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very interesting. How long did you blast / cruise? As in, how many weeks on blast vs weeks on cruise?
/r/askTRP23/11/17 07:56 PM
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Nice strawman. As others have said, I mean go for one with a low N-count, not the town bike.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 04:11 PM
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Who the hell cares? I'd rather a broad with a few tricks up her sleeve than the pain, blood, and clinginess of a virgin. What girl over 23 who is still a virgin is actually attractive, anyway? I highly doubt they're more than 1 in 100,000 at that point. I'd figure out why you're obsessed with chasing virgins. Your answers to other commenters are cringe-worthy.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 07:52 PM
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The fuck are you posting this feel-good bullshit for? No lesson, no point, nothing but platitudes. Stick to reading until you *actually have something to say.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:29 PM
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Dude, two posts in 18 hours? Settle down a bit. There's nothing here that hasn't been said a thousand times. I'm glad you're really digging TRP and want to shout it from the rooftops - but don't post for the sake of posting.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:10 PM
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Fuckboy is the new Douchebag. If a girl calls you it, say 'thank you,' accept she is telling you that you are successful with women and she's fighting her tingles, and move on.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 03:15 AM
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I've never had clinical body dysmorphia resulting in the symptoms you're saying, but I've definitely had dysmorphia to a degree. I went from being 6'4 160 lbs (beanpole skeleton to) 230 lbs big (with a bit of fat). I felt big and confident at 230, but I had a gut despite finally having arms and shoulders. I've been cutting down and am currently at 210, and man - I feel flat and tiny, despite my shirts still fitting tight in the arms and across the chest. Lifting is awesome, but as Dom says, 'the…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:10 PM
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When did I once say it was any of his responsibility? It's not. I'm saying he probably feels that way, and that he shouldn't. Reading comprehension, work on it.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:28 PM
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Listen, I've been the dude with the addict spouse. Guys who are with addicts usually suffer from some kind of codependancy. I know I did. It's a lot harder than just tossing them out, because they feel like they're 'abandoning' someone in their time of need, and they're always this close to finally cleaning up their act so they can go back to the life they had before. I was never a believer in 'group therapy' or any of that happy horseshit, but Nar-Anon Family Groups helped me get my head on str…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 12:12 PM
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Knowing some fraternity brothers =/= knowing what it's like to actually be in a frat
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 12:05 PM
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You can't really get a lot of quality in terms of college girls after you've finished college, there are trade offs. I have never known older guys that managed to sleep with HB9 LOL. Come on man. I'm 27 and I'm banging hotter girls now than I did at 22, and I banged models at 22. I'm not some super stud either. You can get quality and quantity after college if you put in the work to be appealing enough for 9's and 10's. This thread here convinces me that OP definitely knows a lot more about gett…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 12:05 PM
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It definitely can, but it depends on scenario. Playing things off with humour if youve genuinely and pretty horridly fucked up can push you past seeming unphasable and into 'doesn't give enough of a shit / grasp the severity of what happened' territory - especially in business. I've found (in business, for this example) if you've fucked up, admitting you fucked up but not explaining the 3000 reasons why it happened and what you've learned and everything you feel initially compelled to explain wo…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:44 AM
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Listen man, this isn't a hugbox. If people have criticisms of the post you're preaching as gospel, you need to have more to back it up rather than just saying they didn't understand what you were trying to say. If they didn't agree with you, it's because you failed to convince them. Don't say /u/redwurst 'doesn't an accurate idea of what an alpha is' because he disagrees with you. Welcome criticism. It's a chance to prove what you're trying to say. Reacting by just saying you're wrong doesn't he…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:44 PM
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I literally don't know what sub you've been reading, because I've never seen 'there's more to life than pussy' thrown out there by anyone knowledgeable in response to anything than a poor beta schlub coming on here and crying about how girls don't like him. Not putting the pussy on a pedestal is advice on how to get pussy, not an argument as to why it isn't something you should go after. If you come off as a thirsty fuck who's dying for a taste of that sweet, you're going to come off as a thirst…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:41 PM
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The best thing I found besides taking a minute to think before answering (as others have said) was learning to accept that I didn't have to explain myself, especially when someone wasn't asking me to explain. When I said something, I used to rattle out all my justification for it, as if the person was already getting ready to criticize what I was saying - so that all my rebuttals would already be out there, right? The fact is, 90% of the time, you don't need to explain yourself. If the person ha…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:34 PM
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Mystery and his era are pretty much universally considered outdated these days. They worked at the time because he and his ilk were pretty much pioneering PUA. There were a lot of theories that seemed like hits in the short term, that kind of petered out over time. Even still, the whole 'game' thing had to start somewhere, and somebody had to put in the work on the front line - so outdated or not, there's no such thing as bad information that way.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:31 PM
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Fair enough. Remember, FwB is rarely something that you 'set up' and logic into place. It usually starts with wheeling a girl (known or not) into a ONS, and from there it turns into a FwB scenario. Overthinking the FwB before you even close once is putting the horse before the cart. The only difference between a ONS and a FwB scenario is you don't immediately burn the bridge after. Avoid the urge to talk about what happened and how you feel, act casual and cool after you hook up, and take it fro…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:15 PM
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haven't found that she's been cheating on me Well she's been talking to him behind your back, and the conversations are affecting her enough that she's losing sleep over it - so I mean agree to disagree if you like, but I'd say that counts as cheating. She may or may not have made it physical or not, but there's a definite betrayal of trust happening here regardless. Besides that, if you genuinely believe what you're seeing and your feelings have changed, there's probably little sense in drawing…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:10 PM
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These are all very good goals - but a question - why monk mode? Seeing as you don't have lose weight or start going to the gym 5x a week while studying for my doctorate, what benefit does removing yourself from gaming women have here? Monk mode is a painful necessity for guys who have no business even trying to pick up chicks at the point there at in life, due to serious weight issues (beanpole or potato body), poverty, or something of the sort where trying to pick up girls is going to be plain …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:07 PM
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English is okay, but there need to be more details to really flesh this one out, man. From what I'm gathering about what you're saying, your girl is at least having an emotional affair, and is definitely considering taking it physical if she hasn't already. If you've got the stomach for it, ratchet up the dread to high levels (read the post on Levels of Dread for more info) - but unfortunately, your relationship is probably over - she just hasn't gotten around to informing you of that fact befor…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:59 PM
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Game her the same way you would any other girl. You're already putting her on a pedestal even in describing her to strangers on the internet (with a policy of telling you to stop putting women on a pedestal) - so I can't image how much you're actually pedestalizing her in your mind already. She's a girl. Period. Don't overinvest in your interactions or planning just because she's funny, smart, and hot. You say you want to get laid, not date her - so approach it like that, unless you're not being…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:56 PM
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Listen, a lot of guys will probably tell you that you're just not working hard enough, need to work on your SMV, etc (and they're absolutely correct) but I feel where you are right now. I'm 27, and I acutely remember what it was like going from being a big fish in a small pond in university, to suddenly at the bottom of the totem pole in the real world. Best advice is this: You're only limiting yourself. Are you only trying to game girls your own age? Why? You have 5 years of girls beneath you y…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:54 PM
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Someone is annoying you, and you think physical violence is the answer? Lol, stop. Taking things in a physical direction only opens you up to a) getting kicked out of school, b) legal trouble, c) possibly injuring or getting killed yourself and d) possibly injuring / killing someone else. Over what, being annoyed? Be the bigger person. You're not a caped crusader here to save your class. Source: Strip club bouncer for a decade, former MMA coach, 2nd degree black belt. Fighting isn't worth it unl…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:19 PM
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AWALT.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:17 PM
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which is what every man between the ages of 18-30 wants Fixed that for you.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:06 PM
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Oh man, you certainly AMOGed me. Do you have time to teach me your ways?
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:57 AM
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Sounds like you counted on a handshake deal from someone who really didn't have the ability to grant you their end of it, and you're pissed because of it. I'm not about to start giving your financial career advice, but for future reference - if you don't have it in writing in business, it's not worth the wind they said the words with.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:42 PM
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Honestly, what's the point in going? Roosh is a bit of wiener and outdated, and you can learn everything you need nice and anonymously online these days. Why risk doxxing yourself with little to no benefit? Do you really think you're going to enjoy the time spent with the 80% neckbeards who are going to show to this kind of event? Note: I'm not saying RP guys are neckbeards, but this kind of thing draws a subset. RP lawyers, doctors, businessmen, and the like are not going to be dumb enough to a…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:40 PM
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You don't sound at all truly excited by this broad, and since she's in a STEM program (read: 95% male dominated stream) you're going to have to deal with her in the future for at least the next little while, for better or (most likely) worse. Why not put the work into meeting women that are better than just convenient and you actually get stoked on trying to game, rather than one who's pretty ho-hum by your own admission and who has potential do actually do you damage before you even graduate?
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:37 PM
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ask her on a date. "Grab a drink with me tonight. 830 at Bar." Ding ding ding, we have a winner. Most importantly, it's immediate, and you're not asking - you're instructing. She doesn't have to go along with it, but at least you're giving it a one last black and white opportunity for a yes or no answer.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:35 PM
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Send them one last message explaining your intent to cut contact if they don't respond. Bad idea. You can't negotiate attraction or threaten them into wanting you. If they wanted to keep in touch, they would've - you're just the dude making it weird by giving her ultimatums over what's probably a pretty casual dating situation. It's like trying to kill a fly in your room with dynamite - overkill, messy, and rarely the best way to go about it.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:34 PM
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I usually throw out one last hail mary text if it's gone pretty dark - literally something to the effect of make or break - because in my mind, it's dead already. Something a little more aggressive, openly sexual, and immediate. Aka, 'come over, right now" at 10 PM on a Friday. I've actually had this work out more times than you'd think - but the point is that the lead has already gone cold. If you're doing the work to get out there and meet chicks, this should be just one of the many potentials…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:32 PM
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This is some very important info that's missing here, as well as their ages. From the fact he's getting his masters and she's in nursing school, I'd venture under 25. Danger, danger, danger.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:29 PM
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It doesn't. This this sub as a general rule has unrealistic expectations of foreign women as being something above AWALT because of where they're from, which couldn't be further from the case. I plan on asking her to marry me. Why. A hundred times, why. I've lurked around this sub for a while Clearly not long enough.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:28 PM
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This is a fair point - but I would say that asking her if it was the bar across the street wasn't really 'gaming' her, it was an opener. And a good one at that. The difference is that you clearly let your SMV do the talking - all you did was lead her to water and waited for her to drink. I've had this kind of thing work too - but when I say 'gaming' through IG, negs, lines, overly flirtatious comments, etc. all come off reeking of thirst. Using it as another tool for communication like you did t…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:20 PM
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No worries man. We're all our own worst enemies from time to time.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:04 PM
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FYI, there's no way to game (even with negs) through Instagram that doesn't come off thirsty as fuck.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:04 PM
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I want to put down negress Jesus fucking Christ. TRP is about a lot of things, but it's no excuse to be a racist piece of shit. I look like Hitler's dream, and I'll still tell you that you're one ugly son of a bitch inside.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 10:31 PM
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Eh, you're on a campus of 40k. I wouldn't get neurotic over how the population of essentially a small town judges your small daily actions on a daily basis. The meds make it a tougher scenario as you're hyper-aware of what you're doing, but you're ultimately going to need to get out of your own head on this one - be it by working on yourself until you catch people staring more than you feel like you're staring, or by getting confident enough to not trouble yourself with thinking constantly of wh…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:30 PM
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Treat them the exact same way you would any other. Meaning, that they're interesting enough to get your attention but ultimately replaceable, not the only girl you're talking to, and not kowtowing to their entitled attitudes. EDIT: Yes, this works. I've dated / hooked up with 5 or 6 models in the past. Best of luck! EDIT 2: I need to read more comprehensively. You're MGTOW and not looking to nail them. Okay. Same dynamic applies - but think of it as they're your middle-aged slightly overweight s…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:24 PM
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Shitpost. This isn't even a question. What was the context? Who said this to you? What did you say before it? Avoid the overwhelming urge to ask every minute detail of your day on AskTRP. If you need that much advice, you're not RP - you're a beta looking for a cheerleading squad.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:23 PM
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Do absolutely nothing. She's a plate. If she asks, tell her yes - you were on a date. Isn't she dating other people? If she reacts badly and brings drama, next. My money is on her trying harder to 'win' you if your SMV is up to snuff. Regardless, don't bring it up. It's nothing to you.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:22 PM
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This is a confidence issue, not a matter of where to look. Work on developing confidence through lifting, working on your game, and taking care of your appearance.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:20 PM
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An RP dick is still a dick. Congrats, you made someone feel bad about themselves, and got nothing out of it but a moment of amusement in return.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:19 PM
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Did you pay her for it? Then I can almost 100% promise you that no, she's not trying to get knocked up by some random dude in order to have his random spawn in order to get (what I'm guessing) would be a measly child support cheque - all the while exposing herself to whatever diseases you may have. You're being paranoid. Get out of your own head. In the future, bring your own condoms for your own sanity (and safety).
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:41 PM
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She looked at my youtube history and pointed out 5 out of hundreds of other videos that had girls in it. Note, I promised her that I would not look at girls. What? Dude, what level of beta do you have to be in order to let a girl dictate that you can't watch Youtube videos (not even Pornhub or some shit) I'm not saying this to rip you apart, I want you to realize what you did if you haven't already. don't want to lose her, but am I doing the right thing? Treating someone I love as a queen? Isn't…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:39 PM
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what is the proper way to get women at the club? How long is a piece of string? wondering if its my smv? Literally unanswerable with this 3 sentence post.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:33 PM
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I really like Dan Carlin's shows, both his political one (can't remember the name off the top of my head) and Hardcore History. Real good for the morning commute. The political one I really like because he drops a lot of RP truths (IMO) that go beyond relationships and into interaction with the government - but I digress.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:32 PM
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You got it. Dwelling on the apology just shows your frame can be shattered easily. Accept it, advise against it in the future, and pretend like it didn't happen. Remember, sulking and moping around after a SO gets rude with you just shows you're ruled by emotion and don't have enough else going on in your life to be able to brush it aside.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:29 PM
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Yeah, I agree with the others - too wordy, too try-hard. I'm glad it worked for you, but it's just showing too much investment for most guys to pull off. Personally, if a girl on Tinder is 'making me work' for her number, either my SMV is too low to begin with, she's high maintenance and I don't want to be involved in it, or she's got enough orbiters and is just looking for another. Again, just my take on the situation - your mileage may vary - but I wouldn't recommend such a long answer in most…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:28 PM
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Took the words out of my mouth.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:24 PM
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Sounds like you just did a whole lot of negging without any pull to back it up at all. Or, your SMV could've been too low to pull it off. A handsome, fit man who takes care of himself negging is attractive. A fat slob beta negging just gets ignored.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:23 PM
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Feeling generally and utterly hopeless when it comes to achieving your goals - no matter what they might be - can often lead to depression, especially if you feel like you're really batting a zero when it comes to your chances. I see this as no different when it comes to meeting a mate, if you for some reason feel that you're an absolute omega with no hope of meeting a woman, of course you'd be pretty bent out of shape about it. Same thing if all you wanted in life was to be a surgeon and a hand…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:22 PM
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Nah. The closest thing I think you'll find when it comes to female receptiveness to TRP teachings are those who were raised to and aspire to traditional gender roles. She knows her best role is what it is, and expects men to take up the 'man's' role in the relationship. The caveat here is that you can't convince women of this mental standpoint. Either they already have it and they'll agree with the kind of things you say / attitudes you bring to the table, or they'll reject it outright. All of t…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:21 PM
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Dread them to hell and they'll fall in line. I seriously, seriously disagree. Dread only works if the person at all fears losing you, or dread losing you. If OP is telling the truth, considering his sister went at him with a knife and it's all apparently his fault - I'd say the days of trying to dread this into shape are gone. OP, work on financial independence like yesterday, and get the fuck out of dodge immediately.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:47 PM
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So you're literally saying that because 'the majority' are fat slobs, that broads should mercy fuck you out of equality?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:34 PM
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I'm a man of science, you are free to believe in your personal notions. ...What? What fucking science states that being fat is okay, or that Japanese women are unicorns? The fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:05 PM
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Quite right, it's validation-seeking behaviour. Unfortunately, the best way to break that bad habit is by not coddling to it.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:46 PM
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in western culture at least. Fuck me, you're a weeaboo. Stop thinking Oriental culture is some kind of magic and we Westerners are just keeping you down.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:34 PM
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My favorite type of women is japanese. They are hard to captivate and that is what makes it fun. No, they're women. AWALT. 29% body fat. .... Even if you are rejected a 1000th times it doesn't matter. The former dictated the latter. After holding hands in a movie date, she is more comfortable and is starting to find me attractive, since she allows me to proceed. Jesus Christ. spending $20 on movies killed me What the fuck is the point of this FR? You held hands, bitched about dropping $20, and n…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:27 PM
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How about working on that 29% buffet bodyfat first, too.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:25 PM
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Word to the wise: Avoid posting for the sake of posting until you have gotten more experienced in the realm of TRP. I know everyone wants to contribute, but sometimes it's best just to listen for a while.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:23 PM
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AskTRP is probably a better place to get some feedback on this issue, if you're looking for it.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:22 PM
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Jesus, I didn't mind your post - but your response is hilariously insecure. Some true r / iamverysmart shit. From the juvenile commentary you left it seems like you did not actually read this post but threw out a splatter comment for the heck of it hoping to sound like you actually read and understood it using vague convoluted tidbit commentary. Put down the thesaurus, pal. He didn't say anything remotely juvenile, he just had a differing opinion. If you want a hugbox, go visit r / relationships…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:19 PM
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Most short baby-faced asian men get completely ignore by even average girls . Oh, take off. You idiots bitch when people bitch about race, and then when a racial minority posts something with lessons and success - you say it can't possibly be true because of their race. Make up your fucking mind already.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:16 PM
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If I want entertainment, I'll go to one of the other umpteen subs on this site. What was the point of this post? What's the lesson? All this does is drive the signal to noise ratio even lower in the wrong direction.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:13 PM
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It just so happens that your passion induces the widest range of emotions in an audience as the centre man on stage. It seems it's not the existence of passion but that the passion is squarely aimed at pleasing women, that will generate interest. I applaud you for your progress, I still see it as being a court jester role at the very core Come on, man. The guy is pursuing music because he's interested in it. He's not pursuing music because 'it's a passion squarely aimed at pleasing women.' If yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 02:46 PM
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Spend less time trying to be amusing, and more time actually giving information. I want the last 2 minutes of my life back.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 12:26 PM
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I agree with you. I had a lot of sex in high school, and only one real LTR. I wasn't some super stud or anything either, it wasn't that uncommon.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:26 PM
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The only people who have sex in high school are those , who are in an LTR. Not at all true. When I was in high school (2002 - 2006) I had many, many ONS and 'fuck buddies' by Grade 12. Considering I lost my virginity in Grade 10 (IIRC) and graduated with a kill count of 20 - 25 or so, there was a lot of fuckin' going on. Mind you, I wasn't King Shit of Bangin' Mountain or anything, I was a moderately popular, pretty okay looking guy. There were guys getting laid far more than me. This was a norm…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:25 PM
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Never, never get involved with a BPD broad. I know that feeling all too well - my ex had BPD. Borderlines will literally destroy you and not lose a wink of sleep. There's a reason there are literally support groups out there for those affected by BPD spouses / SO's.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:04 PM
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I'm not pc, but Let me stop you right there.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:03 PM
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Virgins here are for some reason portrayed as being quasi-unicorns, along with Asian, Latina and former Soviet Bloc women for some reason. I refuse to date virgins. I have never had better experiences with them over women who have a low N-count, and most often worse. I see so much here about men wanting to 'mold' women to what they want them to be, and somehow her virginity is the key to that. I'd say it's 100% bullshit. Women are women. Some will be high value, some will be lower value. A slut …
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:20 PM
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No. It's not a real thing. It's just something guys like to say when they can pick up on a girl's slutty vibes. It's not a literal stare. Get out and meet some women. You'll recognize it when you see it. Trying to pinpoint a metaphorical 'stare' in order to find the slutty broads on your computer from strangers is an utter waste of time.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:14 PM
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None, really - so long as you're lifting hard. If you're just eating a ton and not putting it towards muscle, it will go towards fat - and you'll be on the fast-track to skinny fat instead of big.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:13 PM
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I don't know if a 'stare' followed by some very non-committal small talk (and visually defensive behaviour) is in any way "clearly interested." You misread the situation and lingered too long. You should have accepted that this one wasn't going to work and dismissed yourself earlier. I'm never one for fighting for attention - it's either a fuck yes on their part, or it's a no. Best bet: try, try again. You didn't do anything innately right or wrong besides have the balls to approach - and that's…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:12 PM
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Like every day, every few minutes or so. The texting has definitely died down to a point where I felt like things were being overlooked or I was being neglected. This is bad. Not because she's 'neglecting' you, but because you have some innate need to communicate with someone literally 24/7 outside of sleep, and feel neglected when this dies down. Why do you need to speak constantly? I get being very much in touch with your SO, but this is 100% needy. I don't get it. Is it because of the fact th…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:10 PM
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Sure thing, I'll work something up.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:47 PM
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Been busy with my business so I haven't been active, but I'll work up a few FR's!
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:47 PM
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Rich parents, princess syndrome - she wasn't the only girl I knew who got fake cans at 16-17.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:53 PM
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Bullshit. I regularly get laid because of text game. Before that, I used to regularly get laid from Facebook - when it came out when I was in 1st year university. Intial greeting to dirty talk to walking in and fucking within 10 words of meeting in person. Is this common? Fuck no. I'm a published author. Words are my thing. I have good game in real life, so that translate across to text. Text game 'doesn't exist' because so few guys are competent at it that it may as well not exist at all. Howev…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:48 PM
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Knocking another guy down for being a Beta is not something we shoud be doing... even though the story is all too familiar Isn't this literally what BP Example flair is for? Illustrating a BP scenario (typically from ourselves or someone we know) to learn from it or to illustrate a point?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 03:15 PM
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Yup. I remember long ago in high school when one of my 'bffs' was a smoking hot blonde named Cait. Cait got around. Cait got implants at 16. Cait would change in front of me, send me nudes before she sent them to anyone else, and sleep in the same bed as me. She let me feel her fake tits. I always thought I was this close to finally closing with her. We'd go out together, I'd think it was finally the night we'd fuck - and she'd disappear back to Chad's, only to ask me to pick her up in the morni…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 03:13 PM
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Your math isn't wrong, but the math doesn't take into account the subjective nature of attraction. By my opinion, according to your stat - that tells me 60% of American women are at best an HB5 and don't exist to me outside of a shameful never-speak-of-this-again dry-spell-breaking late night bootycall. You're correct in assuming that this means there are a fuckload less HB7 and aboves than there are in the 6 categories below it. I'd say HB9's (as 10's don't exist out of photoshop and fantasy IM…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 02:10 AM
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Exactly. I think what a lot of people miss is that if I walk up to some random broad in the bar I don't have a lick of interaction with an try this, I'm going to get slapped in the face, bootfucked out of the bar by the bouncers, and round out my night in the drunk tank. A move like this is escalation. You're escalating a situation that exists, not opening with it. If you're getting on with a girl and looking to dial up her temperature, go for something like this. I've done things that are extre…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 02:07 AM
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I was originally kidding, but you took this really seriously. Whatever you need to tell yourself.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:59 PM
1

I used topical fat burners under my tear troughs and on my nasolobial folds to fix my old gaming insomniac induced tired eyes drooping face. I'd like more info on these, because to the best of my knowledge 'topical fat burners' aren't really a thing. Not calling you a liar - because if you found something that actually worked, I'd like to know more about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 12:55 PM
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Because 'trolling on a girl' does nothing but open the guy up to potential legal trouble with absolutely no benefit besides some 'lulz.'
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:01 PM
4

Sweet middle-school revenge fantasy. Or, be an adult, worry about yourself, and let these chumps get what's coming to them. I ain't Captain Save a Bro, especially for strangers. Cover your own progression, first.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:00 PM
1

AWALT does not apply to a virgin. Yes, yes it does. I don't understand the hard-on for virgins around here. I wouldn't fuck another virgin in this life if you paid me. They are subject to everything non-virgins are, provided she's not a full-on whore - but you should already know enough about that anyway.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:58 PM
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These ones are dead. You fucked up, you killed the chances. And that's okay. There are more women out there that are hotter, more mentally stimulating, and have more in common with you than them - and there are more of them than you could possibly fuck up with in one lifetime - even if you live in Cousinfuck, Idaho. Move on, friend. There's no sense in trying to rebuild something from the scraps of your fuckup when you could experience something new that doesn't have the burden of your mistakes …
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:56 PM
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Do I just ignore the fact that he exists or try to subtly press her for more information when she returns from vacation? I definitely want to avoid coming across as jealous or insecure about our relationship, because I'm actually not I'm more simply curious at this point. I'd reckon you already know the answer here. Pushing her for info about him and their dealings is the easiest way to show that you're insecure about it. Let it go. If you did preselection correctly when vetting this girl for an…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:20 PM
2

because you respect her enough Why do you respect her? That's a core question to determining that. If you're dating the town bicycle, there's a very big problem with that on a lot of levels. Respecting her sexual liberation is a very, very BP stance to take.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 06:19 PM
0

If that was the case, this sub wouldn't be active and AskTRP wouldn't exist. We are not special, not one of us. That's a core tenet of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 06:18 PM
2

Doesn't happen if you don't let it. Why are you waiting for her to invite you to hang? You should be escalating and isolating from the get go, in the form of a one-on-one date.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 01:39 AM
1

This isn't a hugbox. If most of the feedback is negative, it's probably for a reason. If you only want to see positive affirmations and support, head over to TwoX.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 01:22 AM
1

Same way you'd escalate with any other girl, mate. Search escalation either here or in the main sub, you'll save me typing it all out again for you.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 01:20 AM
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No. No no no. I tell a woman I love them when I love them, not because my dick is currently inside them. I can't think of a way to dry up a woman quicker and kill any chance at repeat business than telling a ONS / plate I love her during sex.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 12:52 PM
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Yup. Written by a male, I even dug into him a bit to confirm as best I could. An apologist, super-feminist uber-Christian male according to his other articles, but male nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:59 AM
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Nope, read again. Male. I did some digging, he's a real guy - unless he's a real solid bulldyke. Just goes to show how far down the blue-tinged rabbithole some can go.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 01:42 AM
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This was actually written by a guy, surprisingly. An extremely Christian one I've discovered with a little digging, apparently. Not sure if that has any bearing on it - I'm not a religious cat. But I hear you, and I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 01:32 AM
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Are you really just trying to stir up shit with EC's now because they didn't dig your post? Come on man. At some point you earned a delta. Act like it. Take it in stride and stop trying to argue people into agreeing with you. It was a nice thought, it didn't work, move on.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 01:26 AM
10

Who don't need no man snap snap
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:27 PM
2

Stop escalating 'slowly,' start actually escalating. If you're not a virgin and have been working on your game, this should be child's play. Seal the deal the same damn way you would any other. Your situation is not special at all in that regard.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 09:29 PM
2

Hey man, sounds like you understand what the truth was here. She just wasn't that into you, and that's okay. Yes, she sent you nudes. Yes, she 'wanted to hang' - but it never came to fruition, yeah? You were a validation source - but now you've realized it, which means you can keep from falling into the same trap. I'm glad you gave up your quest for closure - as others have said, it's never going to happen. Life doesn't always work that way. But who cares? You're getting laid, you seem to have t…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 09:28 PM
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Scheduling sex through Tinder that isn't of the 'right now' or 'tonight' variety doesn't work very well, in my experience. Gives her hamster way too much time to come up with some anti-slut defense before she goes for it. If you can rig it up for immediately or that night, it's usually okay. Otherwise, I'd at least tell her you should 'meet for a drink' so the next day when her hormones have settled down she can at least rationalize she's not just meeting you for sex.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:16 PM
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Oh boy! I can almost feel myself yearning for the sweet release of death already!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:13 PM
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Don't tell me how to live my life.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:12 PM
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Yeah, ah okay is the battlecry of a poor sap tucking his tail between his legs and walking back down to his basement.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 09:42 PM
2

No. You can't force attraction, but only you can determine whether you'll be able to overlook it or not.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:23 PM
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Sure, but you need to understand that reality isn't going to go that way for everyone. Dan is a product of his father's money and gambling. Yes, he's a big dude and obviously has game - but without however many million to his name, he wouldn't be a playboy. Hugh Hefner is a self-made guy who worked his ass off for a long time doing something other people shied away from. I'm saying that yes - aspire if you like, but realize that your picture of success may never be like theirs. Comparison is the…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 12:35 AM
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Whether you were trash or a bright light, both attract insects. I absolutely love this analogy. A lot of guys have this idea that when they rich a certain quality of life, they will met quality of women. You are absolutely correct, and I'm very guilty of falling into this mode of thinking. Thanks for the response to OP - you definitely helped more than just him with it.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 09:56 PM
1

Don't do a full-out Monk Mode where you literally don't talk to women. Get Tinder. Work on your game that way. You can always delete it and reinstall it when you feel more confident with your weight and how you look, and have another swing at the broads on there. Besides that, I think Monk Mode (meaning no drinking, no fun, no pleasure, no attempting to talk to women, etc) really will make you go insane. Temper all your hard work with treating yourself to something you want to do. Want to go see…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 05:45 PM
1

Exactly. The nature of society dictates that men can't rely on their looks to 'marry up' and be taken care of. A do-nothing man is one who sits in his room, plays WoW with cheeto dust on his fingers, and cries that no pornstars are magically falling into his lap.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 05:43 PM
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Medea in Greek mythology is the original spited woman who decides to get revenge in a savage way - against Jason, from Jason and the Argonauts fame. Check it out. Fascinating shit. /u/external12 - there are plenty of lessons that can be learned from fiction. Open a book.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:19 AM
1

Unfortunately, most people don't want to accept the truth that the best adaption inducing movements are the big lifts Oh, absolutely. I still bench, squat, deadlift, bent-over row, and OHP. I just don't shoot for huge numbers anymore - but progressive overload still have to be there, otherwise I'm just wasting my time. How I wish I could get something like beginner gains all over again! That was the shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 11:01 PM
5

Ok.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:33 PM
7

Such is life.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:50 PM
2

Fair enough. I'm 6'4 235 lbs right now and I'm generally pretty happy with where I am, but I'll definitely keep it in mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:49 PM
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Hey man, when it comes to working out - everybody has what works best for them. I don't disagree with anything you're saying. I find for my personal goals, what I'm doing works for me - I'm 6'4 235 lbs and can move enough weight to feel good about myself while feeling and looking good while doing it. Everybody will have a different approach and find what works for them. Diet trumps workout scheme every time, you're correct - but I find what I'm doing now works for my body. To each their own!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:29 PM
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Absolutely, but those aren't his goals. His goals are to be as strong as possible and move the most weight he can. He will not be able to move as much weight at a lower BF% without suffering some serious losses in strength for possibly a few years, if not forever. I've got no hate for powerlifting or powerlifters - their goals are just different than mine. I find personally it's easier to maintain a lower BF and look better running the splits I'm running now. This will not be the same for anyone…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:27 PM
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Not arguing with you - 3 plates was a poor example given the exercise I tied it to. All I'm trying to get across is that different people will find different routines that work with their goals. For me, I care more about what I see in the mirror and how I feel vs the straight numbers when it comes to how much I can lift.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:25 PM
1

I don't disagree - 3 plates isn't that much for a squat at all. Poor example, but you get my drift.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:23 PM
1

Absolutely, I'm not hating on powerlifters or that bodytype. That guy could lift a Honda. I just find for me personally, I prefer what I'm doing now vs the powerlifting I was doing before, in terms of results. Everbody has what works for them, if they work long enough to find it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 12:22 PM
1

Thank you, sir.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 03:34 PM
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Yup. I used to powerlift, and was on the way to developing a powerlifter's body. Obviously this guy is huge and insanely strong, but along the way I realized that beyond a good level of functional strength, I didn't care about squatting three plates or benching 300. I wanted to look good, because that was what made me happy. I dialed back weight and upped reps for more of a bodybuilding approach. I find it makes me a lot more confident to be smaller yet defined than powerlifter big. Girls don't …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 03:31 PM
1

I understand what you're saying, but say it with me: there are no unicorns. Besides that, it sounds like you're having a crisis of faith because you're getting exactly what you want in life and it's clashing with something inside you. You're, according to you, nailing 6 girls right now, with a steady chick who is utterly submissive to you. If what you're doing is making you feel bad, don't do it. Besides that, the rest of the info on the girl is a little irrelevant. She's a higher-value woman, b…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:55 AM
2

Honestly, it sounds like you have oneitis because you think this one broad is loyal because she lets you control her life and you took her v-card. No, no she's not special. Yes, this behaviour is encouraged in males by males who actually understand whats going on, with TRP. You might need to read a bit more here, friend.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:36 AM
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This is the third thread I've seen you post about your imaginary 10.25 inch dick in. Nobody gives a single fuck about your dick here, even if it is real - which I'd bet my paycheque against a week-old hooker's tampon that it isn't. If you can't contribute, shut your damn mouth and try to learn something.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:18 AM
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God bless.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:17 AM
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Who. Fucking. Cares. Short guys get laid. Use the search bar. I'm so fucking sick of hearing short guys needing pats on the back and their pecker's held just to get some confidence about approaching. Hit the gym, get over it, and stop looking for people to hold your hand about it.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:16 AM
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Pissing off your boss for a piece of tail, no matter how decent, is ever worth it pal. Believe me.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:14 AM
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It's a big reason why we discourage self-ratings in FR's, and why we always say to knock 1-2 points off the HB rating of girls in most settings. Anonymous internet reports on our most personal of personal lives is going to lead to some embellishment in spite of ourselves at times. Who wants to admit to themselves that their wife of 30 years who they're still head over heels for is a HB3.8? Read everything with a grain of salt, and focus more on becoming and wheeling HB9's in your own life rather…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:12 AM
1

You're going to have to clarify the question for me.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:08 AM
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It means you've done a shit job at giving her tingles, and are beta as all fuck in her eyes. Sorry to be blunt.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:07 AM
1

LOL. Fuck off, concern troll.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 01:57 AM
3

Thank fucking god. I was getting tired of saying it every single time to these characters. There is nothing special about the situation that standard advice can't fix, 999/1000 times.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 10:47 PM
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PC UMass bro
/r/askTRP24/11/15 10:46 PM
2

I have guy friends all over the place, but not that tight-knit 4-6 guys that hang out on a regular basis. How did you guys set this up from scratch? I'm the same way as you. I have to 'best' male friends, one lives across the country, the other one 45 minutes away or so. I don't see them as much as I like, but I get together with the closest one and all our other associated friends once a week / two weeks to go raise hell. I honestly like it more than when I had a tight-knit group in university …
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:12 PM
2

Yeah, that's a pretty common shit-test when it comes to age. Deflecting with humor is the best bet with this one, most of the time. Agree and amplify works well. Her: I remember when I was 18, I was sOoOoOo inexperienced! Everything was so exciting! You: I remember when I was 14 and working in the coal mines. Ol' Pa Sampson chased us with jumper cables when we didn't hit the quotas. Make it ridiculous and basically smoke her out on it.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:57 PM
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I was always the younger guy with older friends until I was in my early 20's. I was the 18 year old hanging with the 22 / 23 year old guys, and their respective females of the same age. Did I get some shit for it? For sure, but in the end it didn't matter. I was mature, I was attractive, and I didn't act like I was 18 - or remind them of that fact more than I had to, for that matter. Will some girls reject you outright for it? For sure. You can't be everything to everyone. As /u/RPMatrix said, j…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:54 PM
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Nope, I'm not mad at all. I have nothing to gain by 'proving' something to someone who wants to believe the opposite. I gain nothing from whether you have self-confidence or not. Either you'll work on yourself and learn to overcome all this negative self-talk that is killing you slowly, or you won't. There's just zero point of anyone here wasting further breath on someone who refuses to take responsibility for their own success. Nobody here has to help you. Nobody here has to prove anything to y…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 02:52 PM
2

I gotta agree with /u/axoc here. If you're getting concrete examples that height doesn't matter all that much and you refuse to take any of it to heart, this post is a waste of everyone's time. What do you want to hear? Too fucking bad, you're fucked forever? We're here to help, but we're not here to help you wallow in self-pity.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:10 PM
1

I've definitely 'voiced' my intentions with a girl before kissing her and had it work out. In fact, I don't think it ever hasn't worked out. The difference in your case (and mine) and OP's is that OP isn't judging whether he's likely to succeed. He's just tossing it out there and hoping it works instead of analyzing the situation and maybe trying a different approach.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:52 AM
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She can be exclusive with you, and you not offer that commitment in return - definitely. Every guy wants a harem of women exclusive only to him, and that's absolutely fine. I'm just saying that no matter what I prefer, I don't expect commitment from her. She's just a plate.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:50 AM
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Honestly, a bold strategy I like is going for a kiss early in the date, if not right when I pick her up if I think her interest is high enough. Sets a completely different tone for the date, and makes it a lot more fun. You've already opened hard - everything else is easy. As an FR, I've used this on my last 5 dates and it turned into a makeout on every single one. I really built up the attraction and got her buying temp escalated before even picking her up though, so that could be part of it. M…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:23 PM
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I'm 27 in a few weeks, and I still get ID'ed at the liquor store very frequently. I've had a baby face my entire life. As I get older, I enjoy it more than it used to bother me - but I used to have the same problem you did. Personally, lifting did it for me. People respect power, and one of the easiest and most blatant ways you can display your power is by being a large human for your frame. Besides that, humor is your friend. If people take digs or roast you and you get defensive, it works agai…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:21 PM
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lets do something more interesting I'd say this is about as bad as asking for permission before kissing, to be honest. Like you said, either do it, or don't. The worst thing that happens is she isn't feeling it, and you either try again or move on with your life. Best case, you get laid. I like those odds.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:17 PM
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Nope. Plates are by definition a non-exclusive relationship, otherwise they'd be an LTR. If they rub it in my face, I drop them. But they can do whatever they want with whomever they want. Of course I'd prefer they be at my beck and call whenever I want, but that's not realistic in a lot of cases.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 10:16 PM
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So you want to nail HB3's? Go for it. Quality trumps quantity. I've been on both sides of the fence enough to know. I don't believe either one of these girls is better than a 5, tops. Not with those horrific conversations.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:58 AM
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I need to see photos of them that prove they're not 4's before I'm at all impressed. Dude, yes - you have a nice body. I can pull ditchpigs with garbage game like that too, sure. But who the fuck wants ditchpigs?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:57 AM
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This is pure fucking cringe. What the fuck did I just read? You haven't touched these women. You are not gaming them well. You need more work. Much, much, much more work. EDIT: I'd bet my life savings against a week-old salmon not a single one of these broads is better than a 4.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 01:53 AM
2

Time and self-improvement. You feel like you lost her vs she lost you because you're not proud of the person you are. You received your validation from her, instead of from yourself - so since she's not around, you're the one who feels like you're losing. Time to realize you're the prize coupled with actually working towards becoming the prize is the only remedy. And strange tail. Never discount strange tail.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 07:41 PM
2

I'd say it's disrespectful, but she's a plate. Move on if you don't like it - literally the way she sneezes can be 'grounds for nexting' if you want it to be.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 07:40 PM
1

...What? Do you read the main sub, literally at all?
/r/askTRP18/11/15 07:38 PM
1

RP is sexual strategy. Literally says it on the sidebar of the main forum.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:04 PM
3

He's just running around AskTRP threads debating alpha and beta terms. Don't let the concern troll get you down.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:02 PM
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Plates have an expiry date in most cases, and it will depend on the guy whether that's 3 weeks (as your experience), a month, six months, or a year. Very rare is it that a guy can (or wants to) keep a plate spinning indefinitely. That being said, it sounds like you're failing comfort tests. You're giving them the tingles to get the kill, but you're not giving enough reassurance in order to make them want to come back. You're not necessarily doing anything wrong, you're just not doing enough righ…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 04:02 PM
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And it could be she was horny, or it could be that she wanted connection Yup. There's not always some shady motive for things. you rookie. Unnecessary. This is AskTRP. Save the posturing.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:57 PM
2

It's not beta to be the man and take the lead. That's what a man does.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:56 PM
2

Yup. I dislike the idea that guys can't talk or have conversations with women. Will you generally be able to have a more logical, entertaining, intelligent conversation with other men? I'd agree yes. But, there's nothing wrong with talking, conversing, and generally enjoying time spent with women - otherwise we wouldn't do it. If your level of conversation is working for you and you're enjoying it, it can be as much or as little as you want.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:55 PM
2

This has been asked many times before. There's no 'alpha' way to cut your hair, brush your teeth, reupholster couches, or cook ramen. To specifically answer your question, it's what works best for you. There are alpha men with dreadlocks, RP guys with chromedomes, and everything in between. It's whatever looks best in your situation and gives you confidence.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:52 PM
3

Why do you feel the need to be above everyone? Sounds to me like you're still relying on others for validation instead of yourself.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 07:36 PM
3

Thanks for the whine-fest. Why do you give a shit about 'beating' some guy's success? So you can only get 90 of his 100, who the fuck cares? Comparing yourself to someone else is the best way to stay miserable.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 06:40 PM
2

Depends how interested she seems. If she seems extremely interested, I have literally opened with a kiss. Multiple times. Sets a very high temperature for the date. Otherwise, a hug upon meeting, hand on the back walking through doors, taking every opportunity to touch her over the table (if it's for drinks), patting her arms, etc. If she has tattoos on her wrists or arms, I'll hold her hand / arm in one hand and trace it with the other as I inspect it. I have sleeves so I make it a 'let's take …
/r/askTRP17/11/15 06:37 PM
1

"Possibly" = yes Assume the yes until you're told no. Don't even act like it's a question. Respond the way you'd planned.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:56 PM
2

I agree with you. I've never been a hardcore gamer, but after work and the gym, I see nothing wrong with plopping down for an hour and playing Metal Gear Solid V, so long as I'm doing well everywhere else that day. It's a leisure activity I do because I enjoy it. I don't watch TV. I don't even have cable. I work 10 - 11 hours a day at my own business. If I want to unwind for a little by blasting some Soviets in the face with a shotgun, I will. It's about understanding that it's a luxury that you…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 12:29 PM
0

Even a 40 yo woman has an easier time on average than a 40 yo man Easier with what, though? Getting laid? Sure, any landwhale can find a guy desperate enough to fuck her. But to lock down a high-value male later in life after riding the cock carousel for a decade? Good fucking luck. And easier =/= better. They can 'get through life' easier, but an RP man shouldn't be chasing the easy way anyway.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 09:10 PM
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You need to reread the sidebar. Men control commitment, women control sex. Women are always able to get sex, even if they're 300 lbs overweight, have a pegleg and no teeth - some poor schlub will, without a doubt, fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:56 PM
2

...congrats to her. Why would you be jealous of someone who's a 5/10 getting another 5/10 at 40? This whole argument doesn't make sense to me. If she was a 5 getting a 8, I'd understand - but that's not the way it works, at all.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:55 PM
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I don't think you've grasped my any point fully at all. Fixed that for you. OP need some serious reading time.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:50 PM
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And what OP isn't realizing is that the key of what 'work on yourself and it becomes much easier' is the work part. It's not easy, or everyone would be doing it. Nobody would be fat, all men would be successful in business with PhD's, and pussy would rain from the sky like a fishy typhoon. This shit is work, but the work brings rewards. Hamstringing yourself with what-if's is a waste of mental energy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:47 PM
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But this is already true for young women. SMV of men she can have sex with >> SMV of men she can get commitment from Not true. There are many good looking, well-employed, fit men with high SMV's who are still beta as all fuck. No, but it is a possibility why many men (maybe even including you) won't do it. Relying that you will always just work twice as hard as all the men around you is kinda risky business. What if you get a burn out? Or depression? You never know. There is a reason why many yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:46 PM
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I will make it short: Even a 40 yo woman has an easier time on average than a 40 yo man. She can just open a profile on OKCupid and wait for dozens of messages. She could just go into a bar full of 40yo men and if she is not ugly, she can get laid the same night if she wants. So you're saying women will always have an easier time getting laid. This is correct. What the wall refers to is that she isn't going to have the same bargaining power to use her sexual appeal to lock down a high-value man …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 04:57 PM
3

I'd say it sounds like you're probably afraid of rejection. You go for the safe bets, because you won't get burned if they turn you down.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:35 PM
2

Sure, but what works for me probably won't work for you. Don't try to learn routines, learn to approach without being afraid and genuinely interacting with women you don't know. Trying to recite routines or plans isn't going to be organic, and it's not going to work half as well for you as it does for someone else. You need to try and fail enough to figure out what doesn't work for you until you find what does.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:19 PM
1

Pursue if you feel like pursuing IOIs, otherwise do exactly what you've planned. There's no magic formula. Books - there's a recommended reading list on the sidebar of the main sub. Besides that, I'd recommend getting out there and fucking up a bunch of approaches / interactions with women so you lose the fear of it. Reading theory is nice, but you can't calculate a woman's attraction or gain more than you would from first-hand experience.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:18 PM
3

Take him out. Take him to the gym. Lift off that angry energy. Take him to a pub or bar, not a club. Have a few pints, let him vent, grab the bill before he gets aggressively intoxicated. Really, those two things are about all I can do when my friends are in similar situations. Give him a venue to discuss if he wants, and distract him if not.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:16 PM
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Absolutely. There's not a single one listed that has any redeeming features for long-term relationships.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 09:45 PM
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Interesting to notice that every single one of these animals are predators, and all women are the prey - and this is from a woman's perspective. Prey do not have the choice in who they are eaten by. The women in these scenarios also lack any choice or agency, apparently. Interesting to hear it straight from the horse's mouth, yet again.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:28 PM
2

Yup. Really non-verbal cues like hair flipping, crossing her legs in your direction, whatever - these should be the last of your worries. If you're running kino (as you should be) it's all in how she responds to the way you touch her, like you say. Is she recoiling from you when you pat her arm? Does she stiffen up when you put a hand on her back as you walk her through the door, or does she lean into it? Worrying about the littlest things is kind of useless. As an RP man, you should be escalati…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:22 PM
2

but there is no point in planning that far ahead. You're posting to TRP about it, so you're trying to plan ahead - if not considering it now, as it sounds.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 12:15 PM
1

What are you even trying to get at?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 12:05 PM
3

Because why not use Tinder? It's a tool I have in my pocket at all times, opening for me when I'm at work, asleep, whatever. If you're devoting actual time to it, you're doing it wrong. I think of Tinder like an iPhone game, except when I win - I get laid. I can also only go for the hottest girls, so it's like a windfall when you get laid from it rather than the grind of approaching you just can't be assed to do some days. I have a lot of success from Tinder, but I'm also the kind of guy who had…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 11:11 PM
11

but she is a couple years younger than me and under the age of consent and my end-goal is to be a police officer Abort. Abort. Abort.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:57 PM
2

Don't worry about the balding thing. It happens (to me), so just embrace it. My hairlines creeping back in the corners too, and it was giving me serious anxiety back when it started. Then, I turned on some movie with Jason Statham in it. The guy is balding horribly, and doesn't even shave it right down to the wood. But he's hideously attractive to women. Why? Because he's ripped, has an alpha attitude (at least in his films), and rolls with it. If Jason Statham was an overweight accountant with …
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:53 PM
3

My personal take on it is they're called plates, akin to spinning plates on sticks. You get the plate spinning, and things are good. You can get another spinning. They spin independently of each other. Things are now twice as cool. Eventually, without very, very careful attention to keeping it spinning - the plate will fall, and break. This is okay. You still have the stick, another plate still spinning, and there are more plates to get up there and spin than you could possibly ever know what to…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:40 PM
1

Yeah man this is sounding like it's going to be a lot more weird than you think it's going to be, especially if you're the one currently trying to persuade both parties into it. If she was down 100% and wanted it, and then you had to find a third - that's one thing. This sounds like it's going to be her and him awkwardly sitting there while you try to get everybody excited about this midday sober romp.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:24 PM
2

Your bro is 90% going to back out. I did it and the only reason it happened was because it was spontaneous and it was pretty funny. We did have a blast but I'll never organize to have a MFM with my buds. It's just weird. Nailed it. I've been in a few MFM's, but it's always been a matter of someone wheels a slut, you all get home, they start going at it in the living room while you're there so hell, join in! It's a funny thing or a story thing in these cases, not a genuine omg that was so hot let…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:21 PM
1

Just going to go out and wonder why having another guy there is such a big part of the equation? Is it a fetish / fantasy thing? As someone else mentioned, first of all - fantasies like this are usually super cool on paper, but many guys find out shit like this just isn't what they thought it was going to be, and this is usually long after it's too late to turn back. If your bro isn't down for it, why are you pushing him to? Trying to set it up like this is making it sound to him like you're hop…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:19 PM
2

And what about being ''mean''/''banter''? Think schoolyard bully, the way 8 year old boys pick on the girls they like. I don't mean spitball her hair or whatever, but be playful, be mean in a good-spirited way. Give her shit the way other guys won't.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:16 PM
3

Strangely, I agree with this. I found when I wasn't going to the gym as much, was slacking on my personal projects, letting things slide around the house, etc - I watched a *lot more porn, and had the side effects that go along with it. As soon as I started getting back on track with the things that productively fill my time, including leisure time, I found I thought about flipping on some porno a lot less frequently, and subsequently enjoyed the benefits of not dumping out my manly essence twic…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:08 PM
1

Yeah, it's a hard line to tread. You have to remember that you can't say things with a smirk or in a joking tone, and pretty much know that's how it's going to be interpreted over things like Tinder. You could use emoticons, but you could just chop off your balls while you're at it too - but I digress. I'd say tone it back a bit, but keep the edge there just enough to get it across. When I playfully neg over Tinder or whatever, I don't follow it up with LOL or hahaha or any bullshit like that. Y…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:06 PM
1

In regards to what? Gaming women? Working out? Working on business stuff? School? The answer is pretty much the same I guess, and that's to develop discipline. Motivation is great, but it's fleeting. You need to condition yourself to do things when you want to do them least, because you know that the long-term benefit outweighs the short-term gain. Is this difficult to develop? Absolutely, or fat people wouldn't exist.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:01 PM
7

Rich girls can go one of two ways in my experience. One - she's a princess. Daddy buys her everything. She has no concept of money. She has expensive taste and while you at first give her enough tingles to mitigate this, once things start to die down a bit (if you let them) it gets bad. Expensive dinners, expensive gifts, all expected. Two - She's genuinely not that concerned about money, but she realizes she's fortunate. She still understands that not everybody out there can afford the lifestyl…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 10:00 PM
1

She's not actively seeking something if she's content just fucking you and shies away from commitment. Or at least she's not seeking it with you. I know that feeling kind of sucks, but it's better you realize it now. If she says she's seeking but holding back on commitment, it's because she's got other guys on the go, or at least is still open to other guys - but is content doing what you're doing for now.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:45 PM
1

Red Flags: Alpha widow, lives with parents at 27, all of her ex's were "crazy", fully hooked up with her female best friend, she asks me for sexy pics before we even hooked up, considered being a stripper although decided not too. 2 months into dating, 7th date, trying to lock her down. Am I missing something here? A girl with those red flags, especially the 'considering stripping' thing are enough red flags to be seen from the moon. Extreme beta warning: I called her shortly after. She didn't p…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:41 PM
0

Dread is what will keep your respect intact, so long as you're pulling the rest of your weight as a high-SMV RP man. If she knows you can't do better, she has no reason to keep you happy to keep getting her benefits from the relationship. If she knows (without you telling her) that you could go out today and have another girl in bed by curtain call, she's going to do a lot more to make sure she keeps you happy. This is assuming that she's a higher-value woman to begin with. If she's just plain d…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:36 PM
1

Oh, oh yeah. I used to (and sometimes suspect I still do) have a bit of a nasty relationship with the ol' fire water. Yes, blacking out happens. I've woken up with tattoos I genuinely don't remember. I've gone for dinner with an ex, ordered a third bottle of wine - and then it's curtain call until I wake up in the morning and play dude where's my car followed by how badly did I fuck up last night. It's not a fun thing to happen. I have a massive alcohol tolerance, but it still happens if I don't…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:34 PM
1

It definitely is, I was just trying to figure out the math because it wasn't adding up. If that's the case, good on you.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 09:26 PM
1

Ah. I see. I misread and thought you meant they were a 6 on the attractive scale and you would stand out too much. I didn't catch the 6'. You are correct in your analysis of that situation.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:43 PM
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Excellent FR. I learn a lot more from these than from the bro I fucked a 12/10 while her sister filmed it and then punched out the football hero FR's that seem to come in waves. This is exactly it. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but you always have to learn and be looking to improve. Impressive alone is that you had 7 dates (lined up at least) in 7 days. I don't have that kind of commitment to meeting girls, but if it's making you happy and you're experiencing success, that's all that ma…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:17 PM
1

Why would you not want to be perceived as the alpha of your group? EDIT: To Tinder sloots
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:14 PM
1

You said you have a 30 partner count at 25, pulling 3 girls a week would mean your close rate was pure shit unless you were on there for less than a month.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:09 PM
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Fellow 6'4 230 Aryan Supersoldier reporting in. Can't agree more. If you have shit game, you won't close. All good looks / size / height do for you is likely allow for more chances to fuck up before a woman loses interest.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:08 PM
1

Yeah, no. Vaginas run the gamut from Barbie and her axe wound to full out roast beef curtains. It's got nothing to do with the size of a previous guys dick. Stick your thumb in your bellybutton three times a day for a week. At the end of the week, is it now loose and broken? Here's a link.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:54 PM
1

Yup. Women don't care about how big your dick is as long as you can use it and it isn't literally a q-tip - they care about the experience, how you make them feel, etc. Some may want to feel full once in a while, the majority will not.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 12:53 PM
6

Honestly, bro - broads don't watch as much porn as dudes. They don't have this huge expectation of massive, baby-arm wangs at full mast ready to go every time a guy drops his drawers. Also, as /u/prodigy2throw mentioned - vaginas don't actually get 'stretched out' in any permanent way by either big dicks, or even fists for that matter - or by how many they've had. They become more elastic maybe, but pussy is shrink fit - unless you're literally a pinky finger in the pants, you shouldn't have a p…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:49 PM
3

Just need a bro to talk to me and snap me out of this rut. You are not a special snowflake. You do not need your hand held. You need to work on yourself and your SMV because you want to and because you have the self-discipline to do it. That's it. No amount of coddling, or reassurance, or validation will change that. If you think you're a hopeless piece of shit, nothing anyone says here will change that. That being said, read more here. Read the sidebar. Lift. Work on yourself. Approach. Fail. A…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:36 PM
1

This... wow. That's even worse than I figured it could've been. Learn the lesson - if they're too forward without having a reason to be, there's a reason for it you're not picking up on. Yikes. Sorry you had a shitty night, bro.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 08:34 PM
1

It's better to get all of your calories through food. Mass gainer is just high-cal powdered food-substitute. I've never met someone who eating at 1000 - 1500 calories above their TDEE had a problem tacking on mass. Eating / consuming above that is just going to make you flabby, as their is a ceiling (which is often debated) about how many calories you can actually convert towards muscle building / day.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:48 PM
1

How old are you, what are your qualifications to aid, how long have you been active in TRP, etc? Stick to answering questions in AskTRP. I get the idea you aren't in any position to give 'counseling' yet.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:46 PM
1

It's the exact same game required to game any other girl. Read the sidebar. Don't overcomplicate things.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:45 PM
1

The thing that I missed when going through all of this was somebody always there for me. Hand-holding isn't a part of TRP.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:43 PM
1

I don't understand this obsession with trying to 'get back' the college days people think they missed out on. Did I have friends, crazy times, and crush a lot of girls? Hell yeah. Would I go back? No, no way. I have money, fitness, and a lifestyle of my creation now. That was fun, but this is better.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 12:41 PM
1

The amount of anger you keep tossing at people who are trying to help without holding your hand is probably a big factor in why you're not living this fantasy 'booze bitches party' lifestyle you keep posting questions about. Work on being someone you would want to be around. You can be the best looking guy on the planet, but if you're oozing anger and desperation through your pores, women (and men) are going to avoid you like the plague.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 12:39 PM
2

I think you're getting way, way too excited and overanalyzing this to the ends of the earth, when in reality? You don't even know what this woman actually looks like yet. Quit the fantasies. You don't potentially have a A hot fucking slave girl who let's me ravage all her holes whenever I want, right now you have a sexting / phone sex friend. That's it. Meet her in a public place. Don't tell her where you live. Cross the rest of the bridges when / if you get there.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 12:37 PM
2

Oh god yes.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:24 PM
2

Lol. Have fun, pal.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:31 AM
2

Yeah man, I live in Toronto, known as the SJW capital of North America, if you're familiar with Roosh V and the like. Hey dude, good for you. I'm glad you're one of the few guys out there that's working and making it happen without any excuses. AskTRP could use a lot more guys like you giving advice to the guys who bitch about race hamstringing them.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:19 AM
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That's it, man. It's the same as seeing a girl riding a Harley. Every guy who rides a Harley is going to hit on her, whether she has a man or not, because shit! Look at her, that's some rare shit! Change Harley for non-white, and girl for white girl.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 02:04 AM
1

Read the sidebar, for starters.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:43 AM
2

So then you should've gone when your friends were offering to bring you with them. Again, red carpet - do you really need one? You should've been confident enough to go, FB invite be damned.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:34 AM
3

Carry a can of peas with you at all times. You are now the Jolly Green Giant. EDIT: Also, try to avoid tripping over your dick on the way to the open bar. I know it's going to be hard... er, difficult.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:33 AM
2

God bless, but that girl in the 3rd pic / gif has a refund gap a mile wide.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:32 AM
1

Nah I didn't make a scene, everything I said was through text to my bro, I told him that she wasted my time and can go fuck herself. So you passive-aggressively confronted it instead? No better, maybe even worse. Then I just deleted her without talking to her. I did not confront her in any way. Also I wasn't expected an invite in her titsweat(although it would be nice) I was the only person that was invited to the party but didn't know anything where or when it will be held. Then you really were…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:30 AM
3

I have a handsome face, lift (but still skinny) and unfortunately shortish (5"7) So you've got something working for you - why are you not bigger? I'm glad to hear you're lifting, but are you eating right? Have you been lifting for long enough to get big? This shit takes time - if you've been lifting for six months and you're not getting interest based on your frame, you're experiencing the lag that comes when you're doing the right things, but you haven't been working on it long enough to exper…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:27 AM
7

I am looking into stronglift 5x5 and will start working from tomorrow. Should've been today. Stronglifts doesn't take 'looking into.' It takes doing. There is very strong preference for white/latin/asian guys here. A few times you see here and there a Indian guy with white girl but 8 out 10 times she is using him for drinks or dinner. He is her dinnerboi not fuckboi. Boo fucking hoo, the odds aren't immediately stacked in my favour. Here are some anecdotal examples I've decided to showcase while…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:21 AM
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On the other hand, I seem to get IOIs from good looking girls but with no real action. How are you pursuing these IOI's? Sounds like you have an okay SMV but your game sucks. SMV will attract broads, but unless it's at interplanetary levels - it's not going to override shoddy game.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:05 AM
1

Yeah, no. Sorry to say it bro, but she's not interested if she's saying she doesn't remember inviting you.. You should've gone with your friends regardless and had a good time, but now you're just looking for excuses to poke at your scars and feel sorry for yourself. don't want to associate with people who treat me like I don't exist so I told them that she can go fuckherself because I could be somewhere else, lost time because of her and deleted her from facebook because I don't want to get not…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 01:03 AM
2

So eventually the next day I sent her one back saying she better watch her act, that isnt gonna fly with me This is where you fucked up. If you have to outline what you want with a plate and tell her what isn't going to fly,, you're already lost. Acta, non verba. If she doesn't already know through your interactions thus far that she should tuck her tail between her legs and come beg for forgiveness, you've already lost. So how do I re initiate communication and get sex without seeming like the …
/r/askTRP01/11/15 12:58 AM
1

You're not wrong, but I'd ask you to show me an example of a man at any height that genuinely looks better small rather than with some muscle mass. If nothing else, being strong makes you more confident, makes you more capable of handling physical stresses, has health benefits, etc. What are the benefits of not being strong? Appealing to a subset of women who appreciate the waifish heroin-chic type? HIIT is great. I shouldn't have called you lazy for that. I won't backtrack on the rest, though.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 11:34 PM
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It's just that being this active and strength training clash with the way I view ideal femininity What? How is this possible? Do you want a frail princess locked in a castle, needing your rescue every five minutes when a breeze threatens to blow her away? I can't even wrap my head around it. Anyways, if it's a dealbreaker for you, it's a dealbreaker. Telling her not to lift is going to make you sound like a beta who knows his treat is about to become more desirable by other men, which is going t…
/r/askTRP31/10/15 11:15 PM
2

This can't be serious. No, you're right. Don't lift. The manlet look is definitely better than the "built like a square brick shithouse" look. Come on, man. Do what you want, but don't seek validation to be lazy.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 11:11 PM
2

Thank fuck somebody finally said it. I hate all this How can I best brush my teeth in an RP way? shit. Do what you want to do. Do it well. Cut out people and habits that make it harder for you. Don't base your entire life around a subreddit. Learn the information, and use to it make your life better - not to emulate some internet stranger's life as he describes it from behind a keyboard.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:51 PM
3

This is absolutely terrible advice. This is a fast-track to getting railroaded by HR / manager and a sexual harassment complaint. then kiss her. In a sexual way. Yeah, OP. Make sure not to smooch her like your grandmother after she calls the cops.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:48 PM
2

More details. I fucking hate these title-only posts. That's a ridiculously broad question - what is your relationship? Is this your girlfriend? Your wife? Your cousins roommate? Also, why do you need to tell her you don't trust her? Why would you 'trust' her implicitly at all, if you've been reading here at all? The long and short general answer is that there isn't a way to tell her. If you don't trust her (as much as an RP man can), you shouldn't be dealing with her as more than a plate, in whi…
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:44 PM
1

Eh, I don't get super handsy with girls I'm just friends with that I'm not interested in, so if she's going with it, you'll know. That's the thing about escalation - sometimes you genuinely need that one minute of insane bravery to go for it, even when your body is screaming at you not to. Other times, and most of the time really, you'll know whether escalation is going to go well. I'm not talking about anxiety, or doubt, or whatever. If your gut is screaming at you to abort, don't do it if you'…
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:39 PM
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Women can't get muscular in the way men think of muscular without going on testosterone, period. Dude, your girl is motivated to lose some weight and has a plan. You're worrying about how she could look - aka being feminine, and worrying about things that haven't happened yet, and may not happen at all. Either way, being alpha is leading, but who are you to tell her how to work out? If she wants to lift, cool. Let her lift. If she gets strong and cut, come back and cry to the guys on Married Red…
/r/askTRP31/10/15 10:32 PM
2

It depends. I tend to plate / ONS girls that are on the fringes of my social group. It's easy, and they tend to be hot - plus you already have an 'in' so to speak. Examples would be my buddy's girlfriend's friends who are around once in a while, friend's roommate's friends, etc. The important thing in my opinion is that they're loose acquaintances at best. They know me, have probably heard of me, but I don't have to see them every day, or worry about running into them literally every weekend whe…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 03:43 PM
2

Crab bucket mentality, man. Don't let betas - even your friends - make you think you can't do something because it seems impossible to them. I have friends all the time question why the hell I would let some girl 'get away' after sleeping with her, nexting after I'm not feeling a number close, whatever. To them, they just can't comprehend that I wouldn't be chasing as hard as possible to close with that 8. They don't have the abundance mentality I do. I don't chase because I know if I do, it'll …
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:30 PM
2

So your game is weak, and likely your SMV needs work. The higher your SMV, the shittier your game can be - but you should work on tightening up both. If you're not being able to set up a date or hold interest, then there's something you're doing wrong in your interaction that's killing the initial attraction you're generating to either a) get a ONS or b) get the number in the first place. Without a lot more information, I can't even begin to speculate on what that may be.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:29 PM
1

Maybe, but what's the point in devoting energy in women you won't see for a year? Use that energy on women locally - you got numbers when you went this time, so in the year you have to improve your SMV, you're going to do just fine (and probably better) starting from scratch next time you go.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:55 PM
3

As a guy who's had 4 novels published, let me know if you want any tips or anything along the way! 2000 words is an ambitious goal, but if you pound out 2000 a day for 30 days, you'll have a (short) publishable manuscript at 60,000 words by the end of it all. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:32 PM
3

I've been hitting the booze too hard lately. It hasn't been excessive excessive, but as a guy who used to have a nasty cocaine habit - I should know better than to let addiction creep up on me again. Booze is gone for November. I quit smoking long ago, but I still go through a tin of Skoal every few days. It's a total vice, makes me spend excess money not only on tins but on whitening strips to keep my teeth in check, and it's just plain gross. Tobacco is out for November. I've been so-so with m…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:30 PM
3

T-levels within 'normal' range usually mean low T. I'm too lazy to dig up the article - but having a blood test from a GP say you have 'sufficient' or in your case 'barely sufficient' T-levels means you are not going to benefit from your testosterone production at all, save for probably avoiding oesteoporosis. Make an appointment with an endocrinologist who specializes in T-levels. They may have a radically different opinion of what optimal T-levels are, as opposed to normal levels.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:20 PM
4

Come on, it took you that much to realize that this story is pure fantasy? He also wins cherry-stem tying contests, disarms people with guns pointed at him, and trips over his own dick when he walks. This is such horseshit.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:11 PM
7

Of all the things that never happened, this is fairly high on the list.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:08 PM
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If she's at best a HB5, why should she be on any RP man's radar anyway?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:07 PM
3

Yup. Most importantly, in order to pull this off for a year, you'll have to develop discipline to do things when you want to do them least, as the motivation will wear off pretty quickly. If you can develop true discipline, your whole life gets a helluva lot easier.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:59 PM
3

What a shitpost.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:54 PM
2

Yeah, exactly. I was on the west coast for a few weeks last month. I made some connections, but couldn't wrap up a few loose ends before I flew back. I'll keep them on FB / whatever, but I'm not pursuing them. Soft next, warm them up with a few messages a week before you return - if you return.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:53 PM
6

But that sounds a lot like work!
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:52 PM
2

I see them noticing me all the time but for whatever reason I just can't seem to get the job done. What job done? Approaching? have no reason not to have self confidence but for some reason or another I can't keep my anxiety in check. Only way to get over approach anxiety is by pushing through it enough times to realize rejection can't actually hurt you.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:51 PM
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No, still a pretty typical RP post. This has been addressed here before. That being said, go see a doctor. Get your bloodwork done. Low libido could be anything from low T to an inbalance in nutrients to a sign of a serious illness. Besides that, I found lifting heavy to really increase my libido. I think it could have something to do with increases in hormone production, but I know I get sluggish and lethargic if I miss a week from illness / injury / whatever.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:50 PM
2

Sounds like a matter for your doctor to treat, rather than for guys on the internet to give you advice on.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:46 PM
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Sugar, spice, and everyhing ni- no, wait. Broken dreams. They smell like broken dreams.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:36 AM
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You got it, ecentric curls are what you're talking about. I do both hammer curls and twisting curls in the same workout - heavy for the hammers, lighter for the twists - more just to hit the second head of the bicep rather than the whole thing.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:36 AM
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I'm not asking him to do anything for free - I wasn't aware of who he was, or what his deal was. I'm more talking about the countless other guys I see who put up half-assed posts and then post a donation link. Hell, I should get off my high horse, though. Fuck it, if people want to pay, let them. It doesn't affect me, so it shouldn't bother me - you're right.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:35 AM
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I hear you, I'm the same way. Example: When I was powerlifting, I could do 3 sets of 250 lb barbell benchpress on a flat bench for sets of 6. When I switched to bodybuilding, I'll often only do 135 - 150 lbs for 4 sets of 10 with explosive upwards movement with a much narrower grip. I've found this has helped me tack on a lot of mass in the areas that were missing, specifically in the inner chest and upwards towards the clavicle. Do I bench a bitch amount compared to the guys doing 270? Sure. Bu…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:34 AM
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Yeah, you can lean over an incline bench for preachers. I don't do them much because I like to work the little muscles that add more definition than a straight isolation like preachers offer - but once you hit the point you need them, you can definitely make it work.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:30 AM
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Hey man, it all depends on your goals. When I first started lifting for strength, I was a bouncer who was 6'4 160 lbs. I needed to be able to put up numbers, or I was in a world of hurt. Did powerlifting make be bigger? Oh fuck yeah. Did it mesh with my long-term goals? Maybe not. There's nothing wrong with powerlifting. There are guys who powerlift who are bigger than I could ever dream to be - but for a guy with my build and my genetics, bodybuilding (after I had built enough strength to make …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:22 AM
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Much like how men in prior times of economic downturn recognized that times, they were a'changing - if you recognize this fact with the emotional landscape of our period - you will also have a chance to capitalize on it. Society makes the circumstances, but those who adapt; thrive.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:19 AM
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I only work out a muscle grouping once every other day. I do a pretty grimy low-class brosplit where I do upper body day one, lower body day two, whatever doesn't hurt day three, rest day, repeat. It works for me, it won't work for everyone. Yes, max weight you can do 4 x 10 (per arm, so if it's a dumbell curl, you're doing 20 total reps). If you're getting through it without feeling like you're struggling through the last 3 reps / arm of the 3rd set and really fighting to bang that last set out…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:08 AM
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Because it attracts a varsity lifestyle, which is about as close as you can get to Greek life without having Greek life - such as my university in Ontario was that literally didn't have a single frat / sorority.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:04 AM
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The wheels are turning in my mind to create a post or series on how to increase your SMV 2-3 points If you had the answer, you either wouldn't be here to begin with, or you wouldn't need our prior approval to craft such a post. getting in/being surrounded with attractive women, and how to live a comfortable social life where you bring value to others while reaping the benefit of having high social proof. This is literally what the whole TRP forum is based on. If you have some magic bullet, pleas…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:02 AM
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Cute. Closure isn't a thing, no matter what anybody thinks. If she's hanging with her ex's new girl, she's doing recon to either a) justify her feelings that she's better than her, or b) looking for ways to get back with him by spotting her weaknesses. Either one is bad for you. Don't deal with this nicely.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:59 AM
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Why the fuck are you giving good morning texts to a girl you've never fucking met? Sidebar. Sidebar. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:58 AM
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I'm a self-admitted curlbro. I used to be a powerlifter, but left it in favour of bodybuilding routines. I do 4 sets of 10 reps (EDIT: per arm, when applicable) for all exercises, period. I'm 6'4 235 lbs, and I only hammercurl 40 lbs for 4 x 20, immediately followed by 4 x 20 at 30 lbs of outside twisting curls. Bodybuilding is about time under tension for the muscle. If I'm doing 4 x 20 easy, I move up 5 lbs / arm. You should definitely work your shoulder flies / rotator cuffs as well, as they …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:53 AM
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Yup. Dude, my plates are mostly strippers these days for a reason. As long as you know exactly what you're walking into, when to fold your cards and pull chute - you'll get exactly what you expect out of wheeling strippers / girls with daddy issues so strong you can smell them from ten miles away. It's great fun to swing the crazy ones - it's understanding how to work damage control when it invariably breaks down that's the important part.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:49 AM
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Yeah this sounds a little like RP porn to be honest. He sounds like a French Fifty Shades of Grey character or something - especially when she's talking about obscure Japanese designers that are super expensive and make you look like a vampire or something. If it's true, this guys the man - but it sounds too good to be true.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 03:46 PM
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Yeah, I really don't dig this trend of guys trying to monetize what started out as a free resource. Sounds predatory and generally shitty. I get TRP being amoral, and how a fool and his money are soon parted - but all this private coaching and 'donation funds' are starting to get to me.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 03:41 PM
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This girl isn't yours yet. She's never yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 03:38 PM
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Yup, you got it man. I'll get three or four HB7-8 matches some days, and I can't even be bothered to msg them. I've got a manufacturing shop to run, beers to drink with my friends, and shit to get done at home. It's nice when women finally start feeling like a worthwhile distraction when you want it, rather than a dominating be-all-in-the-end-all.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 12:33 AM
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You're certainly right about the Gronk!s being out the last few days. It's been slightly exhausting.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:52 PM
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Is your main a former LTR you had oneitis for?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:50 PM
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Monk Mode isn't for being happy alone. Monk Mode is for working on yourself and raising your SMV because your experiences with women are probably only going to depress you. You chase your goals, and women be damned. Monk mode is actively not chasing women and pursuing only self improvement. What I think you need to do is just be single. Chase broads when you feel like it, do you when you don't. You can still do girlfriend / LTR things with plates to scratch the itch when it comes up. ETA: I hear…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:48 PM
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Depression phase, man. Depression phase, when it comes to TRP, doesn't mean literally walking around sad. A lot of the time it means you just can't be bothered to even swipe some broads on Tinder, because you don't want to play the game, because what they're doing is evident and the solution is evident, etc etc etc. I've been through it, I get weekends like this one where I still go through it. Best bet is to take advantage of the phase and basically do an informal monk mode. Don't actively not …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:45 PM
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You, me, and a couple of fistfuls of bourbon. Scouts on 5th, Tuesday at 8. If she doesn't reply, you don't say another word to her. NOTE: Obviously, edit this to make sense for you. If there's no Scouts on 5th, she's going to be real fucking confused.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:42 PM
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To answer your question as directly as I can you're comparing medical conditions (acne, alopecia) to straight genetics (height, baldness). Medical conditions are always going to be more socially acceptable to chase cures for rather than pure 'vanity' solutions. How does not having hair or being short affect your health? It doesn't. I understand where you're coming from. When I'm bulking, I get a double-chin that drives me up the fucking wall, and I've genuinely considered getting some kind of pr…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:39 PM
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Not sure why you even need my input if you've been reading TRP at all. a) If this is legit, you want to avoid a broad who's ex has this much control of her psyche and actions, full stop. b) If this is bullshit, she's really stretching to let you down nicely. In any case, move on. Hard next - if it weren't breaking frame, this is a girl I'd tell to fuck her own face.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:34 PM
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My sweet summer child. No, she doesn't care. She's not interested. She's dodging your questions to keep you as a nice little orbiter, and ignoring your offers is her way of making sure you understand your role next time. Move on.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:32 PM
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I am also not religious, but I think you're incorrect in your conclusion. I don't want a virgin. I don't want a woman with no life experience. I want a high-value woman with a lower n-count, but who displays traits of loyalty and ride or die (as much as a woman ever could - they're limited by their inherent traits, don't lecture me on this - I'm well aware of what I'm saying, and I hope you understand the context). Honestly, the best place to meet a girl worth marrying is anywhere that isn't a b…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:31 PM
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If you can't spell techniques, you're not ready for black knighting.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:28 PM
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Hey man, at some point, I'm sure someone either thought you were a loser or a douchebag too - and I'm sure it's for reasons you presented to them. I know I've been thought of as both, so I try to let it slide. I don't disagree with you - but I try not to let anger phase guys and their tantrums get to me anymore. Let them cry it out, they'll be back, or they won't. EDIT: Clarity
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:16 PM
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I will be at SHOT for sure, I'll PM you my info. As I said, I don't mean to be offensive - I'm a younger guy (27) so what seems try-hard to me I've come to realize is just how some of the older guys present themselves because they haven't had a social media lens on them their whole lives. Glad you found the sub, and very glad to make your acquaintance. My company does mostly knives for C-SOR combat guys these days, as well as Glock slides (RMR mods), Remington parts, tube extenders, hand guards,…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:32 AM
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Bulked to 80% bodyfat? Jesus Christ, take off.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:07 AM
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Get the fuck off AskTRP. Picking internet fights with anyone who has a different opinion than you is the lamest shit ever. Literally shit in your hand and smear it on the wall, and it will be more productive than your posts here.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:06 AM
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Cute. Yes, yes you do - if they're your ex girlfriend who you have oneitis for when you could better spend your time gaming hotter, bettter women who you don't have a history with. Keep coming back. Read the sidebar. You have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:05 AM
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Honestly, as a guy who owns an arms manufacturing company who outfits a lot of these guys, I have a hard time believing what you're saying. I outfit all the Canadian Special Operations kids, as well as the JTF folks - this may be a nitpick, but why are you so insistent on using the acronym, only to explain it as an ~expert~ in the next sentence? It just reeks of either being older and not understanding that it comes off as try-hard, or legit try-hard and you're picking apart the oper8tr's there …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:01 AM
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Cut out your ex. She's an ex for a reason. Plating ex's should be reserved for 2-3 years into an actual TRP lifestyle. I'd say you're suffering from oneitis, but since you're posting to AskTRP about an ex and a concern she had about your relationship - I know you have oneitis. Move on. Game new women. She's not special. As the adage says, the best way to get over one broad is to get under another. You're not nearly ready to start dealing with where you went wrong in relationships - focus on beco…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 01:35 AM
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Then start putting it in action. You don't truly internalize a lot of the teachings until you see it for yourself first-hand.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 01:32 AM
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How often are you bashing the bishop? I had the same problem in university. Could wheel girls, fuck no problem, but I never got the 'satisfaction' part of the encounter I suppose as I rarely managed to finish. It led to a lot of repeat business because I could last for-fucking-ever, but I was pissed I couldn't finish. Turns out spanking it to porn 3x a day gives you death-grip syndrome, and no vagina is going to squeeze your dick like your own desperate fist. I only slap the ol' pecker around on…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 03:37 PM
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Yup. Glad you found the sub, but there's nothing special about your situation compared to others - so the same advice applies. Read the sidebar. Go to the main sub, sort by top, and work your way down. Lift. Work on your SMV.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 03:35 PM
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She shit tests me all the time with a lot of things, but I always stand my ground and don't give in. Why are you communicating with your ex to the point that she's shit-testing you? But she's in power of the sex, she knows I want it and she knows how to fuck my head with it. So you've got oneitis to the point that you're letting a woman no longer in your life still fuck with your head, got it. How do I play the game and change her into the slut she is so I can make her a true plate who begs for …
/r/askTRP22/10/15 03:34 PM
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I feel like I'm not going to get there until I have a good salary. So what, you can wow women with your incredible beta provider potential? Slag off with that. Your problem is you're ripped, but you still think like a chubby pale 15 year old virgin. I don't mean to offend you, but without any inner confidence which you clearly lack by your apparent prerequisites to expect success with women, you're failing before you've even started. Work on learning to like yourself. Why should broads want to j…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:51 AM
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You've missed nothing. You really shouldn't start lifting heavy until your growth plates have fused over, or you could stunt yourself. At 17, you're literally at the starting gates to get stupid swole. I didn't start lifting til I was 23. I was 6'4, 168 lbs. I'm now almost 27, 235 lbs. Be glad you're starting now. And actually start now.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:48 AM
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Well, you've fucked up large here, pal. At least you know it. What can you do? Develop some fucking discipline. You didn't fail out because of a chemistry course, you failed out because you failed. Take responsibility for that, 100%. I was kicked out of university after my first year too, man. I know how it feels. I went back and finished with good grades and lead a pretty stellar life now at 26, so it's entirely possible. Something tells me you're a smart dude who coasted his whole life like I …
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:41 AM
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Yeah, I never really had an anger phase either. I had a Whoa, yeah okay I've experienced what they're saying and it ground my gears in the past and I moved on. I definitely still had a depression phase where I wondered why the hell I should bother with broads besides for easy lays as a release for a while. Acceptance phase is blessed.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:38 AM
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...because it matters. You're ratcheting up her temperature, then effectively saying Hold on, chum! I believe I have a prophylactic here somewhere! Allow me to awkwardly excuse myself to roll this balloon over my rapidly deflating cock while you have a chance to regret this before it even starts! Why are you leaving to put on a condom? Honestly, I want to know.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:35 AM
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Cute, isn't it? Let him go. This is pretty common with new guys who think they know it all. Let him tire himself out.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:55 AM
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He's a troll, bro. Don't listen to him. Another guy who knows it all, but has applied none of it to his own life.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:54 AM
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Look up "Gronk!" in the main TRP sub. Your hilarious attempts at powertalk are entertaining, I'll give you that. You're already taking a trip through my post history I see - take a long hard look, friend. Learn something while you're at it, at least.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:53 AM
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You're adorable, following me around from thread to thread trying to call me out. I hope you're learning something from this, at least.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:52 AM
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Like I said, she's abnormally faithful, maybe due to the culture she grew up with. So why have you been focusing on her so much? You admit she's an 8/10. There's nothing truly special about an 8. I can toss a rock out my window in any direction, and I have a 8/10 chance of hitting an 8/10. Why have you been playing this long game? They will break up as soon as he makes this decision, which according to her is pretty certain. So she's dumping her relationship drama on you. What does this smell li…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:17 AM
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And you're a special snowflake, and she's a unicorn who AWALT doesn't apply to, right? Come on, man. You're deluding yourself.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:13 AM
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Make your own money. You're not a trophy wife, don't behave like one.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:12 AM
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Yes you do, brother. My ex was co-heir to a ~$20 mil (CAD) fortune. No amount of money was worth her staying out all night banging lines of coke and ignoring my calls while I was firmly beta. What are you, a woman branch swinging?] Move on, for your own good man.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:12 AM
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You asked if there should be a special sub for 'boys' in TRP. Do you really think 12 year olds give a shit about family dynamics? 15 - 16 year old's come to TRP everyday. What the fuck more do you want? /r/TRP_28YearOldsBornInJanuaryWhoAlsoLoveSpiceGirls? A big part of TRP is realizing you aren't special. Nobody is special. No specific girl is special. Take advice given, apply to yourself what you can. Don't expect a one-size-fits-all kind of answer. The world doesn't work like that.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:11 AM
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I can't imagine /r/theredpill filled up with 'my mom is using me to get to my dad' posts There are posts on this literally all the time. I'm not as much as responding to you as I am addressing your comment in public view. Congrats, you showed me.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:33 AM
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Warranted? What's it like to be so weak that words from a stranger can hurt you to the point you'll risk everything /u/fnordsnord just outlined? Come on man, use your head. You're smarter (and stronger) than that.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:31 AM
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You don't fight unless your life or your loved one's life is in danger. Period. Go ahead. Be the big man and break his jaw. I bet you $20 you either break your hand, get shitkicked, or arrested. It's 100% not worth it. Source: Stripclub bouncer for a decade. Dealt with heroes with something to prove far more times than I care to remember, and held rags to their guts when they got stabbed by other heroes more times than I also care to remember.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:30 AM
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I was a smoker for a decade. I still fuck up when I drink sometimes. Smoking will kill you, period. Everybody understands that, but what they don't think of is that it's not a boom you die at 60 instead of 80. No, for 20 years (speculation) you're going to deal with worsening quality of life, increasing illness, and general pain because of smoking. By the time one of the cancers or COPD get you, you'll probably be thankful - because you haven't gone a day without coughing blood in years. Listen …
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:26 AM
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but at some point this could bite me in the ass if she finds that I knew and didn't warn her. Jesus Christ. Sack up and tell her it's going to rain, or don't and don't tell her you knew. This isn't fucking rocket science. Stop overanalyzing every single minutae of your interactions. Be a man, lead, and deal with shit as it comes instead of getting your tampon soaked thinking of what-if's.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:24 AM
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Who cares? If you were Brad Pitt, would she be mentioning being 'in the middle of a breakup?' No, she'd enthusiastically be open to your advances. Game her as any other woman. If she brings it up as an excuse, it's a signal your SMV is weak.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:22 AM
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Read the sidebar. If you're still asking 'how to accept it,' you haven't been reading, learning, and lifting long enough to understand it - and it's not something I can explain in a text response. Keep coming back, it'll make sense sooner or later.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:21 AM
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Why are you orbiting this girl so badly? You've been 'escalating daily,' but haven't even kissed her? You say you don't have oneitis, but this is textbook oneitis. Why are you devoting this much energy into a girl with a boyfriend who might break up soon, and planning some grand scheme? Move on, pal. Work on your SMV. Game some new broads. She's an 8/10, not a 12/10.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:20 AM
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No. TRP is TRP. You are not a special snowflake.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 12:18 AM
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There's no such thing as involuntary MGTOW. Men Going Their Own Way, not Men Desperate Trying To Still Meet Women But Unable To Conquer Crippling Insecurity But Still Headed Their Own Way. What you're talking about is incel. But yes, do some quick googling on it and you'll find some interesting articles out of Japan.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 10:03 PM
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I'm not 100% clear on the question, but I don't know what the problem with your scenario is. You're meeting women and they fail to meet your standards. I'd prefer that rather than having low standards and orbiting anything with a pair of tits.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:35 PM
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It's normal to have a 'main' plate. I have a girl I like more than the others. I don't keep any around simply so I have an abundance mentality - I keep them around because I enjoy their company and the sex they bring to the table. You can interact with one girl at a time and not get oneitis. The ability to drop her and walk away at a moment's notice for your own well-being is the definition of being oneitis-free. It's possible to have this when dealing with a single girl. It's just usually easie…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:34 PM
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Fitness is fitness. Get on Stronglifts or Starting Strength if you want a jump-off point. All this shit is easily found through the search bar.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:32 PM
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Yeah, I don't think the pervasive social anxiety, isolating with manga and hentai, and becoming a literal shut-in has anything to do with MGTOW.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:31 PM
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Now i've started stronglifts a few weeks ago i'm also getting weaker, and making no gains. Could be just me, but a 'few weeks' of Stronglifts with a so-so diet while doing HIIT isn't going to provide any noticeable results that quickly. HIIT is also probably interfering with your ability to recuperate. I wouldn't worry about anything yet. Cut out the cardio (if you're looking to get strong), get 8 hours a night of rest, and eat everything in sight - and lift. Come back in two months if there's s…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:31 PM
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Nope, you move forward as if nothing happened. This one is done, on to the next.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 04:28 PM
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I think the question should be better posed as what benefits could they gain from lifting, that they aren't? There are a lot of benefits that come with being larger and stronger, but perhaps once you hit that level of success, the motivation to put in the work on your body just isn't there. It's not that they wouldn't benefit from lifting weights (google one of the hundred of studies out there that deal with lifting and age-related injury and disease), it's that they're choosing not to. One of t…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 12:11 AM
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It's a numbers game. For every girl you match with, only a percentage are actually going to ever really be interested in meeting up with you. I can't remember the informal 'study' that was on RP a while ago, but it's something like you can expect to match with 2% of women at an average SMV, and close with something like 5% of them - if you know what you're doing. It's absolutely a numbers game - but it's online rejection, so who cares? It's like playing a game on your iPhone, except if you win y…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:43 PM
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Yeah, no - the rule isn't don't text on the app, the rule is to text as little as necessary to get the number and a meet. You're absolutely correct. If you bust out a 'lets grab a drink' in 4 texts and your SMV isn't god-tier, you're going to get ignored. Play the game a bit, get a banter going, and then do it. The trick is to find the happy medium where you're getting the number and the close without giving yourself too many opportunities to fuck up before you begin, know what I mean? Best part…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:38 PM
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How is pursuing a healthy body somehow irrelevant once you hit a cash threshold? I probably make more money than you at this moment in time from my passive investments. Congrats. Most rich people don't lift, because they're not inherently insecure. Most rich people have intense fitness regimes to keep themselves in perfect shape - all of the people you listed aren't fat shitheads cultivating diabetes on piles of money. It may not be powerlifting, but I promise you every single one of them does s…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:33 PM
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If you bench 30 lbs per arm and you're genuinely afraid of breaking bones, you're not lifting 4x a week. You're going to the gym 4x a week.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:28 PM
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I have a ton of success on Tinder. Keep it light and flirty, and start escalating immediately. As soon as the conversation heats up, drop in #? If she's interested, she'll send you her number. A few more texts, and set up a meet. Bing, bang, boom. Lots of girls will not like you or want to meet. This is okay. Tinder is a fun distraction for some girls, and essential lifeblood for others. If you try, you'll fuck from it. I don't even approach almost at all anymore because Tinder does all the work…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:49 PM
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Ha. Most girls I fuck from Tinder have 'no hookups' in their bios. They're telling themselves that to try to stop from falling on another cock. Advance as usual.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:47 PM
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I agree with you. Thanks for fleshing that out for me!
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:40 PM
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Yeah, exactly. OP came off as King Butthurt of Whiner Mountain. He nuked what amounted to maybe a minimal shit-test, though it was likely she just wanted to be in her own bed. Unless they had some super important morning plans, who cares if she leaves at 3 in the morning? She's a plate. She's allowed to go fuck anybody she likes - it's a non-exclusive relationship - and if she does it this blatantly, well - you know she's not worth the LTR and you move on.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:11 PM
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This is very common, and I've been seeing a lot of posts about it lately. It's depression phase, man. It's that weird point where you've gotten over anger phase and seen enough real-world demonstrations of TRP teachings that while you've accepted it to be true, the reality kind of hurts. Disney was wrong. We don't get fairytales. We don't get to chase that grand imaginary love and sacrifice everything we are in the name of love like some romantic novel. For a while, it makes you feel a little em…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:44 AM
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The only 'flaw' you have here is that you're relying on the perceptions of others for validation. Do you find yourself interesting? Do you find your pursuits worthwhile? Or do you find yourself 'boring' because you're sitting at home playing video games instead of staying home and working towards a goal? I don't go out as much as I used to either, but when I'm home I'm working on my novels, wrenching on cars, or working on business plans / design shit. I don't find any of that boring - and I don…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:39 AM
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First off, you can't be everything to everyone. Some things that will boost your SMV in niche circles to extreme levels will absolutely decimate your SMV in others. For example, I have sleeves and generally look like a biker. This makes my SMV among strippers, Suicide Girl-types, and general 'bad' chicks much, much higher. These are the kinds of girls I like, so I go with it (More importantly, it's because it's how I like to look, but I'm trying to keep it in context). My appearance does not hel…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:35 AM
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He can choose to take that responsibility. If he wants to be in a typical LTR and sees potential in her then I would say there is room for being the leader and have her follow his lead. You're not wrong, but I would counter with begging the question why he'd want to even consider an LTR with a woman who right off the bat is demonstrating that she doesn't value his time. What do you mean by agency? Agency in TRP terms means that women are accountable for their actions, with no excuses made becaus…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:26 AM
2

Doing coke doesn't make you a bad person. Being a dumbass drug addict makes you a bad person. Believe me, I used to be a cokehead. I blew probably $20,000 on drugs between 22-24. That being said, if she does smash bro, she's not worth your time. Either hit it and quit it, or keep her on a real, real occasional basis. Not every girl who does blow is going to be a headcase, but the number of headcases who do smash vs the number of headcases who avoid smash is 3000 to 1. Never LTR a girl who has a …
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:31 AM
1

RSDTyler. I don't watch, but he gets recommended a lot. Check it out if you like, but go out and make your own mistakes, bro. You'll learn a lot more from them.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:27 AM
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But no hate at all towards woman, that would be like getting mad at a child that wants to play with you. That's an incredibly poignant thought, thanks for that man. I like that idea. The good news is, at this point in my life, I'm willing to let every girl I know fail with me to find out, and I'm not even scared to lose all of them just to answer my questions along the way. That's not good news - that's the best news, brother. Taking control of your own life and accepting that broads from here o…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:23 AM
1

You answered your own question - it's an SMV issue - but if a girl is looking at her phone while talking to me, I usually make a comment like "You don't have to text me, I'm right here" while playfully covering their phone screen. If that goes badly, then it's not going to work out anyway and I'm already three steps behind.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:41 AM
2

Best bet is to get talking to her ASAP over neutral shit. I know high school game is different than wheeling girls in a bar - if you have a fatal blow-out, it could make things a little awkward. Best bet is to start talking to her like you're known each other for years. Make a comment about something like it's an inside joke between you two. You want to build rapport quickly. From there, be brave - ask her to grab a coffee tonight since you've 'got to stay up late to get this homework done,' or …
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:22 AM
2

Makes sense, I get it now.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:14 AM
2

Yup, so this is definitely depression phase, my man. It's hard to realize that what Disney told us for years growing up (I'm 26, I don't know about you) is all a lie. Soulmates, genuine connections abounding, etc. All if not bullshit, very, very rare. The good part is that eventually, you'll move into the acceptance phase. Acceptance is when you realize that yes - women have their limitations. They will never be able to love you the way you love them, or the way Hollywood has told you they are c…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:12 AM
2

Okay so you've been with these people since grade 9, you're not a stranger anymore so you need to drop that mentality immediately. I know how it is to come into a social circle in a small insulated town - I moved to a town of less than 30,000 in grade 9 in Northern Ontario. I know what it's like to have missed out on the last 8 years of being little kids together to drinking beers and shit. I get it. The fact remains that if you're coming off as try-hard, it's because you're trying too hard. Gam…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:07 AM
1

Quick question and not meant to be condescending - but how old are you so I can tailor this advice appropriately?
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:56 PM
1

I generally DGAF and that has been my attitude since before I found out that there was a Red Pill. My problem is that I have never been "cool" or "interesting." So no, you do give a fuck. You're still relying on how 'interesting' other people find you for your source of validation. A big part of becoming an RP man is learning to become your own source of validation. Do you feel like what you do on a daily basis is cool? No? Why not? Fix that, but not because anybody else is going to think it's c…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:53 PM
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How is she a potential plate if you've barely talked? You have to ONS a girl before she's even in the realm of plate, padre. She's a girl. Treat her as any other. If your SMV isn't high enough to begin with, you're shit out of luck, no matter the timing. If she's a genuine HB8, you better be on your game. I dig your Machiavellian approach to trying to piggyback on her social standing - but unless you've got game, good looks, a muscular frame, good style, social proof, etc and everything else tha…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:44 PM
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Yup. Sounds like she wants her good little orbiter back - so put it to the test. Make her put up or shut up.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:42 PM
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I hear you - but it won't give you confidence in wheeling women. Why would it? You wheeled that escort with a hundred dollar bill. It had no reflection on your game. Listen man, I've been with probably 150+ some odd women and probably 3 escorts in my 26 years. There's nothing inherently wrong with escorts - but you have to understand what it is. It's masturbating with a female form. There are no emotions - it's a transaction. That kind of 'exchange' has it's place and it's function, but I just w…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:39 PM
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I was being told, that they haven't met many guys who are so relaxed in presence of women and who are able to convey conversation for hours without any awkward moments. You're not escalating, period. It sounds to me like you can bring women into your circle, but you're friendzoning yourself by expecting them to jump on you or something. You're the man. You lead. Why are you talking for hours upon hours, over and over? Where is it leading? Where is your kino, isolation, and going for the kiss? Wh…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:28 PM
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That's your fault in that case then, but I still stand behind that girls aren't late to plans with guys they're genuinely interested in outside of normal tardiness from a little traffic or an actual emergency. You should've sacked up from the beginning and made your plans more clear, though. Take a lesson from it, and work on being more clear with your intentions next time.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:23 PM
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Listen, I feel you to a degree. It's depression phase a bit, I'd say. You get to the point where you're having enough success with women and understand the dynamic enough that it all feels kind of hollow. What about love? What about connection? I mean, it almost feels like you've hotwired the female attraction machine so you can get laid without all the backlash. You're human, and you're still learning. You're allowed to have sympathy and give comfort to people in need. You're not a robot, and I…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:21 PM
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I didn't lose my v-card to an escort, but I've been with a few over the years. Honestly, it isn't nearly the same experience as fucking a girl you've gamed. I'd say if you have some kind of massive anxiety about being a virgin, it's worth seeing an escort just to see that sex is honestly just a cool thing you do with broads - it doesn't change you in any fundamental way. The problem with getting a hooker to take your v-card is that it's not a realistic benchmark by which to measure the rest of y…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:15 PM
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I got friend-zoned by my friend's hot sister, probably bc of lack of confidence and my obvious inexperience with women, and I'm going to be seeing her at my friend's party this weekend and would like feedback on how to have the best chances of banging her since I will be sleeping at their house and there are a limited number of beds there. Should I just be aloof and socialize with the other people there? This ones dead, bud. Instead of 'acting' aloof and pretending to socialize with other girls …
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:12 PM
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honestly if a girl is interested I feel like she would make a conscious effort to be sure she saw me. Exactly. If you were Brad Pitt, do you think she'd ignore your calls and leave you hanging?
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:10 PM
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This is what my thoughts are. People make time for the things that are important to them, full stop. The girl is barely apologizing for her behaviour, and isn't picking up her phone. She didn't get caught up with her brother because her brother just got hit by a car, she made that choice. I'm not saying it's a right choice or a wrong choice, but OP was not the priority there, even when she knew he was at her house waiting for her for almost half an hour. Move on, find new girls, soft next. Next …
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:09 PM
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If there never has been consequences to her shitty behavior then she has never really learned that she can't act that way. Whoa, whoa, whoa. No. It's not OP's responsibility to teach her jack shit, and don't be an apologist making up excuses for her shitty behaviour. In TRP world, women are accountable for their actions. They have agency. It doesn't mean she's she shittest person to walk the face of the earth, but it does mean that she fucked up and is responsible for it.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:07 PM
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So why do you care? Plates are non-exclusive relationships. She can do whatever she wants - if she wants to fuck guys three at a time, that's her prerogative. Why are you so hellbent on trying to LTR this girl and jumping through mental hoops about it? If she doesn't seem like a good fit for you, move on - period.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:18 PM
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No. You're afraid of lifting weights and being an enormous pussy about it, so I'm done trying to convince you. Be forever small, see if I give a shit.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:16 PM
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Being a guy who went from 6'4 160 lbs at 18 to 6'4 235 lbs at 26, I will agree with this wholeheartedly. A couple of days ago, I was going through an old back-up of iPhone pictures on an old computer trying to find something. I came across a selfie I had taken in the mirror of an old apartment shirtless. I often look in the mirror and I'm moderately happy with what I see, but I took another picture in the same pose - and holy god. It really clicked what a few solid years in the gym coupled with …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 03:07 AM
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but my problem is with her, is that she goes out to clubs. She gets drunk and talks to random guys. She says however she only talks with them, and dances, she never kisses. So you're talking about a girl who isn't a complete square who goes out and enjoys herself like 90% of women between 18-25 are? You're talking about your average girl. If you're not planning on dating her, who cares? And if you're planning on dating her, why? I can smell from a mile away that you're not one to have a lot of e…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:10 AM
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Nah, motivation is fleeting. I'm ridiculously motivated to work out when I'm drunk and eating pizza with my friends after the bar. I'm super motivated to go game chicks when I'm stuck at work and have no ability to go out and do that aside from Tinder or whatever. Sometimes these actually translate into action, but more often than not they don't. Discipline and routine will get you much farther. Going to the gym when you absolutely don't want to. Approaching a girl when you feel like shit about …
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:06 AM
2

This is the most correct answer. Abundance mentality isn't about showing them you can sleep with a million girls when you really can't. It's about avoiding falling into orbiter territory / beta mentality / whatever you want to call it. And if you don't have an abundance mentality, it's because you don't have abundance. Abundance comes from working on raising your SMV to a level where you have more options than you know what to do with, and with any dedicated work to raising your SMV, this happen…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:02 AM
1

Oh boy. Okay, as a former alcoholic and cocaine addict here - let me give you the straight shit. I still drink lightly, but I don't do drugs. What you're describing is addiction, plain and simple. Yes, drugs and alcohol can turn you into the 'better' version of yourself. Cocaine is literally a shortcut to extreme self-confidence, ability to carry on conversations indefinitely, etc. You feel and act like god on it, and people react to it. The problem is, when it wears off (or the booze wears off)…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 01:58 AM
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What you're describing is delayed onset muscles soreness, aside from the esophagus thing - which I would get checked out by a doctor - because that's not normal, and almost definitely not related to lifting with any kind of form at all.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 01:54 AM
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You're 5'11 and weigh 150? You don't have an athletic build at all. You're skinnier than death. You can't break your bones from lifting heavy with any kind of brain in your head. I can think of a million ways to injure myself lifting at 6'4 235 lbs, but none of them include having any clue as to what I'm doing. Meet with a trainer and learn until you're prepared to do it on your own. Millions of people lift every day, and there's no bone-snapping epidemic going on.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 01:53 AM
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No, you fucking tard. Form makes it virtually impossible to hurt yourself if you are in any shape to be lifting and you listen to the limits your body tries to tell you. If you're seriously injuring yourself lifting 15 kg, you shouldn't be lifting in the first place because you have some very serious medical conditions that need addressing.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 01:18 AM
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You are either a) in extremely poor physical shape and should've consulted your doctor before beginning, or b) trolling. The amount of people who injure themselves badly from lifting are barely 1% of the people who are going to die this year from obesity-induced illness. I'll take my chances with the weights.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 01:17 AM
1

Two sleeves, I'm guilty of it.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:54 PM
1

I've never heard that, but I fucking love it.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 02:44 AM
1

Apt 200 is just super, super fucking hip. I don't know your style, I don't know what you like. You may hate it. I really dig it, though. It's not that hood, I don't go to gangster places.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:35 AM
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I will definitely join you another night - I'm up north this evening, but I'm always down to rip with another RP dude. Apt. 200 will be sick as shit tonight too, Drake Hotel will be more clubby but upstairs will be cool. Ballroom is cool for 905 sloots. Shoot me a PM and we'll set something up, brother.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:22 AM
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She didn't set a date. She said she 'could' be available. She's responding, so she doesn't hate you - sure, that's true. But she's far from interested. It sounds polite more than anything to me. And how is this going on a date? She said if you want to hang out, she can. Listen, I'm giving you the benefit of a doubt here. I'm not going to argue with you any further. You're dodging half of what I say without responding, so I'm going to leave you to it. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:09 AM
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But she's not banging dudes. By your screenshot, you awkwardly had to send her a pic and tell her who you are, to which she backpedaled and said she has a boyfriend. You've never even fucked her by your own admission - you've made out with her over a year ago. Why are you making these hilarious assumptions this quick? You're making this imaginary story where you've already fucked her and you have this heart-to-heart with this guy you've never met - and somehow it ends some other way aside from h…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:02 AM
2

Dude, who are you? Captain Save a Bro? Why do you want to help some dude out who you don't even know, aside from stalking his profile on Instagram? Save your high and mighty bullshit on me. You're trying to fuck her. I'd actually have a shred of respect for you if you just said that instead of trying this horseshit rationalization of saying this is all for some strange bro's benefit. TRP is amoral. I'd help you if you were trying to fuck her - but you trying to forcibly insert yourself in some s…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:57 AM
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Eh, I'm going to go against /u/invalidity here and say yes, it displays you as less alpha, if not beta, if you are not self-sufficient enough to a) have a license, b) at least have access to a car, and c) not own your own car. I drive because I'm in control. I'm leading this sideshow. I'm the man, I lead. She drives? She now has the lead, unless she's driving me home drunk as shit from the bar.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:51 AM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:49 AM
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The fuck is wrong with you? She's not remotely interested in you. Why the fuck do you want to show him she's willing to cheat, even though she's not? TRP is amoral, but that's just being a shit disturber. EDIT: A word. EDIT II: Furthermore, you tracked down her bf on Instagram? Why? Dude, this is fucking weird. Move on with your life.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:46 AM
1

Nah, most of Ossington should be cool. Supermarket is insane now - all of Kensington is pretty decent these days. A few nice after-hours around there still as well if you're into that sort of thing. Get Well on Dundas should be cool in a few hours. Northern Belle too. Fuck, don't get me started - I'll give you a list of good bars these days a mile long if you let me.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:44 AM
3

Spiteful and childish to whom? For removing a person from your digital life because she's out of your physical life? It's not wrong to take care of yourself, especially if that means cutting the last of the source of your oneitis out of your digital footprint. Don't overthink it, man.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:42 AM
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You don't. You ain't Captain Save a Bro, even if it is your dad - and the chances of a man with minimum 20 years life experience on you taking your advice on his marriage because you discovered a nifty internet forum a few months ago (maximum) are net fucking zero. He changed your diapers. He isn't going to listen to you on matters like this if he's anything like my old man. Fix yourself first. EDIT: Clarification.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:40 AM
1

Are you getting treatment for your depression? Because, as you mentioned, it's derailed your career three times. Fix yourself first if you have social support to keep you going.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:38 AM
1

I just don't give a shit to waste my breath and put myself in a bad mood. Pure amused mastery. I, at this point of my life and RP education, can just chuckle to myself at the logical fallacies and carry on with my day. No need to involve myself in someone else's manufactured crisis.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:37 AM
1

No lines anywhere except maybe Dog & Bear. It'll be packed for the Jays game right now. These are all small, super hip bars. I always have fun - definite change from places like Brunny and the like. I'm only 26 but I stay away from U of T bars unless I'm dumpster diving at 1:45 AM on a Saturday these days.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:31 AM
1

Argue after you've done the reading to have something to argue about. I'm not here to convince anybody. I'll help you if you have questions, but I'm not interested in wasting time changing your mind.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:30 AM
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I broke up with my former LTR in the beginning of August, and I'm a big social media user. I deleted her from every Instagram post, every tweet, every FB picture, status, whatever. I deleted her number, I blocked it, and removed her from every facet of my life. I'm like that though. We're done. Your face doesn't get free promo on my shit anymore. She's worse than dead to me - she never existed in the first place, and my social media reflects that. Fuck plating your ex. Go find new plates. Ditch …
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:28 AM
1

Really? I don't really like King St at all, but I don't jive with that crowd. I live in Queen W, so maybe I'm just a dirty hipster. I don't know. Home of the Brave on King is pretty bitchin' though.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:26 AM
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You're rolling solo? Stick to smaller, cooler bars. Hit up Ossington Ave. Stop in at the Saint, Bellwoods Brewery, Odd Seoul, Beaconsfield at Queen & Beaconsfield, and finish at Dog & Bear. That's my round. If you can't meet some interesting broads doing that, I can't help you.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:25 AM
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No, this is for strength. Hypertrophy is higher reps, to maximize time under contraction.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:23 AM
1

Why are you switching routines 4 weeks into lifting? Start with Starting Strength or whatever, and stick to it for at least 3 months. Right now, you're going to get beginner gains no matter what you're doing. You're using muscles that haven't been put under stress. They're going to grow. Worry about hypertrophy when you've maxed out your beginner gains. What's important right now is lifting frequently, heavy, and eating big. Come back in two months and I'll give you my bodybuilding split.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:22 AM
1

Jesus Tittyfucking Christ. This is oneitis. You're a man - why are you asking us about your feelz? Be rational: You've fucked one girl, ever. As soon as you fuck another, you think you're in love again. You are letting lust do the thinking for you, and it's about to land you in a world of hurt. Also, why are you 'dating' a girl you met a week ago? You may have found TRP, but you haven't got close to choking it down yet - or you would know that this is fucking idiotic. Read more. Prepare for some…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:20 AM
1

If your LTR is going to harp on you for not cooking that much, then you need to work on how you handle shit tests.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:45 PM
1

help my abundance mentality that "this girl didn't bite, oh well." Perfect. Exactly the right mindset to have. You're the prize - if she doesn't want to recognize that, her loss. Next! Getting this far was fucking easy. No reason it can't be replicated. You're goddamn right. You're going to do just fine, man. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:31 PM
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In personal experience, I'd start with BJJ and then move into MMA. BJJ will help your MMA game, but not really the other way around. Starting with MMA IMHO is trying to learn too much at once - ground game, standing game, takedowns, etc - whereas with BJJ you can at least leave the striking out of it at first. I'm probably biased because I started with BJJ before getting into competitive MMA, but that's my take on it. Have fun!
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:17 PM
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Arguing with feminists is like wrestling a pig. You get covered in shit, but they're having a grand ol' time.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:15 PM
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Fine fucking day for a dip, isn't it ladies? Christ, I'm envisioning Full Metal Jacket at a summer camp now.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:06 PM
1

Soft next. If she's into you, she'll come to you. Pursuing her further is only going to establish yourself as an orbiter. Remember - sometimes you can do everything right, and she still won't feel you. It's a sad fact of life - but the positive is that if you're working on yourself, lifting, and raising your SMV - the number of girls that you'll attract in the first place will allow you to fuck up left right and centre until you nail it down. More directly related to your question - I've had gir…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:02 PM
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I am not an EC or 'on top of my shit,' but I'm doing pretty well. I spend time helping where I can, as much as I can because not only does it help another guy out - but it helps me. When I used to be a martial arts instructor, right before I was hired my instructor - who had taught me from 6 to 18 years old - told me that while I was good at what I did, I would probably be shocked to find out how much more I learned once I started teaching BJJ. And he was right. By showing other people technique…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:58 PM
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She's a 7. Are you telling me that there are 0 other 7's locally that want to fuck you? You're not responsible for her emotions. Why do you care if she's mad at you? What is she going to do? Continue not fucking you? You've got oneitis for this girl. Her pussy isn't magic. If you're doing the work to raise your SMV and develop abundance, you should have (or be working on having) many more attractive, geographically convenient girls.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:51 PM
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I'd keep it to light, flirty, and escalating - and most importantly, not a conversation. A few days from now, tell her to wear x on the date. Something you like. Don't ask, tell. Confirm the date a day or two out by telling her what you'll be doing so it doesn't come off like you're asking if she's bailing, and follow it up the day of. Just enough to get her hamster spinning madly about what else you could have going on. Less is always more in this circumstance, but I know what you mean - if you…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:49 PM
1

Eh, I like cooking with a girl as a first date. Get the wine flowing, lots of chances to demonstrate your skills, lots of room for kino / schoolyard bully game, and you're already home for when it's time to escalate to conclusion. But I hear you. I just would say it's probably more the way you went about it rather than cooking with a girl period.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:45 PM
1

In fact, it's worse than that. Gronk! thinks he's speaking powertalk (language designed to manipulate the emotional state of others, goal oriented language), but he's not. He's speaking babytalk (language designed to manipulate one's own emotional state, masturbatory language). Gronk! wins no real prize for AMOGing people on the internet. Gronk! may have "strong will" to resist eating doughnuts or skipping his workout, but he does not have "strong" enough "will" to resist the temptation to put h…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 06:43 PM
1

Eh, I'd still question why you aren't gaming other women then. This girl isn't convenient, you can't get to her, and so what - you get nudes? Cool - definitely not worth worrying if she's mad at you over. Find more girls. Game them. I have no use for a pen-pal, even a dirty one - but maybe that's just me.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:41 PM
1

Do nothing. Move on. You live in another state, why are you talking to her? Develop some abundance, friend. You're a solid orbiter right now.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:37 PM
3

Oh. Dude. Either make a solid date, or move on. Also, why do you give so much of a shit? It's one girl from class. There are literally thousands of other women around you - why are you dedicating so much thought to one? This reeks of oneitis, and you haven't even taken her out yet.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:36 PM
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A: Push to meet sooner. Trickle a text here and there if you have to. B: Don't say a fucking word unless you (misguidedly) want anything but sex from her, or it fucks with your morals somehow - in which case I'd say hard nexting would be more advisable than having a discussion about it.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:35 PM
1

Gronk a little harder, pal.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 06:34 PM
2

This guy's a pure fucking troll. Don't even give him a second thought.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 06:05 PM
1

I feel dumber for having read your comment. I have two black belts in American Kenpo, and a Gracie BJJ purple belt. I've been a Sensei. We call our instructors (who have been given the title) in Gracie BJJ 'Professor.' Neither one is more correct than the other, or more lame than the other. They are titles in a martial art, and a sign of respect and deference.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 06:05 PM
1

Could be she just wants a threesome. By 'seeing' her I certainly hope you mean plating, because any girl who is going to bring a 3rd into the bedroom that quickly has some serious other red flags. Aside from that, keep outcome independence and go for it. Most importantly: Don't show you're excited about it. Little betas get their dicks hard at the mention of a threesome. A RP man thinks its cool, but doesn't invest in it until the two naked women are waiting for him in bed. Enjoy it, but don't r…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:04 PM
6

What. The. Fuck. No woman is hot enough to get an 'allowance.' That's what hookers are for, and they cost a helluva lot less with none of the drama. I've heard of it before, but if I were in his shoes - I'd be moving on with my life pronto before she pokes holes in the condoms to make sure she gets that GGA for the next 18 years.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:03 PM
1

"Despite everything I still hope to see you" I'd have said "For sure." and left it at that. If you're going to be surrounded by each other all weekend, don't give her any attention - especially if she wasn't any kind of sex interest for you at the time - but I wouldn't get her back up with straight cold shouldering her if she's got dirt on you. Don't appease, but don't incite. Treat her as you would a casual stranger - you have no ill will, but you're not going out of your way to talk to her at …
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:01 PM
5

Exactly. I have enough friends, I don't need hormonal, hypergamous ones as an added bonus.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 03:59 PM
2

A-fucking-men. You're not stuck there with him. He hasn't home invaded you and caught you in your sleep. What are you, Superman? Ready to take on an unknown assailant armed with god knows what and possibly on enough drugs to stim up an elephant? If someone's in your house when you get home, literally walk a block away and call the police. Any other answer here is a recipe for bad news.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:23 PM
2

pepper spray always with you. Very poor option. At best, irritating - at worst, you get peppersprayed yourself in the backdraft. Almost never immediately incapacitating. automatic small knife that does not have a long blade. (so the fucker won't die and his family will come back to revenge him) Not bad. I always carry a knife for utility / just in case. Pulling a knife escalates things though, so make sure you're a) trained in it's use and b) legally justified to escalate that way. Yes, it's bet…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:22 PM
1

No. You can talk about general TRP ideas in non-TRP lingo (aka general advice) but general experience has shown that literally introducing people to TRP is a pretty universally negative experience.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:15 PM
2

No, it's literally a rule - and it's the exact same as Fight Club. Don't talk about TRP in TRP terms outside of TRP. Don't talk about TRP in TRP terms outside of TRP. People 99% of the time won't hear you out, and will just as often label you a misogynist / hate mongerer for your views as they understand them. At best, they'll think your strange, at worst - you'll get blacklisted in certain circles. Let people discover it for themselves. TRP isn't for everyone. Some people don't even want to kno…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:14 PM
3

As /u/mrtckane said, you're letting it happen. If you're getting close, pull out and slip her the digits for a minute. Give yourself a second to cool off. After you do this a few times, I rarely have a hard time holding back for as long as necessary as the initial holy shit yes sex! wears off a little bit. The other thing about PE is it's like ED - the more you worry about it happening, the more it's going to happen. Chill out. If it happens, keep going, work on her for a while, and then go for …
/r/askTRP16/10/15 11:56 AM
4

The idea is to create a frame where you don't need to remind yourself, because it's the way you live your life - as one who inherently knows that life isn't out to get them, and who understands that their emotions are purely reactions to the things that happen to them - nothing more. All easily controlled. Until that happens, you got it - remind yourself that you're just a grain of sand on the beach, and getting mad at the tide for rolling in is going to do nothing to change that.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 11:52 AM
6

Your question doesn't make sense.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 11:51 AM
1

Just... wow.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 10:56 AM
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Dude, I'm sorry - but if the fact you can't piss with other bro's around is bothering you this much and causing you enough anxiety to make a post about it, you really need to work on your self confidence first. Whether you have a shy bladder or not, it shouldn't even be a thought in your head. I don't care if the dude next to me notices I'm having a hard time getting the stream to start. What am I going to do? Impress him with my loud, masculine stream while I stare him dead in the eye to establ…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:41 AM
2

Why did you coddle her? Stop with the emoticons. Just tell her you've been busy, and act cool and happy to talk to her - even if you know you've been cold shouldering her. Cold shouldering only comes off as butthurt if you play it wrong. A genuinely busy man who just doesn't have time for a woman's bullshit isn't mad or surprised when they talk next.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:37 AM
1

Like /u/laere said, Google is your pal. Besides that, it means turning off pursuing women at all for a set amount of time to work on yourself and (hopefully) walk out the other side with a higher SMV, along with being in a better place in life.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:35 AM
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Glad you found us. Best advice: Read. Read the sidebar. Read posts. Read comments. Hold off on posting for a bit. Right now you need to be a sponge and absorb as much as you can. When you internalize a bit more, then you can start wringing back out the knowledge onto others. Best of luck, friend.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:34 AM
2

Now shes upset that im doing all of this for me and not for her... What? How would she know this? find out shes got a crush on a guy from work More importantly, how did you find out about this? as far as i can tell via snooping through social media etc Buddy, you don't know jack. Women are crafty - never assume she's not talking to him just because you haven't found it yet. I've known women who have had separate phones, aliases, and email accounts who you'd never suspect. Anyways, very difficult…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/15 12:33 AM
3

This isn't your fucking diary. Stop posting updates with zero meaning or direction every three hours. Get off the fucking internet and go do something.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 12:30 AM
2

Sorry you're getting shit on, friend. I was trying to be genuine - didn't mean to bring a shitstorm on you. Seriously -take who you want to take, and approach who you want to approach. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:17 AM
2

Bro, sad fact is you ain't going to get taller. Take HGH if you want to get taller, but if your bone plates have already fused over - which they probably have by your age - you're too late. Get to the gym. Make yourself broader. Develop confidence. Walk around like you're 7 foot tall. I'm 6'5 on a good day, and I have bros I respect that are 5'6, because they walk around like a fucking boss.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 01:43 AM
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She lied and said she was sleeping when she was at a house party. extremely fun near-unicorn. This is not oneitis Sounds like you answered your own question. There are no unicorns, period. She's a woman, and she's doing what women do - specifically, low value women. Sounds like she isn't the person you thought she was, and isn't as high-value as you think. Be glad she revealed herself a month in and not a year in.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:57 PM
1

Very, very interesting. Thanks for taking the time to post.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:49 PM
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Then take a girl, I ain't your mother. I'd just take one that didn't have the shit attitude of the one above, like you mentioned. Hope it works out!
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:58 PM
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You'll find a way. Approach before, during, and after the show. Go to a bar nearby afterwards. You're going to be surrounded by minimum 20,000 people. If you don't find a way to at least have a conversation with a broad somewhere in there, the problem lies completely with you. Besides, just have fun man! Concerts are a great time. Don't stress yourself out over meeting women so much that you don't enjoy what you paid to go for, right? Enjoy it!
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:44 PM
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Is it considered a green flag that she has these views? (Im aware, AWALT) You don't know her well enough to have seen her demonstrate these views - so while I'd say it's a good sign, I wouldn't hope too much to believe it's true. Trust what women do, not what they say. I've known many a girl who espoused RP virtues only to reveal themselves as a bratty princess by the second date. Do you guys think it would minimise power play/manipulation naturally by her? (She's quite a good girl, respectful, …
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:42 PM
1

what is your opinion on having a routine when taking a girl out? Sounds like your routine is golden, if it's working. Why change? I like to take as much of the thinking as possible out of first dates / meets, because the girls I take out on them really aren't all that important to me until I can get a better grasp on them through the date. If it works, it works. Don't reinvent the wheel if it's already spinning just fine. keep the contact to a minimum via text as im much better in person and avo…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:39 PM
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"Lol." Followed by ignore. If she's entitled and she's ghosted on you, I wouldn't even bother replying at all, really. Besides, what do you care how you come off to a woman you've already blown it with? She's dead to you now, move on to greener pastures. Take a buddy with you, meet some girls there, and have your own Weeknd-worthy night with them back at the hotel.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:34 PM
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Why aren't you asking girls out on dates? You should be approaching all the time - unless you're committed to a monk mode / MGTOW lifestyle. You can't be jealous of guys (even betas, as you call them) getting dates while at the same time saying you only want to focus on yourself right now.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:32 PM
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Threesome according to who's standards? Threesome involves sex - you didn't even get a makeout, padre. Interesting FR, but there's no real lessons you're giving here. You get a girl to come over, she brought a friend, you all drank, things got silly, and then you crashed and burned. Why? Why did this happen? Why didn't you close? These are the kind of insights that make a good FR - not a recounting of your big fish story that just got away.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:26 PM
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Don't be so hard on yourself, brother. You wheeled a girl and closed the deal - it just wasn't the right girl or the right deal for what you really wanted to get out of it. Laugh it off. I've gone harpooning more times than I care to remember - and yes, the shame is real. The best antidote is treating it like the joke it was - yes, you landed a manatee. Yes, it should be funny. Yes, you should laugh at it. Go forth and work on upgrading to at least a heifer next time - you'll get there!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:23 PM
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I agree with others that I wouldn't have even entertained the option of bringing her. My time with my good friends that I rarely get to see - especially when drinking and gambling - is more sacred than all the time smashing gash in the world. Ass is replaceable, deep friendships are not. Good work making the best of a bad situation, but next time try focusing on not letting the situation happen in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:21 PM
2

Of course, I wasn't disagreeing with you - I agreed with what you said.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:21 PM
1

How's 9th grade treating you?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 04:24 PM
2

All these categories are pretty useless and needlessly complicate things. Either you're alpha, or you're not. If you're not, work on becoming it and spend less time pigeonholing yourself into some arbitrary secondary category.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 07:54 PM
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I've been involved in martial arts since I was 6 or so. We have a saying in Gracie BJJ that a black belt means you're 'teachable.' It's not until you start teaching others that you really start to learn. Excellent post, OP. Thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 12:40 AM
2

6 I wouldn't want to be seen in public with. 9, I'd want to see everyone I've ever met with her on my arm. HB scale is completely subjective. My 7 could be your 9, or vice versa, depending on personal tastes. Always knock a point off someone's internet rating scale to account for embellishment.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:06 PM
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Approach as many as you feel comfortable approaching in a day, +1. The next time, try to push that farther. There's no quota to hit. You will get results directly related to the amount of effort you put in, period.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:05 PM
2

insecurity, anger, jelousy, ect Anger is different than the first two. You can have righteous anger at something, but you can't have righteous jealousy or insecurity. Anger can be used to propel you forward, insecurity and jealousy can do absolutely nothing but hold you back in the long run.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:04 PM
1

Eh, I like broken, mental plates. The sex is always A+, and since the SuicideGirl-type I tend to both go for and attract, having some serious daddy issues is pretty much a pre-req. Plate them all you want, but wrap it up and break off at the first sign of insanity - full ghost, no contact. Works fine for me.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:02 PM
2

Yup. It's like girls who say they never do this - it means they always do it.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:01 PM
1

But if you don't want commitment, what's it matter?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:00 PM
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Sure. I'd just be sure not to come off as clingy. You guys had sex, it was cool. It's a cool thing that you do with girls, and she's not special just because it's happened. Keep that mindset and don't start blowing her up, otherwise she'll pull back and you're right back to zero. Play it cool, and you've got yourself a plate.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 05:51 PM
2

Because she wants to establish some control, and see if she could get you butthurt about not kissing her. You maintained frame, so you won the prize. She realized you couldn't be manipulated, which gave her tingles. As for the follow-up, move directly into meeting again, and start the date with a kiss. I can't stress this enough. I always try to immediately start with a makeout on a second date to firmly establish what we're there for. Hasn't failed me yet - anytime it hasn't worked, it's becaus…
/r/askTRP04/10/15 05:50 PM
2

Yup. Do not acknowledge it. Trying to go back and correct it or explain it is only going to make it worse. Power through, reestablish frame, and keep going.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 05:48 PM
1

No hard feelings, man.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:42 PM
1

Not a chance I'm doxxing myself that way with pictures. Too many tattoos I could get called out on - so editing it to conceal identity would literally just be a black blob over my entire picture. Bio is: "Sinners are winners. 6'4, 235." Short and simple.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 11:44 AM
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Thanks, man. I needed this tonight. Even after some amazing things going down thanks to TRP, I still get caught in negative thought loops when shit doesn't go down the exact way I think it should. It's important to remember that just because you're not batting a thousand 24/7 doesn't mean you're a benchwarmer, either. Cheers, brother. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 12:10 AM
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It's one of the only things I'll say is a hard and fast rule when it comes to women that every man should heed, 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:43 PM
2

Yeah, but I still don't think it's worth asking for money for the read.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:38 PM
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No, I promise you that even a very good looking man must act this way or he loses the girl. He has to threaten to leave her over a $20 PSN membership? Give your head a shake. You don't know what alpha and beta even are. Whatever you say, man. ALL women are beta to men. True. I shouldn't have used the term 'beta' when referring to a woman, because you're right - what I should've said is 'low-value woman.'
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 11:10 AM
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Then you and I have some very different aspirations in life. This is pure Machiavellian, sure - but it lacks any personal integrity that I prefer in my own dealings.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 11:01 AM
2

Girls do things for me all the time as well. It's not beta at all. The difference is that these women are doing things for you because they want to, because you've demonstrated value. This guy is getting things done for him because he's literally threatening to break up with his girlfriend if she doesn't buy him a gaming card with her last twenty dollars. See the difference?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 11:00 AM
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Either way, if I'm dating a girl who has <$100 in her bank account, please do the humane thing - drag me into the street and introduce me to the business end of a shotgun.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:05 AM
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That sub should literally be called hamsters, because it's fucking laughable.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:40 AM
2

The upvote / downvote system handles it just fine. I don't mind telling newbies in AskTRP to read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:34 AM
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Don't dislike the post, but its really nothing that hasn't been said before. Push until you can't - that's all there is here. Don't pander for donations until you have something worth donating to.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:32 AM
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Or, just go with the 95% option because I don't give a shit enough about one woman to do the 'figuring out' for the 5/100 chance. EDIT: Clarification.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:28 AM
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I read an article on Vice the other day (I'm working on a post for) that says college-educated men are graduating at a rate of 3 for every 4 women, and it's becoming a crisis where women aren't willing to lower their 'standards' for 'lesser' men. I'm a university and college grad, and I worked in the trades for years before opening my own business. When I was a tradie, machining parts - women treated me with a poor you attitude if they had any schooling and didn't know about mine. Jokes on them,…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:20 AM
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Girl gets her tubes tied and is praised for being 'responsible,' guy gets his shit snipped and is run out of town on a rail for cheating his future wife of potential children. A tale as old as birth control. As soon as that shit comes along that's a temporary snip, I'm getting it done. End of story. Put that plastic resin all up in deez nuts.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:16 AM
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Cool. Not really post worthy, but cool. Yeah, it's cool to be a big fish in a small pond, but if that pond stinks like shit - you're still going to get less fish coming to it. Remember - frame means you are the environment. Work with it as long as you have to, and move onto greener pastures.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:14 AM
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I'm 6'4, and I still love you. But seriously, I have buddies who were a full head shorter than me in university who wheeled girls I dreamed of. Self-limiting beliefs are just that - they hold only you back. Everyone else who doesn't have them is still moving on and doing their thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:11 AM
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And so he's a good friend - but he's not TRP example, man. Good example of what you can achieve if you have low standards and few fucks to give, though.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:09 AM
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Genetics vs development, friend. This is also one case study, so don't let it get you down. That being said, I'll be the first to admit that being TRP won't let you bat 9's across the board just because you have confidence. Some girls just won't go for you because you're naturally ugly, short, balding, etc - all things you can't control. The point is that you can't control these things, so why waste sleep on them? You can still find HB9's who will go for you if you put the work in, full stop. Is…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 01:44 AM
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Your friend sounds like a total dick. I promise you my paycheque to a half-eaten donut neither of them are over a 6. There's a very big difference between being alpha and being just plain mean. Your friend doesn't have alpha tendencies, he's a beta who roped an even bigger beta chick into being with him, and he's milking it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 01:41 AM
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That's not what you posted at all, check your own post history. Good. Nobody wants your anger phase bullshit. Come back when you've learned something.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:39 AM
2

I told you not to give someone shit for asking a question in the forum made for questions. If you're going to lose your shit this much over it, you have a lot of growing to do.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 11:51 PM
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Thanks man, always appreciate new strategies!
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 11:50 PM
2

Ha. Okay pal. Whatever makes you feel better.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 11:48 PM
1

And nothing of value was lost.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 11:46 PM
3

It's not like we have these essential sex hormones that when introduced in large amounts into the wrong gender creates all sorts of changes. Boils my blood if I dwell too long on it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:31 PM
2

Yeah, I shouldn't bourbon and comment. But nah man, you have to have a goal - I'd rather set my sights high and undershoot rather than the opposite. Self-limiting beliefs are only going to hinder you. Realistic is fine - believe me, I get it - but it's just a concept. Take it and try it on, if you like it - cool. If not, I get it - it's just not for you. Been working great for me so far, so I'm sticking with it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:30 PM
1

No idea, I'm pulling these stats out of my ass - but that's what I'd estimate.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 01:50 PM
1

And what country is that? I'm not American, which I assume is what you're getting at. No, I definitely look waifish at a 'healthy' BMI. BMI is a godawful measure of how you should look, anyway. I'm 6'4 235lbs with ~16% body fat right now. According to BMI, I should be ready to keel over any minute now.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 01:49 PM
1

Nope. Just a personal opinion based on anecdotal experience, nothing more. Take from it what you will.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 01:39 PM
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Maybe with that poor attitude.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 01:37 PM
1

Nah I'm already on D3 and test boosters / estrogen blockers - zinc I've heard anecdotally is more of a mood booster, providing you're deficient in it to begin with.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:22 AM
2

I actually went out and got zinc supplements based on that post today. One TRP aspect about my that is natural is that I want the truth in things. Yup. The fact about TRP that everyone here agrees on here is that it's the truth. It may suck sometimes, it may be working against you, but at least it's the god-honest truth. You can't play a game properly according to rules you don't know, and all that.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:13 AM
7

Eh, it's a cute jpeg, but that's not really anything to work from.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:59 AM
1

As I've heard man, guys who don't need TRP never find TRP, which is why the majority of us 140,000 or so subscribers are such a small segment of the population, even if you count the readers of Rollo and CH and such. Some guys are still naturally RP. Unfortunately, the way society has changed, it's no longer the norm. That's why we're here. Keep learning here - god knows I pick up something new every day. Thanks for the post.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:57 AM
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TRP aware, as in they actually know about what's happening? How does a stat like 0.0001% sound? Now, how many guys are naturally RP and don't need to hear about this kind of thing to work it? Now we're going probably closer to 10% - 20% in 2015, IMO.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:48 AM
7

Men and women have fundamental differences due to biology. If you're not willing to accept that as a starting point, this debate is pointless here.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:33 AM
1

Sounds like you're fairly new to TRP. This is all very well known stuff. Stick around. Read the sidebar. Pose some questions on AskTRP. You're on the right track, but it sounds to me like a lot of things are just starting to make sense to you - we already know this. Welcome to the fray, and keep coming back.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:32 AM
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That voice will carry you far, friend. Nurture it. Ignore what women say, concentrate on what they do. You sound like a 235 lb monster as a small guy. Build the frame to compliment it, and you'll be putting most of us to shame in no time. The reason they may react badly is that they're initially turned off by you, but your masculine voice turns them on. They can't deal with the incongruity of it, so they panic and turn hostile. All things in time, man. You've got a good asset there that I wish I…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:29 AM
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Nah. It's a nice stat, but everything is anecdotal. But with anecdotal evidence, it's more of a 20% of men can get with 80% of women if they wanted to.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:25 AM
2

This is AskTRP. Don't give someone shit for asking a genuine question.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:24 AM
2

College is only the best time of most people's lives because that's when their SMV naturally peaked in conjunction with being surrounded by members of the opposite sex 24/7. Don't worry. You're here. You're finding the right paths. I had more girls in university, but I've had far higher quality and better experiences since. Keep doing what you're doing. Lift, dress well, eat well, work on your game and SMV. The rest will come. Resenting something you didn't do isn't going to help you in the leas…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:23 AM
2

What are your thoughts on this? That's on you. I would never dream of LTR'ing a girl I hadn't slept with, regardless of reason. Is she using going to the gym as a way to spend time with me/increase her value to me/ask for my guidance/share hobbies with me or is it all a ploy to trap me into committing? Don't overthink it. Maybe she likes going to the gym. Maybe she likes spending time with you. As long as you're getting your workout in, who cares? Will this all change if I commit to her, or it d…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:11 AM
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He's a guy who has consistently failed, yet made a lot of money doing so - and doesn't buckle under outer pressure. I'd say he's an example of perfect frame, rather than RP.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:04 AM
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Bullshit. This is a perfect FR. Would you prefer more psuedo-porn fantasies from trolls?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:00 AM
6

Good for you, champ. I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic here, but I've experienced this a lot lately, too. Girls who are subservient and dying to please me turn me right off now, though I would've been dying for that kind of girl six months ago. Girls that have a bit of coarse, IDGAF attitude to them get my attention more, these days. It's a real thing. The validation that comes with it is cripplingly addictive - so I understand that side of it as well now, too. You have to be absolutely cen…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 02:59 AM
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I dated a diagnosed BPD in my last relationship. All I can say is that the initial, Everest high isn't nearly worth the low when she comes around to collect. Avoid these girls like the plague.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 02:53 AM
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Yup. I've seen girls that in terms of BMI would probably be obese carry it like pornstars. I'm 6'4. If I'm at my target 'healthy' BMI, I look like a scarecrow. Everyone carries weight differently - but if it's distributed in the right way, 30lbs overweight on a girl can be a huge bonus.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 02:52 AM
17

One of my favourite TRP phrases is, work on yourself until you're pursued by women the way women men pursue men women. EDIT: Don't Jim Beam and RP.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 02:47 AM
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Eh, I'll give it to you that the novelty of Tinder has worn off, but a guy with a high SMV is going to succeed in any marketplace he puts himself into. I met my ex on Tinder - she was the one Tinder date I went on 2 years ago. Since I split with her a few months ago, I've been on likely 10 Tinder dates. I've gotten laid from roughly half of those, and always at minimum had a makeout on first date. You're not going to find another avenue where you're pre-secreened with women who have already give…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 02:42 AM
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I've never heard of anyone adding any kind of downers to MDMA, especially opiates. A) Opiates, especially morphine, would make the product more expensive rather than increase profits, and B) Opiates provide the opposite effect of stimulants like MDMA, which would make them work less. You're way, way more likely to get pills cut with meth or analogues than any kind of opitate. Source: A youth I don't want to talk about.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:28 PM
5

Optimally it's best to get 100% of your vitamins from your diet, because that's how our bodies are designed to ingest them. Unfortunately, most people don't have the time / availability / budget / whatever to do so - so supplementation makes sense. Good on you for figuring that out for magnesium though - I will keep that in mind if I ever need to up my levels!
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:25 PM
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If this is a marketing pitch, the person responsible for this 'sales' post should be dragged into the street and shot. Dude doesn't mention a single brand, and you can literally buy them for pennies on the internet. Not at all hailcorporate, I agree.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:22 PM
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Eh, not really. Recommended doses for 'men' on labels assume that a 150 lb Manlet at me at 235 are going to have the same needs. I take typically double whatever the dose is recommended, unless it's a prescription. I have never had a problem with it, and in terms of supplementation have seen better gains since starting it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:02 PM
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Thanks man. Nothing else to say but this was a great read, and I really enjoyed your perspective. I needed that this weekend. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 02:41 AM
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I disagree with you here. Having no abundance mentality means you're going to settle for the first woman who pays you any attention. This is how guys get into beta supplication mode, because they think they can't possibly do better. You're correct in that they may get laid less, but by who? Less HB5's? Abundance mentality works if you use it in conjunction with constantly working to raise your own SMV until the abundance comes on it's own.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:55 AM
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Exactly. AWALT is a tool to use to keep you from being burned. Treat every gun as if it is loaded, and you won't shoot yourself in the foot - at least until you know how to safe it to the best of your ability. The risk is always there, but that's just what happens when you play with dangerous things.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 10:41 PM
1

Eh, yeah I get it - but I personally just tie it in with the other two. Use it if it helps you, that's all that matters.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:31 PM
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Put the title of this in Google without the 'buckle up' and TC should pop up.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 08:29 PM
1

That's Outcome Independence, in my thinking.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:57 PM
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There's plenty of fish in the sea. But, there's also chicken, and steak. So what, dudes and trannys? Don't really understand how this isn't straight Abundance Mentality.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:35 PM
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ok, so we can use terms like "beta orbiters protecting their unicorns" but I can't be a sex wizard???? Sure. One is jargon we use to convey RP principles, the other is self-fellating. People don't really become people until you at least talk to them on the phone imo, until then, they're just text on a screen and I'm really good at making an impression. Yup. We agree here that with girls and Tinder, you don't exist to them until you meet them, period. I'd say I'm a 6/10, maybe a 7 physically, so …
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:20 PM
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I mean, "sex god" and "wizard" are part of the lore. In some circles they've merged. No. Stop. No more Ryan Lore. No more talking about yourself in the third person. You've got a ridiculously inflated ego from being surrounded by omega males who verbally suck your dick for being able to hook up with girls. This ends today, if you want to be successful outside of cons. Keep confidence, ditch this ego. And I do lift. I've been lifting for 4 years now. Started out with SS and now I'm on my second b…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 06:21 PM
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Number one: Stop calling it sex god wizard. Best step towards losing the cringe. You are a dude who gets laid. You are not magic. Internalize that, and ditch the act. How do I demonstrate value that real life girls will understand? Being popular at cons isn't real life value, unfortunately. Cool it's working out for you, but that's like being the baddest dude in high school - as soon as you leave it, you've only got what you are. Are you lifting? Do you actually work on your game? You sound like…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 05:39 PM
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Up until then, I was this sex god wizard fucker in my own mind, but now people would talk about me like I was a legend. Listen, I'm not sure if this is trolling or straight fantasy, but I don't believe this for a second.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:38 PM
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Her telling you that he's cute is a shit test, and you handed it right. Her talking to him intimately while on a date with you indicates low interest, IMO. Sounds like you're getting pulled into orbiter position, but I could be wrong. You didn't escalate enough for sure, though.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:48 PM
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Girlfriend can't get enough of my dick. Better hard next her immediately.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:46 PM
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These girls will probably use you to get to your drugs so watch out because they will be gone as soon as your drugs are. This is especially true for cocaine. 100% true. Saw it first-hand more times than I care to remember. You want to see a hot club girl's eyes light up and all of a sudden be all over you? Tell her you've got an eight ball in your car for the afterparty.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:43 PM
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For sure, but BP example is a topic flair for a reason too. That being said, if I was reading toxic shit like this every day - you're 100% right. It'd be a slow poisoning.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:08 PM
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Ah fair, I thought I remembered her trying to pass it off as real, but I'm probably wrong.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:47 PM
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Bill Burr says it best.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 11:19 AM
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Yeah I saw that one. Totally fake, and if I remember correctly the SJW's crucified her for it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 11:10 AM
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Totally hear you, and agree. Looks like someone ran through here with a downvote train, and hit my post history as well. Ain't that nice.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:01 AM
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Really interesting, especially considering 1200 years ago they understood the importance of a pre-nup better than most blokes do today.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:56 AM
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Then you certainly did something right, brother!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:28 AM
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Thank you very much brother - much appreciated!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:27 AM
2

Then go for it. You have every guy here telling you it's a bad idea - if you don't want to listen, then by all means - do whatever the hell you want. Drug users don't get laid more in college, but you don't want to hear that. I'm not try to convince you otherwise beyond what I have. Just don't come to me if you end up in Narcotics Anonymous at 24 like I did.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:59 AM
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But didn't you hear? He doesn't care - he wants to get laid, and drug abusers get laid more. He'll be back in six months when he starts blowing $500 a night on Peruvian marching powder like I used to, or he won't. Let him figure this one out on his own.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:37 AM
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Then go smoke some weed, rip a few lines, and report back in a year. I ain't your mother - go for it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:36 AM
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This is for AskTrp. But drugs aren't worth it. I had a helluva cocaine addiction back in the day. On one hand people who do drugs are cool and therefore have higher smv. Maybe to 18 year olds. Sure girls like edgy, but you don't need to be banging rails to give them that. Moreover, not doing drugs in a party setting will lower someone smv. Maybe with the meth whores. Dude, come on.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:08 AM
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Just a plate. I've had this happen many times before dude, if you're not exclusive, she knows it, and you're fucking, she's a plate. However, if she's the only one and you're at least working on others, she's more of an open relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:05 AM
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Huh. You know what, that's actually a damned interesting theory. Thanks man, I'm going to ponder on that for a while.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:49 PM
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Absolutely, I don't deny that for a second. If so, it's a really interesting move on the part of the author of the article, because TC is usually known to be very pro-feminist - and even to a layman, this doesn't read like that.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 11:46 PM
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Men get nothing of actual worth from modern marriage that they could not obtain without it. End of line. 100%. Marriage made sense decades or even centuries ago, but the benefits besides the commitment feelz really don't exist anymore. I mean, you can get her on your health plan. Fucking woo hoo. Remember that when shes turning your kids against you, as you drink warm beer in your shitty bachelor apartment you can barely afford because of the alimony and child support.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 11:43 PM
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And anyone who's been in RP longer than a week knows that appeasement is the biggest vagina dryer out there. It's like setting yourself up for instant failure.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 11:40 PM
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For easy, that-night sex? Not really, to be honest. That's where social inhibitions are lowest, and random hookups are accepted if not encouraged. You can pull from the mall on a Wednesday afternoon, but your game better be insanely tight, and you better have an SMV through the roof.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 11:39 PM
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Cook a simple meal together. Literally one of the greatest strategies out there. Gets things light, interactive, and so many chances to escalate.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 10:12 PM
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they never even kissed If you believe this, I have a bridge I'd like to sell you. She actually dropped him and deleted his number and quit her job. Or changed his name to Fiona in her phone, didn't really want to work there anymore anyway, and told him to lay low for a week. So what do I do now? Do I take her back and reward her for dropping him? Do I make her a plate? Or do I just say fuck it and walk away? Depends what you want. Do you want a girl, even as a plate, who has shown she will lie s…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 10:10 PM
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Anywhere, dude. Now do you mean best places to meet, change venues, and close / bang? Places where booze is flowing late at night. Bar districts are known as 'meat markets' even to betas for a reason.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 10:07 PM
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It's because they live for emotions Yup. If a woman can't make men give her affection, then she'll get them to argue, beg, be angry, anything. They are creatures of emotion, men are creatures of logic. It's why arguing with a woman is like wrestling with a pig - you're getting covered in shit, but she's having a grand ol' time.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 10:06 PM
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Couldn't agree more. Not a single guy there sounds remotely excited about potentially getting married. I don't know anything about the author or whether that was the intent with the article, but I found it pretty crazy regardless. I can understand making a concession to go to a restaurant you're not all that stoked about, but marriage? Shit, man.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 10:04 PM
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I met my last LTR on Tinder. She was hot, but also BPD and completely fucking insane. I'm here as a direct result of her though, so I guess it worked out. YMMV, but since then Tinder is for plates. If a girl can be plated and behave for minimum 6 months without losing my interest, I can at least fathom considering an LTR - if that's what I want. As /u/MyReddit4 said though, every girl (more or less) is on Tinder, so treat them all the same.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:58 PM
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If you feel that you're going to develop severe oneitis for this girl, sometimes the best bet is to soft next until she initiates. That way, you're not sitting at home pining away for her, waiting for her to respond to your advances. Keep going out with other women, keep working on becoming the source of your own validation rather than relying on women for it. It's hard, real hard man. I still suffer from determining how I feel about myself based on interactions with girls some days - it's work,…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:34 PM
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Sometimes the problem is that your SMV is lagging behind while your RP knowledge has gotten you to a point where you feel you should be getting results, but they just aren't happening yet. It's okay to get frustrated - but don't let it consume you. Just because it's not happening right now, doesn't mean it's not going to happen. I'm pretty pragmatic in that it's a sad truth that every single guy who discovers TRP isn't going to be nailing HB9's in a month, or even a year - but he who puts the wo…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:32 PM
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And by that I mean not really giving a fuck. A little different in itself than straight abundance mentality in my opinion, but close enough for the question. I suffer from the same thing, a bit. When you know you have options (or have at least convinced yourself that the opportunities exist if you just do something about it) it makes it very hard to want to invest too much in any one plate / potential plate. It does lead to plates breaking quickly in my experience - I can't seem to keep any spin…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:28 PM
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I always get a little nervous cold street approaching, but then again I don't do it a whole lot. Best advice I've heard is to start a 3 breath ritual. You take three deep breaths, and then you do the hard thing - whether it's a massive weight on the bench press, take a jump off a cliff, going to ask your boss for a raise, or an approach. Eventually, the anxiety you get from breaking your ritual will outweigh that of walking up to a stranger and introducing yourself. Hope it helps!
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:11 PM
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Daddy issues, in my experience, come from a weak presence of a father, or one who lacked affection, interest, or guidance. Girls who have these daddy issues will flock to men for validation and attention more than the average woman, and will often be far more ready to use their sexuality as a weapon to achieve their goals. For example, very, very few strippers likely had a daddy around worth a damn - but there are exceptions to every rule, of course. I find a lot of girls I've dealt with with se…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:07 PM
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Of course, man. I'm only coming off so aggressively because I used to be terrible for that - instantly falling for girls. Sure, they were hot and genuinely amazing people (or so I thought) - and it got me in more shit situations in my life than I ever could've imagined. I don't want anyone else with RP knowledge to walk into that willingly, or at least uninformed. Dude, I still get oneitis tendencies if I'm not constantly trying to meet new girls and working on the ones I have met. Hell, I spent…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:59 PM
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I'm a published novelist and my contents on a lot of big (non-RP) websites. Love to help.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 08:50 PM
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Yawn. Go be butthurt somewhere else, dude. I'm not going to argue with you. Hope you get whatever responses you're looking for.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:00 PM
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whenever one comes along that i like the most, i stop investing in other women. So you don't have an abundance mentality. i already like her too much, which sucks cuz i don't even know her that well. Infatuation, nothing more. Recognize it for what it is. it's just that maybe-she's-the-one feeling that i had before and i fucked it up cuz i got too attached. Please listen to yourself. This is oneitis and BP desperation. there's one girl that i'd like to hook up with but i'd feel guilty because i …
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:56 PM
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It wasn't interesting enough to read then, and it isn't now. Move on, keep reading. If you're relatively new, stick to reading instead of commenting for a while. I don't argue with people here beyond a single comment as a rule. It doesn't do anything for me, and if it's not helping me and clearly not helping them, I'm not going to waste my time.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:48 PM
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Do you want advice, or do you want to literally do exactly what we're telling you not to do?
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:11 PM
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If you don't find her attractive, what the fuck are you doing dating her? Do what you want dude, but I wouldn't waste my time with a girl just because she makes me feel relaxed. If I want to feel relaxed, I'll pop twelve muscle relaxers and shit myself. But hey, do you.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:09 PM
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Most importantly, are you still gaming other women? I can't make the decision of LTRing her for you, but if she's your only plate and you're this concerned about her - you've got oneitis bad. Approach more women, keep opening doors. I personally wouldn't build a 'relationship' with a woman without plating her for at least six months.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:01 PM
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Check out AltTRP - it can definitely help you out. They have some gay and trans members over there that seem to benefit greatly from TRP.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:58 PM
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Me too, don't worry. Sure kids, go IT. Everything else is doomed for failure.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:37 PM
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strong profile picture of me on a night out looking mysterious. Guys who shoot for this are going to wear their best fingerless gloves and grey fedora. Plus, why are you listening to what girls say? Of course girls say they hate shirtless selfies - they also say they love dadbods. Pay attention to what they do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 11:36 PM
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I don't wait for it to get dry. I get it heated up within a few msgs, and then immediately ask for # in the middle of it. After that is a quick fade for minimum an hour or two, followed by a text. If it fades, why am I going to try to build it back up again through text? Always leave them wanting more.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:25 PM
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More importantly, having a body worth posting shirtless pics of. Jimmy Three-Chins ain't going to wheel shit with a beach selfie. Put in the work, and then show off the results.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:23 PM
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My bio is literally just my height and weight. If it'll work for you, put it in. If not, leave it out. Capitalize on your strengths, but don't advertise your weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 10:22 PM
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I usually stick to a laugh and a Why do you want to do this to yourself right now? Typically works quite well. They get to hamster on it, it keeps it light, and we move on. As with all of these things, your response is going to depend on who you are as a person - try to look for strategies to use in these situations, rather than direct responses.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:59 PM
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Two months? Not nearly enough time in my opinion, man. Also, why? What does she do that you can't get somewhere else? In reality, the answer is nothing. There are hotter women with cooler personalities that you don't have this history with. It's almost always better to start working on a new project rather than trying to salvage something workable out of the scrap.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:56 PM
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Had a good salary working as a machinist for years, much better pay now that I own my own joint. I don't think most guys here at all are in the IT field. There are a lot of good careers you can make six figures in that don't involve the tech sector.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:54 PM
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Sometimes, but honestly - I just enjoy getting the attention of hot women, even if it's just a conversation. It's a source of validation for me that I need to work on breaking, because it's really easy for it to turn into oneitis, and it means I'm still not 100% taking responsibility for my own happiness. I have a very, very long FR I'm working on about this last weekend that illustrates this perfectly.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:52 PM
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I'm going radio silent for a week or two. Or, y'know - forever. She sounds like a trainwreck. You did the right thing, as you know though. Good job!
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:17 PM
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Sadness and fear aren't inherently "beta" in-as-much as a burger is inherently "junk food". It just depends on the context. Exactly. I try to get this across to new guys as much as I can. Being alpha isn't about not feeling things, it's about being able to feel it, recognize it for what it is, and handle it - rather than letting it consume you.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:06 PM
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Is she just a plate right now? Best bet: Ignore. One of the most underrated and under-appreciated approaches to women trying to pull you into their frame is to utterly ignore what they're trying to do. Some girls will never enter your frame, but that's okay - just as long as you're not getting into theirs without realizing it. Otherwise, grin and bear it. I don't try to change my plates behavior. They are who they are, and when I stop feeling it or they get too annoying, I move on. If it was an …
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:27 PM
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Why why why are you insisting on revisiting ground you've already walked over? Demoting girlfriends to plates is possible, but it's rarely worth it. Why open up the doors of oneitis (clearly there, by your card on vacation) just to get a little ego stroke? My advice: Get out of this, now. Cut contact. Move on to one of the few billion other women out there that you don't have this history with. Does she squirt gold coins? Didn't think so. She's not special. Move on.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 10:09 PM
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You got three bucks for a coffee? That's more than enough. You just need some kind of opener to get to her and start kino-ing and escalating - then you can make the powerplay back to your place. Essentially cold opening with a blatantly sexual situation is going to throw up more anti-slut defense than most guys can overcome without some kind of prior escalation first.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:55 PM
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Yup. I made a lot of <HB5 mistakes drunkenly in high school and college along with the hot girls I was getting, because in my mind it was at least a kill, and your kill-count was the be-all in the end-all. Boy, if I could take a lot of those experiences back. Some fat girls gobble dick like it's the last popsicle on a desert island, but most still aren't worth the physical downsides.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:53 PM
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I agree. If she's hot enough and you're still enjoying it, just go counter her starfish with caveman. It's about you, only you. She's just collateral. Many girls I've been with actually stop starfishing after this very quickly, as it turns them on like none other.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:51 PM
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Then you're bound for a life of some seriously lackluster sex, friend.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:50 PM
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There's nothing like bedding a wildcat after being stuck in a relationship with nothing but IV-drip duty sex to sustain you for however long your chump ass stuck around. I'm guilty of it, but man. It's like losing it for the first time all over again. Completely agree, OP. Even the MRP guys who understand things in relationships take a little bending here and there to keep things afloat 100% advise to get up, put your dick away, and go do literally anything else if she's giving you the starfish.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:49 PM
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You could help them. You could spend your entire life's savings helping out people less fortunate than you, and every waking minute for the rest of your existence doing so. If that's what makes you happy and it's not out of some kind of privileged guilt, then do it. I don't feel very sorry for anyone anymore because I need to take care of my own needs first if I'm to be of any help to anyone. A broken tool can't fix a broken engine. What you're feeling is social conditioning wearing off, and the…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:34 PM
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I left and was alone it started bothering me. It'll happen, man. We can all shout Fuck bitches! Don't feel shit, go fuck 5 other women TONIGHT but that doesn't make the fact that things are going to suck a bit sometimes any less true, or any less real. The important thing is that you're recognizing it for what it is. You're hung up on a girl. You're not hung up on the girl. That's an important distinction to make, and turns a bad situation into one with a solution. I've stoped talking to her. I …
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:31 PM
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Would you suggest avoiding any sexual themes when we talk? Nah, but I wouldn't steer it like a horndog grade ten kid who doesn't know how to talk about anything but favourite positions. Keep it natural, keep it light, keep it funny. Don't shy away from it if she brings it up. Steer things in a sexual fashion as you escalate - but much like revving up a cold engine - put too much throttle too quickly, and she's going to blow up in your face. Not in the cool way either. What about kino? I think I'…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:25 PM
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I made a mistake 1.5 years ago, listening to one guy that said "hard next or plate". Having oneitis, the plate option sounded too good to be true, so I went for it. It nearly ended up in rape charges. I was NOT ready. That's on you, not on the guy that gave you the advice. TRP is about personal responsibility, so don't paint everyone with the same brush just because you fucked it up. Guys in this phase are in no state to plate ANYONE, yet alone their current oneitis. See first point. And once yo…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:16 PM
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Do I just take what she says at face value or what do I do? Nope. Pay attention to her actions, not her words. I ended with, "next time you're coming" she said "maybe" I said "no, you say yes sir" then she smiled and said yes sir. Not bad. You can't negotiate attraction or desire, but at least you demonstrated some assertiveness, even if it was a little late in the game. If, after the 4th date, Saturday, she again hits me with her not wanting to have sex, how do I respond to that? Personally, un…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:12 PM
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Frame, once established, isn't something you need to think about maintaining. Frame is the way you see the world, and how you allow people to interact with you in it. You're living your life, others are visitors to it - be they SO's, plates, broads, bosses, or pals. This requires a lot of internalization to achieve - so yes, at first, you are going to need to be aware of it. The end goal, however, is for it to happen naturally. EDIT: Just realized I kind of dodged the question. If you're waiting…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:08 PM
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I say, "chill at my place, watch a movie" This is literally code for 'easy sex' these days. It works, but only if your SMV is high enough, and you've given her enough tingles to warrant wanting that from you. She doesn't know you from a warm turd on the street, why is she going to want to come to your place? Escalating and moving directly to a meet is good, escalating and trying immediately for sex is notoriously hard. Start in public. Meet for a casual drink, and escalate further in person. Goi…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:06 PM
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You've got some serious oneitis, but if you've been reading here as long as you say you have - you already know that. Being masculine and alpha isn't about not feeling things. Being RP is about allowing yourself to feel something, understand it, and not let it affect how your life is going. You're going to feel the occasional pang from the girl that got away, especially if you cared for her and things aren't going well for her. What's important is to identify it for what it is: A feeling. Nothin…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:03 PM
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that she's NOT going to have sex with me, so basically... I somehow believe, that as she's activley thinking about having sex with me on that day You somehow believe that because it's absolutely true. I find girls who bring up 'no hookups' or tell me outright without prompting that they aren't going to fuck me, are only doing it to hear themselves say the words. When it happens, they want to be able to say Oh, see I never do that!! and be absolved of all slut-sins from that point forward. If she…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:57 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't prebook a hotel or anything. Maybe know where one is so if things get hot you can just say, "Come with me" and start moving things that way, as if it's completely natural and something you do every weekend. If you make a big deal out of it (and sex) it's going to dry her up, no matter who she is. It's casual, it's fun, and it's a couple of people doing what people are made to do. Go for it if you want, keep a IDGAF attitude and complete outcome independence about it, and you rea…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:55 PM
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Eh, even good sex is outweighed by perceived clingy behaviour. You're probably not wrong, but I was trying to at least give the guy a little credit.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:09 PM
1

Yup. Ain't nobody want bitch tits.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:30 PM
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Pulling to a hotel from coffee is going to activate some serious anti-slut defense. It depends on your game and SMV. If you've got that high enough, you could point in the general direction of a hotel, and she'd lead you. I'll say this: You'll know if she's down to go get plowed. You'll just be able to suggest it, and she'll go with you. No lines, no excuses necessary.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:21 PM
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Btw I don't lift, is calisthenics good enough? No. Calisthenics got you to to where you are now. If you are happy there, keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:15 PM
1

I don't want to sound like a shill or anything, but I dug it. It's pretty pricey, but I found it a good value for money.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:14 PM
2

Sounds like you're feeling pretty insecure, mate. I talk to everybody Good. This is exactly how 1st year university students should approach it. Meet everyone you can. I have a feeling that some of them avoid me. So? Dude, 1 in 4 people you meet in life are going to hate you for no reason at all. It's just a fact. All you can do is meet as many people as you can, and work with the 3/4 that do like you. You're never going to be everything to everyone, nor should you try. I talked to them had nice…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:13 PM
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Sounds like they're only interested in sex. Try just simply telling them to come over sometime in the evening hours (don't invite them 6+ hours in advance, make it seem semi-spontaneous). Some girls just want to get laid, especially if they're CC'ing. They don't want to date you. They don't want to hang. I knew a lot of girls like this at my university. Don't overcomplicate things if you can make it simple.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:10 PM
2

I know a lot of people don't think they work, but I did a cycle of Ergotest (legal test-booster with estrogen blockers) for a month, and stopped drinking for that month. Could've been all in my head, but I had a little bit of temporary hair loss from it - meaning it was definitely doing something to my androgen levels. My sex drive went haywire and I could've gone 40 times a day. Good stuff, that. Packed on 7 pounds that month after a plateau, and got some strength gains I haven't lost in the ye…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:05 PM
2

Doesn't mean anything more than the rest of the shit women will spit. Watch her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:03 PM
9

Same way as you ever would, except since she has 'complicated situation,' it just means she's probably even more down for a touch of sportfuckin'. Don't bring feels into it, and bring your A-game.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:00 PM
1

I refuse to believe this happens in university. Was this at a bar? What are your stats, are you short as well as slim? I rarely, rarely saw this ever in my university career in Canada. Best bet is to hit the weights hard and frequently, and this won't happen.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:50 PM
1

Asking for advice is one thing, but I'm not in the business of making life decisions for strangers through a computer screen.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:01 PM
4

I don't want to be a tangible symbol for why they are unhappy with their current lives. Why not? If you're not bragging and they're just flocking to your leadership and think you're cool as shit, why should you stop it? Does the attention make you uncomfortable? Would you rather be known as Mouthbreather Brett Who Can't Talk To Girls? In some sense, maybe they know exactly what they are missing and merely need to live vicariously through me in order to return to their sex-starved lives and cryin…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:47 PM
1

She will always talk and reply when spoken to but never wants to meet up, always says she is busy maybe another time. So why are you still talking to her in the first place? I remember her talking about a place she always wanted to go. I plan on going there when my lay off happens. Why are you giving this woman so much thought? Are you gaming other women? Are you developing an abundance mentality? Right now, this is oneitis, and the diagnosis is poor. Using social media as an ultimate fuck you (…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:45 PM
3

Yup. That being said, don't let anyone shame you for being selfish. I'm selfish as fuck. I look out for #1 - because nobody else in this world is going to put my interests ahead of their own. Do what you want to do, accept the consequences of it. That's what being an alpha is all about.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:41 PM
3

I'm in the exact same shoes, my man. I know that I have extreme novelty-seeking tendencies. It's what got me in trouble with drugs back in the day, but it's also what's gotten me some of the best lays of my life. It's not necessarily a good thing, but it's who I am - so I deal with it. When it comes to women, I can't be assed to hook up with them more than a few times in a few weeks, unless they're absolutely stunning and a total freak. BDSM can keep things interesting for a while, but I haven't…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:39 PM
1

...Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:35 PM
3

Eh, I have sleeves - but I would never get some kind of RP tattoo. RedPill is a philosophy that I enjoy, but it's a tool. I don't get a wrench blasted on my bicep just because I use one every day, no matter how useful it is. Either way, I would never get a tattoo that clearly represents TRP. We already have feminists trying to doxx us here, why would I slap something on myself that the uninformed public may look at like a swastika before long?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:34 PM
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I just found this site a few days ago Good, good first step. You have a lot of reading and internalizing to do before you can expect any kind of change. I'm trying to keep my anger for myself and instead will now hit the gym a few times the week to do something about that. Excellent, and use that anger as motivation to build a gym routine based on discipline, so you don't stop going once the sting wears off. here also is a general disinterest in me lately which started a few months ago. she's wo…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:33 PM
2

Shit tests can all be responded to in the same framework. Solving a math problem is achieved by studying mathematics, not that one specific problem. Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:29 PM
3

As a dom, you're not domming by paying her to do things on the internet. This is a transaction, nothing more. Stop. Paying. Women. Especially ones that have no real intention of meeting you. Right now, you're at the most omega orbiter level - one who doesn't even get to meet them, but still pays in cash for their attention. These women are giving you the impression that they're interested the same way a stripper would. Give your head a shake, man.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:27 PM
3

If it were easy to do, someone would already be making millions off it. Go for it, if you want. Be prepared to be known for life as 'sexbot guy.'
/r/askTRP16/09/15 11:19 PM
2

You're doing the right thing. Keep approaching. Go to the clubs and bars, and have a soda water with lime. No one will know it isn't booze if you don't tell them - or don't go at all. It's what you want, not what we think. Keep on Tinder - 3 days isn't enough to get any real results. Keep doing what you're doing - Rome wasn't built in a day, and Caesar didn't have his harem by the 3rd day either.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 12:51 AM
2

Honestly, I seriously want one. I don't have any experience or models to suggest, but it's getting to the point where it would be stupid not to have one - on par with a dash-cam, in my opinion. If you'll record things to protect yourself from a $5000 insurance claim, I don't see why you'd play fast and loose with a potential rape charge. Very interested to see more opinions on models here, as I'm also currently looking for a system.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 12:49 AM
1

Have you read the sidebar? If you've been reading here enough, you'll find the 500 style posts we have. As well, a good cologne for you is not a good cologne for someone else, and vice versa. Find something that is fresh and compliments your smell for day, and something slightly musky for night. Your nose is not the issue. Other people's imagined criticism is not the issue. The issue is your confidence, and your confidence only. Are you lifting? That's the #1 most important thing. Anyways, read …
/r/askTRP16/09/15 12:48 AM
1

Honestly, before I was RP I had a drug problem - and I treat RP the same way I treated Narcotics Anonymous. Keep coming back. Come back and read a bit when you don't want to. Answer questions if you know the answer. I learn more by helping others, so that's what I do. Narcotics Anonymous turned out to be godly bullshit that I didn't dig - but this approach has served me well with RP.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 12:46 AM
3

I have this quote over a picture of Hitler I like to send to girls before dropping the NC bomb. It's purely for my own amusement, but boy do I ever enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:54 PM
8

At the very least. I used to be a pro MMA coach, have two black belts, and was a strip club bouncer for years. I'll be the first to say that even if I 'win' a fight - if I come out with anything less than a concussion and a boxer's break, it's sheer luck. Absolutely never worth it to fight unless you or someone you love is in immediate, real danger.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:43 PM
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Yup. Be glad he didn't decide to bottle you from behind in response as I saw on more than one occasion as a bouncer. Learn from it, and move on. Take the lesson - but there's no sense in letting it continue to pull you out of frame.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:41 PM
2

I think she is playing my hard to get game with blunt replies. So let her play. You don't have to play into it, because you should be too busy dealing with other girls to notice all that much. what can I do? Move on.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:38 PM
2

The good news is that you have the opposite problem of most men in this day and age of credit cards, easy loans, and rich parents. What you're doing isn't bad right now. You're saving a ton of money - you're just not enjoying it the way you should be due to the stress it puts on you, and you're probably reluctant to invest because of the potential for loss. I found for me, that same anxiety went away once larger sums started mattering less in the grand scheme of things. I'm by no means loaded, b…
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:37 PM
1

What do you want to do? It sounds generic, but do that. You're asking things that are very specific to your background and the fields you have the potential to enter, and nobody is going to be able to tell you what the best course of action is - at least better than you. If you feel that this is something you want to explore and take a risk doing it, fucking do it. Risks aren't all bad, and no good career moves happen without an element of it potentially blowing right up in your face. Finally, y…
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:32 PM
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Anyways, what would you guys have done? Even less than you did. Women are perfectly capable of ignoring some asshole, as am I. Clearly he's not going to hit you for walking near him, and you should've kept an eye on him for the remainder of the night and left it at that. I can't believe how many times I have to tell people here: fighting because you were 'disrespected' is beta as fuck. Best case, you win - possibly kill or maim someone, and potentially go to jail / get sued into oblivion. Worst …
/r/askTRP14/09/15 09:29 PM
1

Gotta say, this is too much bodice-ripper novel and not enough concrete lessons that can be applied elsewhere. FR's are cool - but this sounds like it belongs in ThankTRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 09:03 PM
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Ditto. I'm staying the hell away from any woman who even gives off a whiff of BPD these days. It ain't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 08:56 PM
2

So handle a shit test like a shit test, got it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:15 PM
6

I assert that my feelings have never changed for her, and never will Not so great here. You are not an unconditional source of affection and validation. You may choose to shower these things upon her if she deserves them, but you should never tell a woman you're content being a backup.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:53 PM
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Most people say texting is for logistics only. Most people here say that because 80% of guys (if not more) do not have the necessary chops to actually build and escalate through text. Every text that is sent between initial contact to meeting is giving yourself another opportunity to fuck it up. You can bounce back a misinterpretation or failed shit test in person far, far more easily than over text. That being said, if you're good at texting (and you'll know it by your track record. If you're n…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:50 PM
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Nope. You're the prize, she can chase. If she doesn't chase, who cares? There are so many other girls out there that are hotter and will make you work less. Abundance mentality, my friend.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 02:48 PM
1

All Baloney / Bigger Boats. Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 02:46 PM
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Bro, I hate to break it to you - but if she's texting other dudes behind your back and you've caught her, she's texting a lot more that you haven't caught yet. You're young and in university, so there are more girls around you than you could possibly slay, even if you were hitting two a day. Don't waste any more time on this one. Clean break, move on.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 02:46 PM
2

No. Fatties are out. I'm telling him to fuck up with as many HB7+s as possible. Who cares if he burns through 100? As long as he lives in a town of over 50,000 with over 200,000 in a 20km radius, he can fuck up nightly and still not run out of fresh meat to practice on.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 03:11 AM
2

he needs a prop and to ditch the nerves. No, because then he'll rely on the prop even when his SMV increases. He needs to fuck up repeatedly as his SMV comes up. You're not wrong, but I don't want to break one bad habit by instilling another in him.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 02:14 AM
2

Maybe if I buy every single person she remotely knows a shot she'll see I'm cool
/r/askTRP13/09/15 01:55 AM
3

My pleasure, brother. We're all here to help each other. I learn something new here every day - keep coming back.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 01:54 AM
5

I think I have a pretty high SMV (there is not a bar that I would go to at any time of the day that I did not know someone in there). That's social proof, not SMV. Social proof will up your SMV, but it isn't your SMV. Sometimes I get the feeling in my gut that I should kiss the girl but i am afraid of how she will respond to it. Cool. So you've got the right feelings, you're only problem is acting on it. Start a count to 3 program in your life. When something like this comes up, count to three m…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 01:29 AM
1

Without Remorse - Tom Clancy. John Kelly is my role model.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 01:22 AM
3

Hey man, I used to have a pretty nasty coke habit. Don't try it. Yes, the first few times drugs are amazing. People wouldn't get hooked if it didn't seem like it wasn't a big deal at first, and there weren't some awesome initial effects. Before you know it, you're in way deeper than you expected, and getting out is way, way fucking harder than getting into it. Stop it. Don't even consider doing drugs for pussy. Did I fuck a lot of girls in that stage? Sure. Did I do a lot of really, really fucke…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:23 PM
1

Sure, but I don't typically get that paranoid. Be aware, but I wouldn't get neurotic about it.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 01:59 PM
2

Sounds like you gave her one shot too many.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 01:37 AM
1

I've wondered a bit if owning a business tends to bring people more towards the RP mindset. There's no forgiveness in business, you have to operate in reality or you will fail. There's no way to learn a little bit of pragmatic thought and a look out for #1 attitude like your livelihood on the line. Mind you, I started as a blue-collar machinist after going to university for far too long - so I had work ethic and a roll up your sleeves and get it done attitude instilled on me before I got into my…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 01:22 AM
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Keep working at it - we all started somewhere. Hell, they don't have to be sluts - they can be nice girls from bible study exploring the in's-and-out's of the Poophole Loophole. It's really up to you.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:31 AM
1

Fake it til you make it, man. You're overcoming your entire life's conditioning. It's not going to happen in a day, a week, or maybe even a year - but keeping yourself out there and interacting is going to make it happen eventually. They say with skills, it takes 10,000 hours of banging on your trade to achieve mastery. Whether that's goldsmithing, chess, landscape construction, or socialization - you need to remember that these things take a lot of time. Keep at it, man. Eventually, you'll find…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:23 AM
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I'll go ahead and say it for everyone else: don't shit where you eat. If that married woman gets caught fucking around with you, she's completely capable of saying that you blackmailed her / forced her / whatever into it. Even when it comes down to being bullshit, you're now known as 'that guy who rapes his tenants.' There are so, so many girls out there, man. Bring them home, and establish your boundaries hard with the ones you live with. Sleeping with roommates is bad, sleeping with tenants is…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:21 AM
1

Sweet. I'll look into it. I don't have a real interest in it, but it's always good to explore new things to see if you dig 'em. And no worries, I have 2 other plates but I wanted to add her because I was getting a bit bored with one of them. Glad to hear it - you're on the right course.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 12:17 AM
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Desire for validation is innate and healthy, but we now put so much emphasis on it that it has crossed over into the realm of substance abuse (repeated endorphin shortcuts). Welcome to social media. Self-esteem is counterfeit confidence. Eh, only if it's hammered into you that your feelz matter. I think quite highly of myself, and my confidence stems from that. The difference is, you have to have a reason to have that self-esteem. Don't get caught patting yourself on the back for nothing. Obviou…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 12:16 AM
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Cool. Good work. Get out there and work on getting another plate spinning to avoid oneitis, but besides that - you did really well. Telescope is an interesting one. Definitely a good reason to swing by the ol' place after a few drinks to build some tension before heading back out. I like that.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 12:11 AM
5

Good staples for guys generally trying to figure out what works for men's style. Think timeless, think classic, think minimalist. Once you aren't a half-tard in the realm of fashion, don't be afraid to play around with it. Have some fun. Don't buy a Hawaiian-print button up, but try out things to see if you like them. If it makes you feel confident, that's going to matter so much more than whether it's in a men's mag right now. I have a closet full of Diesel, Armani, Lacoste, A&F, etc. Jesus Tap…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 12:09 AM
1

I go against the grain here - I will usually pay for first date. First date? Usually meet her for no more than two beers. I'll typically pick up the tab if it went half-decent, because $20 isn't that big a deal. Beyond that? Well, if I'm not getting laid - squat. If I can't tell within the first date if I want to fuck her and she wants to fuck me, I usually won't bother with a second. There are so, so many girls out there still to meet - why fight a battle that doesn't feel worth it?
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:04 AM
3

"Hi." continues on with amazing life since her, and mentally wish her well
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:01 AM
2

Well, would you prefer people talk down to you like a child because they think you're all oatmeal between the ears? People fear people smarter than them, innately. Not a 'turn and run' fear, but if they think you know things they don't, they'll feel inferior. A&A or amused mastery it when it comes up. Well, I am a certified Rocket Surgeon, so...
/r/askTRP12/09/15 12:00 AM
5

Sure dude, I stick my dick in crazy all the time - they're my favourite lays. I'm into essentially the biker slut / Suicide Girl aesthetic, so they're almost all damaged goods in one way or another. Put your dick in crazy - but preface it with the fact that you're not looking for a relationship, and at the first sign of any true crazy behaviour (stalking, mad because you're not giving enough attention, etc) get the fuck out. Cut ties immediately, ghost, and move on with your life. Oh, and wrap i…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:58 PM
1

I save and invest 95% of every dollar I earn because my biggest goal is to be retired before I have kids. I use this for inspiration for everything I do financially. Amazing. I'm a business owner and I want to work until the day I die (weapons manufacturing - believe me, this shit is fun), but this is an excellent starting point towards future wealth, whether you change your mind or not. Yet I'm terrified that I'm either going to have kids with someone and she's going to take them and leave, or …
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:54 PM
2

Yup. Launch into a diatribe about your gym routine and how much you've been working at it, and you'll dry up every vagina in a ten block radius. Naturals make it look easy, because it comes natural. Make it look easy. No one else is going to appreciate how much hard work it was but yourself, so find validation from your own satisfaction about it. Let go of the past. About 4 or 5 'me's' have died over the years. I have a little send-off for them with a raised beer, and I do my best to leave them …
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:49 PM
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Eh, I would fuck half of Hollywood if the opportunity presented itself. Women are hypergamous. We know this. The males in Hollywood are the epitome of the branch they'd love to swing to, but will never get the shot. All it does is illustrate the fact that yes, AWALT. I wouldn't call it a red flag if she thinks Fassbender is a total babe and would go down on him as he takes a dump in a Coachella portapotty on the final day in 35 degree heat and humidity. Just broads showing their nature, man.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:47 PM
3

What should I do? Where should I go? Which path should I take? What is my purpose? Where exactly do I start, HOW do I start? What do I want? Not the kind of questions anyone here can answer for you. What do I want from you? I dont know, a helping hand? Tips how to proceed? Guidlines, someone to listen, someone to relate, maybe someone to help me up from this dog shit of situation Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:43 PM
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In my heyday, a nuclear holocaust could have been going down, I'd have 3 minutes to make it a mile to get to the nearest fallout shelter, and I'd probably still think "Eh, I have time." unzips But seriously - stop slapping your meat around so much. It makes life a lot harder for you than you think.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:42 PM
1

Just because a guy has money, doesn't mean he's a natural alpha. I know plenty of guys with tons of cash who basically bankroll chicks and think they're in love, all the while she's fucking the dirty bartender down the street. Work on you. Stop comparing yourself to others and forseeing things that haven't happened yet.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:21 PM
1

Your fraternity doesn't define you as a person. That's like saying because you're a mechanic, you can never ever read for pleasure, or have any kind of intelligence - because you're a smelly ol' wrencher. You write your own narrative. Your profession, school, frat, etc - those are just groupings. You can be whomever you want in them.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:19 PM
2

What the fuck. If I do insist, on the other end, I may become obvessive and worsen the situation. Welp, you're already there, pal. Move on. Do not talk to her. Burn her number. Throw your phone in the river. Throw yourself in the river if it'll wake you up out of this delusion. You're done. She's dead to you, and you to her. Do absolutely anything with your life that doesn't involve her, and I'll consider it a positive.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:15 PM
2

Guys do not have a fucking clue what 'friendly makeup' is compared to 'bitchy makeup.' You probably just look way, way hotter with the former rather than the latter.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:13 PM
1

What. Are. You. Doing. Why was it ever a good idea to put yourself in this situation? Leave now. Like immediately. You don't need any of the things you left there, you'd be better to sleep under a bridge with a little self-respect than spend another minute there. Either that or start hitting on her ex, because you and him probably have a better chance of working out than this situation.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:12 PM
1

Stop texting and set up a meet. Why are you giving yourself so many opportunities to fail by keeping text going?
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:10 PM
10

This ones done, my friend. You have no connections outside of your loose personal association - so she's dead to you. Did you fuck up? Oh boy, yes. Is it the end of the world? Absolutely not. I get it. When you live outside a city in a smaller town, without an RP mentality it's easy to get over-excited about a hot girl actually paying attention to you, because you feel like you don't have a ton of options around. I was like this in a BB phase immediately post-university. Do some reading here, an…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:04 PM
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If it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck... Sounds absolutely like she's covering for something. Most likely the guy who left minutes before you got there. Sorry to tell you bro, but there are more red flags here than Communist China. Validate by going through her phone next chance you can without getting caught, but realize that if she's got half a brain - you won't find anything. Unless you blatantly catch her or she tells you, you'll never probably know. If it's going to make you parano…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 05:58 PM
4

So why are you waiting until afterparties to close? Afterparties are cool if its you, your boys, and a few broads - but it should just be a preface to going and doing your thing with your respective pulls. You should be gaming long before after the bar in order to make anything happen. If you're competing tired with other dudes after the bar with a limited pool of women, you're going to reek of desperation.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 05:53 PM
5

Where are you in Canada? If you're anywhere near Toronto, I'll take you out for a beer this weekend. Shit gets better man. Read lots here. Read the sidebar. Read about how to better yourself, get the life you want, and most importantly (because we're a male sexual strategy) fuck all the broads you've dreamed of - provided you do the work. As someone else said, what you need to do now is break the cycle you're in. Go for a walk. Go to the store when you sober up, buy some of the sidebar books, an…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 01:07 AM
10

Forward is good. Forward means you're not going to get put in orbit. She'll either agree and meet up, or she'll hmm and haw - and you'll next. Sounds like you're doing the right thing.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 01:02 AM
2

Because plating a girl you have serious oneitis for (as it appears) doesn't work. Either way, if she's talking about 'leaving a bf for him,' that isn't a plate situation you want to be in.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 12:35 AM
2

AWALT is AWALT. Are there high-value women and low-value women out there? Of course. AWALT means that women, because of their innate nature, are subject to hypergamy and branch-swinging, the same way men are prone to sowing their wild oats and getting bored with the same broad. AWALT isn't a reason for anyone's failure. AWALT is a reality that an RP man accepts, understands - and when possible, uses to his advantage.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:51 PM
1

Yup. AWALT is a policy that prevents harm by painting everyone with the same brush. Will every broad immediately toss off her pants in the middle of dinner and jump on Chad's cock because he walks by and pays her some attention? Hell no. Do women, because of their biological nature, have some form of hypergamy to some degree? Absolutely. If you don't light firecrackers in your hand to see if they're a dud, you're going to lose a hell of a lot less fingers.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:46 PM
4

I start small, and if they dig it - keep ramping up. Start with slaps on the ass. Go until there's no doubt it hurts. If she's still loving it, move on to quick, light slaps across the face. If she digs it, move on. It's like anal. You don't just toss your fist falcon punch-style in her fartbox just because you wanted to see if she enjoyed a finger in there. Start small, work up. Be 100% confident in what you're doing. Don't ask permission, wait until you get a hard no. Escalate like that withou…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:44 PM
6

I built a hard harem Well, actually you had a threesome. Cool and shit, but it ain't exactly a hard harem at all.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:41 PM
4

As a guy who's cohabitated twice before 26 - do. not. cohabitate. right. now. You two are still growing way too much as people for it to work in most cases for any length of time. It's way too easy to let your SMV slip, stop gaming your girl, and settle into routine. No matter how practical and pragmatic you think moving in is, it's so so much more difficult to get out of it than you think. Just the thought of having to split all your shit, find a place to live, etc is enough to beta most guys w…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:35 PM
6

Your SMV isn't high enough to keep them interested after the initial introduction and number close. Either you're creepy / too forward / aggressive in text, you're not attractive, your game sucks, or a combination of all of the above. Nobody should be number closing as much as you claim and getting so few results. If you're genuinely working on upping your SMV and this is still happening - just keep at it until it starts working. Sometimes its a waiting game for your SMV to catch up with your RP…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:31 PM
2

Moe is an idiot. She's shown even in a monogamous relationship that she'll fuck other dudes - who's to say there's not another alpha in the picture he doesn't know about? I'm almost 100% certain there is. He should be out there playing the field and looking for a better replacement. If he's as alpha as you say and seriously desperate for an LTR, he should have more options without the baggage than he knows what to do with.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:28 PM
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I am literally the most unphotogenic human on the face of the planet. In person, I'm pretty good looking, fit, and trim. In pictures, I'm an autist with an extra chromosome and a triple chin to round out the balance. Without knowing the specific problems of what makes you look like ass in pics, it doesn't help to ask the question. I found looking up vs looking down at the camera whenever possible (hard as a tall guy) eliminates my double chin, and not trying to grin like an idiot handles most of…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:26 PM
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Game can overcome both. I'm a tall guy with a barely average dick, and I had a lot of insecurity for a hell of a long time because of it among other things. Height and a footlong cock don't make you confident. Confidence makes you confident, usually stemming from working on yourself and SMV until you have something to be confident about.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:23 PM
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Who are those guys who come to parties with a bunch of hot girls? They always seem like they are emasculated and friend zoned by all the girls they bring. You answered your own question in a lot of cases. I knew a few guys who could always bring tons of hot broads to parties - which was excellent for us other dudes. That being said they were almost at gay best friend level of orbiting. Otherwise, a lot of times it will be a girl the guy is fucking, and her friends. If she's a social girl and he'…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:21 PM
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Honestly, probably. Did you finish in her? It sounds like - from her irritation - that she's probably telling the truth, but for future reference, if she is telling the truth - you lucked out here. Never, never trust a woman who says you don't need a condom.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:12 PM
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"Find someone else for sex" Gonna agree with the lady, here.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:19 PM
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...Or just read TRP and the sidebar like the rest of us. You're just plugging your website everywhere in the comments here and on MGTOW today. Either provide some guidance, or don't - but don't use TRP to try to drive your own traffic.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:17 PM
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I'd say that's definitely not helping your oneitis, but I can agree that for men - especially in the service - the current climate is dangerous when it comes to false accusations. I understand your worry, especially when you've already had one made against you. Try gaming some women with no intention of closing. Just meet women - approach, flirt, talk to them at bars. You're doing the right things to raise your SMV, so maybe just seeing how many other women are out there that find you attractive…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:15 PM
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Well until the man comes knocking on your door for child support, for one. If she's genuinely pregnant, you'll likely know in 3 months when she calls you losing her mind. That being said, so long as you didn't bust in her, the chances are fairly low - not low enough to rationalize not using a condom, but low enough that you shouldn't be losing more sleep than you already are about it. As for the STD's, that's where you're likely to get burned - if something bad's going to come of it. Get tested …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:11 PM
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I met my ex on Tinder, and I must've lost my color vision - because in hindsight, there's more red there than the eyes of a 420 march. Tinder is definitely just another way to meet women in the information age, and opens you up to meeting more women than you would probably meet on an average day. As long as you walk in eyes open (like I didn't) you can have a lot of success through it. My best mate met his excellent LTR through it as well, and they've been together 2 years. She's genuinely prett…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:04 PM
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You probably should've followed up the second time if you were dead-set on making it happen, as she's got flakey tendencies - but I wouldn't mind sending that extra text if it meant a ONS with an HB9, as you said. All that being said, she's a flake. I wouldn't make further plans with her unless they are for 'right fucking now,' because it's clear she's either just craving validation, or she's on the fence about what she wants to do with you. Better to spend that energy elsewhere, even if it's ju…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:01 PM
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This is exactly why excessive texting with a plate does nothing for me but give me opportunities to fuck up and create issues where there aren't any. Most TRP guys recommend texting for logistics only when first meeting a girl, but I think with a plate - unless you're seriously considering an LTR with her and she's been a good plate for a while - you should keep texting to a minimum as well. Most guys just don't have the text judo to be able to consistently use it to escalate and keep things in …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:44 PM
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It seems to me like you had no outcome independence. If you have OI, if she bats down an escalation attempt, you continue on with the date / further escalation like nothing happened. From what I read, it sounds like you came off as butthurt when she stopped you after you were going for her rack. Butthurt is the opposite of studly - you go from alpha man to pouting beta in her eyes in that moment, like a child who had their favourite toy taken away. Sounds to me by the lack of text that this one'…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:39 PM
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Hey man, if it makes you feel any better - oneitis with an ex-wife is pretty much the worst oneitis I can see anyone having to get over. This wasn't some girl you fancied in high school, this is someone you had built a life with / around. That said, certain feelings like that are going to come up, no matter what you do. Being RP isn't about not feeling things, it's about recognizing them for what they are and handling them before they get the chance to consume you. You're allowed to feel a twing…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:36 PM
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Online dating like POF, OkCupid to me are slight red flags. Means they're putting in effort to meet men outside the normal channels. Why do they need to do that? Is it because they're nuts? Is it because they just like the validation? Either case, bad. If it's Tinder, nah. That's not a red flag, at least where I am - where Tinder is considered more of a 'meet new people of the opposite sex' app rather than the Grindr for straight folks I hear it is elsewhere. Sure, you can find those girls there…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:26 PM
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Excellent advice, thanks for the feedback. That's pretty much the approach I was planning to take, so I'm glad you've had success with it. I'm a fan of trying to leave plates better than when I found them, rather than leaving a wake of destruction in my path - so I think rejection buffers are a prime choice of strategy. Thanks again, man.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 06:17 PM
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What's your strategy for dropping plates when the time comes, and it isn't a matter of looking for commitment on her part or the like? I've got an annoying plate I'm probably going to drop who seems to have caught serious feelings, and I'd rather focus my attention elsewhere. I already think I know how I'm going to handle it (ghost) but I'm curious as to how others do it.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:00 PM
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Dressing to stand out in everyday life? best casual clothing You're kind of at odds, here. Bar clothes may be slightly flashier than street clothes, but I keep my wardrobe low-key for a reason. Simple, fitted, and classic - I don't want to peacock, it's not my style. As for clothes to really stand out, follow /u/abdada's advice. Form and fit are far more important than anything else.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:54 PM
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You.. wow. I don't know how long you've been reading TRP, but this kind of thing is very, very common with guys in relationships who discover TRP, or TRP guys trying an LTR with RP lenses for the first time. Essentially, you ratcheted up a 2/10 situation into a 12/10 one, real fast. Dread, OI, and abundance mentality - which is what I think you were trying to do here - are things you should get across without having to say them. If you have to tell your LTR that you have options, you've already …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:52 PM
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Just had to finish getting some furniture from my last relationship almost a month and a half after NC. Fortunately, she's out of the country and her brother let me in - but I hear you. It's not a fun situation. As /u/stayinghereforreal said, consider it lost and the price of doing business. You're out, what - $300 if those sunglasses aren't complete shit? Minimal, minimal loss for cutting a toxic, cheating ex out of your life.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:30 PM
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my concern is its quite taboo for majority girls to have sex before married here, so i have to try to make her be the minority ? I'm not super experienced with girls who grew up in Asian culture, though I've closed a few Asians. I'd say look at it this way - I don't know any famous Asian male celebrities, but think of Brad Pitt - if you were Brad Pitt, would she care about whether sleeping with you before marriage was taboo? Work on becoming Asian Brad Pitt.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:27 AM
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but I've seen guys with average SMV get a really solid push-pull thing going with a girl. How is your SMV? Is it average? Are you lifting? Remember - your evaluation of another man's SMV isn't necessarily what a woman would evaluate it. Honestly, flirting can happen without a solid SMV, but it's going to be a real struggle.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:28 AM
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I'd text her something like "Dinner at 6? My night freed up ;)" followed 1 minute later by "Oops sorry wrong convo, np."
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:24 AM
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im still not working out because town that i work currently dont have any gyms yet, basically it just harbor town. /r/bodyweightfitness i dont really stressed out though bec i think this is my first time and its ok for learning. Going to go out on a limb here and say English isn't your first language, but that's okay. And yes, you're right - it's okay to fuck up a lot, as long as you're learning from it. night when we went to our date, i planned our second date, chilling at my place, she agreed …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:16 AM
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Because it's a slippery slope from realizing that life isn't a Disney tale, to thinking that everything around you is shit. I like to remind people that if you smell shit everywhere you go, check under your own shoes first.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:09 AM
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I guess it depends on your prior relationship with her. If you were a prior source of validation for her, and after she turned you down you dropped out of orbit - she's giving you a little vengeance for having the nerve to actually gasp expect something in return for your attention. If you had only recently met, honestly? It could be that your SMV is just super, super low. There was a thread someone posted on the main sub a while ago where a bunch of women admitted (in an AskReddit thread I beli…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 07:17 PM
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Yup. I go complete, cold NC to my ex's. In my pre-RP days, I didn't - and any kind of contact would invariably end up with me back in orbit / back in the shitty relationship before I knew what hit me. They had their shot. They blew it. Time to find some better prospects, my friend.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 07:04 PM
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"Hot Babe," though I've always thought it doesn't make much sense for anything under a 6. I think it got started as a joke to call a girl an HB4 after guys were always talking about HB9's, so it stuck. I could be wrong, though.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 07:01 PM
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Define disrespectful behavior.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 06:59 PM
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Leave your stuff where it is, get up, stretch, and walk over. Say hi, and that you're just taking a break from XYZ work and thought you'd say hello. Take it from there. If she acts badly, who cares? Walk around the store for a second, and then sit back down. You said you were just taking a break - so there's no pressure to perform.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 06:57 PM
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Did you put any of the things recommended to you the last time you posed this question in action?
/r/askTRP09/09/15 05:49 PM
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This is the problem with the oft cited "abundance mentality". I really think that's the wrong way to look at it. You can't fake that no matter what kind of mental gymnastics you do. Eh, I disagree. Mentally realizing that there are so, so many girls out there besides the one you're focusing on is a great thing - and you don't need to be jacked and tanned to keep this in mind at the right moments. You have to have ACTUAL abundance. Abundance Reality. To achieve this is a long hard road. Yup. But …
/r/askTRP09/09/15 05:43 PM
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They don't listen to positive, constructive advice This is the most important part. I don't care if guys bitch about race at first if they take productive steps towards overcoming it if that's really what they feel is holding them back. The annoying part is IRT's seeming to use AskTRP as a diary complete with daily sob stories about how they're unlovable, pathetic fucks and how nothing is working - followed by asking for a magic bullet solution to all their problems. It's not all Indians, it's j…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 04:57 PM
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Things never really had a chance to escalate, movie was about half way through and she said she was heading to bed You should've been escalating long before this. Even if her brother's around during the movie, you had the entire time you were making dinner to play the game. You should've been setting it up from the start. I said she was 'weak' with a joking tone and she said 'I buried my cat' and walked off. Eh, you can't fault her for this. Sure you could've 'been her comfort' or fucking whatev…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:33 AM
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Hey man, you're not always going to be able to close every girl on a first meet. It's just the way it goes. Sounds like you did everything right, though. You escalated, slapped down LMR to the best of your abilities, and got her interested in coming back for a second round to finish the job. I often don't close until a second date, and that's fine. You left it on a high note, which is perfect. I usually let the girl text me for the second date to make her hamster spin a little, but in this case …
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:28 AM
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I'm 20 she's 17 btw Make sure of the legality of this where you are. so I've had my gf in my frame the whole day pretty much texting Frame through text? Okay, I kind of get it - but if frame is something you feel you have to maintain through text, text less. You're giving yourself far too many opportunities to fail with little reward by keeping a constant text stream going. Call her on the phone before bed. See her in person. I'm not a fan of the endless texts, even in relationships. It sets a w…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:24 AM
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Is there still a chance a 21 year old girl from a stable home/family who was a virgin and only had 3 beta bfs in the past to be loyal....? No more or less loyal than any other woman. AWALT. Is there any girl that is loyal out here?? There are high-value women, and low-value women which you will come to recognize in time. Regardless, all are affected by hypergamy, so their 'loyalty' is dependent on how well you are maintaining game / frame / rising SMV. Will she always see me as beta no matter wh…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:20 AM
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Rule #1 of TRP: You aren't Captain Save A Bro. You didn't find TRP by someone jamming it down your throat, and neither will he. He will come around when he has experienced enough to find it himself, or he won't. We do not talk about TRP outside of TRP in RedPill terms / jargon. At best, you'll alienate yourself, at worst you'll be considered a neo-nazi misogynist. You said you're not even fully RP yet, so why are you focusing on trying to save your friend when you haven't even saved yourself? Li…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:16 AM
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Your troubles in your life come from you. You are 100% responsible for all your shortcomings and the consequences of them. Because they are your fault, you also how the ability to fix them. Until you internalize this, the rest of our advice is going to be useless.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:13 AM
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HB<4: Unfuckable. If you've been here, you know. Not worth discussing past this. HB5: Fuckable, but barely. You are embarrassed to be seen with them in public. HB6: Not bad looking, not good looking. Also probably not proud to be seen out and about with. HB7: Attractive. You don't 'show her off,' but she's unquestionably good looking. Good for a plate if need be. HB8: Hot. You are proud to be seen in public with her. Very good plate material. HB9: As hot as they come in real life. HB10: Does not…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:11 AM
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I agree. I think the more BP thing to do would be to blindly trust what you're told, rather than making sure it's the truth yourself - at the very least on occasion. When I invest my money, I don't do it without being able to take a look at the books to make sure I'm being not swindled - why would I do any different when it comes to investing my time?
/r/askTRP09/09/15 11:02 AM
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Most importantly, nobody will know you're a virgin, even the girl you lose it to, unless you tell them. Worst case, they'll just think you're shit in bed. Fortunately, there isn't much of a learning curve, so you can also demonstrate improvement very quickly. Don't overthink it, man. I've been with a lot of girls, and if there's one thing I've learned about sex? Its just sex. Sometimes dirty, sometimes boring - it's just another action I do in my day that happens to bring me a lot of pleasure.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:37 AM
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/r/AltTRP probably has the better answers, but I have seen gay posters here before claim to benefit from TRP.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:33 AM
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The above poster is right, OP. If you want to save dignity, you do it by cutting ties immediately. There doesn't need to be some emotional speech or 'closure,' just stop returning calls and texts. She will try to contact you to get you back in orbit for a taste of that sweet, sweet validation. Do not waver. Besides, she's leaving in three weeks. Consider it your first test of manhood to stick it out with no contact. You want friends? Make male friends. Cut out the perpetually in orbit routine.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:32 AM
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It works very well, but I find you need to be very conscious you're not just outright imitating the person you're doing it to - especially at first, because it can come off as patronizing. Focus less on hand positions (noticeable) and more on how they're holding their weight, hip positions, and how they point their feet.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 03:29 AM
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Permit it, because you and I both know she's going to come once, twice max. Let her come - if you want to let her come - but do 100% your own thing at the gym. She is coming with you, but you are getting your workout done come hell or high water.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 03:27 AM
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I pulled the numbers straight out of my ass. Good for you, though. Take as much from the world as you can, because it ain't giving anyone jack shit willingly.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:21 AM
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Jeeeeeesus. Man, I want to believe. If this is legitimately how you acted 6 months after discovering TRP while 6 years into a live-in relationship, I'm shocked. I can't tell if you're a natural alpha or a straight-up sociopath - but either way, fuck. That was the best way that possibly could have gone down, given the circumstances. I know I probably don't need to say this - but no contact is your best friend from this point forward regarding her.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:24 AM
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It's completely fine to feel that way, just don't let it consume you man. Similar situation - my last LTR was a party girl with a coke problem. Although you can't fix an addict or help one that doesn't want to be helped, I had those same thoughts for a while. The best medicine is concentrating on how many girls there are out there that can do everything she did for you or better, are hotter, and will give you far less shit than she ever did. Combine that with your RP knowledge, and life gets a w…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:59 AM
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Good attitude, man. Treat it like a game. Keep tweaking things to see what works. Remember, you're there for your amusement. Not for hers. Unless you're wearing a big red nose right now, you're not a clown - and sure as shit not a dancing monkey. You could be thinking she's bored because you're insecure about her having a good time or not. Try to work on the 'I'm the Prize' attitude we talk about. Of course she's having a good time. Who wouldn't be, out with you?
/r/askTRP08/09/15 09:26 PM
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"Lets grab a beer this week - I really want to check out insert cool bar you've already been to here. Tuesday at 8 PM." Don't ask anything. You tell, and if she needs another day / time, she'll tell you. If she bobs and weaves, she's not actually interested and this was a validation play for her. EDIT: Missed your proposed text. Perfect. I'd maybe stick to beers and apps over a formal dinner, but YMMV.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 09:23 PM
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First off, I'm sure you know this - but fighting with her was the first mistake. Fighting with a woman is like wrestling with a pig - you're getting covered in shit, but the pig's having a grand ol' time. Women don't operate like men in these situations, I've found. Even in my BP days, if some big event was coming up that day, I'd bite my tongue to at least try to have a good time. I've found anecdotally that women seem to shit-test and provoke even more when they know something like this is hap…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 09:18 PM
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You're not understanding. AWALT is a real thing. There are two ways you can choose to look at it - either you get angry because all women are scumbags and out to fuck you with the long dick of the law. Or, You can use AWALT your advantage. Hypergamy is real. Branch-swinging is real. Women going for the highest SMV in the room is real. Every single one of these can be exploited by you if you put in the work on your SMV, game, frame, etc necessary to make it happen. That's not pedestalizing any on…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 09:07 PM
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TRP is TRP. AWALT doesn't just mean North American Women Are Like That. Read the sidebar, put some work in. You'll find it works wherever you go. Don't take my word for it - find out first hand.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 09:01 PM
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I say this couch suck for sex let's go up stairs. She said lead the way. You're in like sin. No problem here. We start making out again. I put her on the bed get on top of her. We continue making out. She said I should go. I said ya keep making out. Good. Ignore it. No problem here. (I know this cause her underwear doesn't match. clear sign I'm getting farther than intended) Bullshit. I've fucked maybe 2 girls who had matching underwear besides lingerie. Don't hamster on that. Then she get outwa…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:56 PM
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meaning I ask questions about the other person and that's about it. No storytelling, banter or general nonsense. This actually isn't a bad tactic. Women's (and most people's, really) favorite topic of discussion is typically themselves. Keep it light, keep it airy. There's no need to get heavy on any topics, especially on a first date. My strategy (when this was new to me) was to get a girl talking about herself. Period. After that, keep her talking about herself. Make jokes about the things she…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:48 PM
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Yeah, this is pretty essential to understand for the new guys. TRP isn't a set of cheat codes you can punch in to overcome a woman's brain and make her fuck you. You still need to work your game and become able to dodge and weave with a conversation in order to get the result you're looking for.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:40 PM
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Reading the sidebar would be a good start. We don't even have Greek Life at my alma mater, and I did just fine. Same with most RP guys who are doing quite well for themselves these days.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:38 PM
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You didn't push too fast too far, you simply failed to deal with her LMR properly. What was the context? More info there would indicate what really went wrong. I fucked up by not continuing making out etc on the way up. How long is your staircase? 10 miles? Otherwise, this part definitely wasn't the fuck-up on your part. Besides that, soft next. Don't reply at all. Let her hamster it out. Either she'll come back looking to get laid (had this happen in almost this exact situation), or she won't. …
/r/askTRP08/09/15 08:36 PM
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Neither. I pretend like it didn't even happen, besides a smirk. That's a lie acknowledges her anti-slut defense. I don't want to start a conversation about whether I'm actually going to have sex with her or not, at least not with that kind of opener. It's a frame issue. I refuse to enter her frame, and keep her firmly in mine.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:23 PM
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Hell, I'm from friendly ol' Canada, and I'd have likely been a helluva lot less polite than OP about it. Joey doesn't share food.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:19 PM
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Yes, well, I don't consider you gracing me with your presence a fair trade so if you're not going to compensate me properly I will decline This comes off a little butthurt for my tastes, but it gets the point across. I would've stuck with something after the first text like, Not a problem. My current rates are $150 per 4 hour session. Does Monday at 5 PM work? Slightly different approach, but if it works it works. Good job on standing up for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:18 PM
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Amused mastery. I usually give a small grin and move on as if it was never said in the first place. Some guys like to A&A it, but I prefer the straight ignore route. Makes her hamster do a lot of the legwork for you. A confident, high SMV man doesn't need to convince a woman to sleep with him. He knows it's most likely going to happen anyway, and keeps escalating regardless. Saying she's not going to fuck you while you're still at the bar means nothing. Disregard and continue on. She'll give a h…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:15 PM
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Did paragraph breaks cost extra?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:12 PM
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There's definitely a way to accept AWALT without boiling with anger or hunting for unicorns as you put it. If you learn to use RP to your advantage rather than just a lense through which to view the world, things like AWALT make you chuckle rather than fume.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:09 PM
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Anger phase goes away as SMV rises through self-improvement and closing with women, I've found. I tend to believe that most guys get into the anger phase when they have all the RP knowledge necessary to start making some moves in the realm of women, but their SMV is lagging behind too much to get them the kinds of results they want / expect. Typically, if the guy is willing to put in the hard, grinding work necessary to raise his SMV (lifting, fashion, game, frame) - that anger phase goes away. …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:07 PM
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"I'm not going to have sex with you" This is music to my ears when I hear it, especially if she says it unprompted. My experience is that she's trying to convince herself of that fact, rather than you. Anti-slut defense, while sometimes annoying, is always a telling sign that you're headed in the right direction.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:04 PM
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I agree, as long as it's on your own terms - and not just because you feel like you have to reciprocate. I have a plate right now who knows we're non-exclusive, but keeps trying to bait me into sharing 'feelings' I don't have by any method she can. She tries telling me how much she likes me, she tries telling me how she's just so stressed out right now and how if 'this thing' with us was a little more solid, she'd feel better. Women will try anything to get you to give them the emotion they crav…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 07:59 PM
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If anything, I'd ignore it and move on with the convo - I find that drives girls absolutely insane. Zero acknowledgement always spins up their hamster in my experience.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:20 PM
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"Sometimes sportfuckin' is just sportfuckin'!" I recognize my own work when I see it. Glad you like it. Exactly though. TRP isn't about fucking everything just because you can. I've fucked a hell of a lot less girls I regret since finding TRP, despite getting laid a hell of a lot more. If you want to plate her, plate her. If you don't, don't. No need to overthink it, OP.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:17 PM
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Yup, I use this a lot too. Great for making her lose some clothes if you're in the mood.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:10 PM
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Is it a snapchat or is this a direct text? When my plates send me nudes, I usually offer something non-committal, like 'sweet laundry' (if its a pic of them in their room) or "dying for some attention today?" If it's a snap, I don't even respond. That's 100% not just for my eyes, so I'm not going to be one of the many offering validation for it.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:10 PM
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As George Carlin said, "Think of how stupid the average person is. Now, realize that half the population is actually fucking dumber than that."
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:08 PM
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if i know something i have the urge to try to make them understand I used to do this too - mostly when I was at my most insecure. You know you're right - whatever you're trying to explain is a scientifically proven fact, and whoever you're trying to convince could genuinely benefit from what you're trying to say. Or, you're trying to demonstrate value through knowledge. You find it interesting, so why don't they? Truth be told, I got rid of this with the IDGAF attitude we advocate so much. I'd t…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:06 PM
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Step 1: Look between your legs. Confirm testicles. Step 2: Train yourself to pursue long-term satisfaction vs short-term gratification. Step 3: Repeat Steps 1 & 2 as necessary. If you've read the sidebar and have put the work into digesting TRP, this is all you need.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 07:03 PM
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So wait, her friends love having you around? What makes you think they don't 'approve,' then? And furthermore, if that's all that it is, why do you give one sweet fuck if they approve?
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:46 PM
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I find with my look (big, sleeves, biker-looking), I don't get as much of the Malibu Barbie types anymore - but I get a helluva lot more of the alt girls that really do it for me. While all girls like the bad boy, when you get to a certain point - you have to expect to have a little drop-off with the real conservative / financial types. Could be she's just way more straight-laced then you thought. Either way, I wouldn't waste much thought on it. There are more broads who do dig your style out th…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:20 PM
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Try to keep in mind that TRP is really a small community - the main sub only has 100,000 members, AskTRP only 1/5 of that. We're not a real cross-section of masculinity as a whole - especially not when it comes to very small groups such as the trans community. We do definitely have some gay posters however, who do offer some interesting insights. TRP is excellent for LTR's - but you need to realize that in our experiences most women are not suitable for LTR's. Sad fact of the world we live in. Y…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:16 PM
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I use 'you're not wrong' all the time, but it only works when she's talking about you being edgy or dangerous if you've already built the attraction / pull to begin with. If you open up with seeming deranged, she's going to x that convo faster than you could blink.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:00 PM
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I like chicks who like to get dirty and rough anyway so that "you're scary shit" is water under the bridge. Psychotic strippers and rock broads are my forte - but you still don't want to come across as outright frightening. Tattoos and a Harley, even with an upside-down cross on the gastank? Good. Long hair, face paint, and scars all over your wrists? Bad, bad, bad.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:59 PM
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I think you just rolled the dice too many times. Perfect analogy for a situation I've been trying to get across to guys regarding 'text game' and the like for quite some time. Every time you text her, snap, fucking whatever - you're either building attraction and escalating, or you're nuking yourself out of the running. 90% of guys just aren't capable of doing one without opening too many doors to the other - so she goes from turned on to switched completely off in seemingly no time flat. The le…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:58 PM
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Eh, I go for the biker antichrist thing a lot - but that's because it's what I like. I have some demonic-like tattoos right on my forearms and it's never gone badly for me. That being said, if you're coming off like an angsty teen listening to Marilyn Manson in his parents bedroom - it ain't going to work for you.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:56 PM
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Is this an LTR or some broad you're trying to close? If it's an LTR, it's usually hurting you. My ex's friends used to undercut me at every turn. Though I definitely played the Perfect Courtier like /u/tharedace outlines from 48 Laws of Power - eventually I had enough. This was in my BP days, for the record. It got so bad that my LTR knew that I hated them, they hated me, and I didn't want to be around them - and vice versa. The problems it created definitely made my life far more difficult than…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:54 PM
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Openly checking it? Bad. Reeks of insecurity. That being said, I'm part of the trust, but verify camp. If she's your LTR and you're truly RP, you trust her as much as you can possibly trust a woman - otherwise you'd be on to the next. I occasionally like to 'verify' things I've been told by LTR's if I can get away with it without being caught. A quick flick through her texts when she's in the shower, or the like. I've caught deal-breaking lies too many times doing this to not do it anymore.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:49 PM
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Working out is something you can pretty much do anytime you have the time, and provides one of the biggest boosts to your SMV, no matter what your current size is. If you're small, you'll get bigger. If you're fat, you'll lose weight. If you're ugly, at least you'll have big arms. Also, it's one of the most easily-measured zones of improvement when working on yourself. I might not genuinely know if my game is getting tighter even based on 20 interactions because of all the variables - but I know…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:47 PM
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Totally be honest but talking about your private life so quickly makes vaginas dry. I wouldn't outright lie - but this is a good point. It's like another guy previously who asked about how honest he should be about the fact he was a recent divorcee. Really, unless you tell them - they aren't going to know. I assume this is a temporary situation until you find a new place / she does / whatever, and since I really doubt you're looking for anything long term right now - don't be afraid to artfully …
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:45 PM
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Have you guys seen similar things so close up? Literally almost daily since I took the pill. I'm grateful for it. It reminds me why I need to constantly keep coming here to remind myself of what I have to do. And what do you usually say if a girl asks you for drinks? Laugh. Honestly, I'm probably in the minority that if I'm genuinely enjoying a girls company, I'll buy her a drink if I want to. I buy rounds for my boys all the time, so if I'm grabbing one and I'm especially feeling it, I'll inclu…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:41 PM
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Ah. I didn't get that impression from the original post. I thought you were taking digs like that at her. Eh, she probably just feels super insecure about what she has, or she's very proud of it and doesn't like hearing it put down just because her son is doing so well in life. Honestly, I don't know what to tell you in that case. Sometimes avoiding the issue with people like family is the best option. Be a little more mindful of who's in earshot. I know it sounds like walking on eggshells aroun…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 05:41 PM
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POF is a real shit option for meeting women, in my experience. I'm a good looking dude with a high SMV even through pictures. I have a list of accomplishments a mile long, and make good money. I have enough game to communicate these things without saying them like an autist. I am very, very successful with women. On POF? I've gotten one conversion from message to sex in a few years on and off playing with it. My pageviews? Mostly fat, single mothers. If I were to base my SMV and success with wom…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 05:37 PM
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Absolutely I've encountered LMR. It's just another facet of anti-slut defense. That being said, having a high SMV (women genuinely lust for you) makes LMR far, far more rare. I don't get it even a quarter as often as I used to in the pre-lifting days, many years ago.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 05:27 PM
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Although I usually finger her before she's going at me, I'll agree here. By fingering her before she's going at you, it becomes something she's letting you do, basically putting the order of escalation and limits therein in her hands. If you've got a solid SMV and know how to turn women on through game and physical escalation, she should be struggling with your belt before you've even gotten near going at her.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 05:04 PM
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Stop posting this bullshit when you don't take our advice. You post a new sad sack question multiple times per week, take absolutely no advice, and waste everyone's time. This is getting fucking stupid. We're not your diary. Stop treating us like one.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 05:01 PM
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Point proven.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:58 PM
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What should I do? Move on and cultivate some abundance. Most of the time, if you blow it the first time with a broad, that's it. You're Billy Beta to her. You're now fighting against a losing trend to try to prove your worth - which is almost never truly worth the investment. There are so, so many girls out there. Why waste your time digging yourself out of a hole when you could start on equal or better footing elsewhere?
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:58 PM
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Because you're wasting your life looking at a picture of people you don't know having fun. Get out of the fucking house, man.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:56 PM
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It works for guys who have high SMV's. Nice guys are usually referred to as such because they have low SMV's, and their one redeeming feature is that they're "nice," aka subserviant. Girls will chase you through negs if you're somebody worth chasing. If you're a fat mouthbreather in a stained shirt, you're just going to come off like a prat.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:55 PM
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You're mom is sensitive, so don't take digs at her even in jest - if you don't want to get the results you're getting. You can be friendly and talk to people without negging them. You're not gaming your mom. Be nice to the lady - I'm sure she's put up with your shit for many, many years. I'm all for raging against feminists and such - but I respect my mother. She did the best she could with what she had. The way I turned out is my fault and my responsibility.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:54 PM
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Sure. You're really overthinking the minutae of interaction. If I want to hold her hand, I do. If I don't want to, I don't.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:52 PM
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Ugh. No. Dude, keyboard warriors are the worst, no matter who they are. You didn't hold frame by 'taking the consequences,' you probably just made yourself look like an idiot. Congratulations for doing it on your university's page so that everyone knows about it, too. I don't debate feminists. I have way too much on the go to waste my breath / get doxxed / whatever rather than pick fights on the internet. You just turned into that guy. Don't be that guy.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 04:51 PM
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If you're spending this much time thinking about a girl, that's oneitis - cured by cultivating an abundance mentality. If you're thinking about girls all the time, you either need to work on creating goals outside of women, or you're a normal dude with high T and the desire to fulfill your biological reproductive functions.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:23 AM
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Yeah, dick against the ass? Autist or not, you did the right thing - assuming you're not into dudes. There's no way - FYI - to interpret that besides an invitation for gay activities. Don't over analyze that one.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:15 AM
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What should you say? Come over. She's fucked you once, she'll give it a second shot if your SMV is high enough. You're not her friend and don't want to be, so don't start talking to her like one.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:12 AM
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I was pretty naturally RP and leading the groups, for sure - especially since I had the advantage of being a higher year than the girls. I also had many connections in town at bars through working in them - so I was the ringleader of the circus I created. But regardless - they legitimately thought I was gay. Not offensively - just that I came across as a non-threatening, totally actually likes guys kind of guy. To this day, I have no idea what gave them that impression - but it was enough that a…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:06 AM
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You've got something wrong here. You've had all these revelations about him, but you're still referring to him as your friend. It should be former friend, nothing more. I only have what you've told us to go off, but why keep someone so toxic in your life - and why ask if it's possible to become as toxic and manipulative as he is? You're supposed to overcome the shit, not become the shit. I'm guessing that you're under 20 and you've been friends with this guy since childhood. A sad fact of life i…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:02 AM
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Eh, to be honest when I was 22 in university, I got an in with a bunch of 18 and 19 year old freshmen broads, through a buddy. I fucked my way through them in a glorious conquest I've never since replicated. Let's say 10 girls, all HB7.5 minimum, young and hot, in 4 weeks. Real good time. I thought I was king stud. Until I talked to my buddy about it. For some reason, at least when they had met me - every single one of those girls had thought I was gay. Seriously. Not as an insult - they just ge…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:56 AM
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You never had a shot to begin with. Forget 90% of your experiences here, and take from it one lesson - abundance. You are spending way too much time, energy, and thinking on a woman who had a boyfriend as who seems at best minimally interested in you - besides all your white-knight 'I'm too noble to fuck m'lady who has a boyfriend' horseshit. You never had that chance, so don't fool yourself that you didn't fuck her by choice. Work on raising your SMV and meet some new women. Forget this girl, f…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:42 AM
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Honestly, I haven't given it any thought. If there's 8 hot girls and one guy in the frame, I'm focused on the broads. I don't categorize men I don't know unnecessarily. If you're not my friend or in my way as a male on the streets, you may as well not exist to me. Gay, straight, never crossed my mind. Only that unless he's better than me - I've still got a minimum 6 chances to make some moves.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:38 AM
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Not meaning this as a dig, but how old are you? Very, very different expectations in my mind for time spent with a girlfriend at 16 vs 26.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:36 AM
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He's going to. Look at his comment - he thinks condoms are a feminist construct - instead of one of the only ways men can protect themselves left these days.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:34 AM
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Don't thank me for you being a fucking retard. I get it. Fucking with a condom isn't as fun as raw-dogging it. But you know what sucks more than either? Hep C. Or a child support check for 18 years twice monthly. You don't want to wrap it up? Cool. But spare me your philosophy and half-assed justification as to why you won't use condoms. You must be in high school, seriously. That's the only explanation I could possibly have for such naive self-righteous horseshit.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:32 AM
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RP mods are tough as fuck because RP is not a democracy, as it's been said before - time and time again. There are way too many trolls and concern trolls out there trying to ruin things for us. I agree with you that there's more to RP than sexual strategy, but I accept the Mods determination not to let us dilute our original purpose. The second we start allowing people to truly say that TRP isn't sexual strategy is the second the slope starts getting slippery towards NAWALT, embracing feminist t…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:28 AM
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I'm out of town and only have mobile right now but I'll track them down tomorrow! That's the problem when it comes to psyc / emotional problems. There's so few solid concrete action plans that actually have any basis in fact.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:22 AM
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Cold sores are herpes bro, and if 2+2=4 there's a chance you legitimately have it. The important thing to remember is no matter if you test positive or negative, your life ain't over. Herpes is a skin condition that's communicable and sucks a few times a year, nothing more. One of my best boys has it, and was legitimately ready to kill himself over it before he came to me about it. EDIT: Whoa, hold on - just saw the last part. Not an advocate of condoms and like marking your territory? Dude, enj…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 12:26 AM
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Eh, validating the rage in any way only encourages more rage. They've done studies on this. 'Getting it out in a positive way' is pretty much horseshit when it comes to legitimate rage and not just anger - if you've truly felt rage you know the difference. The only solution to rage in my experience is learning meditation and mindfulness to prevent it in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 12:22 AM
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No. Asking for a number doesn't make you alpha. Even fucking her doesn't make you alpha, necessarily - especially if you puke your deepest feelings afterwards. You're giving way too much importance to a woman's phone number. Just because she gives you her number doesn't mean she thinks you're King Shit of Alpha Mountain. It just means she's open to communication again - but that could be for beta validation, sex, or trying to sell you Avon.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 12:19 AM
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Because BFF's - who don't know that they're BFF's and not a sexual option - always have their BFFL's number. Girls will give out their numbers to betas, of course they will. How else would they be able to get validation from their orbiters whenever they felt like it?
/r/askTRP06/09/15 12:07 AM
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Just my opinion - but monk modes usually only really work out if you're in the anger phase or depression phase, where women are low on your list of priorities. I thought about women all the time when I've spent months away from the dating scene and focusing on myself. Thinking about an HB9 was great motivation to crank out a few more sets when I didn't want to. I wouldn't actively force yourself to not think about women. What's the point? TRP is sexual strategy, period. Look at the sticky on the…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 12:05 AM
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The level of explosive anger you have precluding your intro to TRP is a big fucking issue. I'm not a doctor. I'm not a shrink - but if you have a history of violent outbursts and rage as severe as you've described - you should probably focus on dealing with that first before anything else. That shit will get you in permanent trouble if you don't handle it. I can help the guys who are angry with women when they realize how they've been played, but I'm way out of my depth here.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 11:54 PM
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So what are you asking here? If you should leave her to travel on your own? If you should not finance her travelling when you do go? Whether you should break up? If you genuinely don't want to wait for her to finish her contract, pay for her travelling, and go with her - by all means leave tonight. If going travelling with this woman makes you happy and is what you want to do, and you have enough disposable income that it's not a burden on you - then go for it. TRP and becoming alpha and doing w…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 11:48 PM
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Yup. Eventually, you'll realize that women are who they are by nature, and you can't fault them for nature. You can't be mad at a fish for swimming. Once you understand the rules of the game as they are in reality, as opposed to the bullshit we were fed our whole lives about it's supposed to work - it stops feeling like so much work. You'll understand that women have their limitations. You'll understand what makes them tick. You'll understand what behaviours will make them branch swing. If you k…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 11:41 PM
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I never thought of it in those terms, but you're 100% right.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 11:27 PM
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indian decent(I think this is important being around primarily Caucasians) You lost me already. You've got it internalized that race is some kind of detriment, which if you had been reading all the other Indian's posts on here would know isn't a factor. It's your victim complex hamstering up your lack of SMV. Besides that, game women the exact same way you would in any other setting. I'd like to get into their social circle and make some friends. Make friends with women? I don't want that. I can…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:51 PM
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Oh man, want to hear something real rich? I was previously a fairly natural RP, and I met a girl on Tinder who I ended up LTRing like an idiot. I went full, full on beta in this relationship - but I digress. I noticed two or three months into our relationship after we had mutually deleted Tinder and deleted the profiles themselves - meaning you have to put in some work to make a profile again. You can't just reactivate it on a whim - that she was getting a bunch of new male followers in Instagra…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:48 PM
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Then go on AbsoluteWrite and get some crit partners. I wouldn't bother with deliberately seeking out women for it. That's just looking for female validation. If you're still seeking female validation to feel good about anything you do, you haven't internalized your value yet.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:36 PM
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If he attacks you, you finish it. You've got the law on your side. If you put a finger on him first, you're turning into Bubba's shower sex toy in the county pen real quick.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:35 PM
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Not true. I've choked out probably a hundred guys in my bouncing years. They go out, then as soon as the blood returns to their brain they're right back fighting you, except they're pissed right the fuck off and confused because you just choked them out. Choking guys out works if you know what you're doing, but if you don't - you're risking crushing their larynx and killing them. Also, never from a headlock position unless you know how to guillotine. Rear-naked is the safest option, but the best…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:34 PM
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trying to amog you He can't AMOG you if you're not part of the group he's trying to AMOG. You remove yourself. If you're seriously looking for advice on how to scrap some guy making fun of you, you're in the wrong place. Look up a good lawyer and get the names of a few good surgeons - you're going to need both in your future before long if you choose to go down that path.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:32 PM
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for the sake of your credibility and manhood you need to pwn him fast You walk away, idiot. Fighting because you've been disrespected or need to maintain credibility and manhood is the dumbest shit I've ever heard. I have two black belts, was a pro MMA coach for a few years, and was a strip club bouncer for more years than I care to remember. What's the best outcome of a fight? You potentially kill or maim someone or get yourself killed or maimed, and potentially spend the rest of your life in j…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:30 PM
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Only woman there, so obviously lots of attention I was very formal, didn't mention her looks at all, didn't talk about anything but my haircut, acted uninterested. You have to show at least some interest if you're going to get a woman who is constantly surrounded by male attention. The difference is the way you show it, and generating a pull before pushing. A woman isn't going to chase someone who acts completely disinterested from square one unless he's literally Brad Pitt and rolled up in a Bu…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:26 PM
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Sure. Wealth has the potential to make you more attractive, but girls being aware of your wealth makes you far more likely to be targeted as a beta provider. It's Beta Bucks and not Beta A Few Dollars for a reason. Game, on the other hand, can't really be exploited by women to their advantage. Just my take on it, anyway.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:23 PM
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Girls don't keep in contact with ex's, especially in a shady manner, for no reason. He's a backup at best, or a potential affair partner at worst. She's shown to be capable of lying to you - which she just did to your face, and you apologized for it. I'm not telling you to pack your shit and head for the hills, but realize that this woman is far, far lower value than you have assigned to her. To consider furthering an LTR with a woman who doesn't respect you enough to even be honest with you whe…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:21 PM
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I'm a publishing novelist, mostly horror / post apoc / dystopian shit. I never lead with my books (I've got four out now, all traditionally published) but I'll bring it up somewhere in the middle of the date if I think it'll score me some intrigue. That being said, I only share my work because I feel confident in it. If you're going to hover over their shoulders as they read and constantly be apologizing and saying oh it's just a rough draft, don't judge it harshly it'll come off as super, super…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:14 PM
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wear a luchador mask in all my pictures. I am El Toro the Mysterious, come to reign down firey flying elbows of sweet Mexican justice off the top ropes on all the pussy of the world! But seriously, best bet - make a fuckton of money, get ripped as fuck, and get some serious game. Guys who don't luck out in the genetic lottery can still do pretty well for themselves - it just takes more work.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:04 PM
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Oh yeah, they certainly have some weird fucking looks in there, but the basics really can't be beat for the fit and the price. Even if you wear them out fairly quickly, who cares? A new wardrobe you can rotate can be had for literally $150, and nobody can tell it didn't cost you much.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:54 PM
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Absolutely. I rarely spend more than an hour in the gym at a time. I can bang out my workout in 45 minutes if I'm not dogfucking and actually get down to it.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:51 PM
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Tinder. I stay away from OKC. I've tried it a few times, but I find it to be too much work vs Tinder with far less girls my style on there.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:50 PM
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Yup, that's exactly where I lifted the concept from! Thanks for linking it. That dude explains it far, far better than I do.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:49 PM
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I'm not computer literate enough to host it, but I'll transcribe it for you: RedPillJax: You look like trouble. Gothy Broad: I am RPJ: I'm not sure I believe you. GB: Come find out out then RPJ: Don't start something you can't finish. GB: Aha, you dont know me sweetheart. I'll finish ya real quick (kissy face emoticon) RPJ: Doubtful. #? GB: gives number I text her: Show me what we're working with. GB: nudes Mind you, I've been working on my SMV a hell of a lot for a lot of years. You're not goin…
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:47 PM
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Absolutely. I write down things in my to-do list in my phone, and even if it's something I do every day - I still get satisfaction from checking it off when I complete it. Consistency is the only way to rewire years of bad programming.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:39 PM
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Perfect response. This is anti-slut defense. Sounds like you've got how to deal with it down pat. I would nix the winks though. I like to let my words do the talking rather than forcing a tone in there. She's smart, you're confident. She'll sort it out.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 09:00 PM
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Pretty much. I'm rusty on what years Rollo considers to be which stages in working through the SMP, though. I should pick it up again, it seems. It does cover all the things you outlined, though. Very good explanation of general TRP theories on how things work in the woman's world, and how you can protect yourself from them / exploit them as needed.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:53 PM
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Yup. My profile has 4 photos. The description is sinners are winners. 6'4, 235. Everything I need to get across, just like that.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:51 PM
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I always see it as absolutely not interested in hookups with normal guys. But oh yeah, another little tattooed broad. Life has been good lately. We'll see if she'll close, but it doesn't affect my weekend if she doesn't. HB8 plate tonight, wrenching on cars all Saturday with a few beers, heading out in the city Sunday night with my boys to raise some hell.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:50 PM
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SMV is determined by your confidence, your level of presentable physical fitness, success in life (provided you don't look like a beta provider) and general hygiene, style, and of course - game. Start lifting immediately. Get on Stronglifts 5x5 (google it) if you need a place to start. I've found lifting to be the source of much of my SMV increase. Besides that, read up on the sidebar and all the books - read them again, if you've already been through it. Come up with some small, actionable goal…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:46 PM
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Maybe - but a plate isn't spinning if she's just on the wire. I guess she's a plate, and my definition is for currently spinning plates. I have to defer to Dalrock on this for a formal explanation of the term, though. EDIT: Shit, I read your response wrong the first time. I agree with you.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:25 PM
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Dalrock is pretty much the fundamental authority on plate theory, so i tend to defer to him on such matters. No doubt. Not arguing it - I just don't personally consider prospects plates mentally, but in RP theory discussion I infer that they are.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:24 PM
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Just a picture of his wife? Man, that's just plain sad. I guarantee that he's doing it to try to appease her and show his affection - and while she may be outwardly acting like she likes it (or even think she likes it) but her vagina is drying up faster than a water droplet on a black car hood in the middle of a midwestern July.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:23 PM
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Spinning Plates doesn’t necessarily mean you’re fucking all of your plates Yes, but to me a plate isn't a plate until I've closed it, and usually twice to establish that it's not just a ONS. I don't fuck all my plates every week, but if I go a month without hooking up with them, I consider the plate broken in my mind. If she comes back, cool - but I wouldn't consider once a month a real plate. Also, if I can't with almost zero effort schedule a 'date' with her with clear intentions to bang, and …
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:14 PM
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Are you beating off? If I'm getting laid, I don't beat off more than once a week, and only then to keep my standards from slipping too low on me. Otherwise, I get ED no matter how turned on I am, I've found - among other problems (lack of drive, no motivation to game, lack of 'killer instinct'). Could be that you're just not as turned on by this broad now that the novelty has worn off. It's definitely happened to me. Once the thrill of the chase is gone and I've closed it a few times, I'll often…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:10 PM
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So pick another movie, if you must. Also, how are you going to escalate into anything real in a movie, and keep it going for the 2+ hours necessary to then get her out of there, back to your place, and doing what you want to do? I'm not a teenager, I don't want to make out forever. I went and saw a movie with a plate earlier this week, but she gave me head in the back row of this literally empty theatre while I watched American Ultra (awful flick, by the way. I was very glad for the added stimul…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:06 PM
1

100%. Completely non-committal in every sense. K is also one of my favourites in response to a long-winded answer. Makes them want to qualify themselves to you further because you're not responding with anything that gives them the emotion they want. Worst thing I used to do was get excited and comment / compliment on nudes when girls would send them to me. Now I usually make some kind of comment like I guess that works or Mediocre if I comment on it directly at all, which I typically don't. Dri…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:58 PM
3

H&M does it all for me, especially the Everyday Staples section. I wear black / grey / white fitted tees (vnecks, crewnecks, or beaters which are all $7.95 each, all the time), H&M jeans ($35 ea), a brown leather belt ($20), and brown cowboy boots ($250 - $300 - but last for fucking years) with a gold watch ($150, Nixon) 99% of the time. Besides that, I wear shirts from various motorcycle and tattoo shops, and dress it up with a plaid button up (H&M, $20) with the sleeves pushed up if really nec…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:52 PM
2

it's like a movie Or at least a script. It gets to the point that you can almost predict what they're going to say at which juncture, just like it's written in their brains in code. RUN PROGRAM: Last Minute Resistance GOTO: Arousal Line 2 I don't usually do this. Neither do I. I'm usually done and halfway home by now. ERROR: SYNTAX. GOTO: Reproduction Pgrm #4: Doggy
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:48 PM
1

Now you would take down the picture of your '67 Corvette, take down the picture of your shirtless flat-brim sideways hat self, I'd argue this is pointless. You can't change to appease what a woman wants, because not only do they not know themselves - it's constantly in flux and what she wants right this second may change five minutes from now. Also, few girls are so hot that I'd bother altering anything on my end just for a shot at a few messages. There are 100 other girls within 300 swipes that…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:46 PM
3

Exactly right. Just today I matched with a hot little 19 year old gothy / alt broad (just my type) who had absolutely not interested in hookups on her profile. Within 3 messages from me on Tinder and no more than 5 over text, I now have pics of all her good bits on my phone, and she wants to ride me until I literally die this weekend. Usually I'd push for immediately, but I already have plans with a plate tonight. High SMV will conquer all. Do not listen to what they say. They have no idea what …
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:43 PM
3

Nope. Accepting a good course of action isn't losing frame. If someone wants to go see a movie and you're dying to see that movie, then you're not entering their frame by agreeing. A lot of guys, if it's a woman in this example, will agree to the movie, but then change a detail to make sure things are staying in his frame and he at least maintains the illusion of leadership in this case. For instance, she offers to go see the 7:15 showing, they'll change it to 8:00 and tell her they're going for…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:40 PM
2

You probably have a hell of a lot going on in your life if you're the King of Red Alphas as your username says, so focus on what's going right rather than going wrong. We at TRP accept that everything we do and that happens to us - aside from a truly random bad event - is solely our fault and responsibility. That means that anything negative in our lives we have the power to fix, because if we created it - we can uncreate, and vice versa. That being said, just because something is solely your re…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:37 PM
1

My split is far from perfect, but it works for me. A lot of guys will tell you I'm doing it wrong, and I probably am - but the results I'm getting work for me. I do things in order listed. Day 1: Bench press, hammer curls, twist curls, shoulder flies, rotator cuff inside to out, tricep extension with ez curl bar on a bench, Cable flies low to high, pec dec. Day 2: Squats, deadlifts, hack squats, back extension, calf raises, ab roller, roman chair. This can take twice as long as Day 1, especially…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:30 PM
1

No. Go and keep fucking up. There are enough women out there that you could fuck up with a thousand in the next week, and it wouldn't even scratch the surface of the dating pool. Focus on hitting your fitness goals, though. That's where the most work is to be done, and where the most value is gained.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:18 PM
2

Do not get an extender. Those things if used improperly - and even properly in most cases - can cause some serious, permanent damage. You end up stretching out the blood columns that fill up to give you a hard on. You may have a longer flaccid cock, but you're never going to get more than a half-hearted semi for as long as you live. Just wanted to make sure OP doesn't go out and buy some dick weights. That shit is terrifying.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:13 PM
1

Exactly. They're not tits you can toss some water balloons inside to get some more confidence. You need to become at peace with your dick, because you're stuck with it for life. Hell, I derive some of my life's greatest pleasures through the little guy - why should I resent him just because he's not 12" long?
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:12 PM
4

I'm 6'4 235, and I'm not packing a comically large salami. I have broads tell me all the time that my cock is 'perfect,' 'huge,' and 'massive.' It is none of those things. I'm not kidding you. It's average at best. In fact, growing up I thought I was tiny because of all the porn I was exposed to. I had some insecurity about it, though I never let it show more than I had to. Women will think your dick is the best thing in the world if it's attached to man who gives them insane levels of tingles. …
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:10 PM
1

Prepare your best IDGAF attitude and enjoy yourself. You're not put on this planet for anybody's entertainment but your own. You are not a clown. You are not a paid entertainer. Refuse to force yourself to carry conversations with people who aren't trying to keep it going themselves. Have a few drinks, don't get shitfaced, and talk to every girl at the party at least once. If you like a girl, isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:05 PM
1

I've never been into cold approach, or PUA at all. I've always found that if you are putting the work into raising your SMV, you don't need to use corny lines. Your body does the speaking for you. From there, all you need to do is walk up, say Hi, and not be an autist - and ask for her number. Keep working on yourself. The rest comes more easily when you have something women want, rather than trying to sell them what you've got.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:03 PM
2

How's your SMV? Are you lifting? If you don't believe you're the prize, why should anyone else give a fuck about chasing you? Approaching works if you're attractive, period. How you convey that attractiveness is up to you, but looking big, masculine, and sure of yourself is the most common, easy, and effective way to instantly generate interest. It's good you're approaching, and it's good you're failing. You have to fail at something dozens, hundreds, or thousands of times before you have enough…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:01 PM
5

This.. this probably wasn't anything than more than a broad trying to hit her quota. Text her and ask her out for a drink on X day at X place at X time, and if she says no - immediately next. Also, game more women so dealing with one number close doesn't give you this much anxiety.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:57 PM
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The benefit of finding rock bottom is that there's nowhere to go but up. If 100% of the things in your life are going shitty, it's very easy to make some very small changes to start that will instantly make things better. Set some small goals for yourself and hit them. Shit like Today I will get up, shave, shower, get dressed and go hand out 5 resumes, or Today I will go to the gym for at least 1 hour. If I still hate it and feel like shit, I can go home after. But I have to go for an hour. Turn…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:56 PM
4

How are your sodium levels? I get really bad lower-body / calf / ankle cramps like that when my salt intake is low. One of the only times I'll actually drink a Gatorade.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:43 PM
3

You've posted about this broad six times with the same result. When are you going to listen to one fucking piece of advice we offer?
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:42 PM
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I like going to hers sometimes, and back to mine others. If she seems at all unbalanced (great fucks, horrible mornings-after) I'll go to hers, hotel, or behind a fucking dumpster before I'll let her into mine. If she's cool and I don't mind going a few rounds with her, I'll bring her to my domain. If she may be a single-shot hit and quit, I want somewhere where I can leave easily rather than trying to convince her to get out. Call me a softie, but I'd much rather get my shoes and bail than tell…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:41 PM
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For the most part. If a girl is even relatively attractive, all she has to do is post a half-assed selfie and she'll get 500 OMG WHY ARE YOU SO PRETTY's on it. Why would she ever want to switch off this never-ending faucet of validation and actually use the time spent posting on Facebook to chase a real goal worth celebrating?
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:38 PM
3

Conceal? I don't. Betas conceal their intentions and end up orbiting girls for years, waiting for them to 'realize' what a good guy the orbiter is and fuck them as a reward for it. Does it ever happen? Well, let's just say RP is here for a very good reason.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:36 PM
1

Depends how bad you want it, and how hard you're working out when you work out. I was hitting every muscle group twice a week, with a 5th day mixed in just for vanity shit because I wanted something to be vain about. You'll see results directly related to the amount of work you put in.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:35 PM
1

Ones with bigger cocks than yours. Seriously. Game everything. Just because you game it doesn't mean you have to close everything.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:49 PM
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Oh yeah. If I LTR I'll do it with a good girl, but for plates I enjoy broads that keep me feeling like if I misstep they'll slit my throat. Keeps things interesting, at least.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 11:04 AM
1

I'm massively oversimplifying - but always go into as if it's yours to lose. It keeps your headspace and sense of abundance where it needs to be.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:58 AM
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Eat everything in fucking sight, all the time. Lift heavy compound exercises 5 times a week minimum. Supplement with creatine, BCAA's, protein, and enough prework to give a small African nation jitters. Besides that, work out every day you're supposed to, especially if you don't want to. It's discipline - it's going to suck a lot of the time, but that's the way it goes. Putting on that weight has been 4 years in the making, but I went from 165 to 195 very, very quickly.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:54 AM
1

Honestly, in a workplace like that, I'd treat him virtually the same as the women. If he's that much of a beta, he'll be gossiping right along with the women trying to score points. If anything, watch him as a perfect example of what can happen if you're not RP aware. Plus, it'll probably be hilarious watching him dig his own grave trying to appease those women.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:52 AM
2

Obviously the high partner count women are the worst. Bad, but at least they know how to fuck. . But the previously ugly ducklings, the women who market themselves based on 'innocence' trying to snag a high pay man and the 'deeply committed relationship women' all have their own pitfalls. Literally will gut you alive. I'll take the former over the latter, if I had to choose - but both options sound awful.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:31 AM
3

Sure they are. I said pleasant to be around. Not best to LTR.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:18 AM
2

Not with that attitude.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:16 AM
1

To mirror /u/JeffsRP 's style: Biggest contribution: Lifting hard. At 6'4, going from 165 to 235 natty was a lot of fucking work. Fastest/Easiest Contribution: If we're talking hours, tattooing my sleeves. About 40 hours worth of work, and the alt girls I love, love me back.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:16 AM
1

Yup /u/throwawaycomedian95 - exactly the same way, except you've already got the only IOI that matters. On Tinder, it's 100% yours to lose.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:14 AM
1

That's exactly what I mean. One of my plates is a former Texas stripper back in Canada, the other one is a tattoo model with fake tits. Good, good stuff.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 03:12 AM
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98.5% of men (roughly, anyways) do not have the kind of writing ability for text game. That's why way say keep texts for logistics. If you're only telling a girl where to be, when to be there, and how to dress (as /u/abdada has beat me to the punch again) you leave zero room to fuck up. If she wants to put up a fuss from there, next. If you have a high SMV (as you should) and an abundance mentality, you should have no problem working on another woman. (/u/abdada - I'm starting to feel like your …
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:50 AM
2

Divorced? No no, long term live-in LTR, lots of shared assets. I'm 27 this year. Got the dot, now you just need to get the feather.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:30 AM
2

I wish. I would dive the wreck. Her part of the cash from it in the split is probably going straight up her nose at the moment. Thank god I have a plate coming over to do things that are illegal in some states later tonight to help me not think about that one. Boo hoo.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 01:00 AM
1

Yup. I'm an '88. The closest things I have to brothers are my cousins born in '77. The difference between the women I watched them date growing up vs the kind of experiences I've had are literally night and day. And the moral of this story is there are no more good women left to marry. Though I'm well past the anger phase, this thought still crosses my mind extremely frequently.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:51 AM
2

With this reasoning, you're not wrong at all. I've encountered and ONS'ed quite a few of 1, and the times I've had 2 it's been a serious bout of oneitis afterwards, in my pre-RP days. I'm glad you agree with me that HB9 is pretty much cream of the crop. I've never seen a 10 in real life yet.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:43 AM
2

Nah man. /u/cheeky_throwaway101 just got out of a real shit relationship. He's not looking for a new LTR from what I can tell, he just wants to move on with his life and do him. He's working through the anger phase in his own way the same way we all do.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:40 AM
4

Sunk cost fallacy, brother. Better she removed herself now rather than turn 10 years into 18 years. Look at all the time you have now for the good shit in life!
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:38 AM
2

Hey man, I'm glad to hear it. You're literally the first story of your kind I've heard, and I'll gladly accept I was wrong. You're an asset to MRP, and I hope you stay active for everyone else's sake there - it's rare to find a guy who has consciously been RP since before tying the knot, so that's a real important resource to have.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:36 AM
4

Is it simply a matter that she wasn't getting enough financial security from you? No. Women married to rich men fucking the hot pool boy is a trope for a reason. I mean people are saying you need to be more fun, you need to be more mysterious, you need to be more adventurous/funny/charming/aloof to keep your girl. Fun? I'm not a clown. She wants 'fun' all the time I'll hire her a comedian to follow her around. Mysterious? Nah. I'm a simple man who likes fast bikes and loose women. Adventurous / …
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:31 AM
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Man, I have two full sleeves with a bunch of other stuff - and I've never had a girl disqualify me for it that I can tell. Mind you, my type is more biker slut from hell than Barbie and her pink Cadillac, so that might be telling.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:26 AM
2

I'd say loyalty is a term never to be used with women as a species, but he's got a bit of a point - a 6 will be approached by every swinging dick walking down the street, because she's not intimidating. A lot of guys will be too intimidated by a Hard HB9 (HB10's don't exist in reality in my opinion outside of photoshop and fantasy) to approach. She already has enough guys fawning all over her, I wouldn't want to bug her. I wouldn't say for a second this means anything towards her loyalty, though…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:25 AM
3

I do carry myself like a child always joking around and not being afraid to make a fool of myself. I've said it before, I'll say it again. Are you a clown? Are you a dancing monkey there for her entertainment? People will take you seriously when you take yourself seriously. People will treat you with respect when you command respect with your presence alone. The only solution I've thought of this is to put up a "front" to others. Commonly refered to as faking it until you make it. You have a fee…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:20 AM
2

Yup. Internalize that you are the prize, OP. Let her chase.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:16 AM
1

Be friendly, but really, really stick to the 2/3 rule. Only give her 2/3 of the responses, at 2/3 the length. Don't initiate really, ever. You're a busy man with broads on the go - this is a perfect dread situation to have her sopping wet when she steps off the plane back home. As /u/cheeky_throwaway101 said, use this time to game other women and develop an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:15 AM
1

Fuckin' IRT's. I was really enjoying the lull there for a couple of days.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:13 AM
1

IRT detected.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:13 AM
2

Full caveman, bro. If she's over and letting you touch her fun bits, it's on. Don't overthink it. She'll stop you with a hard no if she feels uncomfortable. Until then, escalate.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:13 AM
2

See, I get this - but I have never put a girls hand on my cock, ever. And I've had a lot (100+ kill count) of partners. I get what it does, and I get while it's there, but I've never done that. I don't know why - maybe it would've escalated a few LMR's I bailed on over the years into fun territory. Thanks for sharing that - interesting how there's always more to consider.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:12 AM
1

Exactly. There are key points which if you hit on in an experience will make leading to sex easier, but if you're too busy trying to tick boxes on your mental checklist - you're never going to feel comfortable or be happy about it. When you get a little more experienced and relaxed about it, trust me OP - that's when it becomes really fun. There's nothing better than just innately knowing what to do next, and watching women respond. While women shouldn't be your only validation, it truly is an i…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:10 AM
1

Maybe he can borrow a tampon from her purse, too.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:08 AM
1

Yup. If you have to ask anyone about anything, ask your bros. They'll tell it to you straight. I've found even being the one to point out my improvement or gainz to a woman I'm dealing with comes off as try-hard and fishing for compliments, or at the worst insecurity. If I ask my bro at the gym if I'm looking broad, he may call me a fag but at least he'll tell me my lats are looking tiny so hit those, or whatever.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:53 PM
2

My 30 foot'er with twin 454 Mercs became a casualty of my last relationship. I will gladly sail the ocean of emotion with you, brother.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:52 PM
1

Absolutely. I don't recommend for a second everyone who is married run immediately to a lawyer and get that shit handled - for sure. Some relationships are worth saving. Sometimes getting out is too hard financially at the moment. MRP does good stuff. I browsed it a lot when I was in an LTR, and it helped significantly - even though the relationship's time had come. We don't recommend getting re-married under any circumstance. Now that we're definitely on the same page about.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:49 PM
1

If I remember correctly, women in that study even became unconsciously aroused watching Bonobo monkeys fuck. Don't trust what women say, period.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:44 PM
1

I'd rather fuck up and have her tell me than have a serious discussion about the shortcomings I might have. It just reeks of insecurity. I know things seem great, but are you sure there's nothing I need to work on? Just go with what you're doing and be confident. There's no reason to start stirring up problems where there aren't any. What if you ask her and she says some seriously hurtful shit? Congrats, you just bought yourself a ticket to butthurt city, and no broad wants to fuck that.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:43 PM
2

Yup. She wants the validation without actually having to do anything to deserve it. Orbiters give this to her gratis. Don't be one of them.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:40 PM
2

Girls have different things that turn them on, aside from the usual SMV indicators. Maybe you project confidence really, really well. Maybe you're more naturally attractive than you give yourself credit. Hard to say without seeing you in action. If you get the confidence to start approaching, you'll clean up - provided that you're not delusional and seeing IOI's where there aren't any. In any case, it's a good situation to find yourself in if it's the real deal. Approach. Fuck up. Fail. Who care…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:38 PM
3

No contact. No contact. No contact. Contact just throws fuel on the fire of oneitis, no matter how old - in my experience anyway. I haven't responded to a single text or call my ex has sent my way in the last month. Every time I did previously, I would wind up right back where I started. No contact. Say it to yourself until you get it through your head that she's dead to you now.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:36 PM
5

Nope. "I don't want you to think I want anything more at any point in time." This is about as "I'm not interested" as you can get while still trying to be friends. You're not AF. You're not even a true backup. You're going to be a good lil' orbiter though. I wouldn't recommend female friends, especially those with boyfriends. Too much drama comes along with it. Do what you will, though.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:32 PM
1

But she's not being good to you. She lives far away, and you're orbiting. You're giving her validation without her having to fuck you - why would she give you sex when she's getting what she wants out of it for free?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:05 PM
2

There you go. Work with that. Set yourself some small goals and start hitting them. You'll get addicted to succeeding and make it a habit.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:03 PM
1

Plane flight? Dude, you have no abundance. If your SMV is where it should be, you should realize you have 1000 girls hotter than she is in a 30 km radius (unless you literally live in Fuckton, Iowa) that you could close far, far easier than this girl. If you don't believe that above statement, you need to work on raising your SMV. Take care of yourself better, keep lifting, dress well, tighten up your game. No pussy is worth a plane ticket. Stop orbiting this girl. Don't contact her again unless…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:00 PM
1

So how often have you approached girls HB6+? You're a man. Men lead. Guys who bag 8's and 9's 90% of the time have to approach them in order to get anywhere. Barbie Bigtits, unless the guy's SMV is through the roof, isn't going to take time out of her day filled with guys giving her attention to go give some guy attention. Read the whole sidebar. Lift longer. Lift more. Throw out your old clothes, buy some basics. Get out there and fail until you fail a little less, and continue that until you s…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:56 PM
1

I didn't have much of an anger phase either. I kind of shrugged my shoulders, thought makes sense and continued along with learning.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:53 PM
1

Yeah, no. You're a validation source for her. If she hasn't hooked up with you, it's game over. Have you tried escalating in the past with her in person?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:52 PM
1

Are you currently fucking her? Or you just want to? If you are, sure. Encourage good behaviour with attention, punish it by withdrawing it. If you're not fucking her, this is super orbiter BB territory. But currency? I wouldn't overthink it that far. EDIT: Also, this has to be an unsaid thing. You can't openly use this to leverage her. I don't think you would, but if that was part of the plan - do not do it. It sounds stupid I have to say this, but I've learned I need to be very, very clear on t…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:48 PM
2

No, you can't use it as currency. You're orbiting. What do you think she's going to do, suck your dick for 5 Instagram comments?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:39 PM
2

Have you read the sidebar? Are you lifting? Because you should probably do both of those before you ask a question about a subject you haven't even tried to understand on your own first. We're here for clarification and discussion, not hand-holding and coddling you through it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:37 PM
3

I don't buy the personality bullshit, girls are shallow and if they aren't sexually attracted to me, it's a no I didn't say a word about your personality. It sucks because of your defeatist attitude anyway. Do you want me to pat you on the head and tell you someday if you hope hard enough you'll fuck all the 10/10's out there? Or do you want to re-read my advice and take it to heart, rather than give me another excuse as to why it won't work? Not 'good looking?' How? Do you take care of yourself…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:31 PM
2

Is she talking about the sex they had? Or Oh I love Fiji, Brett took me there two years ago? Big difference. If she's bringing up past sexual partners, to me it's disrespecting you and trying to make you feel insecure / jealous. Big time shit test. If she's bringing up grand prior gestures past partners did, she's trying to manipulate you to do the same in some form of one-uppance. If she just says a comment in passing about a past partner, you're overthinking it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:27 PM
6

If you have an ultra-high SMV and could literally whip out your footlong monster dong and have girls fawn over it, I suppose it would attract more girls. I know guys who from the locker room have tiny peckers, and they have 8's and 9's falling all over themselves to fuck them. Having a big dick is cool if you know how to use it. Having an average dick is cool if you know how to use it. Really, unless you have a micropenis, it's really a non-issue. Girls will like your dick size if it's attached …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:25 PM
1

i'm annoyed to find this late into my teens/early 20s. Some guys don't find it until they've been married for 20 years. I didn't find it until I was 26. Be glad you found it as early as you did. i blame my race So do lots of guys here who don't want to put in the hard work. Also, i really like white and asian girls but they generally don't like black guys much. 100% untrue. There are literally subsets of both that only fuck black guys, let alone the amount that would be open to it. I really want…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:22 PM
1

Hey man, my future-telling abilities are about on par with my understanding of quantum physics. I don't know your brother. I don't know her. Sure, they could grow old together, have 5000 kids, and have sex twice a day on the roof. There are marriages that work fantastically without TRP out there. But if you're asking this question, and given the information that you've given me - what do you think? Smoking weed all day and watching Netflix, she bounces from guy to guy since her bad relationship …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:12 PM
3

Exactly. You're going to have a much harder time convincing a judge your wife is abusive, cruel, and diddles kids than vice versa. And yes, women use these tactics frequently if they get their blood up enough.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:05 PM
1

Your brother will either find out for himself that this woman is using him as an emotional tampon, with the goal of turning him into a beta provider as he's clearly telegraphing that he feels like he's somehow 'lucked out' with her. She knows he's not going to go anywhere. Or, he'll see it for what it is, hopefully before marriage and kids come along, and discover a more RP lifestyle for himself. Either way, you can't really help him. BB's are like addicts - they can only truly be helped if they…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 07:58 PM
1

Not if you'd prefer to be a beta provider like most guys out there, and enjoy getting divorced for Chad Thundercock at 35.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 07:54 PM
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/u/singlemomma1987 is an account with 4 posts, all in this thread. I'd say it's a troll account. The advice they're giving is BP to the fucking core.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 07:54 PM
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Do something you love is as much a part of fantasy as a Disney marriage. Do some people get them? Sure, but they rarely know how or why they ended up where they did. The way it typically works is you can either work at doing what you love, or you can work to finance doing the things you love - and try to make a go at it there. Do I love my business? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It's hard fucking work, but the dividends I get from it pay off in spades. I can take days off here and there. I can wo…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 07:39 PM
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Don't listen. This is a troll account speaking to you. Look at the username.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 07:33 PM
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Kids are going to be a risk no matter what you do. Divorce can have clauses in it regarding the children, and your soon-to-be-ex wife will use them as leverage to get what she wants out of the divorce. While you still have to figure out a custody agreement, at least you won't have your ex using your loving children as a weapon against you to squeeze you for a few bucks - in legal proceedings, anyway.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:40 PM
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Sure, I'm not saying marriage is the enemy. What I am saying is that you can do absolutely everything you can do in a marriage in an LTR - but you won't get the government as involved if the LTR disintegrates. As a man, as I'm sure you know (I see you a lot on MRP) the costs for a marriage failing are far worse for us than the females involved. And you're right - cohabitation can constitute common-law marriage in some places - but as a rule, I think you'll agree that marriage in today's climate …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:38 PM
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In the “wild”, when a women gets pregnant she is basically dead fucking meat unless she has a man to do stuff for her. Yup. But if you're talking about primitive humans in the wild, that preggo cow was only one of that Alpha Male's mating partners, and he doesn't protect her out of 'love,' he protects her to protect his developing offspring to continue his genetic line. I think it is important to know that men have been just as responsible as women for creating our enslavement And if you're sayi…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:34 PM
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Exactly. If they push me as to why I can't commit, I usually tell them that it takes a long time for me to feel comfortable, and that I'd always rather under-promise and over-deliver rather than the opposite. This usually replates them without any worry, and without any timeline. They know that they can walk if they want, but if it's a good thing for them and they stick around there could be a chance at something real eventually - which, if I'm plating them, does possibly have a chance sometime …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:22 PM
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I'm not a fan of intentionally misleading any of my plates. I won't give any impression of exclusivity prior to 'the talk' about it. When it comes up (which it will) it usually goes something like this: Her: Are you seeing other people? Me: Of course, aren't you? or Her: I just want to know if you plan on fucking anyone else? Me: I take commitment very seriously, and it takes me months to feel comfortable and trust enough in a person to get into something serious. I lifted that second response s…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:21 PM
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Took the words out of my mouth. Finances are a pittance compared to family courts siding with your ex and stripping you of all rights to even see your kids, let alone be involved in their lives.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:07 PM
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So RP that you created an account just to troll Arch. Validating yourself by putting someone else down because of your insecurity is the most BP thing there is. Anyways, I'm done feeding the trolls.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:55 PM
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Holy fuck, the BP trolls are out today.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:45 PM
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If you think I'm going to say any more than I already have to someone who regularly posts to TheBluePill, you're dead wrong.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:37 PM
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Is it essential to bring up the divorce on the first date? I know you're trying to be honest, but I think you're showing your hand far too early on. The face that you're a divorcee is a very personal thing. If you're not planning to LTR any of these girls, do they deserve to know that detail about you? Divorce isn't an STD they're going to catch through your dick, after all. It's always something if you're really feeling them for more than just a plate that you can bring up on a third date (or w…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:30 PM
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Ever wonder why it's only the hb10 that are like talking to a brick? Because they dont' have to. They get 0 feedback to fine tune social adept abilities. Yup. If you want a good conversationalist who's also hot, I've found girls who were late bloomers to be the best. Ugly ducklings who had to develop a personality and sense of humor before coming out as a swan.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 05:23 PM
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I'm a publishing novelist - it's helped me in a lot of ways. Financially it's been a bit of a bonus - but it's still just a hobby. Definitely has raised by SMV with women when they find out, but I'm more of a Hank Moody than an Oscar Wilde. Metalworking - I can make literally anything out of metal I need, and for others. Incredible feeling to be able to fabricate / machine / whatever parts that should cost thousands of dollars (if not priceless, if custom) with your brain and two hands. Also tie…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:16 PM
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sleeping with 4 different girls last week I think you should be the one offering some guidance, because you're clearly doing something right. My default has been that whenever one girl asks what I am doing on a night I have another date, I tell her "drinks with a friend" Yup, or I just say 'taking care of some things.' Those things could be a pair of HB8 tits, wrenching on my project car, or a whole lot of fuck all depending on the night. I'm going to let her hamster do the work for me, regardle…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 05:08 PM
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What's next? Real Pigs Have Curves 2016? Sounds exactly the same as what feminists are saying anyway. Barnyard animals have to stick together.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:58 PM
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Same man. By about 8-10 months, I'm the one doing the duty fucking in the relationship most of the time. Since discovering TRP, I can't imagine doing anything but spinning plates for a few years.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:50 PM
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I stopped counting when I hit 100 kills some time around 22, but that doesn't mean it hasn't happened to me since, and won't continue to happen if I don't keep very aware of it developing. Infatuation is a hell of a thing.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:32 PM
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You're doing all these great things for yourself. Focus on that. Have you been with any girls since her? The last thing you want to do is develop oneitis for another girl, but you don't have an abundance mentality yet. It should be easy to cultivate in your situation - just meet more women, escalate, and focus on closing. If you realize that you could replace that broad with another woman in a heartbeat if you gave it two ounces of effort - suddenly, she won't seem so special anymore.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:12 PM
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Dogma is a principle or set of principles laid down by an authority as incontrovertibly true. It serves as part of the primary basis of an ideology or belief system, and it cannot be changed or discarded without affecting the very system's paradigm, or the ideology itself.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:53 PM
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No. I noticed this guy was posting a ton without seeming to listen to anything, so I checked his post history the other day. I don't really buy into pickup, to be honest. Approaching people is good, the whole formulatic approach is too rigid for me, personally.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:39 PM
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RP dogma pretty explicitly states do not get married. There's literally nothing you can get out of marriage you can't get out of a serious LTR, and the costs of the LTR failing are far lower than a divorce rape. I think MRP isn't linked because although the guys who are married are trying to implement TRP into their marriages, I haven't seen a single guy over there who was formally RP before was married - and I think that's saying something. Sure, some naturally RP guys found MRP after they were…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:31 PM
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Dude, you've been submitting 3 questions a day minimum for a week. Have you read the sidebar at all? You're asking questions about small details, when I think you really need to handle getting the basics down pat first.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:24 PM
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If he does, then it's just a shitty comment that doesn't help anyone. I try not to assume the worst from the get-go in a forum dedicated to answering rookie questions, but maybe I should start.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:21 PM
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What if op believe this girl is the one for him based off of his past? Then he has oneitis, and needs to beat it. There's no such thing as 'the one.' Raising his SMV and developing an abundance mentality will show him this. that he is satisfying most of his life's SMV SMV - Sexual Market Value. I'm of the opinion that this can always be raised. He feels as though he has a good path in life (becoming a doctor) and that he is satisfying most of his life's SMV, what more does he need? Nothing, espe…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:58 PM
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Abundance mentality is cultivated by having a high SMV, in most cases. In referring to women, it's internalizing the mindset that no matter how hot or good to be around a woman is, you realize that there are 1000 other women that could fit that role or better in a 100km radius, and you could get any single one of them. The reason this is a SMV issue is that if you have a low SMV, you're not going to have those options. If you put in the work, you'll have more options, and therefore put less emph…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:48 PM
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You spent virtually an entire week with her. In my experience, this is just way too much, way too fast. She could be BPD, she could just be human. Women crave a relationship, but by being so available - despite all the sport-fuckin' and (hopefully) RP frame, you showed her via your actions that she can come and go as she pleases. What's her motivation to chase you? What's her motivation to work for it if clearly you don't have enough going on to even have a night away from her in a week? You've …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:37 PM
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would say I seek validation from her since Im afraid she will leave me So you have no abundance mentality or outcome independence. You will learn about these in the sidebar. I red every linked article on the sidebar on the main sub, did I miss any "how to guide"? Yeah, there are books you have to read, also listed there. No More Mr Nice Guy, 48 Laws of Power, etc. It's all there. It is not pushing her away at the moment She has 'less time for you,' so I would argue this to be false. RP is someth…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:24 PM
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Relationships are push/pull. If you all you do is push-push-push, the girl will have no reason to be with you, even if your SMV is through the roof. Girls like cocky, arrogant assholes who still show some interest, even if it's non-verbal. You need a push-push-pull dynamic. Reward her good behaviour with affection and attention, punish bad behaviour with removal of the same. RP in relationships isn't about having zero care for your LTR, that's just sociopathy - they should be a plate in that cas…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:18 PM
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Money you take to the casino should be considered the price you're paying to have a good time. You will not win, or at least this should be your mentality. If you lose, you do not put down more money to win it back. Casino's aren't in the business of losing money, keep that in mind. Girls? Game, have a high SMV, and approach a lot. No sense in over-complicating things just because of the venue.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:14 PM
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How do I deal with shy girls, who often like you, show interest but are too shy to even kiss on a first day date? Raise your SMV. Waiting is for men who don't give women tingles. If your SMV is high enough, even a church-going librarian will be dying to jump you in public. Most of the tips and reading material around here regard game having in mind you're dealing with open and extroverted girls (which often are good plate material). AWALT, in this case as well. What works on one works across the…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:12 PM
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OP is a dude, dude.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:09 PM
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AskTRP answers a lot of things, but I don't really think there's a RP answer for this besides what /u/abdada said. my uncomfortability with the feeling of living and having people (mainly bitches) over I've fucked girls behind dumpsters before. If I can do that, you don't need to worry about this. It's not your mom's basement, at least. Make it your own, own it, and do the best with what you have. Girls will cross mountains to fuck you in a Wendy's bathroom if your SMV is high enough. Work on ra…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:06 PM
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I struggled with trying to find a true vision and focus for a long time. Now that I've gotten a little older, my vision and mission has simplified. I want to be happy and content more often than I'm not. I want to have the means to make that happen. I want to continue to create my body of work, so that even after I'm dead - I left a mark on the world no matter how small. Besides that - money, bitches, and motorcycles, man. Money, bitches, and motorcycles.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:55 PM
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Fight Club is an interesting case study, but a lot of it is delusional ranting from a schizophrenic - remember that. Also, the person saying this has chisled abs, 8% bodyfat, and incredibly tight frame and game. It's a do as I do, not as I say situation.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:49 PM
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You're lifting, you're approaching, and you're learning. Most of TRP improvement isn't some kind of sprint - it's a hard, long grind. You've started young, which is amazing - good job on that. That being said, sometimes you need to accept the fact that progress can only happen so fast. Your muscles aren't going to triple in size in a year, and your game isn't going to tighten up in a week. Keep doing what you're doing, and do it every day - especially when you don't want to.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:47 PM
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Her: What are u guys doin now Me: Im just doin me atm, nobodys here Her: Ohh gotcha She was asking to come over to watch that movie you invited her to two hours ago. You should've immediately told her to come over. You're expecting her to pursue - aka lead. Men lead, women follow. If you want things to happen you have to lead. Shes super shy. Kind of felt she would pursue after my last message See the problem here?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:44 PM
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Read the sidebar, start lifting. Men are not emotionally needy. You are seeking validation from her because you have a low sense of self-worth. Work on yourself and raising your SMV to the point that you no longer require a pat on the head from her to feel good about yourself. If you are emotionally needy, then you are still firmly Blue Pill. Swallowing the Red Pill means that you are taking sole responsibility for your own happiness, and not depending on the woman in your life to provide a sens…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:37 PM
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You posted this same thing to Seddit, and the reactions were about the same you'll get here. She's an attention whore. She sees you leaving her orbit, and wants to pull you back in. Ignore her unless you want to be her beta orbiter, which you don't.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:35 PM
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Why do you care what women think? I'd be stoked about getting into law school. Girls will try to lock you down as a beta whether you're a top CEO or a high school janitor - it's just the calibre of girl that changes. Don't overthink it. Keep raising your SMV, don't allow yourself to commit to anything if you just want to spin plates, and work on developing a strong frame.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:30 PM
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Ah. Now I hear you. Depression phase. Here, I finally found the thread from the main sub I was looking for: Denial: "Women aren't like that! They're people just like everyone else! Treat them all as individuals, and you're sure to find the right one!" Anger: "WTF! Bitches are all like this! They have no honour, no loyalty, and they don't really love anyone but themselves! Fucking cunts!" Bargaining: "If I work real hard and learn all the pickup moves, then at least I'll get laid." Depression: "G…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:28 PM
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I think the reason a lot of guys dispute that it doesn't really exist is because if it were a known and advertised thing, every new guy with shitty social skills who finds TRP would instantly try to be Black Wolf the Mysterious Sigma, and be just as cringeworthy as the weeaboo Omega they started from.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:20 PM
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Also, remember that if you escalate things physically, there's no saying that guy won't pull out a knife and put it straight between your ribs. In my bouncing days in Niagara Falls, I saw people stabbed with broken beer bottles, screwdrivers (seriously), and of course knives. This is after we frisked everyone at the door. You can never, ever know what someone has on them, or how far they're willing to take it - especially if you're the one who escalates physically. Like you said - if you're goin…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:16 PM
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Getting on a fight on the road? So, road rage? Dude, I was a strip club bouncer for years. Fighting over something so trivial as someone 'disrespecting' your friend is the lamest shit I've ever heard. You only get your fists up if you or someone you love is in genuine danger. Every time you fight you risk getting killed or maimed, killing or maiming someone else, or spending the rest of your life in a small jail cell with a 400 pound bunkmate named Bubba who sure thinks you've got a pretty mouth…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:12 PM
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You're not being an asshole, you're realizing that a woman who knows you used to orbit her - and is therefore clearly attracted to her - is trying to use you. What benefit do you get from helping her? Does it make you feel good? Is she going to pay you? Or is it going to stoke the fire of your oneitis and land you back where you were - a subserviant good little beta? Don't even respond to her. You're not her tutor. She's a big girl, she can study for her test like the rest of us.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:08 PM
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A lot of guys go through this, it's completely normal so don't feel alone on it. Anger phase is when you realize the true workings of women, and you're repulsed by what you see. How could they actually be this cruel? How could they be such using pieces of shit, who only care about an Alpha cock and Beta wallet? How could they be so vapid, and have so little to offer? Some guys never get over this. Some guys go MGTOW, some guys just hate-fuck women when they feel the need. Either way, I'll argue …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 01:04 PM
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I like the Sigma ideal, but a lot of guys here don't really think it exists. Some say it's just guys trying to be Alpha without having good social skills, but I'm kind of on the fence about it. It's like trying to break down AF / BB into AF / BB / AB / BF. It's meaningless categorization - like saying you prefer Norwegian Melodic Clownstep Speed Power Death Metal over Norwegian Melodic Bloodroar Speed Power Death Metal. Sure, maybe someone could pick out a few differences, but it gets silly afte…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:58 PM
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Shit like this makes me revisit my idea of installing covert surveillance cameras in my house and bedroom I can activate from my phone discretely. I'm not sure of the legality of filming a sex act without consent, but I'll take that charge with a smile if that means I can refute a bullshit rape charge. I'm a few years out of school, but these kinds of stories are just getting too prevalent to ignore.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:55 PM
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These people liked you because they could use you for validation / favours / as a scapegoat before and you took it. They could steamroll you on decisions, and you'd take it like a good little beta bitch - most of us have been there before in the past. Now that you're actually looking out for #1, this source of validation / favours is gone - and they don't like it. The important thing to remember is that if this is the case, they didn't really like you in the first place. Let them be cunty. Their…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:53 PM
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Keep your SMV high and rising. Don't overdo it with trying to keep in touch while she's in school. You don't need to keep yourself at the forefront of her mind while she's away. You want to be something she looks forward to when she comes home, not someone she feels obligated to call because you were total BFF's while she was off getting filled by college Chads. Keep an abundance mentality by getting new girls in rotation, but if you know she's coming home for Thanksgiving or whatever - definite…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:50 PM
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For sure, I hear you. You need to test some of this shit out in order to see if it's actually going to work. Sounds to me like you had some success at seeing that TRP is real, and the realization has thrown you straight into anger phase. Why trust women? Why would I ever want to get involved with even a model who studies tantric yoga if I can't ever relax? These are all questions you'll work through in your own time. We've all been there, and the anger phase is very real.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:45 PM
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Oh definitely, I've had some you're not really hot, but I still want to know what this is all about before for sure. Always strange to find yourself considering it before giving your head a good shake.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:29 PM
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If you don't think she's that hot (as /u/abdada said, if she's not that attractive, she's probably closer to a 5 or 6 rather than a 7) and you're not that attracted to her for more than a wet hole - what are you doing? TRP is amoral. I get it. You want to fuck someone's wife of 30 years because you can, do it. You want to cheat on your pregnant fiance, we wont stop you. But if you don't even like the broad, don't think she's hot, and are just doing this as some kind of thought experiment - why b…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:58 AM
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If she's telling you about it, she's either a) trying to incite jealousy by showing her SMV is high to others besides you, or b) You've been running dread game properly and she doesn't want you finding the email and thinking more of it than what it is. I've had girls tell me about weird texts other guys have sent them, and it's often been one of the two of the above situations. I've had girls try to use it to get my blood up, and I've had submissive girlfriends in the past tell me because they w…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:46 AM
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You can make it work. Every single one of these women will try to draw you into the gossip at this office - and if it's a full female staff, there's going to be a fuckload of it. If someone wants to shittalk someone else to you (which will happen multiple times daily) either nod, laugh, and get back to your work without agreeing - or if it's particularly bad / constant from one person, kindly but firmly let them know that you're not really about being a sounding board for negativity. It's import…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:41 AM
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Mental gymnastics would be mentally finding a way to accept or deny information presented to you, without necessarily basing anything on fact. You're twisting and turning about in order to come to a conclusion, typically one you want to draw despite the information pointing at something different. In women, this is hamstering. In men, this is what makes betas accept all kinds of horrible dead bedrooms, female bullshit, and workplace degradation.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:37 AM
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No. Alpha going his own way is often referred to as Sigma Male, but never Omega. Omega is bottom of the barrel.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:33 AM
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If you've just started to lift, this is all in your head because no change happens that quickly. Otherwise, see a doctor if you're really concerned.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 10:58 AM
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Yup. Sigma is rogue alpha. Omega is neckbeard who fucks My Little Pony plushies.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:02 AM
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This always comes off to me like the girl frantically trying to remind herself not to hook up, rather than any kind of warning to me and my intentions.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:15 PM
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Yup. She can't bounce on my dick through a phone screen, so if it's not headed there in reality - I've got better options to work on.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:14 PM
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Exactly. You can't be his Mr. Miyagi, but you can definitely be his wingman.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:49 PM
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Nope. Rules #1 of TRP is to not talk about TRP with outsiders in TRP lingo, especially unsolicited. If he asks for advice on the situation, you can - without using jargon or explaining the whole concept of RP / BB, AF / BB, etc - steer him in the right direction - but TRP's experience is that trying to push TRP on people is going to alienate you at best, and make you vilified at worst. The best thing you can do is be there for him when it blows up (and it will), steer him towards the gym with yo…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:36 PM
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If they're genuinely toxic, I've cut them out. It doesn't need to be some huge production, or even a conversation. I just stop inviting them around, and start doing things without them. If they still have redeeming qualities but they're bringing me down, I just won't associate as much. People change as they grow, and sometimes your path is going to go in a different direction than theirs will. That's just life. There's no need to be angry about it or with them - you'll lose many more friends bef…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:33 PM
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You would attract, but you would never get anywhere productive with them. Best case, you'd be arm candy and beta provider for a woman who's at best a 6, because you'd have no confidence that you could do any better. Worst case... well, the best case is bad enough for my headspace right now.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:06 PM
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I struggled with this when I first got into a management position. I've found that prefacing literally anything with "Do me a favour, blah blah blah" gets the assertion across, and you still come off like you're asking it. I've literally told guys who worked for me, "Do me a favour, get your fucking head out of your ass. Let's wake up and get this done, yeah?" and it doesn't come off half as harsh as, "Get your fucking head out of your ass, let's wake up and get this done." Translate that to tel…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:59 PM
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Indeed. If your first reaction to getting a plate spinning is to stop looking for other plates to spin, you've already lost.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:52 PM
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First off, accept that you are Red Pill, and believe you are. Calling yourself Purple Pill (horseshit) is only holding you back because you're allowing yourself not to be confident about your ideals. Or, admit to yourself that you're going to be BP forever, and deal with that. Your choice. Every RP guy still has a BP thought from time to time, but the difference between him and Billy Beta is that the RP man recognizes that thought for what it is, and deals with it accordingly. You've been readin…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:50 PM
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You can only play cocky if you have something to be cocky about. Fat Albert who mouthbreathes and has a stain on his shirt is going to utterly disgust any woman he tries to playfully neg. Billy Biceps who knows he's King Shit of Fuckoff Mountain can tell a girl to take her narrow ass and fuck right off in a moderately playful tone, and she'll laugh, slap his arm, and try to contain the river in her panties. This is an SMV issue. If you don't have a high SMV, you're going to have a harder time ap…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:33 PM
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Women are creatures of emotion, and if you're not giving her one kind - she'll do her best to bait you into providing the kind that makes your blood boil.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:30 PM
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TRP is not about "let's satisfy women, let's do exactly what women want". Yup. Trying to conform to the expectations of what women claim to find attractive is as effective as trying to fly to the moon by flapping your arms. Women have no fucking clue what they're actually attracted to, anyway. Look at this bullshit with Dadbods and how women faun over them on social media. No, dipshits, you're not actually hot for dudes with beerguts, you just say that because these guys have curlbro arms but ar…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:27 PM
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I have a decent body but skinny So you don't have a decent body. You're just not fat. Are you lifting? Are you working on upping your physical appearance, and subsequently your SMV? I know my face is not busted up because girls have hit on me in the past. In the past, did you have this air of desperation about you? You say yourself you don't feel like you're attractive enough to get laid. If you don't think it, why should anybody else? How big to i have to get before i start getting any attentio…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:21 PM
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Eh, I'd argue that if you're comparing one girl to another negatively in multiple situations, that's oneitis - or at least a small form of it. You're right - full blown oneitis is thinking the moon and stars rise and fall in a woman's shadow, and no one else could ever replace her. That being said, it doesn't start like that with any sane man. It starts small, but if she's dominating your thoughts and you fear losing her or are jealous of time she's away from you, that's something to be aware of…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:18 PM
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It's part of moving on, brother. I'm only a few years out of college as well, and especially if you haven't really been completely single since school, it's definitely a different world out here. The good thing about it is that now that's school's done, the rest the rules besides the ones the government will throw you in jail for breaking are 100% made up and only apply to you if you want them to. You have no need to ever get married if you don't want to. Fuck it, you don't even have to work ano…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:11 PM
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It'll be a while before I get the "pornstar plate" but like you say it's something to motivate me. I'm so fucking glad you phrased it that way. If you put in the work, you'll get it. Like you said, not a matter of if, it's when.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:06 PM
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Yup, girls will definitely msg first if your perceived SMV is high enough. That being said, I prefer to open because then I set the tone of the encounter from square one. A lot of game is pulling people into your frame, rather than being pulled into theirs.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:04 PM
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Dude, I blew easily - and this is no lie - close to $20,000 wining, dining, and (never being allowed to) 69ing my ex. Vacations. All the hot restaurants. $22 cocktails. Fancy hotels. You name it, we did it. I was the king of 'more fun.' Concert tickets almost every week. Did it make one lick of difference? Absolutely not. The only difference between you and me is I could've bought a new Harley with all the cash I pissed away, whereas you have an income generator on the way. PM me anytime, my man…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:59 PM
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You didn't escalate at all. I don't like stupid Tinder banter, because I don't feel like I get any benefit out of it. Escalate sexually softly at first as you set up a meet, and then escalate the rest of the way in person. I'm not any one of these girls friends, nor do I ever want to be - so I'm not going to act like it in the first place.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:52 PM
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The advantage to Tinder over just about any other medium aside from real life is that you only can talk to girls who have found you attractive. Essentially, unless they're just doing it for attention (which you have to learn to recognize) it's yours to lose. I always open with You look like trouble. I get probably a 50% reply rate. They either say What? How? in which case I don't bother unless they're really hot, or something along the lines of You have no idea, which means they're game, and I e…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:22 PM
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No I haven't but only because I haven't found the balls to discuss just how beta as fuck I got in my last relationship. She was a coke addict, and over the course of six months probably spent 6 nights away from me, doing drugs all night with god knows who and who's dicks in her. I always had the balls to end it with her, but I never went NC. I'd leave Thursday, and be back in the house Tuesday. Really, really pathetic shit. It's my absolute low. After the last breakup at the end of July, I took …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:11 PM
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I did it probably six times with my ex, don't worry about it man. You have to fuck up in order to learn the lesson in most scenarios.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:43 PM
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I hear you man, but even with the total package, you can't negotiate attraction or desire. Girls you have a history of orbiting are damn difficult to crack, and I really don't think this broad sounds special enough to warrant the legwork you're putting in for the odd dryhump and blowie. You're doing the right things - and you'll be amazed when you see just how much tail you'll get that straight up wants to fuck you when you start opening more doors with new girls.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:12 PM
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But I don't want it to clash with my fingerless gloves.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:09 PM
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Just a shit-test man. I never kissed you. I actually like someone else. "Yeah? He sounds cute, what's his number?" A&A, and keep some damn OI here. She's just another broad, man. Don't chase her, raise your SMV til you're the prize and she'll chase you. If she was blowing you up for a week, you should've set up a second date immediately.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:51 PM
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I guess the women we like are fans of muscles and general displayed masculinity. One has to match up to them. Absolutely. You show one minute of weakness with these broads, and you're done for. There's a reason these kind of women are seen with outlaw guys most of the time - and it's because Chad Jailbird isn't one to wax poetic about his feelz after two dates.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:44 PM
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Of course you're going to be bummed a bit if you were so close to the close and didn't manage to put one up on the board, but I would consider this one dead. She really, really likes validation from what I can tell. Since you say you were a mega-orbiter before, she knows you're a solid source of that for her. Riding you with her clothes on and giving you a courtesy BJ in my opinion is her giving you the bare minimum required to keep you around. Some guys will say that since you've at least gotte…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:42 PM
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Sounds to me like the relationship is over, and she's your GF in name-only at the moment. I understand that people deal with trauma - real or imagined - differently, but if she's not going to you for comfort, she's going somewhere else. I know you're going to want closure, but the best advice is to start living life as if you're a single, unencumbered man. Do you really want a girl back who feels its appropriate to go two weeks without saying a word to the man she claims she loves?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:33 PM
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We need a hell of a lot more information on what you're doing wrong to be able to tell you how to do it right next time.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:31 PM
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Omega males are betas with absolutely nothing to offer in the slightest, but this is just BP as it comes. Do you think if this guy had an SMV like Brad Pitt and a 9/10 wife, he would still enjoy seeing other people fuck his wife?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:31 PM
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Yup. Live and learn, friend. At least you're realizing that this is all your fault - but because it was solely on your shoulders, it also means you can change it all for the better if you're willing to work for it.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:24 PM
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Put her shit in the driveway, tell her she can get it before the garbage man does if she's lucky. You don't owe this woman one sweet fuck of care beyond what you have. At least you found out what she is now before you got married, had kids, whatever. It sucks now, but man - look at the kind of woman you lost - you should be overjoyed that this low-value shitbag removed herself from your life and saved you the trouble. I see people saying you need to 'get out more' and have 'more fun,' but TRP is…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:24 PM
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I agree with you. You can either attract people by bringing yourself down to their level, or by being an inspiration for something they want to achieve. The former will work in the short term, but the latter is the vision you should be chasing.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:16 PM
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Oneitis.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:09 PM
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That's all this idiot is doing. He's doing it across threads, too. Time to stop feeding the trolls.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:08 PM
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Asking 'how was your day' is literally like throwing sand in a woman's vagina if you're not dating her. The reason we say use text only for logistics is because so few guys can actually do anything but harm to their prospects through texting. Push for a meet, and run game in person.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:47 PM
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