Firstly , I would like to say that I have read the Sidebar numerous times. Yet there is always one concept that I can not fully understand. Getting comfortable.

We all know that being too comfortable is anti-seductive and kills genuine desire and attraction. But what does being too comfortable actually mean?

Is it extreme familiarity? Yes , indeed when a girl knows what you are doing 24/7 helps kill attraction.

Is it being able to tell her everything? Except fears and weaknesses evidently. I found myself yesterday sharing too much opinion with a wannabeLTR on the subject of sex and relationships. And at some point I thought that I am sharing too much. I was talking about what a good relationship consists of;that I know what you can and can not do in a relationship;about desire and intimacy. Extreme opinion sharing..and I thought , what if this is a bad thing?

Maybe every one of us gets to a part of their TRP journey where they can't comprehend something and have trouble enjoying their relationship. Can you guys provide some examples of being too comfortable and dealing with too many thoughts of what is beta and what is not? Thank you.