So lately I've been going to meetup groups, events and just been having fun gaining some confidence. I havnt really met anyone as far as dating goes yet, but thats the thing I dont really care... This isnt a 'I give up' or 'I'm not going to try anymore' mindset, but I just don't feel the drive to chase girls around or message them on dating sites. I'm not sure if I'm done being desperate or if I'm just tired of making the effort. Any advice or insight?

Thanks