Today I read an askTRP post where a dude said after his first date with a new girl she texted him a shit test along the lines of "You're nice, attractive, and funny. You have to be broken somehow. That's how it usually works for me." I have a date this Saturday with a girl I've seen twice and am thinking of saying some like "You're nice, attractive, and funny. You have to be broken somehow." inserting my own adjectives about her of course.

Some context: I've gone on two dates recently with another 20 year old girl from my university. Over the last two years I've dated around a lot (tinder hookups) and had at most 2 plates at the same time. I'm not the biggest fan of plate juggling and I'm now looking to find a stable LTR.

The only kino I've done so far is hugging and hand holding. She invited me to go to a concert with her this Saturday and I plan on ramping it up with the goal of a kiss. I've gotten good at seeing red flags early on with my dates. I usually put up with them and their issues but it's not what I want to do anymore. I haven't seen any problems with this new girl and to be honest it's shocking. I've yet to see how the sex is but otherwise she seems like a great match.