need help

I do have all the necessary tools from the looks, lift since like 7 years, am lean/muscled, educated etc. so Ive done the homework so far

Where I really struggle is charisma and be actually a interesting person to talk to. I think this decreases my SMV heavily, talking to me just seems boring imho.

Didnt want to google this, there sure would be a old thread on this topic already but Im curious of individual responses and people who gone through this themselves.

I already read a lot but this does not get me anywhere imho, maybe I need to switch reading more in my mother language because most oft he books I have are in english and as most of the girls I potentially hook up with dont speak english it would probably be a good idea to switch

Planned on implementing a habit / 20 minutes a day of watching speakers / person admire to see how they react when confronted with difficult situations, how their body language changes etc.

Thoughts?