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Good comment. So what’s your goal here?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 04:55 AM
1

You could assume it’s racism, or you could assume the person is just being an asshole. It’s what us white people do.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:54 AM
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Yes!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 10:10 PM
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8 hrs? I’d have given up way earlier than that. Me point was that you provide a good narrative but don’t get much into your hows. If you’ve got that covered then disregard. Im just getting tired of OUS posts that seem to be mostly emotional vomit. Your posts don’t have much of that and it sounds like what you’re doing is working for you which is the whole point in my mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 10:10 PM
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Ok that’s good. Finish reading before next OYS. Stopping the DEER is a process so don’t expect to be perfect immediately. How will you expand your social circle. I don’t care what the answers are, but you need to think thru them and create an actionable plan FOR YOU. Or your goals are really just dreams.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:25 PM
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That’s my whole point. OP said he failed his diet this wk. How did he fail? We’re there triggers to recognize in the future? What is he doing to improve this failure. I agree that there’s a lot of wasted fluff in some of these, but for some of us this is the only place to work through our thoughts and actions with men that understand and can hold our feet to the fire.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:23 PM
1

And the baby will make it worse. You’ll go through some hormonal changes as well, just recognize, confirm, and recover.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:20 PM
2

Remember, sex is not the motivation here, becoming the man you want to be is. Sex is a lagging indicator of performance. You’ll have sex when you’re ready. Just don’t f up the relationship due to your anger. Go read the 1000 ft rope post. I’d link it but don’t know how on these fancy iPad thingees.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:19 PM
1

As the great John McClain once said, “Welcome to the party, pal.”
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:14 PM
2

Don’t overthink the stuff with your wife. Remember to have an abundance attitude. From the outside it looks like she’s trying to meet you halfway, or possibly is working her way toward what you are asking for. See where it leads but don’t overthink it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:06 PM
-1

Good field report. Goals?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:00 PM
-2

Goals?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 07:55 PM
1

Don’t ask your wife what she needs for the pregnancy. It’s better if you read the books she reads about it, find some of your own, and talk to her girlfriends that have had kids. What do you wish you had done differently, what could your SO have helped with more, etc. Same with your buddies that have had kids. We all have things we wish we had done differently. Remember that any answer a woman gives you will be couched in female imperative so think through those answers and decide if they fit wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 07:54 PM
0

Any goals here or just vomiting your thoughts?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 05:47 PM
-3

No goals and no details how you’ll meet them...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 05:37 PM
-2

There’s no goals in here, just a wall of hamster.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 05:27 PM
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Patience grasshopper.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:42 AM
3

Maybe, just maybe, she’s trying to be playful. Keep an open mind and have fun with it. If she causes you more drama than you want then soft next. If she’s becoming a shrew then hard next. Dude, do you even sidebar?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:05 PM
3

There’s always money in the banana stand.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 06:19 PM
1

Be okay with the fact that you don’t really like mornings. Who cares? Know thyself.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:09 PM
3

WGAS? Why is this important? Focus on you and your improvements and you’ll start getting invited to things.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:08 PM
1

‘Date’ for friends the same way you do for plates. If they cause too much drama (subjected, your level of too much is up to you) then next then as friends.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:06 PM
1

This sounds like good progression to me. Yes you’re hamstring and yes you still could have escalated but there’s no timeline on this stuff. Just constant improvement. Always n close cuz you just never know. Abundance mentality takes time, but DGAF attitude is a choice. Start there.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:04 PM
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Hi how are you has worked many many times for me. It’s all in the delivery. He’ll, if you do it right, you could open with the alphabet song and get interest. My other favorite is hi, what’s your name.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 05:25 PM
1

If you’re reading the sidebar then you’ve not gotten the point out of it. You’re not ‘portraying’ a try hard attitude. You ARE trying hard. You’re lifting hard and learning hard and improving hard. You’re fixing all the soft areas in your life. This isn’t some act you put on in front of women to try to get them into bed. This is supposed to be you improving your life. Women are a byproduct.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 05:22 PM
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Because part of swallowing the pill is an anger phase. Some men feel like this is the only place to express that anger without reprisal because the rest of us on the TRP path are either in that same phase or went through it on their journey.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 05:17 PM
6

‘Thanks for the shower. Common babe let’s head back to your place so I can towel off.’
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:30 PM
6

This young man needs to hit the bar. (Wait for it) The sidebar!
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:28 PM
1

This. You’re on your way to some serious covert contracts. Better to hammer this shit out now before nuptials so you can have her in line or out the door before the big mistake. You’re completely lost in her frame at this point. You’re doing this shit (cleaning, doing toilets, etc) because you expect her to figure it out from your example. That’s the wrong way to come at it. You do that shit for you because you want it that way or DONT DO IT. Get a maid, or better yet, set boundaries of expectat…
/r/askMRP15/06/18 10:06 PM
1

I hear a bag of skittles makes a nice gift.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:54 AM
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Game is a big art of being a man, but at your age don’t think of it AS game, but rather THE game that we play with women. Older men talk about game because they’ve lived long enough that they are conditioned to see women thru the feminine imperative and ‘having’ game allows them to change their mindset. You are young enough that if you follow TRP precepts you’ll already see women as something to play with rather than something to pedestalize.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:12 PM
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You’re wall of text pretty much answered your question, didn’t it? The real question is, do you want to stay that way?
/r/askTRP14/06/18 07:33 AM
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Dude that’s fukcing genius!
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:57 AM
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When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show others they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full Matthew 6:16 Same idea. When you do what you’re SUPPOSED to do, don’t expect anything for it. Your rewards are from you, not given to you by someone else. When you’re acting as a man would act, the reward is internal. Remember, MRP is to IMPROVE THE SELF, not to do things that will result in more sex. The sex is what pil…
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:51 AM
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I think the true answer here is it depends. How’s she been acting lately? Does she deserve to be given positive attention? Has she been supportive of you as captain? Only you can decide how much effort she deserves, but as the mod said eventually she’ll get bored of being ignored and you find yourself facing papers. Good luck.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:45 AM
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You’re being disrespected. Get up and leave. Ghost. Then explain to her why you ghosted and tell her you expect her to not do it again. Here’s a key part. DONT EVER DO IT TO HER. Not because she’s special or anything like that but because you need to be consistent in your boundaries.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:35 AM
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RP is not about sex. Sex is a byproduct of being a man. TRP is a helpful place for us to relearn how to be masculine. You’re just starting a long journey. Don’t worry about the sex part. That will happen when it’s supposed to if you’re ingesting TRP.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:31 AM
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I think she’s asking you to go find another girl....
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:21 AM
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You’ve been engaged for this short time and had this many arguments with your fiancé. Might want to put some serious thought into this decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 07:27 PM
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This has to be a troll.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:31 PM
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If you’ve never lifted before, SL5x5 is a perfect place to start.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 05:20 AM
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NMMNG
/r/askMRP07/06/18 09:08 PM
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This all comes down to weak frame. She leaves you a list of chores. Fine. You should ALREADY have your own list and if you’re really doing MRP you know it should be in priority order. You do the shit you know is important. Clipping the cat’s nails sounds pretty low priority. Maybe you’ll get to it, maybe you won’t. In the mean time the sink is leaking and the toilet is clogged and the grass needs cutting and the car needs an oil change. Stop mate guarding. She’s flirty with coworkers cuz she’s n…
/r/askMRP07/06/18 09:07 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/T7qZPgc.jpg
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:31 PM
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You’re touching on something more important here than NMMNG. What you’re getting at is frame. And for both TRP and MRP frame is the beginning of everything. What NMMNG means is that you should stop giving a shit what other people think about your hair or sense of style or whatever. These are lifestyle choices that you get to make because ITS YOUR LIFE. When MRP talks about lifting and getting a hair cut or new threads we’re talking about doing things that build confidence and promote the you tha…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 04:49 PM
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Sounds like she’s invested in the relationship but not physically attracted anymore. That’s MRP in a nutshell. You’ve been (supposedly) doing this for a few months. That’s nothing. 1000 foot rope. Don’t Rambo. These are concepts you should have at least read by now. Was she ever affectionate? Did this happen post baby? She doesn’t want you to initiate because you’re still in her frame. You’re not doing this mrp for you, you’re doing it for her and for sex and she knows it.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 04:43 PM
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You’re leading. If she’s not following then you’re not leading correctly. Chastisement for not following will not get her to follow.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 04:39 PM
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Not sure you want to plate someone you share a street with.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:54 PM
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Agreed. And that is what I was getting at. OYS and show her that she isn't your mom, and, more importantly I think, doesn't have to be. I think when that realization hits for the woman it improves her attitude. Of course, only after she fights you for dominance.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 08:05 PM
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This chic sounds like a problem. Might just be how you described her. Sounds like a lot of wasteful drama.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:56 AM
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You are my spirit animal.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:50 AM
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Be careful reading too much into her actions. If you’re feeling shitty, she sees that and doesn’t want to get sick. If the shit test have declined while you’ve been sick then she just recognizes that you’re working on getting healthy. Women might be grown children but even my 9 yo knows not to test me when I’m feeling sick. Give her the benefit of the doubt if she’s been on good behavior up to this point. Don’t go straight to shitty thoughts. That’s on you, not her. That’s your frame bending. Do…
/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:43 AM
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You’re with this girl, why?
/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:24 AM
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Dude she sounds like she’s your mom.
/r/askMRP30/05/18 05:05 PM
0

Do you have pubic hair?
/r/seduction30/05/18 05:02 PM
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The difference between being assertive and being an asshole is your frame. You’re frame is predicated in the female imperative. They think assertiveness is being an asshole. But if you’re doing it from a position of improving your live, improving your marriage, then you’re being assertive. YOU NEED TO READ THE SIDEBAR. You’ve already got the pill in your mouth. You gonna swallow or what?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 07:34 AM
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Why are you trying to change for women? That’s bad frame. There are plenty of quality women that want men that display high value through their outward presentation. Go look for them.
/r/seduction28/05/18 10:59 PM
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I’ve heard dick pic texts work well....
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:57 PM
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Better make sure she understood that boundary.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:51 PM
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Dude. You’re 18. Grow up. Keep working on you. Oneitis is NEVER good for your psyche. She’s 15. SHES ACTING HER AGE. You need to grow up and keep getting your shit together. Hit on someone your own age. Work on your confidence. Understand that you’ll get rejected but that it DOESNT mean you’re a loser. But as far as the 15 yo, you need to get over that shit. Women are hard enough to be around when they’re 25 and acting 8. I can’t imagine how difficult they are when they’re 15 and acting 8.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:50 PM
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Does anyone actually read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:40 AM
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Depends. Was this a covert contract you initially had with her? Did you discuss ground rules early in your LTR phase? Does she ever go out without you in groups that include guy friends? This all comes down to frame. If you set boundaries for these type of scenarios and she broke them then it’s an easy call. If you have made covert contracts in your head and didn’t discuss them with her then you are mate guarding and that’s weak.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:38 AM
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Don’t listen to what the say, listen to what they do. He’s afraid of turning into a dumb jock because he’s conquered the physical realm and doesn’t want to get pigeon holed into one category. Women might tell him they want him to be sensitive because he’s already jacked so they’re getting that from him already. If you didn’t have that physical nature when trying to be sensitive then women didn’t want that from you. Or used it to deny you. Or used it as ASD on you and it worked. If he’s knee deep…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 11:43 PM
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Sounds like the thing a 20 yo should do.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 10:37 PM
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You feel no sense of purpose because you know nothing, you’ve experienced nothing. You have nothing to compare. You lack individuality. Meaning you still haven’t separated your ‘self’ from your dependent childhood. Of course you feel nothing from an HB5. Where’s the challenge there? Where’s the excitement of being turned down? What you need it experience. You need to know your body through sport and exercise. You need to know your mind through reading and deep discussions. You need to know your …
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:04 PM
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I’m sorry about your dad. That sucks. Here’s the upside. Now you get to choose the next man to be your mentor. And that’s what a good dad is. A mentor. My suggestion is to read the sidebar and have an articulated understanding of what it was that your dad did for you then go find a mentor to guide you because there is still a lot of life you need to fight through. Remember that no one man is perfect, you can have more than one mentor (no one man can be perfect in his understanding of every facet…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:05 PM
2

Yup. Get this boy to the side bar!
/r/askTRP24/05/18 07:26 AM
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This. I’m a firm believer that you can’t move on and come to terms until you put it in ink. You have to have something tangible to pick up and read when you start feeling depressed and remember what true depression was like. I suggest you flesh this out on paper, put it in a file folder, and keep it to remember why you’re working on what you’re working on now. You can get thru this. Remember your son and set him up to be red pill from the beginning.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 08:43 PM
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There’s a lot to unpack here. read and internalised the sidebar No you haven’t. You’ve oneitised your LTR. You’re amazingly passive in your writing style and I’m betting you’re that way in life. Here’s an example: That's why she happened to get into an affair She didn’t happen to have an affair. She chose to. Why she chose to is, as you pointed out, mostly your fault. Congrats on at least owning that. I have an undiagnosed binge eating disorder. This is bullshit. Either go to a doc and get it di…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 07:42 PM
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Sounds like a soft next to let her cool off then.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:00 PM
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The whole point of plates is that they can be dropped. Watch out for oneitis.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:41 PM
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Dolls don’t have to worry about me correcting their grammar.
/r/seduction21/05/18 07:07 PM
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What does a prince have that ordinary men don’t? Unlimited resources. They’re all feminists until they can find the ultimate provider.
/r/MGTOW21/05/18 01:10 AM
1

Holy shit you sound like my ex girlfriend.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:42 PM
-1

You’re a beta orbiter. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:40 PM
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Why did you continue the stupid argument over the student. There’s no discussion here. ‘No I wasn’t’ then STFU. No more discussion about it. If she continues then leave for the time being. But it sounds like you were trying to provoke her so you get what you deserve.
/r/askMRP20/05/18 02:46 PM
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Why is she a model? She’s a 7 on a good day.
/r/MGTOW20/05/18 02:36 PM
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I don’t understand why you care.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:40 AM
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This is a feminine imperative issue. You’re still wrapped in the idea that women are a limited commodity (statistically untrue) and that you should then compare yourself to other men to see if you’re ‘good enough’ for a women. This is BS. You are you and when you realize your own power and status you’ll stop comparing yourself to someone else’s standards and start judging yourself by your own.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:47 PM
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Read the sidebar, specifically about outcome independence.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:41 PM
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If you accept the facts that women outnumber men, that most above avg women will seek out the well-above ave men, then you must realize that your odds are much much higher than soviet has led you to believe.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 03:21 PM
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Fair enough
/r/askMRP19/05/18 03:19 PM
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Yeah but that’s built in dread game. Next time just give the raised eyebrow, wouldn’t you like to know kinda looks. Watch dread go to 12.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 04:49 AM
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What’s your waist measurement at the belly button? I’m 39” at 5-10 and 248#. The navy calculator puts me at 20% but I’d guess I’m between that and 25%. I played mid level rugby until about 5 yrs ago and I’ve let go since then. I’m also restarting to lift again and MY GOD have I lost strength in 5 years. He is fat (so am I) but I’m not sure he’s gotta be 40%...
/r/askMRP19/05/18 04:40 AM
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7 billion + people in the world and a little over 52% are women. You feel the way you do because you’re still blue pilled. You obviously are still seeing things thru a feminine perspective that wants you to think there’s a woman shortage. If you fully accepted the facts you’d take your SMV much more seriously. You said your new, so you’re still new. Keep reading. There’s no way you’ve read it all. Lift.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:27 AM
1

For finances I can’t recommend Dave Ramsey’s financial peace university highly enough. I’m assuming as a janitor you don’t make a whole lot, and FPU is geared exactly to that situation: lower income, debt (especially credit card), difficulty sticking to a plan. Find a class. It’s usually once a week and covers each step of the plan. There is a pack you can buy (~$100, couple books and some forms that help you make goals and track them, but not really necessary to do the plan). When I took over o…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 04:25 PM
1

You need to up your protein and fat. You might gain a little body fat but that means you’re not lifting as hard as you think. Document everything. Stay away from carbs, especially if you’re upping your fat intake. The combo is proving to be bad for people.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 04:10 PM
2

This is exactly what I needed to read. Thx.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 05:31 AM
1

Master something. Take that feeling and apply it to things you haven’t mastered.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:26 PM
2

That’s frame. You have no idea what’s going on in that persons life. And honestly, who cares. They’re nothing to you until they aren’t.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:44 PM
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Disagree. Women’s go to schtick seems to be over the top crass with a side of whore stories. Silverman is no different. Amy Schumer same thing. Look at me, I’m not ladylike at all!!1! Gets old quickly.
/r/MGTOW16/05/18 04:31 PM
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The options button is the three dots in the upper right.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:28 PM
2

Sooo...read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:03 PM
2

Then I don’t think you should consider it shitting where you eat. Although thinking about it, if she’s a regular than I’d pass. No reason to f with your goals at work for a plate.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:59 PM
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WTF is twitch?
/r/MGTOW16/05/18 08:02 AM
1

Does she work with you or shop there? Because if you won’t date anyone who could shop at your store and you work in retail then your poll is gonna be pretty small.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:55 AM
1

Good to hear.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:08 AM
3

Totally normal. True manhood is a bit lonely. That’s why you need to develop a bro code that you can trust.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:49 AM
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Sounds like she’s trying to set her self up to leave him. I wouldn’t get anywhere near this nuclear fallout.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:24 AM
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Depends on what he’s trying to accomplish. I’m assuming she’s acting entitled to the relationship so he has chosen to insert some dread to remind her of his outcome independence. Fine. Then he needs to realize that she needs to make the adjustment but before she does she’ll probably try to force him to go back to his old frame/actions. Once she sees he’s serious she’ll either change or leave. If there’s a third choice then he can leave. That’s the angle my advice comes from.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:25 PM
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Nah this is more WWE. Gotta have the big setup to create tension before the big main event!
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 09:02 PM
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She’s invested and probably is afraid she’s going to lose whatever you’re providing (dick, money, home, etc) due to your change of behavior. She’s making the adjustment, but before she does she’s going to try to ‘crazy’ you into going back to your old, familiar behavior. Hold frame and keep the course until she’s behaving in a manner you want or she decides it’s not worth it for her and the relationship ends.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:00 PM
1

I wrote this a while ago so... I think it comes down to how you define dominate. Women want to be led. They don’t want to make decisions or be responsible for, well, anything. But we’ve raise a generation and a half by all women and now the men act like women. They want to be taken care of and coddled cuz that’s how the women in their lives have taught them. That’s what I meant by this I think. I was making a delineation between the dominance of male leadership and the BDSM version. Plus I was p…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 12:01 AM
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Totally. I’m not in need, just impressed with the combo of law and finance to get to a good outcome for the second dude.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 11:57 PM
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What’s your office number? Asking for a friend.....
/r/askMRP14/05/18 10:27 PM
2

You make valid points. I stand corrected.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:31 PM
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Disagree. He may or may not have gotten offended, but she was offensive, has a 0 SMV, isn’t on his radar, and was expecting him to take her offensive comment like a doormat. Good on you to set this woman in her place. This old lady may have been shit testing him, but it certainly wasn’t to see if he had value as a sexual partner. She was just being a bitch. If she was young and worth working on then I’d agree that he lost frame by getting offended but I don’t think it’s the same when the shit te…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:22 PM
1

It blows over dude. Just keep plugging along. Read the sidebar. Surround yourself with positive people. Meditate. Don’t make a permanent decision to a temporary problem.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:33 PM
1

What do you know, I have one too. Proceed to get number.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:08 PM
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Who’s Rita ora? How do you know these people? WHY do you know these people?
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 05:53 AM
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Sidebar
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 11:58 PM
3

My advise: keep her around as ‘stress relief’ as you finish your studies. Then break up. Finish all your residencies and specialties, establish your practice, enjoy your high SMV, plate lots of women over the years, then when you’ve reached your peak and accomplished what you need then go find a woman. At that point you’ll have the wisdom to know what you’re looking for and, more importantly, what to look out for.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 03:03 PM
1

Np
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:11 AM
2

Pics or it didn’t happen!
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:19 AM
1

Dude you broke trust with the people that pay for your life. Sorry, that breaks the 1st Law, don’t outshine the leader.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:19 AM
1

Go read Rational Male, Just Get It. You’re supposed to know what it is or else she defines it and I’m guessing you don’t want that.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:07 AM
1

Website version not mobile. Look on the right sidebar for things to further educate yourself.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:49 PM
2

That...that just might win reddit....
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:16 PM
1

That’s really not the point. You’re trying to deflect from the attempted shaming by the new girl. It’s a shit test. How you handle it is more important than that you explain yourself. Never justify. So you can either ignore or make up a funny answer.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:14 PM
1

I can agree with that.
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 07:40 PM
0

Can you tell her that the reason you took the first girl is because her mom begged you?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:50 AM
2

Right back at ya, bud. The actual correct answer would be learn it all then go vote. But we know that most won’t. I’d rather those people not vote.
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 04:51 AM
2

Please, please don’t vote if you can’t be bothered to know all sides of a policy debate, know a candidates positions, and know their past voting records. This country needs less voters, not more.
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 04:14 AM
5

She’s hot? There’s nearly 4 billion (with a b) women in the world and you’ve seen maybe 300 since you sprouted your first pube. I’m not trying to be a dick but I am trying to drive home the point that there’s a lot of fish in the sea. Don’t GYOW yet. You’re too young for that. You don’t even know what you’re giving up yet. I would, on the other hand, go monk mode until the army can put some spine in you. Once you’ve accomplished something difficult in your life you’ll gain the confidence you nee…
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 04:12 AM
6

Translation: my game is screwing up their hypergamy and they’re not happy about it. They’d like me to go back to my prior beta ways.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:36 PM
1

Bam. Truth pill. Save yourself the money. Your true friends will keep in touch and you’ll make new friends.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:35 PM
8

Seriously. This is HS cheerleading. WGAF? Sports that require cheerleaders to entertain the crowd (I’m looking at you, football) should find rule changes to make the game more interesting.
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 07:33 PM
16

You can’t make yourself be a psychopath. This is a specific brain/chemical imbalance. That being said I understand your question. The difference is frame. Women don’t want to be dominated (well, some do but that’s a little beyond the normal range) they want to be taken care of and that is done from a frame of strength. Strength of character, body, finances, etc. They test that frame with shit tests to ensure they are getting the best ‘value’ man they think their SMV can pull. We do this too, but…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 02:34 PM
5

You’re watching her cats?!? I wouldn’t watch a plate’s plants. She has friends for that. Friends in the friendzone. Like beta orbiters. Com on man.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:30 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:23 PM
1

Use email to setup a meeting, but just like texts with women use it for logistics only. If he truly valued you when he was in his old position then he’ll make time. Otherwise he was blowing smoke. Good managers develop talent.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:21 PM
2

Escalate kino. If she reciprocates then you need to move things to the bedroom. Talk will NOT help at this point. All you can do is screw it up with words. Be the leader and lead things in that direction.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:32 AM
1

This. Email is not the right way to do it. Even a phone call is better than email but only if the person is beyond f2f range.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:29 AM
2

Study stoicism.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:26 AM
3

Cut
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:49 AM
12

Or just tell her you don’t see this working out and rather than wasting both of your time you’re going to call it now. Sack up. If there’s no attraction then she won’t mind.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:47 AM
10

When you play [insert your game of choice] do you want to play with crappy players or on an all star team and against other strong competitors? I’d guess they work the same, tho I doubt they’d phrase it that way.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:45 AM
1

Yeah I don’t know about that. How old is she? Women tend to get deep teased around 30 when they haven’t gotten married and/or had kids. Or they regret the man they did marry. If she’s younger than that and doesn’t have any major issues from her past then it could just be an attention grab. Just not enough info to help.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:42 AM
5

Have you tried anal? Dude you need to give more info if you want serious answers. It totally depends on why she’s acting that way.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:36 AM
8

Yep. Enjoy your free time.
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 03:29 AM
4

Sounds like the perfect day to roll in to talk to HR.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:27 AM
2

I’m not saying you did anything wrong. In fact it sounds like you were doing things well up to that point. Girls will claim bf to either stop the interaction because they have been sufficiently validated or it’s a shit test to see if you keep working her.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:25 AM
2

I’d go smallish apt (but higher end) then take your money and time to travel. My whole world changed when I started traveling. Gives mucho perspective.
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 03:23 AM
1

Sounds like you need to go monk mode for a while.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:22 AM
17

Or using you to make her beta jealous...
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 03:16 AM
9

Alpha doesn’t mean loud and obnoxious, or even center of attention. It means you keep your frame in the face of everything that comes at you. Introvert? Fine, don’t try to push something that goes against your deepest personality traits but use those traits as strength to attract women. That being said, at some point you should expect to have to initiate contact. At that point you have to be social enough to withstand the crowd she’s around and manage any shit tests she throws to see if you keep…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:05 AM
4

This. When they cut the grass, say thx and laugh as you walk away. One more wk you don’t have to do it. If they cook, grab a plate. They’re your housemaids! Enjoy it and use the extra time you just gained to work on your goals. That’s your frame right there. As a bonus, if you can get the girls to get the betas to do more housework that’d be great.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:02 AM
5

The truck has you know it. [edit: I have zero idea what this sentence was supposed to say. It autocorrected something but I’m at a loss.] They’ll bring in legal if it’s bad enough so you DO NOT want to lie. If they ask something you don’t know for fact, say IDK. You need to get this on paper before she reports on you.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:59 AM
2

The problem with this post is that it presumes that there is nothing a 3/10 can do to increase his SMV. A quick google search will find lots of fat, disgusting looking men with 10s on their arms because they are worth millions. There’s an old saying that men should remember about women. They may not (all) be prostitutes, but you WILL pay.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 02:58 AM
10

Because you’re giving her validation by being interested. Actually, 1 pretty much covers it all.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:53 AM
2

Never too old but be sure you need it and it benefits you toward your goals.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:15 AM
1

Agreed but porn is a tough thing to get over, especially after many years, since it’s immediate and never asks for more or shit tests.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:05 AM
1

Agreed but porn is a tough thing to get over, especially after many years, since it’s immediate and never asks for more or shit tests.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:05 AM
1

Take it as feedback. We’re going for growth here, not immediate perfection.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:04 AM
1

Awesome. Congrats. This guy needs BASIC help. But now he’ll be confused. Good work.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:56 PM
3

Depends on your stage in life and the motivations you fee inside. Young? Finish school (college or trade) and become a productive person. Set a goal for outside education like books per month or online courses that have nothing to do with your field. Continue working on your game. Older? Typically something work related. A business or side hustle. A non profit. A community charity. Or just coaching a local boys baseball team. Do something that shows boys how to be strong confident men. In the en…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:55 PM
3

Depends on your stage in life and the motivations you fee inside. Young? Finish school (college or trade) and become a productive person. Set a goal for outside education like books per month or online courses that have nothing to do with your field. Continue working on your game. Older? Typically something work related. A business or side hustle. A non profit. A community charity. Or just coaching a local boys baseball team. Do something that shows boys how to be strong confident men. In the en…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:55 PM
1

The more women can talk about themselves, the ‘closer’ they’ll feel to you. Let them talk. Don’t try to waste time trying to solve the problems they bring up. These aren’t problems in their eyes and it’s a waste of your energy.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:05 PM
1

Hey how’s it going? You busy? Wanna grab a cup of coffee? Worst she says is no. More likely just oh I can’t I’m on my way to destroy another mans life or something like that.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:48 PM
5

Massive shit test. Find new people to hang out with. This sounds like a setup of some kind. Either this Kelly girl is exaggerating in the hopes you’ll lower your standards for her or you are handsy in which case, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:35 PM
2

Make a plan. Meaning times, locations and exactly what you’ll study during that time. Understand what distracts you. If it’s women, study in your room. If you can’t stay off the interwebs, turn off your Wi-Fi and put your phone in another room.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:31 PM
6

Every man needs a mission. EVERY man. Sex and the gym are not missions. Having a higher purpose is but you need to figure out what that is for you.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:13 PM
4

That’s called testosterone. Enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:08 PM
1

If she’s new to the social group and her only attachment is a female friend then she’s going to feel that she needs male validation to continue being there. That’s why she was on you from the word go. She does the hot cold thing because she needs your continued validation without the commitment because she wants to keep her options open. Next her hard until she gets her act together.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:22 PM
3

All these guys make good points, but as an older man I can tell you that the sensitivity to character and crazy comes from experience. Well, they’re all crazy but the level can be determined fairly quickly once you have the knack. Unfortunately you just have to accept you’ll be burned a few times. Keep frame and try to maintain detachment.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:07 PM
4

Do not go to college unless you are certain of the outcome you’re looking for. I can’t imagine saddling myself with $125k+ debt for a piece of paper. Go learn a trade, start earning immediately. Figure out what you’re good at and what you wouldn’t do for all the money in the world. If your goals include college down the line, fine. Go. Do NOT get anyone pregnant.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:51 PM
2

Might as well where a sign that says, “Can’t attract women”.
/r/MGTOW08/05/18 02:36 PM
2

Indirect, IMO, shows fear. You want her number? Stop her and get it. Don’t pretend you want to know the time.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:48 PM
1

It’s exactly determined by your belief system. You can’t act alpha if you don’t believe you are. The rest of your comment is incomprehensible.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:46 PM
2

YW. Enjoy London.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:59 AM
17

If you’re honest from the outset then there’s no reason they can’t know each other. It shows abundance. Be prepared for a coordinated shit test tho.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:51 AM
1

Turn around, get her to stop, and open. If she bothers to stop then she wanted to. If she thought you were a creep or wasn’t really interested she probably won’t. But don’t go chasing either. If you had the balls to stop, you need to have the balls get get her number and, additionally, I’d set something up at that point. Can I buy you a cup of coffee at the Starbucks across the street? That kinda thing.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:49 AM
3

Don’t respond to games. Just because you didn’t close the deal doesn’t mean it won’t happen, but now you have to play a different game. Now she needs to feel your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:47 AM
2

Go to college. Come back on Christmas break with more experience and worldliness. Accidentally bump into her and ask her to hang. Go back to her place and accomplish task. HS chicks love college boys.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:13 AM
1

Change your mindset as well. What are all these party people accomplishing? Are they enhancing their life or trying to escape it. I’d guess the latter. Like I tell my kid any time she comes across someone acting the fool: someday you’ll be in charge over them.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:57 AM
6

Dude you’re 14. I get it that you’re waking up with a boner, and I’m glad you’ve discovered TRP, but give yourself a break.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:53 AM
1

Is this for real? You think she doesn’t know he’s gone? I’ll guess she knows where they come from. Don’t ruin it for her because you’re confused. Unless you’ve got some thing going for grandma.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:52 AM
1

Need more info. Does she know about your oneitis? If not, and you’ve next her, then respond the way you would a classmate you don’t know but are doing a group project with. If she does know then only respond to questions that are GENUINELY school related and then only bare facts.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:51 AM
2

Agreed. Your lack of confidence puts them on a pedestal, not your manners. True gentlemen are alphas. Posers are beta orbiters.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:49 AM
4

Its chicks that feel the need to use social media for self-gratification, not men. Just do it, skip this. This. Delete FB. I did this and gained hours of my life back EVERY DAY. Do you quietly and let your action broadcast your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 01:47 AM
4

Don’t do that. Just tell her you’re can’t make it and resched or tell her you’re not interested in a group activity. If she insists then she’s wasting your time.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:45 AM
2

Evil.
/r/MGTOW05/05/18 12:17 AM
1

Sounds like you’re studying the wrong thing
/r/askTRP05/05/18 12:06 AM
2

This. You have as much control over it as you do your height or eyebrow color. As Tyrian Lancaster said, make it your armor and they can never use it to hurt you.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:16 AM
1

JBP, 12 Rules, Rule 8. Tell the truth, or at least don’t lie. This feels like you’re lying to yourself. You need to look at your actions not the story of you that you’re telling yourself. You’re not being congruous in some way. We don’t know you well enough to pin point it, but I’m guessing that at 20 you don’t know yourself well enough either. You need to examine everything about you and figure out where your sacrifices are not up to par.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:14 AM
2

You know that’s bullshit. I know it too. Did you go yet? No other correction you make in your alpha-ness matters if you’re not addressing your past demons. I know you know this. We’re here to support you, now go to a meeting.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:40 AM
1

Seemed a bit highbrow for these premises.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:42 AM
1

Aren’t betas basically chicks with dicks? Take the lead like you would any other plate, except these plates aren’t for banging, they’re for keeping your place nice when you bring a girl back.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:42 AM
2

Plus porn gives you pretty unrealistic expectations. No one acts like porn stars. That’s why it’s called entertainment. Same reason you don’t see Ohio St wrestlers using folding chairs during matches.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:40 AM
0

Aim for 18-20 yo. Any older and they start developing a muffin top.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:36 AM
0

Dude, go to a meeting. Don’t wait. As soon as you read this, go find a meeting. You can be alpha and still go to meetings. Go to an all guy meeting if that’s easier while you’re working on yourself. But go to a damn meeting and keep going.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:33 AM
2

Did you just say whilst?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:46 PM
39

Sleep. Biggest cause of the majority of hormonal problems.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:05 PM
9

By trying and failing over and over, but learning a little bit each time, so that at some point you are able to synthesize correct answers based upon past failings so that you start to win. Plus a little maturity goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:59 PM
1

Doesn’t have to be a beg. Just keep frame. Realize that if they’re shit testing you then you’ve reached a point that you’re worth the test. That’s a good thing IMO! Let them test. You’re the shit and that’s what matters. If they don’t get it then next them.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:27 AM
2

My limited advice: be honest that your on your way out. The allow her to decide if she’s willing to continue with you until you leave. I’m guessing that if she was bareback in 15 minutes then she’s cool knowing this is short term. Don’t chase, keep your frame, and enjoy it while it lasts. Use it it as a confidence boost for future endeavors. Keep on the lookout for other plates.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:39 AM
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