College cockblock

Rapture686 · 2020-03-09T18:24:06+00:00

Quits

i-am-the-prize · 2020-03-09T19:00:38+00:00

You make her want you, so that if things align later, you can still hit it.

How?

you say goodbye like it was a normal Saturday night that you'd be seeing her in 2 or 3 days.
you fuck her like her life depends on it.
you don't compromise the grind, but if she's texting that she misses you, let her know she can come visit you on X weekend (when your work/sport load is light) If she says: "why don't you come visit me?" Answer: "because I invited you" then STFU. She will respect your choice to be on a Mission, she will not respect you DEERing to her on why you can't come. DARE never DEER.

My one true HB9 was this type of situation, met over christmas break on a college trip when I was a sophmore, she a Junior. I eff-closed her within 18 hours of meeting her. Her 2 lays before me each took a year of LTR to bag her. I was her AF. Our colleges were 8 hours apart, yet we lived (in the summer) only 20 min apart, so like you I wanted to keep it at least at a simmer so that summertime meant I was balls deep in this genetic wonder that loved sucking my dick.

She was so friggin hot that when she drove to visit me 4 weeks after we met (yes 8 hours, 1 way, for the weekend; and she made the trip at least a half doze more times eventually) and we went out in early February with my friends on my campus, I'd never seen dudes stare at my date like that (before or likely since). She was a swimsuit model with an angel face too, 5'9" blond, etc. We fucked like rabbits and enjoyed each other's time for the next 2 years.

Anyways, when I heard this proverb, it explained how I acted in a weird detatched way, not outwardly weird, I was confident and cocky and fun, but it was weird to me at the time; like I was detached emotionally in a way:

Before saying a word, he [Ajahn Chah] motioned to a glass at his side. “Do you see this glass?” he asked us. “I love this glass. It holds the water admirably. When the sun shines on it, it reflects the light beautifully. When I tap it, it has a lovely ring. Yet for me, this glass is already broken. When the wind knocks it over or my elbow knocks it off the shelf and it falls to the ground and shatters, I say, ‘Of course.’ But when I understand that this glass is already broken, every minute with it is precious.”

And years later, TRP later explained why how I acted worked: I was OI/NGAF so displayed higher value to her, I mean she had dozens (dozens) of guys calling weekly (physically stopping by with flowers, phone, email - this is pre-Tinder) I just didn't reach out. But I fucked her like no one else ("fuck your woman like you're going to prison the next day") and so she kept calling me instead. When I read the TRP tenants, I simply nodded: "i've lived this" so you need to live it now. Be OI/NGAF and be sure you're good enough so that she thinks of you when she masturbates, and she'll stay in touch.

AloofusMaximus · 2020-03-09T18:30:01+00:00

Why don't find a girl to fuck on your own campus... Just a wild guess but I'm sure there's plenty!

northernCAgrown · 2020-03-09T19:04:00+00:00

Find other females.

Title	College cockblock
Author	ev214
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	March 9, 2020 5:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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