I swallowed the pill one month ago. I had oneitis for this girl, asked her out 3 times, she always had an excuse. Her excuses seemed to be true though. I never acted beta around her as far as I know. She initiated a few times, asking if I was at this bar and we would dance and walk home, she rejected my kiss when I dropped her off home and then texted me "I didn't mean it in a bad way" when I got home. I didn't care. But then I was talking with one of her friends and she told me that my 'oneitis" mentioned me a few times. Most of the stuff she told me was not really negative but not good either in my eyes.

So she was clearly not too interested. I didn't mind as I just discovered TheRedPill and wanted to work on myself. So that's what I did. Been hitting up loads of girls, both online and irl. I got around 5 plates now and it definitely made me forget about my oneitis. I deleted her number and have been ignoring her for 1-2 weeks now.

But here's how the night went: There was an event last night. A new bar opened in town and there were like 400 people. Good vibes, drinks, everyone happy, etc... I walk into the bar and see my old oneitis checking me out with her friends. There were a crapload of people and I didn't feel like giving her attention anyways.

So, I mind my own business, have fun with friends and suddenly I was talking with this cute girl. I put the stuff I read here to a test. Kept strong eye contact, made her smile, flirt a bit, move on to my friends and then hit her up a bit later etc. I could tell she was down, so me and my friends move to another bar in town and she comes along.

In the bar I was dancing with friends, playing pool and one of my friends his girlfriend is the best friend of my old oneitis. They were standing next to us and I could see my old initis staring at me, wanting attention. She was legit standing 5meters away and at this point I could not ignore her anymore. So I just greeted her. I didn't feel like talking to her as I was having a cool night. So I move on and she grabs me by my arm. She asks if I'm mad at her.

The place is loud and too crowded so she proposed to talk outside. We went outside and I told her I was not mad at her, was keeping my frame. She said I was ignoring her messages and that she asked if I was going to this event previous week but I ignored her message tbh. But here's where I fucked up.. I told her what I knew. How she had been talking behind my back and that I was not mad but just not interested anymore. Her face was priceless. She looked like one of those spoiled kids who didn't get what she wanted. Probably because she was used to getting every guy she wanted, yes she is hot.

Then I went inside to get drinks and danced with the other girl who came along. She was grindin' on me and I took her home. We made out and had sex. (Thank you Red Pill). I told the girl I was not looking for anything serious and neither was she but today she already texted me 7 times, even when I didn't reply she texted another message 20 minutes later. She added me on Facebook and started following me on Instagram (strong clinger).

I'll just keep her as a plate. But how do I go from here? I want to add my old oneitis to my list of plates. She lives in my street, legit 5 houses from me so it could be perfect. Whenever I'm horny I could text her and she would be in my room within 2 minutes, perfect plate material. I'm 90% sure I'm over her as I have loads of options now.

But yeah.. how do I go from here?