Big Party Coming Up - Tips?

BornOnMay3rd · 2019-04-30T10:03:52+00:00

There isn't a rush so the first thing to do is to create rapport with EVERYONE. You don't have to be the life of the party, just try to be the guy everyone has had a good first impression of. Never be more drunk than the party and once the mood is set, start approaching. If you see three girls, approach all three. Worse thing you can do is orbit one girl for the whole party.

bigboxguy · 2019-04-30T12:26:19+00:00

It’s one party. Don’t hype it up because nothing will happen if you do. I went to 3-4 parties a week my freshman year of college. You’ll have more opportunities. Just show up an enjoy it.

mrmaldoror · 2019-04-30T10:04:53+00:00

I was so sloshed at that age I couldn't have possibly applied game, still got laid though. I also didn't care about getting laid and always preferred having fun with the mates.

Heathcliff-- · 2019-04-30T15:02:43+00:00

The harder you try, the more you will fail.

Outcome independence; if you focus so hard on trying to meet girls and getting laid at this party, it will show in your attitude and the way you carry yourself, and you will come across as needy and desperate. Remember, women have a sixth sense for this kind of thing.

Read the first chapter of Mark Manson's "Models".

My advice; tell yourself. "I am not here to get laid". "Even if a girl is interested in me tonight, I am going to go home by myself"

Focus on having a great time with your friends, and making the party as enjoyable as possible for everyone else, not just for you. You're there to give them a good time and provide value, not suck value away and be a bore.

And you're definitely not going to meet girls or fuck them. You're just there to party. That is how you enter this situation.

TheRedPillKing · 2019-04-30T11:37:32+00:00

Read the books - captivate and magic bullets. Forget about this one event. Go for it anyways.

GeorgePottasium · 2019-04-30T17:14:09+00:00

Parties are a great place to meet new chicks, and escalate with women you’ve already been gaming.

Couple things first:

-Introduce yourself to the homeowner if you are not already acquainted, and offer a few dollars in pitch if they ask for it. You want to build rapport among the people at these parties so you always have someone to turn to/talk to if the situation requires it.

-It’s not really your responsibility, but in order to minimize the chance of the party being shut down, ask if the homeowner has talked to his neighbors-Asking them to let y’all know if the music is too loud, or if they are being disruptive rather than immediately calling the cops.

-It’s a good idea to locate exits/determine and exit strategy in the event that cops do come-Figure out where you would run if you had to evac quickly so you don’t get an MIP.

-Locate an empty room or two that you can lead a girl to and close with. Many times I’ve failed to sufficiently do so, and been cockblocked/didn’t close because there was nowhere to fuck at.

Now for the gaming strategy: -If there’s 100 people there will be plenty of women there-Easy-Approach many of them. With parties there’s a lot going on, and many venues that women can gain entertainment from. You must present yourself as the most entertaining/enthralling venue in order to talk with them and game. Approach confidently and boldy. One of my go-tos is commandingly approaching a group of women, pointing to their cup and asking “There booze in there or what?”. Ask to try it, offer some of your own and introduce yourself. Now you’ve got a foothold in their interest, but you’ve gotta prove yourself to continue and close.

Talk about random shit-The party, where they go to school, etc. while portraying yourself as a cool, confident guy who likes to get fucked up after a long week of school. Offer s few subtle compliments to one of em, but don’t over extend yourself.

Leave while the iron is hot, and you guys are vibing-Excuse yourself by saying ya gotta catch up w someone else, and repeat this process w other groups of women.

Later in the night approach one of them that you found yourself the most successful with, talk to her more and if she’s bout it, invite her to “go someplace a little quieter” and bring her to one of those rooms u located earlier. I’m sure you can escalate n close from there.

Cheers, good luck.

forknpork · 2019-04-30T11:52:08+00:00

The best way to get female interest as a house party is to be the life of it. This is why your priority should be to have a good time and to enjoy yourself. Girls can pick out the losers pretty fast at a small house party like that.

Unless you're the best looking man there, if they notice you lurking and not having fun, they're going to rid you ASAP once you approach them.

deathbya1000cocks · 2019-04-30T17:00:06+00:00

Go there to have fun, NOT to pick up chicks. If you go there specifically to pick up chicks you will end up being disappointed at the party when things aren't going your way and it's a downward spiral. I personally wouldn't drink too much, and I don't need to to have a good time. You however are probably going to get fucked up doing drinking games, join them. Feel free to tease the girls that are doing them as well. Try to pace yourself so you got enough time to last the night. Above all, have fun.

Bring condoms, have them on you. You don't want to have to worry about them later and you'll feel ready and be ready if you do get to fuck.

randomTATRP · 2019-05-01T09:01:55+00:00

DO NOT. OVERDRINK. trust me. get strongly buzzed and then go for 1 water, 1 beer or sth like that. if you get drunk, everything goes to hell.

Title	Big Party Coming Up - Tips?
Author	55Throwaways
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Date	April 30, 2019 9:48 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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