summary Im wondering where I went wrong on my last date. I kissed closed but the next day the girl said she liked someone else.

date When I saw her, I gave her a hug, I was nervous so it wasnt my best hug. Anyway I linked her arm and walked to the bar together. So started with some small talk, then I started kino while talking. I started small, then started to get to intimate areas, touching her face.

I gave a compliment, and she said I was really smooth at this. So I looked into her eyes, said nothing, and she broke first and said what I was thinking. Her words put me off, so I created the sexual tension again, this time we are sat very close, no distance. I go for the kiss, but she moves her chin.

I stop with the kino, she starts then tapping my arm, to get me taking again, she pulled my whole arm closer into her chest. I started talking about another girl, she didnt say anything but she put her legs over me.

kiss We move venue and hit the clubs. We both drink a lot, and we dance, I pick her up and spin her, she kisses my cheek. We started grinding each other, so I turn her around and we kiss. We make out.

I dont want to lead you on So we go outside and she say "i dont want to lead you on". I continue to kiss her, and she does it back. we are in a quiet area to I touch her ass, she is fine. I try to put my hand up her skirt, but she holds my hand and continues kissing. We both go home.

next day She starts to text me all the time, every little thing she does she tells me. Before the kiss their was no communication. So my phone is spammed by texts from her all that week. She then texts me saying she is drunk, and wished I lived closer so she could go clubbing again.

I remind her that we kissed last time, and she denies it all. She then says she likes someone else.

At this point I stop texting her, and cut contact. She stills sends texts but its been a week since I replied so she has given up. During my week of ignoring her, she liked my stuff on twitter, sent me snaps.

my thoughts I think I lacked aggressive ness, wasnt direct enough. I think I need to learn to flirt better- any tips??