Hello guys, First i want you to know that i'm french, sorry if i use the wrong words or for the things i'll say that make no sense to you.

By this thread i want to discuss about two topics:

-The dating life after 30, -How to choose the right girl and make things work the best for a long term relationship.

Here's what i thought the last couple of weeks after i broke up with my ex girlfriend two months ago:

-You can never trust anyone, not even a girl you dated for years, -Never stop to improve yourself during a relationship is really really important (appearance, work..),

-Maintaining a relation is hard, i'm a generous person and make low investment on a person i love is actually very hard for me. I always want to make the best for the persons i love,

-Being nice is no good, being a twat neither.. hmmm so what ?!

Now here i'am, at the age of 31 i'm single again and honestly i don't know where to start all over again. I'am at a point i have my own house, a good job at the moment (a lot of professional trips as well sadly) and good family support and few good friends (most of them in a relationship and not interested in night life, me neither actually).

So i thought maybe the best thing to do in my case is to hit the street using direct and honest compliments to meet women. I already did it few times, however i can't do it 20 times in a row that's my problem. I really need to feel attracted to make the move, and as i red many things, many guys said you have to do it a lot to get good. That's the point.

So direct game in the streets and maybe suscribe for dancing classes (because i like to dance and if i could get good that would be nice, also that's the place i met my 23yo ex girlfriend).

What do you think ? What did you guys do to have a correct dating life in the 30's ? What is your advice to keep a long relationship healthy and the interest of your girl ?

Thanks to those who will give help and advices.