been in an LTR for about 6 months. was a plate for about 7 months before that.

no complaints in the bedroom, she's always up for anything and never says no. but outside of it, i'm getting a little bored.

If we do anything fun, its because I planned it. Concerts, weekend trips, sporting events, really any activity both of us do has been my idea. She never says no, always has a ton of fun, adores me for all the "fun" things i take her to. In other words, perfect captain/first mate dynamic

but is it too much for me to want her to initiate or plan events once in a while as well, or am I just wanting to "have the cake and eat it too"

edit: i remember reading a post about how there are no "fun" girls, only "fun" ex-boyfriends who showed them everything..