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Plans B-F have been OnlyFans apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:03 AM
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I tried and failed spectacularly. Then I gained 12 lbs. of muscle, and all of a sudden everyone loved the way I dressed. Hmm, wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:01 AM
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women had no rights at all and had to marry to have food and shelter, that's more than "some sacrifices"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:44 AM
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here ya go
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 03:42 PM
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Tori's way fucking hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 04:38 PM
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Do you think that every girl is capable of a vaginal orgasm with every partner? Reason I ask is that I remember one of my exes telling me she had never had multiple vaginal orgasms until she met me, and my current LTR can't orgasm unless she's playing with her clit. Everyone says not to worry about it, and frankly our sex life is amazing, but there's something in the back of my mind that has me thinking about your first bullet point, considering she said she's had vaginal orgasms with other guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:30 AM
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But are there surefire ways to give every girl vaginal and ejaculative orgasms? I thought that was based on their individual anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:21 PM
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Glad you clarified, as I thought you were making a weapons metaphor haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 08:49 PM
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Fucking asshole. Hate people that go recklessly fast down trails that will obviously have more people on them than a double black or something. That's why I still wear my race helmet even though I only ski for fun now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:35 PM
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Actually about to hit the slopes myself. It's the only reason I can stomach winter. Did someone try to people slalom around you and mow you down instead last time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:58 PM
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That's fucking awesome haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:16 PM
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Yeah. I basically I have everything I want in life, but the landscape of society is so bleak that I get no joy out of it, as I spend most of my time trying to think of how to stay ahead of the decay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:36 PM
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That's why Kellen Winslow, Jr. was all of a sudden wearing them and a suit in court when on trial for raping elderly women. His lawyer basically admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:35 PM
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I had to gain 12 lbs. of muscle so I didn't look like a concentration camp survivor with my clothes on. All of a sudden, my eclectic sense of dress (colored skinny jeans) went from being gay to saying "they're so I can find them at the foot of your bed in the morning" and having it work. I didn't have to perfect every aspect of the conversation, as girls would be far more responsive and engaging. I went from getting a hug and pecks on the cheek with a text later saying "I had a good time, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 03:48 PM
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What the fuck? As an Indian guy, most Indian guys I knew were going after Indian girls or were so focused on their studies so that their parents wouldn't disown them that they didn't date and just waited for mommy and daddy to get them an Indian wife after they became a doctor. But I never see this obsession with white women that people keep talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 07:07 PM
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Bahaha, what? All our parents' generation as males needed was to not be a serial killer and have a good job, and you'd find a wife. Now you need looks, money, and status just to have a fucking chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:37 PM
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Because you approach those girls in in real life, and then if there's one thing about you they don't like, it's off to their technological buffet to replace you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:36 PM
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I wrote a paper back in 2011 in grad school that predicted this would be the way if online dating ever took a majority foothold. Here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:35 PM
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No. Women have always had these expectations of men. Now that religious and social constructs around sex and relationships have been changed, they can freely try to find someone that meets their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:19 PM
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And then you'll be in a fucking hole in the ground or scattered at sea and none of it will mean fuck all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:22 PM
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Estrogen-mimicking compounds in plastics is a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:15 PM
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Wasn't their fault I was short, skinny, and average facially. The only people I fault were the adults in my life growing up telling me I just needed to get a good job and show stability and I'd find a good wife. They fucking know better, but I guess you can't just tell a kid he's inferior genetically. I regret not having those lusty encounters when I was younger, because at least then I wouldn't have worried about whether I was being used for money, stability, and settling down. While the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:01 AM
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What happens if Chad beats down Allah? Game, set, match.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:37 PM
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Blue pill - valid when religion, social constructs, and lack of women's rights meant women had to pick a man to survive Red pill - valid now Black pill - the future, once all of these genetic failures that would have never reproduced except for in the blue pill phase are bred out of existence. Chad will have a free-for-all fuckfest, others will be wage slaves and this will be common and accepted. Purple pill - crazy people arguing why, how, and when this all takes place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:42 PM
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I got a lot more in my late 20s and now early 30s than the rest of my life. And that's with going bald. And my girlfriends have gotten younger, but they pay their fair share.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:07 PM
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You are not expected to shave your body hair and no one really cares if you wear the same outfit all the time. Uh, yes you are. I've been mocked endlessly for having body hair that I have to have waxed routinely and as someone that grew up not financially well-off, you'll absolutely get blasted for being a scrub for wearing the some outfit all the time. You are not judged or shamed for being promiscuous. No, but you are judged for being a virgin/little experience. And being promiscuous for being…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:07 PM
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If it weren't for my beard, I'd probably still be incel haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:04 PM
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I always just walk in, do the class, and walk back out, to where it appears rude when girls just try to say hi or ask my thoughts on the class. Beats being "that guy" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:51 PM
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That's the way I feel about it at this point. As long as I'm getting my needs met in and out of the bedroom, if she were to have a tryst outside of the relationship, I don't really think it would bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:24 PM
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Confidence without results to justify it equals arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:23 PM
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She had all of the signs of BPD and I was an unattractive, beta pussy that considered myself lucky to have any girl in my life. Bad combo. We were great friends for a year before dating, but it all started going haywire like 8 months into our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:41 PM
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Calm yourself. I could grow a proper beard at like 14, but didn't do it until my mid 20s because I used to get teased for it in high school. I don't know everyone's facial hair proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:38 PM
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L'Apple?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:24 PM
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Or a Marshawn Lynch-esque Beastquake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:12 AM
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There's a reason why our women's national team for soccer lost to a u-17 boys team. There's a reason why Dustin Johnson can bomb one 380 on demand and no woman on this planet can match that. This girl would legit die on the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:30 AM
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They'd just run screens at her side of the field all day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:29 AM
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I thought Dunta Robinson legit killed him when he launched into him helmet to helmet and knocked them both out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:28 AM
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Can you grow a beard? That and aging is what saved me in my late 20s/early 30s. I've had the same thing where college students assume I'm no older than 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:36 PM
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True love doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:45 PM
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One of my exes said she would buy me a nice watch, as the concept of the guy needing to buy an engagement ring while the girl did nothing was bullshit in her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:47 PM
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That's not the point. Your example is a girl setting healthy boundaries based on her comfort level. The RP fear is that she did anal, facefucking, etc with prior guys willingly but tells you she's no longer like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:39 AM
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Know those feels, fam. I don't want revenge, but now that I'm getting what I want out of the SMP, I'm still having trouble reconciling my loser past with my successes now. And like you, it was all getting my body right (I had to bulk up though).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:22 PM
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Therapy did nothing for me except rehash the problems I was facing and give me solutions that were effectively coping mechanisms or were not based in reality. Adopting some of the red pill tenants completely changed my life for the better. Gonna go with a hard no on your advice there, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:28 PM
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Good shit man. The best part of making it a side hustle is that you wouldn't have to keep inventory because most people that buy Apple are constantly upgrading because Jobs convinced them to, so I'm not sure how many people would actually even have a prior-gen iPod around still. Always cool to see fellow people MacGyvering shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:35 PM
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Or "Happy <whatever day of the week it is>" I've literally had only one opener that wasn't one of what you or I named, and that was her being a soccer fan, noticing that my picture had me playing, and asking about my favorite team.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:05 PM
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That's badass. Does any of the software have to be modified to get it to work with the flash memory?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:30 PM
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Because religious and social constructs caused some men of yesteryear to procreate that would be the incels of today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 05:50 PM
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I agree with everything except for this: The number of single women without relationships will also rise I think polygyny will be acceptable, and Chads will just have harems all to themselves. Nobody else will stand a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 12:06 AM
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They're sent their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 08:37 PM
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17 females used to reproduce for every male that did. Try again, chief. Birth control just allows Chad to have a harem without paying out the ass for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:22 PM
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True, but that still doesn't make you a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:20 PM
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Men Being Sent Their Own Way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:01 PM
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The delusion is strong with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:00 PM
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No, I'm explaining their findings with what I believe is the reason. I may be wrong, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:32 PM
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Messaging for attention and validation are far different than messaging for dating and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:14 PM
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Alpha widowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:19 PM
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The one where the bell curve shifts to where 80% of males are considered average or less than
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:57 PM
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She can't compete with Slutty Stacy for Chad. However, Brad is available. But Jane doesn't find Brad attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:53 PM
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It kind of was. Women had to marry to have a roof over their heads and food on the table. So you're marrying and fucking Billy Beta whether you're attracted to him or not, as your survival depends on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:49 PM
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It's a fucking exaggerated metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:59 PM
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I'm not talking about you sending it, I'm talking bout them asking you for one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:13 PM
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Either both or neither should be creep shamed, but it will never work that way. OP says it's not looks based, but that stance is refried, pasteurized dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:38 PM
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Chad asks for nudes: He gets them Prajeet asks for nudes: Call the cops That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:34 PM
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Yeah, if it was something like the kid's parents were loaded or he had a nice car. But never just some random, average guy. High school is an outlier anyways before some girls truly discover their massive advantage in the dating game. And the funny thing is most of these girls will admit to having slept with a Chad at some point, but he was a "douche", "abusive", or "selfish."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:49 PM
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And guys and girls have vastly different thought patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:38 PM
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girls may even have some not so straight forward preferences I'm not convinced that's real. It's them coping with the fact they can't land Chad, so they have a "preference" that's not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:52 PM
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Someone that eats a bunch of McDonald's isn't a culinary connoisseur after some numeric threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:36 PM
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Nah, college is. High school, I found girls didn't care about height or that shit. Then off to a top-10 party school, and "gotta be 6'2"+ ride this ride."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:17 PM
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No, it wouldn't. We'd all just be on food stamps or welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 08:58 PM
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And thanks to them, even if all of your mannerisms and accent are those of a white guy, you still get all of the stereotypes and skepticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 07:48 PM
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basically they've been told their whole lives that brahmin desi nerds are at the very top of the hierachy, desi girls are pedestalized and are supposed to be total virgins until they marry a desi dude. but hot white girls are supposed to be complete sluts who will fuck anyone This part I'll believe, but I know that most Indian guys try to date within their own race, and are either sick of the arranged marriage/dating scene basically being like legalized prostitution or their fellow Indian women …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:39 PM
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they love the fact you're white
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:35 PM
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All brown people are alike to some white people, I guess? And I think they meant more so the social autism that he displays.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:25 AM
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The question is, do they because of social constraints (stigma on polyamory and sharing Chad, slut shaming, etc.) or because legitimately they find these male outliers sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 06:58 PM
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Only reason you dont see divorces at the rate in the occident is due to the stigma that comes with it. And yes, I hate when people say that arranged marriages have a higher rate of success. No, it's just the dissolving of a regular marriage doesn't come with threats of being disavowed by family, stoning, honor killings, or whatever other crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:45 PM
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Honestly, it's sickening how that gets thrown around like it's a cureall. My fellow brown friends in undergrad hardly had any social life at all, became doctors, and then got arranged marriages and people call that winning? I mean the girls are attractive, but I'm somehow doubting that they're having great sex lives. Maybe they are, or are cool with sexless marriages given they got that far in life without getting any in the first place, or something. But it's a slap in the face to incels. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:39 PM
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Not to mention, arranged marriages can be just as sexless as a typical marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:34 PM
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I don't think that humans are genetically predisposed to wanting to succeed at algebra, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:34 PM
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Better looking people will be more likely to get the job given equal qualifications, better chances at promotions, leadership positions, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:14 PM
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Classic response, thinking that everyone's after the white Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:26 PM
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White guys will always have a status advantage that Indian and Asian women will seek to exploit, even if their looks aren't on par. Indians have nothing except their salaries (after mommy and daddy forced them to become a doctor or engineer). I've been told several times "thank god you're not like Raj from The Big Bang Theory" on dates. Everyone thinks we're bumbling social autists. And that's not even getting into the fact that physically we are far more diminutive. And it's not just complainin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:23 PM
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Absolutely not. But there needs to be honesty and transparency about it. Girls can sleep with all the white Chads they want. The Indian and Asian guys should be aware that they're not actually winning the game when their girl settles for him at age 30. I've never had a problem with the way the game works. I've always have a problem with the way society lies about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:15 PM
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Well, women don't rise above their nature to date short guys, ethnic guys, facially weak guys, etc. So which is it? A nature free-for-all, or we rise above it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:09 PM
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That's a social construct because males and continuing the family lineage and honor are far more important in those cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:07 PM
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Care to explain the OkCupid study that showed that only the upper 20% of males were considered attractive then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:06 PM
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For either procreating or moving you to a place where you were not culturally well-received. Neither were meant with malice, but, like it or not that's what it boils down to. My parents raised me in upstate NY and I went to an all-white high school as a Guyanese kid. Four of my five best friends are all 6'2" and white. The differences in the way we're treated in public and our dating lives (up until my late 20s where I somehow luckily put on weight, which made me attractive, and then I found my …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:04 PM
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And surprise, surprise...OkCupid showed that Asian and Indian males were considered the least attractive. Outside of myself (as a first generation Guyanese-American), I seriously know no other brown guys that have succeeded in modern American dating. All of my brown friends were put in arranged marriages right after they became doctors, grew up in South Indian enclaves of NYC or Toronto and married girls of similar culture, or are incel. And before someone asked why I didn't do that, I grew up i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:34 PM
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Except all the foreign girls want all the white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:31 PM
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like traditional American values like bombing the shit out of countries, an economic system that grossly favors the 1%, financial slavery, police brutality, etc. are something that we should actively be striving for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:30 PM
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Hahahahaha, then explain the OkCupid statistics that show Indian and Asian males are considered the least attractive, and whites are considered the most, by far, to every race (except maybe black women, because if I remember correctly, they still found black men to be the most attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:28 PM
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No shit, Sherlock. The question was "what do you like about casual sex?" not "what is the primary evolutionary purpose of casual sex?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 03:25 PM
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Honestly, I've only had one casual sex encounter that was really great. Everything else was just meh. As you get to be more comfortable with your partner, you can try new things and you become more in tune with each other. Plus there's more passion and emotion involved. The only thing I really like about it is that it tells me I'm physically desirable enough for just sex, instead of some girl demanding a fully paid for dinner, endless entertainment, being 6th on the depth chart of her dating app…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:52 AM
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I actually went on a date with a girl that was as close to aware of this without admitting it. She was explaining that she should be okay with her guy crying and in theory it doesn't bother her, but when it does happen she ends up being turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 07:51 PM
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Hormones, yes. GMOs that make the fruit yield more plentiful and similar changes, I'm okay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:50 PM
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And women find a much smaller subset of men attractive than the other way around. Therefore it skews towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:48 PM
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So you're saying that men and women have similar ease of access in the dating/sexual marketplace? Because that isn't even close to being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:32 PM
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Here's the problem. As a shorter guy, even if I wow the socks off of some girl, I'm very replaceable. As soon as her friends say "ewww, dj10show is a bit short", all she has to do is fire up Tinder/Bumble and take her shot on finding a taller, better version of me. Relationships are becoming more and more disposable, and unless you're on top of the food chain, you're on very shaky ground these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 08:25 PM
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Likewise it was a shock to see how much more "natural" everything tasted in Europe and how their portion sizes are actually reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 06:19 PM
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As someone who drinks a glass every morning, it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 06:06 PM
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When I decided to cut HFCS from my diet back in 2007, I was shocked at how it was in fucking everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 06:05 PM
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Or if you have friends that are Chadly, you see the night-and-day different in which they are treated, not only in terms of sex and relationships, but in every facet of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:35 PM
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even more average looking men have success I think this is becoming less and less true. And "game" doesn't do fuck all unless she finds you attractive. Its presence is not additive to your SMV as much as its absence is an extract.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:58 PM
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Or it's just the reversal of artificial constraints on female sexuality, and they can select based on what they find attractive. Not what they need to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:37 PM
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Should have invented the app and been rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:35 PM
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It was a complexity study on online dating (back when POF/OkCupid were website only), and how developing a Tinder-like app (it didn't exist yet) would completely change the dating/sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:22 PM
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As a west Indian guy that grew up in a white community, this is what I've noticed. Obviously most of us have features that make us pretty undesirable. Lack of height, small frames, skin tone. And then we could write an essay on cultural effects. I have seen one single Indian guy get married in a western dating sphere, and that was my most recent ex's brother-in-law. Every other Indian guy I know that is married has done so through the traditional Indian dating sphere. The women within a traditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 03:55 PM
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They're the ones saying "where have all the good men gone?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 03:26 PM
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Hasn't changed one bit. Just confirmed what I researched and wrote a paper on in grad school. The opinion I have of BP isn't bad, I just think they either are good looking enough to where they don't witness what goes down in the dating "trenches" or their circle of people actually does fit their narrative. I do see a relationship with views on here being discussed in everyday life. Dating is becoming harder and harder for people and many are researching and/or opening their eyes to a harsh reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 02:37 AM
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The thing that people don't get is that they assume you're going to do whatever you want and she just has to deal with it. My last girlfriend had Celiac's, but also told me she likes when the guy is "leading" the relationship. As a captain, I don't fucking take her to Olive Garden, knowing full well she has Celiac's. I choose something that I know both of us will enjoy because I care about her wishes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 06:15 PM
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It's alpha looks and some beta comfort traits sprinkled on top of a alpha personality. Beta looks doesn't even get your foot in the door. Pure alpha is too volatile. Alpha looks and a purely beta personality probably get you a relationship but it would be of lower quality than having the mindset to go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 09:19 PM
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This is an assumption, but maybe these people have the rest of their lives in a place they feel comfortable with and are trying to figure out how to navigate the dating marketplace? They're not going to be posting here about the latest discovery in their field of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 08:53 PM
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Seeing my grandfather wither away from Parkinsons was horrifying. I'm not saying YOLO. But I am saying YOLO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 07:55 PM
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Why is it wrong to want to live a life of balance that includes intimacy and sex? There's more to life then just writing genius computer code that makes your BOD millions of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 07:50 PM
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I'd have to see what you consider unfortunate, but you're right. Plain isn't ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 05:33 PM
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I mean it won't make 400 lb. Leticia Landwhale wife material, but I'd take a plain Jane 10 times out of 10 that ran good "girl game" over Stacy. I agree with your last statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 04:11 PM
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Yeah, whenever I overhear girls talking about their new squeeze, height is one of the first things mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:47 PM
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There's no "attractive for a relationship". There's "attractive to sleep with" and then "personable enough to be in a relationship". The latter is additive to the former. Not a substitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:09 PM
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It might as well be. It sucks because outside of the way girls feel about it, there's not a real disadvantage to it. I'm only 5'8" and just as athletic as my 6'2" friends, except for basketball. I won the one fight I got into in college via KO. But yet they still bring out the tropes of short guys being weaker, not being able to protect your S/O, having a small dick, etc. Women don't suffer from it at all. Short women are adored by all. Tall women complain that they have trouble dating, but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:06 PM
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I noticed that if they were super short, to where you were a giant compared to them, it didn't matter. Or if they were near my height, they didn't care and were comfortable with it as long as you weren't a bitch. The ones that had a problem were in that middling range.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:04 PM
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If they were to run some girl game, you'd be surprised at how you can mitigate looks to get a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:20 PM
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You'll always have options as an ugly girl. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 02:26 AM
1

I don't think it's as simple as all of a sudden having a society only full of desirable people. The definition of desirable will shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 07:46 PM
1

great movie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 07:40 PM
8

The men that aren't getting laid now aren't because they're afraid of the "system", it's that they're flat out not good enough to be found attractive. What is artifice about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 07:03 PM
2

Why are people still asking questions of how to get to a more traditional state? Money, religion, politics. All artificial constructs. As you eliminate them, you get closer to humans acting on their biological imperative. And once that happens, you're never going to get that genie back in the bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 06:42 PM
2

Except if the guy is studly enough, she'll just put up with him cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 04:00 PM
4

Except the women can get the guys, even if it's only short term
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 09:00 PM
4

Everyone says this. But until you're actually faced with the situation, you don't know. It's like when every girl says "I'd never use sex as a weapon or a manipulation tactic. Why would I punish myself by withholding sex from you?". But sure enough, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:31 PM
3

As someone of West Indian heritage, all I can say is I've only seen one brown guy successfully married that didn't do it through traditional Indian means, and in more of a western style of dating. Whether it's because we're all weak and scrawny, or we're somehow all socially maladapted, those are awful numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:47 PM
1

My dad's an alpha badass at work, but got ran over by my BPD mom. Only reason I think they're still together is because my dad's retirement fund would get annihilated. At least the new grandkid causes them to at least be civil to one another these days. Red. My mom's the perfect example of why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 10:22 PM
1

It was obvious to me as well, but if you're bottom of the barrel in looks yet somehow still kind of popular, people start asking why you're single/can't find a date to prom/etc. You tell them the truth that you're too ugly, and they come back with tropes of girls are the ones that appreciate personality, have more confidence, blah blah blah. And when you're a young teenager, you tend to listen to adults because age somehow supposedly equals wisdom or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:43 PM
1

Having played soccer and being in an engineering lab in grad school, I couldn't agree with you more, having seen both sides of the coin Some of those lab mates were fun as fuck to be around and party with, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:34 PM
2

I'm pretty sure it's the latter. I hate when people say it's a confidence thing, like girls have some sort of super saiyan radar that can determine your confidence from you not saying anything. I gained 12 lbs. of muscle 2 years ago, and the increase in attention and difference in treatment was disgustingly awesome. I say disgustingly, because it wasn't confidence as I was less secure than ever knowing that it was the muscles, not anything about me as an individual that was getting girls to jump…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:46 PM
1

If he had boundaries when it came to her career and the way she treated him at home, without those firefighter looks, she'd be citing emotional abuse and leaving him anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:32 AM
2

Ah yes. The classic "we're 5 years away from being able to cure baldness without hormonal drugs".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:34 PM
1

He's saying that even if you make every guy a Chadillac, the lowest on the totem pole will still struggle in the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:37 PM
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Has she? Look at how movements like "Black Lives Matter" have no traction in the public sphere until white people say they're supporting it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:35 PM
1

It's why I think that "5 Love Languages" book was mostly bullshit. Not to say that the other four aren't important, but touch and intimacy can only be given to you by your significant other within the context of an exclusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:23 PM
2

Not as proportionally as men do. Women that stray from conventional attractiveness have it exponentially easier than guys that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 04:28 AM
3

Honestly, strip clubs are a waste in my opinion. Spend money on women that you're not going to get any action from, when you've got a hotter girl at home wanting to fuck you? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:08 AM
1

But unlike women, the markers for being unattractive include height, bone structure, and various other things that women don't need to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:01 AM
1

I was living on the west coast and making a mess of my life. Decided to move back home and got a job with the company he works for. Being able to see him in action and the people that respected him caused everything to make sense. We're good now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:54 AM
2

Nope. The top guys would just get even more thin, attractive women. Being in shape isn't good enough for some men to succeed. I think it's more of your genetic markers and pheromones that matter. Hence why some fat guys can still pull and some thin guys are still shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:35 AM
4

Uh, that screengrab you posted doesn't really mean fuck all. I can't even figure out what you guys are babbling on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 03:48 AM
5

OncleJulian. Yes, he was obsessed with Chad. But he lived near Hollywood, and having experienced some of that LA life myself, I empathized with where he was coming from. He understood the gulf between the very attractive male and the average guy, even if he took it to the extreme in applying it to himself. Hope that son of a bitch is okay. I don't want to have to pour one out for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 02:44 AM
2

I just regret the time wasted believing lies because "mommy knows best".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:28 PM
7

One of the biggest hoodwinks was Al Gore and the "carbon credit" industry. You can't just buy your way to carbon neutral. His home uses 20 times as much as a typical family home, yet carbon credit trading allows him to claim he's carbon neutral? Get the fuck out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:07 PM
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Except trail22 has admitted that his race and height are indeed things that make him less desirable. It becomes a clusterfuck when people try to lie and say that those traits don't matter and he just needs to work on his personality or they attack his character because he can't possibly be getting rejected based on physical traits alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 10:32 PM
3

I interpreted it as she's above average in a good way when it comes to weight because she doesn't appear to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:55 PM
1

That's weird. How long had you been dating? We dated for 3 months, but it was one of those things she mentioned to me at the beginning. Like "It's weird when my guy says 'I miss you'" So I just never said it. I guess if you think so. Best of luck! I don't claim that it's a surefire strategy. Hell, we still broke up. Thanks though! I hope we all find what we're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:49 PM
1

That becomes a cost-benefit analysis of whether the sacrifice in comfort is worth it because of the value she brings to you. I had a great girl last year that brightened every aspect of my life. But she would cringe over stuff like saying "I miss you". It was worth it to keep that to myself because she made all aspects of my life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:38 PM
1

Of your sample size of like 10? Fair point. Understand for us average/below-average guys, we don't have half of the city to pick and choose from though. It's not no cost. The cost is second guessing every word you say, every action you take around her just so you won't lose her. This is also a fair point, and something that I struggled with in my last relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:22 PM
1

And if every girl responds similarly? What if not expressing every feeling you had to her didn't bother you and caused her to be closer to you? You're benefiting both her and yourself at no cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:13 PM
1

If you love her and she treats you the way you want to be treated, and the other option is expressing it and her leaving, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:04 PM
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there's an issue with the way I'm expressing my love. That's exactly the point he's making.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:51 PM
1

In terms of risk-taking, I'll put it this way. The first girl I ever wanted to dance with at a frat party, I was so scared of saying something stupid or cringeworthy. So I walked by her, kicked myself in my ankle, and took a dive like Cristiano Ronaldo. She thought she tripped me and began talking to me. That's how stunted I was, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:36 PM
2

Uh, you just explained my entire teenage adolescence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:51 PM
1

My mother shows all the signs of BPD, so she needed or would create emotional storms. She always told me my dad was emotionless and that no woman would love you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:48 PM
3

Stoicism, calmness, and risk-taking So I went the other way and was completely over-emotional, risk-averse pussy for a while growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:43 PM
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I wonder what would've happened if they'd stayed together. Probably good things for me. Fucked up shit. My parents separated for almost 2 years, and then got back together. The fighting and discord continued, and she still poisoned my view of him even after he moved back in. You can't worry about that now, anyways. I can't help you with (2), but with (1) The biggest kick in the balls for me was when I started working with my dad and seeing how he handled himself in high pressure situations. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:38 PM
1

I think it's something that that masked man yelled "Luke, I am your farther" into at someone like a megaphone. But I never saw Star Wars, so fuck if I know. Or is it Star Trek? My dad made me watch one episode of that with him and I fucking hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:32 PM
1

It would be, but as we're seeing, trying to legislate human nature doesn't really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:20 PM
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She's right to an extent. Each individual story can't be used as a representation of an entire gender. I overreacted to a degree, but I was trying to represent a situation that exists where if you ask around, the dad seems like a deadbeat (oh, he never takes his son out for lunch), but couldn't be farther from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:19 PM
4

I had pictured you as a timid, shorter, guy with maybe average looks who was searching for answers as to why he was struggling, maybe in more aspects than just romantically. But you're far from that. I hope you find inner peace and a path that makes you fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:13 PM
6

To paraphrase Denny Green, you are not who I thought you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:08 PM
2

And that's a personal decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:57 PM
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My story is only one anecdote, but mine is one where my mom literally made me think my dad was a horrible human being in all aspects and it was only when I started working at the same company he did years later, and watching how many people respected him and how he handled interpersonal relationships to where I realized she was complete poison. And no, he didn't abuse her at home. The biggest regret is that he taught me a lot of alpha behaviors growing up, but I acted in the complete opposite wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:57 PM
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My parents separated for almost two years when I was in middle school, and I remember my dad trying to pick me up to go to lunch with him and my mom came out yelling and screaming saying "not to go with him" and all this shit, to where the neighbors came out and witnessed the whole charade and I didn't go with him because my mom was being so hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:53 PM
2

Is there a single person out there that is cool with giving, giving, giving and then having life shit on them in return? I'm not talking about an extreme like expecting the world in exchange for being philanthropic either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:45 PM
1

I'm below average looking. Boom, that just happened. And it's not because I'm looking for pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:41 PM
1

Maybe, maybe not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:22 PM
1

"Die a Chad or live long enough to be a wrinkled virgin" - Batman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:14 PM
1

I just pictured you saying that like McLovin: "It's not the going that's the problem, it's the coming"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:01 PM
2

I am willing to bet that the number of guys here that would turn down your example could be counted on Jason Pierre-Paul's bad hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:50 PM
2

Yeah, I knew she was lying. But they can't stomach the "dude, she's crying because I'm ugly" truth, so they conjure up some bullshit reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:30 PM
1

Fuckkkkkk. My friend's babies always cry around me, but my friends claim it's because I'm the first brown person they've met. Sometimes my niece runs away crying too, but my sister says it's because I'm the only one with a beard and a beanie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 04:22 PM
1

Yup. Once the people that hold all the power get this type of technology, things are going to turn bleak real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:49 PM
1

Lindros never understood the concept of skating with your head up. It was like watching a car being stuck on the railroad tracks every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:35 PM
1

That's how I feel about myself too. I've gotten rejected by fat girls because I'm on the skinnier side and make them feel fat, but I've also dated a few that have turned heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:29 PM
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If she's still sexing me up like she did at the beginning of the relationship and is still kind, fun to be around, and makes my life better for being in it, then nope, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:35 PM
1

I'm really social so I make friends with both sexes pretty easily. I can't tell you how many friendships I've developed with guys through random pairings on the golf course, being at a bar watching the same soccer match together, or just bullshitting at a party. I've been told I'm a great conversationalist which puts women at ease, and I'm not that attractive, so they don't have that fear of me trying to hit on them, and they feel comfortable opening up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:29 PM
1

Whatever the scale is, that guy on the left is on a express train to Lotionsville, Handsylvania
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:14 PM
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Or....women discriminate on a micro-level now that everyone isn't "genetically ugly". I don't think it's absolutes, it's your relativity to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:12 PM
1

My guess is she missed her period and told him, only for it to be a false alarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:00 PM
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I gotta better idea, no fucking way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 06:17 AM
3

Silas should feel like less of a man for letting Ryan get in his head like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:13 AM
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Agreed. I have no idea if they would actually have been cool with it, but it did show selflessness on their behalf to even consider that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:54 AM
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I guess it wasn't cancer-specific, but they brought it up in the case of a medical issue preventing sex. And it was only after we established a loving relationship with one another. It's not like I would eschew being there for her chemo appointment to be fucking someone. It was more of if something happened that left her with no libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:43 AM
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Fair enough. I know the girls I've been with long-term have explained, unprovoked, that if anything happened to them in that type of situation they would open up the relationship but on a purely physical basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:28 AM
1

Well one of the points of being in a committed relationship is to only have sex with your significant other. If your significant other no longer wants to have sex with you (which is his/her prerogative), then the terms of the relationship have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:14 AM
1

It's different once you're already in the committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 11:52 PM
2

Never thought I'd applaud a Breitbart article
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:04 PM
3

These days, with its low cost and high availability For a high-level male. It used to be marriage was the one way lower-to-mid tier males could get their toes into the SMP. But now with cheating, divorce, etc. running rampant, even marriage doesn't ensure you can get it. For high-level males, your theorem is correct. For others, the cost has skyrocketed and availability has plummeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 10:00 PM
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Holy shit, I looked that up and that was disturbing as fuck. At least his sentence was lengthened on appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:32 PM
2

Infidelity seems to be pretty common these days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:47 PM
2

He's also a great example of what happens if you're "too much alpha" as he shagged Brind'Amour's wife. RB said it's him or me, they shipped him out, and then Tocchet beat the shit out of Lindros because of the locker room discord he created.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:02 PM
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I think the point is that TRP focuses on the alpha traits that are attractive to women. Jimmy McEngineerson may be a super genius that develops a reliable aerospace technology that allows us to go to Mars, but that in and of itself won't be attractive to women (the money and status will be though).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 06:25 PM
5

Looking back on all the signs of interest that I got from girls my freshman and sophomore years of college and not acting on them because of what I was told about toxic masculinity kind of makes me sad. Because then I convinced myself I was unworthy of women for a while. The one regret I have, now that I feel like I understand and can correctly navigate my way in interacting with girls, is that at this age, so many girls have baggage. The cheating ex, the abusive ex, the ex that would rather wat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:50 PM
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I'd say he's taking them both equally seriously in that he wants to fix both problems, it's just one requires a lot more investment to do so. I don't think he's saying "welp if the finger doesn't set correctly, no biggie 'cause this dude has cancer over here."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:37 PM
2

She gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:33 PM
1

I have, and it's been a disaster. The traditional Indian girls just look at you as a meal ticket. Their questions are always "what car do you drive", "where do you work?", "what type of place do you live in?". And it's not even just girls that do it. My last girlfriend's brother-in-law was Indian, and those were the types of questions he was asking her about me. Luckily she was quite a gem, so she just told him his car runs, he's self-sufficient, and enjoys what he does for work. You're just a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:32 PM
1

We're fucking talking about the concept of Chad. These people are that concept to a 'T'. Are you that dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:20 PM
1

Shut it down. This is everything that needs to be said on Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:19 PM
2

I just? What? That's just acknowledging that they're attractive individuals to a large cross-section of females.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:15 PM
2

Did I say I was struggling? Did you not read my response where I converse with girls in other groups where I have higher standing (soccer team captain) or solo? The thing is, those guys are pretty much universally attractive. Doesn't matter where you met the girl or what her type is. The huge problem I have is with people saying that our friendship is toxic. I am celebrated, not tolerated, by them. Why should I not be friends with them? Because they're better with girls? That's pussy-ass shit ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:06 PM
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You mean be the court jester? I love how all of these experiments show that if you have Chad looks, you literally are playing the game with Game Genie attached, and yet somehow some still hold out that being a dancing monkey can trump that. From what I've been told by guys and girls alike, I have a great sense of humor and the ability to befriend anybody over the smallest commonalities. That does not generate physical attraction. It's why I'm a niche Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:01 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ. Because I have the realistic outlook of knowing that their look is what is preferred in the sexual marketplace and mine is not? That's not toxic, that's common fucking sense. Isn't that one of the tropes bloopers pull out? That these dynamics are obvious and easily observable, and you shouldn't need TRP for that? When my ex-fiancée broke up with me and I turned into a raging closet drunk whose life was falling apart, these guys had my back when my own fucking family didn't.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:57 PM
2

Because we're all high-level males in everything controllable. 6-figure incomes, athletes of some sort, intelligent, well-recognized socially. You want to tell me, the 5'8" bald, brown, skinny guy how I can rise to the level of 6'2", white, ripped, perfect jawline guy without having to get a honkiplasty? I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:54 PM
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Well, it's why they tell me to hit on that girl looking at us, I'm smart enough to not even waste my time. I do most of my approaching in other groups or solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:51 PM
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They say you're a function of the 5 closest people in your life. 4 of those 5 people in my life are Chads. It doesn't take a rocket scientist (although I was one) to see the difference in the way girls perceive them versus me. Being threatened to the point of being emotionally and socially crippled? Sure that's a problem. But refusing to acknowledge that they have it much easier for much higher quality is just being infantile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:36 PM
2

My last two girlfriends were both college athletes, so I knew at some point they had been with their male counterparts. I was one as well, but I am the farthest from your typical hot male athlete that you will find. And it's like you said, they were both totally into it when they were with me. You really just have to find a way to not worry about it because the relationship may crash or burn if you're not as good as their Gronks, but it will burn for sure if you're insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:15 PM
1

As a Wayne Rooney fan since I was young, I can say it's definitely not his face haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:10 PM
1

There's a third permutation that we're talking about: "BF but I don't love you sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:09 PM
1

What is recreational divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 01:24 AM
1

A poster in a different thread said it's important for every guy to experience being a Chad to at least one girl to see the true cost of sex, affection, and partnership. I started getting those in my late 20s. Hell, I remember the first girl I was Chad to paid for our shit when we went out. It felt awesome. The problem is for skinny people like us (I'm guessing you're short as well, haha) is that the line between Chad and bad is so fine. You know what the cost to your SMV is if you lose the addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:58 PM
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I'll say this, a lot of my friends and I wanted that over the hookup scene. The good looking ones married great women. Whomever here said that good catches pair off early was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:35 PM
1

Holy shit, that article was a good find.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:23 PM
1

Would he have? Don't hapas have an extremely hard time in dating because whites can date "above him" and Asians will either date white guys or "pure" Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:10 PM
3

If it's real, be right back, I'm calling this doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:09 PM
1

working on my game, which is argueably more important than good looks overall After all of those Chad experiments on Tinder, how can anybody argue this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 10:05 PM
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Uh, so if they're thirsty and not getting attention, because women are getting attention from high SMV men, that makes them low value by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 09:50 PM
2

In a nuclear family. Not after the marriage is dissolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:19 PM
1

That and it's almost impossible to do work on the car without disassembling half the fucking front end of the car to do anything these days. I couldn't even change my own spark plugs because the bottom of the fucking motor had to come out of the car. Can't do that in my parents' garage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:17 PM
2

At least for me, I hate when people just can't get to the fucking point. I don't need 5 roundabout ways of explaining the same thing. Be brief, concise, and accurate. Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:58 PM
2

I equally disdain those that cannot get to the point efficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:57 PM
1

Haha, classic poverty BMW joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:08 PM
1

average isn't really good enough these days though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:07 PM
3

This is the one thing I could never resolve though. If she's attracted to you from the get go, she's going to want to fuck you and take any hint that you don't want to right away as you not finding her attractive. Honestly, my best companions as women came from those that I had sex with early (like 1-3 dates in). It was clear we both found each other attractive before gifts/vacations/anything else came into play. The worst was where I had to "earn" it, because then the hoops became smaller and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:02 PM
4

There is little else that made me feel worse than when I realized my first girlfriend only became really sexually receptive when we went out to fancy dinners/vacations/etc. I was like, how isn't this like being with a prostitute? The key is that they have to find you hot first. If you have the personality to go with it, then they're crazy about you. And then you get the best of both worlds, the hot, passionate fuck sessions and the slow, sensuous lovemaking. But you never get it the other way ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:52 PM
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I would have never believed it until somehow gaining 12 lbs. of muscle made all the difference. Then I got to hear what their real opinions of lesser men were vs. what I was told when I was one myself. I got to hear their real reasons for wanting to have sex (just take me, instead of buy me dinner/make me feel loved/etc.), having them be more receptive, and more feminine. I feel like those who are on solely one side or the other when it comes to attractiveness don't really get it how different t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:43 PM
2

If she's serious about landing one of these nerds, she might have to take the reigns and explicitly ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:16 PM
1

Weird. I think she's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:05 PM
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Look at it from their perspective though. Your friend is a huge outlier. Not to mention, I've actually heard good-looking girls say they date down because the guy is easier to control and she won't have to worry about him cheating because he has little to no other options. Wouldn't you be skeptical of this? It would be like if someone just pulled up and dropped off a Ferrari at the driveway of your middle-class home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:02 PM
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Can we fucking frame this somewhere? That's where the anger is coming from in most people. It's not because of the what is happening, it's that lies and blatant hypocrisy are used to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:40 PM
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Would prostitution really fix the crux of the problem? Most of the incels I knew wanted to find love and acceptance. That would literally be the biggest slap in the face to know that you had to exchange money for an artificial version of those two constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:34 PM
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I'll use myself as an example: My perception of myself: Two degrees in computer engineering, soccer vice-captain, single-digit handicap golfer, six-pack abs, large friend circle which is basically all Chads, bachelor pad downtown, nice car. Cliff notes: I think I'm pretty awesome Male society's perception of me: Same as mine, hence why my close circle of friends are all of high value Female society's perception of me: Short, skinny, brown skin, bald, average face. Considered much lower value tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:32 PM
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I don't really know how we begin to address that issue effectively That's what I don't get either. This is unbridled biology at work. What could you realistically do without trampling all over women to achieve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:25 PM
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Having to deal with poor behavior in exchange for not being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:24 PM
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Holy shit, what basement do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:21 PM
1

We probably could have sent a man to Mars by now with all of the brain power we've spent on attempting to figure out relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:16 PM
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Wasn't scarcity mentality artificially induced with religion and society promoting monogamy and virginity up until marriage? As I left for college, I noticed a lot of my friends' parents that I thought were in happy marriages immediately got divorced as soon as their kids left the nest. Creating scarcity just means you will be willing to take something of lesser value, not that you will be happy in doing so. It's the attitude that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:49 PM
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Your struggle of having to choose between white guys and Asian guys? I mean, look at your username for fuck's sake. How about having to explain that despite you having brown skin and are an engineer, you can actually talk to women without needing alcohol, you are not like Raj from The Big Bang Theory, you can actually play and be good at sports, and no, me and my dwelling do not reek of curry. How about as a man, the fact that being short and skinny doesn't mean you can't win a fight against a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:46 PM
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I remember not really feeling like a "victim", but angry at myself for existing as an inferior being. It also pushed me to try to excel at things in an attempt to make up for my lack of physical traits. After all, people do feed you the tropes of personality, intelligence, and success when you're young. It provides drive and ambition. It's only when you achieve those things and then realize they have no correlation with society's perception of you do you realize your reality and society's realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:38 PM
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You say yes, a lot of others are saying no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:26 PM
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From what I've seen, it's when they get dumped, cheated on, or used by a high-level guy. Then they start questioning everything about themselves, because they know they're pretty, and yet their man didn't stay committed (independent of whose fault it is). But they don't care about whether their qualities are good enough for someone that doesn't match up to that guy that hurt them, they want to be able to get that guy or better next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:22 PM
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Know those feels. I remember the day I realized the way I perceived myself versus the way society did was the day my youthful innocence was shattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:19 PM
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Women would then have to enter in to relationships in which they were not really attracted to the guy if they desired companionship and intimacy, which more than likely will result in a dead bedroom scenario down the road, or be content with being single until one of the guys that fits their criterion becomes available, which as someone that just got into his 30s, I'm seeing a lot of that "just looking for a good guy" but their laundry list of traits is off the charts girls out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:55 PM
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Never thought of it that way, but I see how that makes sense. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:34 PM
1

Is that because you can land absolute high-value men or because that man is high-value in your eyes due to your own personal values?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:20 PM
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It is? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:07 PM
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But the patriarchy was a socially-made construct. The current marketplace is more in line with nature's biological imperative. You really can't modify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:56 PM
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One of those eclairs you can get at a patisserie as well. I'm surprised I didn't catch the diabeetus from my 3 days in Paris, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:42 PM
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Why would what the "undesirables" do have any effect on the dating marketplace. Girls are already holding out for, sharing, or exclusively with the guys they want to fuck. If the thirsty men became more selective, why would that matter? They're already not being selected as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:12 PM
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Will they? They're already fucking the guys they want to fuck. The Chads have more pussy than they know what to do with. What the bottom part of the male market does is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:44 AM
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You may want to start with finding a good mental health specialist. And don't be afraid to try a different one if you feel like you are not making any progress. It's not a magic bullet scenario where they'll wave a wand at you and you'll be healed, but they can help you understand your feelings and give you tools to not let the negative thoughts overrun you. Then you can begin to build yourself into whatever you want to be. People can be shitty. Events that happen to you can be shitty. But there…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:05 PM
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Mine might be a bit different, because it wasn't just the lack of praise, it was straight up one of them telling me being born was one of the two biggest mistakes they made. Anyways, I'll give an anecdote about myself. Maybe it will help. Growing up in high school, I was an absolute loser. Sure I was smart, but I was short, skinny, ugly, and a benchwarmer in 2 out of my 3 sports (golf was the good one, which might as well have not counted, socially). What made it even worse for me, was my two be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:38 PM
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with (b), you make a fair point, but then baldness gets held against men a bunch too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:01 PM
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Not even from my own parents As someone with also a lack of praise from a parental figure, some advice I can offer is that firstly, love for yourself has to come from within. No, it won't guarantee that others will love you as a result, but it will provide a solid foundation for yourself so that you can love and be loved healthily. Without it, dysfunction and chaos will always follow. May you find peace with yourself and what you want out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:54 PM
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What I don't understand is that the person that gives him or herself freely and yet gets nothing in return and is taken advantage of is mocked for being naive about the way human nature really is. So if you're legitimately altruistic, you shouldn't care about whether you were taken advantage of, because that wasn't the reason behind your deeds. But very few people would be nonplussed by constantly being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:48 PM
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But in your case, you are making an active choice to avoid women, not having that choice made for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:50 PM
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Sure, I'm going out of town this weekend, but I'll dig it up and make a post about the research, my thoughts, and some questions for PPD soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:48 PM
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What would you like in it? The references I used for the paper? My thoughts on how I arrived at the conclusions I did, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:26 PM
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Not hot, didn't have to spend money, good things happened. Do they happen to me every weekend? No. But they have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:57 PM
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I thought they were bunk at first too, until I started having a few outlandish things of my own happen to me, and I am average at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:56 PM
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And the worst part is, even if he's assaulted, and it's self-defense, he can't win because he beat up the defenseless little guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:26 PM
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Agreed. But the lack of situational awareness in your scenario is stunning. Like wouldn't you know the odds are very much stacked against you if you decide to glass a Gronk? And not like, oh I'm getting kicked out of the bar stacked. Like he's breaking your face like a pinata with candy flying everywhere stacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:16 PM
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Damn. That strengthens my point though. So even back then when there were laws, societal rules, and religious framework in place, people would still be doing what they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:07 PM
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Counterpoint. The one college fight I got into was because a guy bigger than me was jealous over the fact some girl he was into was dancing with me. He started saying vile shit about me and saying I was harassing the girl and she didn't actually want to hang out with me. Given that we were at a house party, where I was friends with all of the tenants and nobody really knew who this kid was, I tried to defuse it by talking it out with him, and he said that he was talking shit because he knew I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:05 PM
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I have no idea. Probably just run away. Even if you look like a bitch, because there is literally no other action that won't make you look like the assailant. Look at Joe Mixon. The girl hit him first, and yes he responded with disproportionate force, but he was tarred and feathered for it. Nobody seems to remember that Ray Rice's fiancee was actually hitting him before he went Mike Tyson with the titanic left hand. Yes, in both of those cases, they responded with way too much force, but (a) muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:54 PM
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There once was a dog from Nantucket Who wanted his food in a bucket So he bothered his owner Not the one with a boner And so she gave in and said "fuck it"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 09:02 PM
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she'll rage out at him for going to girls who undercut the market But she was more than likely never going to put out for him anyways, so why should she give a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 08:51 PM
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and it's due to the fact that his parents used their own genes without being forward-thinking about the human consequences of that. I wouldn't say they did it maliciously though. They just didn't know any better. They came from a culture of arranged marriages. Everyone was going to make it. Their genetic makeup allowed for 3 kids of high levels of intelligence, low body fat, and a immune system that means we never get sick outside of the common cold when the seasons change from fall to winter/sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:33 PM
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I wrote a graduate paper on this concept when OKC and POF were just websites and pre-phone app, circa 2011. I cited research that showed how the attractiveness curve skews upwards when women are judging men, hypergamy, the AF/BB phenomenon. Before, as a woman, you were restricted to whatever Chad was in your area, or settling for someone else in your local vicinity. Now that everybody within whatever radius you choose is available, Chads would be able to clean house. The dating market was about …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:26 PM
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Actually, if harnessed correctly, your violent/sociopathic nature could get you a sports career, a spot on the BOD of a Fortune 500 company, even the Presidency of the United States. You just have to harness it differently from just going and clubbing the guy next to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:16 PM
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Not really. I just do it whenever I have a few minutes of spare time, on the toilet, whatever. If they stop responding because I was out golfing for 3 hours, no worrying about it for me. Talking with all of them is pretty easy to juggle. Setting up dates is the one where your schedule gets completely jammed. I have no idea how people brag about having 3-4 "plates" at a time, when just setting up 3-4 first dates within a 2 week time frame completely nukes any free time from my schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:12 PM
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Why does everyone act like going back to that will fix anything? Girls were just forced to be married to chumps because they needed economic and social support, and divorce/single-motherhood was highly stigmatized. They still wanted the guys they want now. You're just seeing nature at work without the artificial barriers in place. Those barriers are not coming back, and frankly, nor should they. Women shouldn't have to be forced to be in relationships with those they don't want to be because a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:08 PM
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Mine's been the exact opposite, but that's because I run really good online game and allows me to get them emotionally invested before we first meet, to where my looks won't be as put-offish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:01 PM
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If his facade was promising commitment and then bailing, then sure, that is deceitful and hurt her. Or if he baits and switches her by being nice and then turning abusive. But if he finds RP, acts more "douchebaggish" or whatever, and she falls for him, that's not his problem, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:59 PM
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Are they harming anyone by going against their values?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:48 PM
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I'm a fan of the itty bitty titty committee for one, and I guess I'm probably talking about the bad pornstar boob jobs. Like Amy Brooke, Nicole Aniston, etc. Those make me sad. I believe Dillan Lauren and Jenni Lee have smaller implants and while not natural, I don't mind those. Vanessa Lane is the only one that has fake tits that you know are fake, but I still am turned on as fuck by her, but that has more to do with the way she acts and her gymnastic/yoga abilities. You now also know way too m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:55 PM
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Then that becomes an argument of personal choice as to whether or not going against your values is worth anything to you, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:36 PM
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You didn't say it personally, but how is it "harsh" to be offended at someone's lack of intelligence, but not "harsh" to shame someone for substandard looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:24 PM
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Except those that do it anyways are rewarded with wealth, power, and women in great abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:22 PM
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As someone that has been on the lowest part of the totem pole and damn close to the highest, I'll offer my opinion. A douchebag goes beyond self-confidence and leadership and goes out of his way to tear down those beneath him. The reason that girls still sleep with him and guys don't call him out on his boorishness is because he's high enough on the totem pole to get away with it. Girls don't care because the guys that they're dissing aren't even on their radar, and the guys are happy it's not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:21 PM
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Well, a lot of ugly people aren't responsible for their ugliness. They're just born ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:13 PM
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Bumble is the most hilarious example of this. It's always "Hey!" or "Happy <whatever day it is", dj10show!". The one girl that opened up with "Hey, I see you like/play soccer. Who's your favorite team? I'm an Arsenal fan. Do you still play anymore?" She became my girlfriend and turns out, she was actually interesting to be around. The others were just looking for any man to fill the emptiness in their lives and quickly disposed of one guy to try to find the next best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:46 PM
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Someone's gonna have to spell it out for me, because I'm drawing a blank right now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:42 PM
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Well now it says "always becoming". Whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:36 PM
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His name seemed like a portmanteau of OJ (orange juice), Uncle Julian, and Orange Julius. It always made me thirsty for a fruit beverage, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:27 PM
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Yeah, I noticed it a week or so ago. I normally would check his profile to figure out where to browse on PPD because he'd light the thread up with something incendiary and hilarious, but when I did, his profile was 86ed. As much as some of his stuff seemed off the charts, his stories correspond with why I was not a fan of LA at all when I was living in the southwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:24 PM
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Speaking of deleted accounts, what happened to OncleJulian? He completely took some things to 11 at times, but I think he seemed like a genuine character to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:21 PM
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Sometimes, it can be as easy as just not checking that stuff. I was pretty bummed after my breakup this past fall and was constantly reading the Misc (makes these places look straight MENSA by comparison), and it made everything worse. Quit checking the Misc., much happier days now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:10 PM
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Fake tits are up there for biggest turn-off in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:52 PM
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True, but at the end of the day, reality is reality. I'm not a big fan of knowing my height and skin color are to my detriment, but at the end of the day, they're not changing and neither are the interpretations of those traits by others. I hear ya, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:21 PM
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I mean, I'm basing that on SetConsumes' definition of all these terms. What's annoying? Are you not getting what you want out of life? If you are, all of these terms mean fuck all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:12 PM
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So you're beta fucks. The alpha mentality with the "beta" physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:07 PM
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I didn't even realize people actually did meth until I moved to AZ and then there were PSAs about it everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 04:39 PM
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there's a reason prostitutes charge more for fat clients They do? Damn, that's a double whammy. Have to depend more on prostitutes because you're fat, then they charge you more. Classic economic principles at work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:23 PM
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I kind of get why they feel like they have to say it. What were they going to tell 14-year old me? You're ugly and worthless, so prepare for a life of loneliness and solitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:21 PM
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What is your "physical archetype?" Short, skinny but fit, bald, narrow shoulders, tiny wrists ankles, average face. And what exactly are "beta fucks?" the definition I use Can you elaborate on this? I didn't follow. I have no idea what being on birth control has to do with "wanting the beta side of things most of the time." It just means that you don't want to have a kid. What does "wanting the beta side of things" even mean? And why do you say "most of the time?" link 1 link 2 link 3 Why will t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 01:06 PM
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That's a fair assessment. And I actually had lots of girl friends, just not girlfriends. I guess I realized that being beta bucks was going to be a bad deal from an early age, so I considered being beta bucks just as bad as being omega yucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 04:31 AM
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Had horrible teeth to where I needed braces and a palate-expander. Brownie in an all-white community. Didn't get my growth spurt until in between my junior and senior year (only sprung up to 5'8"), so was a 5'0" high school sophomore. Rail skinny to the point where I don't think I was over 100 lbs. until after sophomore year. No sense of style and so always buzzed my hair (rocked an afro in college which worked way better), and mom ran off dad, so I had to wear clothing from Ames, because we had…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:07 AM
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I'm average, now. Growing up, I was far below. So the experiences of first dates, asking girls to prom, etc. ended up being fucking disastrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:02 AM
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Which statistics? Mainly that OkCupid study that showed race relations. But also the 8-inch height differential that women prefer, etc. Which things? Being in a great relationship, falling in love, having ONS, somehow dating college athletes. Why do you say that? Do you not intend to start a family ever? Even someone physically deformed can start a family. My dad's side of the family has awful statistics when it comes to divorce. I'm also not stupid in that I know my physical archetype will neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 03:01 AM
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Even worse when you play sports and all of your best friends are white-on-white Chadillacs. Luckily, I grew kinda into something passable and have gotten to experience love/relationships/intimacy. But I'm not someone you can post yourself next to on Instagram and have them say "look how pretty you two are".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 02:54 AM
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At least for me, I wouldn't say I was hoodwinked, I was just so ugly that I held onto the hopes that all of the other advice mattered just so I could convince myself I had a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:31 AM
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So it's highly advantageous to be tall/white/shredded? Why do you think that is? Tall/shredded can be attributed to biology. White more as a social construct? The statistics don't lie though. And you shouldn't be "all lovey-dovey" with women? Why? I went through a phase where I got shredded as all hell and instead of hitting on women, I decided to use their attention to see what made them tick and a lot of them said the nice gestures/gifts/"lovey-dovey" stuff actually turned them off or made the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:38 PM
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I dunno. I'm in really good shape and I only really sweat in cases of cardiac exertion in high heat (soccer, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 02:46 PM
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What if she doesn't blame anything on them, but just doesn't have a relationship with them because it was unhealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:42 AM
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Honestly. I had it all figured out as a kid. I wish I didn't listen to all of the liars that said that the reasons my tall, white, shredded friends did exponentially better with women were solely due to confidence, and that you should be all lovey-dovey with the women you want to be with. Once I found TRP, there was no outward anger phase, just anger at myself for not believing what I knew in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 12:29 AM
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I mean, I'm at peace with it. But moms are supposed to be all-doting and loving to their kids right? I feel like admitting that straight up to a potential significant other is saying "hey, my mom doesn't love my, why should you?" Anyway, I was shocked at her openness as she told me this on our first date, but while TRP would say bail, I'm glad I didn't as it gave me my best relationship ever to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:04 PM
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As I got into my thirties, I'm noticing a lot of single girls that have admitted to having some sort of anxiety problems. Sure they may manage to stay in some shorter-term relationships, but they never last. Those types of mental disorders are on the rise, and notice how many girls are "winos". Code for drinking their problems away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:58 PM
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I think the kicker is that she includes the caveat that you cheat on her and fall in love with Hooters McSecretary, even though you personally would never cheat on a wife of such high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:57 PM
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I don't have a relationship with my mom and I don't really bring it up, because I know it makes me look awful to admit that. But when my last girlfriend told me that I would never have to meet her parents because she has no relationship with her, it struck me as super odd. But how can you hold something against her that you would have to hold against yourself? Especially something that may not even be his/her fault. I think that's something you have to take on a case-by-case basis. You hate your…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:54 PM
1

Isn't this how flat-earthers are given the time of day?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:51 PM
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What the hell? Abusers don't just bend to someone's will. They either only respond to abuse in kind or ramp it up to 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:45 PM
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True, but this takes it another step beyond that, I feel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:33 PM
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You probably had more leeway than I did in that regard though, haha. I used to think it would be like they taught us in those freshman orientation seminars, where the girl would explicitly tell you she wanted to come back with you or go out with you or whatever. I was a dumb dumb with girls back then haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:32 PM
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avoid adult responsibility Except for the whole raising your kids and also arranging other events beneficial to your career (being a gracious hostess or whatever is needed to help endear you to your boss and clients.) Those may not be jobs you can apply for on LinkedIn, but she's not playing Candy Crush while the kids get into the Tide Pods in this scenario. Although she should get nothing just for thinking that letting you have a cat would be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:30 PM
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Is OP a guy or a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:21 PM
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Hahahaha, oh lordy. Can you please stop abusing me? Oh shit, if only we told victims of abusive relationships this one, simple trick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:19 PM
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eventually it all unravels
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:18 PM
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My mid-20s was full of that. Life of the party among guys and even girls when it was platonic. But complete autist mode when it came time to escalate. I guess 5'8" isn't short, but I'm definitely the runt of my close friends, and I've started to do pretty well for myself. I wish I could take this knowledge back to undergrad, because now that I know what the signs of attraction are and how to escalate, I realize I missed out on an awful lot haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 08:15 PM
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The only, and I mean only thing I can think of, is if his description of himself is fairly accurate is that outside of height (which yes at 5'3" is a huge setback), is that he's not sexualizing his intentions enough. Whether that's because he doesn't know how to do it or because women are demonstrating that they would not be open to his advances, I cannot answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:58 PM
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The last one I did had a great one...until we broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:23 PM
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I seriously don't understand the hate for them, they're the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 07:15 PM
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Or they post on Facebook/Instagram/blah blah blah about where all the good guys went, she gets inundated with white knight attention, and swings over. And these types of the girls end up being the serial daters who are always in relationships, but they never last.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:37 PM
1

Everything good comes with a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:32 PM
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But they're still getting laid. I know of far more alpha by blood/acting like beta guys that can find girls more than the contrapositive. The beta by blood/acting like alpha guys just look like fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:23 PM
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Or she does what /u/future_space_boobs said and swings over to someone she feels can fill that void
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:21 PM
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What if that level of attention she is craving is unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:19 PM
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This is interesting. So you have, let's assume, an attractive girl who is very much into you and wants to spend all her time with you, wants to talk to you all the time, is overly affectionate The one concern I have is that she may just be that needy for attention, not me as an individual, and I am just the vessel providing that for her. What happens if she gets bored one time and some other guy gives her that attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 06:13 PM
3

Maybe toxoplasmosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:47 PM
5

True, my ex had anxiety issues from being cheated on and they were exacerbated with a thyroid problem. So her neediness came from a place of trying to extinguish those anxiety-ladled thoughts. She never took it out on me, but we broke up, because in her words, "I could blame my exes for making me feel this way, but with you, I know I have a problem that I need to address because you've done everything right." Maybe she was lying, or wasn't attracted to me, who knows. But the relationship dynamic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:47 PM
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Because their neediness isn't something that you can just fill up like a water bottle. It keeps increasing and you keep giving until you have nothing left. I suppose your statement about not entering the woman's frame mitigates that to some degree. The other issue is that they may know it's unhealthy to be that needy and start resenting it. Although maybe that's her determining you are unworthy of her affection. Admittedly, my last relationship was like you describe but I am not of very high SMV…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:37 PM
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I'm guessing he means that as society became more civilized, the traits you need to be successful have changed. However, biology does not account for this. So he is angry that you can be an intelligent inventor and still be deemed genetically inferior and unworthy of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:25 PM
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I've actually thought about this. There's obviously genotype and phenotype. What if the outliers such as attractive, short men that somehow slay/skinny band druggies/club DJs/etc. actually do have "superior" genotypes but due to the environment (poor nutrition growing up, drugs in adolescence, etc.) they are in, do not look phenotypically "superior"? Girls would then be attracted to their "superior" genetics despite it making no sense on the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 05:07 PM
2

The more I read about the American ramifications of divorce, the more I think your legal system is ludicrously outdated and complex.... And which is why those that are bound by its laws learn to maximize them to their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:50 PM
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Love is conditional, regardless of gender or parental relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:21 PM
2

Okay then? "Potential mates". Does that suit you better?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:17 PM
3

Pardon me, just clearing space on the helipad for the trollocopter to land.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:12 PM
2

Hell, look at the comments section in any of those articles. All of the guys are going "why wasn't my teacher like that in high school?" or "I would have loved to have been "raped" by her as a student"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:55 PM
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SMV: Has physical activity as part of her life. Doesn't have to look like a model, but at least get out there and do something Doesn't mind getting dolled up every now and then. I actually prefer a girl with no makeup, but it's nice to go out dressed to the nines every blue moon. Loyalty and eyes only for her man. Number to me is relatively unimportant, although I may have been burned by this in the past without knowing. Understands that turning her man down for sex does hurt him, and only does …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:42 PM
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She has a good relationship with her parents. Some parents can be outright cunts. Would you really hold that against her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:39 PM
2

Thank you for clarifying. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:33 PM
1

Wouldn't making herself more attractive increase her chances of landing a high-quality man? All other things remaining constant, she'll widen her range of suitors. And if they happen to be completely superficial, she has the ability to find someone that isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:00 PM
1

We're about to find our answer as marriage/monogamy no longer carry the weight they did when religion was more prevalent in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:14 PM
4

How is this the first I've ever heard of "Ovaryact"? I'm almost flabbergasted that I haven't heard it once in my life, now that I see the hilarity and ease of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:49 PM
1

"I normally don't do this!" is the best one. I'm not some special snowflake, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:43 PM
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I guess "shallow" wasn't the term I should have used. Basically the biological imperatives that we follow can be different from the way we are told they work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:31 PM
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Less focused on physical attraction, personality is what matters, etc. The common trope is that men are the shallow ones and women select on a more philanthropic scale. But men and women are equally shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:16 PM
2

what's the countdown for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:03 PM
1

True. I found the first time or two it happened, I wanted to tell the world. Now I don't even think to talk about it, unless we're all shooting the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 05:39 PM
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I know, it's like they don't understand modern technology allows your cars to corner at faster than 20 mph. I love Masshole drivers. I was running late to a wedding rehearsal, coming from NY, after a Chiquita banana truck flipped on the turnpike outside of Boston (I shit you, not), and as I got on one of the other highways to start heading north, I was trying to make up time and I was going 95 mph while hoping not to attract too much attention to myself (impossible in a blue WRX with loud-ass ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:12 PM
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Even the field reports (which for the most part I doubt) I thought most of it was hogwash, until I gained 12 lbs. of muscle and some of the stories I have now are equally outrageous. And I'm still not even that attractive. So I can only imagine what a true good-looking guy's reality is like, and given the stories of my Chadillac friends from playing sports, I actually can believe some of the more outlandish tales.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:38 PM
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Does it? Because I chose to add 12 lbs. of muscle solely for women when I already was pretty ripped, and all that happened was that they wanted to fuck me, even though I was even more insecure knowing that it was just looks that got me all the new attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:34 AM
1

That doesn't even work anymore, because she's got Chad a right swipe away if you piss her off at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:18 PM
1

If she wants a relationship and for the guy to actually be nuts about her, she needs to play SOMEWHAT hard to get in the early stages. This is only one anecdote, but I provide a counterpoint. My last relationship, she came home with me after our first date to a soccer game. She texted me the next morning saying she had a really good time, and we naturally started a relationship because she kept up a conversation and the energy from that first date instead of playing some hard to get bullshit, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:00 PM
2

But if you play hardball, she's leaving you citing you're an asshole, abusive, or don't give a shit about her feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 06:06 PM
1

My question is what is your play if you're the husband? Seppuku? I mean, you legit just got cucked by a high schooler. Obviously, divorce the cunt and move on, but I don't know if I'd ever really recover from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:55 PM
2

I wouldn't say you're a gold digger. In fact that's what I'm hoping for in a wife, as I do not want daycare/after-school programs to be responsible for raising my children. I'd say men would be more reluctant to enter such an arrangement because they are taking all of the financial risk in the case of a divorce. But you would be sacrificing your self-sufficiency to be financially dependent on your spouse. So it's not like you're not risking anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:09 PM
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If the girl is willing, it's really no more effort and way more reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:53 PM
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God, I'm stupid. Good call.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:52 PM
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I'm 5'8" but most of my best friends are 6'+. We all played sports together, so I never gave a fuck about my height, because you just have to find a way to be good, and worrying about height wouldn't assist in that in any way. It was only when I heard about what girls thought about shorter guys that I started noticing shit like shoulder width, hand size, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:48 PM
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I'll check that out after work. I did it at a friend's wedding where I was supposed to be attending with my girlfriend, but we broke up the month before and I was still sad about it. The hilarious thing about it is that I had girls hanging on me, until I couldn't stop sniffling like an extra in a Kleenex commercial and it gave me away. I normally get angry at bullshit gossip small-talk, but the bubble made the girls' comments just bounce off instead of affecting me. So it did teach me how to act…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:47 PM
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I've been shocked at some of the girls I've gone out with that have said they didn't get any at home because their S/O was addicted to porn. And these girls were in good shape, hit the gym, would try to initiate sexy times, etc. I mean, it's possible that they were outright cunts at home, or something else, but still. I get becoming addicted to it if you have no woman in your life, but when you have a good-looking girl trying to jump your bones? Mind blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:38 PM
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It made me feel like I was protected by a large semi-permeous bubble where everyone's bullshit just bounced off, but I could let people into the bubble if I chose. Then when I came down, I realized I was gonna need more and this was gonna get real pricey.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:06 PM
2

What is with this shit? You think women have super saiyan radar that allold them to laser in on your exact purpose for every action?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:59 PM
2

What if I told you multiple women could sleep with the same guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:54 PM
1

The comedown was the worst. Felt super bummed about things for like 24 hours after.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:18 AM
1

Or are you saying 10 women would sleep with the same man This.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:20 AM
1

Mine was seeing everyone as a puzzle piece and trying to assemble it like Tetris. But one girl was so self-conscious and wouldn't shut the fuck up so her piece was broken, and I couldn't complete the row. I do want to drop some on a golf course to see if every shot becomes real-life protracer. Cocaine was the one that was awesome. But it's too expensive and I know I'd become reliant on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:45 AM
1

Cocaine and acid completely opened up my mind to the whole DGAF mantra everyone kept preaching about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:41 AM
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Those guys that aren't attractive enough to get laid now won't be attractive enough to get laid if you stop slut shaming other women. They're unrelated concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:30 AM
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It's good looks that separate them. Be real, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:57 PM
1

What actions of dread are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:53 PM
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It's the difference between getting fired and quitting. It seems like those people are the ones that were never going to be able to succeed anyways, and they're angry at the game, not for being what it is, but because its rules exclude them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 06:51 PM
2

Looks are way more important than anybody will admit to you openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 06:40 PM
2

More men won't get laid. It would be the same men getting laid even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 06:31 PM
3

My last girlfriend had anxiety issues, and the day we broke up, she explained what it was like for her day-to-day, and what she had to do to make sure I didn't see any of it. It sounds miserable. I hope those of you affected by it eventually find peace within.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 03:35 PM
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I wouldn't go as far as saying she only has purposes for being a mom and wife. Her purpose is whatever she wants it to be. And if anything she's more aware of the gender dynamics than most females. So she has the tools and knowledge to be super tigress board leader, best mom ever, or whatever she chooses. I hope she finds happiness with her decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 02:04 AM
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5'8", don't really have a preference, been with girls 4'11" up to 5'9". I've never been intimidated by height, because I was the shortest, skinniest guy on every high school sports team and you have to not let that shit bother you if you want to compete. That being said, there is something about a girl having to get on her tip toes to kiss you or her craning her neck to rest her chin on your shoulder. Or maybe she's the one who got away. I dunno, either way, I miss that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:23 AM
1

Pedialyte, homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:41 PM
2

AHHHH ZAAAAAAAABEEEEEENNNNNNYAAAAA
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 03:47 PM
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If your girlfriend is your sole source of happiness and excitement, then you're going to be in for a world of hurt. But if you have other things for yourself going on, then it's always better with a girlfriend. Always. Whomever says otherwise is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 06:26 PM
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My best friend's dog was a fucking cunt and somehow ran through his electrical fence to bite me in my yard when I was in middle school. Hated dogs up until I met a college friend's black lab. Now I want my own doggo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:28 PM
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Interesting. Looking back on my last relationship, that could have been something my ex may have wanted based on the way she would act and speak with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 06:13 PM
2

I had no idea what littles play was until that BDSM test was posted here a few weeks ago. Is it like parent/child, or what exactly is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:58 PM
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I don't know how important it is, but it certainly does matter. The OkCupid study backed that up. Mainly these discussions seem to devolve into self-hating race trolls or hooded klansmen trying to shout down any honest discussion because they know they have the privilege, but don't want to acknowledge its beneficial role to them. At least for me, as a West Indian, I was naive as to its effects until after I had dated a white woman. Then it came from everywhere. "Stop stealing our women." My own …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:31 PM
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Possible, haha. But my close circle of friends are all Chad archetypes, physically. I am basically the antithesis of them looks-wise. So I have no idea if they're just settling or if I'm really a Chad in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:03 PM
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I have this same issue. It's like the ones that are around your level think they're too good for you, and the ones above are somehow less shallow. It makes no sense but all of my girlfriends/most of my ONS have been waaaay above me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:55 PM
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True. Although if she's vulnerable with you, you can generally ask if they've tried something before and they'll be like "Well I did once, but..."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:33 PM
1

Depends. There's a difference between being told "I did it with my ex, but I won't do it with you" vs. "I've never been interested in that stuff".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:42 PM
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It's not the history. I couldn't care less about who a girl has been with others before me. In modern times, realistically expecting a virgin/very low n-count woman past college isn't plausible. It's the combination of her settling hard for you, not giving you her best and then the ability for her to potentially take half of your stuff that is the only problem I have with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 02:32 PM
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I was referring to the above "get over it" part of the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 01:04 PM
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It would be completely fine except for the fact the husband might not get her best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 12:51 PM
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Jesus H Fuck. Sorry you had to go through that. And now I know how that can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 08:37 PM
1

How does a guy "intentionally" knock a woman up? Serious question. I get how a girl could sabotage a guy to get pregnant, but I'm seriously at a loss for the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 08:04 PM
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I was discounting behavioral disorders when I said that. But yes, that is a valid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:47 PM
1

RP's description of Chad Thundercock is fantastical and pretty ridiculous and does not describe what being successful with women or high n-count count is really like. Braheim, RP's description of Chad is literally what you just typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:41 PM
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The thing I noticed is that it doesn't die out when you get older, it just gets more covert. And for as much shit as white people have give me, fucking Indians have the caste system still. My mom's side of the family hated my-then fiancée just based on the fact she was Indian instead of West Indian. Like what the fucking fuck? And going out and always being mistaken for Aziz or Raj. I honestly think it's human nature at this point. We've tried to stop it and yet these feelings still prevail, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:40 PM
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Shit. I did not see that coming. As a brown guy it was more about the whites making sure that they thought my academic awards were all because of race and not because of intelligence. Dating a few white girls opened up my eyes to how most of society views us as beta trash. But nothing as scary as your stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 09:42 PM
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I wasn't poking fun at the gender part of your argument. Boy, do I have some racist stories for you. See if you want to trade places with me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:51 PM
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I have a date at 7, which luckily is within walking distance of my pad. So I'll kill some time here until then haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:20 PM
1

The door to our underground parking garage is broken so I can't get out to the golf course before Easter dinner. This is bullshit!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:16 PM
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I believe that relationships in general will go the way of the dodo. Those that are of high value, as many have noticed, will pair off early. Girls are now free to chase Chad, and from what I've noticed, are content being single/or sharing him rather than finding a lower-value male for themselves. The top humans will reproduce and everyone else will be alone/short-term relationships/flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:40 PM
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The only reason I'm alive is because sadly, monogamy existed for so long, and every man gained access to a woman. This has been my thought as well. Social constructs allowed men who would have never reproduced in a natural hierarchy to do so, and as marriage and monogamy are dying and online apps make Chad as easy to obtain as your groceries, we're quickly going to be correcting a market imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 05:01 PM
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It's looks. The sub-par personality is shaped from experiences that you get when you're not attractive. You think these Chad-types are all casanovas full of metaphorical whit and substance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:13 PM
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Especially for white males? Hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:03 PM
1

Yes, but the girls have more and more baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 05:58 PM
1

As someone of above-average intelligence and average at best looks, I've always had to pick the perfect words to say because I just get talked over or through even if I'm right. I gained 15 lbs. of muscle two years ago, and the difference in the way I was treated was night and day. It didn't matter if what I said was the most philosophical prose ever or putrid garbage. Looks are the universal key to all doors. Without them, you have to work a lot harder even if what you have on the inside is pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:42 PM
2

All it takes is confidence to attract somebody Are you serious? Your physical being has no role in attracting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 08:41 PM
1

Isn't the catch-22 going to be that someone more easily persuaded will be less respected in her eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:08 PM
1

But he'll be more easily replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:13 PM
1

And then you date someone less attractive than you, find that you're not attracted to him, and dump him anyways. That's a no-win situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:50 PM
1

I'm not exactly sure, but with the way my last two relationships ended, I'm thinking you almost have to be an asshole in some capacity for her not to get bored and leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:43 PM
2

What are the differences in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 03:54 PM
2

I never liked that either. "Oh you wouldn't want to date a girl you met at a bar", said all of my girl friends. We all go to bars together, are you saying you're undateable? Does that girl in the library not go to a bar ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:51 PM
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I've actually been the exact opposite now that I realize treading carefully to have my health in my 80s just to grow old in a nursing home with Parkinson's like my grandfather did is vastly overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:47 PM
1

I'll let the supporter's section of FC United handle this for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:29 PM
1

Very true. I still struggle with that from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:43 PM
1

agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 03:27 PM
1

An individual woman no. But women as a whole, if they all have the same opinion? Then that opinion probably carries some weight, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 03:17 PM
1

But women and teachers actually do determine whether you're of a high enough quality. It's their subjective opinion of you/your paper, not whether you think you or your paper are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 03:09 PM
1

My eyes, the goggles do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:18 PM
1

The thing is the guys that are going to be using this technology are guys that are not getting any as is. It's not like Chad is going to replace his girls with some robot. The guys you want to fuck/be in a relationship with will not remove themselves from the marketplace, because they're still the same ones that are desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 02:17 PM
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Fair enough, I did rush to conclusions. I did the same with putting on 15+ lbs. of muscle and learning how to sexualize my conversations with women. I guess when I hear anecdotes such as yours, I get frustrated that my ceiling is lower than I thought it was. But being better than you were yesterday is always a pursuit worth traveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:54 AM
2

Well then explain how you managed to pull that all off if you weren't
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:28 AM
2

And that's probably because you're ridiculously good looking and have never struggled
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:38 AM
1

What is "No shit, Sherlock?" for $500, Alex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:52 PM
2

(1) agreed (2) night shift can be hell on family life (3) some people don't have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:01 PM
1

our generation has less sexual partners This has to be rubbish. I'm the ugliest of my friends, and I have similar numbers just based on the fact that online dating has caused me to rapidly catch up in the last 2 years. And I know plenty of guys that use Tinder/Bumble like it's shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:17 PM
1

Lying about when something about us is bothering you when we both know that's the case. I've tried to work through it before and got dumped anyways. So I'll be doing the dumping now even if it means I toss a good one away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:07 PM
1

With the cost of day care these days, my friends are saying if they have a second kid, it's cheaper to have one spouse quit than it is for daycare for two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:30 PM
1

I do, and honestly it started with a research paper I did in grad school that led me to finding TRP and this sub. I judge every interaction on who is the alpha and beta participant, wonder if that happy couple is really happy, seeing a guy with a chiseled jaw and thinking about what type of girls he's going back to. It completely changed my worldview from those of individuals with their own hopes and dreams to people just following biology, like a gigantic artificial intelligence environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:27 PM
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Ignoring the looks part of it which is incredulous in and of itself, finding not only a gamer girl, but one that games in that specific fashion? Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:54 PM
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Jesus H Fuck, although if he was hot, maybe he gets away with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:49 PM
2

Damn, that's what girls are referring to when they tell me about creeps then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:42 PM
2

What do guys do that's such a problem? Isn't it as simple as delete the number and move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:16 PM
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we wish we had real male role models who would explain this to us, instead of rappers. This is a huge point. As a hip-hop kid from the time I got my first portable CD player in high school, you hear about the nature of women through 'Pac, Biggie, Jay-Z, etc. And you think, well they're gangbangers, maybe it's just the class of women that they're hanging around with. Wrong, wrong, wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:15 PM
1

If you're extroverted, you probably don't have shit social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:26 PM
2

Not quite. Menu and I are in this fight together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:17 PM
1

Incorrect. My Chad friends had my back during the darkest time of my life when some of my own family did not. They had no tangible benefit to do so, as I was a broken down Pinto of a non-Chad that brought them no benefit with my presence. But they did so anyways. I actually had a huge talk about this with one of them, and he was simply aghast at the fact I thought our friendship was based on transactional cost and them keeping me around to feel superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 08:12 PM
1

Part of TRP's initial support for Trump was that they thought Trump going to legalize prostitution & start an immigration program bringing in women only, while deporting illegal men. That's the second time I've heard of this theory on this sub, and yet Googling "trump immigration policy women only" just talks about the women that have been deported under Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:00 PM
2

I really don't see how it's possible. Men want stability, women want scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 04:46 PM
2

Yes and no. It's been enlightening and depressing all at the same time. I wrote the paper back in 2011 before Tinder was a thing, and I postulated that an app that would make good looking men widely available and not restricted to geographical constraints would create a huge disconnect in the dating spectrum. I basically could have invented Tinder and became rich, but the research sent me into a bout of depression instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:34 PM
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That class caused me to write a paper on potential effects of online dating in society, the conclusions of which helped me find this sub, which has basically been apocalyptic for me, hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:25 PM
2

Chaos is always present in a complex system. Thanks complexity of engineering class I took in grad school!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:00 PM
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5/10. Only 5'8", narrow shoulders, tiny wrists/ankles. Face is alright, as I'm called cute a lot although everyone assumes I'm in my early 20s if I shave, when I'm 31. Dope-ass beard saves the day. Brown skin, bald. Only effects have been dating and basketball. It pushed me to excel at everything as my Chad friends dominated athletics and had the hottest girls on tap. Got just as good as them in pretty much everything, only to find out looks do matter a great deal. Been depressing lately as I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 05:04 AM
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As much as I give you honkies shit, Indians are the most racist mother fuckers out there. I mean, the caste system still exists for fuck's sake. I've been called a traitor for speaking with words that have more than 2 syllables (parents put me in SAT prep courses), dating Indian girls that were not from the right part of the country, and of course white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 12:49 AM
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Fair enough. I hope you guys all find what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 07:29 PM
1

My question is, will your incel brown friends have a marriage with a sex life that is acceptable to them or will it just be a marriage of convenience, social standing, and financial arrangements?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 06:42 PM
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My parents are Guyanese and I was born in upstate NY as a Catholic, so I don't have a typical Indian upbringing. However, my parents did push academics over everything and made sure I always had more than I needed (car at 16, etc.) It paid off with a full ride to undergrad, but I was so athletically and socially stunted when I arrived on campus. Picked up lifting when my freshman crush told me I made her feel fat (had appendicitis that caused me to lose 15 lbs my senior year of college), and got…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:35 PM
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That's very true. I grew up in an all white-suburban community, and my two favorite sports are soccer and golf which are not Indian favorites at all. So all of my friends ended up being white and I was a party boy in college, which a lot of Indian people don't participate in. Coincidence with your last sentence, because I just became a member at the country club that served as our home course for varsity golf in high school haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:23 PM
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Brown guy here. A big part of it is the fact we have no positive stereotypes in popular media. White guys, yeah we know they're awesome. Black guys can dunk out of the gym and have huge dicks. Latinos can dance and are suave. We have Raj from The Big Bang Theory and Aziz Ansari. That's it. I can't tell you how many dates I've been on where they're like "thank god you're not like Raj".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 05:28 AM
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93% Switch 90% Rope bunny 88% Experimentalist 87% Rigger 73% Degradee 73% Masochist 68% Dominant 63% Sadist 62% Submissive 60% Degrader 58% Brat tamer 58% Vanilla 50% Voyeur 47% Non-monogamist 46% Primal (Hunter) 45% Exhibitionist 42% Brat 39% Primal (Prey) 38% Master/Mistress 22% Slave 18% Daddy/Mommy 14% Ageplayer 13% Owner 12% Girl/Boy 3% Pet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:05 AM
1

Do you think they'll be honored when it comes time to protect the female's assets instead of the male's though? I don't see the judges of an already-backwards system correcting this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:22 PM
2

start an immigration program bringing in women only When was this ever postulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:10 PM
1

Having a bad-ass muscle car and watching an entire army flee in your presence is pretty bad-ass, regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:09 PM
3

This is what I was hoping you had posted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:01 PM
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Yeah, I re-read the comment tree and I see where he was talking about that but that most guys aren't currently holding out for it. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:39 PM
1

you would move closer to your goal /u/BPremium's goal is to get laid/a relationship with little to no effort
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:35 PM
1

Unless forced monogamy is part of that return to traditional femininity, then you have the same problem in that the desirable men now are still the same ones desired later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:33 PM
2

But even Alfred got fed up with Batman's bitch-ass-ness, and left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:32 PM
1

How are giant swaths of men that are already not getting laid/into relationships holding out going to help those already not getting laid/into relationships? Girls are already fucking/dating who they want. Those unselected removing themselves from the game has no effect. It's like if I were to tell Manchester United my beer league team isn't interested in selling me to them. Manchester United does not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:29 PM
1

Here's the thing. You were still putting in effort to get the world from women. You just did it in the gym, rather than face-to-face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:05 PM
4

I'm gonna use it on whomever gives me coffee advice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 07:59 PM
2

Well, prepare for a taste test of this Express beanie I'm wearing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 07:28 PM
2

If you can find one solitary girl, or hell a guy for that matter, that would jump through all of those hoops to make sure his or her partner was satisfied, I will eat my hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:50 PM
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Yeah, no girl is going to agree to any of that second paragraph. They're just going to blame the guy, try to guilt them into choreplay, and then the relationship ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:36 PM
1

Nope. Don't even go to the mall anymore unless it's something that the brick-and-mortar store has a ridiculously good price on compared to online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:28 PM
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It's not bad, as that implies morality and morality has no influence on the SMP. It creates a huge disparity in SMP for men depending on whether you are above the Mendoza line or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 06:05 PM
1

Because PUA isn't about social skills, it's about turning yourself into a dancing monkey
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 07:15 PM
1

Brah. Braaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh. Come on, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:54 PM
1

And you'd rather have that then be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:50 PM
1

Being happy with one, sure. Long-term stability, not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:31 PM
1

Yeah, you won't be putting up with threats to call the cops for fake domestic violence or isolating you from your friends/family. You think you will, but trust me, you won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:28 PM
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I understand dating apps operate in a different environment from real life interaction, but my 6'3", very attractive friend tossed me his phone because he didn't know what to say to his Tinder matches. I had like 8 dates and a blowjob lined up for him in 20 minutes. That has never, ever happened for me. The problem is that the girls that I've had relationships with have had some sort of baggage. One was similar to my mom in showing BPD traits, another wasn't over her ex that had cheated on her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 06:03 PM
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It's possible, but it would be one hell of a coincidence considering that when using dating apps I have significantly less choices (which is a realistic measure of SMV), my last two girlfriends had admired my confidence and ability to lead without being an asshole, along with a witty sense of humor, and ability to make friends with their friends (evidence of not terrible personality), and I get straight up rejected for being too short and thin. So your premise is possible, but Occam's Razor woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:34 PM
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I forgot the 6-pack abs, edited it to add that, didn't know what would be four (holy quadrature?), and then had to call in for a meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:40 PM
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You're right. The fact that one of my best friends invited his close inner circle out for drinks, because he's moving, last night and the fact that all 4 of them except for me are white, 6'+, full head of hair and shredded, and I'm 5'8", brown, bald, and skinny means that we're actually not friends and he invited me as some sort of court jester?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:39 PM
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Or, their friends are all Chad-types, and you witness the difference in perception day in and day out. You have the same social circle, skills (otherwise why the hell would they be best friends with you), athletic endeavors, professional success, but yet their dating life is exponentially better? Yeah, girls have super saiyan radar that allows them to hone on your greatest weaknesses from across the room. Or looks fucking matter. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:12 PM
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Yeah, land whales demanding the holy trinity of 6', 6 figures, 6-pack abs, and 6" is men failing to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 12:49 PM
1

It sounds like treating your S/O like a disposable commodity from Wal-Mart. I get that you can't be all lovey-dovey all the time, but this sounds like a playbook where you think you should do one thing but instead you do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:42 PM
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I mean I stay in shape, remain social, and continue pursuing my hobbies while I'm in a relationship. But I'm not out acquiring plates on the side or getting numbers or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:31 PM
1

Maybe I'm not of high enough value to pull this off, because the few times I've done something like this, they hold it over my head for long periods of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:08 PM
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Which is dumb. Just fucking admit it. I started lifting because my first college crush was bulimic and said I made her feel fat. Obviously there were many transient benefits, like looking shredded AF, and becoming ridiculously good at sports, so I continued to do it. But I have no qualms about admitting how the journey started.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:49 PM
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I mean I get the sarcastic wit and being playful and stuff. But I feel like this is a step beyond that, unless I'm misconstruing what you're trying to convey. make her feel bad about but know it won't actually hurt her I feel like every time, it hurts her. Especially when her response "my ex used to say stuff like that, and it really hurt". Unless that's another shit test that I'm just failing miserably at.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:39 PM
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Yeah, I know of his work. With your snarky "let it go" comment, it sounds like you're trying to insinuate I'm damaged goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:32 PM
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I realized something when I was debating whether to put her on blast publicly, especially when she busts out the "I was the best mother for you kids" trope around the holidays/birthdays/etc. The way I look at it is that she obviously had something happen to make her act the way she does. Whether it was actually her fault or not, is something that I am not privy to, nor does it matter in how it affects me. All I can do is judge whether her influence in my life is positive or not, and adjudicate w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:31 PM
2

Let me rephrase then. Being offered feelings of companionship and intimacy when they are only for resources sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:15 PM
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Also, at what point are women not even sentient beings then? That was why I turned to the bottle, because I felt that everything that had happened to me between my mom and my first girlfriend was my fault. Are you saying women literally have no responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:36 PM
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you treat them like shit regularly See I'm not sure I agree, but I'm interested in hearing your view on this. How are you supposed to just treat someone like shit, unprovoked? "We only fucked 4 times last night? A real girlfriend would have made it 7!" "Thanks for coming to my soccer game to support me! Are you so pathetic and have no life to where watching my beer league game makes your day?" "Sorry for my thyroid disorder making me sleepy, honey. They're running tests to figure out what's wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:25 PM
1

Because being loved for money fucking sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:19 PM
1

Because I'm comfortable talking about it? Go on, Mr. Armchair Psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:06 PM
1

I saw that little video they did on Rio with him dealing with his wife's death. Damn thing made me cry. Him and Vidic were a beast CB pairing. While everyone here in the States back then heard of Beckham, I wanted to be Giggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:01 PM
2

To quote Dr. Cox: "Thank god you've procreated"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:45 PM
2

My motto is friends are family that you choose. If someone wants to act like an undomesticated animal, blood will not save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:31 PM
1

The game I went to was at Old Trafford. I walked by the Emirates when I was in London, but there wasn't a game that day. Have a great picture of me flicking off the cannons. Fucking wankers!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:27 PM
1

Took the trip over for the 2009 game against Arsenal when United clinched the 2008-2009 Premier League. One of the greatest memories ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:20 PM
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Second striker or winger depending on formation. Manchester United and Portland Timbers fan, also got season tickets for my local USL Pro team here. It's the GOAT sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:13 PM
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fist bump
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:01 PM
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Hahahahahahaha. All you have to do is not go full blown autist mode and girls will literally take you to their beds themselves. Oh man. The hot guy that is pissing his pants talking to girls rarely exists. They have the confidence and social skills from being well-adjusted and accepted from day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:59 PM
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I had a problem with alcohol in my mid-twenties after my engagement failed. I strained a lot of friendships, even though my friends were sympathetic to what I was going through. Eventually you have to look within and realize that you need help and seek to make changes to not just better the relationships you have with people, but to become the best version of yourself. The woman that gave birth to me chose to blame my father and I. Working with my dad the last few years and watching him operate …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:57 PM
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Yes, and no. After dealing with a similar case with my first girlfriend, I really don't know what women want anymore. They claim to want to be loved, and then when you show them it, you're given abuse and vitriol in return even though they say how much their ex was an asshole. Or maybe I was just never good looking enough to have women show their affectionate side. Even the girls that have been mentally healthier have said "you're sweet" or "you're too nice", just to be dumped shortly thereafter…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:53 PM
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I mean, the popcorn comes with a butter "pouch" which is loaded with chemicals and preservatives emptied into the kettle with the kernels, and then sits in the display warmer for up to 2 hours. The hot dogs sat on the roller for up to 4 hours before I had to toss them and make new ones. I certainly didn't trust them, and I was the one making them and keeping the prep and holding surfaces sanitary. I'll take you to a Target as a field experiment, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:47 PM
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I don't associate with, let alone love, people that do not bring value to my life. So given that she has proven to be trash to me, I do not love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:44 PM
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You'd have to apply a real liberal definition to "eating" if you'd voluntarily eat Target trash food. I couldn't touch popcorn or hot dogs for like 3 years after I quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:37 PM
1

For what? I mean, she didn't tell me she felt this way until I was 27, so it was as simple as never talking to her again and continue living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:17 PM
2

Nothing's changing at 31 except for the exponentially longer time it takes to get past hangovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:02 PM
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I will say, Kroger's has dank fried chicken. But I hate how they tell you how the customer is never wrong. People are fucking stupid. Yes, they are wrong. At least with carts, I never had to deal with people. Just push as many as you can and get free drinks. Working electronics though, god damn. Yes, the kid that is going to school for engineering knows how these devices work, Mr. Farty McWhitetrash. And when I worked the little snack shack, it was the same people buying popcorn and hot dogs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:02 PM
2

I'm fighting with Menu to the death on this one. Fuck Star Wars. Come at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:57 PM
3

As a former Target cart boy, fuck these people indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:56 PM
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I don't hate them. I hate how society and the media portrays them and shapes your view of them from youth. I hate myself for not being what they want. But I don't hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:55 PM
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My mom shows all of the classic signs of BPD. Her marriage to my dad is a fucking joke. It's why I always laugh at everyone saying to our kind to just get arranged marriages and shit. It's funny too, because she made him out to be the worst dad ever, and so when my first girlfriend started showing similar signs, I figured I would just be nicer, and more loving then my dad. Boy, did that backfire. At the end of the day, I've had the moms of my Chad friends tell me that they consider me to be a so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:39 PM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:33 PM
1

Neither. Guyanese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:27 PM
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Haha, joke's on you. My mom disowned me because being picked on for not being white, short, and skinny and watching me ride the bench for the few soccer games she took time away from my sisters to come to weren't what she signed up for as a mother. Loving you for who you are is bullshit, because what I am besides those aforementioned things is an engineer who got full rides to undergrad and grad school, soccer vice-captain (got real good in college), great golfer, and a friend circle that is bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 03:22 PM
1

Hummingbird metabolism sucks. My grocery bill is $150 a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 11:15 PM
2

Holy shit. Or when Michael Irvin stabbed his teammate in the neck with a pair of scissors for not getting up from the barber's chair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 09:00 PM
3

Much like when my college friends would be like "Your friend Tek is an asshole/douchebag/player", and yet they'd still wake up in his bed, you're never going to get a straight answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:54 PM
1

GOOOOLLLLLLLLLAAAAAAASOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:37 PM
3

No need. Just look at some of the Tinder experiments people have done with Chaddy profiles, and they can literally get away with admitting to being full-blown autistic, living with mom, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 08:26 PM
1

Would it increase them by any noticeable amount though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:51 PM
1

Same, I gained 12, and even the girls in my life were telling me to watch how differently I'd be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:48 PM
2

completely stealing "reputation for spectacular violence" for future use
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:41 PM
1

I agree that if we don't, society will decay. But how is that uprising going to happen? Women are still fighting for more and more privileges, and the elite men aren't going to give up their disproportionate amount of money, women, and power willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:27 PM
1

But we're in a society that is going more and more away from monogamous norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 07:14 PM
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Okay, and if we don't play their game, then we go from not having enough resources to compete to having none at all. Short of all of the average folk opting out, what recourse do they really have?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 06:12 PM
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Because the men in power have everything they could ever want at their disposal. Women, money, power. They have no incentive to help out the common man. What they do is commoditize the rare chance to climb into their good ole boys club, and we fall for it hook, line, and sinker with becoming wage slaves, buying products we don't need or even can't afford, and competing amongst ourselves for their table scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:51 PM
1

Where are all these short Chads that the people in the comments talk about? I literally have never seen them, and I went to two huge party schools for my degrees. Like I think I've done the best out of my fellow shorty friends, and I pale in comparison to my taller friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:46 PM
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Just be confident and make them laugh. I fixed the confidence and humor part in college. It got me a lot of numbers and drunken makeouts, but nothing of substance. Then I got ripped as fuck, and surprise...that was the game-changer even though we're the more superficial sex supposedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:39 PM
1

If you qualify as a male to be included in the Chadder community, do all Chads win, or only the Chaddiest of the Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:34 PM
2

My three best friends that I've known since grade school are all Chads. Their dating advice did not work for me growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:34 PM
2

Or would we just start discriminating on the micro-level?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:26 PM
1

Countering social engineering Would we be countering social engineering or biology? Because wasn't it said that only 40% of males or something reproduced when man-made social constructs (marrige, religion, etc.) weren't prevalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:25 PM
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But the 5s or 6s will just continue banging the guys above you. There are less of them, sure, but that just means the ones that remain literally have a smorgasbord of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:20 PM
2

I actually support the new RP stuff that says you may as well give up if you arent Chad from the start Examples? Interesting to see how quickly the sub turned if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 05:06 PM
1

Unless you're in the elite part of society, aren't we all?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:13 PM
1

They were our pre-game mixtape of choice for varsity soccer, but we really had no idea what the lyrics meant at the time. Just a bunch of over-amped teenagers yelling "LIGHTS OUT, GUERILLA RADIO!" It was only when I listened more in depth to them in college to where I started to realize where they were coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:09 PM
1

It's a line from a Rage Against the Machine song that basically means what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 04:05 PM
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if women were to outnumber men, then men may make whatever demands they want I never understood this argument. Wouldn't the elite males just get even more? It's not like the average Joe becomes more palatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:55 PM
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What? The land of the free? Whoever told you that is your enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:53 PM
1

Fried chicken is the best. I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 03:31 PM
1

Except for when I found it, I was already doing most of the redpill things like lifting and developing other hobbies outside of work. It did help me make my sexual feelings more prevalent, but I'm a niche Chad. The girls that do find me attractive, fish in a barrel. It's just very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/17 04:30 AM
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I've been the same way, and I have no idea how old you are, but I will say eventually placing all of your self worth on competing with your peers cracks the facade until it collapses. You have to find things that make you happy without requiring external validation from others . Not to say that competition and wanting to be the best is bad, but it can't be your sole motivation for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 08:51 PM
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I think it depends on where you are on the totem pole when you discover it. If you're a good-looking guy that discovers TRP and realizes he has to work on his social skills and does so, he won't have much to say in the negative. My personal experience is that I realized I'm much less attractive than I thought, and I'm having to deal with the thought that finding a sustainable LTR and having kids, which were things that I envisioned, are likely not on the cards for me. I feel like part of me died…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 08:49 PM
1

Uh, my friends that have Chad looks are all very kind, generous people. They also were able to wife up amazing women. Coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 07:53 PM
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Yeah. In my situations, the girls have treated me like their world for a bit, but then they open up about their emotional problems, being cheated on, having anxiety, past boyfrends that were needy, assholes, etc. and it's either that they're expecting a wild roller coaster ride that they're not going to get from me, or they were never attracted to me in the first place. It just seems weird to give that much of yourself to someone you find not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 04:37 PM
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Every time, in my opinion, that I've dated a girl "out of my league", she's had some form of low self-esteem, anxiety, or personality trait that causes the relationship to implode. As a guy with red pill leanings, I have no idea whether to think that those traits lead someone to date a guy less attractive then them so they don't get hurt, but then bail when they realize they're not attracted to you or if relationships with these people are neigh impossible regardless of who the guy is, but even …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:51 PM
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Never gets angry at anything Weird, because I thought being over-emotional was a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:11 PM
5

Fist bump for that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 07:00 PM
3

Drake is a fucking bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 06:55 PM
1

I'm envisioning you writing to manojob.com (NSFW) and politely requesting a female version of that site.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:14 PM
2

It's like being a Game Genie code. She'll always pick the best of the Mario Bros./Duck Hunters players, but yet she'll see you and you vault past everybody somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:13 PM
3

I just...what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 04:07 PM
1

I'm not ashamed, but the fact I can't get one to stick around does make me sad at times. I actually have better luck with more athletic girls as we have more in common and overweight girls say I make them feel fat (when in reality they are fat). I think I remember you saying you're overweight. Are you on an exercise/weight-loss program at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:47 PM
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Look at the thread that just got created with the "case-specific Chad". Because believe me, above average guys don't lose their virginity at 22 and go through a 3-year dry spell in their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:06 PM
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I'm actually having this argument with a fellow poster on a different thread right now. For a very, very small subsection of women, I'm actually considered very attractive. To most, I am below average and invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:58 PM
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I have, but they have been pretty damaged, so I don't know if I'd consider that victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:54 PM
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You'd never be able to tell until you got my XS-sized shirt off. Like I said, I do have a certain set of features that a small subset of girls find attractive. It's got to be a girl that generally doesn't date white guys, is either 5'3" or shorter, or just secure in the fact that we're going to weigh about the same, and doesn't care what the majority of people will say, because they will say "how the hell did you end up with her". I'm not attractive to a wide range of women like your typical Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:42 PM
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How am I above average? I'm literally below average in weight/height, have the most undesirable race, and have a boy-ish looking face. I get shot down for being too skinny all the time. I'm not saying I haven't had success in the game, because I have, but I fail to see how you can think I'm above average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:30 PM
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Thin (~135 lbs), but chiseled. Brown skin, brown eyes, bald. Only 5'8", weak jawline, tiny hands and feet. My one saving grace is dope facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:26 PM
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Uh, a 7/10 is above average, so you are at least somewhat good looking. But if you can approach, be a good conversationalist, come off as natural and not creepy or desperate etc, there isn't much else to "learn" That's my thought too. Some people think that there's a magic retort you can use on her that will cause her to fall for you, but it's really just what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:22 PM
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The core of game is just going out, approaching, getting logistics, (seeing if the girl CAN even fuck or if she's the designated driver, leaving with her boyfriend to the airport to go to her mother's funeral in 15 minutes) staying the interaction as long as possible, trying to pull, etc. That is game? That's common fucking sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:57 PM
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Generally, epic transition cases like yours are where the guy is good looking and either doesn't know it or just fails to know how to properly escalate. Once you get that down, it's fish in a barrel. Without the good looks, your escalating would have you in those creepy copypastas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 01:45 PM
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I'm not, like 5/10 at best. I do have certain attractive features which if they fall into a girl's wheelhouse, it's a slam dunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 12:35 PM
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I was told that cute means good personality but ugly. I get called cute a lot. Aw yi...noooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 10:58 PM
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Define whining? I wouldn't necessarily label someone a crybaby because they were aware enough to realize that being short/fat does disadvantage you and yet still put themselves out there/work on maximizing their value. I know you're just using it as an example, but I never understood the redhead hate. They're so pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 08:00 PM
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Just watched this. Oh man. I wish we were that hip. It was just a bunch of us soccer guys huddled around the fire drinking this shit out of a paper bag, talking about the good plays we made that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:57 PM
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Either I'm underestimating my personality then, or these girls I've talked to have done a real poor job of choosing in the past. But I'm just a small anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:51 PM
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Beer and darts never fails for me. If you want a break from So.Cal, hit me up. I love visiting, but I know I could never live there without going insane while living paycheck to paycheck for much less luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:50 PM
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I was in Long Beach back in 2009 when King Cobra decided to come out with a rebranding. I ran into a billboard that said "King Cobra. New label, same taste." Not "same great taste", not "same smooth taste", just "same taste". Knew at that point it was time to advance to higher quality drinks that didn't double as car fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:36 PM
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I've never once seen a guy charm a girl's pants off when the initial signs of attraction weren't all there (laughing at everything, constantly touching his arms, blushing, etc). What I have seen is when the girl is fully into the guy, he goes full autist mode and wrecks it. All of the hookups and girlfriends I've had haven't required any sort of otherworldly "game" or "tactics". Being socially competent and light-hearted is all you need, and from what I've been told, actually sets you apart from…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:33 PM
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It's why I generally stuck to bottles. Although, let's face it, the fact that King Cobra (2/$3 at your local Quality Dairy!) comes in a glass bottle isn't going to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:29 PM
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Glad I wrote down that hypothesis back in 2003 so that a redditor could confirm it 14 years later!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:25 PM
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Hell, I'd be willing to show you my much smaller east coast city because (a) you seem like the type of character that would be fun to throw a beer or two down with and (b) to show you that you don't have to be Thor to get yourself in the game
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:24 PM
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Whatever it has, it made for some of the most memorable evenings. Going to school in the midwest, everyone was a Natty drinker, but I refused to cave in and brought my upstate NY Blues with me wherever I could. Natty has a certain aluminum aftertaste (esp. Ice) which I am convinced is from the inside of the can rotting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:21 PM
1

Ever thought of changing cities?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:18 PM
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As a brown guy that has dated a few white chicks, it basically boils down to white guys thinking you're "stealing their women" and that because you are of an inferior race, she has no standards if she's sleeping with you. I actually found a different corollary when I was with these girls, in that I was treated with extra respect because I must have had something going for me to land the "prized white girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:17 PM
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You live in the vainest of all American cities. Some of your viewpoints I actually agree with, but the way you amplified everything to 11 made me think you were near Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:02 PM
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Oh raptor jesus, no. I found out I could put down a fifth of Jager, but a single Jagerbomb would cause me to blackout for a few hours. So I never got into the caffeine/alcohol craze.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 07:00 PM
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I was a Mickey's ma..horse myself. We tried drinking one again for funsies in our late 20s, and looking back on it, it's a miracle I survived 4 years of that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:57 PM
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No wonder I couldn't attract girls in college, I was horse, not man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:56 PM
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And it all makes sense now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:39 PM
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Are you serious? Then fire everyone that shakes hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:31 AM
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Porn and sex affect the male brain differently even though orgasm is achieved. Couldn't it be plausible that many different partners has a different affect than sleeping with the same person, even if the number of orgasms achieved was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 08:20 PM
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I'll use my current situation as an example. The last relationship I had, the girl was amazing. Feminine, great sex, offered support in my sporting endeavors, we both loved soccer so we could Premier League and chill instead of having to watch whatever bullshit passes as TV these days, truly made my life better with her in it. Now as I've been with other women since we've broken up, so many girls just have nothing compared to her. Boring, only hobby is netflix, out of shape, nagging, insecure, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 06:18 PM
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Do what we did in college and Axe (do they still make that stuff?)-bomb the shit out of him. Tape down the trigger to an Axe body spray aerosol can, throw it in his room, and blockade the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:52 PM
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I'm talking in an extreme sense, like think girl lets herself get ran by the lacrosse team but only offers you once a month sex. You wouldn't be winning. In your scenario, you are right. I dated two girls with self-admitted slut phases, but our time together was quality in and out of the bedroom, hence it didn't bother me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:50 PM
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I get not caring about the most fashionable of clothing or whatever, but not showering? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:37 PM
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You sure on that whole "men can't be alpha widowed" thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 04:57 PM
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They can advertise with whatever the fuck they want, it won't change what humans find biologically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 04:46 PM
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I am nice to her and we have so much in common,she should date me. I deserve a relationship waaay more then the douchbag she is dating I'll admit I used to think like this in my white-knight, supplicating ways my first year of college. The fuel gets tossed on the fire when said girl is constantly telling you the boyfriend is a jerk and why can't she find a nice guy like you. You know that she doesn't want you, otherwise you would actually be together, so combine that with youthful stupidity and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 04:45 PM
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And tall women are the equivalent of short men. Wrong. I've been around tall women, and they've never been short (hue hue hue) of suitors. Some are cool with dating shorter guys, many want someone even taller than they are. And the short girls, well they also get to swim in the tall guy pool, although if the height difference is sufficient, they'll take a flyer on a shorter guy. There are guys that love tall women especially for their legs. I've never heard of one women who prefers short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 04:21 PM
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I'm with this. My grandfather came down with Parkinson's and the toll it took on him and my grandmother made me realize I'd rather fly off the road into a tree trying to do my best Colin McRae impression
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:07 PM
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Hell, even Danica Patrick, a stock car racer - her job is to sit on her ass and work a machine - is in great shape Uh, that's because you have to be in great shape to pull 4 Gs in 140 degree temperatures for 3 hours. Look at the top-tier drivers, especially in open-wheel series. Their training is as strenuous as any stick-and-ball athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:52 PM
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Here's why women lose out. Guys are fucking pigs when it comes to public bathrooms. We had a bar in college that did $2 pitchers/$1.50 burger and fry baskets and the guys' bathroom was an absolute war zone. I mean liquid shit overflowing out of the toilet onto the floor and stuff. We didn't even have paper towels. I was trying to air dry my hands as I walked out and a girl grabbed me by the hand and took me into their bathroom. They had a little bench, a potted plant, and everything was squeaky …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:12 PM
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And maybe the FWB considered it a lustful, no-inhibitions moment that showed him how attractive you truly found him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 10:00 PM
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My sisters and dad all watch that sci-fi stuff together. I tried to get into it, but just couldn't do it. Was too busy getting into Formula 1/World Rally/Australian V8 Supercars, which has a much smaller fanbase haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:34 PM
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Now what if we told you she was even more fun with other guys and without demanding commitment from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 09:22 PM
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I'll ruin it for you, the boat sinks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:46 PM
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Me neither. My dad tried to get me into Star Trek (is that similar, I have no clue), and I thought it was all dumb as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 05:46 PM
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The way my last relationship ended made me realize that I don't have what it takes to keep a girl attracted long term, and that I was basically alpha-widowed by her, as no other girl I've been with has come even close. Just focusing on myself, even though it does kind of hurt knowing that some of my life goals will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:39 PM
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Why is it that it's obvious men and women are biologically different and yet the fact that the same scenario may affect the sexes differently is considered absolutely blasphemous?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:45 AM
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So then that doesn't change the fact that there wouldn't be enough men worth settling for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:29 AM
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Or would factors just become more discriminative if everyone upped their game?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:22 AM
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Dark refers to hair color in that phrase, homes. As someone that's dated white girls, there is definitely a race dichotomy in the SMP. Although you are right, good looking is good looking regardless of race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:18 AM
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In the modern dating world where being 6'+, white, and a full head of hair gives you a plethora of dating options and positive reinforcement starting from youth for having obviously superior genetics, it's hard for me to say that he worked for it. It takes work to maintain relationships or to develop a personality, but the disproportionate number of opportunities a Chad has over the average guy gives him a chance to do so with true abundance mentality. Why am I not Chad...well I'm 5'8", brown, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:13 PM
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He gets involved in our hypothetical situation and hopes for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 10:09 PM
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It might. All I can do is offer anecdotes, but those I know in those situations had little to no self-esteem, were needy, and very clingy. The women quickly chewed them up and spit them out leaving them worse than before, to where they became the misogynists that get talked about so frequently here. It's a dangerous and very high-risk game to try to find a relationship that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 08:36 PM
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Okay, and if he gets kids and a frequency of sex that satiates him, mission accomplished. If he gets a kid that may/may not be his, and starfish sex until they conceive and then nothing, there is no way I'd consider that being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 07:52 PM
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Pretty much all of my dates have come from online, and I've been pretty shredded since I took up weightlifting in my late teens in undergrad. Where TRP helped me was in reverting back to my more "alpha" mindset which was beaten/teased out of me in grade school, and sexualizing my intentions. So while it didn't make me wildly more attractive, it helped me seal the deal with those that found me hot. I've dated some high quality, attractive, feminine women, which as a thin, west Indian guy, somehow…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 06:28 PM
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Nothing, IF the beta is getting what he wants out of the relationship. But how is it not a slap in the face to put in a ton of effort when Chad had to do nothing to get even less?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 05:56 PM
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Was I the only one whose anger phase was directly purely inwards at himself for not being good enough? Like a lot of the TRP theory about male/female interaction is pretty obvious if you just observe, even from a young age. I was angry at myself and at society for being hypocritical in what they teach about the way relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 05:52 PM
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Or wigs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 10:16 PM
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I was student-teaching in grad school and turns out we got dank-ass healthcare. So when I realized my hair was thinning, I saw one of the endocrinologists on staff who ran a bunch of tests because she thought it could have been stress-related (broke up with fiancee year before). When she determined it was male-pattern baldness, we discussed Propecia and she let me know of the potential sexual side-effects, but said that they were reversible upon cessation of using the drug. Well, right when I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 09:59 PM
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I dunno. It's like watching an adult that believes in Santa Claus. It's not even funny as much as it is disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 09:49 PM
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Actually, it's just a sign that your hair follicles have a higher sensitivity to DHT. Honestly, it helped me, because I have a boy-ish face, and going bald combined with a beard helped me "ruggedize" my face. I used to have Cristiano Ronaldo-type hair, and literally only one girl has said I looked better with hair than without. Although the rest could have been frauding, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 09:48 PM
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get to enjoy sex with a superior product on the sexual marketplace These sound like the type of marriages that would be dead bedrooms. Are they actually having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 09:31 PM
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The last thing he needs is more pills being thrown at him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 09:27 PM
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"I'm not a bad guy"...I know we like to say morality is subjective, but ummmmmmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 08:39 PM
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Seeing as how a fish can only really be a meal or a pet, and human/fish communication is fairly limited in scope, you really wouldn't have any idea as to what constitutes the internal thought processes of the fish. In a relationship, you can develop feelings based on the external applications of your significant other's behavior, but short of pulling some sort of The 6th Day nonsense, you don't actually experience the inner being of his or her person. All you develop are emotional/verbal/physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 08:38 PM
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I feel like this should send TBP the same way as Circuit City
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 02:57 PM
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And his bottles do come neatly wrapped in paper bags.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:30 PM
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I went out-of-state to college with the same girl I took to senior prom, as we had happened to meet at an orientation and lived in adjacent school districts. I chased soley after her freshman year, while bitching that I wasn't having any success with girls while my friends were hooking up and dating. Looking back, guess who missed out on an awful lot of really obvious opportunities his freshman year?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:29 PM
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Your last line is what I find amusing in these discussions about toxic masculinity. Feel free to ebb and flow in the currents of your emotions and wear them on your sleeve. Hell, I used to do it. But it comes at the consequence of being a huge turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:28 PM
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I wouldn't consider those "nuclear". I've seen rejections where the girl literally runs to another guy to strike up conversation in order to explicitly show she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:15 PM
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Those that go nuclear, if those are indeed shit tests, how in the world would those even be salvageable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:07 PM
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Yeah, the girl I'm FWB'ing with now said it's unfortunate that "you genuine guys have to deal with the pain that the assholes cause". But at the end of the day, like my boy Scarface says, all you have are your balls and your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:47 PM
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The best were the assumptions that were made of me. I had only been with 3 girls up until the ripped phase. And then every girl I hooked up with/dated insinuated that I was a player/slept with tons of girls/wouldn't find them attractive enough to stay around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:29 PM
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Same. The biggest light bulb was when one of my girl friends explicitly told me "notice how you won't feel the pressure to say the perfect thing anymore, because you look so much better." It was outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 06:59 PM
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My train of thought was that guys may be thinking "what's the point in all of this?" knowing that even if he gets her fleeting attention, it's not going to last for any significant amount of time, so he doesn't even bother approaching Jane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:54 PM
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But what happens when if they start dating, and Chad makes a pass at her? The guy is going to be toast no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 05:42 PM
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I just...no fucking way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 03:57 PM
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Based on what I've read, isn't it always the man's fault, regardless of who cheats? Obviously if the man cheats himself, then it's his fault for not holding himself to the promise of monogamy that he made. But if the woman steps out, it's because he didn't satisfy her, was bad in bed, didn't have her coffee ready at 5:07 am, etc. If the man is leading the relationship, doesn't he also bear the fault for when it tanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 03:28 PM
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Nope. Agree with everything you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 02:13 PM
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I was being sarcastic, but from what I've seen, the people that are polygamous in nature are either ashamed or know that their partner will not approve of such an arrangement, so he or she keeps it hidden and cheats instead so that the relationship is preserved, but yet can still sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 01:53 PM
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But they know that most people aren't like that, so how are they supposed to have their cake and eat it too!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 01:47 PM
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I mean, aren't they already complaining about "where have all the good men gone?" and shit like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 11:27 PM
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Honestly, most guys I know don't give a flying fuck about what other guys are doing. But the type of masculinity that seems to be attractive to women is very narrow in scope. It's neither good nor bad, but just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 09:47 PM
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No, because those men would be the "undesirables", and today's society is already showing that girls would rather go without than pair off with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 08:26 PM
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From what I've noticecd, girls would rather stay single than have to delve down into the 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 07:44 PM
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All of the sex and cool things that the money from the first two guys can buy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 06:54 PM
2

I hate the version with Kanye because his verse is fucking awful, frankly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 06:31 PM
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he is in fact banging some british chick with ADULT ACNE This seems oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 05:29 PM
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They'd marry 2 rich people and 1 hot guy, and that hot guy would get all of the benefits of the arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:52 PM
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And I've got my golf equipment decked out in pink. Don't vomit on it, just pass the pink stuff my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:21 PM
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Where does that guy live? Hollywood?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 03:11 PM
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As someone of Indian heritage, the amount of "just focus on your career" bullshit pisses me off. All it did was attract gold diggers, surprise surprise. It made sense in religious, forced-monogamy societies, but those are no longer the rules of today's game. I sympathize with your second paragraph, but I actually found my problem to be that I wanted the power, the prestige, and the money from a high income not to attract women, but to provide the same and more advantages to my kids that my paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 07:19 PM
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Agreed, but especially when it comes to evaluating looks (which I have very little of), everyone all of a sudden resorts to trope, pacifist bullshit. So all of a sudden you have yourself saying that looks matter a lot, and everyone else telling you it doesn't. And you want to believe them because they're successful in dating, but you realize that you're only missing one thing that they're not. TRP beat that into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 07:15 PM
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For me, it was so obvious because I was basically at the bottom of the SMP totem pole growing up. So I would try to do all of these things that my much more good looking friends would do, and it would backfire in my face. Once I found TRP, the anger phase wasn't even at the world and the way it worked, it was at the people that straight up lied to my face about it. A lot of my angst growing up was knowing that I needed to work on myself to get on my peers' level, but also knowing that the advice…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:30 PM
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It was the only concept that accurately bridged the gap between what I observed since childhood versus the rhetoric spewed by the media and by those privileged enough to have no clue as to why things happened the way they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:14 PM
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That basically sums up my life after TRP to a 'T'. I'd be interested in hearing your hypothesis in full.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 08:10 PM
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In terms of the concrete definition of being involuntarily celibate, nothing. But it doesn't solve the problem of being at the bottom of the SMP, which admittedly was not part of your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 07:30 PM
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Isn't that cheating the system? Nobody considers you a video game expert if you beat the game with Game Genie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 07:04 PM
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FTO?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 10:04 PM
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Glad that you and your SOs have been happy with that then. It just seems weird to intentionally restrict yourself to guys 1-2 points below you. I guess I've seen enough people on both sides of the coin (more attractive/less attractive than their SO) cheat to make me think anyone is safe anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:56 PM
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And are your boyfriends happy with the frequency of sex and affection that you give him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 08:46 PM
1

I like this premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:24 PM
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My one question in this whole charade is whether or not the oxytocin bonding is actually reduced for every partner you have. I thought that was true, but I was told it actually wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:11 AM
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I think looks serve as your ceiling, and all your status and game can do are capitalize on that, bar some ridiculous bullshit like you hitting the Powerball or something completely out of right field.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:10 AM
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Isn't there like a ladyboners or something like that subreddit for that purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:47 PM
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What in the world? When I heard of rapes, especially having attended two party/sports colleges, it was always football players, frat brothers, etc. getting in trouble for sexual assault/rape. And I'm not talking about "they were both drunk" rape, like actual against her will rape. It wasn't Pranjeet from the Computer Science lab. Those guys have the social status and the looks to pull women, pretty much at will. Why are they the ones getting in trouble, then? I'll acknowledge that it could be va…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:04 PM
2

So then why did Darren Sharper drug and rape women when he literally could sleep with 98% of women as a former NFL player and TV correspondent?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:41 PM
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Except rape isn't about sex, it's about power
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 07:01 PM
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Tiger Woods, the nerdy black guy with hot blonde wife, that had stock photos of his family paraded around everywhere made me realize that nobody is safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:32 PM
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“Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize half of them are stupider than that.” - George Carlin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:21 PM
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My last relationship, I feel like having all of that Red Pill knowledge in my head caused me a lot of internal angst, although I don't think it was externally apparent . Like can I respond to her "night night, honey" text before I go to bed? She immediately returns a text, should I respond because my phone is right next to me, or wait a few minutes? Shit like that seemed to almost turn into an artificial intelligence programming exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:20 PM
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I just...what the fucking fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 06:13 PM
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I would never give up that closeness for what you guys call male friendships I would take a bullet for my best friends. I can't even say I'd take a bullet for some family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 03:02 PM
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You'd be surprised at how strong some friendships are between men. Me and my two best friends from high school are still brothers as we're over the age of 30. We treat each other as equal if not better than family. Hell, the woman that gave birth to me was the biggest betrayer of them all when she said she regretted me being born.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 02:54 PM
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Ah, my definition is basically if a girl is taking more than one dick at once
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 01:24 PM
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I know you said that you were at a frat and played soccer, wasn't this stuff sort of commonplace in those circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 04:21 AM
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Thanks, me too :) I mean, in the modern SMP it's going to be rare to find a virgin. I actually lost my v-card to one, and the first few times were super awkward. And then we got engaged and she started wondering if it was a good idea that I hadn't slept around before proposing to her, and whether she meant that or was projecting, I realized that the whole "no hymen, no diamond" thing was bullshit. I don't think I would LTR anyone that did porn or got DPed by the football team or whatever, but in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 02:33 AM
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I'll offer my thoughts. I was a late bloomer and really thanks to being oblivious to many IOIs from females at a top-10 party school, while also self-sabotaging myself due to looking different from all my friends, I didn't lose my virginity until 22. Now I've done a bit of sleeping around, and my last two girlfriends both mentioned a "slut phase" from their college days. I didn't prod for details, but I didn't really have a problem with it because (a) I was currently slutting it up and (b) the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 12:02 AM
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somehow she will never know sex outside of their meager efforts and therefore not pursue it. This is dumb as hell because I've heard of many stories where they want to know if the grass is greener and leave just for that reason in and of itself (both guys and girls).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 11:47 PM
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It's unwanted because the dude is ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 09:49 AM
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God damn, sounds like a Saw trap haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:55 AM
1

Could you make the argument that Tinder provides an accurate representation as to the minimum physical standards to enter the SMP, and you still need to cultivate personality and other traits to go with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:47 AM
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Firstly, I completely agree with what you said. It's not assuming that people with that similar characteristic will be attracted, it's playing the odds that the people without that characteristic will not. You're not going to tell a fat man/woman that they are going to land a fit partner. You either tell them to aim for someone with a similar body type or to lose the weight and get in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 02:34 AM
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What I meant by my phrasing is that a lot of in-shape shorter guys thought (myself included up through undergrad) would find a shorter in-shape girl. We didn't realize that height was going to disqualify us from the SMP altogether or relegate us to fatties. That right there is a huge wake up call that some struggle to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 12:38 AM
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Well, fuck me. Thanks for posting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 12:08 AM
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I wasn't complaining. I was just giving a reasoning based on what I've heard from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 11:58 PM
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The ugly girl won't respond to the hot guy? Show me the part of the study that says that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 11:57 PM
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Agreed. But let's use that 5'3" Asian kid that supposedly has all of those physical accomplishments on his resume. I'm sure he thought his equivalent was just a similarly height disadvantaged woman. Turns out, it's nobody at all. It's that type of scenario that has a lot of guys offended, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 09:55 PM
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I understand that. But if that Chad decides to dip his dick into her, all of a sudden she's gonna hold out for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 09:47 PM
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I guess the "offense" comes when guys don't get their "looks match". I know a lot of guys I talked to were thinking they can find someone of similar "/10" range. But when 2s can hook Chads, they're disappointed to find out they never stood a chance from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 09:42 PM
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I'd characterize it as multiple positions in one round, passion, noises/dirty talk, sweat, energetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 03:51 PM
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Not over average or muscular, but definitely over skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 01:25 AM
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The way I look at it is that sexual compatibility is the most important thing. Not to say personality and common interests don't matter for LTRs because they do. But if we got along great and did cool things together, but didn't see eye to eye on sex, we could be friends and still do all that fun stuff without the having to be unhappily monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 06:36 PM
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I flip it. We split in the beginning stages of dating, and then if I want to treat her later on in the relationship, it's my prerogative to do so. And those moments are always well received.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 06:12 PM
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Probably not porn star sex because porn stars aren't average Actually, I've found that as long as the girl does actually find you attractive, you do get that porn star sex. I'm nowhere near Chad material, but I somehow fit the "type" that my last two girlfriends were looking for, and it was a wild ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 04:47 PM
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It's the way the system works...it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 02:21 PM
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Where the fuck do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:28 AM
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I've always heated my oatmeal up in the microwave, so maybe I'm the heathen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 01:25 AM
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What would this really change besides fat chicks becoming incel as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 12:15 AM
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Who are you heathens that use water instead of milk? Same goes for hot chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 11:50 PM
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The physically awesome part is a dichotomy because when I'm in soccer mode for the summer, it's impossible for me to keep my bulk weight on, which I need because my playing weight is only around 133 lbs. So it's either look ripped and weigh nothing, or quit sports and just live in the gym. I've had three relationships in my 31 years. First was ages 22-24, that ended when she exhibited a bunch of cluster-B traits, and the relationship crashed and burned. I was also a supplicating doormat as I tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:41 PM
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I actually never really had an anger phase. I was able to discern most of the tenets of TRP through observing social interaction growing up in school/college and through writing a complexity study on online dating in 2011, arrived at TRP-type conclusions before I had even heard of the subreddit. I was just disappointed in the lies that get pervasively told throughout society, when they go against how reality works. If anything, I'm in the depressive phase right now. I remember some of the alpha-…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 06:51 PM
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At least for me, I always operated under the assumption of 1:1 pairing and so I figured everybody would end up with a similarly attractive individual. Not only is that not the case, it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 05:54 PM
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How is being married yet "subtly" letting them know they could offer themselves not crossing the boundary of your marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:27 AM
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I never crossed boundaries exactly but I subtle let them know they could offer themselves Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:24 AM
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Yeah, agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 10:12 PM
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check out the Deadbedrooms subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 07:50 PM
1

Are we talking "asshole" like masculine risk-taker, or "asshole" abusive guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 06:12 PM
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Seriously, who the fuck cares? You even just said you're married. So even if they think you're a creep or whatever, it doesn't fucking matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 05:35 PM
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I do it. I have awful hip flexibility and I got into it to preserve my ability to play high-level soccer. I mean, if the first thing you do when you walk in is start hitting on girls (and you're not Chad), then yeah, it's gonna be awkward. But I've never been ostracized for it. The last two girls I dated thought it was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 04:46 PM
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They like hot guys. Hot guys can choose to be nice or assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 01:22 AM
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My roommate freshman year was a huge Nickelback fan. Their discography boiled down to 1 fast song and 1 slow song. He realized his shitty ways after we graduated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 01:00 AM
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Scurvy is a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 12:23 AM
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Well the fact that he was Asian painted a much clearer picture of what the situation was like, given how I've seen some of the less-adjusted ones act in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 08:36 PM
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Condoms actually aren't that effective against herpes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:19 PM
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This is basically being racist against my own people, but fuck it YOLO. I'm of Indian decent, and this is the type of shit that gets propagated when your race's only worth to society is monetary. You know deep down that unless you're one of the few good-looking members of your race, the only desire females will have for you is your money. So you go over the top in an attempt to use that to your advantage, all the while knowing that it won't work, because it's all you have in the SMP/RMP. It's sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 06:16 PM
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put a bag on my head, still counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 06:10 PM
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Or is it that more people are arriving at the same conclusion? That mating and relationships are primarily genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:49 PM
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Using that Ashley Madison statistic is bunk though, because if a girl wants to cheat, she doesn't have to use a website to do it. Just go to a bar/club, fire up your social media app of choice to slide into your ex's DMs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:47 PM
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I get called sweet by the girls I'm dating. Not really sure what that means because I don't think I'm overly praising or supplicating them, but I can't imagine being an asshole just for the sake of being one. I guess it must be bad to be pleasant around though, because they don't stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:54 AM
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I played soccer in college and I was a student teacher for an undergraduate engineering class. What you are postulating is flat out rubbish. I had plenty of students that were outgoing and socially confident. He wouldn't even get a chance to spit game because she'd be too busy slobbering on Griezmann's dick in the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 03:16 PM
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Are you fucking serious? Go to any college party and watch the nerd and the jock say the same thing to a girl and watch the nerd get destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 02:39 PM
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It's not a reason, he should definitely put himself out there, but if you're having trouble in real life and his social acumen isn't the issue, then Tinder is going to be depressing AF. The market is even more scrutinizing on dating apps where looks are everything. Women don't prefer tall white good looking men As someone that is not tall and not white, and is friends with tall, white, good looking men, your statement is frankly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 09:07 PM
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And what happens when his Tinder account matches with all bots or something? I've seen it happen with some of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 01:02 AM
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Uh, because it is a scam. Their NDAs were leaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 06:14 AM
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That's not competiton though, that's elimination
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 04:25 AM
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Have a face/dick/weigh less than 400 lbs. is the entry point to the sexual marketplace? Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 01:03 AM
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holy shit, you are so far from right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 12:56 AM
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Yes, but from what I've seen, it can only serve as a reducer from your physical attractiveness, not add to it. So she either finds you fuckable or not, and then it's up to you to not blow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 10:58 PM
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Game just allows you to close on the opportunities you have when she finds you attractive. It prevents the door from shutting in your face, but does not open it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 10:51 PM
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This. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 09:56 PM
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Fair enough. You sound like someone I'd like to throw down an OJ and tequila with and pick his brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 08:15 PM
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So you can't be the Brad Pitt version of yourself? I mean, it seems kind of messed up to be that binary about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 07:43 PM
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Based on what you've posted, you seem like you're pretty fucking awesome, just shorter compared to your friends. What's the dealio here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 06:45 PM
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Being a foreigner is pussy hunting on easy mode. Dude, it's like 1/2 a step above prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:23 PM
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But at the same time I'm with girls 24-28, where as in my 20s, I was only with older girls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:56 AM
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At 5'6 and relatively lean You've definitely got broader shoulders than me, lookin' good /nohomo Sounds like... This is my biggest fear. I realistically understand that I will never have 4-5 girls to choose from at any given time. You hit it right on the head in that I either have awful luck, or my personality is damaged to the point where I attract these types of people. I agree with your point about my friends having more looks, but the women I've attracted haven't been mundane. The girl I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:28 PM
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Um...okay? I know that. I was asking if anyone else had noticed a pattern in those that were attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:16 PM
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I did start incorporating deadlifts into my weightlifting routine, which helped me get bigger, but I wasn't cycling tren or anything haha. What I've noticed is that in my college years, girls would only be on the pill if they were in a relationship, but it seems that more girls are on birth control now even in between relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:15 PM
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I know one of my relationships had the Mirena one, which I believe is hormonal but at a lower dosage than the pill...I think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:11 PM
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Has anyone considered how birth control affects this? I've read studies that show women on hormonal birth control tend to consider more "beta" looking faces to be attractive. It's something that piqued my curiosity because as I turned 30, I went from pretty much getting no interest to having a pretty decent sex life including relationships and ONS, but the one thing I noticed was that every girl but 1 was on birth control of some sort (IUD/pill). And before someone hollers BB, these girls never …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:03 PM
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Is this true? I figured that the 80/20 rule would still apply but you would just start discerning on more frivolous factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:27 PM
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Pretty much, which is why I made the conscious decision to not ever have a stash of my own after this experience. If I'm at a party and a friend has some, I'll probably imbibe, but having a supply of my own would just take me down a bad road.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 05:50 PM
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That's the other problem, you have to have a damn trustworthy supplier, otherwise you could be snorting powdered Tide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 05:43 PM
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I did it for the first time ever while I was out and about the day before a friend's wedding out-of-state a few months ago. The feeling you get while you're on it is phenomenal. Everyone made it sound like you'd become the Incredible Hulk with the way they described the DGAF feeling, but to me it just felt like I had my own little ego bubble and everyone's mundane bullshit just bounced right off of it. It was awesome. Completely made me forget about feeling sad about the fact my girlfriend at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 05:39 PM
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Having my last two relationships end suddenly, even after the girl has made unrequited comments on my confidence, socializing abilities, activities that drive my life without needing her around 24/7, and bedroom skills makes me think that I'll never have the physical attributes necessary to make an LTR successful. Knowing what girls truly desire physically, I can't blame them for wanting the personality traits of me but in the 6'+ frames of my better-looking friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:48 PM
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The last two girls I've dated have openly told me they talked about our sexual exploits with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:34 PM
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That or going to Vegas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 04:29 PM
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As a west Indian with Indian roots, but have dated both Indians and white girls, native Indians are the most racist mother fuckers out there. I mean, the caste system still fucking exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 10:00 PM
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I don't know what to tell you... I can only go off of what my girl friends have told me, and that it's literally that I'm too skinny and give off that "makes me feel fat" vibe. Empirically you'd pair off well with another college graduate female. And those are the girls I've been dating. Although the first 2 were massive gold diggers. This sounds like hyperbole. They say you're a function of your 5 closest friends. When I was living in Arizona, those friends were 6'4", 6'3", 6'2"x2, and 5'8". Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:05 PM
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I understand now, that clarified your point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 11:23 PM
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But how would they know what your intentions are?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:46 PM
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But if those options appear to be better, like looks on a dating app for example, then she may be willing to take that chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:38 PM
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What does that mean? It means that my 5'8", brown-skinned, bald, skinny boned, 135 lb. physique won't be enough to keep any long-term prospect from bailing when Chad comes knocking. Yes, I have two degrees in computer engineering, a solid job, the nice car, the sweet apartment, rental property, etc., but that's all provider nonsense. I was soccer vice-captain in college, shoot in the 70s for golf, my social circle is 95% 6'+ shredded white guy athletes that were my sports teammates at some point…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:36 PM
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I'm not saying she has infinite options for successful relationships. I'm saying she has infinite options to try to replace you. If I eat a half of a grapefruit, which is good but not the best grapefruit I've ever had, am I more likely to continue eating the grapefruit to completion if I have a stockpile of 3 of them or 3000? I get that it's a bullshit analogy because you would just finish the grapefruit, and then grab another one tomorrow, but it's what I'm going with haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:11 PM
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Never shitting where I eat again, after having my engagement with a co-worker go south when I was 23. I need to find other social activities, because no girl really golfs or skis, and the ones I meet through soccer are obviously in phenomenal shape, so they're taken. I was always the late bloomer compared to my friends, but at this point, while my dating life has been pretty good recently, I'm trying to make peace with the fact I probably don't have the genetic makeup to hold someone down long t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:39 PM
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This is a fair assumption. But having talked to the girls I've dated off of it, it's generally that work takes any socializing away M-F, we're mostly over the bar scene, and our friends are all married, some have kids. They seem like they live normal lives. But I'm 31 and have been dating girls from 26-32, so maybe that's an indicator that we've all been doing it wrong, if we're all single at this age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:24 PM
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That's a good question, and one that I ponder when we talk about the current struggles of dating. Every girl I've known that was single was on some sort of dating app. Even if I land a date with them through an in-person interaction, they always have an online dating horror story to share for laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:11 PM
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Well, I feel like you're a lot like me then, where our genetics place us right on the Mendoza line, so our behaviors and actions can be the make-or-break differentiator. A lot of cases on TRP, I sadly say, seem like the lost causes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 08:46 PM
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Here's the problem with you saying the internet doesn't equal the real world. It's completely changed dating dynamics, because if she's on the fence about you after the first date, she no longer has to give you the benefit of the doubt for a second date, because she has infinite options now. She's no longer restricted to whom she runs into during the course of her day. It absolutely does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 08:14 PM
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Can you learn to be that guy though? I feel like there's either something innate inside of you that makes you that guy or not. The "learning" of behaviors/traits/etc. are just what makes the rest of the relationship higher quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 07:18 PM
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The one thing that always confused me is that they say it matters whether the act comes from a position of power or a position of supplication. How the hell would anyone be able to tell in a situation such as tipping, short of tapping directly into the person's brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 06:52 PM
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Actually, I'll entertain what she's saying here. If she is willing to be as open sexually as she was with the other guys, I actually would agree wholeheartedly with protecting herself by waiting and feeling the guy's other attributes out. But she won't be. And that's where the feeling of getting secondhand goods comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:29 PM
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If you think TRP is going to help ugly 5'4" Indian nerds get anything they want I have a bridge to sell you This last part is what people jumping in don't fully understand. They think, that like PUA, it will be the key to unlocking every girl's panties. What it does is allow you to capitalize on the opportunities that would have been presented to you based on your physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 05:03 PM
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Bodybuilding's Misc pig woman POF experiment... /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:53 AM
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Because women couldn't work and had to depend on a husband to provide resources, combined with religion shaming premarital sex, this led to genetic combinations of offspring that would have never happened naturally. Marriage and religion are artificial constructs. Now that sky jesuses have been debunked, and women can either provide for themselves or have exes/the government provide for them, these barriers to natural reproduction have been lifted. Therefore, the Tinder free-for-all where the 80…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:09 AM
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Well that's kind of the problem. Every marriage on my dad's side with his brothers have been a disaster. Although my sisters are intelligent and gorgeous (no incest). Not to mention families reproduced through institutions of religion and oppression of females. I actually postulated in a paper I wrote for grad school back in 2011 that modern dating would basically correct the imbalance in nature that religion and marriage caused. And this from your article is what concerns me: BIRTH CONTROL MAKE…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 01:44 AM
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Due to religion and social constructs which are no longer relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 07:10 PM
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I went from afro to bald in the span of 7 years, and the girls in my life said I looked more bad ass as a result.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:48 AM
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Actually, it was the exact opposite for me. I thought girls wanted to be made love to and such because they said pornstar sex was degrading. Turns out the more I fuck like in a porno, the better they like it.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:47 PM
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Do women ever feel truly fulfilled? We don't know, because we're not women.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:07 PM
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My dad stuck a cut-down 3-iron in my hands at age 4 and I was hooked on the sport since. I've gotten interviews and made business contacts while on the course, and these were just city courses, nothing fancy. I was playing last summer and got randomly paired with 3 CFAs from Long Island. They were impressed enough with my game and my knowledge on various social topics, that they were discussing, to invite me to play at some high end country clubs they have access to this summer. Not only do I lo…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 03:29 PM
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Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks is proven by this study: http://pillse.bol.ucla.edu/Publications/Pillsworth&Haselton_ARSR.pdf How is anybody that's in the Beta Bucks category supposed to feel confident in any relationship knowing he's just being used, while she's still pining away for the alpha male she couldn't get to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:01 AM
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I thought it was 6', 6 figures, 6"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 05:35 PM
1

That's just arguing semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 03:45 PM
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That's exactly what I'm saying. You own that mistake by dissolving the relationship. You can't say you haven't seen one example of a girl being on her best behavior for a period of time before releasing the insanity after he commits, can you?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 02:14 AM
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Some girls don't show their bad side until you've committed. That happens. But once those red flags fly, pull the eject handle and get yourself out of there.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 01:46 AM
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Chad can give her flowers, and she'll swoon for them. It wasn't the flowers...
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:44 AM
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Honkyplasty?
/r/askTRP16/04/16 01:03 AM
2

I've read some of his other stuff where he mentions being 5'8".
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:33 AM
1

I agree. Taking the red pill was the best thing I've ever done. And I understand what you mean with self-actualization. I missed a penalty for my team once, and I thought I fucking sucked, even though I was the leading scorer on the team. You own the world. It's all there for the taking. I'd rephrase that. I'll never be able to match you. It's more like, take everything you can from this world because it doesn't care whether you succeed or fail. Might as well get all you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 10:45 PM
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Er, it doesn't quite work that way homes. Being an athlete and an honors student, I got to see how it really works. nerd says something -> "that's creepy, dj10show, come here so that he doesn't bother me anymore" I (short, good shape, good fashion sense, cute boy-ish face/but not masculine) say the same thing -> "aww that's cute/funny", maybe get a makeout and a phone number You say the same thing -> you're fucking her in the bathroom You can work to attain a level of "attractive person privileg…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 10:34 PM
1

I'm trying to get into the 1,000 lb club for 5 reps as a natty at 160 lbs Respect, my man. So doing all of the compound exercises 3x week is more beneficial than each 1x a week with isolated work as well, if I understand you guys correctly?
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:28 PM
1

My question is, how do girls discern that? Doesn't this reduce down to whether you're high value enough to pull it off. If you have so little value that your main positive is "being nice", you're fucked. Where as someone that is genuinely nice can afford to do so because he's high up on the totem pole as is.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:17 PM
1

He enjoyed what he wanted out of his life, consequences be damned.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:09 PM
3

And this makes sense as I've been doing the same routine for all this time. Also makes sense why I get ogled at the beach or floating the river, but am basically invisible elsewhere. Thanks, man. I wanted your advice specifically, because I'm your height, and so I know I can't be blaming my failure on that.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:40 PM
1

I know you have some pretty good fitness advice, so I'll ask what's the difference between StrongLifts where you do the same core exercises 3 days a week vs. isolated areas for each day? My current schedule is: Monday: tris/pecs with incline, decline, standard bench and flys Tuesday: back/biceps with rows, pullups, bicep curls, barbell deads Wednesday: yoga Thursday: Legs including squats and hex deads Friday: Speed training day in the sports science center
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:30 PM
1

Dude, look up the misc experiment they did with Chad Thundercock where the guy flat out told girls he was autistic and it didn't matter. If you have male model looks, all of your neuroses get hamstered away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 07:41 PM
1

Dude you're not playing the same game as most people. All girls are pretty much the same for you because you're an apex male in that top 20%. If you're not in that top 20%, you'll give her your attention, she'll try to send you in to orbit, and she'll still be going home with someone like you regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 07:37 PM
6

There's nobody that's that stupid, is there?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 05:45 PM
1

It isn't. But when the government can legislate cash and prizes to someone who cucks her unknowing partner, then there need to be safeguards in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 01:03 PM
2

He's going to have something in the relationship fail to a point where he questions his current belief system.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:24 PM
2

Ah, yes. The Venus Project. Sounds so good on paper, but there is no way you'd ever suppress biology enough for it to not implode.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:17 PM
3

I worked at Target in high school, and our raises were determined based on how many of those shitty credit card applications people signed up for. They say the customer is always right, which is bullshit, because people are fucking stupid. But, I made some cool friends whom I still hang out with today. If you can be a good performer, you can utilize your manager for a letter of reference when it comes time for internships in college. And if nothing else the job is concrete evidence that you actu…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 10:11 PM
3

Hell, I can barely read it.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 08:48 PM
1

I missed that part. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 07:56 PM
1

(3) The father has a right to know when he's about to spend 18 years, thousands of dollars of his own resources, and time emotionally bonding with a child that is in fact his.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 07:10 PM
2

Without their kids and half their assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 07:09 PM
1

Seriously? I meant that men would be loudly voicing their need for defense from situations like this, because it's fairly obvious the justice system is grossly tilted to one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 07:08 PM
1

Re-read the story. They were headed to Europe for their honeymoon, so he took her passport so she couldn't fly over there. He didn't leave her stranded in a foreign country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:26 PM
3

They believe they have the capability to act like that. So men would like the ability to protect themselves with DNA testing and legal protections that are equal regardless of gender. When those are blatantly denied, there will be anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 04:55 PM
3

It's not that all women are like that. It's that there literally is no recourse for this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 04:43 PM
2

Okay, and that is exactly what I'm saying. Those better genetics are going to be the only ones reproducing from here on out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 01:50 AM
1

Survival of the fittest. Please define how you believe evolution works then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 01:25 AM
1

Game is basically not going complete autist mode after you've passed her looks threshold. Most of my friends are the 6'+ Chad types, and what they describe as confidence and being an interesting conversationalist is boiled down to don't stick your foot in your mouth and/or completely out yourself as a beta. Some people want to give "Game" this magical super-power credence, because otherwise you would have to accept that your looks fall short of the entrance threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 08:52 PM
2

This was the example I was looking for in my defining "inferior" vs. "superior" genetics. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 08:45 PM
4

Holy shit, and the advice at the bottom still blamed the guy. Unfuckingreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 08:43 PM
1

It makes me a "superior" individual, which is why I have had success in pretty much every area of my life, but you are right, it does not make me good looking and my sex life is nothing compared to my friends who actually are. I believe you're assuming I'm saying "inferior" as an attack on someone's individual success. I am defining success solely in the sexual marketplace for this discussion. By my definition, yes I am genetically "inferior" because I do not draw the visceral reactions that my …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 08:38 PM
6

Now I want pancakes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 08:33 PM
1

Your intelligence will cause you as an individual to survive and in modern society even thrive, but it does not necessarily guarantee success in reproduction. Having been both an honors student and an athlete, I can say the "stupid, weak, loser" good looking man really doesn't exist. The good looking ones are athletic and popular. And studies have shown that intelligence after a certain threshold actually has a negative correlation with sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 08:22 PM
1

http://sluthate.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=41769
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:31 PM
4

Good looks give you more chances for reproduction and survival. They also open the door for you to do more with your intelligence, athleticism, benevolence, etc. So they could be good for humanity, depending on how individuals chose to harness them. I don't think it's a one or the other question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:56 PM
3

The modern sexual marketplace is nature's way of correcting the fact that women have extremely outdated selection criteria due to marriage, monogamy, patriarchy. Marriage, monogamy, and patriarchy are quickly crumbling. But going back to women's base desires of strength and dominance is happening at a time when, due to our usage of technology and automation, those traits are less necessary than ever. It's correcting to factors that are becoming irrelevant, no? Can you expand on the negative clas…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:54 PM
3

Well, in order for your genes to survive, you have to reproduce, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:45 PM
1

didn't delete, need a neutral title apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:37 PM
1

Survival of the fittest is achieved through reproduction, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:30 PM
1

Depends. Instead of lifting, using resources on improving appearances, and other items that would prove futile in his efforts to reproduce, what if those resources were directed towards something that would actually yield a positive result for him? I think that would make him less inferior than chasing an impossible goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:19 PM
1

Okay, and now Marriage 1.0 is dying off and the betas won't get their share of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:17 PM
1

How does this change anything at all when they're all still going for the top 20%?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:59 PM
1

Sluthate did a POF troll experiment where they literally photoshopped pigface features onto a fat, hairy-chested woman and the account got tons of messages.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:49 PM
3

The women still have to grant access. Betas can do whatever they want, but if their efforts are fruitless, she'll just be a cat-hoarder.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 11:42 PM
1

What do you hate about Seattle? The PNW is actually somewhere I'm thinking of moving to.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 07:37 PM
1

I did starting my sophomore year, and it made me take that next step playing sports. Not to mention I became way more attractive. If so, that's sad, I don't really want to do weightlifting. You're not going to have your life handed to you on a platter. You don't have to weightlift, but you know what you're going to be giving up in doing so.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 07:36 PM
1

This was me during my freshman year of college. I looked like I was on that Auschwitz time.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 07:18 PM
44

Nope. Then she leaves for someone of proportionally higher SMV.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:15 PM
3

When it comes to CEOs, men get enormous golden parachute deals when they get shit-canned too.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:39 PM
1

Not quite the same, but applicable none the less. You know the worst thing about niggas? Niggas always want credit for some shit they supposed to do. A nigga will brag about some shit a normal man just does. A nigga will say some shit like, "I take care of my kids." You're supposed to, you dumb motherfucker! What kind of ignorant shit is that? -Chris Rock
/r/askTRP12/04/16 01:08 AM
11

My mom told me two years ago she regretted having me being born, despite being captain of the soccer team, two full rides to top-35 universities in engineering, having a group of friends all consisting of upper-tier males. She said I was short, skinny, and ugly, and would never be a woman's first choice. I went into self-imposed monk mode, threw her out of my life, and added 12 lbs. I realized nobody would actually ever love me and my life has never been better. The sick part is, in a way, she w…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 10:13 PM
6

Think about what would happen if this was a man doing this to his 1 year-old daughter...
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 09:55 PM
2

The reason I believe this is because a lot of people somehow think we can get back to Marriage 1.0. How? Let's reverse engineer why Marriage 1.0 existed. Most people are waking up to the farce that organized religion is. Having money is irrelevant as girls are now self-sufficient and betas are hopefully starting to wise up to not being beta bucks. Single motherhood is no longer stigmatized, and hell, it's even celebrated as that youtube video posted on TRP shows. All of the paradigms that made i…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 07:12 PM
4

Define holding frame in this instance.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 03:28 PM
2

I only pay for a meal after we've been out a few times. Then if we go out afterwards, if she offers to pay for our drinks, I feel fairly sure she's not out for just money.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:46 PM
1

I never understood why, because the types of guys using this stuff aren't the type of guys they're gonna want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:40 PM
18

I think they'll accept being an AF or be alone with their cats. All I hear from the single girls I know is they're tired of assholes and want to find someone that treats them right. But yet they somehow can never find one? They're holding out for Chad but are delusional about actually being able to tie him down. As alphas get more and more, betas are getting less and less. Will they opt out completely, or take the one chance they may ever get with a washed up Sorority Slut Suzie? That's the mill…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 03:22 AM
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We're going to be going back to our primal roots where only the true genetic alpha males will get to reproduce/enjoy sex. Girls would rather be single than date/fuck someone on their level that isn't in the top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 03:02 AM
1

I didn't know this until I believe Andy Murray complained about it last week, but the women actually use a faster ball than the men.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:39 PM
1

I have no idea. The only PUA stuff I subjected myself to was Neil Strauss' "The Game", and the only real lessons I got out of it were be valuable and be confident. The rest was a joke in my opinion. Even if they knew, it wouldn't be in their best interests to tell their clientele, lest they stop paying exorbitant amounts of money for those bootcamps.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:02 AM
2

And that's why those gurus make bank, because they convince those short guys they just need PUA techniques to get the same success. Really, game just makes sure you don't fuck up with girls that have already found you attractive.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 01:08 AM
2

Bingo. Everyone rooting for the return to Marriage 1.0 is hoping for an artificial supply of abundance. We're returning to our primal roots.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 04:58 PM
3

Dude, I think we need to start accepting that "game" and confidence just helps you not shoot yourself in the foot with girls that do find you attractive. It doesn't make you more attractive. Look at that 400 response thread on TRP when a girl flat out admitted 6'3" guys get her going just based on looks.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 10:30 PM
2

I was in more pain trying to reconcile my mother's vile behavior with what the mainstream media and society was telling me about women than I was when I swallowed the red pill and I realized my conclusions that I had arrived at as a kid were right all along.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 08:22 PM
13

Is it sad that I am actually surprised the judge said no?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 07:14 PM
20

Or, I'd have no problems dating a guy around my height. My current guy is 6'4", but I'd date him even if he was 5'6"...no you wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:20 PM
2

Why wouldn't she want to turn AF into AB? You get all the tingles from being alpha and access to his resources, rather than someone you're not even turned on by.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:31 PM
1

AB would be settling down for the purpose of having kids and a family with a well-vetted partner, while AF would be keeping high value women in your life but cutting them free if they demonstrate being non-congruent to your goals, correct? BF is way better than being BF, but I'm struggling to figure out what I need to make that jump into the AX categories. I was going to do an asktrp post on it, so I think I'll write one later this afternoon.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:12 PM
1

/u/abdada and Rossi mention a intersect called Beta Fucks, where you're not friendzoned but she's also not going to try to force commitment on you like she tries to turn her alpha into the unicorn Alpha Bucks. My 18-month TRP journey finally has increased my SMV in the last 3 months to where I've been scoring, but I noticed that the dynamic has closely resembled the Beta Fucks phenomenon. Realistically, is that the best us short brahs can hope for?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 03:59 PM
1

Exactly, I have way less people in my circle that I consider friends, but the ones that are would take bullets for one another.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:00 AM
1

Where's that story about the guy who turned down his dream job at Google to stay with his girl and got dumped anyways?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 06:26 PM
5

Yeah, I was engaged to one. It took me a long time to get over her as the highs felt so high, and she was my first girlfriend and everything. I went through a 4 year dry spell after her and I began to think I should have stuck it out. Stories like yours make me thankful the relationship grenaded when it did.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 08:56 PM
6

Listen to this man. I got the same list, only she wasn't on meds. Trying to follow that made it worse and somehow made it my fault that I couldn't follow the list.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 08:49 PM
1

Aren't there studies that show girls become more tolerant to oxytocin as their partner counts increase?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 05:12 PM
6

confidence + no results = arrogance
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 03:59 PM
3

I wish my dad didn't take the shit from my mom so that when I got into a relationship, I would have understood that healthy relationships don't actually work that way and followed him down the same rabbit hole.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:49 PM
1

Me too. Do they end up snaring the alpha that they're cheating with? Or do they just end up with the most beta of beta as they slam into the wall like Fernando Alonso?
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:41 PM
4

he's 25, hispanic, 6'1, and looks like Ricky Martin Extremely good looking guys can get away with nice guy game.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 11:40 PM
1

A parasite won't stop until it exhausts all resources possible from its host.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 10:26 PM
3

Given that women would still be hypergamous, women would then choose their partners based on the top 20% of looks alone. Charisma, charm, game wouldn't make a difference if everybody had it. I actually thought about this while I was tripping last night. What Marriage 1.0 provided was a chance for males who would not optimally have a chance to reproduce to have offspring. The sexual revolution that has taken place, especially with the explosion of Tinder, etc. is basically reversing that trend an…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 02:48 AM
2

I have never been giving indicators of interest by a girl that I know of, unless she is fat or older Sounds like he has interest, but not from a group he deems desirable.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 10:06 PM
3

He means his body is in solid shape, but his facial aesthetics give off the boy-band vibe.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:56 PM
0

Philadelphia never seems to have a single decent goaltender.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 10:11 PM
1

This was me in high school. I was nerdy, not athletic, brown in an all white high school, socially anxious. Needless to say, I got thrown in my gym locker and trash cans a few times. Guidance counselors and teachers told me I had to be confident. Well, now you're acting like your shit doesn't stink, and like MacGruber says "It does stink. It stinks like shit." Arrogance is confidence plus lack of results. Now that I am athletic, socially active, and popular...all those things that people picked …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 10:51 PM
1

Yeah, you're not a ~6.5 if you're pulling like this...
/r/askTRP07/03/16 10:27 PM
1

Honestly, the only reason I think we perceive this as "evil" is because we're taught from such an early age that all the sleeping around, and branch-swinging, and shit-testing is stuff only "damaged" women do, and that you'd be able to find a "good" woman that wouldn't do this to you. As I've gone through my red pill journey over the last 18 months and seen things I never thought I would, I'm not mad at the way everything has played out. I'm pretty furious over the lies that people told me from …
/r/askTRP07/03/16 07:58 PM
1

I occasionally do this as I live downtown and all of my close friends are married/have kids. Dress impressively and don't look like a sad sack. If there's a game on or something, make a comment about it to someone. Last time I was out, a guy ended up talking about his college's football team. Turns out we went to the same college, we started talking, he invited me over to his table, 4 hot girls were there.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 11:14 PM
3

Instant kino builder because she's gonna want to hold your hand.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:27 PM
1

Thank you for this. My first girlfriend that wasn't a plate after I found TRP and I split ways when she wasn't over her ex, and I was wondering why I couldn't just be emotionless over it or if I should have been. This puts it in a healthy perspective for me.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 05:07 PM
1

Same boat as you minus my sisters.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 04:37 PM
2

I did a college graduate paper on modelling of online dating and relationship dynamics in grad school. It covered AF/BB, hypergamy, masculinity, and basically affirmed my worldview while shattering the lies that everyone I knew told me. I found TRP specifically when I developed one-itis for a girl that I had made out with and was texting every day but she told me to get bent after I asked for commitment.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 08:13 PM
1

And honestly it wasn't weightlifting that destroyed Tiger. Hank Haney covered part of this in his book, but Tiger's knee problems stemmed from a skateboarding incident as a kid and then he decided to start playing Navy SEAL and got hurt again.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:56 PM
1

Rory's not a big guy. He's 5'9", 161.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:55 PM
1

I responded with "that's unfortunate". My question was less to do with a response to her verbalizing it and more with analyzing the behaviors that led her to say it.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 02:13 PM
1

Well she would be the one to grab my hand on her initiative. And the kiss thing, I'd grab her hair or cheek and turn her head to expose whatever I was going in for. My concern was the act in and of itself. Like if she wanted to hold hands did that mean she thought I was beta?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:32 PM
6

AWALT, man. She wants her son to look/act/be alpha. And while I have many great traits with my job, athletics, circle of friends, respect, I've never been great with women. She never witnessed my growth as a person as it happened after I moved away for college and lived on the other side of the country for most of my 20s. She cited me always being picked on as a kid (for race and size) and coming to my soccer games to watch me ride pine (I wasn't good in high school) as her reasoning. And being …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:53 PM
1

I don't really know. It was when we were cuddling post-sex. I didn't take it as a compliment, especially when she said her former boyfriends were assholes. I live by the mantra of pleasant but ruthless. So if you do not break my boundaries, I have no problems. But if you do, there will be hell to pay. It's the main question I have from this whole endeavor. She was on time for everything, affectionate, caring, and met all of my needs. Even when I left her to go skiing with my bros, she texted me …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:43 PM
1

It means you're a starter and on my team the #10 was the playmaker 2nd striker
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 02:54 PM
0

(1) Yup, mis-typed (2) Girls control sex, guys control commitment right? Her behavior and affection was worthy of something more than a booty call. I was looking for more than one, and I felt she had deserved a call up to the plate. I wanted to have a fun night out on the town, so I set it up, and both her words and actions indicated she enjoyed her time as did I. I see where this would start placing indirect pressure on her though like /u/SkorchZang mentioned. (3) Lesson learned here. It was fu…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 07:40 PM
1

One of my best friends said the same thing, that I can't let my mom's craziness determine my self-worth. I have been rejected many times explicitly for my height/weight though, and it almost gives her words credence when that happens. I discarded my mom from my life, and I need to discard the opinions of these people out of my life too. But let's not fool ourselves, stature and presentation is a very important part of the game.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:05 PM
1

The weekend before, I threw her out (not literally) so I could go skiing with my bros in the morning. I see why I should have not invited her now. But at the time, she invited me out with her friends a couple of times. Given that our football Sundays were spent together anyway, I figured why not hang out with some of my friends, drink beer, eat chili. She was asking about what my friends were like, so I figured it was an okay idea. Obviously I completely mis-read the situation, but where's the b…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:46 PM
2

It's funny because once we fucked, I was expecting to fall head over heels for her given my dry spell. But I talked to a good friend of mine, and told him for as much as I was bummed about not having sex for so long, now that I finally got it, I don't feel changed as a person. It doesn't change my passions, my hobbies, my directives. But obviously having sex is better than not having it! Ignoring her Facebook posts and cute texts, she was genuinely fun to be around outside of fucking. We were bo…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:42 PM
1

I agree with what you're saying, but my reasons for remaining skeptical were more self-deprecating. She had admitted she went through a "slut phase" in college, and so I knew that there was no way she hadn't found at least one guy that was comparable to me even if I was that good. Her texts that she would send saying how she loved the day she spent with me or that she wishes I was sleeping over with her on a work night, I wouldn't respond until the next day at least, and it was more to the tone …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:36 PM
3

Maybe, maybe not. She did tell me after bowling that she had to meet her friend at some point that evening because the friend was having a rough go of things. And she texted me that night to set up the Sunday plans. I don't think her ex even lives nearby anymore. Either way, we had a good first date, she made it clear she wanted to come over Sunday, and she did. I appreciate the sentiment. As much as I regret some of the stuff I did, I am human, and all I can do is learn and apply those lessons …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:31 PM
2

Damn, I went from 125 to 137....I can't imagine weighing more than you at 5'8". It's almost sickening how much better people treat you. Having friends that are all in the 6' Chad looks range, I always sensed a difference in the way people treated me vs them. Now I have a piece of that and it's awesome. It literally has done more for me than either of my degrees, my money, or my athletic accomplishments.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:00 AM
1

I noticed this when I became a TA in grad school. The nerds were actually chill as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 05:03 AM
3

I think you guys are pretty naive as to who has Tinder. If you're a single girl, you've got it. Whether you're using it for validation, to find a hookup, or whatever, that's up for discussion. But EVERY single girl I know regardless of value has it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:05 AM
9

The chick that waxes me is what I would consider fairly RPW. She believes in gender roles, 3rd wave feminism is bullshit, etc. I gained 12 lbs. of muscle last year after I found TRP, even though I was in good shape as it was. Her response when seeing me upon transformation. "Watch how you won't have to try to be perfect around people anymore. Pay attention to all the bullshit you'll get away with now." She wasn't wrong
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 12:48 AM
5

So she'll cheat with you but not on you? Strong hamster logic here.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:29 PM
0

That's what we're thinking too. He's trolling the stupid people. It's just a lot of people in this country are pretty stupid.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:27 PM
0

Soccer BP as fuck? Incorrect. Plus when you meet a girl that also plays, you have the instant "you better be able to go for 90 minutes" line that they eat up!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:41 PM
3

Yes and no. My family grew up outside of the West but are hardcore religious, which I can't even take seriously anymore.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 06:13 PM
1

Actually works well if she is already a plate or your SMV is above hers
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 06:50 PM
13

And white girls think I look like him, which gives me an in, but I'm not sure it's the in I want. At least a B-Dubs manager comped my entire bill once because he thought I was him.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 03:22 AM
2

(1) Nope, I just crush a lot (2) Just you, you're so special. In fact, in fact let's go get married right now! (3) My goldfish just died. He was my best friend, my confidante. (really no idea what I would say here) (4) Roughly 97% of the female population of this city. (5) I wouldn't consider Taylor Swift just anyone. (6) I sure am (in effeminate voice, while doing that hand/wrist gesticulation) (7) I know, I'm gonna go hit on him after I'm done with you. (8) Same here. All the cool kids are doi…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 10:26 PM
3

There was an askTRP post about this, and I liked what another poster said about also having fulfilling hobbies. So Sorority Suzie flakes on you, oh you're going out to play Bethpage Black tomorrow afternoon anyways. Or you can then take that day trip and go hiking somewhere awesome. It can go a multitude of ways, but I believe it comes down to understanding your time is of high value even without women.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 09:36 PM
2

This is Chad Thundercock defined.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 08:57 PM
1

Well 20% of men and women would get together.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:58 PM
1

Does your profile solely consist of your shirtless, headless self?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:02 PM
1

I'm not saying I don't game. If there's someone that catches my eye, I give it the good old college try. But it doesn't take a rocket scientist, and even if it did, I was one, to see the difference in the way they react between me and other guys to know they're not interested. I finally successfully gamed a chick on vacay out in Portland and I know now the difference between raw, physical intimacy and applying TRP principles to success vs getting strung along. The numbers lean towards the latter…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 10:02 PM
1

5'8", 137 lbs., bald, Guyanese, brown eyes. I actually was always around 125 lbs., but after finding TRP last year, I really started focusing on compound lifts and just eating, eating, eating. I began seeing some results, but it turns out I built my legs up all wrong, and pulled a hamstring playing soccer and lost all my gains. If I want to get all beefed up, I would have to quit playing sports and just focus on lifting, and I'm not going to exchange that for women. My concern is that I'm maxed …
/r/askTRP22/11/15 11:26 PM
57

I see so many successful marriages with kids, how do I get one? By nexting this one
/r/askTRP20/11/15 11:16 PM
2

After finding TRP, I found that I already lived most of my life according to the TRP principles. I felt I was lacking frame (both physical and mental), confidence in exposing my sexuality, and escalation. The problem that I unraveled is that my SMV is way too low to even take advantage of the many things I do have going for me. And this is after taking steps to maximize it over the last 2 years.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 07:00 PM
8

This is where having friends that are literally closer than family can be a big help. I hit my rock bottom a few years ago, and having them be willing to go out for a meal or grab a drink was better than any shrink.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 05:03 PM
3

A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:04 PM
1

I'll bite. I've got the 6-pack abs and glutes where girls have literally grabbed them at the bar. I captain a soccer team, have multiple circles of guy friends across work, the gym, soccer, and golf. I have a good job and enjoy the benefits of that income with a nice penthouse apartment downtown and a nice car. This isn't a black box where you can put attributes and accomplishments in and get girls out. If they don't find you attractive, you are toast. And at 5'8", I get blown out repeatedly esp…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 10:04 PM
5

This is so wrong, it's not even funny. The only people that hate me for being whitewashed are cousins who think I am an Uncle Tom, but yet wifed up the hoe they got pregnant on a one-nighter.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 03:29 PM
1

It confirmed what I was already thinking but socially conditioned not to express, so pretty easy
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:46 PM
1

I was talking about this with another poster, and we concluded that people are thinking that PUA/TRP will turn you into Chad Thundercock given enough work. A black box to success if you will. Without properly realizing your limitations or your SMV ceiling, you will eventually hit a frustrating roadblock in your journey. Some people like the Indian troll posters here do not seem to get that focusing on Suzie Sorority is one of the worst things you can do because she won't find you attractive unle…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 10:38 PM
2

The student union and the rec center were pretty close to each other, so I'd just take 2 hours out of my day to lift and eat around lunch time.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:11 PM
1

Do you really think that we can convince the world to go back to embracing traditional cultural values? Even if we cycle back to that, our generation will be worm food by then. Be good or be good at it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 09:26 PM
1

Okay: (a) We're not going to become president of a global superpower (b) This height requirement thing has really exploded in the last 5-10 years, so citing examples of the past, and extremely unique ones at that does not help most people (c) Do you think short people are just saying this for the sake of feeling bad for themselves? Look at every thread where some guy chimes in with how he's 6'2" and pulls 3 girls a week and then says it's not height, but it's game. Halo effect is real.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 02:18 PM
1

Same here, man. Everyone here keeps screaming moar alpha, DYEL, game conquers all. My friends' parents are flummoxed by the fact I haven't found anyone since my ex-fiancee 6 years ago, but they don't understand how superficial dating has gotten. TRP did allow me to close on girls that found me attractive, where as before I would have waited for more obvious IOIs, but they are few and far between. I've even gotten texts as I'm trying to setup the second date saying the other guy she was dating is…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 01:35 AM
3

What you are saying is 100% fundamentally correct. But here's the thing, I always thought being short was not ideal but not necessarily insurmountable if you had a lot of other things going for you. But in reality, you don't even get a chance to demonstrate what else you have going for you, and this is for a lot of girls. It's like when you think only some girls are sluts or are monkey branchers at first, until you realize that it is their inherent nature.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:40 PM
8

It's a huge amount of women that do it though. And the smaller they are, it seems like the taller the ladder they want to climb.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 04:24 PM
1

Say you start plating/STRing a chick and she wants some sort of commitment. If you deem her worthy of the next step, wouldn't your career/income actually help you here?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 03:04 AM
1

It is important to recognize this sooner rather than later so you can either rectify it and boost you SMV accordingly or you can cut your losses. Couldn't you also use this to your advantage to keep her hooked? I'm not saying to do it by going beta bucks, but if you are of high value, would it not be to your advantage to demonstrate as such?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 10:31 PM
2

-support if you break your leg Not sure if I'd bank on that
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 04:19 PM
2

You guys can literally admit to being autistic and still pull
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:49 AM
1

Tinder sloots won't care that I'm the #10 and led the team in scoring. They'll see I'm a runt compared to my teammates. The tinder subreddit says don't use pictures that make you out to be the least attractive of the group.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:33 PM
1

And he manufactured his by paying sloots with his daddy's inheritance money.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:25 PM
0

And my other point. There are ways to be alpha fucks without being in that 6'+ perfect physical specimen. Unless these field reports are all lying. But with Tinder being so prevalent, why even give all the non-Chads the time of day? Oh, I met this guy with solid game at the mall but he was a little short? Well, she's got a roulette wheel of 6'+, aesthetic as fuck guys on Tinder ready to smash and dash.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:23 PM
2

Look at the increase in girls complaining there aren't enough guys to settle down. AKA, not enough alpha Chads worth enough of trying to date. I think even the most beta of beta guys are realizing this game has no victorious path. Look at the misc with the Blizerian/Deluca shitstorm, even they are like shit it happened to our overlord, trust nobody. And given the rah rah rah of single moms, the nanny state, girls making a decent living, they have no incentive to date BB type guys anymore. Really…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:04 PM
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He has a shit-ton of social proof through inheriting a metric fuckton of money.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 06:27 AM
3

I'll admit, I misc on occasion. And the one good thing about this is that this is a huge eye opener for a lot of them. They'd always say they'd get on that CEO 10K a day and that would save them. Well it didn't save him.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 06:24 AM
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I think this came from the disconnect between the breakup and now, but I guess DeLuca may have welcomed the slut back after Blizerian nutted in her.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 05:14 AM
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Actually it's even worse, IMO. She "took a break", banged Blizerian and then DeLuca got back together with her and found his phone number in her phone and texted it. Then the shitstorm unleashed. So that's what they mean by "we need some time apart".
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:51 AM
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I love the one post in the misc thread where someone finally says that if you didn't believe in hypergamy, sloots gonna sloot, and never get married, this should be the kill shot.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:21 AM
1

I know when I was looking at having my doctor prescribe it, she said it was possible for ED to be a side-effect of it for some people but it was reversible if you stopped taking it. Right when I was about to pull the trigger, we found a Swedish study that said that it could potentially be irreversible, and I noped the fuck out of there. http://www.cbsnews.com/news/merck-warned-europe-that-propecia-causes-sexual-problems-but-not-the-us/
/r/askTRP10/11/15 02:59 AM
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The purpose of the post wasn't to cry about height. It was to foster a discussion on how Tinder/OKC/POF has corresponded with a seemingly exponential rise in difficulty in breaking into the SMP if you have lower SMV. I used the paper to give myself some academic credence, although admittedly they are all Red Pill tenets, and cited my 6.5 years of college as to why I felt this way.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:16 AM
1

Facetious advice but also understanding that she was never yours, it was just your turn
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 01:45 AM
1

Honestly I get called cute a lot, and I grew out a dope beard, which both guys and girls can't stop picking at, but I get no matches in my home city. But I actually get a decent amount of matches when I'm on vacay. I'm an Android user, and I have heard of it being pretty buggy. Like I'll be given profiles from Philly but I'm not there at all. I deleted my profile, and the app and will revisit it soon. The one problem is that I have a lot of action photos that I'd love to use of hiking/soccer/gol…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:48 PM
2

Tinder hasn't been a great boon for me, as I think I may be facially busted, but you're right. The few times I have gotten matches, it's been hookup city the first night. I'm just saying plating, STRs, and LTRs may be impossible for me and my vertically challenged/not facially aesthetic brahs.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:39 PM
2

The argument to that will be to pull in person where you can run game and let your personality show through, provided it's on point. However, I'm thinking that because she knows she's got the whole city on her phone, because let's face it unless you're a whale, you're probably matching with every guy, she is now even more willing to dismiss you than even a few years ago when Tinder wasn't around. The dating realm has really been turned upside down in just the last 3 years even.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:31 PM
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I understand that if you were to go beta, even with your physical traits, you would get torched eventually. But given similar personalities, you would completely serve me in terms of pulling. That's not because I am an inferior person, but at 5'8"/137/brown skin/bald/brown eyes, women will view me as such initially. Now, here's where my premise enters. If I cold approach at a Trader Joe's and get a number/date, how much of an in am I really going to have, knowing she's going to go home and flick…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:22 PM
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Ok, story time. When I was in grad school in 2011, I wrote a term paper in my engineering complexity class on computer modelling/online dating/the sexual marketplace (definitely didn't refer to it as that in the paper). For half a semester I was holed up in the library reading white papers and books which spelled out the pareto principle,alpha fucks/beta bucks strategy, solipsism, and how girls would be willing to lie to maintain a level of innocence in public. It was the most politically incorr…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:55 PM
1

I dunno. Just enjoy the ride until Chad comes along?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:39 AM
1

Exactly what my doc in grad school told me. She was like, you have lovely hair but if you can't get it up, it won't matter. So from Cristiano Ronaldo to Ronaldo I went.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:26 AM
1

You suck in bed or have no game, you got needy or its just bad timing. One of these at least, maybe more. You were attractive enough physically to get her into bed once, her words mean nothing remember, look at her actions. Yeah, when I use "hook up" I mean we do everything but sex. So I'm clearly having issues navigating LMR and that's a big negative on my game. If you can't demonstrate your personality with your first two words, the way you stand and the way you look at her, then you have no g…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:57 AM
10

Tall guys would brazenly hit on my fiancee at the time because "she deserved a real man." The correct response is to give no fucks and judge her response. But even if she doesn't do anything that night, or the next night, or the night after, eventually she starts wondering why all the tall guys are going AMOG on you and thinks she can do better. I witnessed it first hand. So even if she's not accepting drinks, giving out her number, dancing with them, or just talking, it erodes her view of you. …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 12:26 AM
1

Yeah, thanks for this advice. Sounds like a great time to make gains mentally and spiritually.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:13 AM
1

You got to her house and didn't get laid? That's your lack of game. I meant more so in that I hooked up with her one night, but then when I set up plans for the second, she drops that bomb on me. But yes, I haven't been very successful in navigating LMR. Beta bux is a personality type. Anybody can make it out the bottom of the alpha ladder by reading TRP and living a TRP life, how far up you can climb depends entirely on how hard you're willing to work. From what I've seen, the alpha personality…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 12:12 AM
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How is making an observation off of many data points feeling sorry for myself? I'm not saying quit improving yourself or quit approaching, but TRP does preach understanding the realism of your situation. Being short is a tremendous disadvantage in modern dating. Preaching otherwise is like those Indian race trolls who keep expecting to become Chad Thundercock.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 11:19 PM
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After talking to a lot of my friends and various shorter guys I've run into through college and such, unless you've got facial aesthetics out the ass, you're pretty much screwed. I'm even talking about guys that were in soccer player shape, so it's not like I'm talking about nerd, WoW types. If you've got the face to make up for it, you'll pull pretty well except for some tallettes which won't date guys shorter than them. If not, well it seems like you get scraps, and they bail as soon as they s…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:39 PM
1

Taylor Swift is more red pill than most guys.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 07:23 PM
1

I actually had a longer write-up that was way too long which included a question on this. Not everyone can max themselves into being Chad Thundercock. I've had a few situations this summer where I've gone home with a girl, kept the banter going to set up rd. 2, and then get the text saying straight up "I've been going out with this other guy who I feel is more physically compatible, so I want to focus on him." I feel like game will ensure you can close with those you should, but it won't keep yo…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:41 PM
1

It's been an overwhelming distraction in that I'm not really in the moment for myself. I'm more in the moment right now processing how things are around me in that RP sense. I was at the mall today getting my watch fixed, and rather than thinking about what else I should get while I'm there, I was just thinking about all the RP concepts and who is in this mall getting fucked over and doesn't even know it, or who is Chad Thundercock amongst us. It was weird. And it's happened a few times recently…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:55 AM
1

This is you trying to avoid getting out of your comfort zone. You're making excuses in your head and then analyzing other people instead of being introspective and going "Why aren't I talking to the people I know I want to talk to? I'm being a little bitch. Right, time to approach" I had a hamstring injury that cost me all of my gains from pre-season. I knew what my SMV was before those gains and what it was after, and I know I need to get back some of those before I can start approaching again.…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:50 AM
1

His point is that without you being tall and good looking, PUA wouldn't have gotten you fuck all.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 05:40 PM
-1

This had me thinking. What if it's not 20%, but a certain blend of male attributes that just so happen to ascribe to 20% of the male populus at the moment? So girls are throwing themselves at the group of men which possess these traits which we consider the top 20%. Well if it keeps devolving, is it possible that top 20% becomes the top 12>10>8%, and the Chad Thundercocks become Chadius Maxus Thundercockus Rex. So instead of harems, they just literally get everything.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 10:30 PM
1

Dude, they're trying to secure a top 20% male now and still failing at it. It doesn't mean the 80% are any better off. They're still going to only throw themselves at Chad Thundercock regardless of what we think they are.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:55 PM
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Wouldn't matter as they'd all still be going for the same 20%.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:13 PM
3

Yes, move to Asia where the kids are sent to growth clinics now and you will be an outsider with no knowledge of the language. Are you guys seriously this fucking stupid?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:47 PM
1

I have an appointment with the sports medicine department at the college in my city here next week. I didn't pop mine like you, but damn does it suck. I keep reading how grade 2s are supposed to be a 4-6 week recovery, but looking at Desean Jackson who is just now coming back and Shady McCoy, who still really hasn't gotten over his, I guess it's a lot longer of a road. It sucks because I've been playing since I was 4 and now that I'm 29, I know I'm running into the twilight of my career. I just …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:45 PM
7

Man, this hits home. I pulled a hamstring playing soccer this summer and it still hasn't healed properly. All of my gains that I made in the run up to the season are now gone.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 07:19 PM
0

My guess would be Carrera GT
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:59 AM
1

Looking back on it, that's probably what it was. She was 4 years older than I was, although the beginning part of the relationship was pretty awesome. Once the ring came out though, so did destroying everything that made me me.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:10 AM
3

Ah, well it was part of the reason my girl friend became my girlfriend, because it demonstrated maturity and financial stability. After we got engaged, the house was no longer "suitable enough" for us to live in. AWALT.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:16 PM
2

I did, but I bought mine when I was 22. So it may have been the fact that it was such an outlying situation.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 06:32 PM
1

Here's the problem that I didn't see addressed. Yes, it overinflates the worth of that HB6-7 range. But they're all seeking Chad Thundercock as it is. If they all got in shape, it would just increase their chances of getting part of his pie. It wouldn't help those who aren't Chad get any, it would just mean Chad's options got a hell of a lot more appealing.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 09:12 PM
1

Well, too late now. Luckily everyone is either lying or says I pull off bald very well. It's an interesting juxtaposition when girls add me on Facebook, and stalk my profile pictures and find me in undergrad with a huge afro.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:45 PM
1

Well shit. I was student-teaching at my grad school a few years ago and got awesome health care and had my hair loss looked at. That sexual dysfunction lawsuit is what talked me out of Propecia because at first my doc was like the effects go away if you stop taking it, then she found a study that said it could potentially be permanent. And I used creatine that year to get ripped as fuck.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 07:23 PM
2

I keep getting ads in Portuguese from when I was in Brazil for the World Cup and had to use Google Maps, Translate, and search for everything.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 10:59 PM
1

It's basically The Running Man coming to fruition.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 10:56 PM
3

I don't think we should actually take a woman's right away to vote. They are people as much as you or I. I was just shocked to hear a girl admit that their choices are more emotionally influenced than you would be led to believe.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:21 PM
6

One girl I know, who exudes at least an understanding of Red Pill theory, says that she thinks women shouldn't be allowed to vote because they're always basing their decisions on emotions and individual appeal rather than looking objectively at what the candidate will do for the country.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:53 PM
1

I started back my freshman year of undergrad when my dorm crush told me that I made her feel fat, even though she was a runner. I vowed to never let that happen again. But as I kept working out, I got better at sports. I love soccer and love golf, and that's my drive in the gym. To keep winning trophies and stay strong and healthy. I wouldn't say I'm new to game. Started undergrad 12 years ago. Went to two universities of large size in good party areas. Making friends never a problem. Making fri…
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:44 AM
1

I guess I wouldn't be the best judge of things. I'm not deformed minus a small chin scar from soccer, and I don't appear to be asymmetric. I get called cute a lot. I've actually never been shot down based on pure height, but rather my skinniness.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:32 AM
1

I have been having fun in the process. I won 4 trophies between golf and soccer last year, and I keep them in my living room to remind me of the fact that no one person can deny the success I've been and am capable of having. This is just another puzzle for me to solve. Just like learning to bend free kicks over the wall, or making a golf ball curve both ways on demand under pressure. I just am struggling to find the right tools to do so.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:30 AM
1

Actually the dry spell chick was really cute. The fatty phase was during the Purple Pill transition period. I have been hearing from girls in my circle about how height is a killer, but I also see my teammates and such who are around my height with women too. So I know I need to up my game.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 10:44 PM
1

You summed up what I was going to say. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:38 AM
1

Jesus H Fuck, that's crazy. Glad to see your brother is crushing life!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:14 PM
9

Actually the most female attention I had was when I had a fiancee. The weird thing is that I didn't even realize they were hitting on me, but my other half would be telling me how they were checking me out or acting all girly. Some of them were ridiculously hot, but I value my word over most things. Looking back on it, she asked what cheating meant to me. I said if you cheated on me, we'd be done. She said if I cheated on her, depending on the reason (not as some sort of revenge thing), she saw …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 09:36 PM
1

How did I not figure that one out? Obvious outcome is obvious.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 09:07 PM
1

I was thinking it should free up family courts because you'd be less likely to cheat knowing you also wouldn't be able to go all Scrooge McDuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:44 PM
3

I was actually thinking about this yesterday. Would it be possible to have a clause like that inserted into a pre-nup? Although, I've heard some crazy stories about how stealthy women can be when they're cheating, so they may never get caught.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:40 PM
9

She has a neural-net processor, a learning computer
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:09 PM
60

I still am flummoxed by the fact that infidelity does not void your right to half of his shit. Oh right, but then she could claim she did it because she was being emotionally or financially abused and then she'd be the victim.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:00 PM
39

If anything, the hot girls will wonder why he nailed her and will throw themselves at him to prove their superiority.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:43 PM
6

It's been the flip for me. They don't want to "go home" with me on the first date, but they have no problems having me join them at their's for a nightcap or Netflix.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:27 PM
1

This is actually how I feel after finding this place 6 months ago. I've even put on 12 lbs. of muscle, which people have noticed. My quality of life in literally every area but women has skyrocketed. Being 5'7" and 132 lbs. isn't going to cut it.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:17 AM
3

I was looking at buying a crotch rocket when I was living in Tucson and 22. Something small like a 250cc or a 400cc seeing as I'm not a very big guy and it was going to be my first bike. My co-worker taught the motorcycle safety class on Saturdays and so I asked him for recommendations. "You make good money and those bikes are really underpowered. Start off with an 800cc or maybe even a GSX-R1100.". The damn bike had more horsepower than my car at the time (Cavalier).
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 08:02 PM
1

Well now that I decided to move back to my home city, he checks out some of my bigger soccer matches and we get to golf together on occasion. But really, my dad taught me to not just be good, but excel at what I truly loved. So even without his physical presence and without my mom's emotional presence, I pushed myself to excel in academics, soccer, and golf because I wanted to be in that upper echelon. He is red pill to the core in everything but his marriage. As much as I hate her as a mother, …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:18 PM
2

But when is there any actual time for a relationship when you're working 2.25 times the amount of a normal work week?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 10:24 PM
1

Hell, my mom disowned me partially because of resenting having to go to my soccer games. With my dad working all of the time, I would have killed to have a supportive parent always pushing me to get better in something other than academics.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:14 PM
1

My guess is that most of these situations involve AFs that don't have a bunch of money, so if the BB sues, there may not be much of anything to collect.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:58 PM
5

The relationship was already over as soon as she pulled that stunt. Anything past that is just scorched earth. She did literally the one thing that would hurt him the most sans dismemberment or death. Let's at least hope he doesn't forgive her and take her back.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:21 PM
16

What the hell did he submit to? Yeah, he cried. After having his life's work tossed in the trash. Then he immediately went to a friend's and went no contact. I'd say that he handled it better than 99.9% of the wanna-be alpha broheimians here.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:01 PM
1

I am agreeing with you here, homes. Being a good bro and being a shit husband/leader are not mutually exclusive traits. Miserable marriages suck. I'm just saying I've seen a lot of them recently. I will say though, out of my friends and extended family, it's only my sister's marriage that I even have an ounce of respect for.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:49 PM
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These are friends that have been there for me when my engagement failed and I did my best to drink myself 6 feet under. These are friends that were there to support me when my mom told me last year that she wishes I was aborted because me being picked on for being short and skinny in grade school even though I tried fighting back and always getting in trouble "wasn't what she signed up for as a mother". They are weaksauce in terms of their relationships, now that RP has helped me identify the si…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:35 PM
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I just turned 29 and most of my friends are married and beginning to/have kids. The theme I noticed the most is that as soon as the kids came, my friends turned into walking ATMs/handbags/child care providers. Not to say that having kids shouldn't increase your responsibilities, but it seemed like the majority of it fell on the husband. And then the wife gets on Facebook to whine about how the baby didn't sleep through the night and kept her from getting her beauty rest. Well your husband dealt …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:54 PM
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Agreed. But how do you even get that opportunity to try your hand at mechanics if doing it means you submarine any chance of getting into college? Basically graduating from VoPro (as it was called in our school) was a death sentence sending you to the military or McDonalds if it didn't pan out.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:34 AM
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what?...you can't even make that shit up.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:32 AM
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I never got this. Our vocational program included cool shit like car mechanics, fabrication, plumbing, etc. But they only ferried the special-ed, "ADD", or flat-out dumbasses there. I would have loved to gotten some mechanical skill earlier on so I didn't have to teach it to myself in my 20s so I don't get raped by the commercial repair industry. Not to mention, do you really want that idiot burnout fixing your car?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:47 PM
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Damn, we've been using the same bathrooms as them this whole time? Then why do I go to a separate men's bathroom in every public facility? Would save me a bunch of time when the men's rooms are all full.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:02 PM
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Man believed in love Enlightened to true nature He now frees himself
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:05 PM
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I always thought it equalled Scrooge McDuck's room full of gold
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:33 PM
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Playing with older guys has yielded many a good life lesson on finances, real estate, women, and cars. Plus they're loose with their gambling, allowing me to clean house!
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:33 PM
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I do admire her ability to gaslight to make everything not her fault. And me being incel until I met her at 22, I figured that she was right and I spiraled pretty hard for a while. I am thankful I didn't have to deal with suicidal thoughts or attempts, and false accusations to the authorities. Even back then, I knew those would end up with me in jail no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:13 PM
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"Lol. Nuts in what way?" Where shall we start? Wasn't able to answer her needy texts one night, because my phone never got them. Woke up the next morning to her in my bedroom throwing her key to my house in my face. Didn't go to her 5k at 6am on a Saturday morning because I had just worked 60+ hours that week. She held it against me for 4 months, and then exploded at me in a bar in London because it made me a shitty boyfriend. Broke up with me when I went home to NY to visit my family for 1 week…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:05 PM
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I used to think they were more virtuous and held relationships in a higher regard than your traditional white woman. Wrong, wrong, wrong.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:06 AM
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Guyanese here. My ex-fiancee was Indian, and she loved the fact that I wasn't the typical Indian guy that was unkempt, had no social ability, and yet tried to be domineering. She basically saw me as a white guy in brown skin. Yet, as I'm finding out with many Indian chicks, she was nuts. Something with the way they're parented causes a huge disconnect between what they expect and reality.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 08:25 PM
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I somehow doubt that lack of Red Pill awareness makes women unhappy. They get the best of both worlds with their alpha fucks/beta bucks and can easily pass blame elsewhere. I'd be pretty stoked to have a wife who was a good mom, a freak in the sheets (may or may not be the same girl), and no accountability for anything that was my fault. I think that's a bit of a hamster statement for those of us that aren't at that 20% SMV level to get the 80%
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:55 PM
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"How many times have you seen an ugly guy with a good looking girl?" This has to be alpha fucks/beta bucks at play. Because most of the time, you'll see these couples out in public all lovey-dovey, but then you hear through the grapevine about how she's plowing Chad McThundercock and he forgives her for being a shitty boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:49 PM
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Does that come with the obligatory finger wag in your face? You know, for posterity.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:47 PM
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