Before we begin, I am sidebarred. And after months of monk mode, like an autistic, I didn’t practice my game. Now I’m a well dressed, full frame, young & jacked social awkward guy.

I’ve spent some time alone, which I greatly enjoy. But this time alone has damaged my game, and got me with noise cancelling headphones (Bose QC35II) that completely disconnect me from the outer world.

I moved into the city, got Tinder and am ready to come out of monk mode. My shit is together and I’m jacked.

I noticed that girls look at me - a lot. And enjoy that I ignore them. They would keep looking as sort of “come talk to me” but my balls become non existent.

Some talk to me. And look like Pikachu face when I don’t escalate (ask for number etc)

I am finally getting the attention I was craving. But I’m having a hard time believing that my serial killer vibe doesn’t make me look intimidating.

Not only to female and gaming. But male friends that I want to make. They see me at the gym and feel intimidated.

Am I going too hard? Should I smile more and approach first? I know the answer to this shit but I need y’all insults.

Go ahead.