I have anxiety problems when it comes to women, not sure if I’m overthinking anything here.

So I met a girl from tinder about two weeks ago. We went mini golfing then for drinks later. Teasing, flirting, serious debates, it was alot of fun. She even paid for my dinner and drinks because of a bet we made in mini golf lol. End of the night we make out.

Second date, we go to an expensive restaurant that she recommend. Good time and I got the bill that time. $90. After that we went to bar and had some drinks, she paid for me even though I told her not too. About $15.

She showed me a text she sent her friend because it was relevant to what we were talking about, I scrolled up to read the rest and I saw her friend send the message “yeah make him pay haha” and she snatched the phone away.

After the date we went to her car, I fingered her a bit and was trying to unzip my pants. I put a stop to it as I’m applying for a government job. An arrest for public sex would my career goals. I say let’s go back to her house but she says no so I went home.

After that we texted a bit as we normally would. One night I ask her for drinks and she said she can’t because she was with her friends but could tomorrow. Next day I texted her around 10pm for drinks and she said “now? I’m cooking dude”. I didn’t reply.

5 days went by. I didn’t message her and she didn’t message me. She sent me one message yesterday on Snapchat because my story showed I was at the restaurant we went to. She just said “glad I made you like that place”

I don’t know if I’m right to want to next her or if I’m being autistic about this. Her friend and her were maybe joking about me paying for her expensive dinner, but she paid for my dinner earlier and bought me drinks just an hour later. Is it really beta bux in that situation? She did want to fuck or at the very least give me a hand job in her car so it shows she actually did want me sexually. But then why would she go silent after she said she was busy for a date?

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