Catcalling, "unwanted" attention, dissonance

GizmodeGarage · 2017-09-06T00:42:15+00:00

If someone more experience says anything I'd listen to them over me but personally I'd just assume it's a humble brag and blow it off.

In another thread about this I saw a response I thought was funny, could be risky though haha. "Some men will hit on anything."

JezebeltheQueen5656 · 2017-09-06T21:22:05+00:00

Twerps... please read the following. The only thing you tell me when you say that women secretly want to be gang banged is...... .... If you were a woman YOU would want to be gang banged. That's it. No judgement no listing the possible reasons why you would want to be gang banged. I don't think it's because your gay, if guys were like that then gay men would never stop having sex. You have to figure out why you would want to be gang banged. Work on it.

dr_warlock · 2017-09-06T02:45:10+00:00

Bragplaining and betabait. All women do it. It's a female thing. Just ignore it.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-09-06T01:17:17+00:00

To paraphrase Henry Kissinger, about being in Doonesbury by Gary Trudeau, "The only thing worse than being in it is not being in it."

So yeah, while there may well be times were she doesn't "feel safe" - and we'll leave whether or not she's paranoid for another time - if she stopped getting cat calls, she might wonder if she needs to lose weight.

red_reality · 2017-09-06T04:42:08+00:00

Do you ever consider what sex is like for women? I mean, what it would be like to get fucked by a dick instead of fuck a pussy? It's an act of submission. This submission is inherently a position of weakness and it scares women that what they really desire is a man to pin them down and fuck their brains out.

Because of this fear, they develop a cognitive dissonance which allows them to rationalize away their true desire. This is what she is expressing to you. If women didn't do this (and some of them, although rare, don't) they'd arrange to get gangbanged by ten black dudes who would slap then silly and spit in their face.

Also, it is a way for women to convince the bluepilled men who want to believe women don't enjoy submitting to dominant men, that they are indeed as virtuous as they claim to be.

Title	Catcalling, "unwanted" attention, dissonance
Author	skibrett15
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	September 6, 2017 12:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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