Date three how to escalate?

Yashugan00 · 2016-08-12T13:50:27+00:00

She's going on a 3rd date with you, therefore she's hoping you'll have the courage to at least kiss her. She won't initiate, and you need to step up. She won't follow your lead long term if you're not demonstrating leadership . Stop thinking this is a burden you're imposing on her, that is blue pill thinking. Lead with confidence.

ErikTheRedPill · 2016-08-12T13:31:50+00:00

The same way as anywhere else.

Kino, tease, push/pull.

play_time_is_over · 2016-08-12T13:46:55+00:00

Well I did exactly this (3rd date lay to plate) last night so I can tell you.

For future reference you should be touching her as soon as possible and as much as possible. However if you haven't, here is the easiest, most straight forward and slowest escalation.

Hug her hello
grab her hand to comment on a ring/jewllery/nails
pat her on the back whenever you make a joke / light neg
when sitting put your arm around her / on the couch.

That was my 1st and 2nd date.

3rd date was a movie which is by far the easiest escalation method.

arm around.
other hand on her leg.
use your hands a lot, always touching her leg / getting closer to her pussy.
closer closer closer, until younhand is well within her thighs.
start making out, grab her ass, tits and pussy.

Again this is a super slow ez method and you dont have to take this long. By the end of it though the sexual tension made it the easiest lay ever., absolutely 0 lmr.

SexySmexxy · 2016-08-12T15:30:30+00:00

You want advice and help but you don't even mention your own age.

Why did you even mention that? : "sure we're not gonna fuck."

Have you kissed her yet? Anything?

You ask for so much from your post but you give us no information about the situation.

Cunt_Robber · 2016-08-12T17:07:51+00:00

First off... 3rd date and no sex? Dude you're supposed to go for what you want. She's thinking you're holding out bc you want LTR. Do you?

Second, once you get to her place, make sure alcohol is already in her system or that it will be pretty darn quick. It totally sounds like sex will happen. But beware, it will never be explicitly stated. You have to "conquer" her. This can be done in quite a few different ways. Again, a glass of some alcoholic beverage to signal that you'll stay at least an hour or two to enjoy each other's company will start you off nice. Get comfortable on her couch, take your shoes off. Or, if she invites you into her bedroom, don't be afraid to stretch out on her bed to test how comfortable it is--be sure to let her know your.. ;) expert advice. Maybe you used to be a mattress dealer in a previous lifetime. Joke around. Probe around. Make it fun for her to have you over. "Have you seen X?" "Have you ever done Y?" "Have you ever..." and get naughtier and naughtier with her. Be a little dirty, but keep it classy and mature, the deviousness comes out in little sparks, but only catches fire once her clothes come off.

This is an explicit invitation to fuck. Don't overthink it. She's inviting you over. She knows what can happen by letting you enter her private residence. Don't kid yourself. Go for it.

EDIT: Also, you met on tinder. Nuff said

brooklynisburnin · 2016-08-12T21:12:58+00:00

For fuck sakes, just sit on a couch or whatever and talk, when the conversation dies (or kill the conversation) just keep silent and look at one of her eyes, then the other, then the mouth, and when she notices the awkward silence, just grab her chin/neck like in cheesy movies and go for the kiss.

From there it's just turning the volume up slowly until it's clothes off time.

Title	Date three how to escalate?
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Date	August 12, 2016 1:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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