Cheating

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-02-01T19:39:28+00:00

I think if you have committed to a woman you need to be faithful to her. Cheating is for women. Don't be a woman, be a man, part of being a man is being a man of your word. If you want to fuck another woman, break it off with your current LTR.

abdada · 2017-02-01T19:41:36+00:00

Women branch swing. It's how they live so they're never alone.

It's not cheating if it's branch swinging. The ex had plenty of evidence it was going to happen.

[deleted] · 2017-02-01T19:58:45+00:00

It is the responsibility of the parties to a relationship to make sure they remain faithful to that relationship.

It is NOT the responsibility of anyone else to make sure the woman he's sleeping with is faithful to another man; or that the man she's sleeping with is faithful to another woman.

If a girl is in a relationship with you, or married to you, it is her responsibility, hers and hers alone, to do the things she needs to do to ensure her own fidelity. It isn't anyone's else's job, it isn't even YOUR job, to make sure she doesn't fuck other guys.

Unfaithfulness in a relationship is between the parties to that relationship. it doesn't involve third parties. When a woman cheats, the cheating and the consequences for it are between her and her husband; and have nothing to do with the other man. The other man isn't responsible for anything vis a vis the cheater's relationship with her husband.

I cant see myself feeling ok with knowingly being the guy the girl cheated on her bf with.

That's your own moral code, and that's fine. You live by that code, you'll be OK and you'll sleep fine at night.

1NV0K3R · 2017-02-01T20:13:48+00:00

social outcast

Uh what?

Juan-San · 2017-02-01T20:18:41+00:00

Bros before hoes, I wouldn't fuck or date a friend's LTR. In case of ex-gf, I'll check with my friend if he's ok with it, but she's not getting beyond plate.

If a girl in a relationship cheats on her boyfriend with you it means she would've cheated with someone else, she wasn't all that attracted or invested in her relationship. It's kind of sad but it's the way it is, she didn't feel the tingles with her bf, AWALT. At least you got something out of it.

failingtheturingtest · 2017-02-01T23:02:59+00:00

It's up to you.

No really, what you are comfortable with is the only thing that matters.

I decided that I am not comfortable knowingly rooting a sheila that has a bf/fiance/husband. for me, this is a moral choice. However, there is also a strategic part to it.
It is a risk. Some bloke might lose his shit and shoot/stab me. One of my life goals is to not be murdered, so far, I've done pretty well at that.

But that's my choice. And fuck what anyone else thinks. If I chose to chase some sheila who is taken, then none of my mates would give a shit, and anyone that would hold it against me will have a hard fucking time effecting my life.

ecosci · 2017-02-02T03:15:47+00:00

She will cheat or get bored 2-5yrs in always keep options in your friends case.

Title	Cheating
Author	throwinghthisoneaway
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	February 1, 2017 7:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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