I've had a pretty good past 12 months in terms of relationships and sex. In fact, since adopting the parts of TRP that I was missing (more dominant personality, bulking, taking charge), the last 2 years of my life have completely overshadowed the rest of my dating life combined.

However, and maybe I'm being a 'sperg here, I've noticed every girl but one I've had sex with was on some form of birth control. Half were on the IUD (ended up exclusively dating), half were on the pill (one nighters). From what I've read, doesn't birth control basically cause the woman to seek out the beta provider at all times? I'm only 5'8", 135, and I do have a face that makes me look much younger (if I shave, I get guesses as young as 23). It's weird because the girls I've dated have said they love the way I make the plans, take charge, keep cool under pressure, am not needy, and am great in bed, but (a) the relationships have ended (the last one hit me especially hard) (b) that would go against the whole beta mindset.

I get that in terms of genetic potential, I am realistically not a top-tier male despite intelligence and athleticism. I'm short, bald, brown, and have skinny bone structure. At 31, I'm seriously thinking that the dream I had of having kids may not be such a great idea. Because the girls that have considered me relationship material were on birth control and wouldn't going off of it basically cause the girl I would be with to immediately just ship? Has anyone else thought about this?