back she is already oficial with Chad T. Cock.	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 06:18 PM
8	Is she cheating? LDR = invisible relationship, where you cant get laid, get lots of drama and get cucked This is just the beginning, now you go paranoid over this snapchat thing, then you see she is online late and not talking to you, then you discover she is hanging out all the time with her new "friend", then he "crashes" at her place after a party because it was late, then... Its over. You dont confront her about this. You make up your mind, you either accept this shit or you dont. A man with options and who …	/r/askTRP	05/09/16 02:36 PM
1	My LTR wants to do volunteer work in a third world country for a few months.. Advice please ! If she goes and you dont break up, its a display of low value. Chad would never go 3 months without sex. Theres a very high chance that she will get dicked and you will never know about it, and it will be your fault, because "you didnt support her", "you werent there", etc. Dont convince her of not going. You can suggest that she volunteers in her own country, but dont force it. She goes, its over, and when she comes back she will be a plate at most.	/r/askTRP	04/09/16 10:38 PM
1	How to handle you just want me for sex? "Actually i want 2 babies, a house and a german shepard"	/r/askTRP	03/09/16 11:55 PM
3	First shit test after a month: Thoughts? You talked too much. Seemed butthurt. Next time just a "no problem" and dont contact her until she contacts you.	/r/askTRP	03/09/16 11:53 PM
1	What do women mean when they say they want "a man who's passionate?" They want to FEEEEL them tinglesss	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 06:33 PM
0	Why TRP community thinks that slut shaming is good and girls riding CC is bad? TRP doesnt say slut shaming is good. TRP doesnt say girls riding CC is bad. TRP says that IF you are looking for a comitted relationship, a girl that rode the CC is a poor candidate. Sluts are sluts, you bang them, and that is what they are good for. You dont marry a whore.	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 04:24 PM
3	Why is The Red Pill so polarizing? Analyze the facts, think for yourself, make your own decisions. Who cares what other people think.	/r/askTRP	02/09/16 12:38 PM
3	If dread works, do I even want her anymore? Lets say theres a young hottie, blonde, nice tits and ass, shes a 8. You want to bang her. You dont care if shes shy, insecure, if she has social status, what she does, who she knows, if shes rich or poor. You want to bang her. She is valued for what she is. Now, a man. A man who is shy, insecure, no social status, didnt go to college, no friends, poor. Even if he has good looks, girls wont be interested in him, because he is valued for what he has to offer. Women and men arent the same. Stop co…	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 05:59 PM
1	Starting dread for better sex, regain power..advice needed. Keep doing everything you would do if you were single, except the f-close part (well, unless you want to). Dont let your GF or anyone change your mind, your plans, your course of action. And be aware that you cant change HER. You cant MAKE her do this, or do that. You can change YOU, improve yourself, and she may step up, or not.	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 11:54 AM
1	[need advice] LTR telling me about old boyfriends whom she fell out of love with. I want her to stop without "passing judgement". No, dont endure the stories. You already made clear that you dont want to. This would be her breaking your frame. Shit test. You already made clear that you dont want to hear about it. Dont justify it. Dont explain why. If she starts talking about it, tell her in a calm and firm tone that you dont want to hear about it, go do something else, and dont be butthurt about it. If she still keeps doing it, then its soft next / hard next.	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 11:45 AM
24	Why women always put personal goals or job as an excuse for cheating? Anything will be an excuse, as long as its not their fault.	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 11:39 AM
8	found out my gf cheated, ghost her or tell her i know? "You cheated. We are over" Then ghost. Dont tell her how you found out. Dont let her "explain herself". No closure.	/r/askTRP	01/09/16 12:54 AM
1	Suspect girlfriend is snapchatting with another guy; what are my options? Well, it would be better if you said it the moment you heard her snapchatting that dude. But you could say something like "I heard you snapchatting with some guy a few days a go. Im not OK with that". Did you read NMMNG and WISNIFG? Tell her the truth, and stick to your guns. Nothing she says, thinks or does changes your mind. And she is free to accept it or not. "Im not OK with you snapchatting other guys" "Oh, hes just an old friend. I would never cheat on you." "I understand that, but i wont …	/r/askTRP	31/08/16 10:25 PM
2	Suspect girlfriend is snapchatting with another guy; what are my options? Set your bondaries. If you are not fine with her snapchatting other guys, you tell her that. "Im not OK with you snapchatting other dudes" Dont explain why. Dont justify. Dont rationalize. Dont excuse. Then she is free to decide to stop doing it, or not. If she doesnt, you next her.	/r/askTRP	31/08/16 09:08 PM
3	How to repair a blown "Trust" frame in a LTR?? Break up with her and get the fuck out of her house. Go live with a friend, rent a room, whatever. She has all the power in the relationship, because you need her more than she needs you, and also you live at her place. Stop being a needy insecure pussy and vet girls better before entering a LTR.	/r/askTRP	31/08/16 08:58 PM
22	Girlfriend wants to shave her head "the more I realize that I just don't think I can deal with dating someone who looks like Sinéad O'Connor." Tell her this. Then she is free to decide to shave her head or not. This is not manipulation. Manipulation would be you convincing her of not shaving her head for xxxx or yyy reason, making her feel guilty about it. Example: "If you really loved me, you wouldnt shave your head". You are just telling her the truth.	/r/askTRP	31/08/16 07:32 PM
1	Wife went nuclear, struggling with my options. Ultimately you want something you dont have control over. This is the wrong way to go. You can control and change YOU. Then, she may follow you, or not.	/r/askMRP	31/08/16 05:20 PM
3	Is there a difference between being in love and oneitis? Oneitis is: "she is the ONLY one for me and ill do whatever it takes to stay with her, she can crap on my head, cheat on me, but in the end, we will be together because we are meant to be"	/r/askTRP	31/08/16 04:45 PM
4	I successfully turned him into a beta. Lol, no way a woman would write this. Too much logic and taking responsabilty for own acts. Lol, sucking his cock while gaming. Red pill fanfic. Yeah, sure thing some diesel mechanic would be playing video games.	/r/askTRP	31/08/16 03:08 PM
6	Current LTR revealed that she slept with another guy when we were not exclusive and lied about it - cause for concern? Hmm, so if she cheats on you today she wont tell you, because "things were going so great and she didn't want to ruin it". Cool. Meet the hamster.	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 07:11 PM
1	6 year ltr - 2 months of Mrp implementation After reading everything that you read you still think the problem is communication? You are still listening to what she says? No you dont need to "show more comfort". You need to man up and improve yourself. If you were Brad Pitt and were in a relationship with her, would communication be a problem? Would she "get harpy with you" when her friends/sisters had problems with their relationships? Would she be giving you starfish sex? Would she be going on a weekend bacherolette party of whoever the…	/r/askMRP	30/08/16 05:57 PM
3	Lying to face with proof "I broke up with my girlfriend several months ago and we recently got back together, there has been several read flags and I snooped on her computer." No, no, no Dude, it doesnt matter why she lies. It matters that she does. Her hamster does the dirty job of you making you responsible for whatever the shit she did, because "you always xxxx or because you never yyyyy". You broke up with her for a reason. Its over. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 05:43 PM
1	"Bro, don't worry. If I fuck your girl I will tell you" I also like to make clear that its over. But its better done at her place. He states its over, and if she goes batshit crazy, he just turns his back and walk out the door.	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 04:24 PM
3	Found my LTR's N-Count list..crushed, confused.. Theres a reason she is single at 32.	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 02:51 PM
2	I'm considered a loner and a loser in college I'm going into my last year how can I not let it affect my confidence? Why are you worried about getting approval from others? Why do you care if others see your accomplishments or not? Did you read any of the sidebar? Did you read NMMNG? Set your goals and pursue them. Get buff, groom yourself, improve yourself, study, get a good job. Dont give a shit about what others think of you. Believe in yourself. Only you can do that for you. Nobody can teach you that. You cant control other people and what they think about you. But you can control you and your choices.	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 02:04 PM
2	Please advise regarding girl situation Lol man Shes a whore, and and you are worried that shes whoring around? Thats what whores do. Threat her as such. Always use a condom (your own) and never consider comitting to her.	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 01:58 PM
2	Lifting without getting hurt watch all mobilywods video on youtube and start doing mobily work get regular massages, get a foam roller and learn how to use it this book is awesome also: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Supple-Leopard-2nd-Performance/dp/1628600837/ref=sr_1_sc_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1472519980&sr=8-1-spell&keywords=become+a+suppe+leopard	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 01:20 AM
4	"Bro, don't worry. If I fuck your girl I will tell you" Breaking his face wont unwhore her	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 12:04 AM
9	"Bro, don't worry. If I fuck your girl I will tell you" Yeah Its nots his fault that shes a whore. She just is. And she should be treated as such.	/r/askTRP	30/08/16 12:01 AM
2	LTR and another guy question "She obviously has feelings for him and that's normal. I have feelings for other girls. Difference is, I don't act like that or pot pictures of me and them on social media out of respect (but the girls post it on their pages)" Yeah, you know why? Because she doesnt respect you. "She could read the look on my face when I saw the picture posted and knew it bothered me so I do not have anything near a poker face." She knows she can shit on your head and you wont do anything. Or maybe you are gonna …	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 06:16 PM
2	Plate tells me she doesn't think it's healthy for her to have sex without commitment, then has sex with me Fill in the blanks: _____ what she does, ______ what she says. You are not leading her on, you already stated that you are not looking for a comitted relationship. She is free to accept it as it is or not.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 06:06 PM
3	LTR asked "Bill wanted to crash here for a few days"...Ummm.. You should set your boundaries early on the relationship. Think about what you accept and what you dont in a LTR, and then you STATE it to her. "I wont be in a LTR with someone who keeps in touch with exes" You dont explain why. You dont discuss it. You dont rationalize. You dont give reasons. You simply STATE. She is free to accept it or not. You cant stop her from doing that, but you can break up with her if she does. FOR ME, thats not acceptable for a LTR. You have to think for yourself and d…	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 04:57 PM
4	How would trp react to ex's shittests? You dont react. Thats what she wants. "Chad and Jamal have been hitting on me" "Oh, cool." "Jamal fucked my ass so hard, I cant even sit today." "Ok." "We should switch houses because blablablabla" "No, im fine with the way things are" Talk only about kids and formal stuff.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 04:46 PM
1	Ex-gf tells me that she wants to kill herself. What should I do? Call her parents / the cops Do not get involved into this	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 04:34 PM
2	Do women actually (medically) suddenly get "low sex drives" in their 20s or 30s as often as they claim? Or is it almost always an excuse she tells her man because he's become beta and lost the attraction? Loss of attraction. She has low libido with her partner, not just low libido.	/r/askTRP	29/08/16 12:24 AM
1	LTR Not responding to my texts mad because I am going out with a friend. Ask her 20 more times, maybe shes gonna tell you. Then when you get home, beg her to tell you whats wrong, and when she screams NOTHING! And storm out the door, you follow her and beg for forgiveness	/r/askMRP	27/08/16 07:34 PM
7	Can you trust a girl that sees her best male friend one on one every now and then? Not a matter of trust, but not behaviour you should expect from your LTR. For a LTR? No. Plate? Who cares.	/r/askTRP	26/08/16 12:49 PM
1	Looking for insight on 1st Real Ex "Fast forward to April where I've moved into her place with her Mom" This is your first big fuck up. Your texting about pillow stuff and later is also a big fuck up. You sharing phone bill with her is another big fuck up. Pay the fucking phone bill and cancel that shit or remove your name, change phone number if necessary, make whatever is necessary to have zero things that link you to her. Dont tell her anything about it. Block her from all social media, dont answer texts. No drama, no closure,…	/r/askTRP	25/08/16 08:02 PM
1	Ex's party If you want to go because YOU want to, to have a nice time, you go. If not, you dont. But not because she will feel this or that or because you feel guilty. If you go and talk to her, chit chat for a few secs and dont bring up the past. Dont let her affect you.	/r/askTRP	25/08/16 07:52 PM
1	If you feel you are being used, do you call her out on it or just stop communication? No, dont call her out on it or explain or defend yourself. You either ignore her / next her or be playful about it. And dont be her emotional tampon via texting. Logistics only. "Lets meet for drinks tonight" "Hey, you know what, im a equalitarian. You are the one buying me drinks tonight"	/r/askTRP	25/08/16 07:48 PM
2	Current GF attending ex boyfriends sisters wedding... Let her go and dont be butthurt about it. If you are about to find that shes a whore, its better that you find now than months/years later.	/r/askTRP	25/08/16 07:21 PM
7	What do you think whenever a woman tells you "I love you"? Want another good one? When your girl says "i dont do xxxx" (eg. i dont do anal) add "with you" in the end.	/r/askTRP	24/08/16 10:59 PM
10	Relationship issue because of my girlfriend's past. Asked r/relationships how to save my relationship and got flamed for slut shaming. You feel like a fool, because you feel like you are paying a high price for something cheap. You are the one comitting, marrying, having to put up with drama, family problems and all that crap, risking losing 50% of your assets, while others just enjoyed the good part. How would you feel if you paid $10000 for something that everyone else paid $10? But in the end, its your decision. You either accept it, or you dont. Its your decision to make, and you dont need to explain it to her or to anyone.…	/r/askTRP	24/08/16 08:32 PM
7	Relationship issue because of my girlfriend's past. Asked r/relationships how to save my relationship and got flamed for slut shaming. Do you plan on marrying her? Having kids with her? If yes, thats the kind of behaviour you expect from the mother of your kids? The role model for your kids? If you knew your mom did what your gf did, what would you think of her? Mommy, how did you meet daddy? Oh, mommy was in a proccess of discovering herself, having sex with countless random men she met on the same day, but your father, number 28, ah he was so special...	/r/askTRP	24/08/16 07:57 PM
14	What redpill facts are you still doubting? There are no unicorns. Decent girls, worth of commitment? Yeah. Unicorns? No.	/r/askTRP	24/08/16 06:55 PM
3	Shit testing over diet (IF and Keto) "Eating breakfast is important for concentration" "It sure is" Dont eat breakfast, resume your normal activities. Shouldnt be that hard.	/r/askMRP	24/08/16 03:09 PM
16	What do you think whenever a woman tells you "I love you"? Add "right now" at the end and you are fine	/r/askTRP	24/08/16 02:35 PM
2	Unhamster me You did the right thing. This is not acceptable for a ltr. What you did wrong is your discussion with her. You are discussing with her hamster. In her head, she is right and the victim, and you are wrong and the bad guy. THIS WONT CHANGE. Dont waste your time arguing. Its never their fault. "What a big piece of shit you are blablabla" "Damn right i am" with a smirk on your face, turn your back and leave.	/r/askTRP	24/08/16 12:05 PM
2	M25 (me) F25 (her) Liar but doesn't cheat, puzzled... You still dont get it, you are asking the wrong question. What is the deal with her? Why she does the things she does? Why she is the way she is? It doesnt matter. She is the way she is. She does the shit she does. She has a problem, like an addict, and you are acting like a enabler. Why is an alcoohlic addicted to alcohol? Why is a drug addict addicted to drugs? It doesnt matter. It matters that the addict fucks up his life and brings down whoever is together. You cant fix an addict. The addict…	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 11:42 PM
1	M25 (me) F25 (her) Liar but doesn't cheat, puzzled... Thats the thing. You cant change her, but you think you can. She is the way she is. You are only gonna get screwed in this. If you are fine with your GF letting other guys touch her, go to the movies with her, go to her house or whatever other shit that was happening, just shows that you have no self respect.	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 10:22 PM
1	M25 (me) F25 (her) Liar but doesn't cheat, puzzled... And here comes mr captainnnn save a hoe. Why put up with all this shit when you can get a fresh girl near you who isnt fucked up in the head? Its not your fault that she was abused, that she had no parents, or whatsoever. You cant fix her or save her. Want to help her? Dump her and pay her a psychiatrist. Have some self respect bro.	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 09:41 PM
1	Girl says "lets just be friends" "Lets just be friends" "OK" Then completely ghost her. She texts you, you ignore or just say you have been busy. This will make her hamster spin. "Is he seeing someone else?" "Is she hotter than me?" Make yourself scarce and your value goes up in her eyes. And they she MAY reconsider. If she doesnt, you arent wasting anymore of your time with her anyway, so its a win/win.	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 09:07 PM
6	LTR - GF unconsciously showing body language attraction to my friend Your girl will feel attracted to other dudes. Keep an eye on this, but as long as she isnt being overt about it/disrespecting you, it should be fine, if everything else is good in the relationship. Dont bring this up, she will hamster about it and will just lower your value in her eyes. What you can do is keep improving yourself, become more attractive, gain muscle / lose fat, so, if/when the time comes to dump her, you are gonna be in a position to score hotter/younger/better women.	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 07:24 PM
1	she called me a douche "Damn right I am" or just ignore.	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 03:22 PM
14	In a LTR and girlfriend brings up how cute my friend is every time he comes up - how did I let this happen? This is his GF, not a plate. Anything other than nexting shows he has no self respect for himself.	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 03:02 PM
3	The mindset of very hot girls You know your abundance mentality? They have it times 100. They can point to any man and tell him "i want you to fuck me" and he will. So they act accordingly. Imagine that every place that you go, every woman there wanted to fuck you, buy you shit, act like a doormat. Thats their regular day. About this girl, she is playing push and pull games. As long as you are not affected/butthurt by it, you are fine. Just escalate anyway. If you notice she is wasting your time, you leave. If you see her fl…	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 12:49 PM
2	Soft nexting LTR This. Her drama is her problem, never let it affect you. "Whos this girl who keeps commenting on your fb pics?" "Oh its my other gf" When shes beiing moody or bitchy just remove yourself from her presence, until shes acting good. If you come back and shes still bitchy, slap her ass. She will get mad as fuck and you just laugh at her face. Be the immovable rock. Her emotions are her problem.	/r/askTRP	23/08/16 11:53 AM
1	I'm a fat ass If you are a beginner its more likely to burn fat while building muscle. As for diet, go for something that is lower on carbs and focus on real foods. Paleo is a great choice. If you are restricting carbs, eating only real food and lifting heavy shit theres no way you wont improve. Keto will work as well, but its more restrictive and you are more likelly to drop it. Cut the soy, its crap, especially for men. The "bulk" of what you eat should be meat (red, chicken, fish), eggs, LOTS of veggies an…	/r/askMRP	22/08/16 06:52 PM
1	How to break up with GF? I didnt read all your post, but what matters is this: "I don't want to be in this relationship anymore." So, man up and break up with her. You are free to make your choices, and you dont need to explain your choices to anyone. "I understand that you will feel bad about this, but this just isnt working anymore. We are not compatible. I wish you the best of luck." Dont explain her that its beucase the sex is bad, or you dont have the same interests, or because you want to party, or because she doe…	/r/askTRP	22/08/16 04:17 PM
2	Her friend with benefits and me meeting her So, you want to be exclusive with some girl who admitelly had a slutty past (but hey, its in the past and she is a new person now so it doesnt count right) who gets wasted and fuck guys (but when she does it while with you, it wont be her fault, because she was drunk right?) You like her? Cool. Want to bang her? Great, go ahead. Commit to her? Fuck no. Value your commitment. If she doesnt value her sex, its her problem, and no, you cant change her or "save" her.	/r/askTRP	22/08/16 12:46 PM
5	I took her back - It went to hell Be thankful that you didnt get her pregnant. Really, you took her back AND she moved again into your house? God. Go full no contact. Read the sidebar and improve yourself.	/r/askTRP	19/08/16 05:16 PM
1	My GF has SJW tendencies. Dont explain yourself to her. Dont rationalize. Dont excuse. Dont discuss. Dont let her "talking" affect you. Hold your frame and stick to your beliefs/decisions. Even if you are "logically right" in a discussion, if what she FEELS is different, in her eyes she is right and you are wrong. She is free to make her decisions, and so are you. "You are so rude!" "Damn right I am!" You cant change her. Only she can change herself. If she sees you as a high value man, and sees you, leading by ACTION an…	/r/askTRP	19/08/16 11:38 AM
3	Major setback Involving her family? Because she got all pissed about some cousins whatsapp group? God. You have kids right? Imagine your youngest daughter got all pissed off because you accidentally stepped on her sand castle and is throwing you a tantrum. How would you deal with that? Do the same when your wife is throwing shit like this.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/08/16 09:39 PM
2	Plate gave me "the talk." Where do I go from here? Well, first you have to decide if you want a LTR with her or not. Then you inform her the decision. Plates break, if she wants a relationship and you dont, at some time she will walk.	/r/askTRP	18/08/16 05:57 PM
1	Going too fast Is she being a good LTR? Being a pleasant company? Draining your balls on the regular and enthusiastically? When shes being good, reward her with your hugs, kisses and whatever (time/attention/affection). But dont just give it away for no reason. And about feing "loved", what she needs is to feel attracted to you. The higher the value she sees in you, the more "loved" she will feel when you reward her with your lovey dovey stuff.	/r/askMRP	18/08/16 12:19 PM
2	Potential plate stole 100 dollars from my wallet Think of it as the price of her "services". Ghost.	/r/askTRP	17/08/16 05:09 PM
3	Why don't we pinpoint a man's SMV? Women are already entitled, and if she earns a lot, she thinks her SMV is way higher than it already is. They think a bossy post wall 35 year old "strong independent woman" old who makes 150k a year has higher value than a 20 year old sweet feminine hottie still in college, because if the roles were reversed, the SMV of the male would be way higher.	/r/askTRP	17/08/16 05:03 PM
2	Should I next my fwb for participating in a mfm threesome with my friend and I? Why? As long as you dont commit you are fine.	/r/askTRP	17/08/16 04:58 PM
12	Ex has a new bf, trying to get into my head, need help Man up. Delete her from facebook so you dont see her pics, block from all social media, cut contact. Go fuck 10 other women and stop being a little bitch. And if she ever threatens suicide again, call the cops.	/r/askTRP	17/08/16 02:42 PM
1	My ex cheated on me with someone i know. I can get him arrested in two weeks. Should i? No. Move on with life. And its not this guys fault that your ex is a cheating whore. Consider that he did you a favor showing you shes not worth it.	/r/askTRP	17/08/16 12:23 PM
1	Bald Vs Artificial hair Shave, get a goatee and get buff. Before you decide to go the propecia route, google: propecia help forum	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 08:45 PM
1	Am I The Safe Bet After Wife Had Wild Past You really need to change your mindset. Theres no need for conversation. You decided you are going to use condoms. You are not gonna "talk about" using condoms with her.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/16 06:55 PM
1	Am I The Safe Bet After Wife Had Wild Past She makes the same as you, right? Since you dont have kids and wont have to pay alimony, why dont you get a divorce and find a 10 years young submissive hottie that hasnt ridden the CC and is attracted to you? While you improve yourself so you never get into a situation like this again.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/16 06:03 PM
2	Those who read No more Mr.Nice Guy, did you have a "partner" for 12 step program as it says in Chapter 1? Get a job and go live on your own. Fuck that she likes jovial, or that you are shaved, or whatever the fuck she criticizes you. I dont really know how that group program works, but they usually just plain suck. Just a bunch of people that get together to vent about the problems they have and group hug together, complain how life is tough and nothing is their fault. Like AA. "Im sober for 3 months" Everyboy cheer and claps! Cool! "I relapsed yesterday, because lots of shit happening in my life, a…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 03:12 PM
1	she lied but it was years ago, now what? Lol. "Fix the relationship". Someone needs to read the sidebar.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:41 PM
19	she lied but it was years ago, now what? Once a cheater, always a cheater. Ohhh so the counselor said YOU are impeding progress with your distrust? Why would that be? Maybe because your wife fucking cheated on you? I bet your counselor is a woman, right? Not only that, but she didnt tell you then, so you MARRIED her, and now that you are trapped with kids, she tells you, because now that you cant just walk away, she feels guilty right? What a fucking bitch.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 01:21 AM
10	Am I an asshole, or does she just blow shit out of proportion? You are her doormat. Really, you FOLLOWED her after her behaving like a 6 year old? Then you supplicate by kissing her, telling you love her like a good beta boy? Have some balls for fucks sake. Yeah, it was all your fault for being a spineless weakling. Read the sidebar, improve yourself and man up. Ohhh you are under 18. Not the time to be living with a girl bro. And I bet you or your parents are supporting her financially. Inform her she should pack her stuff and leave.	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 11:53 PM
1	Wife interrupting me while I'm talking She doesnt respect you. Women cheat on men they dont respect. She is talking shit behind your back to some dude and sending pics? You do know its 99% certain that she is getting side dicked right?	/r/askMRP	15/08/16 08:32 PM
2	Ex-gf with another guy, should I text anything You arent ready to plate her. If you get back together with her, you are gonna commit, she will break your frame and you will get screwed again. Shes a cheating whore, messaging her ex (you) while with another guy... Just let it go.	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 06:50 PM
1	LTR Starting To Deny Sex You already set your bar: "no sex, no relationship". While its normal that sometimes your LTR isnt in the mood, if this becomes the norm/she never initiates/its duty sex, then its bad. Her attraction to you lowering. What you can do is either improve yourself and become more attractive, or leave. Notice how you cant make HER more attracted to you. You cant control that. You can make YOURSELF more attractive, and that may make her tingly for you, or not. How? By improving yourself and being a hig…	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 11:50 AM
19	Shit-test: Calling our sex mediocre "Well, thats not what my other GF said"	/r/askTRP	15/08/16 11:38 AM
1	Did reading TRP really changed you? WISNIFG - when i say no i feel guilty MMSLP - married man sex life primer https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3at8mt/collection_of_some_trp_audio_books_and_pdfs/	/r/askTRP	13/08/16 02:47 PM
1	LTR's friend is full hamster mode. Should I be concerned? Watch what she does. If she wants to get back on the cc she will. What you can do is end things if this happens.	/r/askTRP	13/08/16 03:05 AM
2	Did reading TRP really changed you? I took control of my life. I now fully understand how i can control myself and my choices and I shouldnt try to control others, I am the only one responsible for the decisions I make in my life, and I dont need to explain my decisions to anyone. I am my own judge. The best part about TRP for me is the self improvement part and being a masculine man. I know have determined what i accept and what I dont accept from a LTR. My whole life (professional, loving, friends) was based on covert contracts,…	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 07:50 PM
1	Plating an ex - has this worked for anyone? Well, you are already doing it. Yeah, treat her like a normal plate. What she thinks she is entitled to or not is her problem. Keep dating/fucking her, and when/if you get the "what are we" talk you tell her you arent looking for anything serious in the moment, and she is free to accept or walk. Just dont commit to her.	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 04:58 PM
15	LTR kissed her ex, I can't bring myself to care, how should I proceed? You are fucking other girls, she is fucking her ex and who knows who else. Why are you in a LTR with her? Plate or next.	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 04:50 PM
5	LTR Issue Not LTR material. Dont hamster about it. Yeah you are right, not something you expect from a LTR. How to deal? Dont mention any of this crap to her. Dont discuss, dont argue, dont rationalize, dont excuse, dont explain. "This is not working anymore. We are not compatible. I wish you the best of luck".	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 12:24 PM
2	Had an argument woth LTR, she (falsely) accuses me of beeting her. What to do? You get the fuck away from her before you end up in jail, thats what you do. Kick her out of your house. DO NOT TOUCH HER AGAIN.	/r/askTRP	11/08/16 05:41 PM
1	Why an open relationship? For the woman, its the best thing ever. She gets to fuck alphas when she feels like with no consequences, and has mr. steady beta for providing/comfort/support at home. Someone has to pay her bills, endure her mood swings, take all her drama, be her emotional tampon right? But hey, mr. beta is free to watch and masturbate to his wife getting ass fucked by Chad. Maybe he will even raise kids from multiple Chads! Cant get any better. Any man that agrees to this just shows he has zero respect for h…	/r/askTRP	11/08/16 04:35 PM
12	I can't be the only one in this sub that asks plates their N-count Why do you care? Shes not gonna tell you the truth, you are not gonna commit to her. Just lowers your value in her eyes.	/r/askTRP	11/08/16 04:28 PM
5	Is putting her on ice an effective way to shut down Shit Tests in a LTR She is right. You cant control her or anyone. You can control you and your choices. You are doing it wrong. You cant change her, she is the way she is, you can accept it or move on. Oh, and you dont want to date a "bored" girl. You know, that kind of girl that you have to always come up with something new and exciting to enternain her or the little princess gets bored. Fuck that. My LTR says im boring, ill tell her ill be boring without her. Its up to you to decide what you expect and what dont …	/r/askTRP	11/08/16 12:32 PM
3	So an online girl from my beta days is about to move into my city. Can I plate her? You are overthinking. Set a meeting, escalate, and if she shoots you down, next.	/r/askTRP	10/08/16 09:17 PM
4	Girl keeps calling Shes wasting your time and wants you as an orbiter/backup plan. Just ghost her.	/r/askTRP	10/08/16 09:15 PM
1	What do you do with the anger? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1fve31YUX8	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/08/16 07:46 PM
2	Is it a good idea to go to the gym with LTR? Sure. You can give her some lifting advice, and if you are fit, she will notice other girls checking you out, so free dread.	/r/askTRP	09/08/16 06:32 PM
1	Was I just shit-tested and Failed! The funny thing is that, after a few months of internalizing the sidebar and improving yourself, you are gonna be wondering "why the hell im in a LTR with a bossy post wall CC rider who disrespects me when I could get myself a 10 year younger, feminine, sweet and submissive hottie"	/r/askTRP	09/08/16 06:07 PM
2	Was I just shit-tested and Failed! If she is strong and dominant, I guess you are the opposite. This wont last, as the kind of man who will give her tingles will be someone stronger and more dominant than her. This other girl wasnt shit testing you, just plain disrespecting you. What you could have done is, in a calm and firm tone, tell your girl "Come, we are leaving". Or just play along with it and give zero fucks "Yeah, you should totally meet her brother, maybe you two could really hit it off!". But since you probably have no…	/r/askTRP	09/08/16 02:24 PM
2	Would most women hold loyalty in an LTR under this very loose condition? I had kind of the same "agreement" with my ex (not the part of doing things with other guys, but the part of if any of us found someone better we would let each other know and break up). Guess what, she didnt stick to her part of the deal. Fucked with her coworker behind my back for a few months. Look, the problem is that you are focusing on her, and not you. You cant control her choices and what she does, but you can control you and your choices. "If she decides do hoe around and not tell me, b…	/r/askTRP	09/08/16 01:28 PM
2	Plate cancels, is this a shit test? Not a shit test. Lack of interest. Prob something/someone better came along, or she would have added something like "but im free on saturday". Reply her "ok, np" or something along this line. Dont be butthurt and get new plates. Dont contact her again, if shes interested she will. Then set new time/place for date.	/r/askTRP	08/08/16 06:26 PM
1	Guilt, regret and hypocrisy "(I think this girl was one of the good ones, not "AWALT" type)" You got a long way to go. There are great books about what you want to know in the sidebar. And if your happiness depends on anyone else but you, you are doing it wrong. You cant control other people, but you can control you and your choices.	/r/askTRP	08/08/16 05:01 PM
1	What works better for you - not fapping or less fapping? I used to fap to porn almost everyday since i was 15 (32 now) and I was starting to have ED, limp dick while fapping or fucking, very low libido, no will to do stuff etc. This was about a year ago. So I quit it cold turkey for around 6 months, and now i only fap when im really horny (i used to do it when i was bored). Im fapping around 2 times a month now, but I have sex with my GF at least 4-5 times a week.	/r/askTRP	08/08/16 04:55 PM
1	Is this situation shady? Sooooo you gave her the silent treatment? That will show her man! And when she asks whats wrong, you reply NOTHING! And storm out the door! A good read of the sidebar and you will find out that women are attracted to real men, not pussies.	/r/askTRP	08/08/16 03:39 AM
3	Soft nexting after 3 dates with no sex, could it work? No, dont contact her. She said she would and she didnt. If shes interested, she will. But most likely she nexted you.	/r/askTRP	08/08/16 03:33 AM
6	Girls say they have "too many problems at the moment". Are they scared? Or just apathetic? If you were Brad Pitt she wouldnt have "too many problems at the moment"	/r/askTRP	06/08/16 12:58 PM
3	Purposeless and Feeling Out of Place in Life When you get to the point where all you want to do is be successful as bad as you wanna breathe…then you’ll be successful. Most people say they wanna be successful…but they don’t want it bad. They just “kinda” want it. They don’t want it more then they wanna party, more then they wanna be “cool”. Most people don’t want success as much as they wanna sleep. Some people love sleep more then they love success. If you wanna be successful, you have got to be willing to give up sleep…because if you go …	/r/askTRP	06/08/16 12:53 PM
4	Ltr,instagram,validation. Where to draw the line? This. Just lay your boundary. You kinda talked too much. Dont EXPLAIN that what she did is wrong because its slutty and this and this and that. You will only be discussing with her hamster, and since what she did FELT right to her, you are gonna be wrong in her eyes. Just STATE that its a behaviour that you dont expect from your GF. She is free to stop doing it, or not. In case she doesnt, she is not fulfilling your expectations for a LTR so she is nexted.	/r/askTRP	05/08/16 09:01 PM
2	I Can't Date Girls Who Have Sexual History Dude, your standards are your standards. Your choices are yours and only yours to make. You dont need to explain or justify it to anyone. Just dont, or replies like that will come. Just like a woman saying. "I dont like short guys". So, what you are gonna do? Explain rationally and logically how she should like short guys, because looks doesnt matter, and what matters is whats in the inside, and its superficial, and this this this and that? No, that wont fucking work. She just doesnt like short …	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 12:57 AM
3	I Can't Date Girls Who Have Sexual History IMO, theres sexual histories and sexual histories. A girl that has had a few bfs, and a few more guys who she fucked AFTER getting to know him but didnt turn out alright, so around 5-10 partners by age 25 or something, its fine BY ME. But, that ex gf of yours, with 14 guys over one year (thats what she told you, so prob more), including fetishes, one night stands, is clearly not LTR material. A woman who did this will never be satisfied with only one man for her life. And sex to her is "just sex…	/r/askTRP	04/08/16 12:24 AM
1	Second date rejected? "Ok, np" No, dont ask her out again. If shes interested, she will. Theres a good chance she isnt interested, or she wouldnt have said "MAYBE another day"	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 06:38 PM
1	Cheating lying GF - Best way to break up?? "This is not working anymore. We are not compatible. I wish you the best of luck. Bye" Dont say you have the video, dont say you think she cheated, dont post your sex videos online. It wont change anything. What is done is done. No explaining, no rationalizing, no excuses, no discussion, no blaming, no drama, no fighting, no vengeance. Just STATE that you are breaking up, block her from social media and ignore calls. And you improve yourself and read the sidebar so you wont get into another shit…	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 05:57 PM
1	Girl I hard nexted unexpectedly tried to call me... "I needed someone to talk to" = "I need my emotional tampon". Just dont. Ignore, or just say that you have been busy.	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 05:49 PM
2	Ex-GF apologized 2 1/2 months Post-Breakup... He clearly has feelings/isnt over her yet. This would not go well. Ignoring is his best move.	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 05:22 PM
1	LTR often accuses me of loving my ex. I don't even think/care for ex. "No, the real problem is that I love my other GF as well"	/r/askTRP	03/08/16 04:58 PM
2	Chick gives me her boyfriend's number...wtf? She likes attention and validation and wants another orbiter.	/r/askTRP	02/08/16 06:49 PM
4	How would you respond to this text? Ignore what she says, escalate, if you get shot down, next.	/r/askTRP	02/08/16 04:35 PM
1	Callousness and Projection, trying to keep calm and make sense of the end of a four year LTR. Oh really? She can ignore the consequences of her actions and blame you? OH, SHE PLAYED A GAME? A WOMAN PLAYING GAMES? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! If you had any balls left you would have kicked her out of your life when she said that stuff about the yoga guy. And yes, she most likely fucked him. She doesnt respect you and women cheat on men they dont respect. But no, you are such a nice guy, arent you? Ohh, two years of hope shattered! Have you read about sunk cost fallacy on the sidebar? Lol, she needed…	/r/askTRP	02/08/16 02:16 PM
8	How do you get your GF to start working out? Yeah, i see it as green flag. Being fat / not caring about fitness, health, eating, lazyness etc. are red flags for me.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 09:19 PM
1	[FR] It does get easier Broader shoulders, not a lesser burden.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/08/16 07:26 PM
1	What is a sentiment that is often advocated in TRP that you oppose? I just go with "dont stick your dick in crazy".	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 05:38 PM
28	How do you get your GF to start working out? Lead by example. Im in a 1.5 year LTR and since month 3 my GF started to lift because "she wanted to keep up with and be fit like me", and I help with her training and diet.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 04:47 PM
1	Ex boyfriend This is not an ultimatum. This is boundary setting. Ultimatum would be something like "If you ever talk to xxxx again we are done".	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 01:21 PM
0	Ex boyfriend You should drop something like "i wont be in a ltr with someone who keeps in touch with her ex". Then its up to her to break or not the contact. She could just ignore him, block his number or whatever.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 03:33 AM
5	LTR called me by her male friends name twice Women that "hang out" one on one with other males while in a ltr are not ltr material	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 12:53 AM
1	Being Assaulted Basically Ruined My Life Im gonna give you a quick advice: repost this on /r/askmrp (its the asktrp for married guys). If you think I was "mean", be prepared. There you will find your answers.	/r/askTRP	29/07/16 06:25 PM
1	Being Assaulted Basically Ruined My Life No. Being weak and not owning your shit "ruined your life". Look at all this victim puke. All that is there is "she did this, she did that". How about you? What are you doing to improve yourself? What are you doing to fix shit? Dont you have the power or strenght to do anything? Cant you control your life? Your ex-wife is a cheating bitch. Your mom is bipolar. Theres people that dont like you and dont belive you. You were assaulted and handcuffed and abused and stuff. Can you control that? No. S…	/r/askTRP	29/07/16 05:44 PM
2	Why do women say "It was only sex" when referring to their CC days? Lol. Its never their fault.	/r/askTRP	29/07/16 03:02 PM
1	Do women get oneitis too? Women oneitis is more like "adoration". Something like the fans screaming/crying for justin bieber. They would do anything to get fucked by him. She has to think you are above her,that your SMV is higher than hers. She needs the best man she can get her hands on. If you are her best option, she will "love" you.	/r/askTRP	29/07/16 02:37 PM
1	Shit test or comfort tests. I can't tell anymore. Those are shit tests. "You never xxxx!!" "You always xxxx!" The worse kind of shit tests. "I cheated on you because you never xxxx! Its your fault!" See, what the "xxxx" is about doesnt matter. How you handle it is what matters. In this case, the message is not in the words, but in the way it is said. Seems like shes losing attraction to you. Read the sidebar, improve yourself and dont let her break your frame.	/r/askTRP	29/07/16 12:14 PM
2	Redpill me on fat loss? Go paleo, low carb (eat a bit more carbs on days you workout, less when you dont), focus on eating real food, dont drink your calories (this is VERY important. No soda /fruit juice / artificial sweeteners. Lemon juice (unsweetened), teas, coffee are fine). Lift like a motherfucker, focus on compound lifs (squat, deadlift, bench press, push ups, bent over rows, dips). Get a good paleo book and follow it. If you want to learn more about digestion, hormones and so on, i recommend the book: the dark…	/r/askTRP	29/07/16 12:01 PM
3	Did I handle this right? You could gauge her reaction. Play the game for a while, and if shes more into the other dude(s), you leave.	/r/askTRP	27/07/16 02:20 AM
8	LTR declined sex twice, but wants sex tonight. Accept? Fuck her. Or dont, if you dont feel like, but not because you want to play games, this will come as butthurt and she knows it, it will just lower your value in her eyes. When she fucks you good, you reward her with your time/attention/affection. If its starfish, you decrease your time/attention/affection. When you get shot down, you also decrease your time/attention/affection. If it keeps happening over and over, its time for a soft next/hard next. Do not cuddle her after being denied, but dont …	/r/askTRP	27/07/16 02:17 AM
3	Do women in your family tend to try to mold you into a Beta Bux? Because thats whats they think men are: replaceable work horses to sacrifice and provide, a white knight to save a single mom/reformed slut from the claws of the bad boys. But their power come from talk and shame. If you are unnafected by that, and you should be, you are fine. They cant force you to do or stop doing anything. But yeah, its sad that lots of guys take very long to wake up, usually after getting screwed over badly, and some never will.	/r/askTRP	27/07/16 01:49 AM
14	told girlfriend not to go to a coworkers Bachelorette party tomorrow. I'm out of town, and wouldn't be ok with this even if I was in town. she agreed. just got a text saying "I've decided I'm going tomorrow". What do I do? how do I respond? You set a boundary, she broke it. She doesnt respect you. Shes free to do whatever the fuck she wants, and you are free to decide if thats acceptable behaviour for a GF or not. If it was me: "I´ve decided you are no longer my GF".	/r/askTRP	26/07/16 05:28 PM
2	My LTR situation is different than any I have seen on here. What do you say? Seems like she dominates the relationship. You are in her frame. This wont work in the long run, she will either dump you or you gonna get cucked. Man up. Improve yourself and read the sidebar. You got severe oneitis man. You got it all wrong. You think your relationship is so special and unique, and you are such a special unique snowflake and so is she, so you need different advice/material that isnt in the sidebar. Guess what, you dont. This is gonna screw you in the long run. If you want to b…	/r/askTRP	26/07/16 03:26 PM
1	Would you let your LTR get drinks with a male friend you've never met? You dont "let" her do anything. She will do whatever the fuck she wants. You set your bondaries. "I wont be in a LTR with someone who goes on one-on-one dates with other males". You simply state it. There is no discussion. "Oh but hes just a good friend!" "You are so mean!". She goes, shes not your GF anymore. You dont "forbid" her to do anything or "force" her to do anything. You can only control you and your choices. Im not saying that this is what you should do. Its up to you to decide what y…	/r/askTRP	26/07/16 02:37 PM
1	Why do men financially support women they have no married/no kids? I don't mean "Sugar Daddies." low self esteem, scarcity mentality and that pussy on the pedestal You did your part. You told your friend your opinion and your point of view. You cant shove the pill over his throat. He will only change when he wants.	/r/askTRP	25/07/16 10:18 PM
5	I'm a rich beta bucks who foolishly agreed to an open relationship, looking for advice 1) dump her ass right now. Save any proofs of cheating and divorce her. She doesnt respect you and she never will. Yeah, an "open marriage" is fucking great for her. She will have the security and comfort of your commitment and your assets while being free to fuck all the Chads that she is horny for with no problem. And I guess you are not getting any side chicks right? Ask yourself this: what value is she adding to your life? You are not even fucking her (yea ok, once a month starfish sex, grea…	/r/askTRP	25/07/16 10:06 PM
1	If the whole world becomes red pill savvy, will it not be a much more aggressive world? So, is it wise to take people out of the matrix? "If there are less idiots in the world, wont there be less people to take advantage off?"	/r/askTRP	25/07/16 08:53 PM
3	Dealing with girlfriend who's mad at you Lol, so shes used to sucking lots of guys cocks? Seems like good GF material.	/r/askTRP	25/07/16 08:44 PM
12	LTR said she 'accidentally flashed someone on the beach'. Thoughts? welcome to trickle truth She felt guilty she did something wrong and blabbed this out. Theres more to it. I wouldnt be surprised if this dudes mouth was accidentally on her tits.	/r/askTRP	25/07/16 08:37 PM
7	LTR proposed to me A 5 and a slut? Thats the best you can do?	/r/askTRP	22/07/16 09:21 PM
0	Change My View on marriage "I think being a good father is something to be admired" This is the wrong mentality. So you want to be a father because "the others" will admire you? Because thats whats "expected" of you? Because its "the right thing" to do? This is bluepill mentality. If you want to be a father, do it because YOU want for your own reasons. If you want to get married, do it because YOU want for your own reasons. Not because what "the others" think, not to get approval of "the others". Screw what "the others" t…	/r/askTRP	20/07/16 12:46 PM
3	Should i dump my girlfriend? Probably yes 1) Whatever shit is going on her life is no excuse to disrespect you. She wouldnt do it if she saw you as a high quality man. 2) The joys of cohabitating with a woman. Wait until you get married. And you shouldnt be paying for all her stuff. 3) Those "accusations" are shit tests. Agree and amplify, amused mastery, or ignore. Do not explain, do not excuse, do not rationalize. I bet you being the rational nice guy that you are you use your full blown logic to "win" the arguments. 4) You only engag…	/r/askTRP	20/07/16 12:38 PM
1	Girls see my luxury home; I then struggle to close Dont take them to your home straight away.	/r/askTRP	19/07/16 12:38 PM
5	How do I get past the fact my LTR was someone else's plate? Thats why you dont LTR casual sex sluts. You feel like a sucker because you are one. You are the one who has to raise another man´s kid, put up with her women drama and problems, etc etc while other guys just used her like a cum dumpster. I really doubt that if you dig into her email/social media you wont find stuff you dont want to. Sad thing is that you knew it all along, its not like you popped a kid into her and THEN found out she was being passed around like a joint. Thats the power of the …	/r/askTRP	19/07/16 01:22 AM
1	The MRP, what to do? You want someone to spew out in a few paragraphs a special solution for your special case because you think your situation is so unique and you are such a unique special snowflake and so is your wife. Not gonna happen. Do the work.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/07/16 05:29 PM
2	Figuring out if girls are LTR worthy(Tinder, sex on first date) Im not american, I do know IRL a few girls that are on tinder that are LTR worthy. But they dont fuck on the first date, are not party girls, dont use drugs, and so on. They are looking for a LTR.	/r/askTRP	15/07/16 07:32 PM
-1	Breaking up with LDR/LTR Call her or send a msg "We are not compatible anymore", "This is not working anymore". Dont excuse, dont explain, dont rationalize. Just state. Then cut all contact and delete from social media.	/r/askTRP	15/07/16 02:38 PM
2	LTR went to the counselor... "We shouldnt have commitment next year. I will only give away my commitment for someone im having sex with"	/r/askTRP	15/07/16 12:46 PM
3	What to do about women lying Lol, shes willing to lie about having a fucking KID. Good lord. Just stay the fuck away. If its a LTR and she lies, you state, calmly and firmly, that you dont tolerate lies, and dont argue/discuss with her about it, as she will triclke truth/hamster about it. What you do is punish her when she does it, by giving less of your time/attention/affection/soft nexting up to hard nexting depending on what it was. She lies, you punish her, she will think twice about doing it again.	/r/askTRP	15/07/16 12:33 PM
1	LTR: Maintaining a frame when rejected This. Also increase your SMV. She should be thinking "If I dont fuck him, hes gonna find somene who will"	/r/askTRP	15/07/16 12:22 PM
1	LTR turned long distance... Shit test incoming? bi-annual visits? You expect her to go 6 months without sex? In a different country, with all those new tasty foreign exotic cocks? And all she has to do to fuck a few of them is wanting it? Are you gonna stay 6 months without sex? The thing with this dude is just the beginning. And now she says she wants to stay there. This is not a shit test. You staying in this situation just shows how low value you are. Dude, GTFO now.	/r/askTRP	14/07/16 02:09 PM
6	What is slutface? sad thing is that theres an endless supply of thirsty betas to "save" the single moms and reformed sluts, marry them, get cucked and lose 50% of their shit.	/r/askTRP	14/07/16 02:04 PM
3	10 Years Married - wife is Asexual As it was said, you need to get a job asap. She doesnt want to be the breadwinner and she will resent you for it. Even if shes making the money now, you should be the one paying the bills, keeping the budget, doing taxes and so on, she will resent you if she has to do all of these. Its your job. Its also clear that being needy, weak and so on will dry her up, so just dont. Nothing new to TRP. Just be careful not to TALK so much, you should be DOING instead.	/r/askTRP	14/07/16 12:45 PM
1	LTR talked shit behind my back; how to end with little collateral damage? You will be the bad guy no matter what. Even when she cheats you, its your fault. It will be because you always xxxxxx you because you never yyyyy. Who cares. "Turns out we are not compatible", "Its not working anymore", "I want to find myself (lol)". Dont explain, dont rationalize, dont excuse, no closure.	/r/askTRP	13/07/16 04:52 PM
3	10 Years Married - wife is Asexual Its common for beta guys to have the "savior mentality". Lots of guys here come from this position. Betas are the ones who marry the single moms. They are the ones who marry "reformed sluts", because they want to "save" them from the other countless guys who just pumped and dumped them. Poor things. In your case, you ended up choosing one with that problem, and in your head this makes it harder for her to be willing to leave you, because you were such a nice guy to accept a woman with this probl…	/r/askTRP	12/07/16 08:22 PM
3	I am confused about n-count in general and I also have a specific example It really depends on you. Do you accept this or not? Problem with n-count is that you can never be sure. If she sees you as relationship material, she will lie about it. Then you could go and try to find a virgin (almost impossible today, and even if you do, she has to meet your attraction standards, be into you and so on) and how will you know if your virgin wasnt giving blowjobs every weekend to guys she met on a club? Doing anal to remain "virgin"? My suggestion is: while everything is good, …	/r/askTRP	12/07/16 01:25 AM
3	10 Years Married - wife is Asexual 1) Read no more mr nice and married man sex life primer. 2) Post your question on /r/askmrp. Most guys here are against LTR / marriage so the standard answer will be NEXT. (Be prepared to be called a pussy) 3) Just to give an insight, you should be focusing on YOU, not her. Increase your value and your attraction. Be attractive, dont be unnatractive. Your post is all about her. She, she, she, she. She being the breadwinner is not a good thing, you should get a good job ASAP. Your goal is wrong. …	/r/askTRP	12/07/16 01:07 AM
2	Girlfriend is giving me shit for bad grades... Its up to you to accept this or not. It seems like she doesnt respect you. This is very bad. Draw a line. Set your boundaries.	/r/askTRP	11/07/16 05:04 PM
6	LTR of 2 years left w/o explanation after 1 last night of sex, how to deal with common friends "Im confuse" = "I cant decide between you and Chad" Why she did it? You will never know the real answer. Lift, read the sidebar and keep improving yourself. Do not ever LTR her again. About your friends, just say "it wasnt working anymore", "turns out we were not compatible" or something like that. It doesnt matter anyway. When you are around her again, treat her "professionally", like an old acquaintance. Do not demonstrate any feelings/ butthurt. Chit chat for like 10 secs, dont bring the past…	/r/askTRP	11/07/16 12:59 PM
1	I treat my gf like shit cause she had an ex and bring him up in all my conversations 1) Stop being a pussy and man up. Lift if you arent. 2) You cant control her. You can only control you and your choices. If she wants to fuck her ex, she will. What you can do is improve yourself. Tell her "I wont be in a LTR with someone who keeps in touch with her ex". If she is still in touch with him, dump her 3) She doesnt "forbid" you from doing anything.	/r/askTRP	11/07/16 12:25 PM
3	Girl I'm seeing's ex came back into her life Shes being honest. "I see. I wish you luck" or "oh ok". And ghost her.	/r/askTRP	09/07/16 11:45 PM
1	How do I increase sex frequency in a LTR? Read married man sex life primer	/r/askTRP	09/07/16 07:35 PM
4	Potential LTR Red Flags? Shes hitting the wall, she still wants to party but she wants her safe BB at home. This sucks for you but she isnt LTR material. She also seems to have daddy issues and is disrespecting you. This will only get worse if you move in with her. And she was the sidechick of some doorman? So commitment is worthless to her. Move on and find a younger girl with feminine qualities who hasnt ridden the CC if you want a LTR.	/r/askTRP	09/07/16 07:29 PM
3	Red pill discovery and the road ahead - next stop divorce You are gonna be the bad guy no matter what. In her head, her cheating is your fault and she is the big victim. She did it because you always xxxxx, or because you never yyyyy, or because of that time 3 years ago when you bought you a sandwich and didnt buy one for her.	/r/askMRP	09/07/16 02:48 PM
1	Red pill discovery and the road ahead - next stop divorce You are still framing it on her. Who cares what she will think about the divorce? Who cares if her fee fees will be hurt? Who cares how she will react? Do what you have to do. No, dont tell her about the phone cheating. Treat it like you have a business partner and the business is not working. Do whatever you can do to keep most of your assets. "We are not compatible anymore". "Its not working out anymore". She may beg, cry, manipulate, go crazy. You use fogging, broken record, be firm on your d…	/r/askMRP	09/07/16 02:34 PM
2	Plate about to swing to a new branch? You got oneitis. Imagine you commit to this woman, in a few years she will be 50, saggy and old, and you will be on your prime. This is not gonna last. Abundance mentality is the key for this.	/r/askTRP	09/07/16 02:18 PM
4	Is this a sign of a BPD girl? Nah, just regular girl games. Push and pull. And her game is working, she didnt answer for 1 hour and you already think she was fucking someone.	/r/askTRP	09/07/16 11:57 AM
6	F***ing need immediate help, blue pill shit.. exams in 2 days. Yeah of course you cant trust her, she fucking cheated on you. Dump her for good. She WILL do it again, with this guy or another. Stop being a pussy.	/r/askTRP	09/07/16 11:54 AM
2	Plate about to swing to a new branch? Blablabla... Shes a plate. She can do whatever the fuck she wants. You can tell her she is special and still keep her as a plate. But remember, plates break. Why would you commit to a post wall 44 year old women when theres thousands of young hotties around?	/r/askTRP	09/07/16 11:10 AM
1	I'm only looking for friends (Famous line) Ignore and escalate. If you get shot down, next.	/r/askTRP	08/07/16 06:48 PM
7	GF trickle truths me about sexual past Heheheheh Thats whats she is telling you. Theres a lot more. Lol man, "lesbian experiences"... This is a huge red flag for slut. Oh wait, poor thing, she couldnt judge for herself. So, she shouldnt be ashamed for her past? If she has fucked 100´s dudes, done orgies, cheated on bfs, no problem right? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3kgbn7/the_lengthy_red_flags_warning_flags_green_flags/	/r/askTRP	08/07/16 06:47 PM
1	2 year LTR cancels ("raincheck") regular weekday night to go out for "1 or 2" drinks with coworkers. This is the first time she's ever cancelled, even if nothing was actually 'planned.' Just want some opinions/thoughts... Id say let her go. If she goes and does something wrong, its better to know shes a whore now than years later. If she wants to cheat, she will, no matter what you do. You cant control her. You can only control you and your choices. Always focus on improving yourself.	/r/askTRP	08/07/16 02:44 PM
2	One of my girls has bf, met this guy, now i feel bad for him. Should i let him know? You could tell him that he should drop his slut, improve himself and move on, but dont tell you fucked her. It will do no good. Its not your fault that shes a whore or that hes a loser. Plus he will blame you for all the problems.	/r/askTRP	08/07/16 12:33 PM
3	When a girl has (way) more sexual partners than you do. As long as you are not commiting to one of those, who cares? Never disclose your n-count.	/r/askTRP	08/07/16 12:12 PM
3	Why is she accepting this when I wouldn't? Do not do a "open relationship". Its not worth it for the man. You will have to give your time/attention/affection, deal with all her drama and women problems, while other guys will just enjoy the good part (fuck her brains out). Keep her as plate and nothing more. Also you two are very young, this wasnt going to last anyway.	/r/askTRP	07/07/16 12:34 PM
2	Advice for where I am I really dont get why someone would still remain married after 2 years of not even a HUG from his wife. So i guess you havent had sex for at least 2 years and done nothing about it. Its a huge display of low value. Your wife thinks "If I dont want to have sex with him, he is never gonna have sex again in his life, and he is fine with it. What a loser".	/r/askMRP	06/07/16 08:04 PM
4	Are more shit tests a good or bad thing? They need to test if you are man enough to them. If you are good enough to fuck them. For women, your looks are just part of the package, there are lots of other stuff that matters, like social status, if you are AF or BB, if theres others girls after you, etc. It takes time to know all of this, so shit testing is a way to start to know. Different from the man. We look at a girl, and if she fits our "attraction" standarts (hot/pretty) we want to fuck them, and we dont give a shit about what she …	/r/askTRP	06/07/16 04:16 PM
6	GF admitted kissing somone on spin the bottle and says "it's not cheating"...WTF!? If you remain exclusive with her after that you deserve to be a cuck. Ghost her for good is your best choice. If you want to play a little, start treating her like a plate until she confronts you, and then you go "oh, didnt i tell you? You are a plate now."	/r/askTRP	06/07/16 12:19 AM
2	Strip game gone bad: Failed pre-sex shit test? No, shit tests. You need to be more attractive. I bet that if you got to start fucking her after that dart game, there would be a lot of "you know i dont like when you put your finger in my ass", "dont pull my hair like that", "you know my leg hurts on that position" and so on. Theres no easy/quick fix for that, it takes time and dedication. Be attractive, dont be unnatractive.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/07/16 06:35 PM
1	Strip game gone bad: Failed pre-sex shit test? Your reply was bad. You rationalized, defended, exaplained. Entered her frame. But the main issue here seems attraction. Are you lifting? Owning your shit? Doing stuff to keep the house going? Applying dread? MAP? Manly hobbies? Getting out of the house?	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/07/16 06:29 PM
2	Is she testing my frame or am I looking into this too much? Seems like you are indecisive. Women hate that, because then it will be up to them to make decisions. Instead of saying "blablablablablabla im busy, new job, dont know if i can make it", you figure it out by yourself, and tell her "ill be available on wednesday at xx:xx, come here". Ignore her comment and set a day/time for her to come. If she bitches about it and doesnt show up, then it could be a bad sign, that shes losing respect/tingles for you.	/r/askTRP	05/07/16 06:13 PM
1	Can a feminine guy sustain an LTR with a masculine female? I guess so. Masculine female = bossy feminist entitled "im a strong idependent woman who doesnt need any man". The only kind of man who is willing to be bossed and ordered around, be submissive, disrespected, treated like shit and cucked will be the beta feminine doormat guy.	/r/askTRP	05/07/16 05:40 PM
3	Broke up with LTR last night, hamster went nuclear, how to handle her going forward? Wow. Have some self respect and cut her from your life for good. And most likely shes bpd as well.	/r/askTRP	02/07/16 06:14 PM
1	Girlfriend kissed her best friend (another girl)..? Shes a plate now. And dont do a LDR with her.	/r/askTRP	01/07/16 08:29 PM
1	How to Tame a Shrew? Think of it like this: you remove your time/attention/affection when shes acting like a bitch. Do not defend, do not explain yourself, do not rationalize. Then, when shes acting like a decent person again, you reward her with your time/attention/affection. She knows when shes being a bitch, shes not stupid. She acts like that because you allow it, and currently she sees you as a low value man. You are gonna need to do a lot more than just that. Your wife disrespects you and do all this shit beca…	/r/askTRP	01/07/16 05:37 PM
2	How to Tame a Shrew? Yeah. Leave and act unphased. If she breaks shit, dont replace. And i hope you are not the one cleaning the mess she makes. You are totally in her frame, responding to what she does/acts. You need to stop giving a fuck and do what you want and need to do, regardless of her liking it or not.	/r/askTRP	01/07/16 01:55 AM
1	How to Tame a Shrew? Man, read the book i mentioned before. You dont maintain frame for a week or month, you do it FOREVER. When shes bitching out, you act unphased and go do something outside of the house. Hit the gym, your hobby, grab a beer with your friends. Stop explaining yourself, stop using logic when shes shit testing you, this way you are just entering her frame even more. Again, read the book and implement it.	/r/askTRP	01/07/16 12:20 AM
1	How to Tame a Shrew? You cant tame her. You can only control yourself. Improve yourself, by owning your shit, lifting, having hobbies outside of the house, gaming your wife, having strong frame, outcome independence and leading your wife. Become a real masculine man. You can only control yourself and your choices, and she may follow you not. If, AFTER you have improved yourself and did all of these, your wife is still acting like a disrespectful bitch, then its time for her to walk. Read Married Man Sex Life Primer …	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 08:53 PM
1	Found hard evidence of GF cheating on her computers. What are the legal implications of copying such files? Tell her to bring your stuff back, because you are needing it, or you want to organize your stuff, whatever. Then dump her ass.	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 05:57 PM
4	Found hard evidence of GF cheating on her computers. What are the legal implications of copying such files? If you live together with her and theres any chance that you lose money/any asset to her, then copy files but dont tell her. If not, just dump her ass and ghost her. Dont say anything about the stuff you found out. You can either say "we are not compatible anymore" or "because you are a cheating slut" or whatever you want, its all up to you. You dont need to proove anything.	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 03:00 PM
5	Girls into bad boys/the tingles? Because they are attractive. Phisically, status, and also they do whatever the fuck they want, dont need validation from others, arent needy / clingy, arent doormats (think the exact opposite of mr. nice guy), and they provide the rollercoaster of emotions and drama that women crave. They end up settling with a beta because the bad boys wont commit to them. And they resent the beta for that, treat him like a piece of shit and give him once a month starfish sex, while still fucking bad boys behin…	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 02:55 PM
1	Broke up with gf and wondering if I should turn her into a fuck buddy hahahah Ahhh the trickle truth. Fucking hate that shit. Lol she kept with her lie even after you saw it on VIDEO. Yeah turn her into a FB if you can, just dont commit to her.	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 01:48 PM
3	Dinner with her boss You are caring too much. She is a plate and will be traveling soon. Treat her as such. Enjoy her, fuck her, who cares if she fucks her boss or whatever other dude.	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 01:45 PM
1	How to avoid being openly cucked? By not being a spineless weak chump. Why doesnt he dump her? Because he has no self respect and thinks he cant do better than a cheating slut whos getting fat.	/r/askTRP	30/06/16 12:30 PM