Cold approaching at school

RedPillJax · 2015-09-01T13:58:20+00:00

I know we talk about approaching and daygame and cold approach - but if you're at university, you may need to get out of your own head with all the PUA stuff.

Make it less about approaching and more just about talking to people. Universities are social places. I find if you treat an approach like an obvious PUA approach in this setting, you're not going to get very far. I would try more just talking to people in every situation you find yourself in. Waiting for the bus? Talk to the hot girl next to you, and see if you can escalate it into a number close. Eating in the caf? Sit close to a girl sitting alone, and see if you can strike up a conversation.

I don't know - I'm not a PUA at all. I have high SMV and I'm confident, so I don't think about interacting with women like this - the more natural you can make it feel to be an outgoing and social person and faking it until you make it, the better.

martin-ho · 2015-09-01T12:04:03+00:00

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w_t__ · 2015-09-01T05:49:34+00:00

The only way to get better is by doing it. You "give a lot of fucks" because your emotions tell you to. In all reality you have to work on not caring like you do at the mall. Living in your head is what causes you to feel that way and i think your brain is your worst enemy until you retrain it to tell you the right things. For you in this situation that would be not caring and being able to hold a confident and cool frame.

TerritorialWolf · 2015-09-01T12:24:09+00:00

You have not internalized Redpill yet. What I advise you to do is secure a certain place (be it your room, house or whatever) Be 100% internalized there. That will be your safe zone and home base, where you can be Redpill without resistance. Go back there at the end of the day to reset your internalization to 100% because the day drains you. Keep at it while trying to last longer during your daily activities. Eventually you'll be 100% internalized 100% of the time.

Title	Cold approaching at school
Author	Losthser22
Upvotes	9
Comments	8
Date	August 31, 2015 11:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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