Children and TRP

0io- · 2019-06-09T05:23:57+00:00

Your best bet is probably to move to a family-friendly country.

Second best bet is to be part of some crazy tight-knit religious community like the Amish or Chassidic / Orthodox Jews or maybe the Mormons.

If you're here in the Good Ol' USA the deck is stacked against you. I'm only half-kidding. Women expect cash and prizes if they initiate a divorce. I don't think there's any safe way to have kids in the USA, you just have to take the risk that your woman can run off with your kids and half of your stuff and half of your income.

You can read the married red pill sub, it's called "hard mode" for a reason.

Irtotallynotrobot · 2019-06-09T05:13:56+00:00

[deleted] · 2019-06-09T07:02:12+00:00

This is something for the married redpill sub

PimPedOutGeese · 2019-06-09T11:09:37+00:00

So I'm single... And have children.

How should I go about this considering how marriage is fucked?

No... Marriage in and of itself is not fucked. Same RP concepts apply... What makes marriage so difficult ia because the mystery of you and the challenge to claim rhe beast is gone. All women are naturally attracted to mystery and challenges in men. Thats gone so what now? That's why marriage and LTRs are "difficult". To succeed in those you use your RP tools and the best weapon against a women... Her imagination. Most guys don't do any of those things

What happens is like everything in life you need a solid concrete foundation. Its easier to build a foundation than it is to break it apart and try to pour new shit down. Do it right the first time. Then men wonder why their shit is failing.

Can you have children outside of marriage without the woman fucking you over?

I have 2 sons with a woman and she has never taken me for a dime of support. Its possible..... But highly unlikely. As relationships end people get bitter/hurt feelings. What bettwr way for a woman to get back at you than to take your money. I honestly think she hasn't because she has hopes one day we might get back together. It won't happen.

Can someone go over my options for this please?

There really aren't any "options" per se.... If you want your own seed walking the earth you have to be willing to take the risk associated with it. There's a post in the sidebar that explains a bit on it.

My advice. Don't do it. Not until you are in a great financial position anyways.

But if you must here are my take aways with dealing with baby mamas...

You WILL pay support. Accept it. Move on. 2 Dont argue. Hold your frame for yourself.
Decide whether or not you will be in the childs life and act accordingly.
Be prepared for legal action whether its you or her starting it (most likely her).

Good luck young padawan!

maljo24 · 2019-06-09T12:23:02+00:00

Most marriages last the duration (more than half).

You don't have to be married to have kids but it helps.

Kids are a big commitment in every way.

Find the right partner; have courage; don't be discouraged.

I have been married 21 years and am very happy.

With divorce you each get half of what you earned together; make your fortune before getting married.

Marry a women who makes as much or more than you; if you get divorced she will be paying you support.

If you get married, do it with the idea you are in it for the duration and keep your partner happy.

Title	Children and TRP
Author	cpotpie1
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	June 9, 2019 4:47 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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