So i'm seeing one atm, and wondering if anyone has a few tips.

Shes real competitive, probably due to her career, and she also has a thing about being right or wrong.

Generally I find i gotta dismiss anything like that fast and not let it get serious. not sure if this is the right approach. I feel like frame control is really important here. Anyone have any tips on plating one and the best way to deal with them?

I feel like my frame is decent, I don't bend, and I'm consistent(get called stubborn a lot). However, I find certain things problematic.

Example: refusal to debate her. She love to "debate" and watch other people "debating". Often it's just dramatic bs. She'd love to see me take part I can tell, see me get hot headed, throw a few insults at people or basically get onto her level when she wants to debate me and her.

I can tell I attracted her cause i was kinda authoritative, and unbending, but she tries to coax this out of me constantly.

I rarely do unless on bigger things and actions, and it bothers her lol. Why does she seem to want me to do this so much? She will bring up other people in our circle who are like that too at times even.

Now personally, I am a competitive guy too, but I'm not interested in being so with her, and i'm naturally super calm and collected. She is essentially trying to poke it out of me.

Why? and any tips with this kinda career woman would be appreciated, feel like its a great opportunity to practice frame