After raising my SMV significantly, I’ve no problem attracting hot women and getting them on first dates. Weirdly though I’m getting more shit tests now then ever.

Girls are asking shit like how times you had sex this week, are you a player etc etc. I own that shit and not bothered by it but sometimes they’ll make the pussy hard to get because they fear I only need them for sex.

My bullshit detector tells me all these girls have given it up on the first date but then present their best versions to me. I’ve even called bs on a few and they backtracked saying yeah they had first date sex with other dudes but didn’t want to give that impression to me. I just tell them that’s the last time you will lie to me.

At the same time, these girls will usually give it up on second and third date if I give them comfort without becoming too beta. I should note that I do a make out session at least on first dates and try to escalate regardless of their bs.

Is it just the nature of the game or is it that my smv is not as high as I think if they are angling for comfort/commitment right off the bat?