DATE what do I do BAR

reddeadpillars · 2015-02-07T16:34:56+00:00

Don't put all pressure on yourself. She's just as responsible for making it a good time as you are. If the conversation is lacking, it's on her just as much as you.

Don't go into it with the idea that you have to win her over or impress her. She's just a girl, there are billions like her.

DO go into it with the idea that SHE has to impress YOU. If she doesn't pull her weight, on to the next.

tanny_ · 2015-02-07T17:30:11+00:00

You are a man of high value. Dont stress out - treat her like you would you're mates. But with a touch of seduction and being direct.

Try some Mindfull Based Stress Reduction meditation. Focus on you're breathing. Take your time when speaking dont rush your a answers.

Always have good posture and smile. Actions are just as loud as words! keep eye contact! If it feels right go in for the kiss.

Be confident in yourself - we are all unique in our own way. Report back - would be good to do a post analysis of the date.

good luck.

Kloohorn · 2015-02-07T17:53:08+00:00

Don't try to prove yourself to her, make HER prove that she's worth your time. Remember, you're the prize, she's replaceable.

Here are some "getting to know you questions" i found

Title	DATE what do I do BAR
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Date	February 7, 2015 4:23 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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