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Your first mistake was talking about the relationship status before you fucked her. FWB should be the natural state for a red pilled man. A relationship only forms after the woman initiates “The Talk ™”. Inexperienced men always want to talk and talk where no talk is required. She’s interested in you enough to be alone at your place. That’s all either of you need to know at that point. The second mistake was not fucking her right. This is a tough obstacle to overcome at the beginning of the rela…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/25 09:35 AM
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Discipline Equals Freedom: Field Manual. Jocko Willink.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/24 08:44 AM
16

This is nonsense.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:19 AM
6

Two parts to this. A man who is 6/10 could be totally invisible to women and struggle for a date, especially in OLD. The same guy, with a good level of game and a decent social circle could slay. Multiple girlfriends, decent n count. Everybody knows someone who is the latter. The advice to hit the gym is also always relevant. Hit the mall, or the beach, look around. Who among men is actually in shape (apart from 18 year old guys who are skinny as fuck and probably never lift. Not too many. The a…
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:45 AM
6

The Pareto principle.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:55 AM
5

Interesting scenario. Don’t obsess about the girl. Your goal is to have a great time at the wedding. Hooking up is secondary. Don’t get too pissed and see how you’re vibing once the wedding is over. She might be giving you friend zone vibes, but she’s also agreed to a wedding date, and to stay in the hotel with you. She might just be poor and looking to enjoy the food and free bubbly, but she must like you at some level. Don’t ruin your own wedding fun trying to hit on her. Let her do her thing …
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:56 AM
9

Create a tinder profile. Your bio says, I’m 6’6. Go on enough dates until you get comfortable.
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:43 AM
52

Rejection is always better than regret. Shoot your shot.
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:56 AM
7

Nothing bad has happened. You can’t really lose in these situations, only succeed or learn.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:26 AM
0

Bring a bottle of champagne or something nice to hers before y or go. After dinner say “Hey, why don’t we go back to yours and knock over that Bolly?”. Then proceed to do so. She’ll know what’s up.
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:20 PM
2

Find a pub crawl. Be interesting and flirty as the night goes on. Close skilfully. Unless you’re unusually attractive or an expert at dating you will find it hard to bed a local from Tinder.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:13 PM
1

Every first date is an opportunity in that the person has no idea who you are. All you need is one interesting hobby and something to talk about. Preferably something that involves leaving the house, so not gaming or watching baseball. You don’t have to reach virtuoso level. Even being a beginner at something is interesting. Most of the resistance you’re facing will be in your own head. If you’ve made it to first date stage, most of the time the girl will be hoping for it to work. You’re on the …
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:39 PM
1

Most people on this sub have no business giving advice as they have little to no knowledge or experience. Not every trip report of pulling a girl required a ‘take away’.
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:10 AM
1

Ghosting is just an easy way to avoid an uncomfortable conversation. That’s all. If you’re going no contact after you get ghosted, which is almost always the correct play, then it might at least leave a bit of mystery about you, which can lead to her coming back later. Chasing someone who either explicitly or covertly tells you they don’t want you, is always going to lead to negative emotions on her behalf, even if occasionally it might work. On those occasions it’s likely to be for a lack of ot…
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:44 AM
4

No contact.
/r/seduction08/04/22 11:10 PM
7

There’s a difference between the incel who’s bad attitude is shaped by negative after negative interaction with women, compared to a “bad boy” type alpha who treats women with distain because he has them in abundance (and he’s a prick). Both may have negative attitudes to women, misogyny perhaps. But they are not the same.
/r/seduction08/04/22 10:49 AM
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Give us a trip report from the bootcamp.
/r/seduction04/04/22 09:38 AM
3

Invite her to be alone with you. Doesn’t have to be straight after the club, some girls will, some will never go for that. But if you’re vibing on a Saturday, invite her over for Netflix on Monday. She’ll know what’s up.
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:12 AM
3

As with everything. Height matters on a case by case, woman by woman basis. For many, they won’t care about height, or care somewhat. So others, 5’7 is an immediate dealbreaker. It’s just another way of polarising. If a woman doesn’t want you because you’re short then that’s a win if you discover that early, and don’t waste any time with her. You only lose when you try to charm and win over people who aren’t into you and never will be. Then you lose time. Unfortunately most men fixate on one gir…
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:18 PM
176

It’s better to be thought of as a player and let the girl feel like she’s won you over. You’re in a good position. That’s your vibe. Go with it.
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:24 PM
0

You’re out there doing day game, presumably because you’re trying to get laid. At some point at least. This chick, though nice, has a boyfriend. Going on a cute friend date should not be the goal. It’s sly by you on some level because you’re covertly planning to escalate. Move on to someone with less friction, ie single.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:57 AM
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These things will happen regularly when you fake enough girls. If you can let someone go with no hard feeling, then it’s much easier to come back in a casual way. Calling her out for ghosting is not the right play. It’s part of the game. Outcome independence is the goal.
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:58 AM
3

Sometimes having nothing comes with a certain freedom and lack of inhibitions. Plenty of struggling artists are out there slaying. Find a compelling true story about yourself that explains your situation and approach with abandon.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:58 AM
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The problem with this sub is it pays no respect to the ‘elder sages’. Any 40 year old virgin can spew any random shit and get upvoted and complimented. While actual sage advice frequently gets buried in bullshit from people who clearly have little to no experience but want to dish out the life advice like a veteran. It makes it tough for the new guys. The nuggets are there but you’d be better off looking beyond if you really want to improve. Mostly it’s entertainment at best.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:53 PM
4

It’s almost never a good idea to discuss your N-Count with a partner. No good can come if it, and you should be aiming to cultivate an air of mystery about your life. Most men spew too much information about themselves at the first sign of female interest. It’s boring. Being a virgin is no different. If you’re 16 and fooling around with your first girlfriend then maybe you can talk about being a virgin. If you’re 27, there’s nothing to gain telling her you’re a virgin. She can probably tell by y…
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:38 PM
1

Having a low key player vibe is the goal. You don’t want to be the one spouting it, but when your female friends are spreading this stuff they are inadvertently helping you. Who gets laid, the guy rumoured to have heaps of girlfriends, or my friend Dave from Yoga who’s been single for a while but he’s a really great guy…
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:31 PM
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Don’t fake confidence. Do fake outcome independence. Neediness, being too invested too early, all that stuff is major turn off.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:31 AM
2

My experience tells me that this chance is blown. Either she’s not feeling it or you’ve done something that’s put her off. Either way I don’t like the follow up text you sent and her leaving you on read is a bad sign. Let us know what happens next.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:19 AM
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Don’t ask, don’t tell. It’s a pointless exercise because you have no way of knowing the truth at any point. The fact is if she’s above a 4/10 she’s going to have as many options as she likes. Most women don’t have a hard time getting laid, they might have a hard time finding a ‘quality’ man to commit but that’s a different story.
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:03 AM
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Lol. You’re special mate. ❤️
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:00 AM
9

Just fuck her and keep the feelings out of it.
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:05 PM
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I liken it to a video game. If you get in your best shape you are lowering the difficulty level a lot. You’ve still got to play, so it’s only part of the equation, but it’s so much easier and more rewarding when the physical attraction is greater.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:52 AM
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I mean you spent half a day of your trip having D and Ms with a stranger. If that was your goal then fair enough. If it were me, I would have tried to escalate to sex. People always want to fuck on holidays. I don’t blame your friend for giving you a hard time about it.
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:13 AM
4

You’re starting from zero here. Think about how you might like your life to look in a year. And maybe 5 years. Do something today to work towards that. Small steps over time compound.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:43 AM
2

Are they talking to you. Are they receptive to an offer of dates. If you’re just chatting endlessly over Instagram then it’s not real. Read Models, and understand the concept of polarising your prospects.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:09 AM
53

First filter is attractiveness. You’re already doing that. Second filter is interest. Spend your energy on those who are showing interest. It will make your whole experience easier and more enjoyable .
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:35 AM
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If a girl is interested in you, you’ll know. The opposite is also true. Resist the urge for follow up texts and leave it with her. Sounds like you didn’t fuck her right and that bored her. Either that or she’s just busy with life, but in both cases you’ll be better off letting her contact you next.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:07 AM
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Rip off the scab and move on complete no contact. Time will heal the emotional pain. Being with other women will heal it faster. Realistically, someone you’re not in a physical relationship with doesn’t deserve such an emotional investment from you. Don’t give it up so easily. You’re probably a lonely young guy like a lot of people are at that age but work to cultivate hobbies and other relationships that can occupy your thoughts.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:10 PM
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You’re a lost cause. Good day.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:27 PM
3

It’s a post, not a book. It’s long enough already and clearly intended to be broad. Why don’t you consider the post in its entirety, pick a topic that you think is an area of most immediate need, and spend some time thinking about it. For example, fashion. Find a few you tube channels. Subscribe, watch a few videos. Go and buy GQ and have a look. Pick a few looks that you think might suit you. Have a look in your wardrobe and throw out anything that doesn’t fit or doesn’t make you feel good to w…
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:21 PM
7

You’re looking to be spoon fed. A childish, egocentric approach.
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:46 PM
61

Dude you’re 18. Any hole is a goal.
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:12 AM
6

She’s given you her number and agreed to hang out. So do that.
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:52 AM
1

For a stranger, the woman’s version of an approach is eye contact and proximity. If you’re at a bar and you meet eyes with someone, and nek minnut she’s mover her group nearer, clear approach. For people you know, friends etc, it can be more direct. Social media DMs out of the blue. Comments on your posts etc. If you get these it’s a green light to offer to hang out.
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:44 AM
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It depends entirely on your body type. You can look up the pics on the gram. But if you can hit all of the intermediate strength standards here and get your self to around 10-12% body fat then you’ll be good.
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:19 AM
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There was a guy on here last week bemoaning that the advice here is always to get in the gym. Get in shape. There’s a reason for that. Dating while really fit in easy mode. Thanks for sharing OP. Get back after it.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:49 AM
1

Just had a look at your post history. Must be 30 posts about this situation. Take a break from reddit, Instagram or whatever other social media that’s soaking up your time. Stay off the drugs/alcohol. But the gym. Reconnect with friends. Just as big sports teams will have great players come and go, an attractive man will have quality women come and go. Take a minute then move on with your life.
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:23 AM
12

Just be open about your intentions. If someone is expecting you to be their boyfriend some day then that’s where hurt feelings happen. If they know by your actions or words that you only want her body and it probably won’t last long then she can take it or leave it. It ends up being a positive experience for everyone and you’ll probably find women in this category will hit you up from time to time when they’re in the mood. Depending on if you’ve fucked them right and treated them decently.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:13 AM
13

As long as you’re attracted to someone on some level and the logistics work then it’s fair game. Useful if you’re trying to establish a roster. Once you have 3-4 on the go you can upgrade the one you don’t like as much. Plus you never really know who’s going to be a freak in bed until you get there. Especially if you’re someone a bit above who she’s used to dating, and you have the right vibe where she can act uninhibited and lose herself with you. Can be great.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:08 AM
3

Be straight and tell her you are looking for an exciting physical relationship and that doesn’t seem to be what she’s after so you don’t want to go out anymore. Break contact. Move on.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:04 AM
11

Read - No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:35 PM
1

I look forward to your what did I do wrong post.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:46 PM
2

It’s a good start. No need for any more indirect stuff like doing a workout together. Ask her on some kind of a date. Quickly polarise and go from there.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:44 AM
3

Go and read Models and How to be a 3% man. You’re almost always better off just being straight forward with your dating approach. Having multiple options and other things going on in your life is the best way to avoid neediness. That truly is the biggest attraction killer.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:42 AM
3

“Ok no worries. See you around.” Press send. Move on.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:40 AM
2

Assume the girl will never ever make the move. Go and say hello. Proceed from there.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:39 AM
1

You can’t knock the lifestyle if you’ve failed in implementing it. You got all of the squeeze and none of the juice.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:17 AM
4

If you had other options would you be entertaining this idea? You dumped her two weeks ago FFS. She either comes to your house to bang or gets a coffee with her girlfriends. Sticking to your guns is better in every scenario here, unless you like the idea of walking around taking about your feelings. Just write back, “OK, I’ll leave it with you.” And move on.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:55 AM
2

You were talking to five girls. How many were you fucking?
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:09 AM
54

OP your take away is wide of the mark. You bored her, hence the disinterested dinner date then the invite to hang with a BFF. Nobody does that with someone they want to fuck. Let’s be real. You’re making sweeping generalisations from someone who wasn’t into you. Beautiful women can be just is interested and insightful as plain Jane, if they’re turned on and keen. This sub is always desperate to have the wisdom at the end. The reality is you have no idea what this person is like. You’re really in…
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:14 PM
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Sounds like you’re tall and good looking, but awkward as a virgin on prom night.
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:05 PM
5

There’s no bigger time and emotional sink hole then a man chasing after someone who doesn’t want him. Usually because he doesn’t have any other options. Dating is so much more enjoyable when you’re skiing downhill.
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:57 AM
1

The club is a horrible place to pick up, unless you’re 6’3. Go there to have a good time with your friends. Maybe banter with a few chicks in the bar area. Dance floor is a tough place to pull.
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:57 AM
17

Fucking multiple people is neither meaningful nor meaningless. It’s amoral. You’ll meet great people along the way, and you’ll meet a few losers. The advantage of doing this on the way to finding some life partner (if that’s the goal), is you’ll have the experience to know who is worth your time rather than latching on to the first girlfriend you have. You’re also more likely to be the chooser, which should be the goal of every man.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:43 PM
2

You can’t win them all. You’ve quickly polarised her which is the goal. Thank her for the date. No contact. Move on.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:00 PM
2

It’s a weak method of approach but put your balls on the line and go through with it. Ask her to go out/hang out. At least you’ll know where you stand.
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:43 AM
14

You can’t scale it back. Once you set the board then that becomes the frame of the relationship. Start sexual and casual. Maintain that. You can’t start from pretending to be boyfriend material and then surprise you only want a fuck buddy. It will lead to maximum outrage and hate from the girl. If you’re open about it from ball one you can have much easier times of it.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:38 AM
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Keep a roster. Never put your eggs in one basket. You don’t have to advertise your lifestyle but don’t deny it. She can either be a part of your world or leave. No hard feelings. Don’t act like her boyfriend. Sleep overs. Holding hands. Cute shit. Dont. Keep it sexual. Go to bars if you must. Picnic dates and feeding ducks. No. Be upfront about your intentions. It’s ok to say you want casual only. That can mean a lot of things. Tell her you like her too and you’re happy to keep seeing her, you l…
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:03 AM
1

At 135 lbs you’ve got a child like build. I’d be juicing to gain a solid 20 lbs of muscle. You don’t want someone who wants you for your cash. That’s for you and your lifestyle.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:36 PM
2

Withdraw attention and when she asks why, tell her you’re looking for a sexual relationship. You’re not wrong to want this. If she isn’t on the same page then c’est la vie.
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:15 AM
3

Focus on self improvement rather than game. Game is the icing on the cake. First get in shape and get your lifestyle in order.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:16 PM
1

If you haven’t read No More Mr Nice Guy, then do that. It will be instructive for you. Being kind and being “nice” are not the same. Kindness most often comes from a place of strength and security. Being “nice” is often someone lacking conviction and confidence that they’re enough.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:58 AM
4

Dating can be a tough game. It’s even tougher if keep chasing those who’ve demonstrated that they’re not really keen on you. Her actions are telling you all you need to hear. Believe her. Move on to other prospects.
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:41 PM
1

Flaking isn’t attractive. Having an active life with a purpose and interesting hobbies is. You’re talking about a poor man buying a Rolex on credit to try and act rich. It’s shallow.
/r/seduction29/12/21 05:27 AM
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If you’re fat you’re voluntarily playing life on hard mode. Dating is no exception. It’s so much easier when you’re in good shape. Much more than anything you can learn from a PUA, or even having cash.
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:34 AM
5

I would avoid going for a coworker. It’s -EV for sure. If you must, you’re friends and you’re pretty sure she likes you. Just create an opportunity to be alone outside of work and go from there. The age is nothing. Float the idea of doing something inoffensive at start. Movies, walk outdoors, drink. Don’t get salty if she says no.
/r/seduction11/12/21 03:37 AM
6

If you’ve got a girl alone in your room then there’s a very high chance of banging. Your job is to make it smooth and minimise the awkwardness. Oh it just happened.. that’s the vibe you’re going for. If she says no she says no, you put the cue in the rack and move on with the night. Texting ad nauseam after a failed date is always a bad idea. You can’t build attraction over text. You can kill it. Give her a bit of breathing room now. Don’t be the first one to hit her back. She knows you like her…
/r/seduction07/12/21 08:07 AM
5

Ana De Armas and Lucy Liu back in her day.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:31 AM
3

Proximity is the best indicator. If you’re in a bar or a party and suddenly she’s in your circle then she wants you to talk to her. The next part is on you to open.
/r/seduction26/11/21 12:13 PM
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Get in the gym and work towards some strength and aesthetic goals. The significant investment in time, improved appearance and general self confidence will do more for you than any book or fancy mantra.
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:14 PM
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No idiot.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:36 AM
62

It means don’t screw the crew. Your workmates aren’t the people to hook up with. If it goes south then your job becomes an issue.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:36 AM
465

Open relationship or not is your business, but don’t shit where you eat.
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:12 AM
5

OP you’re not seriously going to post 1000 of these are you? Does TRP still have mods?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 11:55 AM
2

Definitely don’t reveal it. You are shooting yourself in the foot. Talk less in general. Mystery builds attraction. Women want to feel like they have snagged a winner, not settled for a loser. You don’t have to pretend to be some Chad with 100 notches, because this facade will be easily seen through. Just don’t say anything at all.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:33 AM
3

She likes the other guy better, monster dong.
/r/seduction26/10/21 09:01 PM
1

Complaining about girls if your walking around at 235 is like complaining about scoring 40 over in golf with the wrong handed clubs and having never practiced. Your sloppy image will be one of someone who lacks discipline and energy and doesn’t value himself. You are playing life on hard mode.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:14 PM
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You don’t have to talk about life plans and what the future holds. Leave all that to later. Just text him when you want to hang out and then do so. The key part about successful hookup life is having some kind of roster. Get a couple of dudes in rotation. If this guy doesn’t want to play than call someone else.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:59 PM
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Her behaviour is showing her lack of interest. Spend time gaming girls who are excited or interested to talk to you. This one is indifferent and not interested. Withdraw quietly, no explanation, and if she hits you up at some point then good and well.
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:22 AM
3

What’s that, about a three hour plane ride?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:42 AM
9

No kids? Divorce is always on the table.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:26 PM
3

Most people aren’t thinking about you nearly as much as you’d imagine. Ignore them.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:40 AM
2

It depends on other things though right. Your build. Are you a Maori rugby player, or an Ethiopian running type. Your age, the style of training. There are too many variables.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:27 AM
1

It’s impossible to say from two paragraphs on the internet. Find someone who knows you and knows about bodybuilding. Ask them. You won’t get rock size with out juice.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:59 PM
5

You don’t mention if you have anyone else on the go. If you do, just continue to spin plates and see her for another date or two. If she doesn’t want to bang then make a graceful exit, tell her you’re looking for something more physical and you respect the fact that she wants to wait but she can call you sometime. Then next.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:53 AM
2

Clean your fucking house. I’ve read some shit on here over some long years. But this is up there. You’ll achieve nothing while you’re living in filth. Start at this second. Don’t stop until you’re done.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:45 AM
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Regardless of whether you’re right, it’s not your place to tell people how to live their lives. He might be content and happy with the situation and that’s great. If it goes to shit, then be a friend at that time. Unsolicited advice about major life decisions rarely plays well. If he’s happily blue pilled then leave him at it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:02 AM
4

Bad bot.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:41 AM
5

If you can get to genius level of sales, or even top 10% you’ll be set for life. It’s the most lucrative vocation for the top people.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:15 AM
5

You have to take control of what you can control. Lead the disciplined life of a man that has his shit together. Stop pissing around with your education. If you’re in, you’re all in. Don’t become a highly educated burger flipper because you failed to apply yourself to your learning. If you don’t like engineering, then switch, or leave and join a building trade apprenticeship. But is it not for you, or are you trying to puss arse your way through it and finding that it takes more effort than you …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:54 AM
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I can absolutely guarantee that your mindset is holding you back more than your face. A few more years on the clock will help a lot too. Stay fit. Stay hungry. Stop being desperate for pussy. Things will improve.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:31 PM
2

I recommend David Goggins’ book - Can’t Hurt Me. Read it. Or better yet, get the audiobook version. Read it again. Take up the challenges as set out in the book. It seems you’re living a low effort life. Finding the right job, the right studies and the rest won’t magically save you until you change your weak mindset. You’ll just me mediocre at what you choose. At 27 you’re still full of potential to lead a fulfilling life, but start now. Your bio reads exactly like someone who puts off an assign…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:03 AM
8

Realise that your anger doesn’t mean shit. Your words on an Internet forum even less. The only thing that counts are your actions. You say you want to improve? You don’t. If you wanted to improve you wouldn’t be talking about it, you’d be doing it. Your anger is a mask for your apathy and laziness. Aggression, a mask for lack of self confidence. The only thing that counts is doing.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:36 AM
6

Inviting someone to your place for the first ‘date’ is fine. But you need to be pretty sure she’s going to agree before you ask, or else it will get awkward as fuck and you’ll end up backpeddling which will cost you frame. If she’s coming over, you can safely assume she’s dtf, and in that case why would you get drunk? It can only complicate matters. You’re either not confident that you can close sober, or you need it for your own Dutch courage.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:15 PM
2

In this situation, your the beta bucks who helped her through the tough times. The deadbeat Cuban is giving her the tingles. That’s why he’s now fucking her. She doesn’t need the secure guy anymore.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 04:33 AM
4

Brifault’s law.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:35 PM
2

Travel a bit. Live abroad for a while. You’ll broaden your perspective at least. I’m Australian, and there are plenty of Indian people here. I’ve had a fair few Indian friends through cricket and work. I can’t think of any that have been overly successful with Australian girls, but most were quite meek and beta in general. You might have a better time of it.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:49 PM
12

If she’s hitting you up she is interested. You don’t have to play games. If you’re interested in hooking up, and you have time, just say so and make it happen. I suppose you’re going to have to grow a pair and open that big snap to see what she wants. Godspeed.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:29 AM
150

If you have to write a 5000 word essay on Ask TRP then you already know the answer. Take the short term pain of breaking it off. In a few weeks you’ll be thanking yourself.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:35 AM
1

Go with it.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:05 PM
6

Would you be asking this question if you had options? The legality of it depends where you are, but it’s more than a bit cringy. A man would try to fuck an adult.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:33 AM
2

Of course there is. If she doesn’t tell you she’s with someone. Pretty basic stuff.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:50 AM
3

Takes guts to make a post like this. Credit to you. But seriously, you look like every other average 22 year old. Not ugly, not great looking, just par. If you got in great shape you’d get laid on looks alone. Your face will naturally improve and become more manly as you get a bit older. Keep training. You can tell you lift a bit but your body is pretty unexceptional. A lot more work to do there. Get some tattoos if it fits your overall vibe. Facial surgery would be extreme and totally unnecessa…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:35 AM
5

19 years old and love doesn’t really mix. Most guys will go through that stage, but it’s only with the benefit of getting a bit older, ie 30 or so, that you realise what a waste of time it is. Spin plates. Future self will thank you.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:57 AM
5

If you had a solid roster of plates you wouldn’t be even entertaining this situation.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:50 AM
20

Seems like you came crawling back and now you are the one in panic mode. Why on earth would you think to increase dread. Seems like you know all the lingo but none of the concepts.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:49 AM
10

Don’t expect girls to approach you. You are the man. The burden to approach is on you. There is no perfect amount of smirk, attractive clothing or witty vibe that will change this. Read the sidebar anyway.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:40 AM
23

You’re feeling uneasy because you acted outside your own moral code. Cognitive dissonance. Personally, I don’t cheat when I’ve agreed to be in an LTR. When I’m single I don’t willingly bang another dude’s girlfriend. I don’t have to because I’ve always got options. If it’s important to you to only bang single girls then do that. There are plenty out there. You’re new so are still finding your way. Red pill is amoral. You bring your own moral compass to the table, whatever that may be.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:12 PM
2

It’s just basic plate theory. You need to build your roster. Try to get three or four plates. Slowly upgrade in terms of hotness or how much you like them or whatever. Replace the plates that break. Also avoid the pop psych self analysis. It will get you know where. You’re a young fella who likes to fuck. That’s about 99% of the population.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:52 AM
1

If you’ve spent some time spinning plates and then you want to get into an LTR then that’s fine. It’s different to Johnny Beta who loses 10lbs and then locks up the first girl who lets him nut inside her. Just know that your sex life will not be as exciting with just one girl, unless you have an absolute freak, but they are rare. You will come home tired from work one day and not feel like fucking (or something like that) and then it drops off. You’re the only one in a position to make the decis…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:13 PM
2

You can be nice, but still put yourself first. Being agreeable and being nice aren’t the same thing. ‘No more mr nice guy’ is required reading for you.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 11:39 AM
2

Just treat her like you would with a female co-worker or cousin or something. Polite, businesslike if you must. You don’t have to shag every female in your life. If she asks you to Netflix and chill, just say no thanks. No need to over complicate shit.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:37 AM
4

If you’re hanging out alone with a girl and you’re not fucking, then she’s not interested in you. You’ve got oneitis for someone who’s not interested in you. Sidebar. Lift. Game other girls. That doesn’t answer your question, but it might help you on the right path.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:34 AM
14

Are you a man, or a child? Because you sound like a child. If she’s into you then she’ll make contact. But you seem needy as fuck. Game more girls so you have options. A high value man’s head would not be spinning over shit like this.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:05 AM
2

You can’t plate someone who you haven’t rooted at least once. You’re still just a friend yourself. You’re going to have a way easier time starting someone off as a fuck and making them a friend then the other way. It’s just not the natural order of plates. Unless in some kind of romantic comedy starring Seth Rogen. (Who is no chad)
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:41 AM
4

The why doesn’t really matter. Maybe she was drunk, maybe she is fucking someone hotter than you, maybe your beta replies bored her. The point is she isn’t replying. The only play is to withdraw attention completely. If you had other options you’d do this automatically.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:51 AM
3

Sounds like the algorithm is fucking with you, OP. You get mathematically assigned a ‘league’ and these are the level of potential matches that you’ll see. Objectively, what is your SMV? Remember if you’re less than an 8, for men in online dating that may as well be a 2. Is the app just presenting women at your level?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:50 AM
6

35 days ago you described yourself as a 160lb skinny fat gym noob. You’re unqualified to speak on this topic.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:15 AM
6

Start a strength program like Starting Strength or Stronglifts 5x5. Barbell training. Don’t change anything for the first three months. Hit the rower at the end of each session for a hard 2000m. Start walking outside for an hour a day. Clean up your diet. Realistically for someone your height and weight, you should have quite a bit of fat to lose. Aim for 2000 Cals per day and with the increased activity the fat should begin to fall off.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:25 PM
19

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7. Don’t go back to old prospects. Find and cultivate new plates. You say you’re in shape and have improved, why would you go back to a girl that was acceptable for a goofy loser to hang out with? In any case, the reason they’re not interested (I suspect you mean just this one girl), is because in her mind you are a 20 year old goofy loser. Men of value get women of value.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:18 PM
6

Ditch this one and game other girls. This situation is not that big of a deal. You’ll learn that with experience.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:00 AM
10

That jungle gym is cool though right?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:39 AM
1

They don’t act like models. They act like 5s in a world of thirsty men. If you’re sufficiently high enough on the SMV ladder then her behaviour towards you will either change, or it will be an act and you’ll see through it easily. A 5 can act like a queen in front of a 5 or 6 male because she has an advantage. In front of a quietly confident alpha you don’t need to stand for it. If she’s unpleasant then you move on and talk to the next person.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:12 AM
-4

DrPhil.com. Jog on.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:13 AM
-3

Talking about your dick problems with your girl is a huge mistake. “Oh let’s work on it together!“. Really means, “Wow I never knew my pussy could get quite so dry.”
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:51 AM
1

Don’t start to live the 220k per year salary until you’re sure that the employment is solid and ongoing, and you really get to know the industry. Then, live the 100k per year salary. If it’s something like sales, or some kind of contract work, it may not be as solid as it’s sold to you. Remember, unless you’re living in Abu Dhabi or some kind of tax haven, the tax man is going to scoop a large part of this. Pay yourself first and Aquire some assets.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:20 AM
1

Block her and change your locks. She wanted to ride the cock carousel. Seems like she isn’t being very successful. If Chad was fucking her, you wouldn’t be getting hit up. That you’re even considering it says a lot. You’d be starting this second chance love from the worst possible position. Why would she fuck you well when she knows you’re a simp? Why would she stay faithful when she knows she can come crawling back anytime because you can’t do better.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:35 PM
1

Did your relationship sour because she found the literature, or because of your reaction to her finding your literature?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:55 AM
5

Save some money. Don’t get wasted all the time. Lift and eat well most of the time. Try to spin plates. Don’t waste money on shit. Save and travel.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 06:53 AM
2

In her mind you’re lower value than her. If you don’t like her friend then move on from both. You’ll never get the original girl now.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:47 PM
1

She’s either cheating, or you have mad dick cheese..
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:55 PM
4

File this in the category of: If you have to ask you already know the answer.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:30 AM
2

What’s wrong with you? Raise her to be a happy child with good values and a strong work ethic. You might want to seek mental health treatment. I’ve read some shit on here over the years, but this is right at the bottom of the barrel.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:32 AM
1

You didn’t get laid because you’re beta, not because of the ratio.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:36 AM
8

There are studies to show anything you like when it comes to training. The studies are always years behind the wisdom.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:27 PM
14

Alpha move. Say goodbye and let her live her life. Alpha result: If she comes back some stage, and you’ve been fucking her right (and circumstances allow) then she might hit you up. Beta move. You drive her to the airport and carry her bags. Tell her you’ll miss her. You send random snapchats so she knows you’re constantly thinking about her. Plan to move countries to be with her. Beta result: She knows you can’t do better than her so her pussy becomes the proverbial Sahara where you’re concerne…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:48 PM
18

90kg is a respectable bench, but the squat and DL are relatively weak. Make sure you’re lifting with full ROM, and don’t max out all the time 2500 Cals is not too bad. You probably want to get that up a little. Try to hit your protein goal (for you 150-200g per day). If you need to add calories, I think the easiest way is to add a shake or a smoothie. Add peanut butter to add easy and delicious cals.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:40 PM
6

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. This one is over, despite her change of tune. You’ll be back in this same situation in a matter of months if not…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:57 PM
4

Perfect time for a graceful exit. Text back, ok, it was nice to meet you. Something like that. Leave the ball in her court. A good portion of the time she will hit you back in a couple of months. All the while you can be hooking up with others. If you chase her now, or send her beta good luck texts, then you lose frame and you lose the alpha status in her mind.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:46 PM
1

Replace thought with shit, and you have great advice for a constipated person.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:59 AM
12

Don’t thank TRP, thank your past self for taking the first steps. As a young bloke with his eyes now open, you are only scratching the surface of your potential. In a world full of low effort humans, stand tall. Keep grinding.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 11:47 AM
2

Press the return button twice. Paragraphs eh.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:47 AM
5

Why don’t you cut now, while the gyms are closed? I think life is better when you’re a bit leaner. Starting a bulk at 20% will have you pretty fat in no time. Diet down now. Build later.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:45 AM
17

You need to be fucking more than one girl. These issues would not trouble you if you had a proper network of plates.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:09 PM
13

If they’re acting innocent it’s probably because you’re an attractive beta. They see you as a good target for a boyfriend so act accordingly. If your goal is to slay many different women then the best state for you is to give off the unashamed player vibe. She expects to be just a notch on your belt and behaves accordingly. This means you’ll get the best out of most of your fucks sexually because they won’t be afraid to act like a slut in bed. If anything it becomes a competition for some women,…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:58 AM
10

You’re not there to sleaze on unsuspecting damsels in distress. You’re there first to train, with a side effect of meeting people and expanding your social circle.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:51 AM
12

Your local gym isn’t the same as the CrossFit games. More like a group of average people with slightly above average fitness, with some very fit types. It’s far more social that regular gym just showing up and training by yourself.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 04:09 AM
0

Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:17 PM
1

Classic asktrp “there’s this one girl” post. The answer is to read the sidebar and game more girls.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 09:14 PM
4

It’s a totally different environment obviously. They don’t have a choice to be talking to you and don’t have a choice but to be nice to you. Be there having a good time, banter and light flirting only. Suggest to catch up and leave it with her. If she wants to see you she’ll pass you her number. If you’re going out with the express goal of chatting up the bartender and getting a number, it will shine through as being desperate and annoying. Make it organic.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:22 PM
0

I wouldn’t normally advocate juicing, but it’s something you really might consider, especially after a couple of years lifting. You’re not a bad looking dude, but you’ll find a niche with a good beard and plenty of muscle. Robertfrank615 style.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:16 PM
3

Maybe inferior looks, but not lower SMV in her eyes. SMV in females is almost entirely based on looks. In men it’s more complicated. Status, etc.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:53 AM
1

You’re obsessing over a girl you’ve met one time. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:33 AM
2

Spoken like someone with zero real world experience.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:15 PM
1

If you want a more social kind of gym, join CrossFit or some other kind of club. Full of women (and guys too if you want to expand your brocial network).
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:08 PM
18

Just text her “Hey, come over.” Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know. ASD is rarely a problem with someone you’ve already banged. Any awkwardness will be brought to the table by you.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:32 AM
51

They see you as the cool guy who ‘gets it’. You get laid. They want you to see them as a sexual being too, not a good girl. They’re trying to raise themselves to your level. They want you to treat them like a slut, not a good girl like every other beta nice guy ™. Give them the good fucking that they expect from you.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:56 AM
36

Fuck mate. You’ve banged four women and you think you’ve got it all sussed out. Bang 50 and you’ll be in a position to generalise. There are women out there who treat sex like a sport. If you’re the cool guy who they’re properly hot for then you’ll learn things you never though possible. When you are being ridden reverse cowgirl by someone who knows how to do it, it’s a fun experience.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 10:38 AM
5

As an alpha in the making, you want the most feminine girls you can find. These ones are making the effort to tell you they aren’t feminine. Believe them and avoid them.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 10:16 PM
2

She’s fucking someone else tonight. Let that sting.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:51 AM
7

One of the oldest TRP laws: Don’t try to turn a ho into a housewife. That’s the real learning here. Develop the frame to keep your fuck buddies where they belong.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:17 AM
4

Go for hotter girls.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:02 AM
2

Enjoy the ride. Oneitis will be difficult to avoid in you situation. However I would encourage you to not just date this girl but open/flirt with/tune other girls and try to date two or more at the same time. Everyone will be better off for it.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:05 AM
1

You need to care less about what people think of you. You be you. Run your own race. You will water yourself down if you try to be a clown or a people pleaser. Your answer lies in stoicism, not self help books.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 11:22 AM
2

100%. Every tradesman in the world charges a call out. This is a good story, but highly doubtful.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 07:23 AM
3

Talk to the person doing the wax and ask for a no bullshit assessment. They’ll be more across the usual trends than I am.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 12:53 AM
11

Can’t do much about balding. Either go to a good barber and work something out or shave it. As for the body hair, it’s never going to be attractive. Go and get a wax.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:04 PM
4

It’s natural to be a little awkward when meeting people for the first time. Your issue is you’re assuming they think you’re weird. Always assume people like you until proven otherwise. Starting with that mindset will improve the way you project yourself and help things in general.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:02 AM
1

Count yourself lucky that you found TRP. Start with the sidebar. Pick up is a shortcut but TRP will ultimately help you make meaningful changes to your life and a mindset to match.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 01:05 PM
1

Dude, if a girl is interested she’s not going to ignore you for a whole day. Women (men too) have their phone on them 24/7. If you don’t get a text back/call back/snap back from anyone wishing a reasonable time then you simply aren’t a priority. A number is often an easy out for a women and not a reliable sign of interest. She’s happy to hang out with you when the drinks are flowing. Happy to give you a number as an easy alternative to going home with you. Then happy to ignore you when you want …
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:56 AM
0

I’m not interested in coffee but come to my place and bring wine.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 08:30 AM
1

How many other girls have you fucked in between times? My guess is less than two. If you haven’t had a string of girls in between then you aren’t really in a good position to judge if you should go back. Don’t accept her offer to date. Sex only, that’s it. But probably better off to work on yourself and game other girls.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:57 AM
0

You’ve got a long way to go. How would you act if you had other options? I am sensing you don’t and that’s why you are acting so beta. Read the sidebar. Game other girls. Keep this girl on if you like. Calling out he bullshit is not a bad thing to do but your ability to walk away will determine how much shit she gives you.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:51 AM
38

This reeks of oneitis. The greatest tool an attractive man has is your attention. This one doesn’t want you but you want to continue to flirt with her. “Come back in three months” is a thinly veiled attempt to keep you in orbit and you’ve taken the bait. This is the equivalent as saying ‘Let’s he friends.’ Next and game other girls. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:19 AM
2

You might just be a bit weird but you might have a problem. Don’t hide from it. Go and speak to a medical professional. At least you’ll know where you’re at and if you have some kind of limitation you can find the best way to live with it.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:06 AM
1

Delete all social media. Find other hobbies that don’t involve a screen. Hopefully gym is one of then. Call your bro and have a real conversation now and then. Sell your console perhaps?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:00 AM
1

Good advice here. 18 is a very hard time in your life if you are not one of the cool kids. So much hot pussy around that you can’t touch. People going to college. All the good shit. You can improve your lot faster than you think though. As everyone says, start with the lifting. Get a good haircut and do what you can to improve your style. In a few months you will soo improvements. By 20 you could be a whole different man. Watch how you carry yourself. Talk less. But walk into every room like you…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 10:53 PM
5

She’s very non specific so probably not too interested. Leave her alone for a while and if you see her at this event then flirt and try to escalate. You could ask her flat out for a drink this week. You’d get a point for boldness but she sounds like she is giving you a soft no. The worst thing you can do is enter into a long and beta text conversation. Fast track to the friend zone.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:41 AM
5

Treat it as a shit test. Totally ignore it and continue to escalate.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:17 PM
4

Strong start for someone your age. You must have some sort of natural talent for strength. Don’t waste it. Stick with a strength program. Just watch your calorie intake so you don’t end up too fat and ruining your physique. 5/3/1 will be fine but maybe consider joining a strength or powerlifting gym and get some decent coaching.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:29 AM
2

In the US there is too much religious influence on politics. There is no other reason.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:07 AM
12

You’ll get better with practice. Don’t worry about picking and choosing who you want to fuck. If she’s on a date with you (unless she’s a total catfish) then your goal is to fuck. Ninety percent of the time she wants to smash just as much as you do. Be cool and make it happen. The rest is just noise.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 11:23 AM
8

Why do you have 0 sexual interest? Is she ugly? There’s your answer. If you are levels above and give her some attention then she will crush on you quickly. No different to if a 10 flirted wth you.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:06 AM
3

When the river runs red take the dirt road instead.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:45 AM
3

Don’t worry about being some deep character. That’s some blue pill shit telling you that’s what you need to be. If you are young and attractive then pump and dump some girls. You will both enjoy that more than trying to be some layered verbal judo master. Don’t assume women want anything more than to be fucked by a cool guy. Be that guy.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:27 AM
1

Interested to know. What do you mean by “get lucky”?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 09:22 AM
9

You’re giving your attention out too cheaply. Sex is her commodity. Attention is yours. She’s giving up none so why should you. Ignore her unless her text is something like, “I miss you. Can I suck your dick and Call you daddy?”
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:13 AM
6

Don’t worry. Your previously BP brain is screaming at you not to offend her. To try and say the right thing at all times. But your new RP self understands that you can say what’s on your mind without fear of judgement. If you talk about a date you went on with another girl, that’s not a critical error. In fact her hamster will spin and she will want to suck your dick twice as hard. Embrace spinning plates. Don’t ram it down her throat that she is competing with others but it’s great to have opti…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:52 AM
2

She wants you to be an orbiter. Ignore and pursue other options.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 07:22 AM
1

Good story. Well written. And there’s a lesson in it for you. If you can fuck a fatty you can fuck a hot bird. Try to treat the hottie exactly the same. With a hint of entitlement and superiority. Obviously this is a lot harder as your hamster will be spinning saying you don’t deserve this hot little arse but if you maintain the same attitude then you will no doubt find success if you open and game enough girls. 6’5 is a great start over most mortals. Walk around everywhere like you own the plac…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:08 AM
3

Obsessing over her snap score is a clear sign of unhealthy oneitis.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:31 PM
21

Read, study, practice, improve. Just don’t talk about it.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:37 AM
4

Get bigger so you don’t get mistaken for a kid.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:39 AM
1

You don’t have to take her for coffee if you already know her. Time for action. Ask her to your place to watch a movie. Then escalate.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:20 AM
1

“I do t give a shit about her. She’s a ho blah blah blah” “Oh no she read my texts. What on earth will she think of me?” Come on mate.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 10:55 PM
1

If you act like her boyfriend she’ll treat you like her boyfriend. That means things like hand holding, sleepovers, gifts will all act against you if your goal is sex while keeping emotions at arms length. I’d put taking a girl to a wedding in that category. All that love and friends and family etc. Remembering that you’re in the bridal party so you will probably have a seperate table to her. That’s awkward enough. I question why you’d want to bring a plate in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 09:33 PM
4

You didn’t say your age, but i would say that in your 20s the girls will generally reflect your attitude to relationships. That is if you are putting out a relationshippy vibe then that’s what you’ll get back. You might be a high value beta in that girls want you but you don’t appear to be a sexual type. Remember the strength of an alpha comes from a take it or leave it attitude. He is in charge and his frame prevails. It’s sex only or nothing. The success of this of course depends on your SMV. …
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:22 AM
1

You look better with the shorter beard but you need to cut a lot of body fat.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:52 AM
20

You don’t fuck a girl that you don’t know bareback.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:47 AM
1

A stat is a stat. You don’t have to broadcast the details of every root that you get. Rumours of you being a player will do more good for you than rumours that you fucked an ugly bird. As you subtlety build a rep that you are cool with sex and get laid a lot it will have a snowball effect. Couple this with real confidence and you’re on a winning path to having multiple plates.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:29 AM
8

Wow. Shut up and take my money.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:16 PM
2

You say “thanks but I don’t want to be friends” and that’s the end of the conversation.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:22 AM
4

You’re overthinking things. It’s normal to do things for people you work with. It might be part of your job. There’s no special set of rules or alpha code that will make this girl like you. You don’t have a lot to lose. Just ask her to meet you for a drink outside work. There’s no special lines or secret handshakes but action is your ally. If you’ve been working together for a while she’ll have made her mind up by now whether she likes you or not. It’s your job as the man to work that out and th…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:47 AM
3

If your frame is generally solid and the girl is chill with a reasonable level of self confidence then you might not get shit tested all the time. Keep an eye out for subtle tests that might come from time to time. If you show signs of emotional fragility then she might try you out more but not necessarily.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:39 AM
3

You’re acting this way because you’re lonely and lack options. I am guessing you are a virgin and maybe even a kissless incel. The worst thing you could do now is waste any progress you’ve made by renewing your oneitis for this girl. If you continued to follow TRP principles eventually you will grow your circle and have at least some other women in your life so you won’t have to put up with falling for a total stranger. You’d have no idea if she was a virgin. She could have ten different dicks a…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:39 PM
1

I like sleepovers too. But from my experience it is the number one way that a girl will catch feels. If you can keep it to a short two hour catch up each time you’ll have a better chance of keeping the thing going long term.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:07 AM
3

If she wants to fuck you and is sending you dirty pics then don’t fuck around. Invite her over to watch a movie then fuck her. Fuck her good every time and keep it discrete. Respecting her right to privacy will help keep her coming over. Don’t act like her boyfriend. Avoid sleepovers, hand holding, mushy talk and coupley dates. Just have a laugh and a good fuck each time you meet. Read the sidebar about plate management. Chateau Heartiste’s 16 commandments of poon. Be cool, don’t catch feels. Yo…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:47 AM
1

Your lack of options is causing you to be overly available and generally beta. She’s clearly not that into you but your actions aren’t helping. Sidebar covers this.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 11:16 AM
3

Perhaps find a pursuit where you can spend time helping others. Volunteer one day a week at a soup kitchen or similar. I’d imagine you’ll find people in that world a lot less pretentious. And a good opportunity to expand your network in a different direction.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 10:24 AM
2

Strength training will tax your nervous system in a different way. Especially if you are doing squats for the first time. Start light and make steady incremental increases.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 03:45 AM
4

Beginners don’t overtrain. Athletes overtrain. You might be running yourself down because you are not used to the extra work but you will adapt quickly. Make sure you are eating and sleeping well. Also 6x per week is not optimal for a beginner. Pick up Starting Strength or a similar program. Don’t stuff up your noob gains by doing to much volume. You don’t need it and it’s not the best way at your training age.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:35 AM
1

If you act like her boyfriend she’ll treat you like her boyfriend. This is a big part of maintaining frame. Unfortunately once the ship has sailed it’s hard to get back. You’re quite young so it’s not the end of the world. Wait until you’re in your 30s. Virtually every woman you meet will be trying to lock you down. Hopefully lessons learned now will hold you in good stead.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:46 AM
2

Outstanding and well thought out post. The strength of it is that everyone on TRP journey will be able to identify with this at some level. (Possibly barring the natural Chads and the truly hopeless incells). My introspection is the need to stay hungry. My life has changed hugely in the last three years since discovering TRP while in a toxic relationship, finding the strength to leave then building myself up. I now find myself accidentally in a LTR. This one is great and deserves my time. Throug…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:11 PM
1

Interesting. I always kind of unspokenly sell it that I’m the catch and I’m doing her the favour not the other way round. Therefore, as I’m really the ho not her, she is free to act like one and we both win.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 11:11 AM
2

Do what works for you. You don’t have to be as extreme as you were in your wrestling career but copy your old diet. No need to be fancy. If most people cut out obvious heavy carbs and sugar then they’ll drop weight. The modern western diet is generally horrendous.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:12 AM
1

I haven’t personally tried it. I’m 34. My beard is sufficiently bristly. Google minoxidil beard. Plenty of anecdotes from sources not trying to sell it to you.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:04 PM
0

You can use minoxidil (Rogaine) on your face. It is reported to work. Beard issues solved.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:06 PM
1

Sidebar. FAQ #1.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:12 AM
1

Social media can be useful but keep in mind that there’s ten thousand other thirsty betas texting her the same bullshit every day. What makes you special? Probably nothing. If you are substituting social media for the real world then you are hurting your own development.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:20 AM
1

I suppose it’s easier to stereotype hot chicks as air heads or maybe sluts. An equally useful stereotype would be to assume her dad is Chad and her Mum is a trophy wife. Good genes, good schooling, good teeth, good beauty regime.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:47 PM
25

How many of the hot girls have you actually fucked? Don’t assume the better looking girls will be less intelligent. That’s wrong. Are you sure you’re not hamstering away your inability to get the girls you really want? Always strive for better. I’d bet you are settling.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:11 AM
1

Don’t be afraid to tell her straight. “Listen. I don’t want to hear it”, when she starts talking about her problems. If you present yourself as the emotional tampon she will use you as one. Take that off the table. Bring her into your frame.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:06 AM
7

Use fewer words. “Ok, take care.” End of conversation.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:02 AM
2

If you were flush with options would you be wasting time hearing about her failed relationship? Do you think she’d be burdening Chad with her war stories? No. She’d be smiley, charming and flirty and forget about old mate in about five seconds. Your solution is non-specific. Tell her you don’t want to hear about it anymore and do what you need to do to increase SMV. Be the subject of the next story. Not the unfortunate audience. You can guarantee that being the emotional tampon will never lead t…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:50 PM
3

Savage but true.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 11:02 AM
11

More than likely you are being too conservative and playing it too safe. Your issue is you underestimate how slutty your female partners are. You are assuming their resistance rather than finding the boundaries. This is not a major issue. You just need to push the boundaries and in your mind, reset the acceptable norm. Girls want to hook up. Girls that hook up with you often want to be fucked. You are doing yourself and her a disservice if you just kiss and cuddle and don’t test the waters to tr…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:05 AM
2

This is a fairly useless list as you’ve given no information about your situation. However...judging by the desperation and pathetic nature of your questions... You don’t mean shit to “her”. “She” would not notice if you never spoke to “her” again. Move on with your life because you don’t make a difference to “her”’either way.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:57 AM
7

Chad wins every time. But there’s layers. She’ll want to tell her fellow Stacy’s about Chad. But she might get 6/10 Johnny back around on the quiet. A great dicking is key for repeat business, but Chad is Chad. You can’t change this.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:36 AM
2

She’s not a plate unless you’re fucking. You’re not fucking you’re studying.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:31 AM
27

Tell them all you are busy and then stay home by yourself and watch Seinfeld re-runs. Awesome dread.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:07 AM
10

How much do you need music in your ears all day? The issue with headphones is you are effectively and overtly isolating yourself from the world. Headphones on is the international sign of do t fucking talk to me. Sometimes that might be a good thing but if you are looking to talk to people it can’t be helping.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:05 AM
9

You can’t win them all. Finish your drink. Say thanks for coming over. Show her the door. Soft next.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:13 AM
3

Sober for sure. If they’re a proper plate they’ll be coming over in the day time, and on weeknights. Sometimes I’ll have used plates for a fallback if you get drunk and don’t pull. But i prefer to drink with the boys and get the girls around during off peak times.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:29 AM
14

r/askamiddleschooler
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:26 AM
2

An ugly bastard who’s outgoing and spits tight game will do better than a shy pretty boy. You might have to lower the standards a tad bit there’s no reason if you’re cool you can’t slay.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 05:11 AM
5

Sounds like a good one to keep up your sleeve. Don't go out of your way for her. Don't text or snap chat her all the time like a money lost puppy. Keep her at arms length and when you go home for a legitimate purpose like visiting your family, then hit her up. Game girls at college. If you become obsessed with this girl and get nothing at college it will be one of the greatest regrets of your life.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 01:21 AM
2

Are you afraid you'll lose your box gap sweetling? Man up and squat and drink milk. What is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP15/01/18 01:05 AM
2

If you walked past a celebrity you would look at him, your eyes would light up and you’d smile. Conversely if you walked past a homeless man you would most likely avert your eyes and stare at a random spot on the horizon. People are probably seeing you as an attractive and interesting person. Walk a little slower. Meet their gaze with a smile or smirk. Say hello if you feel like it. The exact reason why each person looks at you doesn’t matter, your interpretation of it should be positive.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 10:44 PM
5

It’s completely different if she asks first. Just tell her what to wear.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:01 PM
6

Only if it’s absolutely necessary or you are doing it in a playful way. Massive risk of sounding like a sperg. The dress for most dates will speak for itself. Perhaps a well delivered “wear something sexy” would be good from time to time but pick your battles.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:53 PM
3

It’s basically this. Your BP self thinks she is doing you a favour by giving you the gift of her divine vagina or some shit like that. In reality, you are there in bed because you both want to be there. All you owe her is a good hard dicking and if you’re any good she might even thank you for the experience.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:42 AM
5

Ignore. Delete and block all numbers and social media. Don’t be the dog that goes back to his own vomit. Focus on yourself. First get a job and then focus on your fitness.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:34 AM
7

When you get into the end zone, act like you’ve been there before.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:39 AM
1

I mean you don’t want your cash and solid life situation to be the reason you attract women. It’s a much much better game if you are attracting women based on your own sex appeal. AF beats BB every time. Get online for dates if it helps. At the beginning just bang whoever you can to get the ball rolling then climb the smv ladder as you improve.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 01:10 AM
2

Realistically at 31 you are hitting your prime. It’s good that you have your life sorted financially. Job, House etc. That’s a good start, but remember, all of that is for you not a potential new partner. The next step is to lift and do what you can to max out your looks and style. It makes everything easier. Read the sidebar and date multiple women at the same time for a while before considering a new relationship.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:37 PM
2

It’s your job to get your needs met. If you want sleepovers that’s cool, find another girl who likes that sort of thing and keep fucking them both. More options will solve a lot of ills. Don’t worry about trying to change a person you’re with, it is difficult and not worth it.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:30 PM
1

She dumped you. Cut all contact and delete her number. Learn from the experience and realise that plates break, that’s why they’re plates. The whole premise around plate theory is you have multiple current fucks and a good prospect or two at all times. One drops, another one comes into the roster. This way you always have options, and most of the time you will leave the girls in a better place than when you found them. You need more options, not merry Christmas texts.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:41 AM
2

Your post reeks of desperation and you are in the wrong place. Read the sidebar while you’re here and hopefully you learn something.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:24 AM
6

You wouldn’t be entertaining the idea of taking her back if you had other options. She’s explicitly said she doesn’t want you anymore. But you want to go back? That’s without even touching on the BPD aspect. Have some self respect and find other girls.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:17 AM
1

Cut her off. It’s not your problem.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 11:49 PM
2

It’s called crab bucket mentality mate. Fuck her feelings. Your job is to be the best version of yourself. You better believe if she got fake tits and went up a notch in SMV she’d leave your arse. Get big. She will either improve too or not. Then you’ll know what to do.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 07:43 AM
5

Sidebar wisdom says it right. You can never be truly unplugged until you’ve had your own little harem of babes and kept it going for some time. You really don’t know what you’re missing out on until you do and in a poor position to judge if an LTR is right for you. Having said that, there’s worse positions to be in than having a good steady girl in your life. Even at a young age. Just never get comfortable, stay improving yourself and stay hungry. Get yourself in the position that if it does end…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 07:27 AM
1

It’s a good approach because you cut through a lot of the crap and it’s an elegant way of saying you are here for sex and not to waste time chatting. The subtext is clear. Three usual responses: Oh I’m looking for a relationship - That’s cute. Let’s go out Tuesday night. I don’t know. Just fun.. I guess. - We’ll that’s interesting.. I’m free Tuesday, let’s go out. I don’t know.. what are you looking for? - Friends, maybe more.. let’s go out Tuesday. Keeps things moving and will filter out a lot …
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:06 AM
1

Why? She’s showing interest and you should escalate . Are you trying to be clever or trying to get laid? If you are a good looking guy on tinder your best course of action is to be direct.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:25 AM
1

Thanks. So what are you looking for?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:22 AM
11

Soft next. These ones sometimes can come back but you need to leave her alone and game other girls.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 11:23 PM
3

What’s to be gained from locking yourself in with this girl? All I can see happening is you end up texting all the time, classic beta behaviour and then attraction eventually wanes. You’re in the perfect situation to keep your options open. Date multiple girls then if the logistics improve you can think about an LTR if she deserves it. There’s nothing to gain from a long distance relationship with someone you hardly know.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:37 AM
2

If you must cheat then read something about plate management and managing your bitches. Heartiste’s 13 commandments of poon. You would be doing yourself a disservice not to read the sidebar from start to finish.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:11 AM
7

There’s nothing unique about your situation and it’s all expertly explained in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 02:43 AM
8

This relationship is fine as long as you have other options. She should be your third or fourth choice to hang out with if you have time. It sounds like she’s your only option and that’s why you are giving attention to someone who only lets you touch her titty. Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 04:43 AM
4

Point one of the FAQ. Start there. I had a quick look at your post history. It seems like you are a frustrated bloke with mad oneitis for your hot co-worker. If she’s a true 9, not an internet 9 then she is used to having virtually every man she meets bend over backwards in an effort just to bask in her earthly stench. Why are you any different or better than them? Your two options are both weak. Go to the party. Flirt and be cool with everyone, not just her. Hit on her if you wish but make sure…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:17 AM
104

“Ok. If you don’t look like your pictures then you’re buying the drinks until you do.”
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 10:45 PM
2

Good story. It flows down the chain too. There’s been times when my mates have said the same about me, picking up a hot young girl at the pub or something. (I’m 34). How the fuck does he do it. I’m no chad, but probably a solid 8. I suppose all you can do is climb the SMV ladder as best you can and enjoy the fruits that it brings.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:02 AM
2

Insecure girls pull shit like this. Tell her in no uncertain terms that if she does it again, she’s out. As a side note, it doesn’t hurt for your other plates to notice things like this from time to time. A subtle reminder that she is in competition with others never goes astray.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:38 AM
1

Women want to be fucked. They don’t want to have D & M’s about your soft willie issues. Whatever the reason, she will perceive it as a huge sign of weakness and you can’t end up looking anything but beta in her eyes. Go and speak to a proper doctor and get a proper prescription for proper viagra. Not some dubious online shit. Wank off a bit less and this should sort you out. If it is psychological and you find yourself not needing the viagra anymore then stop taking it. But for gods sake don’t h…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:36 AM
1

Plates come and go. That’s why they are called plates. You heed to keep a steady pipeline coming through. Don’t allow your sex life to be at the mercy of one woman. Eventually you’ll stop caring if one drops off.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 10:15 AM
1

Sounds like you’re a victim of the algorithm.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:24 AM
-1

Meh. Girls like this are fun. This sort of behaviour should be encouraged, not shamed. Just don’t be the poor bloke who tried to wife her and then is surprised to find she is taking a different dick every Friday night. Judge less OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 11:46 PM
1

Pay her when you genuinely owe and then block all forms of contact. Never let yourself get in this position again.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 01:57 AM
3

It’s good to be upfront but you don’t want to make it sound too much like a business deal. Remembering that chicks don’t mind acting like sluts as long as you don’t make them feel like a slut. Consider switching to night time dates and as you said just let your actions do the talking. If you are comfortable touching them and acting like it’s all in a day’s work, that will count for more than laying out a verbal plan to become fuck buddies. This might be a time saver sometimes but from my experie…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:47 PM
3

ABC. Always be closing. She’s suggested Netflix so she is keen to smash. You just have to make this happen in a cool and low key way, where you are making it happen and she comes along for the ride. Grab a bottle of wine or bubbly. Put it in the fridge. Have a drink close to home, kino from the very beginning. After you first drink, “hey I have a bottle of wine in the fridge. Let’s go back to mine and drink it”. Go home. Escalate more. Should be easy at that point.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 12:46 PM
3

Sidebar
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:25 PM
1

Ask her specifically to hang out. If she says no then next. No ifs or buts.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 11:55 AM
5

You can’t plate someone you haven’t fucked. And you can’t fuck someone until you meet. You’re an orbiter.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:07 AM
3

Sounds like you’re a plate and she’s not.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:20 AM
2

Fuck man. You are 19 and in college and hopefully since you are here, somewhat TRP aware. See this for what it is. This is one of the greatest opportunities of your life. Agree with your girl. Ghost her then go out and slay. Don’t look back for one second.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:00 AM
1

Get some hobbies. Socialise. Online dating... This is covered the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:15 PM
2

She can talk to whoever she wants if you aren’t committed to each other. It’s irrelevant who she tags and texts. She doesn’t owe you shit and you owe her the same. Having gotten that out of the way.. this isn’t a bad FWB situation for you. I don’t think you have a strong enough frame to keep this in a healthy spot though. There’s a bit of oneitis from you. You will probably end up jealous and insecure again but who knows, you might learn something. She need to know that you’re seeing other women…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:14 PM
3

You’re going in with the assumption that she is there looking for love and she is giving you some sacred gift by coming home with you. A more correct assumption is she is sitting across from you hoping that you are at least cool. And hoping for a light hearted time and a good fuck. Your feeling are letting your self down and letting her down as well. If you don’t fuck her someone else will.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 07:10 AM
10

Got lost on the way to the incel sub? Bad luck in losing the genetic lottery. But the world needs more jockeys. Giddy up.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 04:52 PM
7

Why would you want to do this? Is she ugly? More often than not it will be in your interest to have a quiet rep as a pantsman. Let her gossip if she wants. But the fact is most women are more concerned than men with keeping a chaste reputation. I wouldn’t worry.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:52 AM
2

The good ones are out there. You just need to build your experience and your SMV while you sort through them. Hopefully you’ll get to a point where all the girls you are with are objectively hot so then you can forget about that and let the ones who have good personality traits rise to the top. Never forgetting the core TRP that AWALT (potentially at least).
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:14 AM
49

How many haircuts are you getting that you need your girl to cut it for you? Nobody cuts my hair but a professional. You cheap bastard! 😉
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:14 AM
3

You don’t need to say anything else to her. You’ve already said more than enough. Cut all ties. Delete all phone numbers. Focus on your fitness and your business. Always remember this time and never allow yourself to get in a position again where your entire psyche is dependent on a single woman.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:52 AM
2

You have oneitis. Delete all means of contact and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:49 PM
9

So now that you’ve read the side bar you’ll know a bit of the local terminology. Like ‘oneitis’ which you seem to have for this girl. Sounds like she’s a tease, and her schtick is working on you. I would continue to ignore and improve yourself. Smash as many women as possible and slowly climb the ladder in terms of hotness.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 08:06 AM
5

Her feelings aren’t your problem. Just fuck her.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 01:49 PM
7

Ignore and keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 02:22 AM
11

You were psychologically abused by yourself for staying that situation. You should find no sympathy here nor do you deserve any. Nobody cares about you. Get out there and make your life better, or don't. It's entirely up to you.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 02:18 AM
1

I don't mind the odd night going out trying to pick up. Go right ahead, but if it's every week that is going to be a drainer. Find some mates. Go out together and have a great time and make the girls your side project. You will probably end up pulling more frequently and with far less effort. Props for approaching so much though. It is a numbers game at times and if you are putting yourself out there that much then some success is inevitable.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:57 PM
6

Your job is to work out if she is interested. Assume she is and ask her out. Then you will know. Simples.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:12 PM
10

She's clearly not interested having turned you down twice. When a girl wants you she will make the time. Asking you to hang out with friends doesn't count as a date. You're friend zone at best. Game other women.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 03:44 AM
2

The good news is you seem to be getting laid easily. Which a lot of the new guys around here would give a nut for. You probably need to develop more of a life outside your dating world. You can't fall hopelessly in love every time. Get some hobbies and date multiple women at the same time. Also learn to be more stoic. Your emotions seem similar to a 16 year old school girls. Man up and hold steady. You should be the rock, it's the woman who should be the emotional roller coaster.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:49 PM
6

Your whole conversation is pretty beta. When she said she has to decide, you reply "no worries" then soft next. Don't try to talk her into it with crafty language and pua tricks. It comes off as thirsty and lowers your value. Move on to someone who is wet for you. This one clearly isn't.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 06:12 AM
10

She's an attention whore and you are eating your own shit right now.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:20 AM
8

Any compliment involving golf should be met with a smirk and a head wobble.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:16 AM
3

I don't mind it. Some women will be instantly turned off but some women will love it. Much better than being grey.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 08:22 AM
2

Roissy's 16 commandments of poon. XIV - Fuck her good. Hard to come back from blowing too quick then not getting hard. Being a genuinely great fuck will get you a lot of replay value. But if you are a dud root it's going to be a deal breaker for a lot of girls. I think you need to next her. It's your most powerful tool when the girl has lost interest. Next time, fuck her better.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 06:41 AM
6

What a strange post. The black girl is clearly better looking than the white girl. And that proves what?
/r/askTRP17/09/17 02:29 PM
1

It takes a while to get the pipeline going when you are starting to try and spin plates. You will need to get a lot of new leads and have a lot of first dates to find your good regulars. You can't close on each and every date, and you can't plate each and every girl you fuck. (As much as I'd like to). As you build your skills and develop your abundance mentality you'll have less time for girls that don't put out on the first few dates. Sounds like this one just isn't into you. Girls on the rebou…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 01:42 PM
1

It's not that confusing. Also read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 04:00 AM
1

Do what you need to do. You can give the illusion of exclusivity if it helps the story. No doubt she is doing the same to you. It's all a game, just don't catch feels and don't tie yourself to one girl in a LDR at your age.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:56 AM
1

Plate with zero expectations from either party for exclusivity. No reason for you to pull the plug.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:49 AM
2

Tinder etc is great for increasing numbers. But I've learned that to get the higher quality types you need to do more in real life. Mix the two.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 11:14 AM
1

You are using all of the red pill lingo but I don't think you really understand what you are saying. Read the sidebar, and if the girl is causing you hassles then cut her loose.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 04:20 AM
1

Yours is a noble goal. And possibly attainable but you are going about it the wrong way. Remember. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gate keepers on commitment. You are not going to bag a hot 25 year old by selling yourself as a LTR type. This is going to get her guard up from the beginning. You need to sell yourself subtly as a player and unattainable to her. Your commitment must be earned. Spin plates. Date multiple women and be emotionally distant if not neglectful. These younger …
/r/askTRP09/07/17 12:11 PM
6

I say go for it. When you are beginning your journey, take what you can get. I'd suggest try to maintain 3-4 plates and get used to having sex on tap. Keep approaching women, in real life, online, wherever you can and have more one nighters and try to upgrade your plates as you go. Benefits: A bad root is always better than a good wank. You'll get better at sex. You'll develop your alpha mindset needed to plate better quality women. The more pussy you get, the less you'll care about it. And the …
/r/askTRP09/07/17 11:44 AM
5

You need to polarise more quickly or strongly. As Mark Manson says, you you need to get a 'Fuck Yes' or No. If you are getting maybes you are not in a good zone. Keep escalating and if she is not keen then move to another prospect.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:17 AM
5

This is a common situation and that's why it's important to break things off properly in the mini relationships you'll have when you are dating multiple people. It's why a well executed soft next is so powerful. Take the lead in planning the date but the only options are hang out at yours or hang out at hers. Few drinks, Netflix and chill. Whatever. Don't accept an outside date. If she doesn't want to come over then next her again because she is jerking your gherkin. Escalate. Have fun.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:14 AM
2

You need more women in your life. Take the sex only deal for now but get some other plates. Subtlety let her know that she is now competing for your attention. If she pulls back further then ghost. Your mistake is making her your one and only when she doesn't give a shit about you. It should be the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:21 AM
0

You're a 21 year old model, honey. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:08 AM
10

You need to realise that nobody gives a fuck about you. Either wise up and improve your life or don't. No one will care except you. What kind of man do you want to be in five years from now?
/r/askTRP24/05/17 12:17 PM
1

I've done it before in a pre RP LTR. In a practical sense it works fine. We were paying off a house together. Paid ourselves a spending allowance to do what we wanted and pooled the rest. All food, bills and regular expenses came out of the treasury. Things like nights out, new clothes and beers etc came out of the allowance. If you can find a way to maintain a level of freedom and you're on similar incomes and spending levels then why not?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 03:11 AM
5

If you're hamstering about your LTR going on the pill then you need not worry about her liking betas.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 03:08 AM
2

Read the sidebar. Also read: No More Mr Nice Guy. Only you can get yourself out of your comfort zone. Try to be what you feel is sleezy. Talk dirty, touch, assume she wants to get naked with you. If you are indeed as attractive as people are leading you to believe then your results should be surprisingly good.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 08:41 AM
3

A similar thing happened to me last week. One of my main FWB was a bit drunk and left a hickey on my face. I was fuming at her and dreading seeing my other main plate a couple of days later. I asked my housemate and he reckoned she wouldn't notice. We met and Lo and behold the first thing she said "What happened to your face? Did someone suck on your face?" I deflected and said it may have happened at work or some other obviously bullshit reason. And laughed about it. I could see her hamster spi…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 06:11 AM
3

Telling the basic one she's basic will likely hit a nerve. I wouldn't do that. Try telling the intelligent or interesting one she's basic. Good neg. That should be amusing.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:06 PM
30

She's not into you. Find other options.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 03:45 AM
1

Tinder. Just be alpha enough so they will stay around without the possibility of you ever providing for her family. Make your intentions clear that it's sex only. Do the odd date if you must but be prepared to have to cycle through a few when they realise it's going nowhere. I've plated a few single mums. I don't necessarily agree with the popular opinion here to avoid at all costs. Plenty of women will be happy to fuck someone who is cool and good company and happy to leave no strings attached.…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 07:46 AM
6

Start with the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:12 AM
3

She needs professional help. Help her to find some.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:43 PM
1

First of all. Try paragraphs. Second of all, if you are getting upset by what's happening on the internet you probably need to get out more.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:33 AM
2

How do you know they're not fucking? Unless you're performing regular examinations on her or have some other magic power, you wouldn't have a clue. She could tell you anything she likes.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 01:27 AM
2

She's fucking him and not you. She thinks you are safe. You can ask her out but you're more than likely going to crash and burn after all of this time. Better to find some other girls. Escalate quickly and confidently. You have oneitis and these type of situations never end well for the orbiter (you).
/r/askTRP01/04/17 12:54 AM
3

I have a government job. It's never going to make me rich, but it's noble work and I love it.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 08:46 PM
3

The more sex I get the shallower it is. As a younger man the five times a year were the best five times of my life. Now that it's five times a week with three or four different women it means far less to me. Just an enjoyable experience between friends and something to tell stories to my mates about. And not surprisingly the lower value I place on sex the easier it is to get.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 10:22 AM
2

It makes everything easier. You'll have access to more women, hotter women. Don't underestimate face gains either. I lost about 15kg of fat. Staggering how much better my face looks. Don't settle for being fat. It's one key thing in your life that you have control over.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 10:17 AM
1

How old are you? You sound kind of young and with a girlfriend that you don't really like. Dump her and start again.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 10:15 AM
60

I started at 31. Two years ago. 6 year sexless relationship with someone who hated me and I hated her. I was already lifting and in half decent shape but came here and changed my entire mental approach. Set my mind to the task of having multiple girlfriends and moved to the city. A year and a half later and I've never been happier. Doing well in my job, fit, loving life. Don't get to 40 and wish you started at 30. Start today. Join a gym and get lifting, read the sidebar and go from there.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 10:13 AM
13

I'Ve noticed over the last year as I self improved that I'm constantly surprised by the level of woman that is interested in me. There's a bit of a lag in the self confidence as you move up the scale. Coming from a position of scarcity, to a position of abundance. From pulling 6's with the odd 7. To 8's with the odd 9. It takes a while to get used to your new level. Another reason to be bold and try to over reach. Yes you might get slapped down occasionally, but it's not that bad when that happe…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:58 AM
23

Everyone is ragging out the bloke but I'm sure 90% of people have been in Darren's shoes. Oh to be 18 again and know what I know now. So many wasted years. Never go back.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:54 AM
1

That's the least of your worries for now. Keep training.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:16 AM
1

Ask her on a date. Escalate.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 12:26 AM
1

Get out on a basketball court with a ball or the beach or something. The pic shouldn't say "pick me I'm ripped" it should say, "I'm cool and by the way, I'm ripped".
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:37 AM
1

Right. I misunderstood what you meant. There's no reason you can't if you can get your SMV to your highest possible level. Usual advice. Lift. Read the sidebar. Put yourself in the right social situations. Supplement with dating apps, etc. Also don't disqualify yourself for assumed reasons. It's up to the girl to reject you. Your lack of social proof might be a reason you get rejected by some women. You can't help that. But over a large sample, many won't give a toss about that.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:30 AM
2

Since they introduced the 'Boost' matches come a lot slower. I've paid up for Tinder plus and usually get about 30 matches a week including the boost. Put your pics on the r/tinder profile review thread. They are fairly honest and helpful.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:18 AM
2

Why does your girlfriend have to come from the undergrad? You can find a girlfriend anywhere. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:13 AM
3

Yours is a fairly simple scenario. Hit her up for a date. If she agrees, escalate and go from there. If she says no then you're a friend zone/orbiter. It doesn't matter what reason she gives for saying no. She may have some legit sounding reason but if you aren't there together on a non plutonic date within a week then she is stringing you along. It's an easy next at that point. Block on all social media. Ignore her texts and find a girl who wants you.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:20 AM
1

I actually couldn't give a stuff if anyone calls me a player. For one, it's true. And two, none of the women I'm with ever complain about it. Quite the opposite, I'm usually showered with compliments about how good the sex was. Thanked for my time etc etc. The only bitterness or negativity that comes into the situation is when girls get mad that I won't commit. And in the words of the Book of Pook, they aren't truly mad at me, they are mad at themselves for not being feminine enough to pin down …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 03:54 AM
1

You're both young. Fuck her and many others. The count is irrelevant at this point. Just tarp up to avoid STDs and you're set.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 07:54 AM
3

I suspect it's just chubby women taking what they can get.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:00 AM
6

Have a look at r/PurplePillDebate
/r/askTRP09/01/17 11:44 PM
1

The Rational Male - Rollo Models - Mark Manson. Those two probably changed things the most for me. 48 Laws of Power also.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:23 PM
1

Thanks. That's what I figure.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 09:51 PM
1

Had a girl the other night tell me. Oh I was texting with this guy earlier. He was asking me to come over, but he's a bit shit and needy. But it made me realise I wanted sex, so I texted you. It's relationships on easy mode at a certain point.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 12:34 PM
1

Don't beat yourself up over this one. You struck up a conversation with someone who I assume is close to a 10. Most people wouldn't do that. The rest is just details. Some have analysed your post to death which is fine, try to learn something. But be proud of yourself for putting your nuts on the table. It's a good day.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 11:07 AM
1

Date the best girls you can at the time. Hopefully you are doing something everyday to improve your value. But in the mean time you may as well get laid and practice your skills. If the best you can get is HB5's right now then so be it. Get in the gym and practice your social skills and ramp up the scale as you develop.
/r/seduction02/01/17 04:05 AM
1

You're setting yourself up for more of the same behaviour in the future. She's disrespecting your time. Bitches who get away with that once will keep doing it. The correct play is to calmly and firmly call her out. "You're 45 minutes late. I won't stand for having my time wasted like that. If it happens again you won't see me again." Her behaviour will either improve or if won't and she'll be off your list.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:52 AM
5

You don't need TRP's permission to Fuck a woman.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 10:21 PM
2

You're getting ahead of yourself. She is just a prospect at this stage. Keep it light for now. You can line her up as a plate after you fuck her but for now just keep tuning her and hopefully you've got a few others up your sleeve.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 01:43 AM
1

Nobody gives a shit about you expect you. If you can't be bothered doing anything then you'll waste some of the best years of your life. Start tomorrow.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 02:02 PM
2

I've thought this many times and almost made a post about it previously. It's a snowball effect. After a certain level of alphaness (or something) you almost can say nothing wrong at any time. This means social anxiety dissolves even further leading to more spoken truths with no fucks given. As long as you keep in mind the possible audience for what you say and do, you can't go wrong. IE; don't ever be sleazy in front of an older female boss. I've been at parties where I've had my hands on a gir…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:55 AM
1

I've been in your situation. It doesn't feel great in the beginning. But don't shoot yourself in the foot. The best thing you can do is honestly communicate to her that while you like her, you aren't going to be getting into a monogamous relationship now or anytime in the foreseeable future. You don't have to be any harsher that that. No sugar coating. No mayo. At that point it's up to her. She can take it or leave it. She is a big girl and responsible for her own feelings. She might walk. She m…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 01:03 AM
1

Embrace the red pill philosophy. It will take you a while to understand that the very women you seek will not be attracted to your warm hearted and people pleasing ways. Work toward your best self. Become the alpha that you read about and the world's perception of you will change. Put yourself first in all situations. Your Blue Pill conditioning will resist thinking that people will hate you for it but you will eventually attract great quality women and men into your life. Read the sidebar and g…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:29 AM
1

They give that shit to recovering heroin addicts. Are you sure you want that in your body?
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:47 AM
1

If they don't think you are worth fucking then they won't set you up with a friend. If they do think you are worth fucking then they definitely won't set you up with a friend. The exception would be with a low SMV fatty or similar. But I'm assuming that's not what you're after. In my experience it just doesn't happen. Use your friend zone to expand your network and maybe go out in a group and hit on her friends yourself. But don't expect to be set up on dates, nor should you want that. As a man …
/r/askTRP25/11/16 03:22 AM
-15

Super unprofessional and you got what you deserved.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 09:59 PM
1

Just play a straight bat. I had a girl say this to me earlier this week. I know she was down. She knew she was down. First time we'd met. The first thing she said to me is "There's not going to be any sex tonight". I didn't really mind either way. Later on when I was two knuckles deep in her I called her out on why'd she say that. She said she she didn't want there to be any pressure in case it wasn't happening. So there you have it. The chick is saying this for herself, not because she expects …
/r/askTRP22/11/16 06:17 AM
5

Agree with this. I can count on one hand the amount of friends, colleagues, acquaintances or school mates that I've boned. For me it's difficult and awkward. Much more efficient and probably more exciting to fuck a stranger. My best lays are the ones where you meet up, are overtly sexual to the point of sleezyness. Then have a quick lay. You can get to know each other from there. Even friends of friends is always trickier. Linking in with OPs point. I think an issue is when it comes to hitting o…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 01:23 AM
1

I'm blue eyed, northern euro type. Usually pull blondes but Asians are my favourite. Usually tight rig. Super affectionate and submissive. I met them both from dating apps. Recommend.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:02 AM
4

Both the length and tone of your post makes me worry that this is going to be a massive time sink for you. Oneitis. What do you actually want from this? If you want to maintain spinning plates then you need to polarise her quickly and in a sexual way. Be prepared to walk if it's not happening. You already sound like you're hamstering over her. Your frame is doubtful. And from personal recent experience, the couple of Asians I've been with lately (2nd gen tho) have been the kinkiest lays I've jus…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 10:18 PM
3

You're not looking for a relationship. But you are open to a relationship. That's as far as you really need to go. Don't be afraid to connect. It will lead to more committed and fulfilling Fuck buddys. But maintain your personal commitment to have at least two in the kitty. The better you get at this. The stronger your frame and abundance mentality then the more you'll feel like you can be upfront about only wanting sex. A lot of girls will be cool with that but nobody wants to feel like a slut.…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 10:09 PM
4

Women will be as slutty as you allow them to be. Don't be a judgemental fucker because they've slept around. Most likely they'll be your most enthusiastic lays if you play it right. Different if you're looking for a Virgin Mary to tie down and marry but I doubt that's what bought you to TRP.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:52 AM
4

Good on you for achieving financial success at a young age. You are obviously talented. Keep going. Spend the next few months maxing out your physical appearance. Bigger, stronger. Fitness and fashion. Work towards a harder, edgier look. Avoid being preppy. People will begin to treat you differently as you look better making your social gains easier. You've got to be comfortable being uncomfortable in social situations. You don't sound retarded so get out there and push yourself. Also get on tin…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:47 AM
10

Don't just flirt with your girl, flirt with everyone. There's no reason you can't charm her dad and be charismatic toward mum. Chat them all up. You are the cool and energetic guy that comes in on Mondays and makes them all feel good. Be the man when you come in and ask her out sooner rather than later.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:01 PM
2

Please come back with a field report. Potential to be epic.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 01:30 AM
19

This is true abundance mentality. Like any other commodity, pussy becomes low value when it is plentiful. I suspect your attitude would change if all of a sudden you weren't getting any. It's great to be banging so many sluts but your life might be better if you can build some kind of connection with the good ones now and then. Consider allowing yourself to get close sometimes.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:28 AM
1

Move out child.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 10:18 AM
4

Girls want to act like sluts. But they don't want to feel like sluts. Think about that. Your aim is to be the cool guy that they can express themselves physically with. Not awkward. Not inexperienced. Non judgemental. You will lead them to the bedroom and make them feel like "it just happened".
/r/seduction02/11/16 01:08 AM
1

I've never seen them sold in the US of A but Binds trunks are the best in the world. Order them on line and come back and thank me later.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:06 PM
2

It's all about frame in this situation. You need to have a 'take it or leave it' mentality. Sounds like she is worth keeping around so don't shove it down her throat that you are spinning multiple plates. She knows. If she brings up The Talk™ then your response is consistent. "You know I like you but I'm not interested in full on commitment right now". Or words to that effect. Delivered through your strong frame, this is a winner.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:02 PM
2

I couldn't possibly comment on all that, let alone read it all. I skimmed and here's a few things.. Wasn't Zyzz an Aussie Lebo? There's your inspiration. Sure he took a lot of juice and it might have put him into an early grave. But rather live a day as a lion than a lifetime as a sheep right? Sex is no different to any other commodity. It's only a big deal to you because it's so rare. Until I was 26 and moved to London I'd only fucked 7 girls. Now just for this year I've lost count at 16 or so.…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:52 PM
17

I can relate to this. If I carry on like a beta, three dates no sex. It's dull and awkward. Sometimes you get laid anyway for being a decent SMV dude, buts it always laborious and rarely fulfilling. When I get my alpha mindset on it's a different game. Much more physical. Genuine desire in bed. Much quicker callbacks and an easier time setting up dates. Lesson is to be assertive. Be physical. Polarise and escalate quickly and without hesitation. She can take it or leave it. Remember it's a case …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 04:19 AM
1

No girl is going to hook up with you in a setting like that. Flirt and build attraction and follow it up later.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:55 AM
1

Getting up at 0500 is not the Hawaiian ironman. You don't need to train. Just to it.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:22 AM
9

Don't forget to add a point for the Internet.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:32 AM
1

At your age focus on self development. Your education is number 1. Learn how to budget and manage your cash and try to set the building blocks for saving and investing. Work out and get strong. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:33 AM
13

Here's the thing though. If what you are advocating indeed worked then there would be no need for this sub to exist. No need for books on red pill philosophy to have been written. You are telling the betas out there exactly what society has told us since the day we were born. Nothing you have written is new to anybody that read your post. The problem is not TRP telling men the optimal way to operate. The problem is the traditional 'blue pill' thinking doesn't work. It's nobody's fault but it is …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 01:35 AM
13

Why would an asexual person waste so much time posting in a male sexual strategy sub? Go and enjoy your friends and talk about snakes. Your input is completely irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 12:45 AM
1

Your mother is not to be trusted.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:13 AM
1

As Mark Manson says. You must polarise quickly. Your only desirable responses are "Fuck yes" or "NO". Right now you've got a maybe which is looking like a no. You should keep going to get your answer either way, then escalate and hit it, or move on straight away.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 08:08 AM
1

Go there and talk to everyone from the beginning of the day. Even before you arrive call a late and tell them what a great day it is going to be. Talk to men, women, obscure grand parents, everyone. Have a good day, make your three approaches but don't let the measure of your day be whether you pulled or not. Sometimes it's hard. At least grab a number or two and you can follow them up later. Nothing better than beers in suits.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 06:43 AM
3

Is professional misconduct a thing in your field? You are risking a lot for not free sex with a 7/10 hooker. I don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 11:58 PM
1

Keep in mind that every time you go to an expensive place, outside your comfort zone, you are entering her frame. Next date, go and grab ice cream in the park and go back to yours. Maintain your frame.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 01:55 AM
5

You're the Beta Bux, my young friend. And you are gobbling up her shtick. Hook, line and sinker. Cool things immediately. Read the sidebar even more immediately. Condoms.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 02:17 AM
9

Never a truer word spoken on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 12:51 AM
1

Feminists would rate her 10 due to being at the top of the corporate food chain. She's plain looking though and would only have been a 7 at best aged 21. Unless she was super fit. Bit i doubt it.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 02:39 AM
1

You sound like you've reached a strange place mentally and that is going to be a difficult thing to overcome. I'd start by reading Model. By Mark Manson. NMMNG as well. It's ok to want women. You need to come to terms with that. They like to be desired. It's why the spend so much time and money on fancy shoes and make up. If you can change your attitude it will change a lot. You're not going to be drowning in pussy overnight but on the right track. And keep lifting.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 06:51 AM
1

Is she socially awkward? A bit of a nerd. It could be that she is just not the confident and flirting with a guy makes her nervous. Try to tee up a private date over snap. That will be easier than trying to flirt with her in a group setting.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 06:34 AM
1

Mum or obscure aunt says cute. = Generic family talk. Girl calls you cute = IOI. Escalate. Most interested females aren't that effusive with the compliments. Unless you are balls deep that's about as good as you are going to get. Feel good about it.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:57 AM
2

Train through it. It will be the best thing for you. An old football coach said to me "You have to learn the difference between pain and injury". Crippling back pain? Join pain such as knees. Probably rest. Pain in the muscle bellies and ribs? Especially glutes, quads and pecs. Keep going. After your first few weeks you'll rarely get doms again.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:50 AM
2

Field report please.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 05:29 AM
1

Vaginismus is definitely a real thing. I've lived through it as a beta schmuck for six years. In my gf's case, it was severe. No intercourse was possible at all. We spent a small fortune trying to fix it. We did butt stuff a lot and no shortage of oral/manual stuff. I rationalised that it wasn't too bad. Worst of all is she was about a 5-6 on her best day, a controlling bitch at times and her family dominated our lives. I don't know if she's got it sorted yet because I dumped her at the beginnin…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:02 PM
1

Judging from the question I'm going to guess that you're new here. To answer your question. It doesn't matter. Keep chatting or don't. If you do meet her just escalate quickly and work out if she is full of shit and really a thinly disguised slut or not. Now that you're here. Take the opportunity to read the sidebar and dig a bit deeper. It might be a useful thing to come out of this insignificant a Tinder conversation.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 08:06 AM
1

Cold roast chicken is 30g of protein per 100g. Two meals a day of 200g each. One protein shake with two scoops. 50g. That's 190g per day. Don't neglect the carbs and fats if you're trying to gain weight. I recently got on to the My Fitness Pal app. It's a very easy meal tracker and counts your nutrients. Download it. Go from there.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:56 AM
1

Good words to live by. There's a decent TRP post in that.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 02:58 AM
4

Read the 48 Laws of Power. This idea is discussed in detail.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 11:33 AM
1

It depends how much you need the work from her dad. Assume if you hook up with daughter you'll lose him as a client. Abundance mentality. Surely there'd be others. But if you must; Assume she likes you and ask her out. That age gap is nothing. If she thinks you're hot she'll find a way to rationalise the age difference to her friends.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 11:27 AM
1

OP I'd like you to save this post and set some sort of timer for 5 years from now. When the timer goes off you can read this post and realise how stupid you sound. You don't have to be defined by your job, regardless of your career choice. Your degree will give you a foot in the door in some kind of career path and hopefully some skills to get started. 90% of the rest of it will be social skills, luck and who you know. Make the most of your education. Develop yourself in other areas. Be a well r…
/r/askTRP11/09/16 02:25 PM
1

A simple program like Starting Strength is perfect for the time poor. Also get a chin up bar in your home and hit it for a set to failure when you leave the house and before bed. Maintain adequate protein. You wouldn't lose that much muscle in 5 months of inactivity. Your strength gains should return within a couple of months.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 02:11 PM
2

Seems like you're doing well to polarise her. She's probably worth another date but if there's no love after that then next. As Mark Manson says, Fuck yes or no. Don't settle for mediocrity. You can't win them all.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 10:03 AM
1

Only you will know if this relationship is a good one. I don't agree that you have to next her in this situation. It's a personal choice if she sends nudes. It's not a bad thing if she is taking her reputation seriously. Your request for nudes is pretty beta though. If you can get to the stage where she wants to send you nudes unprompted because she is worried about keeping her alpha on the hook, that's much better. If spend the two months away training hard and getting in your best shape. Take …
/r/askTRP11/09/16 01:39 AM
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At 19 you are still many years off your peak. I'm 33 and I don't feel like I'm there yet. Immediately block your ex from all forms of telecommunications and social media. She seems like a needy cancerous bitch who is stomping on you just to get her feels and validation. She's done. Stop eating shit today. Your studies and career development are your top priority. Work hard to build discipline in these important areas of your life. Try to forget about women. Monk mode if you must. Build your own …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 12:19 AM
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Why would you want to fuck someone who's disrespected you like this? I'm not sure you're speaking from a position of experience. I suspect not. Your advice is poor.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:15 AM
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There's no reason you can't lift while you're eating at a deficit. If you are brand new do Starting Strength. You will stall quicker than if you were eating at a big surplus like is recommended but you'll be on the way. If you are untrained you may not lose muscle mass if you are eating at a deficit for a long time, but lifting will preserve what you have. Some studies say you can make noob muscle gains while eating at a deficit. I don't think that's true but it will help you burn calories and g…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:31 AM
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If you've said you don't want to see her anymore then that's fine. Move on and do your own thing. Lift. See other women. Forget about her and focus on you. She's more than likely going to notice your self improvement. Expect her to make some kind of contact I'm the next few months. If that happens then make it all on your terms. Each time you see her should involve sex. Avoid plutonic dates and situations. Maintain frame at all costs. If she doesn't make contact, so be it. Your trap will be if y…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:05 PM
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How are you going to react when you find out for sure that she's fucking another dude. (She most likely already is). The advice already here is good. Next her. Improve self. Spin plates. She'll probably come calling anyway and then you're in control. She hangs out with you for sex. That's it.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:14 AM
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Two pieces of advice. If she's a bitch, cut her loose. And try paragraphs.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 10:03 AM
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If only there was some kind of collection of information for the easy perusal of newcomers. Someone should make a sidebar!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 02:03 AM
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I'd chase her for about a week. If you don't hit it by then, move on. But she's openly telling you she's a slut and she's not fucking you. How do you think she views you? Tip: not Alpha.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:48 PM
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Only you can answer that really. If you think you do better by being a bit friendlier and outgoing that's fine. Just don't be a clown and don't give up too much too soon. You don't want to be pouring out your heart and soul. That should be shared over a period of time. Keeping your frame. Avoiding social media and overdoing the texting and such. Keep the conversation in the areas that you choose. Keep parts of your life to yourself. You are probably not too far off the mark.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:38 PM
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Sounds like you're overdoing the mysterious thing. Nobody likes talking to a brick wall. What's wrong with sharing a few cool anecdotes and stories? In Models, Mark Manson explains this well. Link what you're saying to her stories. You'll be more interesting to talk to. The conversations will flow better.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:18 PM
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Agree. I'm 33 and have 10 from tinder this year. I feel girls late 20s to early 30s maybe need a date or two, but if you can hold a conversation it's gold. And I'm no oil painting.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 02:11 AM
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It just kind of ended. I was thinking in my mind whether or not I should elaborate and say why I didn't want a serious thing but I held back. Left the silence in the air and maybe dozed off for a bit. We cuddled a bit more, she gave me a BJ then we went to get coffee.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 03:47 AM
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Cheers. My goal is to become the best man I can become. Work, fitness, living situation is all going well. The last thing a want at the moment is a serious GF.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 02:32 AM
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Watch the show. Have fun with your friends. Pick up girls another time.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 11:37 AM
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Lap up the attention if you enjoy it but keep yourself unattainable. Remember that if you hook up with one, others may get jealous. What might be just flirting in return by you could be viewed as sexual harassment by your boss. Keep it fun but don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 11:48 PM
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Sounds like you need some professional therapy.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 11:45 AM
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I don't see that you need to have some life defining end goal at your age. But the benefit of experience has made me wish that I did a few things differently in my early adult life. Set yourself up for the future. Study something useful. Start getting strong and in shape now. Start building your assets. Don't be drunk all of the time. Build your social skills and learn to be social without a skin full of beer. Have fun.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:21 AM
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That's every talk radio host. They will editorialise on the big issues. If they have a guest they always play devils advocate.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 11:16 PM
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