I bet yall been there. Youre meeting somewhere, you see the girl from far away and you are coming straight up their way.

When I am in this situation I always tend to make weird gestures with my face, like a creepy smile then looking to the ground again thinking how to approach the situation.

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Now you are getting closer to her.. Do you hug women when you meet them for the first time? I tend to do, I also hug female friends of mine but sometimes there is a weird tension behind it - like when you kiss her on the right cheek and the left cheek and she want´s to go for a third kiss.

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I dunno, these small things real create tension. Overall that´s also related to the abundance mentality again, when you just don´t give a fook it might look extremely cool. Maybe I´m overthinking but these are the things I often witness, and I also witness them with girls.

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How do you handle these first 10-20 seconds? Do you have a fix line in your head?