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This is textbook redpill stuff. Never make women your point of origin (Rollo Tomassi has a book on it). Also, yes, there is no such thing as unconditional love from a woman. Well, except your mother.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 04:38 AM
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Remember that the RedPill is ultimately self-improvement. Women are nice. Plating is nice. But don't lose sight of the bigger goal. Your mission and your time. There's a point where after a while the fucking just becomes saturated. Like having steak every single day. You eventually get kind of sick of it. Don't stop gaming women, though. You always have room to grow and learn how to manipulate them. Learning how to wrap them around your finger can do you wonders, and it's applicable to some men,…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 04:17 AM
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It’s going to hurt, and it’s because you’re literally killing a part of yourself. But don’t worry. That is the weak part. You are now getting stronger. Embrace it, learn it, and adapt. You will be better equipped to face reality knowing the truth. Rolling Tomassi has a read on this exact thing. It’s called “killing the beta”. You are now ready for it. This is your next step. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Bmn0kOyEE8
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 04:17 PM
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A lock that is opened by any key is a shitty lock. A key that opens any lock is a master key.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:04 AM
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Her: “I haven’t fucked anyone else in months! I want to take things further with you” She thinks you're retarded if she thinks you'll buy that. You should poke fun of her for insinuating that you'll take this bait. Other than that you're good.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:58 AM
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Yeah, you're right I got impatient. You should've just pulled back a bit when she said ahe couldn't make it due to yoga, and waited until she proposed a different plan. Girls have options and we both know that. From my experience she would have forgotten after whatever the fuck yoga she had. I suspect that the it was just some hamstering BS anyway and what it really was is an excuse. At that point I figured it's phone call or nothing. I had nothing to lose in my mind. Plus, if she wanted a diffe…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:56 PM
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It'd be a lot more helpful to actually be more concrete in what I did wrong and not just call me a "moron". Be specific.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:52 PM
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I had a fiancee. We were starting to get engaged. The ONE time I let my guard down in front of my dying grandmother, she started losing attraction. My grandmother, who was afflicted with pancreatic cancer, died a week later. Now in all this time, I never looked for emotional support to my girlfriend. And my emotions weren't even directed at her when I was on the phone with my dying grandmother - she was only in the room when spilled my guts to my grandmother telling her how much I loved her and …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:02 PM
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From the looks of it he is still hurting over his ex. He's likely bringing her up because he's inviting you to be his emotional support. It doesn't necessarily mean he's not wanting you to be his FWB, however. Next time he does it just ask him "do I look like your ex? Shut up and make out with me and forget her." That should work, if you have the boldness to pull that sort of thing. Just tell him that talking about his ex annoys you. But don't do it in a naggy kind of way. You want to seduce him…
/r/seduction23/11/18 03:44 PM
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You made the right decision to break up with her. She didn’t fuck this guy she wanted because her friend got to him first. That’s why she wasn’t unfaithful that night. In any case, she wasn’t ever going to tell you about it. She lied to you not once but TWICE. In fact, if she felt any true guilt she would have confessed about why she lied to you and made herself vulnerable and receptive. But instead she tried to manipulate you for sympathy (breaking down, crying) and gaslighting you (why are you…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:46 PM
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I never know how to deal with it but it makes me so incredible mad. First off, you need to recognize just what she is doing and why you feel mad. Then you need assess if this anger is justified and what you should do about it next time you come across it. I'll tell you right now, the reason you feel mad is because she's unambiguously being cocky, bullying you with her opinion about you not being good enough. She's openly emasculating you and showing you in her primary form of communication (whic…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 04:40 AM
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How the fuck do I change this toxic way of thinking? First off let's get this out of the way: that is NOT toxic. That is your instinct kicking in. It's this same exact instinct that makes you a man, to protect your genetic heritage, and the same instinct that you use to fuck women and make them want you. Think of such things as a form of energy. In can be destructive if focused inwards, which will make it explode and fuck up your train of thought. Or you can control it and use it to accelerate a…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 04:30 AM
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Treat her as a woman would treat a guy who's begging her for sex with puppy eyes. It's both a frame battle and a pity-play. Be asshole-y. I guara-fucking-tee you the instant that you become "nice" she'll lose ALL interest, instantly, even if she won't realize it. For these sorts of things, you maintain maximum tingles by never giving her the closure. Dodge, evade, but do it playfully and seamlessly. If you're trying too hard she'll pick up on it and will feel repelled. Remember, speaking covertl…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:43 AM
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Higher testosterone will make his sex drive skyrocket. He needs zinc and other things that will boost it. But he'll have to want to improve himself. Don't nag him about it or you'll get a counterproductive effect. I say nag because that's how he'll probably perceive it, even if it is legitimate. Ideally, he should hit the gym. He'd be more confident, more assertive, more positive vibes, be better than he would normally be. Attacking his masculinity will probably start a fight. But depending on t…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:36 AM
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Human nature
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:28 AM
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She could probably smell the fact that she didn't interest you. She was desperately sniffing for desperation and once she realized there was none to feed off of, you suddenly become more alluring. The chemistry helped her decide she wanted you inside her.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:52 PM
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Good job. I'm proud of you.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:32 PM
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Iron Rule 3. I wouldn't bother with this chick, she sounds like she has her ASD up for you and she kind of sounds like a cunt. Display value, find other women to fuck. She'll come crawling once she smells other women on you.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 10:37 PM
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But last night she was like cocky, making herself the prize and making me chase her, asking me little tasks (which is what I do all the time with her) Yes, those are all shit tests. Then she gave you the ultimate shit test. You need to maintain frame. Be independent of her, spin other plates. Let her know covertly that she's replaceable. She won't admit it, but she wants to know that she is (and that you can get other women if you so choose). Also: asking me little tasks (wich is what I do all t…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 05:04 PM
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http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/03/26/the-20-second-rule/
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:50 PM
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She does weaponize sex. She did it as a power grab ("we'll only have sex on MY terms!"). It's only a matter a time until she'll do it overtly. The fact she is attracted doesn't matter because AWALT. Women will shit test you, especially if they are attracted. It's good you're not going. You're covertly telling her you're losing interest when she starts acting like a man in the relationship. Receptiveness (the feminine) is rewarded, lust for power (masculine) is not.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:48 PM
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She sent me some texts inviting me tonight again. I know we will fuck if I go, but I don't want her to decide when we have sex. Trust your gut instinct. I'll now articulate what your gut is telling you and what you're feeling. What you don't want is for sex to be only on her terms. You don't want to enter her frame; you want her to enter yours. And secretly she wants this as well. If you do go and get fucked after her invite, she WILL lose respect for you. What she did was a power grab, and you …
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:38 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:34 AM
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I know he goes out of his way to flirt with other women literally infront of me and it does not make me want him more, it makes me dislike him more and more each time! And yet here you are, on this subreddit talking about nothing but him. Actions speak louder than words, dear. All this venting is just you trying to rationalize that you don't like him. You're like the girl who who won't shut up about how she hates this one guy. We all know you like him. By the way, you're still a plate.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:28 AM
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She said she's running late. But 750 no show and I leave. Text her maybe next time. That's the frame you should have. It's strong and impenetrable. That also displays value. You either come to the date on time or you miss out. You painted yourself the prize and now she's whining that she didn't get it. Of course, if you did wait around, she wouldn't have had respect for you. Ironically, you're more attractive to her now. Congratulations - you're the asshole in her life right now. I bet she won't…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:18 AM
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Forget her, go and make new friends at the party instead. See if you can find someone cool. Hint: forget about girls, make new guy friends
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:56 PM
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Well done. You've dodged a bullet.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 03:52 PM
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Go fuck other women. You're pedestilizing this chick
/r/askTRP21/08/17 02:43 PM
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What the fuck is he doing talking about TRP to women? Lol does he even lift?
/r/askTRP21/08/17 02:32 PM
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You forget that women hate accountability and responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 10:52 PM
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Always trust your gut. Always.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 10:43 PM
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But a LTR whithholding sex is not something i dont care about That is why LTR is hard mode. The trick is, you have boundaries, and you enforce them. You first need strong internal frame. What is the line for you? Keep that line rock solid, and don't let her move it an inch. If she crosses it, you leave. Sex is a necessity in a relationship. You cannot negotiate desire, and without sex it's simply a glorified friendship. A couple who do not have sex and are living together are not a couple; they'…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 10:40 PM
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Of course it went without women's input. You think Nikola Tesla had a girlfriend telling him the mathematical properties of imaginary numbers in AC current circuitry? Or some chick telling Alan Turing how finite state machines work? No. The propaganda is spread by the feminists, who are trying to shoehorn women where they don't belong and glamorizing the women and other minorities while downplaying the accomplishments of white men for the sake of virtue signaling. No. A woman's place is raising …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 10:32 PM
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Men have built the modern world. You can't argue facts.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 09:20 PM
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Oh, she only got cold sores out of the blue after 5 years of being clean! What could it possibly be? Hmmmmm..... Yes, you idiot. People don't just get cold sores. She's been kissing someone or worse. Step your game up or leave.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:09 PM
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When she refused today, I just rolled my eyes and wake up to do some stuffs. She asked me if I was angry, I said no and now I just keep my affection at minimun. She knows exactly what she is doing is wrong. OP, keep your frame solid. This is a shit test. It is a power play and you need to tread carefully. Keep frame at all costs. OP, read these very carefully. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2zw8cd/the_ultimate_shit_test_withholding_sex/ http://www.redpilldoctor.com/lmr-from-your-lt…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 09:04 PM
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It's a ONS. Why are you going onitis for this chick? She picked up on that frame and lost interest.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:57 AM
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BlackDragon is the man you want to go to. What your girlfriend is giving you is drama, and there are several ways to handle that. The most effective one is dread. You need to be ready to bail on this relationship. Do not, under any circumstance, put her on the pedistal. You should be in 'soft next' mode. So far you have impenetrable frame, and she is trying HARD to break you (it is a major shit test). But at the same time she is being disrespectful. Here: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2013/09/1…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:28 AM
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Irrelevant. You should focus on fucking other women. This girl, if she is interested, will have a sixth sense for when you're about to do it. Don't get trapped in the frame where you are focusing on this girl. Your disinterest in being her dog peaked her interest. Don't get onitis and you'll be fine. For now, just hit the gym and fuck 10 other women.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:25 PM
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Saint, think for a moment; if she did go fuck her ex and came back to you, do you think she'd be telling the truth? Women have no problem lying. So how can you trust her? You don't. Watch what she does not what she says. The fact she went to see her ex is a problem. Keep observing her behavior and calibrate accordingly. But don't be afraid to take the L. It won't be the end of the world. Remember, the medium is the message.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 09:08 PM
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You're forgetting AWALT. If he's spinning plates, it's best she submits to his frame. "No gf of mine..." sets the frame that if she is to be his girlfriend, she will not see her ex. It also exemplifies his abundance mentality, how easily he can replace her, and setting boundaries (no pushover), all of which are attractive to any healthy woman.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 09:04 PM
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She's already gone, bro. You need to be ready to get her packing up and moving out. If she wants to go see him "for coffee", she's been thinking about him for longer than you know. He's still on her mind. You should pull the plug.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 08:56 PM
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It's obvious that I want her more than she wants me and she has the power. Then take your balls back. The one with the most power is the one who cares about the other less. You need to seriously be ready to leave. No ultimatums, no nothing. Just go NC and mean it for real this time, go fuck other women. It should get to the point where if she'll come around, it will no longer matter to you.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 10:11 PM
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She's trying to beta shame you. Just treat it like a shit test (it is). Or, since she's giving you drama and you don't feel like it's worth your time, just ghost her until she reaches out again and changes her tone. Then you re-initiate the same way, as if she never said it. Whatever you do, do not apologize, do not try to defend yourself. You do not need to. She's the one out of line here. You should make fun of her for it, if anything.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 10:03 PM
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Teach him how to approach, game women, female nature and hypergamy, and encourage him to LIFT, dammit! Show him he can have a bodybuilder's body by the time he's 25, show him how easy the top 10% of men have it, and encourage him to be at his best and have his best interests at all times. It's your duty to give him a gym membership. Start with that.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 09:35 PM
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Everything she was doing from the moment you found out is a play to win you back. She's not sorry she did it, she's sorry she got caught. You need to ghost this girl. I'd like to emphasize that you need to cut communication and particularly deny her closure. She KNOWS she fucked up, and the lesson wont really sink in until after the fact. She's not LTR material and you know it. Be ruthless. It's for your own good and for hers.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:03 PM
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Dude, ditch this girl. You need be more selfish. Plus, this girl isn't good for you anyway. What you are experiencing isn't love, it's addiction. She has you by the balls and she knows it. It's time to take your balls back.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:33 PM
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What about IT guy that made it available to OP? Can't scuttle him! I know from experience that this guy doesn't (a) doesn't need to get involved and if he does he (b) won't get in trouble for keeping the workspace safe/comfortable/toxic-free. It's very easy to make someone look bad when they're reprimanding a guy who's outing a harasser and pathological liar.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:03 PM
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She's full of shit bro. Get those prefrontal lobes working.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:44 AM
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The fact that he's asking about it makes it apparent enough what he is doing wrong. All we're doing is pointing that out. Everyone has these problems sometimes, even me. He's getting the criticism he needs to improve. Fact is, there's nothing he could have done to change the outcome. That's why nobody is telling him what he could have done to make things better.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:40 AM
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Do not confront the bitch. Take the email directly to management and HR, file a formal complaint for harassment. Get her fired. In all likelihood, /u/SirKolbath is right about what's going on.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:59 AM
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She was thinking about fucking you and making a family, plain and simple. Still, as you said in OP, don't shit where you eat. She's likely DTF. You're better off just using her for game-experimentation.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:52 AM
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Why do you care? You're in the wrong mindset. Stop giving a fuck and go fuck other women. It's her loss, not yours.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:50 AM
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/u/Invalidity is right. Start looking for other plates immediately. A girl who respects you will watch what she says or does. She, in all likelihood, has another dick lining up in the event that you leave. That may be why she doesn't care. Demote her to plate and plan your exit.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:48 AM
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frankly I am struggling with how to initiate the dicking down due to my previous conviction of nexting This is yet again another example of a woman that is testing your frame. In all likelihood, she does not want dicking at all, and is simply trying to break your frame (your conviction; your mission; your self-respect). She'll simply flake again once she 'has' you. She'll paradoxically be attracted enough to you only after you've made it clear you're 100% not hooking up with her under any circum…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:42 AM
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She wants attention. She's inviting you to waste your time with her though texting and free attention-giving. Don't bite.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 02:44 AM
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Nothing. Women talk. Men do. Go fuck 10 other women while she makes up her mind.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 02:43 AM
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Hahaha holy shit. I was waaay overthinking it. Women are like clockwork. I was hoping for something more
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:50 PM
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you were smug in return (and not incorrectly so, if that's your game) Elaborate. I know women are attracted to confidence. I was smug because I genuinely was. How would you do different? she moved on to someone who actually met her criteria You mean submitted to her frame and kissed her ass the way she tried getting me to? Haha, it'll probably be the most unsatisfying fuck she'll ever get. Wouldn't you go for the better option versus wasting your time on one of a million Tinder matches if the nu…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:46 PM
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The attention of a (presumably hot) guy and she ended it on her terms. This, I have no doubt about. Women hate, hate, HATE having no closure. It'd make perfect sense to me that she'd rather end it on her terms than on mine. I've had so many laughs where I'd tell a plate to leave and the door's that way, and they just wouldn't go. Most of them won't until you want them to stay. Then they go. If you were just there to get laid you should have just unmatched her as soon as she sent her first messag…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 06:13 PM
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The problem you have is that you're wearing love-goggles. You see perfection in your wife because you've conditioned yourself to rationalize away her AWALT behaviors. If what you really say is true, why are you here? There must be something you're looking help for. Something you know TRP will help you with and something you know you'll have to work for. So what are you really asking here?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:18 AM
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Break up with your girlfriend or stop cheating. If you want monogamy, then do monogamy. If not, then don't. But don't go lying about it. Notice TRP was never about lying or cheating, which is what you're doing.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 06:19 AM
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It all has to do with context. Truer words have never been said. OP, listen to this man. This what a man who can run a LTR looks like. Read every word he said.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 06:09 AM
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I'm starting to feel like she wants something from me but i'm not sure what. What is a way to figure out what she wants ? Why does it matter to you? Escalate or tell her to fuck off. Best case scenario, you two fuck. Worst case scenario, you stay where you're at now. Don't give two seconds pitying this chick. She's probably just looking for a fuck or to get you to clean up her shitty life and swoop her off her feet with your money.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:53 AM
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It's partly a shit test. People, especially women, put you in a box. And when you go outside that box, they get wildly uncomfortable. And especially if they don't know why, they will seek closure. Your witty/smug remarks and not giving a flipping shit hit the RP marks perfectly. You've suddenly become mysterious, dangerous, exciting, and a little scary. Why wouldn't any woman respond well (to you) about that?
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:45 AM
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Prepare for your red pill. It's going to be bitter. First off, just because she's sexing you up, doesn't mean shes good. You're letting that cloud your judgement. She didn't even TELL you about this dude until after you dragged it out. What else is she not telling you? Second off, she's a fucking cheater. And now she's with not one, but TWO people she fucked. She's practically laughing inside her head, likely. Even if subconsciously... somewhere at the back of her mind. You feel like you're bein…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:36 AM
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I'm speaking from experience that they do. There is a reason why so many women have 4-10 guys on rotation. You've got more red to swallow.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 07:39 AM
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The feminist bitch has a boss, doesn't she? Take it up with the boss privately. They have cameras, right? Obviously everything is recorded. Remember specific instances, jot them down at a time convenient for you, and when you have a list you think is large enough, raise the issue to the boss with the incriminating evidence.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 07:01 AM
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I can't for the life of me recall what the page is or the source (not sure if it's heartiste or rationalmale or whatnot), but I do recall it's someone's recollection of helping some men or help in forming some male space in some therapy group. I don't think the guy was in the group himself, but he was explaining how women cause in-fighting between men in the article, and said how he told some of the men in the therapy group to collectively ignore women and keep self improving, and how this lead …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 09:09 PM
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This depends - are they your kids? If they are, you need to talk to the guy yourself. Remember that single mothers destroy children's potentials and futures; it's entirely up to the father to foster their sense of agency, responsibility, and sense of loyalty.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:34 AM
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In the end BB Forrest's genes die and alpha Chad genes continue on Just as nature intended. You see how the genes that withstand the stream of time are not the ones from the literal retard who had bad legs as a kid?
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:29 AM
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Not during our relationship, mind you, but that i stayed in contact with her "too long" after that breakup. She's simply projecting. See how she does it herself? That's a big clue right there. But she was having doubts, and needed closure from you, so she contacting you to get closure, to prove that you do indeed keep contact with your exes, and that she was right to break up with you. Because she's now your ex, after all. And she almost got what she wants - until you set your boundaries.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:21 AM
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First, get out of a LTR. That's a bad idea for you, you have scarcity mentality and she knows. Second, find/make other plates. Your confidence (and by extention, Frame) will go waaaay up. And when you have other options you'll see that her pussy ain't so special - and she'll know this, too, with the little subconscious hints you'll give as any male with any options does. Let her party. But make it clear you won't be there when she gets drunk. And mean it - you have to follow through with it. You…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:16 AM
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It's not. That's just bullshit they feed to men to filter out the beta boys from the alpha aces. Women LOVE meaningless sex when it's with the guy that makes them wet.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 03:33 PM
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doubling up on this
/r/askTRP01/01/17 04:43 PM
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That puts them up in a vulnerable position and women desperately do everything they can to avoid even implicit rejection. That's what their entire power games are about; to avoid rejection, accountability, and personal responsibility.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 04:52 AM
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I really don't believe that she is constrained in time (I think she barely does something) so this is just another part of her game. She constantly tries to pull me in her frame I guess. That's what women do. Of course, it's a shit test. And you should handle it like any other. Your frame should be stronger than hers. Strong enough to pull her into yours. Have boundaries. Don't state them, just have then and enforce them. Be a man, don't let some woman push you around. That's what she's testing …
/r/askTRP15/12/16 08:33 PM
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only time I openly call her out on her shit and told her shut the fuck up she ended up not talking to me for months. Is that the way I should go forward? This sounds like a good thing to me. Do you WANT her to talk to you? Are you trying to plate her? Because it sounds like you don't want to have anything to do with her. Put her in her place.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 08:23 PM
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Get rid of her somehow. You don't have to deal with her yourself, you know. The standard advice here though is to just build value and improve yourself. That always helps.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 08:21 PM
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Why do you care? It's just the female hamster doing the shit it does best, trivializing their transgressions and insisting on being the victims to absolve theirselves of any accountability. Standard fundamental TRP stuff. If you knew your shit you would have seen it for what it was; a shit test, and treated it as such: AM, A&A, PF, etc..
/r/askTRP11/12/16 09:48 PM
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She also said that because she got married so young and for so long (I guess they were together since he early 20's) she feels she missed out on some things). She's giving you the green light to fuck her
/r/askTRP04/12/16 09:19 PM
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Amused mastery, pressure flip, D&A, A&A, etc. What you use doesn't matter. There is no formula. The only thing that matters is frame, reframe, and how well you hold it. She needs to submit to yours, not the other way around. You call the shots. That's why they all work, you talk on your own terms.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 09:16 PM
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You're not answering the question.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 07:45 PM
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When you say "hurt her", what, precisely, referring to?
/r/askTRP04/12/16 07:37 PM
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STOP. Always remind yourself this. ALWAYS. Listen to what she does, not what she says. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/
/r/askTRP04/12/16 05:07 AM
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Listen to what she does not what she says. She keeps bringing up your girlfriend but is feeling stiff. What's really on her mind is that she feels like she's a side chick. You need to find a way to make her forget about that when she's with you. Up your game, make her feel shit. Then do kino like crazy.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 05:01 AM
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This post addresses exactly what you're trying to figure out. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3cjqel/people_will_always_try_to_put_you_in_a_box_break/
/r/askTRP04/12/16 04:58 AM
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I'd rather forego sex with her than lead her on or lie to her (she din't do anything to me that deserves the pain I would inflict) This part is the beta in you talking. It's also the male hamster spinning with all the indoctrination you've been taught. Kill it. Women enjoy sex. Sex is not painful for them, and the only reason why they would feel "used" by having it with you is if they think your value is somehow less than theirs. They should enjoy sex with you in and of itself because it's enjoy…
/r/askTRP04/12/16 04:48 AM
7

Nah this will cause even more damage to her character, because she's the hooker who did the blowjob for a car ride. It'll reflect far more badly on her than it will with him.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 04:25 AM
2

all I do now is just respond to her texts which I guess is another form of validation. So do I just straight up ignore her now? You've established that you're a beta orbiter earlier. Now you're not, and she misses the attention. Have boundaries and enforce them. Ask yourself: what do YOU want? Act according to your frame, not hers. Keeping you interested is her job. Is she doing what you want? If not, always be ready to walk away and find it somewhere else. Because it's the best element in your …
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:44 PM
2

Good for you. Learn from your experiences. Learn what works and what doesn't, and most importantly, get a feel for what makes YOU feel confident, and YOUR inner game.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 09:24 PM
1

Now this poses a question: How did you keep Abby, then? We all know that security leads to a loss of attraction,so how did you circumvent it?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:50 PM
7

Translation: I'm not like those other girls! Look how different I am! Attention! Give me your attention! Look how high value a woman I am!! I'm totally not a slut! You're not even trying to see what's valuable to guys. If you're going to flaunt, at least put some effort to make it convincing.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:45 PM
2

I'm gonna keep this short. I've been dating a girl and I want to give this LTR-thing a shot. Two sentences in and you've already lost. In addition she was all like "Do you realize how much you mean to me when I'm willing to cut off contact with him for you?". This is a grab for power. She knows you're calling her out but wants to frame it as her decision and not yours. Be wary here. She rationalized by saying that she wasn't sure if we were going to get serious and that she wouldn't just cut peo…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:36 PM
3

Always listen to your gut. If it feels like there's some other guy who's holding her attention and she's leaving you in the backburner as backup, or stringing you along to make you her orbiter because she likes attention but not willing to meet up, whatever the case it's probably it. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/ tl;dr listen to her actions not her words. EDIT: don't know if it makes a difference but on our vacation she asked me if I was fucking anyone else an…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 04:06 PM
1

That's not an option, I've got a full house.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 04:53 PM
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Bro women are fickle as fuck. She probably honestly forgot. If you're going to text her, pop in something funny and not just something to remind her that you exist because that'll come off as needy. Send one (and only ONE) text and leave it. If she's into you, she'll text back. If not, she's probably trying to reject you lightly. The most important thing here is to have a mentality where you don't give a fuck about her either way. Because by being attached to her and shit is exactly what repels …
/r/askTRP27/11/16 03:20 PM
1

By seriously, honestly, not giving a shit. Find out what it is you do that helps make you not give a shit and go do that. For me, abundance mentality, confidence, charisma, knowing I'm the best motherfucker in the room, and actively working to be the best I can be gives me my well-earned results.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 03:18 PM
2

The medium is the message. Listen to her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 10:27 PM
1

The internet. You know what you must do.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 03:56 PM
1

Whatever you do, do not allow her to get too comfortable. The instant she does, she will lose attraction, because she will put her SMV on top of yours instead of comparing them, and once she sees you as "beneath" her, she'll start looking for better options. Always be ready to walk. That's why dread game is also important. You also want to read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2gztu0/ltr_fr_dont_get_complacent/
/r/askTRP21/11/16 06:47 PM
1

Whatever you do, maintain frame. don't get too attached. ALWAYS be ready to walk, and ALWAYS be ready to leave the relationship on your terms. This does not mean issue ultimatums, however. Nothing is worth your dignity as a man, and if you don't respect yourself, you can't expect she will, either. This is where women are so fickle and change their minds when threatening to leave a relationship over some stupid shit. She wants to know you're a real man, a man she wants. She'll feel real comfortab…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 06:29 PM
1

Women are naturally insecure. They will always throw tests like this at you to make sure that you're the man they think you are. And yes. They will gamble their position for it, a thousand times over. Blame their solipsism, and their hypergamic nature.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 04:48 AM
1

But can we say that this will not repeat? No. The shit tests never stop. Women shit test automatically, just like you look at an attractive women's tits automatically. They will also try to get you when your guard is down, so never let it down. She failed to weaponize it now , what is stopping her from trying again at some point in the future? Nothing. Always be prepared for it. She will specifically try to target you when your guard is down. That is when she'll try to expose you for what you re…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 04:45 AM
1

Stop posting here and read the sidebar first. You don't belong here until you understand the covert communication. Stop listening to WHAT she says and listen to the context.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:59 PM
1

She was trying to get you to break frame. It was a giant shit test. Of course, the worst possible thing you could do is lose frame, take her seriously, and/or grovel at her feet begging for it. https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/240/the_ultimate_shit_test_withholding_sex Read this.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:41 PM
1

So.. What gives? Was this an attempt to weaponize sex? Yes. She wanted to see how far she could manipulate you. Was she trying to use sex so I can "open" myself and tell her that what she did is not right and I did not like it? Bingo. It was all just one giant shit test. A pretty disrespectful one, too. Decide how you (do or don't) handle it.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:37 PM
1

her: "Well I guess we wont be doing anything then for awhile" I would have said "Are you using sex to manipulate me into shaving my beard? I can't believe you. We're done." And actually mean it. This behavior is unacceptable, but that's just me. Look how immediately she tries to make this about sex. It's her only weapon to get you to do what you want. Instead of asking nicely, she commanded you to do it. That for me is a dealbreaker.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:47 AM
1

NO RESPONSE. She is looking for closure. Do not give her any closure. Closure to her is means to make you look bad so she can move on. Do not respond. If you haven't already, good. Keep it that way. The whole reason why she came back after ghosting you is twofold. She was hoping you would come chasing after her. The fact that you didn't shows her (a) you have other options and can get another girl, which as an alpha trait, and (b) she's not the special snowflake worth chasing. It bruised her lit…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:36 AM
1

Who's paying for the home? I would say "I'll be coming home, then I'll be kicking you out." If you have a plate, she's obviously not much of a wife. I assume you have a plate because she's not putting out. I would also lawyer up and prepare for a divorce.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:34 AM
2

KILL THE BETA Kill the beta https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/21/kill-the-beta-2/
/r/askTRP18/11/16 03:46 PM
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What to do if you see your LTR of X years preparing to branchswing? End it before she does. The relationship is already over. She's decided to move on, but is looking for an excuse. If you stick around, she'll do things bitchy girls tend to do, like drama and blowing things out of proportion. She will try to do this to convince herself that leaving you was the right choice. In either case, she's already made up her mind. It's not a matter of if, but when. The best way to end it is on your terms,…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:30 AM
1

How many times do I have to say this? DO NOT GIVE HER CLOSURE. She is looking for validation. Do not give it to her. She's an ex anyway, why are you even entertaining the idea? Want to know the best way to deal with exes? By not dealing with them.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:58 PM
1

Same here, except I have facial hair. Girls think I'm way younger. They're surprised when I tell them I'm 24.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:50 PM
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Now the Redpill has got it in my head that if she actually wanted to fuck me, she would make more of an effort or just straight up say yeah. This is true. If she really is busy, she will reach out to you later as well. So guys, can a woman still want a piece of you if she isn't making a fool of herself and looking really eager to meet you? This is the wrong frame of mind. You shouldn't give one ounce of fuck. This is onitis tier behavior. While she's going out to make up her mind you should go f…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 06:54 PM
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Hate push ups tho Good, triple up on those. You aren't making progress until you bulldoze through the hardest shit.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 06:46 PM
1

wait a few days in order to have sex that SHE will enjoy as well! Blowjobs and anal aren't enjoyable now? What? Why bother waiting at all? Just do it again in a few days. It's not a one-or-the-other thing unless you make it out to be, in which case, is YOUR problem. I have a vested interest in keeping my partner happy Then you agree, you'd be making excuses to give him sexual favors instead of making him wait, and that there really isn't any excuse.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 06:06 PM
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No. You're clearly either a woman or have never dated women before. In either case, she has a mouth and a butt which don't bleed, so there really is no excuse. If she's into him, she will make excuses to fuck him, not make excuses to wait. Waiting around is beta behavior and puts you in a box you don't want to be in. Once you're in there, you'll always be hoping and waiting, meanwhile she's moved on because you didn't escalate quickly enough. That's how it works, like it or not. This is speaking…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:53 PM
2

Did you make it known to her that this is the pain she put you through when she cheated on you with your friend? Or is she so winded up in her own misery that she didn't even for a second consider that you felt this way toward her?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 01:33 AM
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No, you're trying to snipe this girl. Sniping is beta behavior, and girls can spot it from a mile away. The best closure is no closure. If he's going to say anything, the only thing is "That's alright, I've got enough friends" and leave it at that. Either case, moving onto a new girl is the only correct thing to do afterwards.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:21 PM
2

Give us the details of how it went.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:16 PM
2

Upvoting this. You clearly know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:13 PM
1

Real question here is, why the fuck do you tolerate the flip flopping? This is what I came here to hear. My doubts on this was I should tolerate it because she is family. Looks like this should not be the case. Thanks for the bitter red pill. You mean the part where you go away for an hour and then come back and pretend like everything is good? I mean the part where I go away for at least two weeks of no contact, after which SHE initiates contact with me and tries acting all sweet because she's …
/r/askTRP11/11/16 08:18 PM
1

when she pulls the shit again you can actually call her out. Tell her how you really feel. The "tell her how you feel" and "open communication" sounds like women's feminine centric prerogatives to me. Not to mention, she already knows EXACTLY how I feel. I make that apparent with my action. I go no contact (even when she does reach out to me) until at least she calms down a bit. Option A isn't an issue because she KNOWS she's fucks it up. In fact, my gut's telling me that she's only getting clos…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 05:27 PM
1

I concur with this. A woman's pussy is her only real power. Take that away, and she'll have to either shape up for you or push you away. Chances are, if she's a regular, she probably won't, and give you drama instead, after which THEN she will try to break up, because she'll feel it's done on her terms.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 04:47 PM
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Listen to the medium and not the message. She wants your attention. She noticed you left and wants you to keep paying attention to her but she doesn't want to put in the effort in having you. She's stringing you a long, bro. Playing you like a violin. Radio silence or hard next.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 04:13 PM
1

Dude, what the fuck. This is the most pathetic thing I've read all month. Why are you letting this girl string you along? You say you're a MGTOW, but you sure don't value your time, and neither is this bitch. There is only one correct answer here. She fucks you TODAY or she never sees you again. If she can give some shmup who she didn't even like a meaningless fuck, she should be more than willing to give someone she likes to as well. She said it herself that her rule is unfair, and it's time fo…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:52 PM
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later that night confronting her in a calm and assertive way and telling her her behavior was unacceptable. That went well, she apologized and *was obviously loving being told off. * She's getting to comfortable. Why are you enabling that behavior? If she loves being told off, she will do it again to get that feel-good feeling from being told off. You should incite the real fear of dread instead if she is going to do shit that upsets you. If shit she does stirs you the wrong way, you eject her o…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 04:50 AM
1

She made snapchat stories around 2:30 am so I know she flat out ignored my message. To me this isn't acceptable, and she has done it multiple times, yet when I ignore her texts because I'm legitimately busy she will complain to me in person. You have boundaries. Enforce them. Do not discuss your boundaries - that is shit women do. Personally, I think this chick is not even worth your time. She holds a double standard and knows she's doing it. She's secretly resenting you for putting up with her …
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:32 AM
1

How would you feel if one of your male friends kicked you out like that after living with you for 7 months because he just wasnt "feeling it anymore" and he knew you would be homeless? I'd be pretty fucking disappointed in myself for (a) being in that situation to begin with and not having my own place, and (b) would do whatever it is I need to do to stay out of the streets. Blowjobs are free, they don't take money out of my wallet. If it meant not being homeless, there really is no reason not t…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 01:26 AM
2

But if I throw her out she has nowhere to go? Not your problem. You've set your boundary. If she wants to stay, she has to give you what you want. It's put out or get out. Simple. If she doesn't respect that, she doesn't respect you. If you let her stay, you don't respect you, either. Throw this girl out, she's bad for your health. Don't be surprised if she suddenly genuinely wants to sleep with you after your stern enforcement and putting your foot down.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 03:33 AM
1

Hi, I am pretty sure I'm not entirely welcome here Then why are you here? I don't respect anyone who refuses to follow their better judgement. Go to /r/redpillwomen or some shit.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 03:00 AM
2

Why do you feel the need to tell us all you're a woman? That has absolutely nothing with what you're talking about. You're just looking for validation and extra attention, AWALT. Off with you!
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:35 AM
1

when men talk about their boundaries, it's a sign of weakness. Can someone explain this a little further? It makes sense in my gut but I can't articulate why this is true.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 08:35 PM
2

refusing to give me an answer. If she doesn't choose, then choose for her. Leave now. Do not give her any resolve or any parting words. You set you boundary very early on: "Don't fuck this dude if you want to keep me around", and now she's pushing that boundary. You only have one option. Do not defend, explain enable, or rationalize. Just leave, full stop. Remember, she was never yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:18 PM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2016/06/06/the-talk/
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:14 PM
8

Read the 48 laws of power, and take advantage them.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:06 PM
3

Read the rest of what I said. It still applies.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 05:00 AM
1

This is standard stuff. You need to read more sidebar. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/
/r/askTRP30/10/16 04:27 AM
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99% of the time, a woman will not suggest a threesome unless she has someone specific in mind. I don't think you realize just how sinister she is being. Fucking someone else in the guise of "a present". You do realize that accepting it is giving her ammunition to use against you, right? And it's something for her to hamster away for treating you like shit in the future.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 04:23 AM
5

It's the same as if they called you a player. Follow standard protocol. A&A, amused mastery, etc.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 04:17 AM
1

For the rest of the night I simply ignored her, she came over to me a few times asking "Did I make you angry" "I'm sorry". I just brushed her away and I didnt talk to her. I received texts saying "Do you want to come over?" "I'm sorry" "I'm very sorry!" later on. I haven't replied. Good. She knows she stepped out of line. You applied dread. Tingles ensued. Honestly, I don't think this manipulative bitch is worth your time. She's shown you her true colors (yeah, AWALT, I know, but doing it overtl…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:37 AM
-1

Stop thinking like a sniper and start thinking like a shotgun. Here is the red pilled truth for you to swallow: She will never be yours. You have MAJOR onitis and her pussy is drier than the sahara desert because of it. If you want her to like you, you need to go fuck other women, go lift, and lose interest in this girl. She will not like you as long as you like her.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:37 PM
3

Listen to the medium and not the message. You need to learn women's intentions for what they are, not what they say they are. She wants a 'break' but she doesn't want to break up. This should clue you in what she really wants - a break from YOU. Likely, she wants to be able to ride the cock carousel or to look for someone better (likely the latter, due to hypergamy), all while having you as her safety net. Chances are she's preparing an escape (even if she doesn't realize it). This happens when …
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:11 PM
2

and will kill your relationship with this girl if you keep it up Chances are, it already did kill them. She's planning her escape, but she won't let it be known until just before she jumps ship.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:07 PM
2

This is a problem of overdose of dopamine. Your mind is increasingly building tolerance to it, and like a drug addict, you'll need more and more of it to get that same "high" you had before. It's the same effect as "once you have that thing you want, you immediately lost interest in it". Gear toward self-improvement. You need to flush the toxins out of your body. Eat better, sleep better, do more cardio, and lift a shit ton more. Be wary, the people around you will demotivate you. You must not a…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:04 PM
3

What's happening to me? You started lifting.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:59 PM
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Whenever a woman tells me "we're not fucking tonight" I laugh at their face, because EVERY SINGLE TIME we end up fucking that night. Hell, I even make fun of them for it, "good job not fucking me tonight" after doing the deed. Whenever a woman says it, she's already thinking about fucking you. It's a standard shit test, but she also wants to peg you down a notch by seeing you rejected. This of course, means she assumes you want to fuck her in the first place and so she puts her pussy on a pedest…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:53 PM
1

when she get's mad I try to explain myself, but that pisses her off even more You've got a lot of work to do. Never DEER
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:06 PM
1

Sounds like you have a bipolar chick on your hands. It also seems like this shit is calculated. Distance yourself immediately.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:04 PM
3

This is a male space, and you just seem to be looking for validation. go to /r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:02 PM
1

You care too much about what other people (including her) think. These are her problems, not yours
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:54 PM
1

This is standard protocol stuff. Listen to what she does, not what she says. It looks like she's getting some LMR and wants you to push her through, but be wary, this could be her trying to string you along. Be indifferent, and outcome independent, no matter which way it goes. If she really wanted to fuck, she would come over and fuck. You've got the right mindset, with not getting involved in her drama. Don't even bother responding it if she says "she doesn't know if she wants to do this". She …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:51 PM
2

With a big grin, strong eye contact, and then laughter. "That depends on whether you're a good girl or not."
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:41 PM
3

That screams of beta. It basically means "I'll be your doormat and you can walk all over me and I'll worship you for it"
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:40 PM
1

"The biggest power women have is your fear of whatever it is they're going to do." - Patrice O'Neal You see that filter you got? That feeling in your gut but that filter that won't let it through? Butcher that filter. Say what you want to say. Having balls is a masculine trait, and women are attracted to masculinity. Out with it. She'll test you for it, but it just means she's interested. "That's not true, you're a bit of a bitch too!" - D&A "Yeah, I know. Stop being a cunt then." - straight tal…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:39 PM
6

Overall it felt pretty good to not be shackled at the prospect of getting laid. This is exactly why her interest in you went up. She sent a few text saying I should have stayed and almost apologizing for having her friend over(a point I did not bring up). This is a good sign. Actually this disqualifies (Set Boundaries) option - she knows what is and is not acceptable, that's why she's apologizing. She probably brought her friend over to cockblock you (or her friend overstayed her welcome in an e…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:24 PM
0

"EXCUSE ME, I'M TALKING HERE." - loudly "HEY, did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours?" - get their attention. Then when they are quiet, "Thank you... now, as I was saying before I was rudely interrupted..." "Don't interrupt." - command it "You interrupted me - I'm this close to leaving." Pretty much directly confront it. Or be the louder talker. Their talking over you is a challenge. Two can play at that game. You can recognize what they're covertly doing, and then take i…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:15 PM
2

Take control of your life by owning it. Do not let anyone, man or woman, expect things from you. You owe them nothing. If they make an attack at you, lash back twice as hard. But don't do it if they're baiting you for a reaction - in that case, cut them out of your life permanently. If you want your masculinity back then be masculine. Don't be a pushover, don't be like your dad. Be the man that pushes other's boundaries, not the one who's boundaries are constantly pushed.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:07 PM
2

I'm 24. I discovered TRP 2 years ago. I was seeking self-improvement, read a shit ton of books, picked up Gorilla Mindset before decided to take control of my life, started lifting, and later discovered this place. I was never a loser, but I did feel myself waning, and realized it was because there was an attack on masculinity in the west. Especially with shit like feminism and a lack of male spaces. After reading up on rationalmale, it all made sense why this was happening. I also understood it…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:26 PM
6

"Since the current year. It's 2016, grandma."
/r/askTRP17/10/16 03:14 PM
1

In a word, yes. But that doesn't mean that hooking up frequently and having casual sex makes you a winner, either. It's you being a winner that gives you opportunities to having casual sex, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 07:52 PM
2

listen to her actions and not her words. It sounds like she's stringing you along.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:54 PM
2

I don't even need to read all that text. The title alone is enough for us to get the idea. There is a simple guideline to go by for situations like that. It's called the Brad Pitt test. Would she make you wait if you were Brad Pitt? If you were, would you be ok with it? If the answers to both of those are "no", then move on. Staying will give her the wrong precedent. You want to avoid her giving you the "make him wait" mentality. That means instilling dread. If she won't provide you what you're …
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:41 PM
2

anti trp isn't necessarily feminism. I've layed many feminist girls, and all women are attracted to the same thing. Confidence. Good looks. Charm. Wit. Leadership. AWALT. Any woman who's not attracted to that is a woman who's cutting herself short. In other words, it's against women's best interests to be anti-trp. Their anti-trp techniques already exist anyway, in the form of shit tests.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 08:05 PM
2

I was all for this until this line: Sooner than later things will change No. Do not depend on it. That destroys outcome independence. If it were me, honestly, I'd leave this girl. Any girl too tired to do something for me isn't worth my time. I got other shit to do and there are too many women in the world who want to fuck me now for me to wait for this one to decide whether she's too tired or not. Fuck that shit.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:38 PM
1

I'm not particularly too bothered by it, but I do wonder if this is a sign of future infidelities Why is this even a question? She insisted "nothing happened" and you confirmed that something did indeed happen. Of course this is a red flag. She was doing exactly what a cheater does.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:27 PM
0

Ultimatums are for those who have no power. It's a desperate move, and women can smell desperation a mile away. Go with B. It has the bonus of making her hamster spin, it's pretty funny to watch. Make fun of it as you please, use amused mastery and A&A
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:07 AM
1

Do not apologize. Your mistake was taking her concern seriously. You should use amused mastery, dismiss her feelings and label her insecure, and have a good time without her. You should make it clear your happiness doesn't depend on her and if she chooses to be a worrywart, it wouldn't affect your night.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:26 PM
1

She is an insecure bitch who cannot handle rejection. A child. Treat her like a spoiled child. Do not take her emotions serious. Ignore her. You do not want to sleep with this bitch. She's beneath you.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:20 PM
3

This chick is clearly not into you. Plan your escape. She is gone now. Don't fight it, just let her go. Remove her from your life. It will save you time in the long run.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:16 PM
2

Trust, but verify. But seriously, she's going to another country. She's going to cheat. Accept it and let go of her, find a new girl. If she was LTR material she'd want you to go with her.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:57 PM
1

1: Don't lose your cool. 2: Be amused by her attempts to piss you off. Remember it's her goal to piss you off, don't feed the little troll. 3: Be genuinely amused by her utterly pathetic attempts to piss you off. She will get more bitchy, which in response, will make you laugh harder. 4: Do not acknowledge her. If she starts acting sweet, see through her mask. She's just trying to manipulate you. Humor her but let it be known that you see through her tricks. 5: Surround yourself with people who …
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:54 PM
1

This is a power grab. Apply dread and subtly imply that you don't want to marry her. She will change her tune pretty quick.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 01:50 PM
1

There are no cheats or shortcuts. There is only experience. Start experimenting, and calibrate on the woman per context.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 08:16 PM
3

So let me get this straight. She cheated on you, and then put the blame on YOU for it? Are you just gonna take it? Are going to even let it dwell on your conscience?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 08:10 PM
1

TRP is amoral. Ask yourself what the best thing you can do for your own self improvement and do it.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:46 PM
2

Here's where you didn't fuck up: dodging the "such a nice guy, be my bff" act. This is bullshit and you know better. This is probably why she kissed you at the end of it. Here's where you did fuck up: not escalating hard enough second round. Also giving her too much alcohol the first time she came to your place. You were also sending mixed signals to this chick. Stop caring what girls think of you and do whatever the fuck you want and say whatever you want, even if it's about them, even to their…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:40 PM
3

The only person you should be upset at is yourself. You're showing narcissistic traits in your post, blaming your girl, blaming your best friend, etc. Fact is you're a beta right now. Own up to it and improve yourself. Let your friend have this girl, and go fuck other women. But first, LIFT goddamn it. And escalate faster next time.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:31 PM
2

just say you know what you did. That's a form of closure. Do not do this.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:25 PM
2

Do not give her closure, and do NOT shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:24 PM
1

Solid gold right here
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:35 PM
1

This isn't advice to get him laid with his cousin. It's to get her to shut up with the feminist rhetoric.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 03:02 PM
1

You didn't escalate fast enough. The instant a woman gives you IOIs, you are supposed to "take it upstairs". Surprise her with a kiss or some shit and make out profusely. Ask her (or better yet, tell her) to bend over and spank her. Be funny but make your intentions clear. You were too much of a pussy. Chances are she lost interest.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 08:23 PM
17

No. Go fuck other women. Jesus fuck, you're setting yourself up to be an orbiter.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 08:20 PM
2

Call him out on his shit in private if you have a problem with it. Only reason any man would agree to a woman's insanity is if he wants to get into her pants, subconsciously or not.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:01 PM
17

Take your cousin out of your life. Tell her it's your body, your choice. Use her feminist ramblings against her. Also tell her to stop being insecure and that it's not her place to judge who you fuck or who agrees to it. After all, they're "stronk independent wymyn" lol
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:00 PM
-1

I pay for nothing. My plates pay for me. Why? Because I am the prize. Paying for her puts you in the betabux category.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 06:12 PM
1

I'm doubling up on this. OP, they're trying to weigh you down. Your mother, whether she realizes this or not, is falling into typical feminine imperative. It's not in her best interests that a male like you goes up the social ladder, but it is in yours. I mean just listen to what she's saying: "Don't lift, eat cake!" It's a dead giveaway.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:16 PM
2

Your ego isn't hurting you here. If you gave in, you'd lose frame anyway. Never abandon your principles. It will lead to insecurity, lack of identity, and women abhor that. You maintained frame by walking away. You don't need any confirmation from us to know that. What happened happened. She treated you like a backup plan and you weren't cool with that. There's no need to prove anything to her. Of course she knew you were her plan B, but it's against her best interests for you to know that, so o…
/r/askTRP25/09/16 07:53 PM
5

She's looking for closure. Follow standard protocol. Do not contact, and especially do not give her closure.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:18 AM
0

If you kill yourself, your onitis will laugh. Her self esteem will skyrocket, and she'll spin it as "boys kill themselves because they can't get me ;)"
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:15 AM
1

DING DING DING Right answer, right here. Listen, OP, your biological imperative is screaming at you to take care of this girl. But your ability to control it is what separates you from her. This girl left you. She has no self control, and she only has her own best interests at heart as she tugs your strings of sympathy. You must hold frame. Do not give in, because the instant you do, she will lose respect for you. Use your better judgement here; if you take her back, how does that reflect on you…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:28 PM
0

Now I realize that it's me that is the problem Correct. worst thing about it is that I can't do a thing to change it Not with that attitude you can't. First off, realize that the red pill is a male space, don't try to shame us. Even if you see yourself as special, the vast majority of women have it absolutely heavenly. What you're experiencing is about as terrible as a socially awkward 16 year old male. Do you know what most girls say to guys like those? "Man up!" Funny thing is, it's actually g…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:50 PM
1

doubling up on that advice
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:51 PM
2

I just want to know a few ways to make her feel more secure in the relationship For the love of god, DO NOT DO THIS. If she gets too comfortable, she will think herself above you. When a girl gets comfortable, she doesn't compare your SMV to hers anymore, she puts hers on top of yours. Once she does that, you can improve yourself all you want, and she'll still always perceive herself as higher, simply because she "had" you. You must always, always, give her that faint sense of dread, that seed o…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:41 PM
3

You don't. You move on and approach other women. Remember, this chick came onto you. You never asked for any of this. You don't owe her commitment just because she fucked you, just like she doesn't owe you sex because you spend time/being nice to her. You're not a machine where sex comes in and commitment comes out.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:37 PM
8

I wouldn't associate myself with such a girl. I would just next her. If she presses or flips out, tell her that her jealousy is a turnoff and hardnext her.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 02:59 AM
1

Do not reply at all. Period. Let her hamster spin.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 10:07 PM
1

Clearly she's using you for her time. You're her time hoe. next EDIT: Stop wasting your time with texting. That shit is for logistics only. Go talk to girls face-to-face.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 02:11 AM
4

The answer is simple, but it looks like you're willfully ignoring the option because you don't like it. Don't depend on your mom. Find another woman to take care of your son. You said you're good with women, right? Get one of those.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 02:10 AM
2

She's become more mindful of herself in the two years we've been together versus when we first started dating. You do realize there's a very real possibility that she's shaping up with an agenda to get you to commit? I want you to think very deeply about what her incentive to keep this act up will be once she locks you down. Take off your oneitis goggles and look at this from an outside perspective. Of course she's going to be on her best behavior if she's adamant on marrying you. She can't risk…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 02:06 AM
2

Yeah, if only women could fix up their act and like people for who they are initially. Oh well. I don't give two shits anymore, I'm continually getting what I want. Go ahead and keep making fun of my manhood, it makes me laugh harder when they suck on it. Hahaha
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 01:46 AM
1

Don't waste your time blackknighting this girl. Use the energy for self-improvement in the end. Only that will benefit you above all.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:37 PM
1

You're promoting the "make him wait" bullshit mentality that women impose to appear not being a slut. That sort of fiasco also promotes manipulative behavior. If she'll make you wait to prove something to you, what makes you think she won't withhold sex in the relationship to prove other things as well? "You don't give me enough attention!" "You don't treat me like you used to!" "Blah blah blah blah!" Giving in to it only makes her lose respect for you. She will see you in the BB provider role. …
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:06 PM
2

Aw, how cute. You don't have a real comeback. A facepalm, oh yeah, like doubly facepalm, as you think out "oh, Chad~" Hah. Touch yourself some more.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 06:35 PM
19

I MIGHT consider if you have a few million dollar net worth but even then I'm not sure. ...and here we have it, folks! Straight from the horses mouth. Have enough money or enough alpha and EVERY skeptic will reconsider. Hah, like clockwork
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 03:12 PM
5

And you have wandering eyes, and at the very least fantasizing about getting some good gorilla sex from Chad on the side, for that sweet forbidden sexytime. Who do you think you're bullshitting here? You're not special.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 03:05 PM
6

Doubling up on his. I ended up not giving a shit, and girls picked up on this. Now I couldn't care less about them but I'm raking in pussy. This is who I am now. Feels pretty good tbh
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 03:02 PM
1

Sounds like run-of-the-mill LMR. Bulldoze right through it, and be funny about it. Don't be afraid to poke fun of them and always be ready to walk away at their "inexperience". A man with options is attractive, and you want THEM working for YOU, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 02:49 PM
2

I know exactly what you mean, because I'm experiencing the very same thing. You are not alone. I cannot give you advice to make your relationships more fulfilling with women, but I can tell you that the bonding you crave, that dutiful, honest, sense of connection you crave, can be satisfied. You need a best friend, someone who is a brother to you, someone you can depend on and share your life experiences with. But it will never be a woman. It must be filled with a brotherly bond. Women are simpl…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 10:01 PM
3

I've smashed 3 different girls this week. I've masturbated 6 times. Who cares?
/r/askTRP18/09/16 03:57 PM
4

RSDTyler
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:26 PM
1

It's a run-of-the-mill shit test she uses to weed out losers My response? "What boyfriend, your imaginary one?" and laugh at her face. Or, if you're feeling ballsy, "Sounds like you're shit out of luck, i'm gonna have to smash your friend instead"
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:22 PM
1

What you are having is DOMS. It's your muscles 'waking up'. Enter the Matrix. Neo: "Why do my eyes hurt?" Morpheus: "You've never used them before" So give it a day rest, then workout the next, day rest, workout next... rinse and repeat. It'll will stop by the 2nd or 3rd week. You'll keep getting some level of DOMS, but it won't be nearly as bad.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:13 PM
1

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ ctrl+f “I bet you say that to all the girls”
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:54 PM
1

just approach women with the intention of being friends No. This is terrible advice. You don't friendship your way into pussy. That is what the friendzone is for. Listen OP, don't -ever- be anxious about presenting yourself as a sexual being. It's okay to flirt. And if she takes offense, it's because she's insecure. You're okay with your sexuality. You embraced it. Do not be an asexual being in front of women or they will see you as such. Make no mistake, some will try to "shame" you back into t…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:37 PM
1

Do you go digging through your garbage? No? Then don't go looking for her. You dumped her. Or she dumped you. Whatever the case, you don't go looking for garbage.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:49 PM
1

By being selfish. Having standards. And pretending that she's a guy, with a pussy, and who like to be dominated. Girls are not magical, and they're not special snowflakes either. Don't treat them as such.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 01:53 PM
5

Never explain yourself, justify yourself, or rationalize yourself. You are the prize. The instant you start taking what she says seriously, you legitamize her stance and enter her frame. She's a plate, remember? Next her and move on.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 09:11 PM
-8

"You wouldn't have brought it up unless you wanted to show me. Or are you trying to make me jealous of someone? Har har, nice try."
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:52 PM
1

She is manipulative. Leave her. She is not an angel she's trying to make herself out to be. She's the enemy. If she loved you, she wouldn't torture you with mixed signals, it's as simple as that. She's prepping you for being her beta bux. For fucks sake, she took some guy's number in front of you. Is that who you want yourself to be? Her little servant? She's not attracted to you. She doesn't want to 'fix' you. She fucking with you, plain and simple. Everything she's doing is for her own drama a…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:48 PM
1

Listen, you treat all women like they are your little sister. Make a joke out of everything she says. "Lighter." "No way, you're gonna set something on fire."
/r/askTRP14/09/16 02:26 PM
3

That's the idea. Plausible deniability helps. You need to put it in a way where if she gets insecure about it, she will make herself a hypocrite. If she starts putting up drama, use AA or walk away. In any case, always be ready to walk away. Never let her end the relationship in her terms. And never give her any closure in the event you do choose to walk away.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:53 PM
6

So let me get this straight... She has had this problem for ~3 years she was with you, and during this span, she never took this seriously? And then has the audacity to push for marriage? BRO. WALK AWAY. DO NOT MARRY THIS GIRL. She doesn't love you. How can you say she loves you if she doesn't even put out on-demand? You know what the equivalent of that is? Your time. I want you to watch this video. Watch it an learn. You are a time hoe. And she's having a field day with you. https://www.youtube…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:40 PM
1

She lost respect for you the instant you took her back. She probably didn't realize it yet, but it will kick in soon enough. Break up with this girl. MAKE SURE YOU DO IT ON YOUR TERMS. Leave her. You've already developed oneitis, but you can still redeem yourself by cutting contact now. Do not explain yourself. Do not justify yourself. Do not do rationalize it for her. Just tell her it's not working out and go. She's out of your league, and is just a drama-bomb waiting to explode at this point.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:19 PM
15

You DO realize that it's all in your head, right? You love the image you created of her, the illusion she made herself out to be. The actual girl you think she is? She's a harpee, a shrew, and a manipulative woman who put you through the depression you're in now. You must understand this. And the first step to recovery is to go fuck other women ASAP. She's gone. Don't cry like a bitch. She doesn't care about you, and you shouldn't care about her. Why emotionally invest in someone who won't recip…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:07 PM
1

She's a conservative girl who doesn't do bars and isn't a social media whore, and is usually respectful and never crosses that line, but lately she's been a bitch like she never has. Let me tell you what this really means. But lately she's changed into exactly that bitch she never was You have onitis. Next her. Cut contact, erase her number, delete her facebook, do whatever you can to get away from this girl. Go fuck other women, starting TODAY. This bitch need to learn she's replaceable in your…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:32 PM
1

lift
/r/askTRP13/09/16 06:50 AM
0

It would be funny if you actually raped her. After she made the accusation. And let her know that she's sleeping in the bed she made.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 05:20 AM
1

Do it now. Have your lawyer write her a letter that he's prepared for a case.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 05:17 AM
0

It is time for a next. Don't bother. You should NEVER commit on her terms. DO NOT NEGOTIATE WITH TERRORISTS Even if you do commit, she will never respect you. Do not be shamed into commitment. Just move on. Don't even give her any closure. I'm serious about this last part, too. It'll do wonders.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:35 PM
1

Amused mastery or NEXT. I suggest both.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:31 PM
1

Good advice, thanks
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:11 PM
1

Thanks for the motivation!
/r/askTRP11/09/16 09:38 PM
1

My mission is to bodybuild, though. If I can't do that right away, I'd like to go about preparing for it in the most efficient way possible.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 04:00 PM
5

Don't be cap'n save-a-hoe
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:55 PM
2

Great, this is what I came here to hear. I should go through with it, then. I was slightly worried that it may cause a health issue, but the consensus here says the opposite.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:53 PM
2

Great, thanks for the help. I wasn't aware of BCAAs.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:36 PM
1

Thanks for the heads up. It is just an ache and soreness, so I'll go again and take it easier until my body's used to it and work upwards from there.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:27 PM
3

Don't imply I'm a pussy for trying to be efficient. I haven't had DOMS before, and hurting myself would set me back. I take what you mean is it's in my best interest to go work through the pain.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:04 PM
6

Do not give her closure. Listen man, women crave closure like men crave sex. She broke up with you, but she won't be happy until she is sure she made the right decision by seeing you're miserable without her. It's a very selfish thing she's doing. You know what girls hate? When you leave on YOUR terms. They need drama like men need sex. She absolutely needs closure. Do not provide her with it, don't even give her so much as the time of day. She will go absolutely crazy (even crazier than she is …
/r/askTRP11/09/16 02:57 PM
3

Been there, done that. Girls always blow themselves over proportion. Their ego, their expectations, and their beauty.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:56 AM
1

Sounds like you're going through some kind of depression. Hit the gym. Go monk mode for a while. And eat right - this is the most important.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:45 AM
1

Stop focusing on the girls and start focusing on what makes you happy. The girls are only along for the ride. Why are you torturing yourself? By the sounds of it, you're just good at imitating all the right alpha traits. What you should be doing is being yourself, doing things for you.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:39 AM
3

Bringing an ex into your relationship, at any point in your relationship, is a bad idea. I hate to say this, but you probably need to know. She may have cheated on you already with him. Use trust but verify techniques.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:17 PM
1

ALWAYS BE READY TO CALL IT QUITS. Your most powerful asset, the most useful tool in your toolbox, is the ability to walk away. Take that away and you're handicapping yourself. It's he equivalent of a woman's ability to not be obese. I repeat, always be ready to walk away, at any time. Next time she threatens to leave, tell her "there's the door", in a nonchalant way. Don't even lift your newspaper. You do not deal with threats, and you do not deal with ultimatums. Read: Do not negotiate with ter…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:46 PM
1

LOL since when do women know what they want?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:33 AM
4

I'm an 18 year old guy and I met this 18 year old girl on Plenty Of Fish Yes, she is a slut. I don't even have to read the rest. Stop trying to rationalize she's special. She's not special. Neither are you. She's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 08:49 PM
1

There's a reason why LTR is hardmode
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:42 PM
2

but once I start blushing I get self conscious about it Fix that. So your face turns pink. If you don't feel anxious talking to people who cares? They're only reacting to your response to yourself. Think of them as a mirror.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:28 PM
1

If that's the case, then it's this girl that has issues, not you. Just use amused mastery. Treat her little tantrums like you would your little sister's. If she can't take a little banter, she's not worth keeping anyway. What a vibe kill.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:24 PM
1

Well there you go. She'll make time if she gives two shits. People make excuses when they don't want to go. Either way, whether she goes or doesn't he wins. He can find a girl more interested.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:21 PM
1

possibly leave (never date a girl who won't do sexual things for you she's done for an ex). This is the option I'd go for. I would break it off and not tell her why. If she presses for answer, just say "You know exactly why" but never overtly state it. She won't be able to use it as ammunition against you until she blows a crippling blow to her own ego first.
/r/askMRP07/09/16 02:59 PM
2

I didn't reveal my N-Count, i multiplied it by 7. You're still making the same mistake. Even if it's fake, don't reveal your N-count. Do you think it matters if it's true or not? Actually read the link I provided this time and learn.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:55 PM
4

Never, under any circumstances, reveal your N-count. https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/22/youve-been-with-how-many-girls/ The red pill didn't fail you. YOU failed it.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:22 PM
1

Man, what a fucking beta you are. Bluepilled as fuck, even in face of the facts.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:30 AM
1

Always listen to your gut. Always.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 03:04 AM
1

She, she, she,she . Doesnt matter. What do YOU want? Whats best for YOU? I'd like to emphasize this bit, OP. You may have left being her beta bux, but you are still thinking like a beta bux. Stop focusing on her so much. Why does it matter if you know she's beneath you? Do what's most beneficial to YOU.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:52 AM
2

"It's a shame you never met a real man, sweetheart." "What, is your self esteem so low that you have to drag everyone down into your depression with you? Hey, it's not my fault I outshine it. No, actually it is. Hahaha" "Looks like someone's got a case of the Mondays lolol" "Calm your tits, Jesus. Lol" Just treat them like a child. Use Amused mastery. They're trying to pull you into their frame with their emotions. Just dismiss it or even make fun of it like you would treat a child throwing tant…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:41 AM
1

"Either you suck my dick or get out of my life" Meh, sounds kind of butthurt. You shouldn't show emotion, show passion instead. I would just ask: "I'm horny, invite me over. I wanna taste you" If yes, win. If no, then say "K, bye" Rinse and repeat. She'll go a little crazy at first, but she'll quickly get the message that if she wants to be with you, she has to give you what you want.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 09:02 PM
2

She misses her beta orbiter and wants you back for her validation. The proper course of action is simple. Force her to make a decision where she either fucks you or she no longer contacts you. If she doesn't see you "in that light", then you don't want to see her. No hard feelings, it's just not your thing to stick around with girls who don't put out. She's an energy hog. A time hoe. Don't give her what she wants. The fact that you're having this mentality already is a good thing, you're seeing …
/r/askTRP04/09/16 02:20 AM
4

It sounds like she's being manipulative. Don't entertain the idea. Remember, regardless of the situation, the most powerful tool a man has is the ability to walk away. It's when faced with this option that a woman reveals her true intentions and opinions about you. "You don't love me..." "Oh, I see. I thought we had something special going on... I guess it's not working out, c-ya" Or something along the lines (and it's imperative that you're dumping HER, not the other way around).
/r/askTRP04/09/16 02:15 AM
1

Drop her and improve yourself. Stop worrying about her. She disqualified herself from being your gf
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:00 AM
1

Because she is a child. Why haven't you realized this yet? All Women Are Like That. She will bald-face lie, and actively pin her wrongdoings on you, to absolve herself of her guilt. She's that desperate to avoid responsibility for her actions. And she will change history (in her mind) until it either never happened or she was completely justified in doing so. Just break up with her. And DON'T give her any resolve. You tell her she's a liar and you don't want liars in your life and you go COMPLET…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:58 PM
1

Listen to what she does, not what she says. This is pretty standard procedure, dude.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:14 AM
2

"Oh, so you're trying shaming tactics, now? Do you think putting me into a box like that will get you what you want? I bet you're a gold digger." Or "Wow, you're so charming. I really want to give you a cigarette now... laugh" Or "Real men don't cave in to banshees like you. Go away." The idea is, to recognize what she is doing, and to turn it from covert language (their natural game) to overt language (your dominant male game). By bringing to attention what she's doing, you are revealing her fo…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:01 PM
0

"Ha! Says the chick who wanted to get spanked for a roll! Hahaha!"
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:58 PM
1

I must ask, how do you view monogamous relationships? Do you choose not to partake given you ultra red pilled view of the world? I choose to take advantage of whatever benefits me the most, plain and simple. This means having my own interests put first, which is mostly self improvement, abundance mentality, and a general IDGAF attitude. A monogamous relationship doesn't really benefit me. If a girl I was going out with wears skimpy clothing and parties a lot, what do you think that does for me? …
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:10 PM
1

Keeping it real is one thing, but you're outright losing frame. You never ask a girl anything that even remotely implies sexual innuendo, no matter how remote. That's why you tell a girl where you'll be if you're going on a date, not ask her out. They're looking for confidence, and you're displaying cowardice. They can smell the insecurity and it is rancid to them.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:00 PM
2

Wrong. That's entering her frame. It's also lacking abundance mentality. Males lead, they don't wait and hope. Waiting and hoping are women's roles. Askada has the right idea.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 12:36 AM
1

First and foremost important thing is confidence. There is no beating around the bush here, you either know what you want and have the balls to take it, or you don't. You have to do it smoothly too. Be too aggressive and you'll come off as a caveman. You want to come off with the masculinity of a caveman, but with the class of Don Draper as well. Don't be afraid to be sexual. Especially when it's unexpected. Bitches love that shit. And if they didn't, they weren't into you to begin with and woul…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 12:24 AM
1

Do you think it's natural for a human male to be exclusive? It is in our biological imperative to impregnate as many fertile, young, healthy females as possible. It is a female's biological imperative to be impregnated and protected by the strongest, highest value male. Guess who submitted to who's frame? Women are very good at manipulating unsuspecting men. They have this ability to trick a guy into believing what's good for them (as an individual) is good for the guy and the relationship, even…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 12:08 AM
1

I feel pretty confident in the relationship at this point because she does not hold power over me. But she does have power over you. In fact, you say it in the previous sentence. we have agreed to remain exclusive When girls say "we", they really mean "you".
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:17 PM
2

I say you dodged a bullet by not hiring/helping him.If he does this now, imagine what he'd do if he was in a position where he had even more influence on you. I would keep frame and ignore. If it gets too annoying to deal with, you should just tell him to tell his friends to stop talking smack behind your back. He would either tell them to stop or not (in which case he thinks it's working - not exactly good for you). Actually, scratch that, just file a formal complaint about his friends to HR. H…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:17 PM
2

Yes. She threw a hissy fit because she tried to put you in the beta box and you didn't have any of that. "Haha, you can't have this~" - this was probably in her mind. But kicking her out told her that you had other options and that she's not so special. Thus it was a huge blow to her ego. Not only that, you forced her to put you in a position where you win either way. Either she puts out, in which case, you get sex and win, or she leaves, in which case, you saved yourself a lot of your time/bull…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:44 PM
1

That makes zero sense.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:15 PM
1

So now you're saying they're owed an confrontation?
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:10 AM
1

I was under the impression that you thought assholes are owed an explanation.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 02:56 AM
2

Her: No, we are closed today. With a smart attitude You: "I'll find someone more helpful, then." walk away and continue
/r/askTRP23/08/16 12:00 AM
3

another part tells me, "No, relax cowboy. It's too soon, take it slow." That is the beta part. Kill that weak self. You will become stronger.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:41 PM
1

Confrontation is not giving someone the time of day You're right. Confrontation takes even more effort than that. Assholes don't deserve justification. Stop making it out like they are entitled to crap.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:37 PM
2

Wrong. Friends have that privilege. Ex-friends who disrespected you don't get the time of day. You don't owe them anything. You don't need to justify yourself to people who disrespected you either.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:17 PM
3

soft next her simple as that. you held frame. don't lose it over some onitis
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:10 PM
-3

That's like asking "how do I confidently breathe?" You just do it. Don't think about it - just throw it out there and keep rolling with it.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:36 PM
24

Bro, this is gold. You definitely did something right. I'm assuming you broke up with her on your terms, right? That's good. Listen man, women crave closure like men crave sex. They're so narcissistic that you leaving on your terms destroyed her ego. She's looking for closure from you. But her ego is so incredibly fragile, that she's desperately trying to pin her guilt and frustration on you and spin it that you're the bad asshole/bad guy and that she deserves better. "Oh, he's being such an ass…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:26 PM
1

Sometimes I see her annoyed with what I'm saying and often when I ask her opinion she goes into ostrich mode. That behavior makes me feel that she is also not into what I think That's because it isn't about what you think. Listen to your gut, man. This is a power grab she's trying. She's trying to pull you into her frame. It's not about the ideas she or you have. It's about making you conform to her. Whenever you get that gut feeling, you follow your instincts. Stop letting your words go through…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:11 PM
2

You lost frame. Want to know where it is? She cried and I had to explain what I was meaning to say Why do you have to explain yourself? She either likes you for who you are or she doesn't. You don't apologize for things which you did no actual wrong and you don't ever justify your position as if you need to prove yourself. YOU are the prize to be won, so act like it.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:07 PM
3

"Yes." Next question?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:03 AM
6

You don't tell a man you love him with words. You do it with action. First through sex, and then again with loyalty. Nothing you say will really convince him. You know that and so do we.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:35 AM
1

Listen to me bro. You admitted that she's shown using manipulative behavior. She is trying to stir up drama. Most likely, it's to take advantage of you in some way to benefit her. Go to HR immediately and stop this shit NOW, before it's too late. A preemptive strike is the best for handling these kinds of things. Trust me on this when I say you're covering your own ass. When she finally does strike, and she will, be it your reputation or employment, this case will be there to defend you and they…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:30 AM
1

This is good. Good behavior can get rewarded. But remember not to overdo it. Do it at your own discretion, but do it to keep her good behavior flowing. If she gets too comfortable with you, you'll notice this good behavior (and her attraction to you) will wane. I predict that you will need to apply dread soon, if you somehow mess up.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:18 AM
10

Don't have her over. As Patrice O'Neal says: "I don't mind not having sex. But I won't have can't having sex. Do you understand? That's like me saying 'hey we'll fuck, but I don't wanna talk to you, or spend time afterwards. I'm not giving you any of my time.' You have to match their audacity!" Do not let her put terms on anything you can ask of her. Ever. That is a boundary she must never cross and if she does, is disrespectful.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:40 PM
1

Listen bro, I'll tell you the same thing I tell myself whenever I don't know what I should do. You should follow this example and it will put an end to these questions. Ask yourself, "What would a high-value man do? How much priority would I put in this if I were high-value myself?" Do you want to know what my answer to it is? First, I want you to stop reading right here and actually answer it yourself. Look up at the question again and answer it yourself. My answer is that I wouldn't care, beca…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 01:44 PM
1

He's saying that men who actually have experience know and understand that women will test their men i.e. give them shit i.e. shit tests.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 01:21 PM
2

The hotter chicks are actually easier to get than the average ones. It's strange how it works, but the hotter chicks usually get approached -much- less. Most guys look at them and feel insecure, so they approach average women. Because there are no hard feelings if you're rejected by a fatty, right? So as a result, the 9/10s and 10/10s are much more insecure and more likely to reciprocate. They simply don't have the confidence or the practice. There are plenty of outliers, of course, but think of…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:21 PM
5

There's no point in getting angry at a woman for being a woman. Do you get angry at fish for swimming? Realize you're in your anger phase. You have a bunch of renowned energy now. This is the part where you use it to improve yourself. It can only ever help you.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:17 PM
11

She will forget you when Chad's dick is in her, I promise you that.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 07:22 PM
1

Apply dread
/r/askTRP13/08/16 07:02 PM
1

Find new friends.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:43 PM
1

You sound like a loser and a beta. Stand up for yourself, jesus fuck. Forget about what your manager will think. That's not your priority here. The real priority is, don't you have any self-respect? Grow a pair of balls.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 02:27 AM
1

She's creating drama. AWALT Don't get involved with drama. Don't involve yourself in drama. If there is no drama, your woman will try to create some. Stop it dead in its tracks with boundaries with the threat of dread.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 02:11 AM
1

It sounds like she's trying to friendzone you. Always listen to your gut, especially on this one. Your gut is always your friend. It works better with a buddy (your mind). Nuke the shit test or dodge it.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 02:08 AM
2

Girl 1 is manipulative Girl 2 is simply a slut who hamsters away that she's not a slut because her cuckolded boyfriend is ok with her riding the cc
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:59 AM
1

Welcome, brother. You're in your anger phase. This is the stage where you get renowned energy. You must use it to self improve. Lift, dammit. Lift! The anger will not subside, but it it will be overshadowed with content with your new self. Your own body, your own self improvement, this will be the source of happiness. Eventually, you won't give two shits about women. And the irony behind this all is that is exactly what will make them attracted to you. The IDGAF mentality. Be careful though, don…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:54 AM
2

Here's what you say: You played this game with texts and cheated, so I'm putting you on time-out. Don't be such a child next time you don't get your way. And don't be upset I called you out on it either. That kind of insecurity is a turn-off. Then go soft next, and apply dread. She will go berserk at first, but don't respond. Go no contact. Watch how this will work like magic as she goes from crazy-->sweet-->crazy-->apologetic. It is important you do not respond at all, at least until she submit…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:23 PM
1

I have all the solutions to your problems in two words: Apply Dread.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:20 PM
1

Never take any woman seriously, at any age, place, or time.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:57 PM
1

All the methods, like push-pull, negging and teasing sound kinda stupid and childish to me. Congratulations. Most people, mainly women, are children. Did it take you this long to realize this fact? They don't really grow up mentally past the age of 12 and make drama just like children. That's why they make a huge deal out of everything, even if it doesn't actually bother them. They speak covertly too, not overtly like men, hence the mind games. That said, you sound a bit autistic. I'm guessing y…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 01:46 PM
2

You've handled this well. She's being immature that she didn't get her way and is acting like a brat. Your points and attraction went waaaay up. I guarantee she's thinking about you. Remember: No amount of negotiated pussy will ever be worth losing frame for. Taken straight from the golden book: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/17/indignation/
/r/askTRP08/08/16 09:50 PM
1

You think it's salvageable though? First off, why are you even asking this question? It reeks of scarcity mentality. Seriously, ask yourself honestly. At this point, I think you should leave this girl. Yes, it is salvageable, but it wouldn't be any good for you. I'm sure you've already caught onitis. For your sake, you need to get away from this girl and fuck 10 other women before you even consider getting back with her. Trust me on this, if you get back now, it will not be what you want it to b…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 04:41 PM
1

so she's been pushing for marriage, even though she won't admit that's what is going on. That's hypergamy for you. AWALT You'd be an idiot to marry her. She'll divorce rape you the instant she sees a guy that gives her slightly more tingles than you. Chances are, you're pretty low on her list.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 04:21 PM
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24 hour radio silence? I'd say you should do soft next. Let HER come to you. If you come to her after she says that, you fall into her frame. Don't worry, she'll be back. In the meantime, forget her. Always be ready to walk out, don't forget. You must have abundance mentality, the IDGAF. She's just a friends with benefits, right? Keep in mind though, listen to her actions, not her words. What she's saying and what she's doing are two different things completely. She's trying to keep power in thi…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 04:06 PM
1

This guy knows his powertalking. I don't think OP has that level of awareness yet though.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:10 PM
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Bro, listen to me man. Don't text her. Don't call her. Don't do any contact with her. Zero. This is a very selfish thing she's doing. I've said this many times in the forums because, like clockwork, many guys fail to understand the female psyche. But you seem to have some intuition for it. The truth is, it has nothing to do with you, that she's calling you. She probably cares about you very little. No, the reason why she's calling you is, as you said it, to absolve HER guilt. She knows she fucke…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 02:10 PM
1

It was a failing marriage and she was just looking for an excuse. Just look at what that guy wrote: I always reasoned: “If you just tell me what you want me to do, I’ll gladly do it.” In other words, he doesn't lead. She's the captain of this relationship, and she isn't happy. Women want winners, they don't want to win. They want a leader, they don't want to lead themselves. But she didn’t want to be my mother. Enough said. But just for shits and giggles, I'll add more. This is a typical case of…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:04 PM
1

c) respond and ask her why she didn't want to kiss Do not do this. It will make you look butthurt. Protip: She KNOWS why you aren't responding. I've said this countless times before; the reason she's reaching out is because she wants closure. Even if they know it's over, they need closure much more than men need sex. Do not give it to her. It's not worth your time, and she didn't earn it anyway. Move on from this chick, replace her.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:36 AM
1

Both options sound good. If you want to go a little more crazy (better results, but also more risky) you can apply dread to her as well. That'll get them to stop playing games real quick.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:56 PM
2

Frame is a perspective. Watch this. Girl: So what makes you think you deserve my number? Guy: Oh, I'm X, Y, and Z! Also I will treat you well and love you forever and .... The guy fell into her frame. You see that? It was implicitly communicated, from her to him. "qualify yourself to me", and the chump went ahead and did it like a good little beta boy. Here's another one. Girl: Why don't you buy me a drink? Guy: Why should I? Bingo. He just did a pressure flip. Girl: You're one of those player g…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:24 PM
1

Oh yeah, and I gotta add, don't reply to her until she comes to you first. If you go to her you're entering her frame/looking desperate.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:02 PM
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Oh man, Patrice O'neal would have a field day with this bitch. Listen man, YOU are the prize. Not her, you. She is out of line, and she knows it. Worst case scenario is that she wants to end this 'relationship' but doesn't know how to do it yet. So here's what you do, and you'll probably get a good laugh at how quickly she changes her mind. You get ready to walk. Leave her on your terms and without giving her any closure. No bitch is going to walk out of a relationship until she leaves you compl…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:01 PM
2

You tell her it's over. Why should you stay? You've set your boundaries, and she's crossing them. Clearly she has no respect for you. Are you staying with someone who disrespects your boundaries? Don't fall into her frame. What she's doing is uncalled for and she knows it.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:01 PM
1

You're making yourself too available. Stop, before you fuck things up royally. Listen to me man, you need to give her time to miss you.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:55 PM
1

You need to understand how women think. They need closure. They can't have you walking out of a relationship on your terms. They will never forget that. If a relationship ends, they have to convince themselves that they ended it with you because you're an asshole/boring/etc It's all so they can sleep peacefully at night, so they can rationalize they're not a terrible and selfish person. They're good at rationalizing like that, they'll thoroughly convince themselves of their own bullshit. But onl…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:52 PM
1

she told me, for like the fourth time, like I was her emotional tampon or something... Your gut is right. You are her emotional tampon. Why are you doing this to yourself? Why are you letting yourself be her emotional tampon? Grow a pair of balls. You're trying to friendship your way into her pussy and not even realizingit.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:24 PM
2

QUESTION: Do I do it? I feel like if I fuck her I'm reinforcing her behavior and allowing her to control the sex. NO. Your gut is exactly on mark here. Listen and follow your gut. If you have sex with her now you're falling into HER frame. This means that she sets the tone direction of the relationship, which gives her a lot of power. Women with power are unhappy. They don't want to win, they want a winner. Your dread is working. This is her last attempt at getting you 'back on your leash'. Keep…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:37 PM
3

it was a comfort test, she is depressed because she feels like shes not going forward in her career, education, etc. No it wasn't. That's just a bullshit excuse. Bro, you're being played. Are you seriously going to eat that shit up? And even if it wasn't bullshit, why should you take her giving you shit because of some other outside reason? Is that who you want to be with? Someone who gives you shit because they're having a hard time? I bet she's the type who'll say "not tonight, I have a headac…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:22 PM
2

You. Are. An. Orbiter. She's sad her orbiter and source of validation is gone. She does not see you in a romantic light, and certainly not in a sexual one. Here's your red pill. Take it and swallow. Nobody said it's easy.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:37 AM
2

i came here to say this. It's almost funny, how AWALT. Also, H: seems to be if it's not your way then it's no way. H: Fuck you!!! You really know how to piss me off. Lol. She's the one who's not getting her way, and then she's throwing a temper tantrum. OP, here's what you do. Ask yourself: Do you accept this behavior? This temper-tantrum? If you're not, don't talk to her. She went out of line and she knows it. I wouldn't go even the next day. She doesn't like silence, but she should know to beh…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:05 PM
1

Bro, divorce her. Don't give her closure. She's being a complete bitch and she KNOWS it. It is disrespectful behavior. But you keep letting her get away with it. I don't care how busy she is, I would divorced her if she withholds sex. And who the fuck sleeps on the couch? You should kick HER out of your house! Then, you should have invited a friend, or even a prostitute if you don't have any, and fuck the shit out of her. Then proceed to cut her out your life. Why are you associating yourself wi…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:34 PM
1

Bro, this girl is NO good for you. You've sound like you've got the case of oneitis. If you don't have it, you're on your way to getting it really fast. Let me say it again because this bears repeating. This girl is no good for you. Do you see how she's making you worried? You weren't like that before you met her. She's making you worse off. If she's putting you into a position where you're less happy, you should cut her out of your life. It doesn't matter what the circumstance is. She's not own…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:23 PM
1

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ – “I have a boyfriend!” – Translation: I have Schrödinger’s boyfriend, demonstrate to me you’re high value and I’ll fuck you regardless. It is hilarious when they say this. “What boyfriend, your imaginary one?” – Then laugh in her face. – “Sounds like you’re shit out of luck, I’m going to have to fuck your friend instead, feel free to watch.” Always be prepared to get slapped when you’re running this kind of obnoxious asshole game…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 05:09 AM
1

if you do "relationship-type" things with girls, you get placed into her beta box and she won't be sexual with you. Right you are. She's trying to get you to be her boyfriend. Don't go dancing with her. She needs to understand you're a lover and that you value your time. Don't give away your time for free. She needs to put out first. I don't give anything to any of my girls until they put out first. My attention comes afterwords. Do not get drawn in in implied pussy. http://philosophyofpatriceon…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 05:01 AM
2

Thinking about texting back: "Now we're walking around the lake? What happened to you cooking me dinner?" That's your gut talking to you. Listen to your gut. Women will naturally try to steer clear of anything that may imply sex. You inviting her over doesn't seem to give her enough plausible deniability, so she changed it. What she did was reframing it, and it looks like your intuition caught onto it i.e. "something's wrong here". Yes, it is, and it's very wrong. You need to maintain Frame. Smo…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:57 AM
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^ pretty much this. I bet you she would have had money to pay for Brad Pitt at your table. The truth of the fact is she's a gold digger. A manipulative hoe who victimized herself so she could have someone else pay for her and not be shamed for it. OP, you did good in calling out her bad behavior as you did earlier. You should keep that frame up and strong.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:48 AM
2

IF you choose to text her, keep it short and to the point i.e. logistics.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 03:49 AM
1

When i try to hold frame she gets mad, resulting in big fight and childish cry that are affecting my mood and my peace of mind. Kick her out the instant she acts like a child. Don't act reactively or mad. Just pack her things up for her and tell her to leave, leaving no room for her to draw drama from your emotions. If she doesn't leave, call the police. This isn't diffiult. You just want it to "not be that simple" because you'd rather put up with an adult that disrespects you and still behaves …
/r/askTRP20/07/16 09:42 PM
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Here's what you do. You ghost her. She lied to your face. And then she showed off, taunting you at some party with a bunch of guys. That's manipulative behavior I don't tolerate that's tantamount to outright disrespect. I bet she sucked some other dude's dick. Do you want those lips to touch you now? So what do you do? You ghost her. If she tries to reach out to you and ask why you're leaving her, don't answer. It's imperative that you don't give her closure. Do not give her a chance to explain …
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:04 AM
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what actions do you suggest I take to give an impression of strength/control and that I am not for changing – they either accept it or fuck off? The answer is so simple. You answered it yourself, in fact, in the previous sentence. They say the best way to communicate is through your actions instead of getting into a war of words or trying to justify the reasons for my actions. If you do not want them to argue/shame you, send a clear message by withdrawing your attention and time from them the in…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:32 PM
3

go for it
/r/askTRP16/07/16 06:50 AM
1

I know she couldn't help but see most of the messages at the top were from other girls. I laughed pretty hard after. You're showing alpha male traits. Keep it up. Keeping this frame should feel like fun, not work.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 06:21 PM
1

Grab her ass. Squeeze it.. repeatedly. Or grab her hand, and slowly into your pants. Challenge her to see if she is woman enough to get you hard.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:41 PM
1

if I ghost him and he can make the excuse saying I accepted his appology Tell him that his apology is just an excuse to keep acting the way he does and that you're not going to take that shit. If he's really sorry, he'll stop. Punish him for bad behavior.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:37 PM
1

It got to the point where she said let's just be friends. You should have just said "I have enough friends, no thanks." I almost beg her to understand that my neediness is because I love her. You're an ultimate, supreme beta lord. Just saying the truth here. A week after that, she facetimes me, and from that point forward we started talking every day again. She told me she still loved me two days after that, and with almost no effort on her part, I said I love you too. This continues for about t…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:33 PM
1

The girl was your typical American ice queen. Kinda pretty but fake blonde hair, fake tan, and you know the drill. Stop right there. You got the dirt to throw at her, now throw it. Stop editing yourself. "Bitch, I don't want to be friends with a shallow cunt with fake hair/fake tan."
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:27 PM
1

"Of course I am. You got good taste for people." If they deny, you can take this two ways ("oh you don't have good taste? / Oh, I'm not arrogant?") If they agree, laugh your ass off and keep boasting about yourself about how great you are in a humorous fashion.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:26 PM
1

You forgot the most important part: Experience. You actually have to throw yourself out there. Not just that, but you have to willingly throw yourself out there, and fail. Repeatedly. Do it so many times that you are numbed to the fear of being humiliated/rejected. And there's a very special reason to this. You want to numb and eventually kill that fear and anxiety. Why? Because it's in the way of getting you to think clearly. If you feel some sort of 'mental block' that's your editing system in…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:23 PM
1

Yes, now you got it. Have preselection work for you. Let her see that you can get other girls easily. She'll know that you'll be able to dump her instantly and that the only way for her to keep you is to shape up or get dumped. This is what she'll be asking herself (and what you should be asking yourself): "Why should I keep this banshee? These other girls are waaa~yy better company than her. Who wants a sore loser as a girlfriend?" Make it clear with your actions, not your words. Imply these th…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:18 PM
1

This is why my advice is gold. Hey, confusedgf0, are you listening to this? If you have a suggestion to your man, tell it to him IN PRIVATE where you don't run the risk of belittling him in front of his peers. Do it in front of his peers and he will see it as an act of open disrespect. Like JackGetsIt says, openly suggesting/giving advice and dismissing his ideas is going to get you insta-dumped.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:13 PM
3

If you want some flings but don't want to cheat because you don't want to hurt your boyfriend or brand yourself a cheater, you have two options. The first, is imposing some kind of limits onto yourself to help you from keeping your eyes from wandering. Focus on him and find every opportunity possible to release your sexual tension on your boyfriend. Your second option is to simply ask your boyfriend if he's wants a threesome. Or whatever flavor of fling it is you want. But here you have to be mo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 12:39 AM
1

Learn about shit tests and how to deal with them. It's the same thought dynamic. And learn confidence and genuinely how to not give a fuck. Do you care about the guy? No? Then stop self-editing. Don't be the nice guy. It's okay to be the asshole as long as if it makes you funny or high value. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:29 PM
0

A&A or pressure flip. If someone called me old, I'd say "Of course I look older than you. This level of awesomeness takes years to build, kiddo" Or "I don't want to be hearing that from someone who needs to take sleeping pills at [their age here]" Or "Oh look, you're projecting... How adorable...!"
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:13 PM
0

I would never speak over him in front of someone else I didn't say speak over him. I said object to his ideas in someone else's presence. Especially if it is with someone who's in his field of work or similar genre. I don't claim to be knowing better Ah, but you were. It didn't sound like you were asking for information. It sounds like you said "hey here's an idea, you should do XXX instead of YYY." That sends the message that he doesn't know what he's doing and he should follow your unsolicited…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 08:35 PM
7

Bro, let me tell you about his kind of girl. She is extremely manipulative. You know what girls hate? When you leave on YOUR terms. They need drama like men need sex. She absolutely needs closure. Do not provide her with it, don't even give her so much as the time of day. She will go absolutely crazy (even crazier than she is now). This is why she was acting funny when you were going out the door to the party. You were displaying two alpha traits. First (and most importantly) is soft nexting her…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 08:23 PM
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Okay, so I've read into this and I think I'm seeing something here that others aren't. Since I don't really give two shits about you or your ""boyfriend"" I'm throwing in my unedited insight. First off, you're super hypergamous. Realize that he's better than you, and be aware that you're out of your place to demand anything from him. This is where your insecurity (rightfully) stems from. Second, you're not submissive enough. You might not want to admit it but there's power play at here and you'r…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:22 PM
3

We hang out the following weekend. I escalate and try to make out, she doesn't respond. She's smiling, saying she can't cause she has a bf, etc etc, typically ASD. And you failed for typical shit tests. Look at this again. See where you failed? Here's a hint: listen to her actions, her body language, not her words. She wanted an excuse to fuck you so she doesn't feel like a slut but you didn't provide. My response was to simply tell her I don't need more friends and the only reason we are hangin…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:01 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3izar3/womens_feelings_are_fickle/
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:33 AM
1

Yes. This is typical behavior. Should you choose to re-engage, do it in such a way that you're in control of the conversation and that she's chasing you, that you're the prize, that you're the fleeting window of opportunity. As a rule of thumb, text for logistics only. Socializing and smalltalk are things you do in person. Giving her attention remotely is like her giving you a blowjob remotely. Don't give it away for free.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:31 AM
2

Listen to me man. Women need on drama like men need sex. She wants closure and the breakup was anticlimatic for her. You know what women can't stand? They can't stand you leaving on YOUR terms instead of theirs. If you leave on your terms it will fucking scar her. She won't ever forget. Don't provide her your attention or the closure she craves. Patrice o'neal talks exactly about this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBLmkvZORJw&t=14m35s
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:13 AM
1

The fact that she's telling you when she's free tells that she probably is genuinely busy. Girls don't reschedule when they don't want to meet. If she said she was busy and left it at that, that'd probably be a shit test.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 03:57 AM
7

You are always ready for the red pill. Consider yourself in particular lucky, because you get a head start - you're really young. Most guys here are in their mid-20s to late 30s.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 03:52 AM
1

told me they planned it for years Bullshit. Holy shit you're not going to fall for this, are you? but i dont believe her because shes never mentioned it also seems like impulsive behaviour Of course it's impulsive. Women are fickle. This is is your gut and your rational mind trying to make sense of what you're seeing. Listen to it. Listen to your rational mind and your gut. You've got onitis for this girl. I can tell you right now, that if you stay, you're going to get seriously hurt. Cut emotio…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:42 AM
2

It's more the fact that she is sending me mixed signals while she holding out. Exactly. She's holding out. For who? Why Chad, of course. Don't lie to yourself. She's looking to jump ship but wants to hold the 'in a relationship' title. The reason why she's sending mixed signals is because she wants to keep you at bay in case things don't work out. She's testing the waters out there but doesn't want to look preoccupied, so she's throwing you some scraps to keep you content. Listen to your gut. An…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:38 AM
2

Friends should respect and support you. Anything less and they're not friends.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 04:05 AM
1

"We need to talk." "Damn straight we do. You've been holding out on sex with me for the past month and frankly I think you're cheating. Give me one good reason to think why you're not." If she answers with anything but 'we're having sex tonight', kick her out. She's cheating. I guarantee it. No chick withdraws sex. Don't be manipulated with it. You're not some dog that can be treated with sex for good behavior. Have some self respect. Anytime she mentions anything about having a 'talk' make your…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 04:00 AM
1

asking me if i ate dog at lunch and other stuff "Yeah last night I made a hot dog out of a dachshund. Don't be jealous that we asian folk are a little smarter than you ;)" Agree&amplify. Amused mastery. This is pretty standard stuff. You need to learn more about shit tests and how to handle them. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:44 AM
2

Take this as a lesson as well. If she's into you, she'll make excuses to go with you. If she's not, she'll make excuses (however bullshit/menial they are) why she can't. Giving her options -always- makes her lean toward the latter. You must give the impression that your time is precious. It's valuable to you, so you don't give it away for free. "Tell me when you're free" is sending the message it's worthless. You must give her small windows of opportunity so that she feels like if she doesn't ta…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:37 AM
1

Then the answer is simple. Unplug him. Do it slowly, expose what you know in small doses.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:24 AM
1

Holy crap. If my girl said that in my proximity I'd tell her to make like a whore and get the fuck out because prostitutes don't stick around after I payed them for sex.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:22 AM
1

I asked if she could meet me at saturday Stop. Why are you asking? How is that taking the lead, and showing you're in control? No, you tell her where and when to meet. Have you learned nothing? Women don't want to lead. They want a leader. Asking puts her in the lead.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 03:06 AM
1

You're hamstering. She's not a plate to you, and she knows this. That's why she offered to be your 'plate'. Throw her into the dumpster immediately. Do you think she'll stop disrespecting you there? She's already proven she'll do it multiple times! No 'waiting until she'll do it again'. Do it now. As in, right this second. Or you don't have enough self respect to value your time and emotional well-being.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 06:12 PM
1

It doesn't matter. You're not with her anymore. The important part is that you're no longer together. She's obviously trying to manipulate you. why? Why do you think? Women feed off of drama like men feed off of sex. She wants closure and you're not giving it to her. Remain this way - she doesn't deserve it from you. She's going to try to convince you she does.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:59 PM
1

Let me tell you something, brother. You need rejection. You want rejection. And you need to practice getting rejected. Why? So that you can deal with your anxiety properly, with more experience. That's the main cause of this, whether you admit it to yourself or not. Once you understand it's not painful like you play it in your mind (or maybe it will be), it won't matter, because you won't care anymore. It'll be so numbed down that it won't even ruin your night/hour to get rejected anymore. You c…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:52 PM
1

Don't eve apologize. Don't ever explain yourself. Don't ever make excuses.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:48 PM
1

Why the fuck are you compromising? Listen to her actions, not to her words. You wanted to hang out, she refused. Then you gave her another offer, and she ignored you. Clearly she isn't into you. Get rid of your ego, it's holding you down. You're sounding like an ultimate beta.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:44 PM
1

"I don't believe you." "Bitch do I look like I work at Ripley's?"
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:21 PM
2

and she gave me chlamydia I hope for your own health you're not considering LTRing her. Plating her is fine, but there's no such thing as a unicorn. And your girl -will- shit test you. She's just a slut and she knows it which is why she's keeping you around while concealing her bad behavior (until you've been pussy whipped enough and layed eyes on a better guy than you). The moment she does start disrespecting you, and trust me she will (however subtle it'll start), you drop her.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:51 PM
4

we are both 19, she had 7 guys No. Two -might- be acceptable, but seven? She's opened her legs to SEVEN different dudes! Think about that for a moment.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 04:10 AM
1

So, I am in an LDR Stopped reading it right there. Move on, it will never work.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:21 PM
6

if you pursue me enough to satisfy me momentarily, I will provide you with sex. BZZZTT. WRONG! It's actually: "if you pursue me enough to satisfy me momentarily, I will provide you the implied promise of sex (which I will break and pretend to never have acknowledged)" You never, ever, qualify yourself. Ever. She's either into you, or she isn't. And if she is, she'll find use her hamster to rationalize every reason in the world why she's not a slut for fucking you/sucking your dick/etc.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:18 PM
1

So you think religious girls are pure virgins, do you?
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:09 PM
5

I don't want to kill the moment You have to break a few eggs to make an omelette. Stay confident. If it doesn't work out, you weren't made out for each other to begin with. Are you seriously pondering whether you should try because you -might- fuck it up? That's not outcome independent. You're losing frame, sabotaging yourself. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0
/r/askTRP18/06/16 02:31 AM
0

she was a virgin (though she did do everything but sex with her last boyfriend, who was also her first) And you actually believed her? You're so naive.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 12:39 AM
2

I got bad news for you bro. You are Plan B. And rightfully so. You're a complete beta. Anytime I tried to touch her she shoved me away, refused to kiss me, and literally attacked me with every bad thing she claims I have ever done. Here's your first mistake: accepting her frame. You should have walked out right then and there. You need to train your woman so she understands that you're a lover and not a provider. She must only see you in the lover light. She went on birth control while we weren'…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 06:04 AM
1

When I prompted her as to why, she said she didn't want to be held down as she was in college and wanted to "experience it fully". Ahahaha! Here's the translation: "You're far away and I don't want to commit to you so I'll use you as my emotional tampon and source of validation. Be my orbiter while I ride the cock carousel! Oh, and maybe I'll settle for you once my pussy's all used up ;)"
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:34 AM
1

I can pretty much guarantee this would have happened if he submitted to her frame.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:23 AM
1

Don't take anything a woman says at face value. Listen to her actions, not her words. Listen to her actions, not her words. Did it sink in yet? No? Let me repeat again. Listen to her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:18 AM
1

Dude just tell her 'no come alone'. If she cancels or fails to get the idea she's not into you anyway and you're wasting your time. You're coming off as a huge pussy right now. You've already lost frame by giving in to hers by showing concern for what she thinks when you're supposed to be having fun.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:16 AM
2

alpha widows tend to have high standards, in case you didn't know.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 04:56 AM
1

I hate to break this to you, but if you've taken this kind of disrespect, and are willing to put up with it to be with her, you've got onitis
/r/askTRP08/06/16 02:34 AM
2

And yeah, she sounded like she wanted to push me into a position in which we could do things on her terms. You see this? This is your gut speaking to you. If you feel like something is up, it definitely is. Do not compromise any power, and always be alert for it. She'll try to bait you into giving it up in the seemingly most innocent times. Patrice O'Neal actually had a radio talk about this very thing, and explained it in ways that made perfect sense. I suggest you look him up on youtube or som…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 02:27 AM
2

Don't misunderstand, it's not for the girl. It's for the guys. Too many women are bitches with high standards and he'd be doing his brothers a favor.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 02:23 AM
2

Always trust your gut. Ask yourself: does this chick want to suck your dick, right now, if you asked her to?
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:29 AM
11

"I keep my friends close and enemies even closer"
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:28 AM
3

And all I could think of was promoting her from one night stand to plate. And then the next day, poof, all of the affection I had managed to win days before, disappeared. Women are fickle. They live in the moment. Don't ever forget that. No matter what promises they make. She got even madder because I took a innocence stance in which I made sure she remembered how good I was on my sexual deeds. She's shit testing you, desperately trying to bait you into her frame. Do not budge. See her for the c…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:07 AM
0

I've already decided to hang with my friends and have not replied yet. Good. Remain silent. Go do what YOU want to do, that's how you maintain frame. Plus the slut disrespected you by hiding shit from you. What else do you think she'll do behind your back? She ended up going out, did not tell me anything about it Reduce her to plate status and soft next her.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:01 AM
1

You can still push her back. But not with your hands, with your chest. "Bump" into her. Show her how small she is.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:15 AM
1

didn't you read the links? A girl doesn't need to like you to be devastated by the hamster nuke. Read the stripper story.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:10 AM
1

Yes, tell them what's on your mind. Why are you holding yourself back? You're breaking your own frame by holding back.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:36 AM
3

Basically it's calling her out on her bullshit in a way that dominates her. https://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2012/03/20/nuking-the-hamster/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/14/game-recognized-nuking-the-hamster-from-orbit/ These two are an example.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:22 AM
1

Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3u53fo/im_not_having_sex_with_you_tonight/
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:17 AM
6

Nothing more than kissing and light fondling on both dates, and she would stop me repeatedly when I pushed for more. She's not attracted to you. she asks the question about taking her on a "real" date And now she's trying to put you into the beta box. You have three options. (1) hard next (2) nuke her hamster (3) Game her: "I only date girls that put out first" Keep abundance mentality in mind.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:14 AM
10

Girlfriend ocasionally asks when are we going to fight, saying that i never argue with her and i never get involved/angry in an argument. Good. Whatever you're doing, keep it up. Translation of what she said: "We've been together for a while now and I can't get you into this little beta box I set for you. Nag nag nag nag stop having that power and become a beta so I can toss you away"
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:05 AM
1

Ugh, my eyes. I think I just got dumber reading that. No. You are supposed to text only for logistics. Flirting etc is done only in person. You need to condition her that texting is only for meets and flirtation is only in person. This will encourage her to actually meet you in person rather than get the validation she wants via text. You know why? Because if she has what she wants already, she'll flake. Sometimes she only wants a taste. Stop fucking this up.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 10:06 PM
2

When she ask you if you are mad your response is very simple. You should just simply say "Should I be? Did you do something wrong?" This advice is kind of iffy. She can see this as an opportunity to hide things/lie to you. And make no mistake, they'll hamster the guilt away without any effort. all you need to do is respond with, "You must have done something really bad to keep bringing it up, tell me about what you think you did wrong." This is much more solid. It puts her in the spotlight and u…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:01 PM
1

My question is: why does she act like this? From a RP perspective, I'm the same guy as before No you're not. See, she sees you with another chick. Now you're more valuable, because you have more preselection. Not only she's getting non-buyer's remorse, she also sees that other women are attracted to you which by itself makes her see you have more value than before. For shits and giggles I'd keep her on the fence just like she did to you. Tell her we shouldn't if she tries pressing it. It will ma…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:44 PM
-4

Forget your morals. They are weak and you are beta because of them. Do it anyway and let that part of you die inside. It will be the weak part, you will now be stronger.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:38 PM
1

So my hypothesis is that girls that approach you are not really attractive or may have a mental issue. Anyone confirm or deny? Women do hypergamy. It's only natural the only females that are into you are ones you're better than.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:31 PM
2

I don't think that the curve can only go downhill. It assumes that only women carry power in a relationship, but it actively dismisses the power a man has. That power is the ability to create your own SMV. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, and can end the relationship at any point, and this is a very powerful tool in of itself. But they can also self-improve and build upon themselves, thereby creating SMV from nothing. If, for example, you're at the part where she successfully denies you se…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 05:28 PM
1

No for the love of god don't tell her. You want her hamster spinning. Spin her hamster faster.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 04:52 AM
1

This will allow her hamster to rationalize that she wasn't dumped....it truly "just happened." This is your best bet. Let her down easily and give her many, many ways for her to rationalize that's okay that you 'broke up' (if you can even call it that). Obviously you want to keep in touch afterwards but you want to wane contact so she doesn't feel abandoned (the lashback may be as bad as the breakup).
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:18 AM
0

It's a shit test, obviously.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:14 AM
1

It sounds like you don't have enough testosterone. Fuck the lab results, the amount is relative to the individual. You clearly don't have enough for your size. Do you lift? Start lifting. If you do lift, do it more or find something you really enjoy. Don't make sex the center of your life especially if you don't even enjoy it that much.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:48 AM
1

Ultimatums are weak. It shows that you care, and the instant you do, she has what she wants from you. In either case, she's not LTR material. Soft next her.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:44 AM
7

The fact she's shit testing means it's a clear IOI. Clearly she wants you to come over. You need to escalate without making her feel like a slut. And remember to listen to her actions and not her words. She's instantly texting you back, but right now her ASD is up. Just treat her like a child and don't give her emotions any merit. In fact, make fun of them a little. You have three options. The first is to ignore her ""objections"" and invite yourself in. Forcing your way in lets her hamster rati…
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:27 AM
1

I hate making out. I wouldn't doubt that she's probably just not into it.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:16 AM
1

It's bait. She wants you as a beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:14 AM
2

She wants your attention, obviously. It's as simple as that. Remember, attention is to her like sex is to a thirsty beta. Actually, I'd argue even this analogy is too weak.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:10 AM
1

Only in a certain context. Do it with a grin on your face and with laughter behind your voice, and it's clear he's full of (confident in) himself.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:50 AM
1

However, since she was the one that got away, I really want to get back with her once. You've abandoned abundance mentality and set yourself up for being vulnerable to oneitis. Flirt with her if it's fun for you, but don't try to lay her. She dumped you and now she doesn't get that pleasure. If she actually agrees to a meet, don't show up.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 03:49 AM
1

Do you still think these are shit tests? I think it's a problem with your confidence. You're definitely doing something right, but she can smell the insecurity you're giving off. The fact that you care that she has a boyfriend, or that she's leading you on, etc. is the problem. Stop giving a shit. You're there for a good time. Who cares? Is her boyfriend there? No. Tell her to forget about her imaginary boyfriend and impress the real man standing in front of her. whenever I tried to get close an…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 06:20 PM
1

(not sure how this affects her life given she didn't pay anything) Hmmm... now why do you think she would do this completely redundant thing that's a complete waste of time on her part? Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 06:12 PM
1

I feel like i need some clarity around things without any tension or negativity over coffee or something ? Two things that could be happening here. First, the less likely scenario: she branch swung, realized what she missed, and wants you back. The more likely scenario: you left without drama, which she craves, and she felt like she was cheated when she broke up with you. Now she's craving for closure. Somewhere on the back of her mind she knows she acted like a brat but she can't pin it on you …
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:58 PM
2

"Yea, she met this guy there and seems like they're getting along well" "Too bad he isn't me, huh?"
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:51 PM
1

When I try to make a move though, I get shut down Work on your game. Also, read body language, not verbal language. Actions > words Also, you don't want to give your attention away too quickly. Once they feel like they have it, they'll lose interest. You have to keep them guessing: "does he like me?! Did he notice I'm interested?" Example: You're with some chick and she hits off, and you get closer. Her: "I have a boyfriend, you know?" You: "uh-huh." (she's totally giving me 'the look'. I'll loo…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:39 PM
6

1.- How do I re-initiate contact with her. I might as well plate here since my other plates are currently far Stop. You've already failed. You have no abundance mentality. Forget. This. Girl. Where do you live? How many women are there? If you don't know anyone, go out more and know them.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:56 AM
1

My opinion is if she loved me, wanted me, looked up to me she would of already contacted me and said these feelings. This is not an opinion. It is a statement of fact. Don't feel bad if she isn't into you. You're just cutting your losses and she wants to feel closure. But she's not your girlfriend anymore, so she doesn't get that comfort from you. Not only she doesn't care about you, she's trying to use you to feel better about herself. She has her own self interest at heart, remember that, no m…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:53 AM
-5

if you're generous your time/money/commitment is the reward. It is not a bargain for sex. Sex is the prerequisite. When you buy a car, you expect the engine to work. You only spend money on bitches you already sexed. Tell her you're only generous to the girls who know how to treat a man.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:48 AM
1

I almost feel like this is a ploy for me to contact her again and enter her frame as I have no contacted once. Your gut doesn't lie. Trust your gut. If something feels like it's up, it probably is. Women stake on that shit.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:12 AM
1

(1) aced it. (2) You passed it. What they want to know is how willing you are to get the knowledge you need. Tell them you'll do research, talk to people, etc. until you have the knowledge you need. (3) no comment (4) This depends on what you're interviewing for. If your job is people-centric, you aced it. If your job is product-centric, you want to be talking about being competent and delivering a functional, above-satisfactory product/program. (5) Aced it If you didn't get the job, their team …
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:52 AM
3

I messaged her today, since I have some free time this week,and she immediately unmatched me. Wtf?? She's trying to game you. It's a shit test. In her mind, she's probably hamstering "WTF this guy didn't message me right away even though I super liked him? I'll show him...!" Or she pussied out. Either way, forget her. You've got abundance mentality and that bitch is too stupid/crazy. And also keep doing what you're doing. If some chick super liked you, you're obviously doing something right.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:43 AM
3

Came here to emphasize the comfort/shit tests part.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:39 AM
2

She's trying to project the frame that your time is invaluable compared to hers. And she's trying to shame you into conforming to her. Hold frame. And also demand respect. She's acting like a child, so treat her like one.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:38 AM
1

i know she will be an amazing mother ot my kids Go for the marriage then. Chances are if she'll be great to your kids, she'll be good to you too. i dont want to risk divorce rape Men take risks. Chances are if she will divorce you, it'll only be because of you. If you have kids, she'll be less likely to do so. You can fight for custody of the children if you're so afraid of her screwing you over.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:24 AM
2

Read the book: No more mister nice guy. It advises you on how to solve those problems. Yours are rooted with your mother. You need a healthy disconnect.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 07:36 AM
1

came here to say this
/r/askTRP26/05/16 03:00 AM
3

To the 'pregnant' woman, don't apologize for jack shit. For corporate, stead fast on the self defense frame. If you can, try to frame the abortion jokes as ones you kept to yourself because you hate the bitch. Apologize to management for the jokes (and only the jokes) if need be. Also request that the crazy chick work around your shift/area. Emphasize you don't want trouble from her again.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 07:18 AM
7

Why are men over 30 automatically considered creeps? Men over 30 are in their prime. And you're 6'5. That's pretty high smv in of itself. Are you fat or something? Work your game Learn to laugh when they call you a creep. Amused mastery, agree and amplify. Ask them if that's what they call all men they know too good for them. If you don't have this mentality you're missing the most important part of your smv
/r/askTRP25/05/16 07:09 AM
5

There are two different responses here depending on where you're trying to go with this. For the first: If you're trying to lay the girl, don't ever bring up her sexual past. Don't ever bring up anything that will trigger her ASD. If you're in this territory and you want to lay her you've already fallen into her trap. For the second, assuming you're not pursuing her, you can nuke her hamster. Something along the lines of: "Ah, I see. So you've ridden the cock carousel with Chad and now that your…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:57 AM
1

"Of course I do. Being a cute guy like me isn't easy, you know?" "How hard can you make me?" paired with a smug expression and a wink, followed up with "I was talking about work, naughty girl. I am curious though..." Use your imagination
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:49 AM
2

Yep. Just escalate and keep her as a plate
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:18 AM
2

I didn't ask for her to do it, just why the fuck does she do this with me? That's like asking "I didn't ask her not to be attracted to me. Why is she unattracted to me?" She's doing it because she sees you as weak. Mother instincts and whatnot kick in. You should know this about women. she reacts like this in front of other people when I actually ignore the AMMOGger and it makes me look like a weak guy In her eyes, you are weak. Start DHV
/r/askTRP25/05/16 03:37 AM
2

Honestly. I feel like they are treating me like a child They are. They've already lost interest in you, why would they shit test you any longer by making fun of you as well?
/r/askTRP22/05/16 09:48 PM
0

Nah, I just don't tolerate flakes. If a person doesn't have the common courtesy to tell me they're not sure if they wanna meet up, and instead wastes my time with radio silence, they did zero work to earn my respect. And make no mistake. Respect is not given. It's something you earn.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:09 AM
-5

I wouldn't take that shit, I have other options. I'd just tell her "Sorry, I got a new GF while you were away"
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:00 PM
2

do you guys think she is hiding something ? YES. YES. For the love of Christ, yes. The fact that she doesn't want to answer that question is enough proof of that. And her childish blame-shifting it onto you was a clear bitch move. She's clearly scared and is more interested in keeping her value higher than yours instead of maintaining the relationship like an adult. AWALT. I tell her lets just be friends Perfect response. You stated your demands. She must play on your terms, do not give up this …
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:27 PM
3

Oh man, this falls perfectly with TRP philosophies. I'm having a good laugh here. Same conversation starts again about commitment and how much she literally likes me (she accidentally slipped "loved me"). Found the shit test. Of course, if you don't give it to her, she'll just want you more. I said "get the fuck out, and im done with this conversation". Woke up this morning with 4 walls of text and a missed call from her. Aaand there it is. Clap clap clap. Well done. How do you handle this? You …
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:22 PM
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You've got oneitis. You must insist that she plays on YOUR TERMS, not hers. If she treats herself like a prize, punish her for it. She doesn't just share her body with anyone (I'm sure she tells Chad that too) You should have called her out on this. It was a clear shit test. Sex builds and maintains relationships, and pretending it's dirty is a one-way road to a bad relationship. The recovering nice guy in me wants a girl to cuddle and talk about plans hours into the night Fuck that shit. That's…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:03 PM
3

Tell him to stop. If he can't respect you enough to stop being an ass after you asked once, he's not a friend. Tell your social group you don't want to be around them if they encourage him (even passively by staying quiet about it). Don't act all butthurt about it. Don't give a fuck. Treat it like an irritating itch that it is.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:57 PM
5

Lol I would of nexted her. She either use me or she lose me. I ain't anybody's plan B.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:49 PM
1

Maintain frame. Simply tell her where you'll be and when. Nothing more.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:44 PM
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Her: Do you love me? I love you, do you love me? How come you won't just say it. You never say it to me anymore. It's a shit test. She's trying to rationalize it to make it appear like a comfort test. Her: I don't think you do, I stopped saying it and it's like you don't care. You failed the shit test, so now she's upping her game. You shouldn't have budged. Her: I always give you space, you always want space, I never bother you. I clean all the time (knowing that was a quality I loved), I do ev…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:03 AM
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H: I don't think you are aware that I have feelings. I can't even deal with you right now.. I thought we were in a good place but that's low even for you. I tell you things cause I trust you not for you to use against me. This most certainly is her trying to remove your frame. It's a nuclear shit test. You want to dismiss her childish feelings on the premise that they're unfounded. Use the standard shit, A&A, pressure flip, or whatever your taste is. Do not by any means use logic unless it's to …
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:54 PM
2

when I asked her when she was free again, it took her almost an hour to get back to me. That alone, is worthy of ghosting for the time being IMO. And that it is. She's subtly put you in the friendzone, but now she knows you you're not going to stay in the little beta box she put you in. Blow her away if she doesn't have enough time for you. You're not her little orbiter, are you?
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:44 PM
1

Remember the rule of text (see above)
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:40 PM
2

Should I text her back and tell her I have plans on Sunday? You answered your own question in the previous sentence. I already have plans on Sunday, so fuck her, she can hang out with me on my own time now. Hit her up again in a few weeks instead. She backed out before at the last minute. By playing dread, you're showing her that you have abundance mentality and that she's not the center of your life, a.k. she'll have to put more investment and doesn't have you at her beck and call (which means …
/r/askTRP18/05/16 04:16 AM
1

Met a girl, asked her to hang out on Monday, she was busy An obvious shit test. It didn't look like you came off too needy. Remember, if you're too invested, she'll lose interest. You have to keep her guessing. That's what maintains her interest. .... she went to bed, I said I missed my bus, she obviously didn't want me to stay.... I asked for an extra 20 minutes, she exasperatedly said yes, I said no and left Good, this is good gaming. She was throwing a nuclear shit test at you. You had abunda…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 03:24 AM
6

You're not gaming her properly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM
/r/askTRP18/05/16 03:10 AM
2

if I start acting confident and outspoken, the AMOGging increases Stop being the beta male then. If he gets more aggressive at it, it means he's nervous. Call him out on his insecurity. Same thing goes if people pay attention to me. Stop being such a beta, don't let him do that. Talk over him. Shame him for talking over you. If he makes a joke out of it, get others to help you shame him, use your peers to your advantage. I'd like to clarify this doesn't bother me, actually. Good. You've got the …
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:33 AM
1

TRP speculations are based on induction from observations. Keep this in mind when applying AWALT or similar. There are exceptions to every rule. But in general, it's true and a very useful guideline.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:28 AM
2

Escalate, escalate, escalate. You want to isolate her, play with her a bit, and move in for the kill. Don't think, just do. Obviously you need time alone too.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 07:26 AM
1

I'm suggesting this with setting-the-boundaries in mind. If he is going to be a pushover, she will treat him like a doormat. Obviously, if he has standards with the threat of leaving if they're not met, she knows that she must either up her game, or leave. With this in mind, how do you rationalize that this is not the right thing to say?
/r/askTRP17/05/16 05:42 AM
0

Would you share some thougts? How should I handle this? "I feel like you're not attending to my needs. If you're going to be my girlfriend, I'd expect us to be more intimate. You're not the same person I've met." She said I can do whatever I want and she knows I'm gone as soon as there is another guy. "If I'm not getting any from you, you're getting some from someone else. I'm leaving." cue she crawls to you.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:59 AM
1

she makes excuses and i just cba anymore lol , she tells so many white lies... Obviously she is shittesting you. This is good. It's a clear IOI, but she's acting like a child, so you need to maintain Frame. Edit: whatever the case, stay focused. You're only texting her to meet, not to banter back-and-forth. then she said she wants to try meet and work on things between us Good, she's beginning to cave. If you used radio silence to get this out of her, you're on the right track. Keep leading. .. …
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:57 AM
1

You were able to make out. You're doing something right. Work on your game and get them to join you. Bait them into your car, fuck them in there. Or get them into your home. Whatever it is, it seems like you're falling short.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:49 AM
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"Are you a virgin?" If you're going to bed me you have to buy me a drink first. "Hah! Virgin!" Don't be so insecure. I'm sure you'll find a faithful guy for you... someday. Maybe.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:47 AM
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How can I deal with this? Its tough! The main reason why you have anxiety is because you're afraid of people judging you. What you need to do is be yourself and just not give the tiniest fuck. Who cares if they think you're weird/creepy/ass? Stop giving a fuck and move on with it. In fact, embrace it as who you are, to the point where you can genuinely laugh and joke about it. This will make you confident, and people can smell this confidence from you, which ironically, makes you the opposite of…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:38 AM
1

It's a shit test. Do not dignify it with a serious response. Joke about it or say something that will make her hamster spin. Something like: "I want a sandwich."
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:31 AM
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Forget about what she feels. Do what YOU want to do. She will naturally pick up on your strength of will and follow. If you don't feel like fucking, then don't fuck. Hell, you could use that when she fires shots ('you just want me for sex!'). If she ever asks you shit like "what are we" and you don't want to answer, then don't fucking answer. Just tell her "let's not ruin what we have by setting standards. I'm happy and you're happy and that's all that matters." See what I did there? Lead, lead,…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 07:19 AM
2

You haven't swallowed the red pill yet. Be emotionally prepared for a breakup soon after the girls night, or at the very least, a deteriorating relationship. Keep this on the back of your mind - we warned you. There are so many red flags, you should know better.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 03:04 AM
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Time
/r/askTRP14/05/16 03:00 AM
1

Girl: Don't think I've heard of that one Such a great offer, but it'll have to be another time as my friend is visiting and already made plans with her To which I didn't reply. Good. It doesn't deserve a reply, and if you would have, it would have sounded needy, and needless to say, a major turn off. I left her on "seen", and she actually just texted me "My legs are soooo sore, I demand you give me a massage (smiley)" This is a little more tricky. She could be trying to bait you in, and rational…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 02:59 AM
1

Obviously, if she's using sex as a tool to manipulate you, she's emotionally abusive. You're not some sort of dog that can be treated with sex as rewarding good behavior. Fuck that shit. Be upfront with her and call her out on her bullshit or walk away. Make it clear that when you walk away, it's because of her disrespect (not the sex but the manipulation).
/r/askTRP14/05/16 02:05 AM
3

Just know that the longer that you wait, the less your chances will be.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 12:32 AM
3

It's projecting old stuff onto new relationships. Ain't cool. Bingo. She should know to leave behind old emotional baggage if she wants to be with you.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 09:40 PM
2

Stop being paranoid, you'll lose Frame. So far, you've aced this. You played radio silence and she's freaking out, which is good. She knows she's acting like a child and now that she's being held responsible for it (your lack of attention) the reality that she can't treat you like this is sinking in and she's freaking out. Play it cool and use her paranoia to your advantage.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 09:07 PM
3

My question is, is this a big deal or should I not worry about it? I'm just worried it'll be awkward. It doesn't matter. With this mindset, you've already lost frame. Be frank; tell her that you want to be alone with her. If she takes her sister anyway, softly next her.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 08:59 PM
1

How do I respond to girl saying we shouldn't see each other because she doesn't just want casual sex? Next!
/r/askTRP13/05/16 08:46 PM
1

She's trying to destroy your Frame. You must hold it strong. He's a candidate response (if you choose to even dignify her childish bantering with one): "What? I was having fun. I was thinking about taking you to X but if you're going to mope around feeling like a slut then forget it." Boom. You just put her in a position where she'll feel even more of a slut if she -doesn't- accept this act of 'commitment'.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 08:39 PM
10

Those are all shit tests bro. Even the last one. She's trying to feel you out. Do not show weakness.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 08:33 PM
2

Plate: I'm just saying I wish you'd put your foot down sometimes Obviously this is a shit test. Translation: "You're not making me feel special enough. Man up and commit to me." I agree with AFPJ. Pressure flip. My suggestion is a little more aggressive. "Alright, I'm setting my foot down. Let another man walk out with you like that and we're through." This immediately radiates a brilliant abundance mentality. Also: The situation where girls want to change a bad boy into a good boy then dump his…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:50 PM
2

Sounds like you've got onitis. Now that you know, you know what to do.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:11 PM
2

Weaponize your unattractiveness. Remember that women are not as visual as men are. If you make fun of your own looks with Agree & Amplify, which kills two birds with one stone. You'll display both confidence (something more valuable than looks) and you'll disarm them at the same time so they can't use it against you.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:09 PM
1

10 mins goes by and I notice she's being short, say "what's wrong?" she replies, "I want to spend time with you but you're on your computer." This was your first shit test. You fucked up not recognizing it. You did sort-of pass it by refusing to give in so easily and instead of asking her where she wants to go (seeking for her approval), you took the lead and made her join YOU (lets do what -I- want to do.) Then came the second shit test. Gets out of shower, grabs her computer and says she'll be…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:52 PM
1

Remember the rule of text. When you talk to her over the phone (or any media whatsoever) it is only to set meetings and dates. You are not going to be texting back and forth, and the more you'll be doing it, the less you chances of hitting up the girl. You must keep frame and be ready to lead. Only tell her you're ready to meet at X to do Y with her. (obviously don't message her right away, you got other shit in your life to do). If she 'doesn't have the time' call her out on wasting your time a…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:28 PM
1

rub her clit and she is soaking, and suddenly she says she has to go to the toilet Good so far. Sounds like she went away as an excuse to put up her ASD. You should have now be prepared for a shit test. omes back, says she is really sorry but is far too tired to have sex. There it is, like clockwork. You should adopt abundance mentality. It's cool, if she's not down to fuck, you'll fund pussy elsewhere. I say okay and just lie down next to her. This is where you fucked up. You should have sugges…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:16 PM
2

If you don't control your emotions, your emotions control you. You're having a shitty moment because you feel like shit. And everyone around you sniffs out this bad energy. Get over it, get motivated, and get happy, fast. I've seen a guy in a fucking wheelchair pick up chicks.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:37 AM
1

So going through her phone like a teenager shows her that you're not a pushover? Of course. She's a child, and parents check their children's phones all the time. She's obviously misbehaving. Maybe it's time for some punishment...
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:32 AM
1

Start being an asshole. This will make her stop asking for your homework. This will also give you the additional benefit of her being attracted to you. Because as we all know, chicks dig assholes. Stop thinking and rationalizing. Just do it.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:23 AM
0

my question is why did she choose this guy over me? Bro, she played you like a harp. She's not fucking him, that was just an excuse to reject YOU. It was a shit test. And you failed. Hard. When she brought his name up, you should have laughed at her and suggested that you make him your boyfriend instead of her your girlfriend, because he shows more femininity.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:14 AM
1

There are two sides to this coin. One one hand, you want to keep abundance mentality and keep her anxious about losing you. On the other hand, you want her to know that you're not a pushover, and have boundaries set. If she senses you're weak and she can fuck whoever but then run back to you, she'll demote you to orbiter status rapidly.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:54 AM
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I'm going to clear this up so it's as easy to see as the sky is blue, so listen up. You have two choices: 1) Demote her to plate. 2) Don't give a fuck. You must maintain Frame. She's already beyond redemption at this point, the fact that she's bringing up her ex means that she's comparing him to you. And if she does it in front of you, it's a clear shit test. Again, maintain Frame, I cannot stress this enough. You could train her to not bring up her ex by shaming her, but that will only put your…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:47 AM
1

she thought i was playing games with her... Says the flake. Call her out on her bullshit. If anyone's playing games, it's her. If she doesn't want to meet, she's wasting your time. Keep up your abundance mentality. Embrace it. She's clearly afraid and is trying to ruin your frame. Remain strong. Yes, you do have other plates, because she's proven not holding her end of the deal.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:18 AM
1

however when i dont chat back and forth , she asks if somethings up loool Make your intentions clear. If she's not texting you to meet up, then she's wasting your time. How can she say "OMG I WANT YOU SO BAD!" while at the same time canceling your meeting for last-minute bullshit excuses? Clearly she doesn't want you as bad as [insert last-minute bullshit excuse].
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:16 AM
1

Let it go. You don't have the outcome independence mentality. Adopt the abundance mentality into your lifestyle. Obviously if you don't get to fuck her again, you need to cut contact. You've had your turn, it's time to move on to the next bitch. Let her do the chasing you. She would have sensed that you didn't need her if you left. But you didn't. In her mind, it just confirmed her presupposition of you. Let this be a lesson learned.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 03:04 AM
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Sounds like you're an introvert. Talking to people and socializing in general drains you, no? What you need to do is build confidence to more efficiently spend your social energy. You need to keep doing this until you see these people are fountains of energy instead of energy sinks. Look at them as a challenge. There are no repercussions for losing. You can just walk away and they'll never see you again. Remember that.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:28 AM
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Dude, you clearly want to cheat on your wife. The fact that you're on reddit proves that, and if you do have our approval you'll simply use that to rationalize that you did it without feeling bad about yourself. Make your choices.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:04 PM
2

She mentioned she saw me carrying many grocery bags and wanted to offer me ride. She digs you, you should ask her out. She did not do it because she felt it was gonna be weird. She gave you a huge clue. What she's looking for is your approval. Do you think she's a slut for having these feelings? Are you going to disengage because she's feeling insecure? She's looking for a man who she can lean on.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:00 PM
2

STOP. You are about to lose frame. Keep it cool. If you keep her, you'll be happy. If you lose her, you'll still be happy because fuck the rules, your happiness depends on YOU. Anyway, when in doubt, call her out on the shit test directly in a playful, dismissive way. She thinks she got you cornered down but this is calling you out is still a shit test (which you can make fun of. Shit tests are in your domain, after all). Three days later over text she called me out on the dreading and asked poi…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:00 AM
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She was using 16 to see my reaction Spot-on. That's all there is to it, nothing more to it than that. And I did start walking away. This is perfect. Your character and lack of tolerating her bullshit is exactly why she made that last decision to grab at you. Had you tolerated it, you would've lost frame. Her opinion of you would have went down.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:47 AM
3

"*Fuglyskank can, if she wants to, have her pussy stuffed by any of her Beta-Orbiters if she so chooses. I understand that she seeks male attention and validation, but surely she must like sex as well. Why doesn't she just fuck them for her own pleasure?" You answered your own question earlier. Freddy was in a 'relationship' with this chick but they never closed. Heck, the amount of time they spent should have been a clear indicator of that. They're both friendzoned betas. You're severely undere…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:37 AM
1

Looks like you're getting a series of shit tests thrown at you. Depending on how you respond she'll either perceive you as a funny, cocky, possible sexual mate, or one of those beta boys she will friendzone away when you make a move. You must hold frame. Try Agree & Amplify. If she calls you a dick, tell her "Yes, but I'm an asshole too. Dicks and assholes tend to get along well together, know what I'm saying?" Cue laughing at your own joke, get her to join in. If she obliges, she'll be more int…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:23 AM
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