Here how it has been going several times on a dating app.

Matching, talking,"-wanna meet up? - yeah", exchange numbers, talk a little, i propose a time, she can't and don't propose a time herself, talk a little more, later i propose another time, she can't

at this point i tell her to propose the day when we can meet, she say "okay", i go silent, she go silent

i guess there isn't really another way to handle it, right? it's just annoying and frustrating

since it's up to them to act, anyone ever had a good surprise a little while later?