Had sex on second and third dates with a cute girl from Bumble. Not sure she ever clued into the fact that I am seeing other women and not looking for anything serious—all I told her is that I've been dating (i.e. got one plate now that's mostly FWB and still trying for others I'm into). She's a good girl (as good as a girl who puts out on a second date can be) and seems into me, but I'm not really all that physically attracted to her and she's got a few other quirks that put me off.

What's the TRP approach to ending this?


"Breakup" (over phone or in person) would be said by society to be honorable or necessary thing at this point, but I can't see what good comes from this. Also, AWALT and not sure honor is in the psyche.

Ghosting seems incredibly low value, but I've done this in the past and have never had a problem with it. That said, I've been ghosted and it can suck (from a wasted investment POV). At this point it's only been two weeks we've known each other, but she's invested enough that I feel I owe her a clean break?

Spinning her seems the viable option to me at this point, if she manages it on her own, but I'd have to somehow clue her in that I'm seeing others and not sure that's gonna go over well. To me that means letting her be the one to reach out at this point.