It’s not the usual she’s moved in and sleeping over every night and not paying rent type of situation, she’s over probably 3-4 nights a week and usually goes home but still it’s just annoying as hell and I won’t deal with it anymore.

A little context, me and him are boys and will be boys after this. We decided to split a place beginning of 2018 when we were both 23/24 because, at that time, we were both single and couldn’t really afford anything nice by ourselves yet. So why not bachelor pad it up for a while and save up some money for a down payment? Our current place is actually sweet too, I like living here.

The exact night when we moved in as roommates he meets this girl and they have been dating ever since. Complete shit hand for me. This girl had just broken up with an LTR and another buddies girlfriend basically inserted her into the group and was going to match her up with someone. She’s completely dull, basic, clingy, and not hot enough to support those qualities. She’s obviously after a provider and he’s giving it to her. He’s just lazy and will pick up a girlfriend off the reject pile just to have one and now this girl has to be around every weekend and every event.

So long story short, I can afford to rent a place alone now but it will add roughly 300-400 extra dollars expense each month therefore taking longer to save some good capital but I’m to the point where I don’t care I will do it. I don’t really enjoy the idea of giving him an ultimatum so I’ve basically just been planning on telling him I’m thinking about getting my own place and see if he figures it and he brings it up that she might be the problem and let the conversation come up that way. I really just want them to be done but I don’t see it happening..

So my options the way I see them

  1. Tell him get rid of your girlfriend or I am out
  2. Just move out after this lease and spend more money
  3. Break them up somehow?

Or maybe something I haven’t thought of? What is the easiest / most efficient way to get some peace in my life? There’s a reason I don’t LTR women like this. And now it’s like I have one minus the sex and it’s taking a toll me tbh.