There seems to be a common problem among the people that I interact with socially, in the dating category. I approached to cool chicks on my daily cardio route, they both seemed pretty cool.

Unfortunately, one was prettier than the other, and I kind of chatted them up. I got one of their numbers and got through to the prettier one through the less attractive one. The one I didn't like had a boyfriend anyway, so there wasn't any issue with her passing me on to the other one.

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Jumping to the point, anyone that I text while in the pre-dating phase, I always seem to get slow texts. One of them works in a grocery store, the other is a coworker at a job I'm about to quit. Both of them

retain high interest towards me, but leave me lengthful, double text messages whenever they can. It's only a matter of time before I smash them both, but still I feel a bit underestimated here. Why do they take the time to message me like this? Since this is an on-going issue with both of them, I feel like I'm missing something that's right under my nose. I even respond when I'm not working at the end of the day, or after my intense workouts, I never drop everything for one text when I'm busy, I'm assuming they're doing the same? Neither of them have important jobs, one's a grocery employee, another's my coworker ( Im fucking my coworkers since I'm quitting soon, bite me).