Checking out

Aymane221 · 2019-06-18T00:08:21+00:00

You my dude need to sit down and think with yourself, take it like mental exercise. Are my ears really a reason im not slaying? Is it something else? What might it be? How can i fix it? etc until you get to the core of the problem. Ears are just obvious, visible thing to blame because its there and you cant fix it yourself.

Learn to dance and 90% of women wont care about if you even have ears.

TyroneTheDriver · 2019-06-17T23:44:09+00:00

They can probably smell your desperation.

You're focusing so much on what you feel you don't have you arent proud of what you DO have. Think the MMA superstars with cauliflower ear aren't getting laid? You're throwing yourself a pity party.

Outcome indifference. Up your value in every way you can. Work out. Go to the doctor for your ears, and then realize you're still going to strike out, and probably often.

You're giving so many fucks about failing they can sense it. Yes, the world is rigged, but as TRP teaches, you can be a 9/10 chad but if you're a complete fucking weirdo with no game the uglier, more masculine, more stable frame guy is gonna fuck the women you should be fucking.

it’s all about what women do and not say.

Nothing a woman says, matters. Her actions are all you need to watch.

Sidebar.

Madhatter747 · 2019-06-17T23:42:19+00:00

I have something called Duane's syndrome where one eye is noticeably bigger than the other and it's hard to move one eye to look around. Girls ask me to take my expensive artist glasses off as shit/compliance tests and it feels awful. I used to try to squint in order to make them symmetrical, (can't do that forever). All I can do is say "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" but it's still pretty autistic. If i take them off it's like saying how high after being told to jump. If i dont take them off, im insecure or ruining the fun. Very sticky situations. An IDGAF attitude is best to keep in mind despite insecurity. Also, I have thick hair too and I'm learning how to cut it myself to save money instead of barbershops. Googling men thick hairstyles helps match it to your face. Maybe a shaved on sides with short ponytail look for convenience and you can let it flow when in the sac. That's what I'm going for and my 7/10 LTR likes it. Good luck.

Vikingcel · 2019-06-17T23:55:43+00:00

You get iois but still shoot yourself in the dick.

horologist2018 · 2019-06-18T01:25:51+00:00

What’s the point? I have big ears yes I get iois but my ears make me so insecure (cauliflower)I can’t even talk to women without thinking about it.

They can sense your insecurity. They have a sixth sense for this shit.

The world is so rigged I can’t even deal with it anymore.

Maybe it's rigged. We're not going to get into that. But assuming you're right, and that it is rigged; then play the system.

My hair is shitty and thick and grows like fuck.

Then fix it.

I don’t think I’m meant to procreate and idk what to do anymore.

Desperation.

The women I want to fuck never come through and it’s failure after failure.

Because you're in an emotional rut.

#s but they never want to hangout unless I go to dinner with them or some gay shit I don’t wana do.

Don't take them to dinner. Do what you want to do and allow them to tag along.

I’m beginning to loose it and I need your guys help.

This is help.

If anyone else has any insecurities please share.

We all have insecurities. I will not share mine. Every one who posts here has insecurities. We deal with them.

Women today are so fickle.

No argument here.

I used to have abundance but I don’t anymore.

You've lost abundance; get it back by getting over your emotional rut.

I’m needy validation seeking.

And they can sense that, 100%. Sixth Sense.

Yes i dress and groombut it’s not enough.

You're right, it's not enough.

Dudes tell me I should be slaying and I should pull I just have a good body( I think I’m handsome) been called handsome but it’s all about what women do and not say.

So you've got it nailed in the looks department. Work on your desperation mentality.

Personally the advice on this sub may as well be take steroids and get plastic surgery to get women’s attention cuz we’re all fucked anyways.

Definitely wrong. There's a lot of advice on this sub. Only a fragment of advice is to looksmax.

What do you guys think?

I think you're desperate, in an emotional rut, and letting that ruin you.

I don’t get it my dad was an all area football player and so was most of his family and my cousins are studs.

Great.

Not the best looking but genetically good athletes and so am I. However I’m not this pretty boy all these women want. I need help what should I do

Women do not want pretty boys. Look around you.

Your cauliflower ears; no woman in her right mind gives a fuck about your ears. Quite the contrary, scars, even on the ears, women see as sexy. I can't think of a joke off the top of my head, but maybe you should turn your ears into a joke you can easily say when you first meet a woman. Something about wrestling her, but she has to watch your ears because you fucked them up when you were a teenager. Something, I don't know, make it clever. If she doesn't know what causes cauliflower ears, there's a good chance to have a 10 minute conversation about wrestling, cauliflower ears, what causes it, etc.

Also the rest of the advice these other guys gave. Good shit.

Title	Checking out
Author	Aymane221
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	June 17, 2019 10:35 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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