I’m just starting to get use to red pill and am really enjoying it. It’s greatly improved my life already and want to learn as much as I can about it. One thing I haven’t really figured out yet is what’s the difference between oneitis and a LTR? I understand not to get attached to one girl as it can wreck you, but does that mean you keep spinning plates on the side during the relationship? Or do you just continue to focus on yourself as you would but just drop down to the one girl without getting attached and just have her part of your life? I have a girl who’s very interested and wants a LTR but I haven’t agreed to anything yet. I’m worried on getting to attached as she’s the type that likes to text all day and I know that can lead to becoming to attached so when the convo is dying I just stop replying. She starts a new convo a few hours later and I wait to reply until I feel it’s a good time. If she ever just sends a one word text she’ll never get a reply and she’s starting to learn that and I feel she’s just adding to the text to keep me texting so I’ve started just not reply when I feel the convo is just dragging on. I’m still vetting her so I don’t want to mess shit up but I also don’t want to push her to far away Incase I do decide I would like a LTR with her. Still talking to and seeking other girls to keep my options open, but just want to get advice on what to do if I do decide to pursue her more.