I read a post titled Tips for a First (or any) Date that will get You Laid in the post,the user mentioned that "Try to get her to talk, girls love to talk about themselves. Ask her questions about her hobbies, family, hopes, dreams, etc..." If you suddenly ask a girl, "What's your hobby?" "What's your dream?" etc etc. Doesn't it feel like the conversation is a bit forced and not organic? How do I learn the correct wording to ask her about herself without feeling like it's forced and stiff?