I'm confused in the RP theory of covert communication. Most people say that all communication, direction, requests, training needs to be done via covert communication. ie. ignore her if she violates.

But some swear by overt communication and outright telling her what you want from her.

What can be said overtly and what should be said covertly to a girl? Can you please give examples on which type you used to convey which topics?

Or it doesn't even matter as long as its coming from your frame?