I’d appreciate some advice when it comes to bringing a girl back at your place. I’ve gotten some great feedback already, I am just hoping for anything else anyone can offer.

So, I am vacationing in Costa Rica right now, and have a good SMV boost being a foreigner / tall. This means that I am getting much more receptive girls that are much hotter than I could get back in the states. I am good with instant dates / number closes from approaches. I doing amazingly well on the dates, and now I have a problem when I get girls back to my place.

So far, I have gotten 7 girls back to my place of which I got laid with 2 of them. Those two were both instant dates into lays. I just had another one where it was an instant date but the girl was not open to having sex. At first, she didn’t let me do anything more than kissing her neck. When I took my pants off, she got very uncomfortable and asked me to put them back on and got ready to leave. I sat down next to her, sweet talked her, and said all I want is to just kiss your tits. She let me, and it led me to getting her fully naked and fingering her and she almost came, but when I went to take her into my room so said no and put her clothes back on. It’s an issue of comfort.

The others are varied. Last night, I got a HB8 back to my place from cold approach and we got drinks at a bar. I teased her, she shit tested me, and the date went great she even told me I thought it was gonna be uncomfortable but I’m having a great time. When I get her back to my place, we sit next to each other on the couch, I slowly escalate, grab her and put her on top of me, and then she goes for the make out. We make out, I kiss her a little too hard (area of improvement), and she didn’t let me see her tits or suck on them. She is like I just want to chill and enjoy the rooftop view. I chill, retry to escalate, but the attempts don’t work. Eventually, she picks up a phone call and walks out of my place then blocks me the next morning. I’d appreciate any suggestions you would make here, this was the hottest girl I’d been on a date with, and everything up to making out at my place went great.

The other three are varied. One was on her period but I fingered her, saw her amazing naked body, but again overescalated and she didn’t feel comfortable. She ended up blocking me after she went home. Another one I literally did everything but she is like if you put your dick in my vagina I’ll punch you and leave. She was a bit crazy... I literally fingered her, kissed her tits, both fully naked with a condom on, but having sex I guess opened up PTSD for her. Another one, I got back to my place and she was really horny but all she would let me do was suck her tits. Eventually I called a Uber home for her. She texts me later id appreciate if you stopped when I said the first no (the Latino no, not a hard NO) as a form of ASD. We didn’t end up meeting again.

As you can see, the overarching theme with the girls I didn’t get laid with was not enough comfort when back at my place. Obviously there was enough comfort to get her back to my place, but I’m having trouble escalating properly when back at mine. It’s a bit weird, because these girls should obviously know that coming back to my place should lead to sex, but so many of them don’t feel comfortable enough. It may just be the cultural difference, and that girls here act different from girls in the US. In the US, obviously getting a girl back to your place implies sex.

I’d appreciate any and all feedback you guys have on this. Thank you.