Dating App Convos

CainPrice · 2018-09-21T16:03:28+00:00

Don't treat dating app messages like a normal conversation. You're not looking for pen-pals, nor are the women. You're not trying to get to know a girl for a few weeks in written form. That's what dates are for. You get to know girls and they get to know you when you meet.

Every message should be focused on your goal: meeting a girl and having sex.

If you have your end goal in mind when you message a girl, then each message can be a step toward that goal, rather than just spinning your wheels making conversation.

You want to open with something a little interesting to get her to message back, banter for a little bit to establish rapport and show off that both of you know the game, set a date (negotiating on date/time/place if needed) as soon as possible (the longer time between your first message and the date, the more likely she'll flake), and if the date is a ways off, message just a little bit every couple of days to keep her interested. One more message the day of the date to confirm.

At the date, same mentality. You want to have sex, so you build attraction, build rapport, touch, escalate, etc. Every change in location and each move is done with your ultimate goal in mind.

tedr34 · 2018-09-21T17:34:21+00:00

Best advice is to not use dating apps at all if you care about your time. Even if you do everything right you’ll likely never meet. Unless you’re into fatties or chicks 2 - 3 points below your SMV.

Title	Dating App Convos
Author	tedr34
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	September 21, 2018 3:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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