I've spun plates for years, but I'm curious as to how you guys deal with a situation in which a plate demands more commitment. I've read the 'how to manage your bitches' sidebar post and generally follow a similar model. Note: I try to be completely honest with everyone I have sex with - just my style.

This particular case: I'm fucking a very sweet, very hot, post-wall (picture your 5th favorite porn star in her early 30s), very emotional, very sexual girl with enough red flags that would prevent her from ever being a LTR beyond a few months. Ideally, I'd like a FWB situation, but the following chain of events occurred:

Her: Are you sleeping with other people?

Me: Yes

Her: OK :)

The next week: she gets upset that I might have blown her off for another girl (I didn't).

To avoid further drama, I end it amicably. Unintentional dread ensues.

She's hurt - I play it vanilla and kind. Eventually says she's fine with a more casual thing. I want to believe her, we have sex.

She wants to know more details about other girls. I tell her very vague things - comfort testing ensues.

She now wants to frame our thing as an open relationship, where she's the main bitch. I get the feeling that there will always be a stressful background jealousy - questioning, etc.

I don't see how this could end well and drama-free unless I commit to her or end it immediately.

So what's the move? Do you next? Dread? Ignore?