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Irtotallynotrobot/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:11 PM
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Good job, a lot of posts lately aren't routed in reality. you make a good point in the footnote about "whores". I remember one girl I was with that I started losing my boner while we were about to fuck and she knew exactly what to do. That's when I learned the value of a girl who knows what she's doing. I never thought the kama sutra worth reading but you may have changed my mind.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 08:24 PM
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Can we look that up? Not questioning you but I want to have the lingo in my head for later. If you don't have the time I'll check later too.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:28 PM
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You have to state your name and consent right?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 01:57 PM
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Yeah I remember reading about that too. Most states require that at least one person states their name and consents to the recording if I remember correctly which is difficult to do in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 01:56 PM
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the struggle is that recording are not admissible in court. We're totally disarmed.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 01:14 PM
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This is a question you can answer on your own. Run an experiment. Ask yourself what traits you think would capture the behavior you want then pick them all up. Try being all those shallow things you find beneath you in the guys you think she would act different around. You're doing this to answer the question for yourself, not to make her happy.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 12:05 PM
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I don't think op really knows either.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 04:43 AM
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You are drawing conclusions where there are none to be drawn. You're working from theory to evidence not evidence to theory. If you do not have facts don't bother with wondering. You can wonder privately, but only privately; people will embarrass you for stuff like this. You don't divulge this gestational thinking to anyone until you have fact driven analysis. I can only place these thoughts at pre hypothetical.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 04:42 AM
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Agreed. It takes time to get accustomed that mindset though. It feels unnatural at first. So when you start with it, it is about sticking it to that previous chick. But when it becomes a part of who you are, after practice, it feels like what you're talking a about
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 05:05 PM
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nexting is kinda like riding a bicycle. At first it's kinda weird, you're fixated on a girl and you're nexting so you move on because you know it's what you should do. Later it feels natural, a girl treated you poorly so you reject her and put effort into someone else; you made the decision and noone is going to change your mind. Point is, mentalities take practice; it's not like just throwing on a different shirt.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 04:27 PM
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Lol. I actually feel a lot better when I remind myself of that and think so much more clearly.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 11:36 AM
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You should care. But it's only information. Feedback that you factor in. Not a fuckin crisis.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 08:32 PM
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The level of preaching in the sub had gone through the roof. It's important to remember that people only end up here because they've got a problem. People took the alpha concept way too far and now their problem is getting worse. It started happening when I first joined but it's totally out of control now. All the substance is gone and the place is a shell of what it was. It's too bad, I remember being totally lost and looking for answers when i realized what people were telling me about life di…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 05:14 PM
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I don't care. Dude just move on.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 04:01 PM
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I dunno bud. That sounded like a pretty bitter statement to me. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 03:53 PM
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I don't think this is novel. It's real simple, read the sidebar then go outside and apply. If you have nothing of value, then build it. Asking vcr questions on reddit will drive you insane.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 12:00 PM
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i had this one girl that had a really well crafted personality. She was fairly attractive and honestly a joy to be around. At the end of the day, she was just like any other girl deep down but, her humor and quirkiness added to the package experience with her. It's all really just curated, but it doesn't mean it's not fun; I could tell she put a lot of thought and effort into the depths in addition to surface level stuff. I think this is the way things are supposed to work. Women are an experien…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 05:27 PM
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I think frame plays in a lot more with low income guys than is typically considered. Bands have complete control over an audience if their good and that conveys power with a couple grand worth of instruments and electronics.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/21 06:27 PM
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You're missing the point with this post. You are interpreting OP's post yesterday about neediness as the women pleasing strategy for approaching women, when it was referring to the internal craving for acceptance. While I like your parts of your mindset and disagree on some details, the response to yesterday's post should be different. Honestly, people need to stop praising you and start thinking for themselves. Needy people have an elevated sense of self importance. This isn't intuitive because…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 06:57 PM
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Neediness comes from a place of ego and self importance. In order to eliminate neediness you need to detach yourself from your sense of high stakes desires. You must focus on your input, you'll only go insane by focusing on what other people are giving you. The world doesn't care if you get what you want at the end of the day so you shouldn't either. That's what "fuck it" means.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 05:45 PM
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It's real simple. Go to work. Study. Get certifications. Get better jobs. Save your money. Buy stuff that makes you more money. It's hard, but simple.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 05:35 PM
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People can turn their shit around on an individual basis at any time. What is this? It doesn't matter what time you go to the gym. You're not gonna tell me what time I have to go in order to be red pilled. Why do people look at insignificant stuff and read all kinds of garbage out of it. Stop overthinking this shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 05:32 PM
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OF files under the "who gives a shit" column. Women behave contextually, if all these women were in a church group they would start talking about how much they value wholesome behavior. Women are only responsible for their behavior (abiding your guidelines) to you once they commit to you, their principles fluctuate with the context which is why they are literally incapable of taking responsibility for their behavior and why they look at you like you're stupid when you try leverage that; they und…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 09:19 PM
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There was a time that therapy would've been great advice and it should be. It isn't now though.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 06:59 PM
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What you're experiencing is called toxic guilt, internalizing external factors and the belief that these past failures make future failures inevitable. It's not easy and I'm not going to tell you it is. The fact is, the only way you're going to make the situation better is by building value. Do that however you can. Get good grades, lift big weights. Everything else will follow. The only trap I'll warn you of is living in fear of rejection as a result of not being perfect ie don't do it to pleas…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 06:53 PM
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The hell is this? The reason you got those responses is the context they were in. In thot communities, if you are not using men you are being used so to admit they had meaningful experiences with men would be an idiotic demonstration of devaluing themselves. Nothing in life is black and white. People feel a hundred different ways about you at the same time. Make it simple: focus in your goals, get out of your ego, and roll of the dice.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 12:28 AM
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The mistake you made is not prioritizing yourself. Your dick doesn't matter, your height doesn't matter. It's about what a woman is giving you and in this case it was leftover garbage which you gladly lapped up. Never be that guy willing to accept trash or people will think you're trash. That applies to everything in life. Sometimes, yes, you have to eat some shit to accomplish your goals; but women are an end unto themselves not a means to an end.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 09:52 PM
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Your assertion is correct but not the justification. Independence is what men lack. They do not lack it because they are told to refrain from male bonding. It is dependance that causes men to pine after some ig thot and donate to the whore jar on onlyfans. They do not believe in their own power to gain access to sex and companionship, they believe you subjugate yourself to get it. Why specifically they do lack it is up for debate. I'd say it is, generally, societal attacks on the natural formati…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 09:46 PM
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Yes, youre on the right track with the more harm than good part. At some point later, you'll just think to yourself "fuck it" and stop speaking what you're thinking and act more deliberately; only when you need to or when you think there is merit to speaking. Successful people are captives of the world because they are actually great. People depend on them and their behavior matters to a lot of people, it has stakes. Your life doesn't, you can do what you want and maybe a handful of people will …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 02:47 PM
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I would classify the issue you're talking about validation seeking behavior. You're asking about how to challenge infantile opinions of others when you have an intermediate grasp of the subject but I think you should be asking yourself why you give a shit about who is able to catch a movie with you. It is crucial that you're concerned with your experience not the experience of others. For instance, your father asked you not to pause the movie so that he could avoid the guilt of making you wait a…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 12:59 PM
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What happened to cause you to ask this?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 12:17 PM
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It happened to me when I first join. Unfortunately, noone her is going to give you the same lesson to be more self reliant
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 12:01 PM
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Dude, you gotta figure that out for yourself. There's a time when you would've been told to fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 11:56 AM
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I would go as far as to say that the goal is to vilify anything that is wholesome. "Cisgender scum" "fucking normies". At first it was about acceptance, then it was about rejecting normal behavior. I use those terms to demonstrate the low character form of people running around at our upper levels. Feminism is a tool. People who are legitimately passionate about it are idiots who don't see the real goals. They're sold a narrative about being freed from oppression as they are used to bring about …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 11:25 AM
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Wtf? Get your eyes checked.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 09:54 PM
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No. It is the machinations of evil men that have brought this about. The destruction of 20th century morals was not an accident. Yes, there are bottom feeders that fuel it; but these men were created by these systems and provided with the engines they now fuel. Divorce court took away the stability in their homes, sexual identity demonized heterosexuality, affirmative action and government aid programs diverted resources away from those who deserve it. It is insane how infected our lives are wit…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 09:30 PM
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This place is a shadow of what it used to be. Trust nothing in the comments, only the archived posts and readings. You might reject it at first, you mention women hating, but it's almost all accurate. What initially might seem toxic only looks that way because society has a way of turning things upside down.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 03:00 AM
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Oneitis. Cut and run.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 10:19 PM
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Dont do this. Literally stop caring about who she is and you'll be just fine. It doesn't matter, all that matters is that you are a person who is engaged in what you are doing. If you're not engaged in the conversation, then why did you come talk to her to begin with? She does not crave to be understood, she craves to be told what to do. It goes without saying that a woman can't be lead by someone who is not capable of listening to other people, gauging them, and making appropriate choices about…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 07:03 AM
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Contraceptive development has had an effect, yes, but what other possible explanations are worth looking in to as well that could also explain the phrnomena? For example: business/government intervention, technological developments, displacement from current day to the most recent mass scale armed conflict.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 02:48 PM
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fair enough, I remember when I was still trying to figure it out too
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 08:32 PM
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It's a lot simpler than that. You only give a fuck about things you shouldn't because your ego is investing in it. When you shut down your ego and act genuinely without a weird misapplied investment; your life feels and gets better. DGAF is a healthy ego, that's all.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 07:20 PM
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This op confuses me, didn't he just subvert his own point or is this some kind of sarcasm?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 07:46 PM
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The opposite of love is not hate it's complacency
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 09:15 PM
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Rural life is something I've been gaining serious respect for. Thats where you build true stability: community, livestock, land, local power generation, storage of perpetual needs. I'm the city, you have nothing but your money. Manliness is independence and you are always dependent on a coat currency if you do not transform it into items with intrinsic value that can sustain you and your family.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 08:17 PM
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Its no different from masochism which has been around for ages. The downtrodden are willing to take any form of attention, even ridicule, as acknowledgement of who they are and their predicament. Belle delphine offers twisted sympathy to the most defeated among us. It's about as sad as it gets.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 06:21 PM
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The key is to stop bothering to try and figure out people's bullshit behavior. Let them spin themselves out. Everyone in your life should understand that you run your behavior and if they get on board with that, there's no problem. If not, well, see ya; you're gonna do your thing. No malice or anger behind it, you place yourself at the helm of your life and that's just how it is. The value a woman adds to your life in comparison to that is marginal. Women know that any man who believes otherwise…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 03:11 PM
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I hear that a lot but it's important to remember, hard times can also break you, in ways you'll never be the same. This whole movement is about attacking the fabric of society. The goal is to downplay the power of masculinity in the hopes of diminishing it as a threat to government dependence ie gender is a social construct. Shit is going haywire because someone has a terrible agenda. The family unit has been under attack for decades and thought Is their weapon of choice. It's shocking what will…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 07:15 AM
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Tough luck kiddo. Hit the sidebar. You have a long road ahead of you but you'll be far better off for it. Yeah, you got taken to school by some chick and you're looking for answers. That's good. The simple answer is you can't trust anyone and drawn out relationships are a bad joke with no punchline. The long answer is about who you are and how you view yourself. So what's your move? Are you gonna mope around and whinge on the internet? Or will you hit the gym, read the material, and find new wom…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 07:05 AM
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I used to listen to that guy, there's a lot of indications he's a grifter. I'd be careful about what he tells you.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 03:28 PM
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That line about her being a prostitute really tells you all you need to know about the situation.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 03:27 PM
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I think you have the right idea. I went into boxing at the sidebar suggestion and I've gotten pretty good at it. Relying on that in a situation like this leaves me open to my weaknesses at the ground. Boxing is a sport and it doesn't train you to fight, it trains you to win the game.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 03:25 PM
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So true. There's a pervasive misconception about the value of connection, I bought it too when I was young. It's literally linking your emotions to another's actions which is the exact opposite of stability. "Does this make sense to me?" Is the most important phrase I can think of. If I'd asked myself that sooner to would've been better off and never been the guy you're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 02:19 PM
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This is a question of principle. You have to set moral boundaries you believe in and hold them. It's a good question to ask but really the only answer for that one comes from you.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/20 03:41 PM
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Right. I think there's evidence to look in to the idea but the proof has yet to be found. It could be true.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 04:16 PM
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Correlation causation issue here
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 09:02 AM
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Why is she in jail though? Isn't that more of a cause for termination than a crime? Great example for why women are not fit for enforcement roles on average.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 02:50 PM
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Deception is a cornerstone of human interaction. A lot of conversation is participating in mutual delusions, people want you to tell them the same lie they tell themselves. This is why most people are not cut out for leadership. Leadership involves controlling those delusions to fit what's best for a group as a whole. In order to do that, you have to be immune to the lies while also capable of manipulating them. For instance, a leader doesn't drop red pill truths on a child; they tell the child …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 02:47 PM
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Yeah man, not give a fuck doesn't mean no effort necessarily
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 12:43 AM
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Female orbiters are the ultimate social proof, especially if they're hot. You've gotta watch though, it creates an automatic dread that can be difficult to throttle.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 12:08 AM
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You're right on track. Here's what you're trying to grasp, effort = emotional investment. Effort is literally internal emotional cost inside of you when engaging in an external activity. You want things to appear effortless. This gives people the impression that you are powerful. Strive to conceal your effort in everything that you do, if a 425 deadlift appears effortless it elevated and obfuscates your true worth. If a woman can't measure your value by how much effort you're putting in, shell a…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 08:59 PM
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Dude just go away. The one projecting here is you.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:15 PM
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Mental gymnastics is couching your idiotic slander as any coherent opinion whatsoever and expecting not to be disagreed with. You've totally lost your marbles.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:09 PM
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And you're walking around like your opinion is the only sensible opinion with your solipsistic world view. No one asked, no one cares.kindly fuck off.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:03 PM
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Listen you're the one that injected yourself into this situation, like a 14 year old
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:00 PM
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You can't punctuate a period and say period too. That's just redundant.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:59 PM
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Nuh uh. You're a retard.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:58 PM
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Can you stop jerking off while you troll Reddit. You'll never be a grandpa that way.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:56 PM
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Okay.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:03 PM
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Then do what the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:37 PM
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That comes from a friend who tried to make a dating app that failed. When they start out they go around and "buy" profiles to make it look like their app is populated. They never want you to stop swiping so they make up accounts and keep them open after people delete them, it's part of the illusion. I don't fuck with ltr's so I don't worry about their behavior on dating apps. You've gotta stop assuming shit
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:41 AM
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Wait til you're in your forties, when you are well established. Find a place where you can grow a family the way you want to. Find a girl. Be a father. Do some research and you'll find the answer for yourself.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:30 AM
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What girlfriend?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:05 AM
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Keep in mind that those dating apps still use people's pictures after they delete their accounts. I wouldn't get involved in he said, she said kind of shit.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:45 AM
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No, I'd view it as a hobby and personal journey. It's a hierarchy that you'll need to climb though.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:59 PM
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Give it time. You're taking the right measures but lifting her spell won't happen immediately. It may take a year, even two. Cut any avenue to her out. Avoid her at all costs. Eventually you'll see her for what she was, an ordinary girl not worth thinking about.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:22 PM
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Best way to handle it. I remember when an ex gf of mine did that. I really appreciated it. If you cant handle it, just don't go
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:08 PM
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No. Stop hanging out with him, make plans with your friend gorup and cut him out. That was as disrespectful as it gets.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:06 PM
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Realize that an attractive woman cannot do anything that an average girl can't. She walks, talks, fucks just like the rest. "Smv" is an ambiguous rank that other people give her, it's meaningless.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:39 PM
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This is actually one I still struggle with. Sometimes it feels so easy to do and other times is feel like I have no idea how to go about it
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:59 AM
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She'll fear more losing what she already has than gaining anything she perceives as better. Dread. For your peace of mind, turn up things with the other women but don't make a show of it. That's for your headspace.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:47 PM
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I never said any of that. You're strawmanning and changing the scope. Take it it to someone else.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:03 AM
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Women are whimsical. It's not always personal. They're just "doing you, girl". There used to be consequences for unregulated female behavior. Those are gone now, instead they regulate male behavior to absurdity. So women can cheat with relatively no consequence, sometimes even benefits. Making yourself a better man won't protect you from female behavior, you have to accept that you'll never be invulnerable. Women cheat on an alpha in the moment simply because they felt like it.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 09:32 PM
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No. If you attempt to help someone with their bluepill tendencies you are getting involved in their lives which puts you in a tenuous positions. Revealing conceptual information about how you operate makes you vulnerable, it clarifies your activity and makes you predictable. That's why they inevitably tell other people about how you're some crazy redpill guy who hates women; to gain advantage over you in social hierarchy. Rule number 1. There is a reason why you don't break it. Stop meddling in …
/r/askTRP30/11/19 03:24 PM
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Rules are objective and each situation varies. think about the main takeaway: if she's not putting out your interest should be gradually or sharply declining per your judgement. Ask yourself if she's treating you well, if there are extenuating circumstances, who's contacting who, etc. You may or may not have other women, but there are definitely better options for spending time than on a lackluster woman
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:17 PM
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The latter. You fucked up so suck it up. Do whatever you have to do in order to be in a state where you can manage her. Be diplomatic and cunning when dealing with her, strong and amicable. Anything to avoid bullshit. Yes we talk about ghosting a lot but I don't think any of us feel our progeny should be abandoned.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:28 PM
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Right. Strong kids come from strong fathers. One good way to fuck it up is to make your life about the kid, your kids life has to be about you until they're ready to become an adult.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:18 PM
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Here's the truth. Are your basic needs met? Yes. Do you have more resources than you need? Yes. Then you have abundance. It's simple, don't make it complicated. Your question is really: how do I realize that I already have abundance?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:15 PM
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The best thing you can do for your kid is to get your shit air tight. You take care of the kids needs but your top priority is making sure that you elevate yourself as high as possible so that your kid can benefit from your station.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:11 PM
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So there's this one girl....
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:04 PM
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Go ahead and do it. You'll be able to answer your own questions soon.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:03 PM
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Illegal
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:14 PM
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A lot of people at this period in man's life feel that way because you're at the bottom of the barrel. Older men have had the chance to build knowledge and resource. Accept where you are so you can move forward. It's not your fault unless you stay this way forever, abandon the guilt. Focus on building yourself some things you can use. You're not worthless just because you don't have everything figured out right now. You're worthless because almost every man your age is at this point.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:19 PM
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There's nothing wrong with you, shit's all fucked up and nothing makes sense anymore but we're stuck with it anyways. You're going to grow so much over the next decade so don't be nervous about seeing results RIGHT NOW. Just relax. If you continue in your course, a year from now you'll be wondering why you asked this.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 10:30 PM
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Haha I said I only had 75 so it's not gonna work out
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 12:19 PM
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Small calibration here. Get out of your head by getting into others, monitor what's going on in your environment. You'll notice how self conscious and nervous other people are and how tumultuous their minds are.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:59 AM
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I once had a girl in bumble tell me the she had a $100 meet up fee
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 05:51 AM
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Not great. You'll find that's the case with many people here
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:47 PM
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Both, they'll shit test you with whichever one you aren't. "He's so big" "he has such nice abs" Do both in your lifetime, iitll be fun to switch around your regimens
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:37 AM
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Generally, stick to action not words. Boundaries are conditions. If someone does X, you do Y. Y is always an action and it pertains to something completely in your control. If she goes out on girls night out, you cancel dinner tomorrow night and do something you want instead. No explanation, just action. Let the infringing party think about what they did wrong. Don't bitch about her crossing the boundary, simply take action.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:36 PM
4

You do that to exercise control over who you're letting in to your life. It's important to get into that routine so that, when some girl is playing you later on in the moment, you don't get caught up in a woman's web and instead move on to a woman who treats you better. Standards for how people treat you.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:42 AM
2

Chicks dig Asian dude. Also, muscles are super wiry and burn fat easier. I've known some Asian dudes that crush it
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:30 AM
1

The habit of now. Scheduling yourself is key.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:32 PM
2

Strip away all the nonsense and look at society logically and you'll find a lot to appreciate. There's an increasing serenity as understanding improves.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:23 PM
2

I think you're fine. This is the right time to divert your attention and let her sort herself out. You're interested in girls that put out, if she's not on board with that it's fine; you look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:46 PM
6

Yo take my advice. No gf's in college. Youre better off learning to play the the field or focusing on your growth (academic, social, extra curricular, career). do anything but put friends and gf first.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:22 PM
7

Yes, why is that so fucking hard to concede?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 11:57 PM
2

I haven't had much luck with Meetup, either weird people or businessmen trying to hustle.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:36 PM
3

Yeah that works, anything is better than getting aggressive. Most guys are going to a shitty job hitting on your girl. When they're in the middle of that you can always change the venue or grab her ass, signaling that you don't view them as an authority works great.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:18 PM
6

It's not complicated. Just let them fuck up.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:59 PM
8

Useless statement
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:49 PM
24

These people cannot locate how they formed those opinions, that's why when you challenge them it causes irreconcilable cognitive dissonance. They can't face the idea that their general opinions are not supported by sound judgement, they'd rather live in a fantasy. Treat anyone who behaves this way like a child, even men do this now too.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 02:58 PM
22

You don't compete with people lower on the social ladder than you, you trip them up. Don't react immediately, wait to facilitate an opportunity for them to screw up
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:44 PM
15

The best skill a man can learn is to be comfortable keeping his fucking mouth shut. Surprisingly hard to learn and a great way to develop patience. Be the one who can withstand silence.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 02:16 AM
1

Yeah man, exactly what I ran to with a work "relationship". She turned out to be the nasty type that dates guys at work to make way for her own rise. Pretty sure she fucked half the field crew. To be honest with op, I say run with it. It's going to be a hard lesson but there's really no replacement for going through it yourself. I get the sense that you want people to convince you out of this but if it gets to that point, don't take our word for it; try it out for yourself. My suggestion is to m…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:12 AM
4

This is good stuff. One caveat I want to point out. A big part of conversations is making the shift from entertaining others to expecting others to entertain you. Flip the script to where you're in the position of power. This mentality makes it easier to locate the leading questions that allow people to entertain you. If someone isn't talking they're also being boring, so act bored. Make it clear that they're not holding up their end of the burden of conversation. Most of all, learn to be more c…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 05:02 PM
1

Literally just be drunk, start dancing with them in a crowd, and make out. It's easy if theyre "not counting" it.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 03:02 PM
1

Yep. I remember prioritizing my friends over ambitions in college. That was a mistake. They're all gone now and I'm doing well but not as well as I could be. Acquaintences that value you as much as if not more than you value them are where it's at. You want lots of those. They are the nodes that expand your network and readily assist. I think the truth is that friendships involve dependency which is unhealthier than an acquaintence. I haven't built real good friends since taking the pill so some…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:46 PM
8

All bullshit aside, it's clear as day that being treated like that by your LTR doesn't feel good. That's enough to justify tossing her. Prioritize your standards for how you're being treated above all else, it's not okay for her to dictate how you behave for any reason. It would feel much better to be welcomed in public. PDA is gross when you're full on making out in public, not discreet ass grabs. I'd start by giving your public attention to other women in front of her (ass grabs and all) and w…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:50 PM
1

Up to you but I feel like a douche when Ive tried that. If you're at the right gym, everyone's trying to get their shit done, they don't need the distraction. I like to socialize if there's a group conversation that pops up to be friendly though. It's kind of like farting in church
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:40 AM
3

Loser a boner for sex happens to everyone. The other stuff doesn't so much. This could be a sign of an underlying health issue. Definitely talk to your doctor and if he brushes it off get a second opinion.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:04 PM
4

Do not commit yourself to a social circle. Stay on campus. Get connected but don't be loyal to any one group. Priorities go: studies, networking, extracurricular, job prospects. the priorities change as you go but it starts there. Above all, do not let anyone control you, figure out what you want at the end of four years and commit to the degree that gets it
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:14 PM
56

It would be the equivalent of telling a guy that he doesn't make any sense. Logic justifies action for men, feelings justify action for women. You're criticizing the fundamental driver behind their activity. Men still act on emotion but we know that's not the right thing to do, so telling a guy to calm down doesn't question his entire being. Obviously, there are exceptions.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:01 PM
1

If you're being direct with everyone at the bar then being direct with one particular girl isn't out of place. When you walk in, just start talking to people and approaches won't seem so out of place
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:37 PM
1

Saving your money is important, but don't forget to use it too. There's a reason they say "spend wisely" not "save wisely". Once you hit your established goals for saving (retirement contributions, .5-3 years expenses, debt paid off), it's important to think about how you use it. Anything that improves your chances at making more is a good bet (education, certifications, business). Set aside money periodically to go on a trip or make a long term goal on a purchase. Always pay for a car in full, …
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:29 PM
2

Plan a trip alone for yourself, that helped me a lot in a similar situation
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:04 PM
26

He's extremely fortunate that he did not get arrested on the scene. If he did, that would have caused a cascade of loopholes.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 09:57 AM
1

I remember a Muslim coworker, great guy, once told me that they feel that the west has lost control of their women. At the time I rejected the idea but he was absolutely right. Obviously there taken it to an extreme.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 01:02 PM
7

The problem is in the way marriage is viewed. Marriage used to be the passage of a woman from possession by her father to her husband. Being the patriarch of a household married to a woman who is under your protection is pretty fuckin alpha. Having a family that is totally yours is far from beta. Unfortunately, that's considered unethical in Western society.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 06:52 PM
1

If I start feeling that I pull away.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:17 PM
33

The exact same thing is happening to my niece. To be honest with you, I just gave up. Any attempt to tell her to modify her behavior only makes her feel more validated and more powerful. I think we'd both agree that the problem is that women no longer grow up living in their father's frame but accept the backwards community mediums as their frame, where they are gods in their own head. Just straight up start ignoring her. It's very difficult to interact with women in the family that don't view y…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:16 AM
1

Yeah exactly. It's just BP fantasies. Don't get me wrong, I have my own stupid vices so I get it. I also think that writing off fantasy as a whole is cuts you off from many great writers, so it's not worth writing off the genre as a whole
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:17 PM
29

Trp fantasy books kinda piss me off so I stick to biographies as best I can. Learning about someone's life is always enriching
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:27 AM
2

I only have time to spar one day a week so that's what I do. It depends on priority. You should have a top 3 current priority activities in your head, those are the things you do everyday. If lifting is lower than that, cut your lifting duration down and go for efficiency. Lifting is never something you don't do, imo
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:25 AM
2

Stay out of it. If you still the beans and she doesn't end up branch swinging,she's going to destroy your relationship with your friend.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 10:23 AM
14

Schrodinger's boyfriend
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:01 PM
1

You know, it was crazy, I played cod zombies with some relatives a few days ago and I couldn't believe how miserable I was after. I felt terrible. It's been a couple years since I've touched gaming but it's actually a very unpleasant experience once you break the spell. So weird to think I used to spend hours on it when 30 minutes is enough to deter me now.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:33 PM
10

Dude it's fine, just keep at very low priority plate level.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:40 PM
2

Toss your Xbox in the trash. I did that last year and it was the best decision I ever made.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:33 PM
6

That's going to be a rough couple of years... I'd hate giving a girl that kind of leverage over me.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:00 PM
21

If the issue is your green card,make a deal with her to stick it out until you have citizenship, that's your number one priority if citizenship is your goal. I would recommend not cohabitating anymore. Leave her be and let her initiate interactions with you, the last thing you want is to get served. It sounds like she's in a place where this could be amicably resolved. While you guys are away from eachother, go monk mode for a bit and get your life up a step. When you start with other women, do …
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:42 PM
2

I think you're connecting separate issues here. You've got a oneitis thing and an inability to pair bond, to put it simply. You say you feel at a loss, that's because this problem of yours seems bigger than it is. Faulty conclusions: I can't feel emotion while having sex with women because of #10. The correct conclusion: I'm not feeling emotions with women because of the growth I've experience, it's strange to me now but I will continue to progress through this stage; this is not my oneitis' fau…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:24 PM
148

Thank fuck. This is everyday on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 03:11 AM
2

So you're telling me one hand that you've thought about traditional monogamy a lot and it is your dream but on the other saying that it doesn't feel like it should be your dream? It's a bit conflicting. You sound young. What you are going to want for your life is going to change a lot. The problem is that you haven't experienced things yet. I remember feeling a very similar way until I got a taste of the life I wanted. My ambitions changed very quickly. It's a bit of a catch 22. You can't answer…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:42 AM
5

Because your question is obnoxious. You state your position and provide zero proof. "Asktrp, I think X. Prove me wrong". The burden of proof is not on people browsing asktrp. Then you're like "holy shit, somebody thinks my thoughts are bullshit. Must be a loser". Maybe it's you,maybe you're saying something stupid. If you're afraid to hear that then what are you doing here? Real tough to tell me off with the first comment in the back pocket of every redditor alive,you're here the same as me. Don…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:37 AM
7

Take the matress into the living room and see what she thinks of the box spring.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:32 AM
0

Why don't you ask questions that matter?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:28 AM
6

That's not your dream. that's the dream someone else told you to achieve, then stacked the deck against you. Family is duty, your dreams are your aspirations. Ask yourself specific questions about what you want in your life in each decade. Whatever you want.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:24 AM
5

She's seeing high interest indicators and low abundance signs. You can't be the one to initiate the next conversation, even if it never happens. She also sounds like she's got a lot going on in her life and did not spend nearly as much time thinking about the interaction as you did. Fortunately you're at school so organic meetings between you two are likely, get busy with your stuff and some other girls; put this one on the back burner.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:10 AM
1

Text only logistics at first until your life is busy enough that you just don't have time to pick up the phone and bullshit with a bunch of girls. The problem solves itself once you're in a better spot but you have to fake it for a bit with a mental approach.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:44 PM
2

"i have too many girls to pick from"
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:40 PM
2

No.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:39 PM
2

Just block her dude. Don't let a bitch waste your time. If you're having trouble stopping yourself from reaching out to her, put more obstacles in your own way.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:39 PM
2

Conceptually it's not alpha to be concerned about the internal emotional outfall for getting judged by others. However, it is alpha to have a logical strategy for yielding a desired outcome. For alcohol, order club soda with a lime and everyone will assume you're into vodka tonic. You can always order a vodka tonic too which makes it easier to throttle when you're around alcoholics. If someone calls you out about it just say you're avoiding a hangover. For abstinence, do everything the same but …
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:32 PM
1

Gonna need some more detail and context here.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:16 PM
4

What does your long term schedule look like? Do you have a calendar that you've marked up with fun and goal activities mapped out? If not,try planning something you're excited about.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:15 PM
1

Conventional trp responses aside, she's saying I want to you to be committed to the relationship and i don't want you to be committed to the relationship if you don't want to (walk/don't walk). I would file this in the land fill labeled "bullshit that women do not worth analyzing".Basically there's a lot of possibilities about what that statement means to her and none of the outcomes are good, so it's a game you walk away from. I'd just straight up ignore this. If you're long distance, there are…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:12 PM
6

I'm with you, man. Part of it is courts just don't want to acknowledge any evidence that goes against the feminine imperative so it gets easier for attorneys to have recording evidence thrown out. Video is tough, varies between states. Having video and audio together makes it difficult to throw out which is partly why it's illegal in some places imo. it's a mess. More than anything, recordings are fantastic leverage. No one wants that shit brought public so it can help to settle outside of court…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:12 PM
7

I'd be down to hear the in's and out's of making a successful career in late twenties to early thirties.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 07:23 PM
8

Unverifiable evidence. It gets tossed out in court if you can't prove that the person talking is the defendant/plaintiff. It can also be illegal to record someone without their consent for video/audio but sometimes consent is only required by one person depending on the state and the laws can be different between either medium. It's weird.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 04:10 PM
4

Nice dude. Don't worry too much, it sounds like things are going really well!
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:47 PM
1

For sure, bit I definitely act better when I'm in better shape so it's hard to tell without overlooking possibilities.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:37 PM
21

Don't go to HR. That department is the source of the drama, ironically. If you have male coworkers around, put some extra effort into bonding with them. A small voice recorder on your key chain never hurts, it won't protect you in court but it's something. If you've been at your job long enough, look around for other options with a different company; never hurts to have an offer in your exit strategy. Don't connect with these women on social media, if you did change the settings so they can't se…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:25 PM
3

Casey neistat. Dude is ugly as fuck and he's made it work for him. Find some ugly fucker and read their book
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:03 PM
1

You need to lose your virginity. Vagina size varies just as widely. I've been with girls that I couldn't even tell I was in and others that could only go five minutes they were so tight. Once you have sex you'll realize that your dick is just fine.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:00 PM
1

Have a good time. Any experience will be good experience. Just don't get arrested or some shit.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:52 AM
4

I have some relatable experience to this. Recently, after being independent from family for a decade, I've reconnected with them for 8 months. Family is family, but after this I will never commit extended time to them again. It's been nothing but one drama filled sinkhole after another. Opening my mouth has done nothing but degrade myself; spending time with them just means opportunities to get criticized. After this, it's going to be arms length interaction as it should have been. There's a rea…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:37 AM
2

Awesome. Here are the rules, don't break them. Pick a workout routine and stick to it (I recommend four day split: legs, arms, chest, back) 5 sets of 5 reps increasing weight until uncomfortable but in control, sessions should be 30 minutes high paced, 5-6 types of lifts. Diet is Paramount (rice cooker/george foreman, chicken bagged vegetables and rice, protein shakes, celery and carrots for snacking, oatmeal with peanut butter and honey for carb cravings). Schedule your lifts, if you miss one m…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 04:51 PM
1

Hopefully he paid an expensive lesson and didn't create a foolish habit.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 03:13 PM
6

I like this comment. Most of the comments here are shitting on op but the fact is that hes showing progress,that's a good thing. I say meet with her and try again. Here's a couple anecdotes to encourage: I remember one time I had a straight laced, prude girl in my car that started the LMR routine in my driveway. I just said "you want this". She agreed. Then she got out, went into my house, and put out immediately. Another, I was over at a girls place. She kept saying "we're not having sex tonigh…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 01:34 PM
7

He's delusional. Currying favor with m'lady didn't get that photographer laid, we all know. The man could be plugging his work but instead he spends his time bragging at the D&D Meetup about how all these girls are so into him.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 01:22 PM
6

For sure divorce. It's gonna be good for you. Make sure you take every step to protect yourself then serve her the papers. No discussions, no last chances. She's had years to change her ways, don't give her a chance to pull one over on you.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 11:31 PM
31

What I've noticed is that a lot of guys who are socially retarded have very strong egos. I think destroying that helps to get people out of their own heads. If you're egotistical, you're going to miss the importance of someone else's image to them and probably do some shit that embarrasses a girl in front of her friends as you pointed out. I also find that once guys get passt that "get out of your own head" stage, a natural game starts to come through. It's in everybody, so get out of your own w…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 03:57 PM
26

You know there's a problem when a woman is openly contradicting her own hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 11:53 AM
5

For sure. 90% there just don't fuck up the last 10%. She's not just coming over, she's going to spend 3 days getting ready to be there.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:23 PM
8

It takes about a year to get over oneitis. It'll take time but you'll get through it.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:21 PM
3

Start with the "formulaic" approach and see what happens. Approach it like you would figuring out how to use a new phone, good around until you figure it out. You'll see field reports pop up once in a while that help with what you're talking about, search for those. There is no replacement for trial and error though.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 10:16 PM
3

I honestly didn't know discrete and discreet were different words
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 04:40 PM
4

Mission > girls, always.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:05 PM
2

Just keep an eye out for yourself. If you get the sense this guy is dangerous to you, get out.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:02 PM
1

I'd observe your friend more. In my experience, it's so much better to have friends with game and confidence around than kids with no shot at women. Maybe your friend is doing something right that you can learn from. General advice, it's important to disengage from your ego sometimes and make some mental notes about the behaviors of others to watch the outcomes later.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:02 PM
2

Broadly speaking, control over context. Specifically, controlling the conversation
/r/askTRP07/07/19 05:05 PM
1

Yeah buddy, you're a real hypothetical hero.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:59 PM
3

I don't classify taking antidepressants as inconvenient. It's just not worth it imo. I fully encourage other people to define their own boundaries but I personally do not engage with AD women.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 01:32 AM
1

Keep lots of celery and carrots around. Bust out a container when you want to much.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:35 AM
1

Enjoy the moment, man. Don't get concerned with rating on a sliding scale in the moment. If it seems like fun, it probably is.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:33 AM
4

Take out the pic with your stuffed animals.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:30 AM
1

If someone is being nice, ask yourself why they're acting that way. It's driven by self interest and weakness, let them show you individually over time.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:27 AM
2

Anti-depressants are notorious for this shit. you gotta drop her, not worth it.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:23 AM
3

Drop her. It's an interesting story and you bagged a hottie, plenty of girls that won't give you this specific kind of shit.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:19 AM
2

With reading in general, skim quickly first. Pick up the key concepts. Then go back and read in more detail for things that you're are having trouble connecting the dots on.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:16 AM
1

So the key here is to have what behavior deserves upgrades and downgrades ahead of time. For me, an errant text wouldn't be enough to downgrade to plate but I would star pulling back investment without discussing the problem with her.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:14 AM
2

I think he's looking for approval on how he projects his own blue pulled tendencies while trying to change.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:09 AM
3

"hey guys, make sure not to go near X or she'll flip out". She probably had something totally unrelated going on.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 12:07 AM
1

That's right. I'm neither literate nor mentally capable.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:58 PM
1

You clearly intend to blow apart my argument by attacking me as a person, distorting my statement, and modifying the scope of discussion. Im happy to discuss things, but not with someone who freely engages in logical fallacies. I won't be replying to you further until you calm down
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:07 PM
3

Oh shit you're right. My bad, I was groggy.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 01:35 PM
11

Don't put words in my mouth. The scope of the discussion was affect on women. Are men excluded? Absolutely not. Don't be a dick
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:14 PM
1

Top comment immediately goes into how the husband was wrong for cheating. Bitch got what she deserved.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 12:27 PM
13

I would chalk it up to bleeding edge technology. Our world is changing and it's only going to get stranger. These things are designed to fuck with women's heads. It's amazing what people can do with them but it's also mentally sterilizing.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:20 PM
3

Take a break from the dating apps,just go out and have a fun night. Talk to some people no pressure. Sometimes your expectations can prevent you from enjoying your growth
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:16 PM
3

Don't take it too literally. When you're walking around, ask yourself which guys are 8 or 9. It's those guys that 80% of women chase. That's close enough to get a picture. Remember, women will look at those guys and try to find flaw in any little thing.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:12 PM
1

I would talk about what "other people" are going to think of that. "Other people are going to think you're a slut". Yes you have to be a dick but shes acting like a unruly child.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:09 PM
2

Electrician, plumber, welder, machining, petroleum labor. Through employer apprenticeship, literature,and state testing for certification.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:48 PM
7

I would take a look at picking up a trade to support your goals. Skilled trades are very hot right now. If you had the ability to pay for more education and training that would help you, having a day job would also help add some structure to your life.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:29 PM
1

I know, it's really tough to hear about this and I don't have a solution. I've learned a lot reading the other posts though. hope things turn out for the best for op.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:46 PM
0

I know it. It's too bad this didn't happen earlier. Maybe she wouldn't object.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:19 AM
1

Honestly, I have a running quota of people in my head on a weekly basis. Interact with at least 30 people regularly, acquaintences are fine. Interact with at least 10 new people per week. Playing the numbers game helps a lot. Go to the bar and start talking to people with the only goal being to just meet them. New friends are the natural consequence.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:18 AM
0

Id make plans to leave the country and take her with you. She needs psychiatric evaluation and not the kind you get in the west. The reason she's not speaking with you is because this is an attempt for her to gain control, most depression stems from an individual's sense of vulnerability to chaos, and you're a threat to that. She needs to get away from all of this. I would start doing some research to find an environment that will help her get her identity as a female back.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:12 AM
3

You're too available. Not in an ambiguous sense, just simply not busy enough. Try packing some more things into your life and creating a schedule that you stick to. When girls "reschedule" the answer should be "sorry, I'm busy". Think of it like this, she should be competing with the other commitments in your life to get time with you; you don't make room for her to spend time with you. Stop saying yes to her so much. Some girls are time wasters or just outright fucking with you or plain old cra…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:54 PM
-1

I don't typically think in terms of age Gap as much as minimum. 16 is too young, 21 is the cutoff, maybe 20. You have two choices: kick his ass or leave it alone. Keep your mouth shut no matter what you do. If you lay down the law on this guy, she'll think twice before bringing a dirt bag into her life again. I think the best choice is to leave it alone and focus on yourself, but any half measures are worse than either option.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 02:48 PM
3

Great idea. Horrible execution. Their conclusions are backwards and their bias affects how they view each situation; they're inconsistent on what constitutes masculine behavior and inject bad manners into masculine scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 02:40 PM
1

I think the issue here is that you're operating on data that's faulty. Modern society is not a good condition for raising children. Women are encouraged to operate at their worst levels ie not in a male frame and hedonistic. Women love their children. They love their babies, toddlers, preteens, teens. Then the children should be brought to the men to be transitioned into adulthood. Once a man is an adult, he is now above his mother and capable of giving back for the gift of life he was given (th…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 08:26 PM
0

Relax
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:56 PM
-5

I mean, everyone fantasizes about exes. It doesn't mean that something's up but doesn't disprove anything either. I would keep a closer eye on her to make sure she doesn't pull any bullshit. Turn up the heat in bed, take things to a darker place where her ex fantasies can't go.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 03:16 PM
1

They absolutely win the marriage game, that's why you play a different one now. If you don't marry and stay on your mission, you will come out into your 40's banging 20 year old hotties and rolling in dough. Women cannot do that. They cannot get top of the line men in their later years the same way men can top shelf women. You win by letting the women run around and bang whomever in their 20's and 30's, laughing at them while they decline and you improve. We're playing the long game. ​ check thi…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:03 AM
1

Aye, see you at Boston! I love running and big distance, long runs. You can't do them forever but a few years of marathon level training is a ton of fun. Make sure to taper off as you get older so your joints don't vanish.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 08:35 PM
2

Get your black belt in administrative violence, whup some ass
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 03:14 PM
3

Glad you have specific quetions. Women ultimately lose the game of SMV. At ~28, they hit the "wall". They expire sexually and they experience a rapid decline in SMV. They are no longer top priority for men but remain in denial for a while about their declining attractiveness. For some time, she'll try to lock down a chad but if that doesn't work she will lock down a beta for a long period of time. Male smv increases steadily until ~55 at the latest. Attractive Women are in demand and wise/powerf…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:52 PM
28

We're not leaving, we're being pushed out.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 11:58 AM
1

That's a good point. I dug up a few other things like that too. Some other books I've been reading addressed some concepts that helped me tone down my perfectionist approach to something less crippling. That attitude led me to put up fronts like you're talking about
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:55 AM
1

Thanks for the post. I think it's mostly a one off thing but indicative of an area for improvement. Ive read up a bit and noticed that the anxiety is connected to imporperly assessing threats. Reminding myself that there is nothing threatening present or future helps a lot, that will help with social anxieties too I think. I've also noticed that my muscles are typically very tight which is correlated with high anxiety, letting go of tension helps. Lastly, I drink a lot of caffeine which can set …
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:51 AM
6

Nailed it. The thing is, this is his family that he screwed up not yours (you're a part of it). Being a good patriarch and an RP guy are not mutually exclusive, you can be both and your dad's not doing it. Move on with your life, stay in touch with family, help only if they ask. A man who helps without being asked is a creditor. Stepping in and Manning up for the family will only hurt you, you'll never be able to replace their idealized version of your father in their heads. You're at an importa…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:09 AM
6

I was thinking about that. I think the deal is that women value signaling what group they are supporting for more than the strength of a cause, strengthening the right cause is our job. So when we bitch at them for making stupid arguments, we're missing the point.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:42 PM
5

Maybe you can start one. See how it goes.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:22 PM
2

I heard a quote recently I really liked "when you reach the top you are surrounded by nothing but air, you find that which is important to you is only what you brought with you". Read "in search of lost times" by proust. This is the part where you're probably thinking that various things in life must not have meaning which is missing the point. The only difference between having meaning and not having meaning in life is our state of mind. The change happens inside of you and the lessons needed t…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:20 PM
1

The game is always changing so adapt your strategy.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:29 PM
54

Can you break the lease and move out? It may be inconvenient for you but you really only have control over yourself here. I would give him 30-90 day notice since he is family.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:43 PM
2

"half the game is 90% mental" Yogi berra Great job dude. Make sure to out a plan into place to prevent gaining back. I've been using one meal warrior and eating only carrots and celery during the day. Works so well.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 12:56 PM
1

I like a four split but primarily because I do a lot of cardio training. If I'm not cardio training I like six days per week, 2 cycles of push-pull-legs with 1 rest day.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 03:06 PM
2

Nah man, you don't need input. Try doing something instead of focusing on doing it right.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:02 AM
22

We should really call it the burden of disproof now.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 08:13 PM
4

You should be able to do a physical training job with a gym at the least. there are also certifications which can help. You might be able to land something helping out coaches with a local University, those can be competitive so think volunteer work to manage a teams lifting regimens. Down the road keep picking up higher ed. Think about starting a small business. Network hard, training high profile clients is where the money is. Train hard yourself. If you can compete and succeed in major compet…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:11 AM
-1

It's up to you. Try watching some with her maybe, explore it.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:00 AM
2

Definitely. It's not exactly the same though. I think guys are less concern with ambiguous smv and more concerned with the practical capabilities of someone they seek to befriend. There is a lot of overlap for sure
/r/askTRP19/06/19 02:37 PM
13

Amen. When shit improves or falls apart for you, friends start scattering. Acquaintences are far more valuable. Trying to "make friends" is backward. You need to seek independent value, people line up in the street when you have that.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:09 AM
3

Remember, Father's day is for single mothers most of all.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 11:15 PM
1

I think it's less that you're more or less of any given trait and more that you're aware of these aspects now. The key to dealing with insecurity is finding a way to disconnect your worth as a person from your performance.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:59 PM
5

Go do some research, there are answers to the way to go about it. Try the subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 03:20 PM
3

That's fine, you're not supposed to have feels in the Disney sense.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:16 AM
6

Who cares? Just another rejection. All problems will solve themselves by continuing to push yourself out fo your comfort zone to improve.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:33 AM
1

Anger is a healthy emotion and it shouldn't be ignored. Writing up an asktrp post about how pissed you are at some chick is far better than someone doing something stupid. But isn't that the point? I don't think learning a Paramount skill like letting go of your emotions in the moment and waiting to unpack them later is the same as suppressing them. This facilitates logical decisions in the heat of the moment. Maybe I'm missing the point but I thought the author was arguing that people shouldn't…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 02:16 AM
31

Video games had been a focal point of my life every since I was a toddler until recently. Someone here directed me to the r stopgaming, best favor anyone has done for me. I really wish it had come earlier, in the form of my parents beating me over the head with my consoles. The subreddit directed me to WHO signs of gaming addiction, I finally accepted there was a problem when I showed every one of them. It was weird too because I'm well functioning: I'm in shape, educated, sociable, gainfully em…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:54 AM
12

I had a feeling this was coming. Before you know it, we won't even be allowed to unmatch them on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:17 AM
1

2 minute meditation makes an incredible difference, I find
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:14 AM
1

Ah! Nice! Thanks for confirming. I'm much younger and really looking forward to it
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 08:56 PM
7

Yeah man, if it helps just think of it as a night of going out with no expectations. Act on impulse, if you see someone just say hello.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:52 PM
2

If you are still capable of having children, you are still capable of picking up a young woman to start a family with. A key tactic in the feminine imperative is to prevent peak value men from understanding that their reproductive lives are evergreen, the goal is to create a rush to pick up a post wall "age appropriate" woman. The truth is that the life of perfect contentment for a man involves, in part, starting a family at the time when he is in peak range with a woman of similar value and con…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 08:15 PM
1

Show don't tell
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:19 PM
1

Yeah it's definitely the nuclear option.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:17 PM
1

Good man, see you in 6 months or so.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:18 AM
6

Looking at your post history, you need to get off the internet. Straight toss your computer. Distilled recipe to get your shit together: 1) go to the gym, cardio and weights. Track your diet, stay out of the processed foods. 2) find a job, any iob if you don't have one 3) educate yourself, read books, go to the library if you need to 4) become trained in a trade. Welding, plumbing, electrician,pilot. Just get something. 5) get your own place once you can support yourself. 6) now you can get back…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:02 AM
5

Don't come at him straight on or it will legitimize his activity, it would imply you think he's worth fighting off. Instead, set up the circumstances for his humiliation. Set up a group outting, go to a bar with plenty of people, bring your LTR. Then, pointedly suggest that he go talk to a specific girl he's looking at within earshot of your LTR and your friends. When he hesitates, go do it yourself. Bring her back with you and watch him fuck up dramatically as you reengage with you LTR. You're …
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:52 AM
1

https://youtu.be/f7HzosaK54w
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:48 PM
54

If people are giving you shit about curbing alcohol, order tonic and lime. Nobody will notice the difference.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 05:38 PM
9

Yes absolutely. Probate is a nightmare.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 08:14 PM
15

I'm not going to bother analyzing and explaining to you. Go to him now, tell him what's going on. Let him decide where to lead you through this. I'm so sorry to hear about your health. That's truly awful.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:40 PM
2

Perfect. The aggression is only an example. My family works in construction so there will be conflicts. Don't rule out the more subtle forms of hostility though.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Great. Glad you're here. One thing I also forgot to bring up is that a good strategy can help your tactical politics. For instance, my dad is an extraordinarily intimidating guy. Whenever I saw him run into someone butting in too much, he would look them straight in the eye with deep hostility and say something like "I'm having a conversation with blank and you are not a part of it". This worked exclusively because he played to his strategy and people wouldn't know how to cope with their own fea…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:20 PM
4

Is this an exercise in completely missing the point? You can replicate the frame of a guy who has it all or you can actually have it all to create the genuine frame. The first is where everyone here starts and the second is where we're all striving.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:01 PM
7

Just tell her to text you afterward or something. You can make your decision later. I'd make some different plans for the night.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:32 PM
2

Dude, more red flags than a Soviet invasion. Hit the sidebar. I'm going to tell you this right now, this chick is bullshitting you
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:25 PM
2

She took it as a rejection but that's fine. She's creeping on you,really. Take your focus away from social media when you're vetting.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 01:21 PM
1

I know,not much there, right?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 11:24 AM
4

Escalate. Report back.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:53 AM
13

I have a feeling the guy he's talking about is the same way, somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 02:39 AM
3

What happened to your website?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 01:16 AM
6

2 things. Start leading your life independently seeking things you are interested in. Along the way, talk to people you meet about interesting things you're doing. Read books about social skills to learn and apply in the real world. You suck now and you're going to suck for a while and there's nothing wrong with that. Just keep learning and sharpening.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:41 PM
5

Nah man. You could try different looks though. A beard or long hair. You're a good looking dude. Make it work for you.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:30 PM
2

Might have been your state of mind. Try talking to guys, unattractive women, or the bartender first. It also helps to have a drink like tonic and lime in hand to feel like you're a part of things. Bonus points if you can get her to drink from it and watch her get wasted.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:28 PM
2

Yes! Great advice. Changing location in the bar is one of the first steps
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:24 PM
3

Walk up and say hi. Report back.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:23 PM
3

For starters, don't take any of this lying down. Your goal is to walk away with as many new positive connections as you can with the company. Recommendations will be just as valuable as a job so people need to think you're not a bitch or a fag like this guy. Obviously you can't crumple but you can't return fire outwardly either and acknowledge the conflict which legitimizes his behavior. What to do? 1) he's a pissant whose identity doesn't exist without you. This dependency makes him easier for …
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:13 AM
8

I am for it, but I'd like to see if done right. Some real assholes could use that industry to harm many men and women. I know we come down pretty hard on women but the last thing we want to see is for something to happen to them on an industrial scale. Working conditions and consent are the first issues that come to mind. Positive monetization of recreational sex would bring men back to focusing on what women are tangibly bringing to the table. This would cause women to shame men who use brothel…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 06:42 PM
14

A lot of people express trp as an ethic when it's really just a set of tools and instruction manuals. People want to identify with something, be a part of a whole. That makes it difficult for them to locate the individual preference between the iron rules when they're so busy trying to follow a rigid plan based on their interpretation of fluid discussion. To some people, the thought that there are multiple interpretations is threatening and immediately deserving of conversational nuclear payload…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 04:32 PM
1

I believe it. Just remember that next time you've got that weird feeling in your stomach when you're sitting across from a girl like that.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:19 AM
2

Can confirm, dont be in bridges nowadays.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:14 AM
1

College makes sense if you have an end goal in mind. You've got to go to law school to be a lawyer, doesn't take much imagination. I've dabbled in accounting and it's not the most stimulating stuff. The point here is take your time and put real thought into how you educate yourself. You don't need college to get a great job. But tell me to fuck off if I try to convince you against something you want. If you've got a blue collar job, then you have a fantastic hilltop to scope out your next headin…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:08 AM
2

Both. Their selectivity improves our species. Something's sending things haywire though, that's very clear.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:57 AM
4

I don't think this ones on you, totally. Who knows what the hell else was going on with this chick? She sounds arrogant, taking her down a peg would help. I think I would have walked out half way through.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:54 AM
16

She was cheating.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:49 AM
1

I've never been much to mess with bulks/cuts. 80% results should come from sticking to a consistent routine, eating less than your calorie ceiling, and getting the right nutrients. I'm sure it's useful, but that's advanced stuff.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:20 AM
5

No. Have at it.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:17 AM
1

Yes. It depends on the therapist. You need someone who's good at cutting through bullshit. The best ones know the book side of the subject and break it down into something simple and natural. Nothing wrong with seeing one, but it should involve a vetting process. You don't have to agree with them but you need to see skill in their practice, practicality.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:16 AM
1

Wait. You mean all engineers are autistic like me? WHAAAAAAAA...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 12:13 AM
2

When there is a double standard, there is an underlying single standard that truly governs.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 12:11 AM
1

Where it at?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 09:11 PM
3

Shat where I worked. Girl of my dreams turned into a backstabbing bitch. No regrets though, it was all a part of finding the right path.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 08:19 PM
1

I get you I do. I found out about that just before your response. It sounds more like you're rationalizing the current situation rather than looking for a better alternative. If you say you've researched it I'm going to take your word for it, though. What about applying for citizenship in another country? It may be worth picking up some kind of trade you can use to set yourself up somewhere you can't get extradited and you / your son do have rights. Take him on a plain with you and set up a heal…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:36 PM
5

Uh oh. That's bad. He needs to get out of the country.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:23 PM
1

https://youtu.be/NGdbTNoIHt0
/r/askTRP12/06/19 04:23 PM
1

Lurk, read, top 500 posts, sidebar, recommended trp books, stay out of asktrp. No more Mr nice guy. 48 laws of power. Lift, career, goals, social life, cutting bad habits. Respect the EC's, I can't stand new guys that mouth off around here. For the love of God, use the search bar. Everyone avoids a headache when you find the answers without asking a question. Welcome aboard.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:55 PM
1

The fuck? I've never heard of this, what is it?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:50 PM
1

Aye hay. Good for you bud! That's good money. You only need one rule, set up your financial plan to invest in your future. Every dime you spend and save helps you to a better life. The rest is important detail to support that.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:47 PM
2

It's all good. You do you. Red pill is a doctrine of prescribing to only your own doctrine. Unfortunately, it paradoxically has created a hive mind that doesn't fully understand individuality. They don't know where the border is yet but everyone is learning.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:44 PM
2

https://youtu.be/pLU3kIqiFEA I'm glad you asked the question this way. I do not take kindly to black pill philosophers here. They are poisonous and obnoxious.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:41 PM
1

Start looking for a new job, find an upgrade. Keep your anger under control, which you've done well so far. Don't show that you have a problem. He's singled you out as a whipping boy, you can't trust him. Don't try to challenge him. He sounds super insecure.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:38 PM
2

I see a lot questions like this and the reason they aren't good ones is because trp isn't an ethic. It's hard to discern what is your decision and what's something you should research, but this is one of the things that's totally up to you. No one here can tell you right vs wrong.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:34 PM
1

Buy you gifts, do you laundry, cook, clean.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:27 PM
1

Mars
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:26 PM
2

"oh shit, looks like someone's catfishing with my insta pics"
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:24 PM
1

There are some good articles about tinder profiles if you use the search bar. People get real detailed about that.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:21 PM
2

0 tolerance for flakes. Wasting your time is too high a price.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:21 PM
2

Separate your self worth from the opinions of women in your head. Take control over your thoughts and emotions. "One more failure closer to a success" is your mantra.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:17 PM
3

Damn dude, you're getting shit on. It's up to you. Sounds like you missed a good time but you live and learn.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:15 PM
1

Dude don't fuck with an EC like that. You don't run shit here, you ask and he answers. He's trying to help you and telling him how things work is serious disrespect.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:12 PM
1

Start doing some research. Check out the top posts, sidebar, rp reading. There's honestly too much to explain for asktrp. You're on the right track but you've got to do the work on your own.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:09 PM
1

No big deal, it happens. Maybe grab some Viagra as back up.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:06 PM
2

Nah just let her be. Let her wonder what awesome shit youre up to.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:04 PM
2

Chicks like douchebags. If some other girl got burned and is still sour she wants to know what the fuss is about but is looking for reassurance she won't get the same treatment (which she will). EC is right, be vague and pass it off as no big deal. Next topic.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:02 PM
2

I think what you need is to adjust your mindset a bit. Women are voluntary contributors here. You can have all the game in the world and she might still decide to pass for now. It's not always up to us. If she decides on something else, no big deal. You had a good lay, leave her alone and let her do this thing with the other guy. Maybe she'll come back maybe she won't. Meanwhile you can pick up some other plates in the mean time.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:59 PM
2

Good question! I'd like to know that myself.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:54 PM
3

Lookup GLO upside down clown world. It makes people feel powerful to shape reality and deny logic. It's about putting themselves in a position of subjectivity through self deception that cannot be argued with. People get pissed off when their BS is exposed. Men are under attack, high society hit job. The goal is to make men more malleable. The strategy is to disrupt objectivity, values, sensible social Dynamics. If men have inherit value then the best way to destroy it is to destroy the concept …
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:52 PM
2

The habit of now by Neil fiore. He makes good points about creating a good work life balance. If you're having trouble seeing the point, find a goal you feel is worth chasing for the next 30 years. Take control of where your life is heading. Do what you think is worth your time.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:42 PM
1

https://youtu.be/w6PHJvLAOnE
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:39 PM
1

True, orbiter or Chad then.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:37 PM
3

There was a good post about this problem. Basically, AA is dead and ironic agreement is the new thing. The problem is that your audience is getting dumber. Dunning-Kruger, they're so dumb that they think you're stupid. Try to be more considerate of your audience, make points that they will understand.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:35 PM
3

Dude if you're for real about this whole situation, please listen to us. You have a fast growing list of people that are concerned about your well being. This is a decision that will impact the rest of your life. This whole thing really smells. Just stop and think about what the consequences could be if you get married and this girl decides to turn on you. How much money could she take? How much time could you have to spend in court? How many friends and family relationships could be lost? What …
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:30 PM
5

Yeah, you're a real hero buddy. Why are you asking for advice if you're just going to qualify status quo? If you want to get married, that's your choice. I hope it goes well for you, but you have to be expecting discourse on here for that. She wants the experience of relishing in her orbiter's misery on the day she, supposedly, pledges herself to you. Does that sound like something you want at your wedding? Definitely not.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:21 PM
-3

Seriously? I can't tell a guy to fuck off and look something up himself without you coming to his rescue? That's exactly what I got told when I asked a stupid question, that's how you learn to look shit up before asking.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:20 AM
1

Fuck it dude. What's the worst that can happen? Sometimes it's fun to do something risky. Just be cool about it and be subtle with your game.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:16 AM
2

Find out and let us know.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:13 AM
2

I like this approach to reading. Interesting outlook.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:11 AM
1

Yes, if not all, which is why they think the men on it are pathetic. Unless you have a high superficial smv pic portfolio I suppose.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:09 AM
-7

No, you should be the last person I have to explain this to.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:06 AM
1

Nothing wrong with that. Just keep your expectations low. People hate being told to load the dishwasher a certain way, let alone bring told how to think against their volition; especially by their junior.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:04 AM
1

Yeah man. You go it pegged. End it ASAP and let her figure her shit out on her own. She'll break up the moment she's got this new guy as a sure thing and suggest a long distance cuckold before that.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:01 AM
1

Compensate with your physique. Should be fine
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:54 AM
-11

Fuck off. Find it yourself. It comes up at least twice a week.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:51 AM
23

It's banter. Say fucking anything. Change the subject if you want. "I'll pick some place wheelchair accessible..." Move on
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:50 AM
-2

This exact question came up 3 days ago.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:45 AM
1

I mean, if you didn't know what to do that was the best move at the time. Exiting isn't the best strategy but it saves you from fucking up worse. Now you'll be ready to put her shit back in her lap next time. Just be careful not to let her goad you into her fight. Show her her criticism doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:38 AM
1

Sure wood
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:46 PM
2

Don't keep any junk food in the house. The key is not to make it available to yourself. Then always buy carrots and celery. Fill up on that. Set up a specific diet regimen and track it using a diet app. Planning what you eat is key.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:38 PM
2

Yeah, just be patient. I think you can take it from here. You'll get with both at one point or another. Just get oneitis out of the equation. Isolate and close. It sounds like your instincts are solid so if it ain't broke don't fix it.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 08:07 PM
1

Her entire goal for your role in her life is to prove that you are beneath her. She will reinforce that no matter what she has to do. Whether it's interrupting a new potential lay or slutting with a guy right in your face. She was not showing attraction in front of Em, she was trying to fuck you up and she succeeded. Whenever there seems to be double standard, there is an underlying single standard. She needs to mean nothing to you now because your motivations will be directly opposed forever. Y…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:21 PM
1

Okay.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:16 PM
1

That's not what I said. Go away.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:12 PM
1

That's a question only you can answer. If you could be anyone right now, who would you be? Make that your goal 30 years from now. Doesn't matter what you think you can or can't have. Start the process of becoming that guy.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:41 PM
1

"hey me too" and keep talking
/r/askTRP10/06/19 03:53 PM
1

No. Instagram is had for you unless you can do business with it.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 03:52 PM
1

Cool. Yeah fuck that guy. Just be like, "yeah, dude it's a fuckin party let's take some shots!" And just start pouring. Don't pour the bitch one and when she complains tell her she needs the whole bottle to lighten up.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 03:50 PM
4

Yep. Deleted mine. If you don't need it as a tool for your gain there is no point to having one.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 02:24 PM
0

You kidding? Get busy with your shit.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 02:22 PM
2

The towel shit is kinda weird overall. You took her seriously which was the mistake. Just ignore her and start engaging with someone else. Direct everyone's attention away from her idiot command. Pour shots or talk to your buddy about some awesome story, anything. I would classify your movements as insubordinate instead of commanding, that kind of behavior acknowledges her authority which is why she started acting all nutty. It wasn't a shit test, it was dumb bitch behavior and should be treated…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:41 PM
1

It's simple. You still have work to do. It's not as easy as reading the sidebar once and win. Top posts. EC posts. Trp books. Trp manual. Then you need to spend more time improving yourself. I've been here a while and still haven't improved myself to a place that I can say I stack up with the best. It takes a lot of time, effort, and discipline. After that, practice. You have to practice the material to get good with it not just know it. You need to practice it for the mentality to process. You …
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:32 PM
1

Isn't it just inadmissible in court?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 02:08 AM
1

Ripped is ripped, dude. I for one, would love to hear about you finding out later. Get jacked your way and start gaming with some body builders. See what happens.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:58 AM
4

It's not good or bad, it's a simple choice that you're allowed to make. Should be allowed to make without judgement from anyone else. I mean, of you're flaking to play video games that's one thing, but here... Do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:56 AM
2

I don't see a question here. To be honest though, I don't think your answers are here. We're happy to support but I'm seeing signs of deeper trauma that we can't help with. Is there a medical professional that you feel you can trust? I'm not judging, I've gone to get help myself before. Nihilism isn't the answer, life will get a lot better for us when were in our 40's. Right now, shit is just hard because we have no experience or assets. I've heard it gets better.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:53 AM
11

She found someone wealthier. it definitely was not really about the issue at hand.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 09:57 PM
1

3 am, "whatcha doin? Just thinking about you."
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:01 PM
1

It sounds like the idea is to prepare better circumstances for a f close from the planning phase. To avoid showing overinvestment, how about replying "maybe" or something tenuous to the idea of a coffee date then suggesting something different later? HSP's point seems to be that part of the issue is that OP was not dictating circumstances and missing out on the potential benefits of determining the playing field, not an irreconcilable issue but could have prevented f close.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 06:31 PM
1

I like the points you make about slowing down and genuine dgaf instead of faking it. Particularly, I never thought about consciously the right speed to go when taking the steps. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 06:07 PM
2

You seem like a pretty sharp guy so it's possible that you're not really aware of what you're doing. I came down pretty hard on you. I just watched this video after our discussion, try gleaning some new information from it. I don't want a thank you, just check it out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLU3kIqiFEA
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:52 PM
0

This is help. Outright denial of my arguments and your subjective points prove nothing. Yeah, I point out your own shit and you don't like it. Tough. Now you are virtue signalling and shaming which is in direct conflict with the posted rules for this sub. Is telling us to justify our viewpoints helping you? No. You didn't come here with a problem. You came here having a problem with us and the way we do things. Picking a fight and masking it as enrichment. Now that's exactly what you're getting.…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:40 PM
0

Yes. You are stating your position, then telling other people to prove you wrong. Shifting the burden of proof is taking advantage. Then you proceed to disqualify other opinions for not providing enough satisfaction to shift your point of view which is not in their control. Then "thanking" them as a disarming tactic. I am attacking you because you are full of shit. You're not doing this to seek understanding. You wanted all of us to play your game and that's not how a conversation with me is goi…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:53 PM
-1

So your plan is to drop the murkiest argument on the planet in asktrp and debate with anyone who responds from an advantaged position? Nobody gives a shit if you can't see the point. "I believe there is no point to working for things in life, prove me wrong" Take your bullshit somewhere else. The burden of proof is not on us to solve a unicolor Rubik's cube. We made our choice, stop pretending to be nihilist and make yours. You'd be reading bukowski if you really gave a shit about this topic, no…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:39 PM
12

Stick you dick in crazy and it sticks it's dick into you
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:21 PM
7

She hasn't gone to the police yet it sounds like. Maybe revert to full beta and see if you can dry her out.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:14 PM
22

Definitely not a the police but a defense lawyer is obligated to help once they're paid so he should be fine there.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:13 PM
1

.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:13 AM
1

You kidding? Oneitis. Blowtorch your phone. Lift for 1000 years. Read every book before the 21st century. Become an astronaut. See if you give a fuck about some random chick's emoji color after you get your first taste of testosterone that doesn't come from another man. Get your shit together. Sidebar x 20.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:40 AM
2

Government disability paycheck. Lawsuit. Life insurance and rat poison.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:24 AM
1

Mysterious is good. You should forever and always be mysterious to girls. ALWAYS.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:23 AM
1

It's okay to make mistakes, there's no better way to learn. You have the right to try things out even if people could criticize you from the outside. Wouldn't it be nice to just be able to drop all the worries and game other girls guilt free? You're spending a lot of time focused on her but what do you want? Not with her but for yourself.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:21 AM
1

Just go. Tell yourself you're going just to stretch and do 10 minutes of cardio. Just go. Eventually it will feel like a day isn't complete without it. Use whatever mental judo on yourself you need to.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:14 AM
1

Damn dude, she set you up. I was born ten years after my siblings which is a bit suspect.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:10 AM
1

Gift giving her tangibly acknowledging you, there's no plausible deniability in a thoughtful gift. Reward that. That's the most love you could really ask for.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:04 AM
2

Tell her to be your wingman during your holiday. She'll help you get laid one way or another.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:02 AM
2

Ouch. Niantic is aesthetic but it's out there. I had luck in new haven even when I was bp. Day trips up to Boston or Providence maybe?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:51 AM
2

Because nature is throwing up flags to tell you she's expiring.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:47 AM
6

How tight are you with your friend? Spit roast tight?
/r/askTRP08/06/19 11:40 PM
3

Ask him if you can join next time
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:26 PM
1

The trouble with being shy is that an emotional pattern is controlling your moves. This prevents you from being able to run experiments, try things out to see what the effect is. That will make it harder to understand the consequences of your actions and the actions of others. When you cannot project the outcomes of social interaction with moderate accuracy, you cant get involved with power games which are crucial to gaining power. Without power you won't get what you want in life by your own ch…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:21 PM
1

She's probably in triple digits by now
/r/askTRP07/06/19 12:42 PM
2

Just downloaded hello Kitty casino!
/r/askTRP06/06/19 10:56 PM
1

Fair enough. Thanks for your input
/r/askTRP06/06/19 04:22 PM
1

Agreed. No I'm not taking psychoactive drugs nor do I plan to. I used to take ADHD meds but that was years ago, that stuff isn't right. I'm not trying to convey a question about the chemistry behind neuroscience. Im directly curious about the relationship between improving your habits and internal "chemical" changes. How do the residual impacts of your previous habits factor in to adapting to a different lifestyle? The answer may be as simple as keeping up with the habits long enough and introdu…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:37 PM
2

A lot of this stems from your ability to accurately get a sense for who someone is. Women tend to cloud your judgement. It's best to judge a book by it's cover and take things literally, not how you interpret them. When someone tells you who they are, listen and believe them. This girl definitely exhibits some levels of narcissim and sociopathic behavior. Like other people have said, you're going to be glad she's gone. You need to be able to spot that next time. Hooking up with those types is fi…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:24 PM
1

Sounds like you're making the right call. you'll always have the option of picking up 25 yo when you're ready.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:10 PM
1

Sounds like you're making the right call. you'll always have the option of picking up 25 yo when you're ready.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:08 PM
1

Yes thank you. It looks like my terminology caused confusion. I'll check it out and get back.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:00 PM
1

Yeah definitely, I need to be more consistent with meditation.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 02:58 PM
1

Not at all. What I'm trying to understand more are the residual effects of living a hedonistic lifestyle after making habit improvements. Things aren't going poorly, I'm making the improvements but I want to see if I can do better. For instance, I'd like to understand how to improve my relationship with studying so that I can go for longer stretches of time with higher productivity. I find myself wavering during study sessions and fighting the urge to seek out old addictions. It's nothing new bu…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 02:58 PM
1

Sure is, no getting around it.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:13 AM
1

Yes. I lift and I'm training for long distance running. Exercising was a staple in my life prior to trp but diet is still a work in progress.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:12 AM
1

I've just started feeling that myself. The enjoyment of small progress used to be completely foreign to me but I'm picking up on it too. Before I just kinda did things because i knew I should, not because improving was enjoyable. It's a powerful flywheel.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:11 AM
3

True, but abstaining is the obvious and maybe the only answer. Great idea.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 01:10 AM
9

It was pretty fuckin funny though
/r/askTRP05/06/19 12:20 PM
1

Nah you're good dude. I wouldn't worry too much,you handled it fine.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:55 AM
12

I'm convinced there are some girls that our bodies can straight up reject. I've had the weirdest experiences. I had one girl who was great. Hyper powered lawyer in NYC, sick apartment, hot as hell. I was sober and managed to slog through it but my dick would not cooperate with this girl, faked cumming. Next night I had this med student, not as attractive but the experience in bed was completely different.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:35 AM
4

I want to point out that she's the one torching her relationship, not you. For whatever reason Mr wonderful over there isn't cutting it or she's "bored". Doesn't matter. If it's not you, it will be someone else. As for gaming her, that part is your preference. Nobody here is going to have a relevant opinion on your ethics. I'd say do it. It will bring drama if you keep her around too long though. You could also send some of the texts you're getting to her BF but he might be so beta that he would…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 12:54 AM
3

Tinder flake? Fuck off and do something you value. Act like nothing ever happened.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:36 PM
7

Stop acting like a friend. Act the way someone else, who's getting what you want, is. You'll learn a lot that way
/r/askTRP04/06/19 09:35 PM
1

What's lacking about moving there?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:10 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:04 PM
88

Number 1 work your ass off, expect failure. Results do not come easy but they will come eventually, not just because you want them now. Failure is progress.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 05:24 PM
2

It's encouraging to see that you feel the same way, the power relationship is Paramount. It's a good suggestion: if you don't have power in one arena find it in another. If you don't have hierarchial power, gain knowledge power. I was in a situation with a highly disdainful, insecure boss but I'm on the job search now with new plans career wise. I'm on the lookout for business opportunities, it's a good suggestion. What do you do?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:05 PM
2

I can see that. Being liked seemed to require some kind of power advantage in my observation. I think the real struggle is knowing how to get it when you're in a weaker position. I still don't understand the process of gaining power in that scenario eg low station at job, unknowledgeable in a topic of discussion.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:49 PM
2

This one speaks to Law 11: Keep people dependent on you. Approaching people for gain from the angle of gratitude generates resentment, singles you out as weak. Leverage future benefit instead. The post talks at length about the relationship between female branch swinging and loss of respect for guys in LTRs. Basically, you don't get power and loyalty by building brownie points; you get it by demonstrating value. The most important part of demonstrating value is putting yourself first which means…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:52 PM
1

Which ones are his? Do you have time to link?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:44 PM
5

Yeah just take precautions. Set up consent recording. Permaplate. Drop her when you find some upgrades.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:31 PM
1

The perceived smv of young guys is real low. Just don't get locked down and in your late 30's,these 22 year old girls will be treating you very differently. For now, we have to sharpen our game to make up for it.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:28 PM
1

Will do
/r/askTRP03/06/19 10:56 PM
1

It's up to you bud. Good luck
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:34 PM
7

If it's good money, take it and find out. Aggression doesn't always mean alpha. Law 38: think as you like, behave like others. Do what you have to do in order to succeed but always separate your thinking from theirs. Besides, you can always leave if it's not right.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:08 PM
3

Uber maybe? Most jobs are found through your network.do your friends and family have anything you could do?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:55 PM
46

Get a different one
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:53 PM
3

Do what you want to do in bed, not what they want. If she starts issuing commands,cover her mouth.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:21 PM
2

Got it. Maybe it's worth looking at a masters, law, or mba if your gpal is good. I Kno will doing the same soon
/r/askTRP02/06/19 02:45 AM
1

Literally take nothing in life seriously. Make a plan for yourself on what you're going to do and that's it. Realize emotions matter nothing in the external world. They are a good tool for feedback though, so don't be a robot.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 01:11 AM
2

What do you think about architecture? I know one fo my friends was valedictorian and went into architecture. He's only making 65k which is an insult to his intelligence.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 01:09 AM
2

It's not that I don't like it. It's just that there are better forms of engineering with improved salaries. Job stability is very high though in field positions which is a plus. It's interesting work but if you're going to spend the time getting a degree it really should be something with high earning potential.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 10:07 PM
1

I've never actually been over there, conceptually that's a good point.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 07:23 PM
1

Keep lurking. You have humility which is good. Learn as much as you can. Play with the concepts, try new behaviors just to see what happens. Your current relationship status is totally irrelevant. This is a change inside if you designed to bring certain outcomes in your environment.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 07:22 PM
2

That's good. I see no problem with the way you've behaved so far. Remember law number 10: avoid the unhappy and the unlucky.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 03:46 PM
7

Look you want to have a pity party for her, go ahead. You don't need our permission for that. You're not even asking a question. There are plenty of women out there for you to meet whose friends didn't just get murdered. Stop being a hero and put yourself first.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 03:22 PM
8

Sounds like she's got issues. Don't make her problems yours too.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 02:41 PM
1

Maybe steal your social security number too.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:16 PM
1

Honestly, I've been in situations where I just couldn't handle it myself and made changes to extract her from my life. I'm sure as we get older, we will get better at tolerating it. If you're younger and have an option to get away from her I would recommend it, despite the costs
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:15 PM
2

Civil engineering. I wouldn't recommend it. If you want to do engineering look at chem, electrical, mechanical, or computer.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:08 PM
1

Yes definitely. Great book.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:40 AM
2

Asking a question like that means you know there's a problem, gut feelings are enough. What it is? Who knows? Its a significant issue whatever it is, the LTR is already on its way to ending. Make sure you're on your way to hitting the ground running when it ends. When you find a plate you want to pursue, hit the breaks on this LTR. Tell her you're not exclusive anymore over text and let her run herself weary before engaging any bullshit. Literally, get a close with a new girl and before/after se…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:17 PM
2

Sit your ass down with 48 laws of power. The point isn't to apply at first but allow it to register. The problem is that ,in the moment, you don't have an accurate barometer on the situation. You don't see the issues with other people's behavior that's going to affect you long term. That's why it only clicks later. Eventually you'll develop instincts. You'll be wary when someone starts being nice to you suddenly and instead of being charmed, you'll wonder what kind of shit this guy's trying to p…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:06 AM
2

Right. Women are not that valuable. Inherently. Demonstratably. There are methods more or less despicable than others but the prize hasn't changed. They're only one facet of what life has to offer. They are primarily a means to an end, which is passing on your genes to a new generation partially of your making. The fantasy you speak of is a lie that's led many men to pain and suffering. Fortunately, your understanding of the situation enables you to spend the rest of your life chasing what you f…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:41 PM
2

That analogy warps the truth about the game. It does not address the potential benefits for knowing how to play it and implies that a despicable environment/means is a necessity . Understanding means you have an opportunity to equip yourself to win benefits (women, money, power, status, etc). Truth takes away the hopes we all had for getting a particular kind of female devotion and love. It does, however, also show us how to get similar things that are genuine and enjoyable instead. Some people …
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:09 PM
4

The subject of paying or not paying is more of an avenue she can use to test you rather than something you need to have a policy on. As you point out, the evaluating your decision alone carries contradiction. That solidifies when she adds context to your decision. Pay or don't pay on your whim. Be on your toes for some kind for test to not take seriously.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:51 PM
1

Remind yourself that there are zero repercussions for failure. They literally don't matter so you can do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:47 PM
1

You are making conclusions about something you don't understand. It's up to you what you do from here. Either put in the effort to learn and understand or drop it and find another way. Would you treat anything else in your life as if you completely understood it after putting in one month's half hearted effort into learning about it? I sure hope not.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:45 PM
6

Wasn't there a post about facial recognition software for porn stars?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:36 PM
3

No. It's cathartic. It's peaceful. There's no longer cognitive dissonance: believing that being a good man results in valuable women while regularly witnessing undermining evidence. You see the levers that make the world work and then get to businesses learning how to operate them. Finally, you can appreciate and enjoy people for what they really are. When you stop deceiving yourself about what people's motivations are or should be, you're no longer surprised by their activity. This gives you th…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:14 PM
29

straight up. I once had a random acquaintance from my hometown reach out through to a girl I plated by combing through my friends list FB. Never even met her and he lives 1000+ miles away. I could not believe it. He told me his networking strategies aren't my business,like holy fuck.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:35 PM
2

Those rich guys tend to be hollow, cocky but lacking substance. All the more encouraging.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:12 PM
1

That's a good point. I never thought about how a number of them are actively valuing other attributes since one ingredient is in abundance already.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 06:33 PM
2

I know what you mean. I dated the daughter of one of north America's most highly respected CEO's. She was absolutely batty. Typically, the rich girls come with a deep sense of entitlement and constantly compare you to Daddy. The plight is that her hypergamy is in hyper drive, on average. Now for the solution. I can only speak from wisdom in failure so take it with a grain of salt. First, choose areas other than monetary to demonstrate your superiority. You realized that there is one area you can…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 06:14 PM
14

There's an issue here. You're wondering to yourself "can I earn back a specific girl after being beta by exhibiting alpha behavior". If you think one girl is worth modifying your behavior then she is controlling how you behave which is breaking a basic rule: giving someone else control over you. Basically, you've got it backwards. It's not "I want to get this girl so I'll be alpha". It's "i am going to work towards being alpha and tons of girls are going to dig that." Understand that no one girl…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:36 PM
2

Stick to action. If she did something you didn't like, pull back. When she does something you like, push in a bit. Never acknowledge the cause. Nexting every girl who subtly disrespects you will put you through every girl in the world. Pick something you're in control of and downgrade it. Take her to cheaper restaurants for instance. Awesome that you're an attorney, I'm an engineer but I'm working on the lsats now.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 01:24 AM
2

Get back to the material so you can ask informed questions. You're still in anger,denial, sadness phase. It will pass, keep improving, type like you're not 10 years old next time.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:02 PM
1

Play checkers.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 07:58 PM
2

First, I agree with you. Criticism welcome. ​ Second, this argument is flawed. It's assuming that, because a bad decision was made in the past, that a good decision cannot be made in the future. This overlooks an essential part of the female strategy, which is very strong. A woman is actually making very rational choices for herself here, which argues against the point that her decision making is poor. The truth is that shirking responsibility and hoarding choice power is intelligent. In the cas…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:18 PM
1

Rough, sorry to hear of your troubles. One thing that doesn't get talked about as much as the degradation of women is the degradation of men. Don't misconstrue, men are definitely under attack from ideological groups which does rightfully get discussed often. The common guy is so submissive and childish, they are part of what feeds such female behavior. There's a vicious cycle at play here: men pumping women's egos by allowing themselves to be crushed, and women continuing to crush more men as t…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:13 PM
2

Yes for sure.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 10:39 PM
18

Yeah. You know the answer.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:40 AM
5

It's just a tinder girl. I say go. Good or bad it will be an experience for you.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:29 PM
2

the response you'll get depends on where people are in their development, a lot of people just joined and have a lot of frustrated feelings. That's up to you. If you came here looking for opinions I figured you wanted to talk about it. Maybe throw an edit in with more detail so people get where you're coming from.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:49 PM
0

Yeah we deal in logic here and leave the morality up to the people making their choices. We don't here a lot of personal accounts directly from women on cheating on the site, why don't you tell us about the situation and what's going on in your head?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:47 PM
3

Honestly, the situation sounds pretty positive. Preselection cued her sense of value towards you. She friend zoned you and expected thirsty worship like she always gets, didn't get it. Now she really wants your attention. I'd act like a cocky son of a bitch. You're in her mind and you know it, shes not far from fantasizing about you. Now she's the one orbiting you. Bring this new girl back and fuck her good, she'll wish it was her. Keep up the outcome indifference, gradually get more aloof. Purs…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:41 PM
2

It's up to you. That's a personal decision that has consequences you must own.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:27 PM
1

I like that idea. Make it clear that you're doing it, it's only a problem if you show her it is.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:40 PM
2

They just do that instinctually. It's not great but I think it'll be easier for you if you start to expect that of women. Lower the bar.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:04 AM
2

I hope to find out for myself. If you really want to spook yourself, spend a little time with gen Z girls. Dunning-Kruger and entitlement are astounding. I haven't met a single one that I thought was developing the skills to mother either.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 08:34 PM
8

Agreed, gotta play the game if you wanna win.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 06:30 PM
6

I hear the ladies in kiev are pretty great.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 12:14 PM
12

Damn, you sound too good to be true. I've started to believe nothing like that exists with all the backstabbing, credit stealing, blame insulation, etc. It blew me away when I laid out all the effort I had to plan and execute a project only to get hung for a mistake someone else made, completely torn down and thrown in the sand box; that changed me. Especially after navigating us away from some serious icebergs and pulling every imaginable shift to monitor work. I'm no victim though, my mistake …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 01:33 AM
13

Someone trying to subvert your expectations with illogical arguments, the telltale sign of a scam. Most of the time you can judge a book by its cover.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 03:00 PM
1

I think it's something that's really only useable in very specific scenarios. If she does something serious, something violent for example. It has to be used at the moment the transgression occurs, not in "discussions" over time. It explains the stakes of her actions. "Do X again and Y will happen". You have to be committed to it, no backing out. Once X happens, no more talk.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 11:30 AM
3

Rule number 1) Never outshine the master
/r/askTRP20/05/19 02:39 AM
2

Not bad. Keep it simple too. No reason you can't replace one of those with steak, potatoes, and add a a vegetanle.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 07:02 AM
3

Like her friends bikini pictures
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:16 PM
3

Borderline is a term that was used to describe someone who is "on the borderline" between psychosis and neurosis. Since the term borderline was coined, the conventions for describing mental illness around it changed as well so it's not really relevant or accurate anymore. It's a blanket term for someone who acts like a fucking nutcase but doesn't have a classifiable disorder. It's psychiatrist speak for "this dumb bitch needs to be put on meds".
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:12 PM
1

Of cheetohs?
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:02 PM
1

Totally obliterated
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:01 PM
1

Insecurity is an emotion. Learn to control it. The best way is through mixing self improvement with distraction. You've come to value this girl, make sure you find ways to value yourself more and avoid fixating on her.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:01 PM
1

You are orbiting. Disengage. Pull out. Rendezvous for extraction. Get the fuck out. They're talking shit about what a bitch you are. Guarantee it. Glad you had the sense to leave, don't look back.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:57 PM
3

Straight up, tinder is fun if you just say jackass shit.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:50 PM
2

Dude that stuff is bullshit. I've scored all over the scale on Myers Briggs, it gauges your mood; not even your personality which is also fluid. A thing makes you anxious because you don't understand it well enough to gauge how your actions will have consequences. Smart guys can see the possible failure outcomes and those outcomes generate the fear. Realize that there are no consequences for failure in the right context and practice what makes you uncomfortable until you are comfortable with it.…
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:48 PM
1

The universal true right there. Like fuck.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:39 PM
7

Ask her if she's ever slept with a world class checkers player before.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:38 PM
7

Hard next. Fuck that. Zero tolerance policy for flakes, second chance for an act of god. Your time is absolutely sacred. If she's done this once, she will do it again. If she'll do it with something small, she'll do it with something big. She will do what she feels she can get away with. Don't soft next flakes because this shit is going to continue. This is going to happen a lot on tinder by the way.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:32 PM
3

The gene pool would get more homogenous as the top percentage of men propagate greatly. Post wall women will agree to compromise on the value of their mate in exchange for resources. Open hypergamy isn't a big deal, I'm more concerned about what comes next. Cultural and economic policy shifts will continue to sever male and female relationships until we're not procreating at all. Why our leaders would want this? I have no idea.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:29 PM
49

Post her picture on social media and caption the synopsis, make her a meme to save couches everywhere.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:14 PM
2

As a beginner, I think it's best to focus on making the lifestyle change and learning form. No problem with your question, it's good that you're exploring ideas. The best thing you can do is make sure your diet is right, hit the gym 4-5 days a week without fail for a few months.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 03:09 PM
9

Another tool in their kit for bringing down alphas and pushing over betas. It's one that had gotten particularly sharp in the past few years. Post wall women seem to be particularly destructive, a lot of cognitive dissonance occurs when their value decreases outside of their control.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 02:55 PM
1

like the brozone idea. That's a solid one.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 02:43 AM
1

Hey sounds like a nice thing for other girls to hear about from your friends, preselection. Well done.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 11:58 PM
1

Booyah. Yup. Now that you know how the game works, all that's left is to play.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 07:54 PM
2

I'm assuming this is LTR from pre trp? You left yourself wide open to get wounded and that's what happened. It's going to take time before you feel better. A lot of time. Keep following the principles an eventually it will get better. It's been a year since things went South with my old oneitis. Its still a painful memory but it gets easier every day still, much better than it was.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:47 PM
5

She felt like an idiot, which she was. She had all the imagined scenarios going on in her head to explain why you weren't responding and how she was going to retaliate. All along, you just didn't see any of her messages while she was hamstering at light speed. She didn't consider that. She was being a fool. A+ to you sir.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 02:11 PM
2

The question you're really asking here: I think I've found a unicorn and I want to change my behavior now for this one girl, is that okay? It's up to you man. The core of TRP is doing what you think is best. Maybe you'll prove the theories wrong, probably not. If what you're doing got you to picking up a girl you want to LTR, does it really make sense to start changing your behavior? She'll push for a relationship with you if she wants one on her own, all you have to do is play your cards right …
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:02 PM
1

Screw this girl, she rejected you. You don't need her. Get your shit right and things will start falling into place. A girl saying she won't fuck you means she thinks that you are beneath her. Whenever she's around she will publicly undermine you, getting in the way of your situation getting better. Keeping her around after an LJBF tells everyone you're happy to degrade yourself which is even worse. This keeping her around for her, "hot friends" is BS, this is just an excuse to keep your oneitis…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:08 AM
1

The best girls I've been with knew how to fix that. Part if it's on her.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:54 PM
1

Has he found an alternative for his content yet? I'd hate to never see his stuff again.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 12:15 PM
3

The biggest mistake I made relating to college was not making my own decisions, I just did what my narcissistic father told me to. It was not a waste of time but it wasn't optimal. Ask yourself who you want to be. A Mcdonalds register boy? A bartender? A car mechanic? A business owner? A chiropractor? A rocket scientist? CEO? If you have trouble, start by asking yourself what you want to have and more questions should follow from there. You may have to sit down and try more than once. College is…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 09:59 PM
187

Which one of you fuckers wrote that for her?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 09:48 PM
5

"everything about the world is about sex except sex, sex is about power."
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:51 PM
19

One theory I've been toying with: cheaters enjoy the act of being caught. Part of the reason they do this shit is the stakes. The excitement of potentially getting caught. Cheating is not a release, it's a build up. Getting caught is the release. Approaching her about the behavior is getting her off. Break her game, block her out from your life completely. Enjoy the thought of her totally unsatisfied.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 03:54 PM
1

Great line
/r/askTRP15/05/19 03:50 PM
5

Woohoo, everyone is an autist like me now!
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 08:45 PM
2

Just ignore
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:15 PM
2

Yep. Remember, she'll be too busy getting self conscious to notice "butthurt" behavior on your end if you rapidly pull the plug.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:22 PM
2

That's a bitch man. My mom had Hodgkin's too. I hope your mom made it out okay. Better days ahead bud.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 12:47 PM
1

Damn, sorry to hear man. I know a few people with something like that. To better days ahead.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 02:09 AM
2

That's tough man, i'll count myself lucky for finding this place before i ran myself into a marriage.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 02:07 AM
1

Damn, that sounds rough.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 12:20 AM
1

You should go on 3
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:21 PM
17

I love the idea of a sign, that's a great idea. I'm definitely going to implement that myself.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 05:14 PM
18

How did she know who he was well enough to accuse him? I guess if you're going to be a good Samaritan nowadays you can't tell people who to give the credit to.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 03:45 PM
2

Hey that's cool. Best of luck. I'm obviously no guru but im acquainted with the industry.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:32 PM
1

I like that. Real simple. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:31 AM
2

Yes, 6 years. It was fun and I did well. I managed some huge contracts successfully, but I want to go in a different direction now.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:30 AM
3

Maybe. I don't see any reason to qualify what I've done or what I'm going to do.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:27 AM
2

Awesome. Thanks man, I'll implement.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 01:27 AM
1

I've thought about that too. Best plan I can come up with: find a girl significantly lower smv with the skills to be a mother (not unicorn, just filtered), develop a contract that protects you in exchange for your financial help and time, have 3-5 children, do not cohabitate or marry or create joint accounts. It's essential that we find means to procreate unfettered, even if it's not easy.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:31 PM
1

You've got your work cut out for you. I strongly encourage you to take a dive in the sidebar. You'll be so much better for it. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 10:51 PM
1

The classic "women are children" thing. I don't know why either but it's common.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 01:20 AM
2

Yeah it sounds like you know the answer. I personally keep a zero tolerance policy for flaking with cases like you're talking about. If it happens once it will happen again and if they'll do it with something small then they'll do it with something big. I don't know how much talking is going to do for you, maybe next time she send you message be more direct. Tell her you don't feel she's reliable enough to commit your time to. That still sounds kind of butthurt though.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 01:06 AM
2

You need to get away from the idea of seeking relationships and move towards seeking harems. You do not have the skills to maintain a dedicated relationship until you can balance multiple chicks at one time. There are important skills that you need to sharpen. You are not ready for a relationship. Stop talking to her, cold turkey, no interaction whatsoever. Avoid her. Start executing on the material available here so you can build yourself into someone who can be the object of a woman's desire i…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:18 PM
1

Is there a question in here?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 05:06 PM
1

If you have a place of your own, in education or decent job, goals, and routine in place: start going out.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 07:50 PM
2

Pic and current BF%. I'm sure you're fine. Keep in mind that you're not in your prime yet.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:13 PM
1

How much do you listen to Nomad Capitalist? Have you found that guy's stuff to be useful? On one hand there are a lot of negative stories out there about him but on the other that could be part of what it takes to "break free".
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 01:50 PM
2

Smile, nod up, look at a different part of the face (forehead, ears, nose). I used to struggle with this too. If it escalates then that's their fault for being weird.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:35 PM
42

Practice eye contact as you walk down the street, count the number of seconds and try to increase it each time. It'll be weird at first but you'll get better at it.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:53 PM
1

One thing that seems help people i know is when i casually show them some of the horror stories you see around. Men are logical so they want to be presented with evidence to make changes to their own frame, not enter yours. Never digest it for them, otherwise they will attack your views. a simple "hey check out this weird article, crazy right?" Just tell people you read a lot of articles if they call you out on it somehow and/or cushion the articles with something unrelated to women.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:51 PM
2

Yeah, it's probably not a huge deal yet. Merely she sees an opportunity to get some validation she doesn't even want.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 08:57 PM
3

I wouldn't take it as an indication of your value. It's just the invisible rank the dropped on your forehead in their minds. Pay it no heed, don't let something as ephemeral as a woman's disposition determine your worth. Youre fine, my only caution is to avoid seeing any one woman as higher value than the others. See women as a collective well, as a whole; not comprised of individual trophies. They like to use that against you.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 08:54 PM
1

I see. He also states in 2010 that they are places outside of first world influence that don't demonstrate this. Have you observed this? I haven't traveled enough to know. I wonder if there any bastions remaining at this point.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 08:26 PM
2

Sounds like pre-selection to me. She heard that other girls are interested so she's wondering what all the fuss is about. Something along the lines of "i could get that before this other girl if i wanted to" when she was checking him out. I'm not an expert on LTR's, but I would recommend gaming other girls. Get some new girls in your life to dread her and have something on the line in case her behavior worsens. It's starting to get under your skin and that's going to be a problem when she starts…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:57 PM
5

Female friends will ALWAYS turn on you. They'll go out of their way to cockblock you and I can guarantee they have no intention of sleeping with you. They will not take your positive change kindly, they're already talking shit about you behind your back and that will get a lot worse. They're not going to introduce you to someone you can sleep with either, women know that "my friend" = "my bitch". The moment they see an orbiter declare themselves as a budding alpha, they move to squash you so don…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:47 PM
3

Seems like a good resource. I've read, thirty or so posts so far and I'm really enjoying it. He consistently brings up the notion that the sexual marketplace in westernized cultures is not the way it should be. Jointly, he writes that there places where women are competing for the best men instead of seeking men based on their dysfunction. See post #10. As the author, accurately, predicts of me as a US that hasn't inhabited the places he's talking about, I'm firmly entrenched in AWALT burrows. A…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 05:37 AM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:52 PM
1

Yeah I was thinking the same. 24 yo so might be a good time to leave town. Find a job that fits who you are now. See if you can get some counseling if there's some shit in your life. Lift. Cut out bad habits. pick up good ones. Start looking for a path in life. Tell you're dad you want to turn things around but you think being in your home town isn't going to help, need a fresh start in a new place.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:02 PM
2

Troll
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:57 PM
1

Yeah, I think it might he fun to join in when you're really high value. I'm not there yet so it's better to ignore that stuff
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:54 PM
3

Hey, me too. I've been happier for it.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:16 PM
11

That's a waffling answer. She likes you but doesn't like you by an indiscrete amount? Complete BS answer, totally meaningless and gives you nothing to work with. If she was interested, she would be moving boulders to be in your camp. Instead, she's feeding you garbage meant to keep you at status quo. Women initiate when they want a relationship so if she's deflecting then she is way outside of "thinking" about it.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:15 PM
2

Eletrical engineering or comp eng maybe? I knew a guitarist that did EE, he works for a big name guitar brand now. Marketing or management could work too. Don't limit yourself to just playing.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 11:25 AM
2

Get off your phone. Drop the videogames completely. Avoid drugs and alcohol, lift instead. Pick one thing to get talented at (not a life's work, just something to be good at). Kick academia ass. If you go to college pick STEM or business if some opportunity doesn't open up prior. If not, I recommend skilled trades with prevailing wage rates. This is for starters, always jump on golden opportunities but watch out for scams. Fuck close friends, get acquaintences and social power; don't be genuine …
/r/askTRP23/04/19 03:25 AM
2

I couldn't imagine going to my grave without being able to play piano pieces from my favorite composers, never running in the Boston Marathon, never completing my travel list, so on etc. What can you think of that you can't do today? What are the things that you wouldn't care if you ever did? What are the things that you would? The truth is, almost every friend you make will be among the most entitled people in your life. They'll expect things out of you when they have no right. They'll stab you…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:04 AM
6

There's definitely sense to that. I've been noticing how much more instinctual women are than men. Don't take my words the wrong way. My lack of full understanding does not purport the ethics of the issue thanks for commenting.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 03:48 PM
26

It's a strange world, feminine liberation somehow equates to sexual promiscuity. Makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 03:09 PM
9

There are always going to be outliers who break the norm, military training creates effective soldiers, if a chick can hang with the guys and wants to then just let her. Nothing wrong with women competing with men at their level if she can keep up, theres only something wrong if she expects to be accommodated. Her instincts will always be different in relationships therefore "awalt", but this example is why it's important to approach people subjectively too
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 04:08 AM
1

She didn't want to meet with you so she chose to delay texting you to an hour which you'd be most likely to reject meeting. I strongly recommend the zero tolerance policy on illegitimate excuses for not following through on plans. You decide where your borders are, this woman showed you that she thinks wasting your time is okay. Is that okay with you? If not, your plans should never hinge on her again. The best response is none.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:20 AM
1

I think the answer is whatever is too crazy for you. Trust your own judgement, ask yourself what you're willing to put up with. Establishing your borders is your responsibility, it's risky but it's fun. I enjoy it but I make sure theyre gone before they can do damage.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:03 AM
3

My situation isn't drastically different from yours. My parents split when I was a teenager (the family is way better for it). I left my engineering job after 5 years to pursue big opportunities with my dad. It's been really great, he's a natural alpha and getting the chance to get to know him as a direct male subordinate is enriching for now. My mom was nagging me incessantly about my decision and obviously did not listen to reason. Eventually I chose to block her after she called me 5 times in…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:57 PM
1

You can do it man. Set your mind on something and tell anyone who disagrees to fuck off. Don't get your ego top wrapped up in your choices though, stay agile. Don't have kids.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:24 PM
2

I like this post. The thoughtfulness and effort really shows. Some things I want to talk about. There's an underlying assumption here. You're portraying that your life could either include personal success or relationship success at its Apex, not both. Your choice is to either stay in the Balkans and find the optimal relationship at the sacrifice of your career or find your stratospheric career in the US at the sacrifice of the relationship. In truth, there is no correlation between the two and …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 12:07 PM
2

It's not a spectrum. Its just a mindset, a set or ideas that govern your mean responses to the world. You get to know yourself better, you change the way people perceive you, and your understanding other people helps you know what course to take. You don't stop having emotions because you read the stuff here, you just learn how they fit into the world we live in.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:14 AM
1

In retrospect, was there anything about the trip that might have foreshadowed her behavior? I have some ideas but I'm curious what you think.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 12:17 AM
10

To each their own but I think it's important to be a man of your word. If by gf you mean you gave this girl your word of commitment then going back on that isn't right if your word is important to you. It depends what your personal moral code is, I'm not sure if being a man of your word is the best strategy so it's up to you. I wouldn't get into detail with gf. I would just tell her that you don't want to be committed anymore but you're still down with whatever. Don't allow the conversation to s…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:15 PM
1

Oneitis
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:18 PM
3

Thanks for this. It's s good reminder of how much I have yet to learn.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 03:19 PM
1

I like cookies now and then even though I know fruit is better for me.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:01 AM
1

No, I'll take a look. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 10:33 AM
1

Thanks for the tip. You nailed the phone / bed link. That's part of what's keeping me up too.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:02 AM
1

That's encouraging. Thanks. I was able to cut Snapchat and Instagram, I hardly touch my Facebook. I've read a few books this year so far. I don't have my consoles with me for the first time in forever, it's just league of legends that's getting me now. I lift at least 4 times a week and run / stretch. I feel like I gave the wrong vibe, there's been a lot of progress due to lurking but some of my deeper habits have been harder to kick. I've been playing videogames since I was talking and jerking …
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:01 AM
1

Yeah I read one of his books. That's actually part of how I got here originally. Do you have any specific recommendations? Big fan of him.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:46 AM
1

Cool.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:20 PM
1

Thanks, I'll give it a shot
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:48 PM
1

I lift religiously. I was a competitive athlete before trp and I started lifting more seriously after advice like that. I'm also marathon training but plan on quitting running for something else at 30. Exercise has helped. I'm not looking for a have, more asking if there's something I should be doing different if I'm experiencing failure
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:47 PM
1

I do. Then I just remind myself nothing matters so fuck it, I can do whatever I want and if I don't reach my goals after trying then I'll still have a shitload of fun.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:31 PM
1

Enjoy the attention. This is not a problem.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:01 AM
2

I wouldn't recommend trying to get someone to change. It's important for that to happen at their own pace. However, if you want to help someone be different, then you typically need to get them behind some kind of extraneous goal of mutual agreement. If I wanted to motivate athletes to have a better diet and lift heavier weights, I'd tell them their goal is to be the best looking group out there. That way, they are improving as athletes without creating a battle of wills in a coach v team clash.…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 11:40 AM
1

There is a big difference between deception and game. In part,gaming a woman is about lying to get into bed with her, she wants someone who has the tools needed to get what they went; even by nefarious means. They don't like a guy whos learned to wear colors that aren't his, but I think on some level that scores some points too.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 11:19 AM
0

Yeah I've got one plate that pulls that shit. She hit in me in the face once and I told her if she does that again that I'll walk out the door and never come back, hasn't tried it since but I'm sure she will.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:13 AM
2

Yeah, primary aggressor is the one more physically capable of inflicting harm. That's the one they have to arrest. This also sets off a chain of reaction in court that doesn't end well. It prevents men from getting assistance from government programs meant to help the abused. I always tell people to go to the hospital, if you get seriously abused by a woman, and tell them you fell down the stairs.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:12 AM
1

One point I make with this is that 10's are only marginally better than 5's. For the most part, a 5 can do anything a 10 can do; sometimes better sometimes worse. They talk, walk, fuck the same (overall or without correlation to hotness). Yes I would absolutely go after the more attractive girl, but this mental judo helps me to remind myself that this dumb bitch is not nearly as superior as she thinks she is over the average girl just because she looks a certain way; in fact she might be inferio…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:44 PM
1

Obviously game aspects need some honing but that's always a work in progress. I think the best way to say it is that you've got form down but not substance, like a chocolate Easter bunny. If what you say is true, you probably seem hollow and directionless. I know you say you've found a mission but I'm a bit skeptical, that part is really hard to find and this sounds like the question someone who hasn't found one would ask. Devote yourself to something, join a team or volunteer regularly. Don't d…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:35 PM
1

No, but it can't be your top priority and still maintain a reasonable half life. You come first, always. Most people find the best way is to be willing to throw it away at a moment's notice so that they can leave consequences without fear of repercussions.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 11:06 PM
2

Chin up man. Your life is your own, you dont owe anything to anyone. If this is how you want to live there is no shame in that. Nobody gives a fuck about anyone else, so you're free. No one cares what you look like so it doesn't really matter. If you want a different life, just choose. Pick something new, become someone new. Be a welder, a mechanic, a bartender, an athlete, a pilot. Anything you want. Also, make sure to find a good therapist or a strong male role model to talk to about your suic…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:59 PM
5

Bit of a catch22 you're in. Either you start acting like an asshole and do what she says or keep being nice and ignore her. Yikes. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 12:27 PM
1

Agreed, I like debit cards for now but I'd like to move into credit cards later for the benefits you mention. I found the debit a really nice tool to keep me disciplined in the early stages.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:07 AM
11

I was an engineer as well, civil. Make a mental commitment for five years. Work at least two jobs in that time but try not to bounce around too much. You'll come to understand a lot in that time. Noone is going to teach you anything so get rid of the mentee mindset now and focus on what you have to do in order to outpace your peers (any teaching people do reinforces the idea that you suck, reject assistance if you can). Don't take anyone's word on what's done or how to do anything, noone knows w…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:47 PM
2

Great resource!
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:06 PM
2

Sorry to hear that happened to you. I'm glad you got through it and that you're improving now.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 03:58 PM
2

Literally any woman.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:40 PM
4

Absolutely, I can see where youre coming from. One thing I've noticed is that ugly girls talk the most, she'll sing the praises and get other ones intrigued.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:15 AM
1

Nahhhh it's fine. It's not validation if she gets zero commitment. ONS then pass.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:12 AM
5

Bang her dude, give the people what they want.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:51 AM
5

Nope women are information brokers. Anything you tell them they view as currency provided to them, that's why they think people who tell them stuff without getting something in return are suckers. When you open up, they just think you're an idiot for showing them your weak points. Then they start thinking about how vulnerable you are to other people and lose faith that you can protect and provide, that's when they leave.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:27 PM
6

High gpa's matter. Get one and you'll be glad you did when you want to change courses later. It's a silly game but a helpful one to win.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:50 PM
5

That's a good point, I hadn't thought of it like that.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 11:06 PM
284

Don't discuss, take action. Great example. This is levying consequences in a way a lot of men don't nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 03:25 PM
2

Great advice. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:37 PM
1

Should be fine for now. Getting to the gym, doing your workouts quickly and with focus is the big part. What about your diet? Can you add that?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:44 PM
1

The content of his descriptors? If so, I agree.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 06:41 PM
1

Yeah, makes sense. For instance, blameshifting on fathers for how children turn out.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:57 PM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:52 PM
2

I think you're right about responsibility. I think that the real issue is that he's using responsibility in place of subjugation which is a feminine trait. Thanks for bringing up your argument.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:52 PM
2

Interesting. Let's see, women are responsible for raising children in traditional values right? Perhaps the questions that immediately follows responsibility is "for what". Responsibility as a trait could mean capable of being responsible: stable, dependable, vigilant, etc. I absolutely agree that the capability of being responsible is a male aspect, in this specific case it is nefarious. Responsibility in this case is indistinguishable from subjugation, a moral argument for serving others as th…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:46 PM
2

Awesome. I'm glad someone understands what I'm trying to say. At this point, I'd rather have acquaintances than friends. I'm in a transitional phase and suddenly people are throwing dirt in my face. My take is that people have interpreted the changes I'm making as an opportunity to bring the things they've said behind my back directly to me, which only displays disloyalty in the first place. I used to have a high profile job but I left it in order to pursue a huge opportunity, people feel that's…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:40 PM
1

I went back and forth on that actually. I think that it's contextual. If the responsibility is for the well being of these in his retinue I would agree with you. If the responsibility is a man's obligation to give up his resources I disagree. The risk taking factor of a male persona is also a part of the equation.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 03:26 PM
1

That's real. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:58 PM
3

Great story, thanks man. That's encouraging.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:57 PM
29

The number of feminine descriptors for masculinity: compassion, kindness, caring, responsibility, good. All the while men are supposed to "work hard", give up your resources in the name of masculinity. Barack Obama's recipe for being a complete bitch.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 01:58 PM
19

People have problems when they don't have the power to solve them. Telling someone your problems really tells them what you are lacking as a person. That's something they will use against yiu, especially loved ones. Being close to someone is not displaying weakness, it's the amount and quality of tome you've spent together. Demonstrating weakness does not bring couples together. There's no benefit, only detriment.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 01:48 PM
2

The point of men and women interacting is to procreate, that's it. When women act right, it's a wonderful experience. Boy they can be a pain in the ass though. I think this train of thought is going to lead to some growth for you. We're all searching for what's valuable in life so that we can figure out what's important to do now. I don't know the answers but it sounds like you're asking the right questions.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:42 PM
1

People never do something just once and they will continue doing something they feel they can get away with, if they can do this with something small they'll do it with something big. You caught her texting a guy behind your back and you caught her trying to hide it. A conversation with the guy or the girl will do nothing, don't talk take action. There have to be consequences when women pull shit, not discussions. I recommend starting a downhill slope in your commitment. Small increments. Change…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:35 PM
3

I used to row a lot. I felt like that brotherhood was supposed to be on the teams but it just wasn't. Honestly it felt like being in a women's team. You know, I boxed for a while and I did get a sense of what you're talking about. I'll pick that back up when I can. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:27 AM
1

Rather than delve into my psychology, opinions, and life more; I'd appreciate hearing the experiences on healthy friendships before and after trp.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:53 AM
1

Yes definitely. That's why I found women so competitive in early career stages, besides the feminism support.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 01:20 AM
1

Women constantly get validating attention from many sources all the time (social media, cold approaches, whatever). You don't want to be one of the guys who she views as a source for validation on demand. You want to be the guy she wants validation from hut can't get it without earning it, without competing for it. Check out Robert greens law of human nature for the law of covetousness for an explanation on value if things in absence. The goal is to throttle the attention you give to women once …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:27 PM
0

Wife up and find out.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:13 PM
3

Okay, it's a necessary thing. Go hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:02 PM
10

Okay. A lot of people do what you are doing right now and it is detrimental to you. Stop posting long stories for the sake of getting validation and attention from the sub. This is why you posted multiple times about the same thing. You are not looking for diverse opinions, you're looking for as much discrete attention as possible. You know the reasons why she did it already (AWALT, validation, not attracted to you). You know what to do (dread, ramp up self improvement, game more women). If thes…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:32 PM
1

Wtf?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:03 AM
7

That's why you should never trust someone arguing from a moral point, the inverse can always be twisted into existence. It's morally just to empower women so that they cannot be overpowered by the evil men. It's morally just not to empower women because the evil men should be the ones to change. It's all nonsense. Morality is a mistress, logic is King. People have to protect each other and themselves in order to survive. Thanks for the post.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 12:57 AM
4

I think a lot of people feel monk mode should include abstinence. I guess it depends on what you feels your needs are but definitely start in a place where women are not the focus of your personal growth. Find something else, like being a fucking badass.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:58 PM
24

I would argue that this concept is already applied across many forms of human interaction. Having a viable alternative before entering negotiation is a common tactic to gain leverage, is it not?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:51 PM
5

Yeah seems fine. Find more girls. Sometimes, when a girl is taciturn, I exit a conversation after she inquires about something. "I miss doing x for a few reasons" "why do you miss x". Wait for a double text or reinitiate a conversation later.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:30 PM
3

A hot girl is not capable of anything discretely better than an average one. She talks, walks, gives birth. Part of it is a mantra to avoid oneitis and part of it is understanding real value vs perceived value so we don't give up a ton of control for something only marginally better than the alternative. Primarily, it is a mindset that benefits your well being.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:16 PM
1

Bikram yoga. That should fix it.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:42 AM
4

It's a progression. The best way, I've heard, of finding an LTR is to be ONS, plating, FWB like a champ until one rises out of the bunch. A high paying job should attract both gold diggers and LTR material. You have an asset, use it and don't make it complicated. When you find one is a gold digger just cap their role and keep going. Good LTR material is attracted to a guy who is getting any women they want, get crackin.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 02:53 AM
2

Not sure. LTR candidacy is not something I understand well. How many girls are you playing? Do you have any other FWB? How is your self improvement coming? I hear it's like rp hard mode so I think the best measure is your status.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:28 AM
1

Because women enjoy hearing the sappy professions of love from someone who has demonstrated preselection, not despicable beta. Also, entertainers have nicredible frame control during their performances.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 09:19 PM
1

I think she was better looking when they met.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 09:13 PM
1

Yeah true. I'm thinking more like do whatever they say, ask them for leadership, demonstrate emotion but keep to himself. Yeah definitely not creep level or attachment seeking, you're right.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 06:58 PM
4

College grad moving into working world?
/r/askTRP16/02/19 05:01 AM
2

Don't be captain saveahoe. You mention that she experienced some kind of trauma in her youth. That is not your fault and you cannot change the repercussions of that affecting her ability to carry out interactions with you. That is a red flag, don't ignore those. Nothing wrong with sleeping with broken goods imo, we all should do it. But you have to keep these red flags in mind when she shows you it's time to cap her role in your life; she is plate material - maybe FWB but nothing more. Now, it s…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 04:00 AM
10

Honestly, start acting super beta. Turn them off.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:56 AM
0

2 is so important. That I definitely agree with.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 05:18 PM
3

Women are also formidable up until the age of 27. I find high performing women are very difficult to compete with in the workplace up until that point. They're socially sensitive, Machiavellian, and supported with handicaps. I think that contributes to their distorted sense of value too. Somehow though, talking to 40+ career women is like talking to a teenager though. That's the tough part of investing companies in a female's future, they're good short term but bad long term solutions. They reac…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 04:47 PM
4

Yeah exactly. With high risk items, I don't think there's anything wrong with doing them once in a while. It's the iteration of risk that gets people in trouble. It creates complacency and the numbers play the wrong way. I think I can make an exception for people who just can't live without it though, I feel that way about other risky things.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 04:41 PM
13

Don't do it. It will get you killed. I knew a guy who was an excellent motorist with 30 years experience; obeyed traffic laws and remained vigilant. I shook his hand after a job well done on friday. On monday morning, i found out that a vehicle failed to obey an all-way stop sign while he was moving through the intersection. Dead on impact... It's not the rider i don't trust, it's everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 04:31 PM
1

Thanks for the tip. I'm not sure that's going to work for me yet but further government involvement isn't off the table. I agree on hotel gyms, my experiences have been so hit or miss. The rat gym atmosphere are so much more motivating. I pay 35 for one I really like but I can cope with LA fitness if I have to. It's really cool stuff we're doing. Space and aeronautical vehicle brokerage/government use/training/research. Right now we're waiting to hear back from a VC guy for funding and conversat…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:24 PM
7

Right!? Fight bullshit with bullshit. My favorite is checkers. "What are we going to do tonight" "Play checkers" (fuck)
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:09 PM
12

Yes exactly, I had a plate say these words to me: "feminism is actually just applying masculinity to women". My jaw nearly dropped.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 03:21 PM
1

It sounds like its a perspective issue. Try focusing on throttling the belief that you're here to make other people happy and focus on how other people are here to make you happy. What purpose do other people serve for you? I find it valuable to make sure I'm looking at things from both perspectives.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:09 AM
34

"oh cool, I play basketball"
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:04 AM
2

I discovered my mission when I got my first glimpse into how the upper class live. Beyond imagination. They use it for bullshit and I want to do more. Some day, something will happen that inspires you; till then have a fuck ton of fun.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:36 AM
1

First thing I'd do is start to question some of these assumptions about who you are. To be honest with you, I think you're wrong about yourself. If you had wealth, power, status, and overwhelming strength I think you'd act differently. Typically, people who carry these principles fear the consequences of acting with congruence so they will misalign action and intent in order to generate the response they're looking for. The key is to become someone who knows how to use the tools available to the…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:39 AM
2

Yeah, I think diet is going to be the part that gets tested more. My current shape is 6' 212, 15%+. Squat/DL 225, press 155 for a full routine, not sure exactly where max falls but I doubt it's much higher. I typically run between 2-6 miles at a 8 min pace 3-4 times per week. Strenuous exercise was a part of my life before trp but I definitely have a lot to learn about bodybuilding. I meal prep and use a diet tracker but cheats are still a problem. Im excited about the new life opportunities but…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:55 PM
1

Okay. I'll check it out. Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:39 PM
1

Kind of. We're a government contractor. I end up on bases a lot which involves clearance, I'll have to look into it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:39 PM
1

Agreed, fuck excuses. I can't stand planet fitness, but maybe LA fitness will work.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:38 PM
1

Okay. Yeah, diet is going to be a real struggle. I managed to improve by just not buying junk food altogether to eliminate the choice. I gotta commit hard to that. Planning sounds like the right path.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:37 PM
1

Okay, I'll see if I can learn more about calisthenics. I've done body circuits before but my knowledge there is pretty slim.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:36 PM
1

Yeah definitely will if there is one with the given hotel
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:35 PM
8

It implies that, although men are stronger physically, women are stronger mentally. Outright false. I'd say something dumb like "yes, it needs plenty of stroking. More shots!"
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 01:36 PM
19

Great, comment. well said. The tape thing is so creepy.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 01:18 AM
119

It's astounding how inflated the female ego gets. Their hypergamous entitlement to something way out of their reach is craziness. She's a blogger, not Helen of troy. They love to cite how fragile male ego is, but when confronted with reality they simply cannot cope rationally. Obviously only a small part of the situation, but wow.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 08:44 PM
5

It took me way too long to put that together. That makes a lot of sense.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:32 PM
4

Dude, fuck Valentine's day. It's for the bitches. Let your plates wonder who you're celebrating with. Then go skydiving or something sick.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:37 AM
6

Plan something fun for yourself instead. I find it helps me when I find something I want to do alone to get my head off of a specific girl, it reminds you that you come first.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:24 AM
2

Seriously. There were times I thought I had ED... then I switched girls.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:30 AM
12

Lol. Yall suck
/r/askTRP09/02/19 11:04 PM
2

People never do something just once. she got drunk and slept with a guy She was attracted to and did it again later. It's all the typical mental judo after that. Fancy psychologist tend to miss the obvious conclusion, she's partaking in patterns that she enjoys.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 07:39 PM
1

Sounds like an ideal problem. I don't think there's anything to fix her unless you want her gone. Just ignore her I'd you don't want to talk to her ATM. I always tell girls I'm a bad texter.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:54 AM
3

Yeah, I dunno. It's a constant process and I'm hardly an expert. Happy trails, friend.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:36 PM
5

Their rhetoric is certainly confusing. What I should've seen before the red pill was that their arguments were likely BS because they were supported with morality not logic; but I needed that pointed out I guess. It's great though, it's nice to be able to have more genuine relationships with people once trp starts an acquaintance with the truth.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 05:23 PM
36

You know, I've been trying to put into words why I don't feel about partners the way I used to and that's close. It's honestly healthier I think, you stay more vigilant and stop depending on others to not hurt you in the name of "trusting relationships".
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 04:43 PM
17

Adapt and overcome. Just a different kind of bullshit.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:28 AM
6

I feel like those traits can be pretty handy survival skills. I'm sure you run into different challenges than the common person but I bet typical pitfalls aren't an issue for you.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:50 PM
21

I disagree. With the right outlook, looking back can be real healthy. I feel like so many people are walking ghosts. Most of us can barely recognize ourselves a few months ago, thinking back years it's just no comparison. Definitely avoid flogging yourself for your actions in a past life, but seeing your growth can be gratifying.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:48 PM
1

Try experimenting with different things. Whenever you're thinking about something just turn to someone and verbalize it. I had the same trouble till someone told me that the key is to let people in on your internal dialogue. Focus on what information you can glean from others more than what's best for you to say next. When all else fails ask about : work, family, hobbies, dreams.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 12:29 AM
6

Yeah, there's so much wrong with it. I had a conversation with a plate about exactly this too. Truly, feminism is an attempt to apply masculine paradigms to women. Ive come to believe that this is a concerted effort to disrupt the community fabrics of society and facilitate dependency on those in power. Women innately know something is wrong with carrying feminist beliefs, but they want men to take the power in the situation so that they don't have to deal with it anymore; only a man more powerf…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 04:36 PM
1

Imo in an LTR the girl does not have to put out, that's fine. But if she is not willing to meet your needs then the reasonable choice is to find someone else who will. Be responsible for your needs and make it clear what needs you want someone to satisfy by taking action. You have bigger problems under the surface here, I think. Withdraw commitment and attention. Go out on your own and spend time gaming other women. If she is not going to satisfy your tangible needs then your investment in her n…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:12 PM
1

They come in all shapes and sizes but what seems like the average girl fits great for me; I'm no Tommy ten inches either. Id theorize that deterioration is more of an issue after they give birth. there are so many girls out there, find ones you enjoy fucking and the rest is bullshit.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:41 AM
2

Nothing wrong with expressing your views, I find most people respect the truth. Just don't go around telling people where they came from.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:34 AM
2

Lie
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:54 PM
0

Only if she's got a dick
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:54 PM
5

Ego is such a difficult thing to overcome. Its so easy to forget to check yourself. This is the hardest pill to swallow for me. When you're making changes to improve yourself it's so easy to fall into a narcissistic pattern. I find it becomes difficult for me to empathize with people once I got lost in myself, limiting capacity for effective social interaction. If anyone's made headway with this, advice would be great to see.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 03:27 PM
5

Yep. That's how I feel too. It was a collossal marketing mistake. I think that's the marketing logic but that commercial doesn't exactly scream logical thinking. I'm sure their teams have been infected with toxic feminist emotology.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 04:55 PM
5

I was thinking about why they took this marketing tactic myself actually. I figure their ultimate goal is to increase sales right? Obvious. So if we figure it's true that women make the majority of purchasing decisions, they'll be more likely to choose a razor for their SO that supports the female imperative.. When men walk through the drug store aisles, they just grab the first one they see, at least I do. Even if you piss men off, I doubt their going to take a razor back to the store to return…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 04:46 PM
1

Are you plating other women? It might be easier with a girl that's lower on the scale. There's less pressure when you're not as concerned about the outcome with a less attractive girl. I also find that there are some girls I exhibit Ed and others I can't go soft with, a part of it might be a genetic compatability issue.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:38 PM
2

IDGAF attitude issue I think. I try to view all things that women bring to the table as valueless unless it directly benefits me. I keep her around for what she does for me, not for herself. Who gives a shit what she does outside of how she relates to me? I don't know how it different for LTR'S, I'm not ready for that yet.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:56 PM
10

This is why asktrp is a dumpster fire. Stop asking vcr questions and figure obvious shit out on your own. If it's not obvious to you, you haven't done the work on your own yet.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:54 PM
1

A few tips I can think of: stay out of their politics at all cost, in business interactions be very cautious of what your actions imply about someone's social rank, avoid one on one interactions as best you can, make friends with any guys you can or see if you can recruit male talent, DO NOT HOOK UP WITH ANYONE, avoid social outings and if you have to go try to make it brief, the higher your SMV the easier it's going to be for you to rise through the ranks, do not obey commands unless you absolu…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:09 PM
3

I don't think he's saying that # implies they are better, more that he's encouraging you to keep pushing yourself. Did you find an complete your mission? If you have, what is your next mission going to be?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:54 PM
2

Can't argue with that. If you're instincts are telling you to quit it I would do the same.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 10:27 PM
1

It's an outlet for discussion about self improvement without pretense, as best I can definitely it. Really,80% of the things you need to know to be a boss in life are here. The most important thing to remember is to always develop your own opinion. Try new beliefs in for size but if you agree with absolutely everything here then your learning is not genuine. Be original and critical.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:17 PM
5

That was my reaction. It shouldn't be important whether a women is exclusive to us or not unless we are in LTR or have kids. Even then I don't know. Even with my FWB, I don't care who else is in the picture; just that when I'm there I don't wanna hear about anyone else. Missed out on a lay it sounds like, but that's really it.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 10:14 PM
9

You can find hot girls anywhere. Quit acting thirsty and start focusing on your shit. Guys who fuck around at the gym piss everyone off,don't be that guy.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:17 PM
1

I know a submariner. One of the best men I've met. If you're not opposed to submarines they have fantastic prospects upon leaving the fleet I'd you graduate and perform at high ranks.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:57 PM
1

Compliance test. Comfort test.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:02 PM
3

I think that's one reason it's always important to see if the sun comes up in the west tomorrow. Always be scientific and checking your beliefs about the world. That's why AWALT is a theory and not a postulate. I find it fun to explore women I don't immediately like too, they're all a lot of fun when it comes down to it
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:01 PM
3

Construction. If you can get on a government rate job you'll make better money than your first job out of college. Operations experience is typically something missing on business/tech related graduates.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:47 AM
5

Ignoring you at plate stage pretty much downgrades her to unfuckable, she can't be ONS anymore right? The best use of her now is to get with her friends.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:08 AM
7

I feel like reading at all is a good step for most people. I use a section of Evernote devoted to books. Once I open up a new book I start a new note and anything of interest I stick in there. Really interesting to go back and re-read it. Ideally I feel like taking notes on paper is better but Evernote is so accessible. I disagree with most people here on fiction though. Always take it with a grain of salt though of course. I think the problem is that most people think of bad fiction like Harry …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 12:18 AM
8

Yeah I think that's perfectly reasonable too
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:21 AM
2

I don't think there's anything wrong with leaving it open ended. She didn't do anything to disrespect you in a way that makes her unfuckable. Tell her that you don't do LDR and when she gets back she can shoot you a text. No contact though during the 6 month rotation. Sounds like solid plate material, fwb maybe.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:26 AM
2

J both bezos and his wife met and married while working at D. B. Shaw, a reputable financial turned tech company(like everything) in the 90's. The idea of Amazon came from a single brainstorming session within db shaw that hatched many modern successful ventures. Bezos acted on the idea. Mackenzie certainly does not deserve bezos's wealth, but she's no dumbass. The way I see it, she stuck by her alpha during the fledgling days of Amazon when bezos' top investor was his own foster parents. AWALT …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 01:20 AM
1

Not quite. It's to utilize the best genetic material for their offspring. Otherwise they'd just screw any guy. But they don't. they are most attracted to the highest societal performers. I would agree that their goal is to reproduce with as many "top 20%" if that's what you mean.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:51 PM
1

Not at all. Her goal is to lock guys down, ours is to spread ourselves around. In that situation, she's screwing up and and we're satisfying our imperative. LTR pulls that she gets a pat on the ass on her way out a revolving door. A girl's actions have zero effect on our security. Our security is affected by how well we're keeping up with our goals.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:37 PM
7

Be the Robert greene
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:30 PM
2

I think all the responses here are unanimous on it. We've all felt it to one extent or another. Rp is a process. It takes time to digest and change you. Relish the journey, it's a really wonderful one.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:29 PM
2

Woof, eloquent and hard hitting. Thanks for this.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 01:43 PM
3

Been there. Read no more Mr Nice guy if you haven't already. What you believe are nice behaviors are actually toxic/manipulative defense mechanisms preventive people from getting close to you and being themselves around you. Ridding yourself of those will do a lot for your IDGAF.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:16 AM
2

Brutal. True.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:17 PM
2

Start by gaming other girls. I suspect she won't react well and will try to keep you on the hook; only interested in her. If she does that cut her loose until she acts right.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:51 PM
5

Some girls def have stronger frames than others. Attractiveness is a factor, but I've also met ugly girls with strong frame. Sense of entitlement maybe?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:38 PM
14

Oh man, great book. I operate much more on my my darker, more aggressive motivations. I feel much more comfortable acting the way that I feel. I spend less time trying to make people happy and focus on doing what I need to be happy. I feel a lot more comfortable with people being close to me and being honest about who I am. It's easier for me to let people be themselves than feeling like I have to fix things all the time. Generally, I'm a more complete person without all these insecure and depen…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:48 PM
5

Fuck your feelings, man. That's what I always tell myself. Imagine the worst case scenario and mental gymnastics your way into being fine with it
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:38 PM
1

Awesome. That's what i did. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:47 PM
10

Nope, do what the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:59 PM
4

By sitting there and thinking about how there's nothing you can do to change it.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:22 PM
3

Such a common problem, the great news is that your path forward is very clear. Read No More Mr Nice Guy, that did so much for me. One comment of mine on careers, they are a great way to get introduced to the world. I recommend putting in 5 years in the "typical path". Great way to build up some personal wealth on a pay check, get out on your own and experience the bullshit. The issue is that mobility within companies requires leverage (you know somebody, have a specific achievement prior to ente…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:28 PM
2

Right... Best of luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 02:40 PM
1

I think you're taking this stuff too far. Trp is a mindset, a framework on how to view the world. This particular framework focuses on what is healthiest for you as an individual and is the key for picking up hundreds of women a year. You cannot know another person's mindset, their thoughts are locked to you. Trp is limited to your thoughts and actions so finding bluepill or redpill women is a naive way to look at it. Finding women that meet your standards for different roles in your life is exc…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 01:44 PM
1

It's up to you man, we're all about individuals making the best choices for themselves of their own volition.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:07 AM
1

No worries. Keep reading the material and take your time absorbing it. The tactics of approaching become natural with iteration but the male strategy is about modifying your lifestyle over time. Make sure to check out trp handbook. Happy trails, friend.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:55 AM
3

I'll give it a shot. She's feeling insecure so she's trying to disqualify you in one aspect, proposing that her work is more difficult than yours. You reacted to it which isn't great but it's better than letting it fly. I'd just let her sort herself out and avoid reacting to her BS. She wants you to be her new year's Eve guy but you're not there so she's being shitty. Go out and have a good night, act like it nothing ever happened when you meet up again.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 11:47 PM
5

There's a natural progression into LTR. Nothing wrong with having one but it is very difficult, if you can't spin plates like a master you're not ready; I can't say I'm at that point either.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 10:08 PM
4

I know it's tempting but her reasons for coming back to you are nefarious. She has committed a heinous offense and sidebar dictates that she go from LTR to zero in your eyes. Subjugating yourself to her would be a fast track to beta again. Also, do you think you're the only one she's texting this stuff to? I doubt it.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:44 PM
0

Delay. Last time I ran into this a girl told me 5 times we weren't having sex tonight. I said "ok" and continued the night. She had some bullshit things to do and I continued gaming. Once I pulled her over to make out the rest didn't take long. It's a contextually idiotic too for herl to use once you're alone with a her, to point it out would be stupid. They like it when you break the rules.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 05:51 PM
4

Everybody goes through growth spurts intellectually, different friends will go through that in time. It's not an all or nothing decision. Keep pursuing what feels and logics right for you. Allowing that distancing to continue now doesn't mean they're gone forever.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 02:17 PM
1

The idea is that there should be so many other girls that you're pursuing that the details of a specific one no longer matter. Yes, this one is interesting to you; but if your mindset was tweaked you would see that it doesn't matter that much. The fact that this is a decision you're seeking advice on shows scarcity mentality. You will be more attractive if your behavior shows that resources are so plentiful that this specific engagement is relatively unimportant.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 11:43 PM
1

You're way too focused on a girl you're not even plating, hooking up with, or even speaking to. Here's my advice, walk up to her and tell her she's hideous. If she laughs, you're in. If not, move on and start looking for quantity. A hot girl is only marginally better than a mediocre one, stop caring about some random one.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 11:35 PM
1

It's not masculine but bickram hot yoga will do a lot for that. There are a few places that do hour long classes in 105 degree F rooms. They're intense and usually expensive, if I had the cash flow I'd be doing it now but gym comes first.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:22 PM
1

Whenever she starts talking about that shit, withdraw attention. Get up and go do something else, kick her out if you have to. Take action and make it clear that you are not the person she talks to about this
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:08 AM
11

No shit. I never knew that.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 05:40 PM
27

I saw that earlier. The whole "let's get a random sperm donor to satisfy my hypergamy" didn't add up, women want to select superor mates not leave it up to chance. It makes a lot more sense that all of this is to hamsterize infidelity "I screwed someone else so that must mean you're inferior". Fantastic example if true.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 03:10 PM
6

It sounds slightly like a shit test but I don't wanna read into the obvious. My most stark periods of growth and maturity came from periods of deep stress, failure, or loss. I think suffering is linked to maturation and empathy. My advice is to stay the course and push through obstacles that come naturally in your life, quit only when you know that is objectively the best option for you. Happy trails, friend.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:56 PM
6

Really great to see this subject come up. I recently left my high pressure NYC job to go off on my own. Things are going better than I could've imagined and I have to thank you lot for a good deal of it. I spent a month with my step father and real mother. He plays the role farely well but spends far more time fixated on my mothers needs than I respect him for. He's an accomplished business man who takes no shit but let's my mother run the show all the time yet scolds me for leaving the toilet s…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/18 12:15 AM
3

Teasing works well. Always let the conversation drift on your end.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:22 PM
2

Let's talk mindset for a second. Don't be an asshole, be assertive. To run the conversation, you also have to be sensitive to subtle signals so that you can react to conveyed and anticipated needs of others; an important leadership skill. It's our job to satisfy their desires so make sure to also listen to what they want and supply it, but ahead of time not or in response to a subtle clue not out of direct verbal request compliance. You're witty so that's going to work well for you, don't forget…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:23 AM
1

Treat them as you would a teenager that is misbehaving. If they get in an argument with you.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:14 AM
1

Just to add to this, I find myself researching and thinking about the social Dynamics but forgoing memorization. It's almost like forgetting and re-reviewing the information helps to internalize instead of operating by instruction. Make sense?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 10:51 PM
2

"Everything is about sex except sex, sex is about power". Do not give someone you work with leverage over you. They will use it. Once it's done, the only way to get out of it is to leave and that's a bitch.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:48 PM
1

Dude, relax. It ain't that big of a deal and you're relatively unimportant and so are you problems, just like the rest of us. Now, oneitis sucks and you just gotta tough it out. Break up with gf, isolate "10/10" from your life. Block all avenues of communication (text, email, social media, etc). Start with self improvement: workout and read at minimum. Reread sidebar, trp manual, top posts, recommended books. Make your life about you not the girl you're with. Sometime while your going through se…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:29 AM
2

Looks are generally underestimated. People treat you differently when you dress well, smell good, are jacked, tall,good looking, intact. It's not everything but it's a real nice shortcut. You can still fuck it up by saying dumb shit. Some things you can't change, I focus on the ones I can. I'm still working on it myself though. If you're fuck ugly just find ways to compensate for it.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:03 AM
1

Nope. Text whenever, set up the date, meet with them and continue. Rinse, repeat, or next as needed
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:54 PM
2

Break up with gf.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 09:58 PM
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It sounds like you're already in oneitis territory. Back it up and start gaming women again. I don't have a lot of experience with LTR's but what you're talking about is a huge red flag. Start by picking up your SMV, start hobbies and good habits back up if they fell off. Go out with the boys and game other women (don't cheat). Throttle contact with her and when she interrogates you, evade her questions. See how you feel and how she reacts. If you're feeling good and she starts getting crazy, st…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:02 PM
3

I mean, to her this shit is a job. Of course it's gonna suck.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 02:54 AM
1

Agree with the first point. Oneitis hurts and you just have to get through it. Imo the only way to deal is to cut her out. Cut of interactions before they begin. However, it's unrealistic to expect a woman who hasn't been in a relationship; that cuts the pool far too low. I think the key distinction is to avoid broken goods rather than used goods (kind of what happens when a girl dates a guy who was higher smv than you eg Chad). LTR experts talk about how it's trp on hard mode, I take that to me…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:51 PM
1

Couldn't agree more. I made a comment about exactly that a few days ago in asktrp. I've been thinking about how a lot of trp principles are healthy behaviors for men and by extension women. If you find it let me know. I'd like to see it.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:50 PM
1

Could it have been in asktrp?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:14 PM
1

This seems fine to me on her part. She's saying she has work to do and anticipated plans with friends. Am I missing something that she's doing wrong? I think my response would just be to get busy with other things and reply in a couple weeks maybe.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:13 PM
1

I feel this way sometimes too. I agree that it's part of the process. I think this is party of internalizing the information It takes time for it to become who you are, part of it is about grieving for the way we thought the world was.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:02 PM
1

Believe what you want. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:55 PM
1

Partly. A lot of girls put up a facade and will maintain that persona unless they're in a certain circumstance. In general, women are easier to sleep with when they feel they can get away with it without ruining their reputation. Someone said it's like cheat meals and that's a pretty good comparison. I stay in decent shape and I'm by no means a model.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:49 PM
1

Oh lol. Not even. One was off of bumble and literally asked me to come over to bang her.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:43 PM
1

Wtf?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:34 PM
1

I think the distinction here is that we believe AWALT dwells within all women not that all women are an exact schema person. AWALT is a theory, it could be wrong but it is yet to be proven incorrect. This place has a lot of good info for you and instigating an argument on asktrp is not going to go well for you. Stick to your research and practice. If you don't buy something, that's fine, you don't have to. We believe in thinking for yourself. It seems like you're at an early point in redpill acc…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 02:29 PM
2

Really great post, thank you. My only observation connects with something I've been thinking about recently. I think that a lot of the behaviors cultivated here are not only what women are looking for in one night stands, but are connected to healthy conduct in general. Examples are Taking care of yourself and your appearance, learning to navigate social situations expertly, building your external assets, etc. All very healthy for your and anyone associated with you. Some of the most misconceive…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 10:15 PM
3

The problem isnt that you can't think of anything to say, the problem is that you think that what you have to say isn't any good(not true). Someone gave me a good piece of advice awhile ago, the best way to contribute to a conversation is to simply let people in on what you're thinking.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:38 PM
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No response is best, go out on the town and see if you can bring someone else home. Maybe exchange snapchats and start posting yourself having a good time on your story. Might jog things but the point is to get out there for yourself not for her.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:36 PM
1

I see. You're at a different life stage than me. Maybe look at it a little differently. Rather than finding high SMV, establish skills/characteristics that you feel are important in a mother and find someone with those. I've met a lot of high SMV women who would make ruinous mothers. To me, the ideal situation is finding a woman who is an effective mother that you can dominate enough to continue gaming women. The goal is to raise good kids so she's a means to an end not an end itself.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:33 PM
3

You're not the one who should be looking to settle down. Read the sidebar, if you already did read it again
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:10 PM
7

A true gentleman is alpha, he's just not Mr nice guy like everyone thinks.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:02 AM
4

That's awesome. I felt something similar though not as dramatic as your shift. TRP fit like an old pair of gloves I'd never worn before.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 09:50 PM
6

Makes sense. Or ruminate over how to interpret things that have already played out.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 09:17 PM
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I heard recently in a Tim Ferris podcast that anxiety is generated by trying to cope with the future or past in the present. It's weird advice but the best way to cut that out is straight up not to think about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/18 08:43 PM
3

Wait, you can't fuck a tranny?
/r/askTRP08/11/18 02:41 AM
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So with an LTR that pulls this, How far do you demote? Is she now a plate or unfuckable?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:48 PM
1

Determine what your needs are and find sources for them. IDGAF is outcome indifference, you can simulate it but nothing better than the real thing.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:08 PM
4

Stay away. STAY AWAY. Doesn't matter if you don't care about the job. It will create problems for you.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 08:06 PM
1

It sounds like a good mindset to have, honestly. Id like to cultivate a bit more of that myself. However, the missing piece is in the mission department. The greatest measure of a man is what he contributes to the world. We have to focus on building ourselves to be formidable, but the purpose of doing so is to generate the capacity for cultivation and utility. I find volunteering rewarding, maybe give that a shot.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 12:04 PM
2

Really good advice. I forget this too sometimes. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:55 AM
3

I was thinking about something similar. I was wondering if doing nice things would be "beta". Considerate stuff like holding the door, pouring water for her, whatever. The conclusion I came to is that the circumstance around the act matters, not the act itself (mostly). Anticipate her needs, make the decision about who is paying before she does and act. If you want to pay, have your wallet out before she's thought about it. If you don't, tell her you'll be splitting the check. If she gives you a…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:54 AM
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Yeah, drop all contact. Girls are wired to pull this shit. She doesn't respect you and will continue to string you along just enough to keep you interested so she can use you. It doesn't seem like she's done anything for you where you're doing a lot for nothing. The only reason things ever progressed is because you were leaving and became scarce. I think getting away from her is going to be really good for you. Dive into the resources here and good luck in America.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:29 AM
1

It won't go away so just learn to live with it until you can remove her from your environment. Keep reminding yourself what a piece of shit she really is. Deep down she relishes in the pain she's causing you. Keep digging into trp resources and focus on minimizing the oneitis damage. Check out no more Mr nice guy if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 06:24 PM
1

More of a personal preference but I stand behind notebooks/planners. Great way to keep records in the metoo era.keeps you conscientious of your life.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 10:55 AM
1

That honestly doesn't bug me that bad. It's a weird thought experiment i think. You have to almost flip the script and try to think about what you can do to get her to run her best game and pickup a high smv guy, like you're saying.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:48 AM
4

Yeah, I'm not sure there's a "win" scenario with it. Nor that fathers are really in control of it at all. It just sounds like an unavoidably painful experience, should you choose to engage in Parenthood
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:43 AM
1

She'll hate me either way lol. A women's sense of hypergamy really betrays them doesn't it? Hypothetically, setting her up with a rich BB that won't screw her over just for her to trade in for the next dead beat with an attitude really isn't doing her favors.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:37 AM
0

Yeah I'll pass on that fad, no thanks lol
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:34 AM
1

You find enough sources to satisfy your needs that it most social exchanges no longer matter. Once you actually have an abundance of friends, money, accolades, women, etc; further approval is irrelevant. You can foster that mindset ahead of time by setting a course for yourself to get in that position and focusing on "this interaction doesn't matter because I'll find other places to get what I want later because I'm doing what I need for development now". This is abundance mentality. There is mo…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:28 AM
1

Scouting. Yeah that's a good point. Have to find a kid who shows alpha traits or she'll lose interest like you're saying. She'd need to be taught how to hold on to him too.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:20 AM
23

Come the fuck on. you're 24. Stop acting like an old man.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 12:25 AM
1

I didnt but I was already in good shape. Obviously these guys helped me learn more since then though. I needed help in the mindset department more than anything.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:13 PM
2

Hmmm. Results were almost immediate for me. I literally wrote down my goal to get laid after I got broken up with and accomplished it within days. I know that there has been a dramatic change in my overall mindset. Maybe try focusing on that too would help.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 07:56 PM
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You're overanalyzing. Don't act like you forgot about her, actually forget and fill up your time with something else. Also, who gives a fuck about your mistakes? You're the one with lots to offer and she brings very little to the table. Go have fun and let her push her way into your life. You've got more to do than bug a bitch.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:03 PM
1

Hey you did better than me. Take your chips and try again. Not bad.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 03:31 PM
1

to spoonfeed it, ldr's are a logical antithesis to an alpha paradigm. If you are willing to limit yourself to someone who does not provide tangible benefit to you and provide them with commitment/validation (your bargaining chip) then you do not value yourself,you are not thinking about the benefits you extract from situations, and are not capable enough to find a more suitable alternative for yourself. Women instinctually do not appreciate the gesture, they lose respect for you. Guard your comm…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:23 PM
1

One thing thats hard for me is accepting that AWALT is not only true for prospect women, but family members as well. Accepting that about your sister and your mother is an important point of growth, one that I'm still working on. Your sister is gonna date some random dudes, be infatuated with them one day then light switch and dump them another. She's going to find lots of guys to sleep with then expect a beta provider to create resources for her after she's done. Maybe this guys her BP, maybe n…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 02:02 PM
1

Okay, I'll check it out
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:04 PM
1

He's pretty active: lacrosse, karate, basketball. He's a talented conversationalist for his age, a bit emotionally expulsive as all kids are though. He's really into anime and doesn't understand it's stigmatism yet, so I think understanding what's cool is going to be important. Yeah I think he's capable of defending himself but I'm concerned about the misguided principles his primarily female caregivers have instilled, his moral compass is skewed by the feminine imperative a bit.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:04 PM
1

Yeah that's what I'm gravitating towards but he's still too young to go headlong into all of that
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:02 PM
1

Yes, I read nmmng. That did a lot for me, still working on application. I had more the over invested, doting type mother that replaced my father with me; it wasn't pleasant. It was about her and her screwed up upbringing though, not raising me. I'll reread the sidebar section. It sounds like your on the right track, I'm experiencing a lot of emotions that seem out of context. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 06:50 PM
1

Definitely agree. It's gotten better as more women enter. It's mainly an intense loathing, animosity. She's very stuck up. I think it's mostly about my ego and competitive desire to prove I am better than her. I end up taking subversive action from an emotional place. Thanks for the help.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:52 PM
2

Thanks for the reply. Women outside of this one have been great thanks to this place, relative success just last night even. It's a career job but I don't imagine being in this specific role for too many more months.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:41 PM
1

I know! Trying to change it
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:28 PM
1

I have a zero tolerance policy with flaking. There are exceptions. If she let's me know ahead of time with a valid reason she gets a second chance for being considerate. If I have to reach out to her and find out ahead of time that she can't make it, I say "sounds good" and move on; if she initiates plans I'll entertain them at my 100% convenience. Simply put, if she wastes my time she is done. If she does not waste my time I don't action like she did. Flaking is an abhorrent disrespect. Do not …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:36 PM
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Passion. I hate that point of view. The only passion that you should be searching for is being passionate about yourself. Don't turn away a wonderful opportunity for yourself. Don't limit yourself. Explore the opportunities you're given and give thanks for them everyday. Explore the things you want to learn about. Do as much as you can in this world. That's the path to becoming a diverse, whole person. You are in charge of managing your dad's legacy. Learn to do that properly and assimilate the …
/r/askTRP29/09/18 06:03 PM
1

New people can't subscribe now?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:39 AM
1

Sidebar, trp.red. top 500 posts, suggested books, gym.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 01:22 AM
1

This is awesome, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:11 PM
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I actually agree with you. Even in the short amount of time I've been here I've experienced enough personal growth to be astonished by the negligence behind some of the questions. It makes you wonder if some are paying attention at all when none of the mindset had sunk in to navigate simple problems. And these are the people upvoting main thread posts.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 10:38 PM
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Want to notify you guys, it looks like the sidebar on the offsite backup is redirecting. Am I the only one it does this to? https://www.forums.red/i/TheRedPill/
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 07:58 PM
5

Hey bud. It's been real tough for you, we can see that. You're in the right place. First things first, turn your mood around. Eat a good meal (not a big one), get some exercise, clean up, etc. Fix things immediately near you to improve your vicinity. Second, work on the core issue. It's clear that you desperately desire to be the center of attention. I was where you are long ago. I recommend focusing on your relationship with yourself. You spend a lot of time writing about how other people are t…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:52 AM
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This describes my last blue pill experience perfectly. It's good to look back and see that it wasn't her fault but mine. It's easier to let that resentment go towards the girl that turned you to TRP when you look inwards and accept the real problem for what it was; appreciating the way you've grown instead of cursing the experience.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 06:17 PM
1

I'm new here but I pay attention. Something concise. "Yes, see you then".
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:01 PM
9

Nope, that's second chance material. My rule is if she reaches out to me ahead of time so that I'm not wasting my time or money with a genuine reason, second chance. If you have to reach out to her or if it's very close to the agreed time, hard next. I would view that as considerate but she's not scoring points with you. If she didn't waste anything of yours don't act like she did, also. If it happens again, I'd just write her off as incapable of keeping commitments. Keep in mind that she should…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:56 PM
7

I think those guys might not be as little bitches as you think. They have a lot of outcome indifference for starters. However, even small-time artists get it. An artist on display at a local gallery or a local musician at a bar grabs everyone's attention and controls the frame.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:51 PM
5

My brother is a para don't drink and drive. Great advice
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:08 PM
2

I'm in us where typically I advise to avoid debt lock from education, not sure if that's a potential problem for you. Choose a path that will get you employed. if you don't have a destination in mind, pick something that you can find joy in and set your expectations low for fulfillment. You'll figure out what kind of career you want later. During college. No LTR. Network first, party/get laid second. Bang a lot of girls. Meet as many people as you can, not just your age. Keep an eye out for cool…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:39 PM
1

Swipe left and go lift
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:21 PM
7

Any chance there will be recordings or material we can review online? Physically too far to attend.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 10:43 PM
2

Read it. It felt like more of a money grab than an actual book. A lot of it is filler and the authors experiences aren't really as grand as he makes them out to be. I think your time is better spent on the side bar. There is some good stuff in the book but there are better people to learn from.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:37 AM
2

If you're sure, guys, this is pre TRP for me. Go to work one day and my team is finally clued in on the staffing changes for the upcoming year. After a few weeks, I get the name of the girl transferring over from one of the other sectors of our company. Look her up, not bad. The day she comes in to meet everyone on the project, she's introduced to me. We connect immediately, she clearly has a crush. I get to know her over text and steady streams of invitations to her place to "bond as coworkers"…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:27 PM
1

Comfort is a good observation. I tend to be a bit tense. People report that I can be intimidating and I'm honestly not sure why. I dress pretty plainly, haven't worked on style yet.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:19 PM
7

Yep, don't do it. I regret it every day.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:21 AM
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I've got some personal opinions on this one. Number one is the contract, check for bullshit. Tacking on extra fees, cancellation costs. That stuff. Number two is price. My advice is go to the second cheapest gym in town because the cheapest will have a whole bunch of people that show up Monday for chest and nothing else. These people won't know what the fuck they're doing creating safety hazards and frustration for you. Number 3 is look at the place/clientele. Are any machines broken down, is an…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:07 PM
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Keep in mind, dating websites tend to keep using people's dating profiles after they've uninstalled the app. Pumps up numbers. AWALT but no reason to jump to conclusions in a situation you have no stakes in.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:23 AM
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It's easy bro. Women want to be touched. Make your intentions clear from the outset but indirectly, communicate physically (but don't push your comfort zone too far, she'll notice that). Plausible deniability is great for statements, things that can be misconstrued sexually. Communicate what you want from her with gradually more clarity and boldness throughout the conversation; the more comfortable you are with your intentions and the higher your smv the more bold you can be from the outset. Lit…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:55 PM
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Recent conversation of mine ... Girl: why are you on here? Me: same reason you're on here Girl: lol such a bad answer Me: you're right, it was. I'm just on here to find someone to buy me drinks. Girl: hahahahaha Pressure flip, agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:32 PM
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Thanks for the heads up, I'll avoid repeats in the future. I'll check this stuff out, appreciate it
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:02 PM
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I vote withdraw. For tonight, fabricate an excuse. Open and honest communication is anything but that. Create an environment where she's trying to figure out how she upset you on her own. Fact is, she knowingly/unknowingly wronged you by leaving you in the dark. Either she's disrespectful or ignorant, neither will do for you. Check how to manage your bitches on the sidebar, she needs to be downgraded by a certain amount. Don't speak, act.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:23 PM
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Thanks for the answer, I was expecting hard truths. If your initial determination is that my expectations could be unrealistic then i need to revisit goals and consider that. If you advise against rental properties, is there an alternative that you recommend? Im good at keeping financial plans but I don't have any assets yet. Your assessment is logical and correct, my work has received only moderate recognition from the parties that matter. I don't expect anyone else to fix it for me and my only…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:02 PM
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Thanks for the response. Mid/late twenties. I'll have to think on what niche I could pursue, consulting would be really neat. Im currently in a field engineering roles on large heavy civil jobs. Appreciate the encouragement, I'll try to keep that in mind. Can I ask what you do for your engineering client?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:42 AM
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Hey thanks for the answer. I have the EIT and im currently putting together my PE application. I haven't thought of getting the PMP, it looks like I need to pursue a PM role. Good ideas, appreciate it.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:37 AM
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