I suspect this might have something to do with a scarcity mentality, but I figured I'd put the feelers out here:

When I try I don't usually have two hard a time meeting women and becoming involved with them, I do, however find that once I become involved with them, even when I'm involved with two or more at the same time I lose my "Do I like her? headspace and fall into a "Does she like me headspace?"

I want this to go away, I know it's purely due to being blind to my own value, but the emotion doesn't care about my rationalizations. Can anybody offer me some suggestions here. It gets deep enough into my skin that I'll find myself hanging off my phone for a text, ignoring things that are important to me.