1- went out clubbing with a couple of male and female friends and my dance moves are basicly 0 wich was visible by everyone around, wich kind of dances would you recommend me learning?

2-plating this girl from work (yes, big mistake, fuck im dumb, never EVER do it), couple days ago we were making out when all of the sudden she tells me: "You should take this to a more serious level"(relationship serious) wich i obviously dont since im 19 and still want to enjoy my life and freedom, my question is, is there anyway to defuse the relationship bomb without dropping her as a plate? (taking in consideration ill be out of that job in a month)