Can't stop thinking about that girl

bukkake_news · 2015-01-02T10:13:34+00:00

You'll be alright, shit like this is a part of growing up. The good news is you were able to get a girl naked and willing to fuck you, you'll have no problem repeating the process.

She'll work her way out of your system one way or another.

redpilltree · 2015-01-02T10:07:13+00:00

The cure is obvious, go fuck a girl.

SeekingTheWay · 2015-01-02T09:40:52+00:00

you need to fill the mind with pictures of another (possibly better) sex

Polorutz · 2015-01-02T11:11:10+00:00

Sexual performance issues have 2 origins. Physiological and Psychological. Basically, you physically can't get a boner or your brain is not letting you.

If you can get a boner to masturbate, either alone or looking at porn then most likely the issue is psychological. I've had this before and the best way to tackle the situation is to focus on your own pleasure, not hers.

If all you're doing is thinking clinically about how to turn her on or how to finger her a certain way your boner will struggle. Instead as you do things to her focus on what causes YOU pleasure.

Once you can get a few sessions under your belt you can start playing with lasting longer or trying to understand more about what she wants but at the beginning it has to be all about you.

Snxwe · 2015-01-02T13:12:16+00:00

OP, you'll get over it! Trust me, it just takes time. Oh, and you'll experience this many times with different girls in your life.

fnordsnord · 2015-01-02T16:02:52+00:00

Last summer, huh? It's normal and, in fact, inevitable to have a mourning period when something, anything goes bad on you. You had something good, and now you don't and it sucks.

But it's January. Past time to start letting go.

A lot of guys have already said it: you need to be chasing other skirts.

For starters, just go find a place where you can meet other women. You don't have to actively game them at first.

Sure, if you're up to it, go for the Number close. Or just get the name. Or just LOOK at them.

But you can't move on until you MOVE. So get out and circulate.

Redapprentice · 2015-01-02T12:01:46+00:00

The Easy Way: Go and Fuck another Girl; let her make you forget your oneitis.

The Hard Way: Jog, Workout, Eat Healthily and try to impporve yourself. Keep Bussy in order to 1. Become more atractive (and get more girls) and 2. Forget your girlwithout needing a substitute.

The issue with getting another girl is that you would be getting it to "cure" your oneitis, which could result in replacing the object for oneitis but not curing it as such.

Title	Can't stop thinking about that girl
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Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	January 2, 2015 8:33 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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