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As Grant Cartone says, 'be obsessed or be average.' And like I say 'fuck average'. Go on and take what you want once you've broken and become immune to the societally imposed illusions around women and relationships.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 12:28 AM
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Cheers, doing the same game here, new city new job, no fam, friends or plates here. It's the third time I've done a move like this for work in the last year. It's changed my perceptions a great deal.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 05:54 AM
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Be obsessed or be average. If you're satisfied you're lazy. Keep on walking that warpath.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 07:27 AM
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Cheers man. Good pointing that out, you're right. On one hand ltr are hard and hazardous but on the other they're exactly what I enjoy about women and home life. If my ltr fails I plate a bunch and settle into another one. Even my current ltr hit a rough spot but I have outcome independence I'll be okay either way and abundance mentality in that I know I can plate more to find another. Not many trp folks seems to seriously consider LTR could be due to them not being able to actually get in one w…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 01:49 PM
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Hmm, true. The getting on with life part sounds nice as hell. Get's me in an indecision loop, fucking shit I guess I am fearful of killing the puppy? Argghhh thanks chachaChad
/r/askTRP13/12/17 07:08 PM
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100% correct man I lost focus of myself. I did pay for her for a month of everything and a cross country move. she gives most of her paychecks at this point to both repay that and cover current expenses. I lost focus on myself. It was my fault. I was viewing it as this sudden relationship problem when it was just me slipping into some BP kind of way or just failing one to many shit tests. I'm back on the trp wagon. Doing a mini monk mode to refocuse on myself, I don't care where the LTR goes at …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 07:05 PM
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You're right. most of the anxiety is from too much thinking and not enough doing. TRP hard mode is what folks call LTR here no? TRP comfortable mode is all the time because TRP is comfortable. I've had soft harems and LTR, I choose LTR, it's definitely not comfortable for me all the time (see aforementioned bible 2.0). I dig your post a great deal. I don't know that I'm that BP eunnech you mention but my ranting 'I lost frame, help me' post was the only impression you had of me. thanks for the i…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 07:02 PM
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Ha, no marriage here. that was the first big ol' fight we had when she wanted it and I echo'd RP tenants. But you're right about being a pussy, I did lose frame but I came out the gate after you guys broke it down for me. Been in the gym and getting shit done. I don't care if this LTR is successful or not. I care about me and if it means the thing needs to end then I will. But I have some improvements to make before I can properly assess. Imagine it like this. The puppy has an illness and needs …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:56 PM
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Thank you for the insight and advice. You're right about this: "It's your life. She gets with the picture, or she gets lost." I've taken the reigns back since posting this. Doing the things and stuff I need and want and when too. shrugging of emotional abuse traps. You're right about accepting whether or not she is the right woman. I have some things to improve on for myself first then I'll be in a better place to make that decision. Until then I'm walking away from drama, outright ignoring it a…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:53 PM
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Hey guys, Listen to these podcasts to find other good mentors and shit Bill Burr (leaning more blue these days but he's red and has good world view) Joe Rogan (I don't really know where he stands on things, but his approach towards understanding, communicating and using knowledge to action (wisdom) is really good and one can learn much from his long interviews) The Beige Phillip show with Dante Nero! Shit is so good if your trp and don't listen to his show you're missing out. Jocko Podcast (Jock…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:37 PM
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Your words resonated loudly: "Good people don't wake up in a bad mood and take it out on someone else and start fights - they fix problems. Good people do good things. Bad people start fights." She has woken up in a bad mood each morning since posting this but I've been away at the gym. She hasn't tried to carry anything on through the day because I've been shrugging it off and living. You're fucking right though. I'm not trying to make it work with a woman who is emotionally abusing me by commu…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:28 PM
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Listening to Rollo's first book on audible again and browsing all the side bar material again the last day or so. I 'did' pay for everything for a month including our move cross the country. BUT now she pays a majority of her paychecks to me. complains about it to no end but does so. You're right about the mental abuse, I don't know how or why I was standing for it. diffusing it immediately at this point by walking away or going to do something else. remaining aloof. I realize I made an error in…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:22 PM
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Acta non Verba. You're right. I've cut down the communication to distance myself from it all. I do embody independence outcome, I know I'll be okay without her. I enjoy the hardmode LTRs for the other benefits that can come from them, but perhaps I'm being too comfortable.. I've taken your words to heart, doing things I want now regardless of her attitude and not giving into her emotional traps one bit. You're right about ltr needing to fight for your attention and time. I've become 'busy' this …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:54 PM
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That was actually our first stupid fight. She talked about marriage and I was like #nope She got extremely!!! upset and it's the first time any of this attitude revealed itself. I didn't apologize for the opinion and hold to it still. It's obviously still a sticking point there but I'm enjoying my current choices (when I don't lose frame and become a little bitch..).
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:48 PM
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Thank you man. I definitely did discover it in time to avoid any kind of legal commitments. I'm looking at the past through the lens you suggest at her actions as illusions to convince me to allow her to get to the point she is. I feel it and see it. It makes sense to me and I'm acknowledging that this is closer to the real thing. I am choosing to 'make it work' for now. But not by being passive or getting involved with her escalations by staying removed from them, finding things outside of the …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:45 PM
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Haha damn, I did read it I swear. Just lost sight of the red pill way somewhere along the line. Falling into that bb trap a bit. I'm clawing my way back out of it. Curious to see if my actions and behavior will reflect back to her and change her attitude. I know it won't change 'who' she is, I don't have some image. But beige phillip always talks about how a woman is a reflection of her man and such. Thinking this is my fault for fucking up my own things. In the process of getting back to those …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:24 PM
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I know right.. I could almost physically feel it when the frame slipped and see it when it's all fucking crazy and chaotic. I had a come to jesus type talk with her and I've been ignoring her attitude whenever possible. Basically going to see if anything changes. Not waiting to see if it changes because I don't have options or because I'm afraid to be single or that I don't have abundance mentality but waiting because this is an ltr I chose to be in and one I'm choosing to invest in. I think I l…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:20 PM
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Hmm, good point. I don't want that passive/victim frame at all. I do choose to be in an ltr at the moment. Who knows for how long ha. But thanks I see what you're saying. I am choosing and I did. I suppose the right way to frame that was I moved away and had three plates vying for attention. I eventually decided to allow one to move into my life as my ltr and have since lost frame and am working like a fucker to regain it. I'm really embodying the independence outcome here, watching her actions …
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:18 PM
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recently moved to super liberal pacific north west and wasn't sure if the recent influx of sexual misconduct allegations is related to proximity to the west coast culture. but sounds like that's the news everywhere eh? across america? What the fuck is up with all this. Even my girl doesn't agree with how the dudes have to be so sorry and have their career retroactively shat on. I'm on the same page as you man I don't talk to any ladies at work unless I have to. I'm not fucking around that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 09:06 PM
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Good suggestion. I'm going to try try and find a big white board at target to track things.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:14 AM
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Thanks for the insight man! Good point on stating the desire firmly and on ignoring her emotions at least the trivial explosive ones. I've been on trp for a few years, just dipping into trp hardmode with an Ltr. So far it's had rough spots but I'm learning a ton. I'll hit up this subs specific sidebar as well. Starting to regularly lift again to up some dread and stay in the game in cas I have to bounce out of this. Not trying to have an ltr fail while I'm out of shape haha. Seriously though, th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 01:11 AM
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Great post. Dealing with this now. Main plate gone LTR has stopped with the daily putting out and I'm having to initiate more and deal with angry rejections. Conversations where she only ever sees her side and expects me to hone my sexual appitite or something. When I tell her that I've got needs and such to break the covert contract she gets mad or sad and guilts or tantrums and walks away.. Fucking stupid. Like I'm in trouble or something for wanting sex. Also she has endometriosis, not 100% h…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/17 04:34 AM
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Ditto on the lack of intellectual pursuit. It's devastating, has me searching constantly for the next room or smarter folk. I operate with very few if any friends.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:18 AM
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Shit I need friends..
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:16 AM
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Basically work hard, ignore all the things there that aren't necessary. Be stoic, quiet and calm. I fucking hate office politics and coworkers but I survive. Also be extra wary of ugly or post wall women as well as dumb people in general. Be extra nice to them and get away quickly. Idiots can wreak havoc if you set them off. Also, start planning a way out of that office perhaps? Like I work from home often.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:14 AM
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Moved with ltr to a new state. Any advice on getting alone time and new experiences together and separately? Maintaining a year long plate turned ltr not too long ago.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 04:51 AM
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Reading these now because of 'too tired' not in the mood escalation problems had her storming to bed early.. Planning to embody all of these first thing in the morning.. Hoping she's not already getting tingles elsewhere as this one was spinning well. I'm ready to walk if and when but I'd rather not just yet.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 04:49 AM
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Yeah, I guess my view is that I know there's heart break and emotional stuff that comes into play with ltr. That's just fine with me. If you keep on the abundance mentality it won't take long to replace. I'm still feeling out this idea and way of going about it. Appreciate the space to try and get it in word. Also 'just accepting it as it is' is the stoic thing to do. I don't have the power to change how relationships work in modern society so I accept it, control what I can and bear the weight …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 12:24 PM
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Spinning plates is great and all. the freedom of non exclusive ltr is great too. But there is some goodness to be had in ltr, holding frame and staying motivated to keep improving yourself. I'm in an ltr and have been in a few before this. I do not believe in marriage, I do believe ltr are necessary for raising children and I value that as a societal process that I'd like to participate in for all sort of reasons. While not financially the best decisions in the grand scheme of things I think I'l…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 05:24 AM
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Plus one for the trp self improvememt marathon!!
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 04:22 AM
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Is that how it really is though? I mean aren't we all just waiting for our turn to speak? I know that one should listen to those around you and take in the sights and sounds but isn't that little part of the self always thinking about what to say next and when to say it. Even if its flowing subconsciously. I'd say its natural to want to speak and communicate maybe not so natural to want to listen to others. Totally agree with op on the whole having financial and other spheres of life in order co…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 04:20 AM
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From the way you speak about them as 'drugs' I'd assume you know very little. I agree with you. It's frustrating to not do something that everyone else does. I don't drink for example, and that shit sucked going through college when every idiot wants to just get drunk. I'd say do your own thing and gtfo of Toronto.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 04:58 AM
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For those of you that would like an alternative to Google for searching the web please do try duckduckgo.com its a great search engine and maintains more of your privacy.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 11:14 AM
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Just keep crossing things of the list. There's a company called 23 and me that'll genome your spit and tell you if you have any likely things and stuff. Maybe one is causing you insomnia or messing with your cortisol?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 10:18 PM
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ZMA keeps the calf cramps away for me while I sleep.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 07:38 PM
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You make a good point about the excess cortisol. How's your diet overall with vitamins and minerals there could be a deficiency. Maybe consider getting blood work done to check that and hormone levels. Consider getting genetic testing through 23 and me maybe there's something else you're pre disposed to that has symptoms of insomnia?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 07:38 PM
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Maybe a section on red pill tilted entertainment with Joe Rogan and Bill burr to start it out.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 03:05 AM
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Wonderful list. Might i suggest psychedelics? Find a music festival or an Edm scene meet some hippies. You're on the right path with your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 01:11 AM
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Also try supplementing with ZMA for sleep or indica strains of marijuana
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 01:01 AM
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Cut the caffeine entirely, chocolate too, lift five days a week, Meditate, journal, eat healthier, address major stressors in your life. If you're doing all that and still feeling bad talk to a professional. Burn palo santo and drink tea to relax.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 12:58 AM
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All depends on the industry. I've hopped at four months even, the quickest way to climb is diagonally to other companies.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 12:41 AM
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Fellow trp guy here. Porn is bad I agree. It's important to tell kids it isn't real. I too had issues with it growing up thinking that was sex. I know the community is tearing you one for paragraphs and formatting but the advice here or the core of the post is a good one.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 01:52 PM
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It'll come off idgaf don't friend her if you guys aren't friends and if she sends an invite let it sit there in accepted forever. If she message you don't even open the message leave it be.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:00 PM
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Say nothing to her.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 07:37 PM
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I'd agree with your perspective on it OP. Just have at it once a week or so if you don't have plates to do it for you. But if you have to do it yourself I'd prefer to probably avoid porn and a vice like grip because those are other things that can negatively affect sex life. On the biege Phillip show Dante and folks talk about how they don't watch porn or jerk of unless they are within so many feet of a woman. Haha. But there is a certain swagger or feeling of confidence that comes around 3+ day…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 02:13 AM
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The Prince is a good one. The Obstacle is the way may be more applicable Then read The impact of the highly improbable Meditations Homo Deus Thinking fast and slow Be obsessed or be average The charisma myth So many more...
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 11:49 AM
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exactly. I was relatively on board until the book hate. What's up with that OP. There really is a ton to gain from spending time with books of all stripes and genres. I've never finished a book and said 'yep, that was a waste of time, what a dumb fucking book'.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 04:08 PM
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Just bounce man. Your fam is not a ball and chain. move your ass on out of their lives. I went right out of my hometown after college and never looked back. When I do visit it's often strange for me because I see how their lives are just more of the same shit I didn't like when I was younger. People rarely change. If you're not vibing gtfo. Don't feel guilty about it. They raised you and taught you some beginner shit in this world that's valuable. There's no sense in getting your feels all caugh…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:28 PM
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What he's saying is you want to square your shoulders AND keep your head down but most importantly relax to get two strokes off your golf swing so the meseeks can go home. But I dig it. The basic routine is something that many roommates of mine haven't been bale to figure out. work->gym->eat->chores->chill Those habits have really built the foundation of my personality\career\lifestyle and such.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:22 PM
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I don't facebook or Instagram. I only snapchat for tinder ladies mostly. I used to tweet a bit but I kicked that too. Keep a Facebook but do nothing with it. Update every few years. It'll allow you to find events in your area and connect with people. Just don't get pulled into posting and reading shit on it, ya know? At least that's my two cents
/r/askTRP10/05/17 12:04 AM
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I'm only pointing out that all things in society are made up of shit that sounds good and sells. Meaningless shit repackaged and served as new shit. All "laws" every one of them has a basis in some other law or in nothingness. Literally everything we do and say is made up. It's with that that I meant to point out the non sequitur logical fallacy of your statement. I don't think he based anything in the book off science. Pretty sure he references it's historical accords more. And history like lit…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 11:41 PM
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I mean, "everything" is made up. The stuff that works and the stuff that doesn't. But some of it still good. Yes we can go roght now to write a book called 'the final two laws' and we'd say Greene forgot the last two laws because they were too good to be true. Then we'll lie in the book and make some laws off the top of our head. Now lets sat this book after marinating for a a few years finds itself in a community that really digs and values what it's about. Belittling it because it's a book tha…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 11:29 PM
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I'm not doubting you completely. Only out of curiosity Haha I just enjoy the book and see folks mention it here constantly. I figured at the very least the 'laws' we're just his extracted insights using hindsights perfect vision. breaks out the Google box According to the Wikipedia page Greene started coming up with the ideas for the laws while working a job he didn't like. I'm guessing he just found historical situations that matched his thoughts and mashed them together then? To say they aren'…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 11:10 PM
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Source? I mean they're at least derived from historical events right?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 11:05 PM
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Biege Phillip with Dante Nero carries on in the spirit of black Phillip But yeah, burr and rogan Some art of manliness eps are good too.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 01:35 AM
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You haven't spent any time in the weight room to be commenting if you don't see the correlations between the gym and a temple. I'm also guessing you haven't spent enough time in English class or reading a book because I used a figure of speech and you interpreted it literally.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 12:52 PM
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I disagree, you say it's strange and autistic even to just lift weights. The weight room is my temple and has been since I was a kid. It's not strange or awkward to lift simply because you like to. You say everyone else is training for sports. Ha, I'm one of two people in my whole company that trains period. They aren't all playing sports and shit. Lifting weights increases body awareness just like other physical training and it helps in the sack just like other forms of training. If you're a gr…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 09:15 PM
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Ahh, I see where you're coming from. Good point on being able to look at your day or your week at be satisfied with yourself and your actions. I was going more big picture I suppose but I think we're on the same page there. Cheers man
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:59 PM
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Read be obsessed or be average by grant cardone. Being satisfied is the end you really do not want that. Be striving towards new things not satisfied with what you have.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:03 PM
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Check out bhuddify the guided meditation app. Or just. YouTube some. Guided meditations. Basically focus on your breath and let thoughts pass like clouds. Acknowledge them only in passing but don't dwell or expand on them. Breath deep so your stomach rises and just relax. Focus on being present and aware.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 10:41 PM
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There is definitely a certain Zen to amused mastery. Great connections and post OP. Keep up the meditation. Also check out the book be here now by ram Das and the audio lectures of Alan watts.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 10:20 PM
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I agree man. I talk about whatever I want and still get ladies going. I don't feel like I need to cater to or dumb down my conversations with women. If they aren't interested then I'm not. I eat right, lift and work hard in life. Being eccentric isn't something to worry about but maybe that's just because I've got other things happening.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 10:15 PM
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Cab confirm low twenties single moms can be bombshells just don't wife em up and take care of somebody else's progeny.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 09:58 PM
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I once read that therapy works for the people who think they need it. It's when you feel out of control of your life you can go to therapy for a semblance of control to begin regaining balance. I'd not recommend therapy in a sweeping generalization like this though. Experience in life is just if not more valuable. Read more. Live more. Lift more. Act more, do the things. Also, I wouldn't knock CBT. I've been using a tarot deck for personal CBT/party tricks for a year or so and it's pretty good f…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 09:55 PM
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Great reminder to stay obsessed with goals. Being satisfied is being stagnant.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 09:47 PM
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Be obsessed or be average my man. Find your healthy obsession and fucking commit!
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:56 PM
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Don't put anything on the wall that isn't framed. Keep it minimal. Art is a good bet.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 11:40 PM
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There's a certain amount of existential anxiety that has nothing to do with anger phase. Stoicism helps.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 09:32 PM
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Wonderful post OP. Really summing it up and your closing paragraph is side bar worthy. I wrote it down to keep it in mind. The plate life is really good. I've got two in one state one in another and two where I am now. I had one more up until yesterday when she made a bunch of excuses and waited for me to cry or fight for her. I just said okay and hung up. I was able to do that because of my other plates. Im not bummed or upset, I ghosted right out of it and don't plan to talk to her ever again.…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 04:49 PM
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If you lack that interesting element. Read more. If you don't dig reading then practice by reading until you do. Podcasts. Rogan, art of manliness, Bill burr, beige Phillip show and more.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 05:23 AM
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Check out Homo Deus by yuval Noah harari.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 05:17 AM
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Great post OP for folks wondering how to find the bullshit in your life I'd recommend a time tracking app like toggl. One should be spending 4-6 hours a day moving towards their goals taking action on their desires and such. Track for a bit all the things you do then analyze what you really spend your time on. I work in an industry where time tracking is normal part of my day so it was easy to move this practice to my personal life. It may be rough at first but just try it. It's motivating as fu…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 05:14 AM
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Hey OP you and me both my man. I'm on day 80 with no herb and I'm a new man.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 01:13 AM
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Google PHAT by Layne Norton. Do it! I highly recommend it.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 12:43 AM
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What's smug about pointing out a difference of opinion among the trp folks?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 09:55 PM
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Laughing during is the very worst.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:52 PM
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Eating them out every time before penetration eh? I've seen mixed opinions on the frequent lady licking here in trp. One is like hell yeah do it. But another is that its not the ideal thing? I for one enjoy doing it as long as there isn't stank but I don't make it an all the time thing especially with strangers and one night things because herpes.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:48 PM
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Hmm?
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:36 PM
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Might be time to switch up the lunch spot. Sounds like you're there a lot. As far as toning her down you're going to have stop ramping things up. Maybe just ignore it or sit somewhere where she can't get all handsy. you've got a unique one, steer clear of the crazy.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:09 PM
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Be busy, or at least look busy and leave if it's getting weird? Unless I'm missing something here. Don't lead them on too much haha but you're right about gaming every lady you interact with.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:03 PM
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Start three courses on Coursera, begin doing Duolingo every day to learn another language. Listen to podcasts at 1.5x speed, Joe Rogan is a good one to get ya thinking. Read marcus Aurelius' meditations Learn about nutrition Scan through the main page of reddit for interesting bits. Budget like a mother fucker and save dollars to take action Your mind will catch up,
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:58 PM
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It's the easiest way! But someone told me tinder ranks you differently if you endlessly swipe right so I go right five times then left if she's not a babe. Mostly only tinder when I'm on the shitter anyways lol
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:40 PM
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I'm on it!
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:37 PM
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True true. Thanks for the words of wisdom. I hadn't googled anything up yet haha.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:36 PM
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Aye.. It takes so much longer to tinder to be selective. Haha but it's worth it to avoid these ladies. Cheers
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:36 PM
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Don't do it. Dante Nero says don't bust a nut unless you're with a lady or your main lady. Use that energy to go find new women and porn is programming your mind to expect perfect porno style sex among many other things related to dopamine. If you're having a dry spell fap once a week or so but no porn.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:34 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:32 PM
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Just keep improving yourself and approaching. Even if you don't have a 'desire for a relationship' if anything that aloofness will serve you well in the field. There's nothing wrong with a bit of monk mode here and there. Buckle down and improve.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:30 PM
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Because they could never care for a dog and they've placed having a child so far out of their own reach so they settle for a cat and soon the settling seems normal so they're cat moms and they're proud. Lol but I feel you, it's a red flag for me if I find out she has any number of cats back home.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:28 PM
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I find it easier to open strangers outside my circles and ask them out so my social circles stay in tune. Me getting involved and fucking somebody might oust me from the group or male things odd there. I'm a day gamer though, with tinder as my I'm bored in line phone game.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:25 PM
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I like the 'What's a fuck boy, explain?' response and the agree and ignore 'whatever you say, are we still chilling Tuesday?' response.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:21 PM
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I'm on the same page man. Already told her not to plan to move. I don't know about the no contact part. plates are plates and I'm leaving three behind in this city, no reason t make it two. but yeah no babies!!! I feel ya, the question and initial concern wasn't great. thanks for your insight and advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 04:36 AM
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Aye! I'll delete all my trp posts and make a new account. Thanks for the protip!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 12:41 AM
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Should I not be using my main account? Trp is one of the only things I reddit for.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 12:15 AM
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I recall reading something about that here. With devi method, dominance, emotion, variety and intimacy or something like that. I'm digging up the book and articles on it now. Thanks for the recommendation there.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/17 12:13 AM
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Ok.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:58 PM
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Ok
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:55 PM
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You're being a whiny bitch right now reacting to me an internet stranger. You fucking hypocrite.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:49 PM
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Why are you being a dick to me? Hope that gives you some sense of goodness in your bad marriage. You go man. Talking shit to people asking for advice. Got to feel like a million bucks now that you've put me in my place. Damn you're cool.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:17 PM
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Shit I should have used that. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:15 PM
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because /r/asktrp would just inundate me with stupid comments and naive jaded thoughts about women, plates and life. I wanted the advice from people who are living the /r/marriedtrp life because it's a life that I'm moving towards quicker and quicker and it's a life that I'd be starting if I were to allow the main plate to move in with me. I have great respect for folks that live the marriedtrp life and I wanted their opinions not people still stuck in the anger phase or jaded trp dudes trying t…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 09:13 PM
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Thanks for your input and advice! I think we've come to a conclusion to do something just like that now after talking to her this morning. It's not worth breaking it off completely because I do see some of that family potential but as you said I'm not ready for all the trappings of that decision just yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 04:58 PM
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On it, thanks for the reading recommendation too!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 03:21 PM
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My new mantra 'work, read, lift, fuck plates' I'm picking up what you're putting down bud.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:58 PM
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I think that's a solid plan to keep her spinning for a bit and allow me to 'vet' as you say the city and it's fairer sex. No solid breakup with her but no solid commitment either just a hiatus and transition period. I need time to get established financially and domestically anyways. It'll be rough the first few weeks to be honest.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:39 PM
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I don't want to marry and have kids soon. I do want to marry after another 5 years to have kids. as for the club slut vs wife mother material mentality how can I shake that? the club type ladies are really not what I'm after I despise anything but one night things with them. I like your idea about keeping her renting her place. you're right though that I would have trouble kicking her from my place in a new state and such if she had nowhere to go. I might consider something like that down the ro…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:32 PM
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I really don't want back into it, ha I think that was\is the voice of reason that has kept me from cohabitating all this time. it just forced things all quick by getting a sweet job out of state. I see the trouble down the road you mention, I'm going to move alone and stay living alone for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:28 PM
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She was never upgraded because I didn't have the fire or sex that I was after and I did not want to cohabitate. I don't even like when ladies spend the night. Initiating outcome independence at this point. you're fucking right, there was something about that comfortable routine aspect that I wanted to use to make the rest of the transition more comfortable. I think you're also right about a good solid social monk mode for a few months to get my feet under me in the new place and meet new folks. …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:27 PM
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I want her to be a plate and I don't want to cohabitate. as hard as that is for her that's the way it'll be now. I was confused and on the fence about it but I've decided. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:24 PM
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Well I deal with it.. and read a bunch of stoicism and meditate on it. But why not optimize my decisions with a community of folks? Either way you make a good point. Self reliance is the goal. thanks,
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:23 PM
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Thanks, I needed the anecdotal there apparently. I'm not going to plan with her to live together. I'm just going to move down to start my life up fresh for now. Who knows if she'll stick around my stable but it'll be okay either way. I appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:20 PM
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True. I've decided to tell her not to follow. Might maintain some kind of long distance thing but nothing serious. Just a plate that visits occasionally. aye, thanks brothers.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:18 PM
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You're right the scarcity mentality is real. It just crept up. I have made the decision to go without her but in talking to her I fucked up by hinting that there could be some possibility of us in the new state. There is a part worried about losing her, damn. It's a rough one but I'm going to tell her not to move anytime soon. Give it some time apart so I can assess that and get established in the new city with a new stable of ladies and such.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:16 PM
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Thanks, that's what's going to happen now.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:13 PM
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Thanks for the minority opinion here ha, just give her the boot in the new state if things suck? My terms are what we do everything on but it seems like it'd be hard to kick her out if she tossed all her stuff in this state to follow me. But maybe I should make that clear that it's her decision and if things don't work they don't work. It is a risk to allow her to join me and I do feel as though she's mother material. I see what you're saying about doing what's in accordance with your beliefs ve…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:19 PM
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Man I wasn't wanting to develop any of that. Thanks for the reality or perception. I've played the field since my divorce almost five years ago. I've had way hotter women but the home shit wasn't there, the family aspect. I don't want a hot lady who is only settling for family life because she's gone and fucked anybody and everybody for years. Which makes me think I've found this sexually inexperienced good at the domestic traditional stuff lady. I wouldn't say she's on a pedestal, I don't ever …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:14 PM
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I don't know if she'd explicitly agree to that. But that's a good point. I'd be down if that were a possibility. I'll Mull that over today.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:09 PM
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Torn between the two.. It just seems like I'd be signing up for a serious thing if she moved to live with me and I wasn't about to sign up for that here.. Fucking a, the decision is dominating my thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:07 PM
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Aye, yeah.. The strange thing is that she's 'meh' in the sack because she obviously doesn't or hadn't fucked much. From her words only one guy before me. So three or four before me but they didn't teach her shit. She doesn't starfish just doesn't know what's going on. But yeah, the sex is fucking important no pun intended. That's why I wouldnt have had her moving in with me before that got better. Now the decision is rushed because I'm leaving the state. And I'm embracing the 'uncomfortableness'…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:04 PM
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Aye, you're right. I don't know if I'm looking for a mommy versus a lover there. I don't think I want a mommy for me haha but a lover capable of being a mother to offspring is something I want. I've been trying to teach her the sex ways she's embarrassingly under experienced in the sack. It's obvious she doesn't know her way around that stuff. I don't think she'd even given a BJ before I started making them a thing and learning her.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 01:00 PM
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Damn.. I was trying not to catch that shit at all. I've had it real bad before, like lady moved in and I went full beta bad. I've been relatively free of it lately. It's obvious it would be pushing our relationship into a level that it wasn't and wouldn't have been and I told her that. Got her all crying and shit yesterday because I was saying that it's not what I would have wanted for living in the same city but splitting up due to the move doesn't sound ideal so I guess you're right about the …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 12:57 PM
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I just needed fellow trp men to discuss it with. I can't figure an answer out after Journaling and meditating on it. I really don't know what would be best. I don't want anything specific just your opinions as I don't have a circle of folks in which this conversation could be had in real life. You're right about the upgrade in relationship that she most definitely realizes. I don't think there's a 'magic nugget that would give you or others the clairvoyance' to make this decision for me. I'll an…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 12:52 PM
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I don't know if 27 is mid or late haha. But yeah she's climbed her way up the ladder as far as plates go over the last seven months. I realize I've got years ahead of me, those years are dedicated to my businesses and book publishing. I'm obsessed with my vision and mission in life and this lady seems like a good one to have alongside rather then hunting and picking through other ladies and dealing with potential drama.. I can't exactly say I've caught feels for her because I've done that before…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 12:45 PM
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Right, the strange thing is I don't think I caught very many feels I just think she's the most submissive and feminine red pill kind of lady I've ever met, identified very few red flags if any at all. and there's something to be said on that, I'm still pulling and gaming during the day, setting up other ladies on the side. I wouldnt say I love her or stop gaming but I would say that she's a good candidate for a a child or two. Because that is something I'd want down the road. She's on point with…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 12:40 PM
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Damn it, thanks for your insight and advice. You're right, that hard honesty is really not comfortable but obvious. I see what you're saying about the manipulation if it goes any farther. I don't know that she'd be down to move to her own place as it's the commitment that she's after. Tossing her life here for a mystery there isn't as appealing as tossing it for a life with me. I did take the job, and I put in my two weeks as well. So I AM moving with it without her. It's just real difficult to …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 04:52 AM
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I don't think I follow what you're trying to say there. Awalt it is what it's pretty simple and obvious once you've been at it long enough.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 10:28 AM
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Software dev here, do it. I have time to pursue other hobbies, I don't have to fuck with office life much because I'm the smart dude they 'need'. I worked remote for a year which was badass but moved to a higher wage back in the office. After a few more years I'll go the consultant route and only work when I need to supplement all my business ideas. I'd expect salary to start around 60k if you're real good, maybe even lower. but as soon as you have experience move out of that company into the ne…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:37 PM
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Anyone know how to reach out to this guy? I'd love to interview him on my podcast.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:45 PM
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Does one need to be in certain geographic locations to get into bouldering? ie do I need to move to the mountains?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:21 PM
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Read your post bud, Good stuff buried in there indeed! Thanks for the kick in the ass there. The biggest thing is recurring income and doing it all yourself. I'm on my way there now. I might suggest trying to synthesize your post down to smaller chunks for posting up here on trp. Lots folks are lazy af and won't be willing to plow through the text. I did though, and I'm happy to have done so. Keep on blogging !!!
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:19 PM
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I don't know about that bud, the smartest woman I've ever dated ended up being like all the rest. I was with her for years as she got her PhD in neuroscience. I see what you're saying though. My current main plate is very intelligent but I still lay on the alpha like mad to keep her around.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:07 PM
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I'd have to disagree. I've gotten several jobs in IT with nothing but a well written resume and proper references. I reach out to recruiters via indeed and other job sites. None have asked me to update my out of date linkedin. I realize my experience may not be the norm but I'm saying one doesn't HAVE to use it. I don't update facebook either and I only tweet for my various podcasts and blogs not for personal stuff.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:05 PM
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Check out this book by bertrand Russell's called the history of philosophy and don't stop after that bud.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 06:38 AM
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Marriage isn't vial buddy sex is. You should probably head to the sidebar and read more.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 10:56 PM
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We have to also say Awalt all the time. That doesn't discredit it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 10:50 PM
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Are you Alex Jones? Ha, but seriously commenters here acting like you're saying something obvious 'oh that's just global tyranny'... Or disagreeing that things are in disarray. I feel like that misses the point. I feel as if they are who messages like this are for, the ones who should read your post. It's kind of the ultimate level of not giving a fuck and doing what you want in life because the end goals are all fucked. I can dig it, I feel as though I'm already there. Working for a corporation…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 10:38 PM
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Awalt in every way. I use a single opener on everybody second message is a tailored follow-up and third is asking for snapchat or digits. It's almost feels too easy. But living near colleges and in a bigger city helps.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:29 PM
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Oh hell yeah man, happy to hear you've been meditating. It's a pain in the ass to make it a habit I'm still off and on with it all. Check out this book called be here now for more inspiration there. As far as Tarot goes the crazies try to tell the future with it. I use it for CBT and for the ladies. Here's how it works. I sit down and burn some sage or palo santo as this provides a sensory stimulus to the practice and get's me in the same 'mode' or 'mindset' each time. You shuffle up the cards a…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:26 PM
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Do you everyday. Read and learn about frame. Maybe consider reading no more Mr. Nice guy as well.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:16 PM
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Okay, for cbt get a deck of tarot cards. Flip three every day for body kind and spirit and think about that shit. Look into meditation too. Just become all one with yourself and such you'll feel better. Folks suffer and they have mental shit to clear out. Just be proud of where you are now and start clearing that out. I was the weird kid too haha, so I know what you're saying bud. Sending good vibes. I'd be happy to offer other suggestions or to talk about tarot for cbt purposes and meditation i…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:15 PM
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I spit a certain level of game to all women everywhere. It's just those extra steps like touching and alone time that they never get. If it's an annoying or ugly woman flirting too much I just stay away or get a little colder and more curt with my words.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:08 PM
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Beautifully put. I work with a little short fat dude who tries to 'assert dominance' I purposefully never speak to him and ignore his words and actions when not applicable to work and sometimes even when they are. 6'3 here lifting five days a week for the last seven years.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:04 PM
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Right on. Well I think I got here by growing up shit broke, raised mostly by my mom I started working at 12 to get anything I needed or wanted because my folks weren't going to. Money issues kept me from doing shit with friends and kept me chained shit teenager jobs many times during high school and college I worked 2-3 of them at a time. I spent the rest of my highschool time living and breathing football. Played varsity the whole way through. Even quit the team once to work more. Coaches convi…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:22 PM
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The beige phillip show is what you want the most recent episode was dripping in trp and Dante knows his shit. For others go with Bill burr, art of manliness, Joe Rogan, art of charm
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:43 AM
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Tim ferris says that busy folks just don't schedule their time. You should never be busy or feel stressed if you schedule your shit out and take actionable steps towards your goals. Get a calendar app and fill that bitch up.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:20 PM
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I don't know if it's bad right after shower. I'll pay more attention here over the next few days. I'll also mention gels and such. The first step is just suggesting a gyno visit this afternoon. Thanks for the insight there.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 08:20 PM
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Funky body odor.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 08:05 PM
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Thanks. I'll broach the topic today to see how it goes.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:32 PM
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Right, I'm not blaming her. She really is a top notch red pill woman. We talked about how ridiculous the women's March was even. I mean I wouldnt even be asking if I weren't considering trp hardmode and LTR. It's been six months since we met and she'd do anything I ask so I don't want to ghost her for stank. (that's not hamster, I believe it's logic speaking) She adds more good to my life than bad in all respects. I'll get checked ASAP. How do I talk to a naive lady about vaginal infection and h…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 05:16 PM
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No no, i totally asked for advice I'm not rationalizing or hamstring here or at least not trying to. I was only asking more to open a conversation. Thanks doc warlock.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 04:52 PM
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I will. I'm telling you she was tested a month ago. It was a huge thing we had to 'talk' about. She was all good except for the aforementioned hpv of which there are two strains or types on cancerous the other not so much for ladies. So she got a culture or some kind of test done and anxiously waited for another week to find out its not the cancerous one. But I appreciate your insight and such. I will get tested next week.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:49 PM
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Okay, I can see where you're coming from in discussing the tests. But next because shes got some kind of hpv? Might have been from me even. Perhaps I'll get tested next week.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:36 PM
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Just be like 'hey that's funky let's get tested'? She did get tested recently and found that she had some non cancerous hpv.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:29 PM
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I didn't party for these reasons. I don't regret it. Fuck the sheep that need drinking games to inhale more awful beer. That's not and wasn't my scene when I was in college. I could care less about them.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:16 PM
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I always break this out ASAP. Throat and or base of the neck grabbing onto some hair there. Some ask my why and I say because. The goal is never to choke or cut off airsupply I'm not into that.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 03:13 PM
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I make a cocktail now and then but when it comes to regular days I never drink. If you're having difficulties with that meditation or some therapy type stuff will help.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 10:56 PM
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It's the clams nor the shrimp. New to MRP but that sounds like dysfunctional relationship with all the bickering? I mean that in a real humble-been-on-trp-for-years way.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 10:53 PM
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Don't say anything. If you find that this is getting under your skin then distance yourself with hobbies and the gym. Approach other ladies. Start separating yourself, you sound a bit entwined.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:47 PM
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Thanks for the insight man. I think you're right about not fucking up the opportunity having found a good one.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:14 PM
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Sports, hiking, go to the playground and do pullups.. I mean come on man. Your a 16 year old dude why wouln't they let you lift. I'd say gather your resources and fight that battle. If you want to lift weights to improve your body you can. your dad is wrong about lifting stunting growth. He's probably wrong about a ton of other shit. Might as well start going against the tide there. When you lift younger then you'll be cut and big by 18. you don't want to start at 18.. I started lifting seriousl…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:05 PM
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Don't play the text games. only text for logistics and to keep things moving. abide by the 1/3 rule, where you text a third of what she does. don't be eager to get into a relationship like this. Just have fun with her and if a relationship happens then run with it. approach other ladies and lift. Meditate and journal too.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:04 PM
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heyo, good job on the job. Read all the sidebar shit. Busy yourself with improvement and hobbies. lift. As far as the ladies at work. they are not for you. Just practice conversation and such with them.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:02 PM
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I'd say therapy bud. That and meditation, journaling, lifting, hobbies, life man. Do other shit and don't live in your head wandering what others think. If you get uncomfortable just exit the situation and calm down a bit. practice practice practice ya know?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:00 PM
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pendlay row, pullups do those. get a gym bro to film your squat and dead lift to identify which areas need help. It's going to be your ankles, knees, hips or something in there that isn't flexible enough. You say the feeling is uncomfortable? haha squat and deadlift are not supposed to be comfortable but I think you mean it feels dangerous? Look into constructed gym routines to follow so you know you're hitting everything. I do PHAT by layne norton
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:58 PM
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either way, I think you care too much about this little interaction. have you no plates and hobbies? Let it happen if it happens, no need to fret or concern yourself with how to change for her. be confident and such you know?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:56 PM
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bruh, the most alpha response you can give is nada. Don't date ladies you work with. That's it. Tell her that even.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:52 PM
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Tell her you're not free for a few weeks and ask for a second meetup. boom. maybe make a joke or say something abotu what you guys are going to do when the date approaches.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:50 PM
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yes, you should. It allows you to learn more about yourself and the limitations you put on your life due to past shit and helps you identify what you really want. Therapy time is hardly ever wasted. Many folks on the tim ferris show mention bouts of therapy to get through things.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:49 PM
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Man, I found one that makes me think yes. Kind of surprised me even.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:37 PM
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When one finds that good submissive girl should the other plates keep spinning or nah?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:36 PM
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Amalt? Haha but seriously that's brutal. Kind of changes my opinion on the guy.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 09:35 PM
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I talk to everybody. Strange gets especially, striking up conversation. Quiet people in a group setting? May be quiet for a reason or they don't want to be there. But for quiet folks in general, figure out what they're interested in and they'll open up. Some folks just need time. All you can do is smile and move on unaffected.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:32 PM
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Tease, joke ask questions make assumptions they have to prove false, speak with wisdom, teach them things.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:27 PM
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Stoic, learn, speak when spoken to. Quietly pass through this trial. That's not the room you want to be in.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:25 PM
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Fuck what they think about the way you talk. Just speak and move through the world with confidence. It doesn't matter what other do or feel. Be Zen in your temple of confidence.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 09:22 PM
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Next for a bit. Spend more time with plates. Don't get angry. Lift, read and Meditate. Biege Phillip would tell you to think like this: "my undying love for you will not prevent me from denying you access to my life" Deny her bud, that's disrespect. Also sounds like you've got oneitus pretty bad.. Work on that
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:39 AM
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Bruh, there's a bombshell at my job just begging for it. But we've got to stay strong those plates are not for eating until we change jobs then they're all up for grabs. Use it as practice for game and such but nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 05:58 AM
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Yup, met a lady for the first time on Saturday. We walked around the park, got some coffee and went to a book store. I should have known something was up when she didn't pet or acknowledge my dog. She had come from the women's right March and she bought a book called the bad feminist.. I noped on out. Won't be calling that one back.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 05:17 AM
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Over certified? Man you need to sauce up your resume and get on the IT staff for a small business already. Just saying IT staff salary is nowhere close to 20k. That's miserable. Support centers for software and other products should start around 30k if you have NO skills. Headhunters are your friends let them find the gigs for you. I'd not say one should stay in a call center. I'm not even talking Indian cubicle farm style call center. Many companies have various tiers of support that reward tec…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 05:51 AM
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Are you? I mean there are probably close to a metric fuck ton that work those jobs for life who are sane. I only recommended it as an 'in' to an industry that you dont need prior training for. The job leads to fat wages, good benefits, free time and more. As more and more technology envelops the world more companies will be support departments on every level. I'd not know the industry. I know IT directors making 160k+ that started in a call center. Now would a lazy unambitious fuck survive in a …
/r/askTRP22/01/17 05:00 AM
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I don't follow. I'm apolitical and not mtgow but I respect mtgow for their decisions and opinions. Which is why I lurk this way every now and then. Can you explain? I guess you're saying I support feminism because I haven't gone mgtow? I mean I have chosen and gone my way own way but it's not traditional nor is it mgtow it's my way because I chose it. What do you mean marriage strike? I've got plates not a wife.
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 11:59 PM
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IT literally YouTube will teach you all you need. Get a job at any call center doing some kind of basic support and watch training videos at double speed. You'll be making 50k+ in no time. Many don't learn or stop, it's almost like cheating to keep improving. Then you find a new job using the skills you learned. And rinse and repeat. If you're patient and wise you'll land a remote support position allowing you to work from home or anywhere and givong you the free time and money to pursue your go…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 06:04 PM
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Exactly. I mean what is missing? What's missing worth doing that shit. If all those liberal social justice fucks would have pooled their plan ticket money together they could influence a legitimate politician to try and make change for them or at least represent them on the bigger stage. I hate seeing this garbage happening and it further separates me from society. I'm not mtgow I've got plates. But this March stuff is just fucked.
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 05:50 PM
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I'm trying to figure out what the fuck they're marching for but all I see is headlines saying they ARE marching.. Says it's for people who think women rights are human rights.. The fuck? Who in their right mind would say women's rights aren't human rights? Saw the fattest neck beard looking fucks following behind the March. If they really wanted to change something they'd find someone who will be just old enough for the presidency in four years and spend all their time and resources on making he…
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 05:47 PM
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TIL you've got to tinder selectively. Thanks folks.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 09:00 PM
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On the other hand. Shouldn't a man exist in the Now. Not cherishing past mistakes and achievements? Nice user name by the way Marcus Aurelius is the shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:24 AM
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I agree with OP. I only lurk trp when I'm feeling down about the ladies or if I can't sleep. Other than that I've got no reason to read it. Been absorbing the shit for years now. I know it and I see it everywhere. Coming here on occasion is still a healthy reminder.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:05 AM
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Please stop this now. (edit oh good you did) Read about paleo and nutrition in general. You'll fuck over the future you if you don't eat right. Also look at the PHAT routine for lifting.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:03 AM
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Any guy who swipes left ever is wasting their time. It's a numbers game on tinder more than real life. Swipe everything right and only message the good ones. Still the 'good ones' are those not fat and pretty enough
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:01 AM
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27 here facing that end of the illusion you mention. I can see my career coming to a halt albeit a comfortable one of I don't keep improving. It's hard to be motivated all the time. This subreddit helps and so does meditation and Journaling.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 04:48 AM
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Looked into this awhile back the probability of a wreck is just too high. I don't give a fuck about a woman who gets tingles about a motorcycle. Go on then out my stable. Riding is not my thing. But I do acknowledge that others dig it.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 04:43 AM
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Thanks, it's a battle for real!
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:19 PM
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To refine your philosophy it's necessary to just understand philosophy and the origins of things. For that kind of education. I'd recommend reading bertrand Russell's history of Western philosophy, then read meditations by Marcus Aurelius, maybe the philosophy of history by hegel then look into sources of self by Charles Taylor.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 08:28 PM
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When you play guitar are you learning new stuff or do you play your favorite bits? You need to keep challenging yourself. With guitar and weights, I'd add cooking as a skill man, that won't let you down. All the point is, is that you need to keep doing more to he better to be truly satisfied. Improve yourself and many other things will fall into place
/r/askTRP07/01/17 01:58 PM
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Carry on with the reading. Time for meditation? It takes five minutes. To sit calmly and breath, find a guided meditation and do that shit. I think we're on to hobbies now. Do you have passions and shit that you like to do?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:11 AM
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Be a man and speak through actions not text messages. Ignore her. Improve yourself. Meditate and read more.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:08 AM
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One of the laws of power is to avoid the unhappy and unlucky. Drop them and read more.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:07 AM
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Yeah. I think Chad isn't near as into self improvement and such as trp. Years of trp make something much better or at least different than what Chad would amount to after thirty years. I don't think it's over hyped. You must be in a weird area. I'm just a few years off and getting close. I can't imagine how ill be at it all in another five years or so.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:07 AM
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I'm on the same page about people being boring as fuck. Any kind of gathering or event Im just waiting to get the fuck out. I don't know for all the reasons OP explains But life though. There's a fuck ton to life. When I felt the way you do I read philosophy a ton of it. I can make recommendations. Think of it like this, smarter dudes than you have felts worse about the world. Then they wrote books that lasted through time. Reading them will help you explore your philosophy on life.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:02 AM
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Yeah, don't worry about that part. She'll catch on. Lol we've got some things in common OP
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:58 AM
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If you're legitimate depressed see somebody. Don't take meds just talk it out with somebody. If you're just being a sad sack then budget. Create a workout plan and a diet plan. Meditate start to read. Wake up early go outside more. Fap less, cease the porn. Get a hobby. Approach ladies. Clean up your appearance. Just start doing shit. For me cleaning is what does it. Clean the fuck out of one room and you'll all the sudden have this energy that you can turn towards all the other shit I mentioned…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:56 AM
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Touch of ye olde social anxiety or something strange.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:51 AM
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Read. Never stop reading. As a leader you need to see from many perspectives and the focus and insight skills gained from reading along with the knowledge and everything else will benefit you for some time. 48 laws of power. The biography of Robert Caro forget what it's called Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Read about specific leaders and I'd recommend this book called tribal leadership: leveraging natural groups to build a thriving organization
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:47 AM
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Been there. Plated just fine. It's some shit but be humble and satisfied with the hand and mouth type activities. For ed: Fix your diet. Start working out. Meditate. Sleep more and reduce stress and anxiety. Stop watching porn. Fap less.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:38 AM
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Good good buddy. Feel that out for a bit. Then hit the self improvement like a mother fucker. Lift. Meditate. Diet. Budget. Read. Learn. All that good shit. A solid monk mode will get you on track. The goal is to focus on yourself. Your life revolves around you. This is naturally attractive to ladies and it also works as a buffer against the kind of feelings you have now. It's important to not linger on it too long. Get the fuck over it basically but only once you've done what grievijg you need …
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:36 AM
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Improve into some adventure or exploit that you're going to go on with her. (fake shit who knows planning a hiest, seeing some lame American roadside wonder? I don't fucking know, do you with that part. ) but then you're going on an adventure so you need her snap chat or phone number to plan that shit. Ask for it or tell her to text you whatever. You don't care because you're a busy fuck living his own life. If you hear from them or connect outside tinder. Plan to chill. Close.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:30 AM
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Go at them with the clippers but don't take it all the way off that's how I maintain it in the warm months. Just trimming it down shorter works for me. It is 'cool'. You're good man.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:27 AM
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Right on. How about reading and meditation?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:21 AM
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Also read the side bar. Lift, Meditate and eat healthy!
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:11 AM
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Sweet. Are you Budgeting some dollars, are you reading anything? I guess the point I'm trying to make is do everything else. Be better at everything else in life and you won't be sad or even care about trivial stuff like this with your lady. You'll seem more aloof to her and she'll dig that too.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:07 AM
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Forget about all this. Make her a plate. Improve yourself.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:56 AM
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Don't message her again until she messages you. Start talking to other ladies. Improve yourself so this kind of thing doesn't bother you. Do you Meditate, do you lift? What's your diet like? How do you spend your time. Become a busy man that couldn't give two fucks about a text message. See her when you see her. Texts are for scheduling.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:43 AM
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This correlates strongly with intelligence.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:37 AM
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Okay. I've been where you are. If you're feeling bad go on and do so for a fee more minutes. Done? Give it a few more seconds.. There you go. Good. Now. Clean your house. Create a budget. Create a workout plan with meals too. Start to Meditate. Begin to read more. Read the sidebar of trp again if you haven't. Learn to love yourself and be satisfied. Use these powerful feeling to act. Do anything.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:36 AM
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I go there for dinner or she comes here for dinner. That's it. I don't go elsewhere unless it's something Damn special.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:26 AM
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Read meditations by Marcus Aurelius. You're the only one that matters. Improve yourself and know that all the people from your high school mean nothing. They are blips in my past and I'm only 27. If they say they don't like you. Then don't hang out with those people. Fuck them. Meditate and get into lifting weights.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:25 AM
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Read more. Keep reading.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:23 AM
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Do you like EDM go to festivals like sonicbloom in Colorado and you'll see that little college kids had no fucking clue how to party.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:22 AM
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Do not flake. You are a man. Women are flakey. See her. Don't schedule again if she doesn't respect your time. If she flakes again do not get upset or say anything about it. Move on and ignore her until she wants to see you or until you want to get at it again then invite her over. Let them flake who gives a fuck. You have things going on.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:21 AM
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See her less. Meditate. Budget. Lift. Eat healthy. Change for the better and and improve for yourself.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:19 AM
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Have them sure. Distant plates are great but have some relationships on the home front too.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:18 AM
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When it comes to that I just start looking for a new job. In most industries these days diagonal movement is upward movement in that you make more money for the next company.. Or just do as Aurelius would have you do and tell yourself each day that you will be working with stupid people and that you love them.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:17 AM
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Get plates. Keep the LTR thing kicking just care less. You'll be happier and she may even get all fired up and into you again when you start caring about yourself more than her like a man should and she starts to get the tingles again. Read meditations by Marcus Aurelius and meditate more.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:16 AM
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How old are you? Time to start hitting the gym I can tell you other exercises to do if you don't have a gym. Read meditations by Marcus Aurelius and the 48 laws of power next. Realize that you will be away from this soon. Cheers bud.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:14 AM
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Dude. If they ask that they are plates. And treat them like that until they prove they aren't. Don't use that as some thing to overthink or expand upon. Wear clothes, your goal is to take them off anyways right? Say that maybe haha.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:10 AM
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Dude.. You will live for 60+ more years who the fuck cares about how this interaction goes. Walk up to her Monday between classes or whatever and tell her to put her number in your phone. Hand it to her. Just joke around and give her shit if she doesn't. Or use snapchat isn't that what the kids do? I'm 27 You got this. But also don't ask these questions before you read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:08 AM
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They are mostly useless yes. Tinder was decent a few years back but it's meh even in my city. Don't rely on dating websites.. Day game if you don't night life and move to a better area if there aren't women around you and you want them.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:06 AM
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Ignore her. Move on. Delete the text. If she comes back fine but don't ever commit or escalate her beyond plate again.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:04 AM
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I write non stop in journals and have found myself referencing them. I use one notebook for writing things then use a mix of Evernote and onenote to make lists and journals for any everything I come across. All after gathering that data can it be analyzed. Basically write and journal a fuck ton and you'll have insights.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:03 AM
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I know the feeling. It helps to know that it's not your life loneliness to mope about its the human condition. It's society its this greater void. So we move on. Need to cry okay then cry. Are you done? Good. Now. Create a budget. Create a workout plan paired with a diet. Create a list of books to read this year. Begin to Meditate. Set a long term goal and two short ones. Work towards them everyday. Improve the way you dress find a hobby. Get a dog and train the fuck out of it. The alpha trp roa…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:01 AM
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Your right about maximizing time so while you monk mode yourself into shape approach ladies and take notes after words on how it went. Just get comfortable talking. Don't expect a lot and don't be butt hurt by rejection. Keeo improving yourself and it'll all work out
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:56 AM
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The general trp consensus has been to go nofap only for two week intervals. When you do break don't use porn. The porn induced Ed is a thing and dopamine levels from porn are higher than those of actual sex. If you have a porn problem nofap is needed. Masturbation isn't a problem and I don't think doing a complete nofap for life is wise or ideal. Get some plates and a healthy sex life.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:54 AM
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Don't do it for a lady. I've got both pierced and graded out to 2. I like them and many women that I dig have gauges too. You'll get more pussy by getting into meditation. Pierce whatever you want, but keep it classy ha.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:52 AM
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I'd get the fuck out of there. But I'm an introvert and even in college I had no patience for party sloots. The party shit is overrated folks party hard into their fifties and shit. Festivals are to be had. Become something sweet so you can pay off your college debt and get mad pussy later. Fuck a party. Learn day game. On a campus it's too easy.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:50 AM
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Dated 34 year old back when I was 24. She was just like the 19 year old I had spinning at the same time. Haha just more money and bigger consequences for the actions she took.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:53 PM
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I'd also recommend looking into low dose mushrooms. I know trp isn't all aboard that sort of thing so I won't go into details. It's just a friendly suggestion. Edit. We're talking sub perceptual amounts here. Internet for knowledge ye shall find it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:34 PM
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Great points, I think I'm an extroverted introvert haha so I do overthink and get tired of folks and events quickly. I will (almost said should) take action on getting out 'there' some more, thanks for the prod in the right direction.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:29 PM
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Same. I share with the primary plate any time we hang out. If you can't see benefits in doing that then think of it like getting more out of the time you spend with the main plate. You spend more time with her than others, might as well talk out some of your feels as long as they aren't all needy like OP says. My main really enjoys when I tell her of my life and emotions, it's a bonding experience. It's not like I'm constantly leaning on her but she's there for that conversation when I need it b…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:07 PM
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Serious loner here. I look at social butterflies as folks who are uncomfortable being alone with themselves. At the same time I'd still like real friends. But I've not had that for ten plus years, I'm in my late twenties and the ladies haven't been a problem but I've got day game to make them happen. Where party folks can just meet so many people in one night, that's a skill I'd like to work on. I do think one can be alpha as fuck with or without friends. Not sure if one out weighs the other.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:47 PM
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I've tried meetup.com and I felt leagues better about my social abilities after that. It was abysmal the folks that showed up were so aspy or so intimidated by my halo effect that the conversation was broken. I'm that tall, decent looking, built guy with the shit social skills that OP mentioned. I'm starting to think it's not the social intelligence that I'm lacking but the actual intelligence lacking in everyone else. I read too much so my interests are everywhere and I know a lot of shit, I gu…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:36 PM
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Fuck. Lone wolf here, haven't had friends ever really. Even made it through four years of state University without meeting people.. (I was in a 'relationship' and quite beta but since that exploded I've been solo.) It makes it easier to change states and to make life decisions but God damn do I get lonely sometimes. Any tips for one who doesn't drink or party ? I do drink and party but on my own terms, normally alone(psychedelics and such) or at music events. The issue is everyone I meet partyin…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:13 PM
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You've deleted your social media. Wonderful! The community is proud of you. To complete your process or to 'put a pin in it' as they say, you should delete this post of yours. But either way, good job. Read a few books now.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 11:02 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly with your demonization of alcohol. I wish folks would think of both Adderall and alcohol as the same things rather than polarize between the two. Societies drinking vice is ridiculous with all the shit we know. But doing anything is harder than partying so the lazy fucks party away. You said good words here but advocating pharmaceuticals probably won't go over to hot in this sub for good reasons. But that aside I do see your point, keep writing!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 09:42 PM
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I'd like to interject and say that the advice to 'follow your passion' when it comes to career is garbage. Read 'be so good they can't ignore you' by Cal Newport for more info and tips on finding passion within your work and developing career capital to Reach that point of satisfaction that we all define for ourselves and strain to reach. Aside from that I totally agree.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 09:04 PM
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As every ork knows a red paint job makes it go faster.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 08:51 PM
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I agree so much with your second point. I'm on the fence with something similar now. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 03:37 PM
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What do night classes range in cost for ya? That's a really good idea.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 04:16 AM
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Baby steps, as the say in What About Bob. Start with forcing yourself to take a cold shower or just turn it cold towards the tail end of it. Begin a meditation regime and one for weightlifting, start foam rolling and Journaling to figure out your career and life missions. Break down big goals into achievable little goals and strive toward them like a mother fucker. Be hard on your self for forgetting but always start again. Start reading in if you don't then never stop. Learn two more hobbies or…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 04:12 AM
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This is a far from 'fancy try hard prose' or even 'verbose' writing. This is a VERY approachable article on inner mind game and the existential angst that can accompany getting all the pieces together. Thank you OP
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 05:08 PM
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I appreciate your insight man. Thank you. I'm in my late twenties starting to give less fucks about plate spinning and jumping through those hoops. Maybe getting close to that 'change of pace' you mentioned.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:17 PM
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The settling though, do you regret being able to chase or do you still?
/r/askTRP14/12/16 02:35 PM
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What advice if you found a lady with meh SMV and crazy high RMV?
/r/askTRP14/12/16 02:34 PM
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Thanks for the advice. How's the marriage business been since taking that plunge. I've thought about it and I do want progeny so I've got to do something similar.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 02:33 PM
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If you do what you've always done your get you've always gotten or something like that. Got to take action and make a change. Limit the drank. Shit is bad for you anyways. If it's a vice look into what void it's filling for you and find something else to do about it.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 12:39 PM
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I do want to pursue a career in .Net I appreciate your insight and experience. I've got a few years of SQL dev experience and some c/AL that I'm building off of. To make sure I'm understanding your tips clearly. Pluralsight is your top resource. Thats sweet, I've got a three month trial there. I'm using the O'Reilly c# learning path videos right now along with apress c# deconstructed and a c# 5 in a nutshell. You say to learn the full stack (6 and core) do you mean csharp 6 and dot net core? The…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:12 AM
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Thank you. I was feeling the isolation or the struggle the last few days. I'll return to this many times in my life I think. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 01:06 AM
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Learning c# and the .net CLR this month. You and me both..
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 12:31 AM
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IT Get on omnisecu.com read everything start with basic networking. If that's hard read and watch tutorials on Windows. Then get a job in a support desk. Keep reading and working outside of work. Move diagonally from company to company always improving yourself with new learning.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:54 AM
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Heyo linguistic relativity is at again! Good point.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:50 AM
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The diminishing returns he speaks of are those that become apparent when smashing plate after plate or keeping a bunch of fickle side relationships going. Eventually that's not rewarding and the challenge/benefits of an LTR is the solution being proposed.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:35 PM
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The Power Broker: Robert Moses and the Fall of New York
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:24 PM
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Easier said then done! Damn I struggle with this one brother. I get better with each plate though. As they say: "Persistent action in the right direction will always prevail."
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 01:19 AM
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Too true. Negative thought cycles lead to caged unconfident thinking. Good connection drawn there man.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:35 PM
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"If you come across somebody with no arms and no legs do you even bother with resuscitation?"
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:21 PM
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Just looked round the public bus assigning folks horns. Instantly sat up straighter and smiled imagining mine all elk like. Haha good tip my man. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:18 PM
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I mean one of the other 'greatest stoics' was a slave. But I see what you're saying about Marcus Aurelius.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:50 PM
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Exactly. The educational system in its current state is a band aide for 'home life' albeit one oozing propaganda.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:48 PM
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Enter idiocracy. The gradual retardation of society. As the intellectuals hold off on reproduction their lesser spawn a whole Grove of family trees.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:27 PM
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Preach. Digging your outlook sir. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:20 PM
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I meant to say anything 'by' Alan watts or ram dass. Haha not anything 'but'.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:09 AM
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Follow the one third rule with texts. Say a third as much as she says and only text for logistics on the next meet up. We all forget at times, keep on keepin on my man
/r/askTRP31/10/16 03:44 AM
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Yeah, play this one silent for a bit and shoot a nonchalant text out next week to try and meet up. Build on mistakes man, learn and move forward. I'd say you didn't make any mistakes here just the texts the next day. Let her unwind from the embarrassment.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 03:41 AM
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Time to go monk mode and/or nofap for a bit. See how things are next week.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 03:37 AM
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This sounds interesting. Stay in that, but be weary of it going south on you if she gets too controlling.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 03:33 AM
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Trying to track down the source of my anxiety now. Social anxiety or something weird. You're not the first I've seen to say they've found improvements with anxiety via ADHD meds. May i Ask, do you take them everyday? Low dose Adderall?
/r/askTRP31/10/16 03:26 AM
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This guy is laying it out plain and simple for ya OP. Meditation for the win. If you're looking for books to learn from I'd suggest anything by Alan watts or ram dass Edit:typing
/r/askTRP31/10/16 03:24 AM
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Worked with a plethora of uptight women doing this. They eventually rallied together. It was disgusting and obvious even to other employees. i found a new job with a raise. Raises are to be had, diagonal moves professionally have been good to me. Don't let this guy affect you but start looking for other jobs. If anything just because you should always be looking for something better.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 07:03 PM
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No banana. Be nothing. Tell them that then play and enjoy college.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 02:23 AM
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Not going to lie, going out solo is hard for me. Day game for the win. Then you find people to go out with at night.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 02:15 AM
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Isolated myself with high school sweetheart changed states. She left me for some dude she worked with at 23. I started from absolutely nada as far as resources and friends go. Building up a life does sound daunting but living a life doesn't. I think one's inner game is never enough haha so keep learning. But as far as outer goes I feel ya. You just have to keep trying to talk with folks. I typically day game because ladies are out alone and I am too. I still have few friends but I value them and…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 09:55 PM
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Thanks for this reply. Cheers friend.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:15 AM
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I'm not going to make your decisions on life things. But I once saw something that said folks see shrinks when they feel like their life is out of control. So you may feel like that now. We all have felt like that. Try a mini monk mode of sorts to 'control' some smaller things in life like your diet and exercise. I feel that meaninglessness that you describe. It's a kind of existential loneliness that we all feel. It's not just your burden it's also mine and all the other folks who venture down …
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:14 AM
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NFC
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:08 PM
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Obvious SJW feminist and her cucked bf were hanging out with my lady and I last night. She turns to the group and starts bemoaning trump. 'Have you guys seen this... There's no way he can be president.' Now a statement like this gets my apolitical sense involved. I brought up several political issues and points to begin to outline a debate with her an obvious antitrump woman and me a non political and clever (albeit in some circles) conversationalist. This lady had NOTHING to say to support her …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:47 PM
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On a humor level I'm all for this and agreeing with you. But on a virtuous/intellectual level voting for somebody just to avoid voting for some one else isn't what the system is set up for. I'm apolitical and choose to remain absent from fervent politics. But oh man I'd like to see the CNN ladies squirming too haha.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:39 PM
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I've read it and own a copy. I'd be happy to jump into a discussion. What's on your mind man?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:26 PM
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Thats the one. I was\am a very skeptical man. but it comes together and I honestly feel like my life has been different since I watched it. I might even listen to it again while I work now that you've linked it. Cheers!
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:37 PM
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Just last night I saw another comment suggesting to stay away from Portland and Seattle in general due to the ladies being better elsewhere in the states. I'll check it out further.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:07 PM
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*Chinese machines
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:12 AM
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I mix unflavored whey with water and some creatine. That's how you use it. Squat more too.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:09 AM
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I found this video on YouTube today about losing social anxiety forever. 55 minute video of this dude talking. Soooo good. I'll try to find it. To be more comfortable in your own skin you've got to realize that the image of yourself in your head is false. It's fake and imaginary. Youre not hurt by other opinions. Your story may change but it's a story. In short develop IDGAF attitude with a bit of Zen spin and shatter your self imposed limitations.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:08 AM
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If your diet is on point you don't need deodorant but you should use soap. Get a healthy soap though like from whole foods with no extra shit. Also don't wash your hair. Definitely don't wash it every day! I dated a hippy lady who converted me on some of these things slowly. You don't Walk around stinking thinking it's great. You need to be aware. But each of us can 'get away' with less I think. Lol I don't know if the rest of trp will agree there.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:57 AM
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Layne Nortons PHAT
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:55 AM
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Why do you say Seattle?
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:53 AM
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I don't know if it's been stated yet but meditations by Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:50 AM
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Read philosophy. Save money. Read more philosophy. Learn cloud infrastructure.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:48 AM
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The idea Of monk mode is that you're not good enough 'now'. That ideal can be poison to the wrong mind. You could be social now but you think you've got to wait and be fit. Why not be social while you get fit. Know what I'm saying. Act now. Be present.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:47 AM
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As introverted intellectual I fucking hate the clubs. If I found myself in a group wanting to go there I'd say. 'yeah, have fun' and I'd do my own thing. These people saying just go and have fun, man if you don't want to go then you don't want to go and that's it. Realize what you want act on that. But if you're just worried about the ladies. Then you got to go out and get over that a bit. Also look at losing your self image so others opinions won't matter to you as much. Cheers
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:42 AM
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Deserves some elaboration but I'd second this suggestion. Only after you've tried some sober solutions unless you're already a psychonaught. A trip can help you realize what the top commenter is already saying. Your stress is not 'you'. Who are 'you'.? Can you think of times when you weren't stressed? Of course you can. Then you are not stressed. What is stress it's a thing a word it's nowhete to be tangibly found. You choose to suffer from it. That or look into Zen and/or stoicism.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:36 AM
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Can you recommend any reading or learning to help with social aptitude. I understand one just has to be social but still.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:42 PM
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For all the cats who have reached this 'emptiness' feeling I'd recommend reading 'why does the world exist? By Jim holt' to learn about nothing and nothingness and their value to the universe. Down votes for a book recommendation? You learn something every day.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:25 PM
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Nobody really knows the best for 'you' to turn your hobbies and such into a business. But I'd say a blog or video blog is a pretty good start. Just talk about the shit that interests you and Mull that business idea over.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:24 PM
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I'm picking up what you're putting down man.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:03 AM
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Walk through the world with ease my man. You should be there, you don't need people there. Folks won't ask. If they do fuck em. There are thousands and thousands of other strangers you'll have a chance to meet in your life right? Look at the big picture and it makes it seem like going for just a few hours and failing is miniscule. Go and learn. Then reflect on what you've learnt and go again.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:01 AM
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Which would be akin to suffering the small pains of monk mode but continuing to monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:29 AM
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Monk mode isn't really about maintaining life's great pleasures. It's more about finding pleasure in that which life has already given. I see where you're coming from though. OP wants you to understand that making a statement like that falls under the consumerist paradigm. Life's great pleasures are ours to define after all.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 05:25 AM
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Lifting, meditation, stoicism, learning and trp to know others find the same solace.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 01:03 AM
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Northerner here: there's going to have to be some xp bonus for low temp gaming.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 12:59 AM
1

Law 39: Stir up waters to catch fish ? Haha but I see what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:39 AM
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I agree with the spiteful part. But abundance mentality right? Ideally you wouldn't have done whatever it was that led to her disrespecting you so much to have to withhold the d though.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 12:37 AM
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I agree. But it could be perceived as both to an outsider. Another reason to start practicing.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 12:20 AM
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Law 6: court attention at all costs. Stand out in a crowd and such.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 12:16 AM
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Would you say one lacks empathy if they need to train themselves to 'see' what's right to say? Or is empathy outside of basic social skills? Eithet way, very well put.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 11:57 PM
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I do agree with OP on being bombarded by the opinions of others constantly. These opinions create the 'sheep', the 'mediocroty'. I agree with unplugging from cable TV, movies, news, magazines, radio, sports (most), common banter and the like. Over time it's just easier to succumb and be shepherded if you don't do something proactive. Doing your own thing will steel you against the whims and concerns of the masses. I recall seeing a post here about manliness being the act of separating ones consc…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:26 AM
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Very good point at the end. Make sure not to grow comfortable in hermitage. For introverts it's quite easy to do.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:03 AM
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More like stop 'listening to the radio' for those who still do.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:02 AM
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Exactly, any problem in your life should be converted to a project. You should break the project down into actionable tasks and get to work. Life is a myriad of these projects nothing more and nothing less.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 01:06 AM
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When it comes to reconciling the 'I'm better looking, yet I want to care for this person' dilemma (a flavor of oneitus perhaps), should one simply stop caring? Easier said then done but still, that is the goal right? Just drop the idea that caring is the next logical thing to do? Before marriage and a kid and all the rest of the 'steps' society imposes? Then what? Seems like the red pill answer is to acquire more plates and keep on enjoying the ride on our sinking ship.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 12:53 AM
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Even at 25? I'm a tad older and really considering it. Thanks for your anecdote.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 12:44 AM
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What's the scar like? I wouldn't want to create a new self-conscious thing there. But I've been on the fence about this for a few years since my little brother had it. Thanks for the info and such.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 12:43 AM
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Libido can vary for folks. First, if your goal is to refresh your love for women or your yearning for a relationship then you should cease fapping and porn. That will give you one main reason to approach women. If you'd like a reason that is. I understand the value you place on time. Your list of hobbies sounds extensive. 23 short stories!? Dude, I'm still trying to write 10 and I'm a few years older. My recommendation would be to make time for meditation and lifting. (reading if you haven't bee…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 02:21 PM
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Happened to me in a tech role. I crushed every metric they presented with the rest of the team eating my dust. A fuck ton of the lazy video game addicts got promoted. I said 'peace' and found greener pastures. They were definitely exploiting my ambition.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:46 AM
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This is side bar material. It also helps to answer the general question about amused mastery. If one has that deep inner world amused mastery is natural.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:42 AM
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Play the album house of balloons by the weekend. Or get into music on Soundcloud and make play lists of the sexy tracks you come across.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:49 PM
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Agreed, look for ladies in other venues and be more honest about what you're looking for (a first mate). You'll still have problems and dilemmas but they'll be new ones and that's the human condition.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:49 PM
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You should work on wanting to be that better 'you' just because you know it's the noble thing to do. Not because it can lead to sex. Keep monk moding brother. Don't stop improving. Also hell yes on the approaching more, that and talk to everybody! Cashiers, people in lines. Work on your first impressions and shite. The nihilistic feelings are not yours alone but those of humanity. Note them and dwell if you must but only for a moment before turning your attentions to more productive ventures/tho…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:44 PM
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Care to expand on that?
/r/askTRP23/04/16 11:24 AM
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Downloading now. Inwant to try this method i read over on trp where you playbthe audio at double speed and follow along in the book. Appreciate the reccomendation
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:53 PM
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I see what you're saying. I'm going to do a mini monk mode over the next few days to dissapate the unpleasantness and learn/grow from whatever happens monday.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:07 PM
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Hmm all reslly good points. Thank you. I feel a lot more in control/aloof about it today. Letting the nervous bullshit out here rather than at her or something helped. I do feel like i should accept this but stay in it for practice while i go stealth monk mode and work on my SMV
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:56 PM
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I needed that. Im going to work on the sorting out part now. Effing oneitus. I'm going to take care of this. Thank you.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 01:01 PM
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Do i even ask or make an attempt before moving on
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:58 PM
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So i should just ghost out of this? I mean i feel as though i should linger for the obvious benefits while i look for other fish.. in which case im going to have to talk to this lady in three days..
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:56 PM
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You're right. Im going to just back off, cool down and let things happen.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:40 PM
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Right. So i should acknowledge that my feelings are too invested and just see what happens there
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:38 PM
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Sigh, i mean i guess i am/was. She doesn't drink or do pharmaceuticals but i see what you're saying. I think i was under a spell
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:36 PM
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I am providing relationship level perks because i was treating this as a relationship. But perhaps ive been fooled again by good sex and gorgeous ladies.. I wonder if i can salvage this relationship dynamic
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:34 PM
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Do i say anything to her about it though? Or just make it more of a plate thing and pursue other options. Its hard for me because that very kind of cheating ruined my first marraige
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:31 PM
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The trip was planned already.. i wasnt invited except on afterthought the day she left.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 09:16 AM
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fuck.. the red pill hurts. I'll lift tomorrow and get back to that approaching.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:34 AM
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I didn't ask her to state that. It just came down to us agreeing that we would tell each other if we wanted to see other folks. but I see what you're saying. I was trying to be as 'cool' about it as possible going into it. but there was some tension there for sure.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:33 AM
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are you suggesting that I state this again?
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:23 AM
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I should just assume that stuff and not question her or anything? thats my hang up I guess. I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt.. I have started getting other things lined up even though I don't want to.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:22 AM
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so what do I do about it..
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:26 AM
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meditate. tell her what's happening. as shit as that sounds it helps. also look into the book untethered soul and perhaps taking a bit of yohimbe root tea before getting down. When it works once it tends to work again. quitting porn and jerking too.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:25 AM
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that is disheartening.. especially because I feel like all the conditions are perfect for her to fuck like mad then come home and act like nothing happened. I have no way of ever knowing. I'm tying to be okay with that.. but fuck..
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:58 AM
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Yes, she's camping with her friends and such. Its not coachella actually but something similar. I accept abundance mentality in that if I find out there was cheating of any sort she's gone. I do want to keep this thing going though. She knows about my past with the exwife who fucked around on me. We talked about it before she left where she acknowledged that she wouldn't cheat and such. (trp had me loooking through the words the whole time whether that's a good thing or a bad thing) I know I sho…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:56 AM
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move on like bounce on this? or just downgrade from whatever status she was?
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:48 AM
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I appreciate your perspective! I'll do my best to embrace that over the next few days.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:46 AM
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fuck. I'm doing the weed and gym binge now. trying to meditate and maintain that aloofness despite my inner turmoil at the whole situation. Can I even breach this subject with her when she gets back? I mean fuck. She's just camping and doing drugs with people for three days.. how did you respond to her about sleeping with the dude she went with? It's life.. you say. god damn
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:45 AM
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you make a good point. I'll see how the weekend goes this might have to be goodbye.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:48 AM
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true. thank you
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:47 AM
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how so?
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:47 AM
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don't take it down just stop investing time in it.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:46 AM
1

look at the ketogains subreddit FAQ for a workout called get ripped. Its very good. Also I've had great results with the PHAT workout although it may be a bit more advanced.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:44 AM
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Your growing frustration with women should be viewed in a more objective way. Be frustrated and such but still love them as humanity and all that jazz. Look at some lectures by alan watts or the book 'be here now' by ram dass. You need some zen to really see what matters and such. I highly recommend meditation but its a huge pain to implement a practice. I've been trying to meditate routinely for year s now.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:42 AM
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set a facebook up, yes if you have some decent photos and such. but then ignore it entirely after you friend your people and some of their people. the one benefit of FB is finding shit to do around your area. look at the events and you have so many options to get out and do things or take the ladies to. I twitter but only for myself. people I know in real life don't know my twitter. I have an instagram for 'good pics' like doing fun shit or with sexy ladies. snapchat for plates and such (age dep…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:39 AM
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I mean it sounds like you're doing the right thing about laying low and staying a mystery to her. You have to at least text to chill with her though. Say what's up and ask her to go do x with you on y.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:32 AM
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Cancel the video games, social media and bullshit. Start lifting and learning things. improve yourself read and only give a fuck about school. I can't tell you how much I needed somebody to tell me that when I was 14.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:28 AM
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I'd make sure your facial hair is trimmed and wear a dress shirt tucked into some chinos with clean tennis shoes or dress shoes. It really depends on the industry too. but more than anything show an interest and ask questions. They don't expect you to know what to wear on a walkthrough after all.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:27 AM
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Making good habits is a bitch. Little daily steps. "Persistent action in the right direction will always prevail." You must 'do' to achieve and all that jazz. Sit down tonight and make a list of the four or five things you want to add to your life. Wake your ass up early tomorrow and do them before you do anything else. Then you try and try and improve and try.. then die if you want to get all stoic about it. That striving for something better is a pretty good feeling and something I equate with…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:16 AM
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I've recently lost frame as well.. I look forward to responses here as I prefer LTR over plate game and would prefer to keep this one. (dealing with the compartmentalizing the oneitus there)
/r/askTRP12/04/16 05:51 PM
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Thank you. Thank you. I was\am on the slope brother. I can feel the oneitus setting in and I've noticed my 'LTR' of 3 months getting well.. mean. Withholding basic affection and such. I fell into her frame and its well.. bleh. But cheers, your summary of 'Vision' and its implications within love provided a very fresh perspective for me . If I really think about it I'm putting way too much energy into this. It's important to me but on equal levels with other en-devours. it hurts a bit to restrain…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 05:43 PM
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Thanks for posting this bud, I was just suffering from a bout of 'oneitus' this morning. LTR and I have been bickering about bullshit (I've dipped into her frame). Anyways, she's ignoring me and I was as you put it 'feeling worthless'. Heading to the gym here in an hour now and planning to spend some time on hobbies. You also asked about building muscle on LCHF, you can I have done it myself for a few years but its SLOW SLOW SLOWWWW. Unless you are very new to the gym. (I've been lifting semi-re…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 05:25 PM
1

I feel oddly tranquil after any random page from meditations. Its amazing and under-appreciated to say the least.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:13 AM
1

No More Mr. Nice Guy 48 Laws of Power Meditations of Marcus Aurelius The Prince How to win friends and influence people
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:11 AM
1

the correct term is pronated grip and it means to have the palms facing away from the body.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 07:06 AM
1

dolce & gabbanna - The One
/r/askTRP31/12/15 03:38 PM
1

right.. She said that asking her to lose weight was like asking her to get younger.... bahahahahahahahahaha I sent so many horrible tweets
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 10:27 PM
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/r/ketogains I bet you'll lose more than 4 if you read that FAQ and get to the macro rations ASAP.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 10:25 PM
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Watch this buddy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU TED talks ftw
/r/askTRP30/12/15 10:21 PM
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Yeah when she says that you either don't meet her dick sucking criteria or she is nervous/afraid/entitled. Guide her head. say 'lets change that' lol don't expect her to stay down until completion just a little here and there to get her used to the idea that she doesn't suck dick but she does suck yours.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 10:17 PM
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I don't know about money. I did a promotional modeling gig for them so I have a fuck ton of it. if you are not taking a multi then its good. its also good for quick supplementing electrolytes.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 10:14 PM
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I'll be real brief because there are other subs like /r/ketogains that can help. example DB workout: monday chest and shoulders: warm up with pushups and such floor press 6,6,10,10,12 Seated or standing (if you have the space) press 6,6,10,10,12 Leaning Lateral raises 6,6,10,12 Bent-over lateral raises 6,6,10,12 Plank for as long as possible timing it. Take a break then plank once more. meditate for ten minutes. Tuesday: arms and traps Standing bicep curls (keep wrists pointed away from you to m…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 10:03 PM
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water water water. but also electrolytes like sodium, potassium and magnesium emergen-C has it all, ZMA is a good source too that will give you some zinc for test and libido. There is a noSalt (salt substitute) that has potassium and less sodium just use liberally. Or eat more dark leafy greens. If it's a certain position or something maybe you are straining too hard lol work that muscle and those around it. Hell go to the gym anyways ha. I've gotten the nastiest calf cramp while on top before. …
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:49 PM
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yeah and the first two were utter bullshit "i need help installing my printer" kind of things. keep on trucking with that software dev goal! I'm trying to learn clojure now with these two guides: http://www.braveclojure.com/introduction/ http://iloveponies.github.io/120-hour-epic-sax-marathon/index.html You can never know it all in this industry haha you just have to fake it until you make it and google better than the next dude.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:43 PM
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I'd say something along the lines of 'That's allowed' then make sure to give her some extra affection or what-have-you to reward her. Or tell her that she should dress up for you if that's what you want.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:19 PM
1

Let the kickstarter campaign begin!
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:09 PM
2

at 12% bodyfat I'd start bulking or look into what's called a recomp (hybrid bulk/cut) I'd also suggest diving into /r/ketogains . Read that FAQ and let the gains begin using riptoes 5x5 or the 12 week get ripped program as I do (https://www.dropbox.com/s/uv9xcafp6ywyhr0/get%20ripped%20program.pdf?dl=0)
/r/askTRP30/12/15 09:07 PM
1

nice! I'll add cooking classes or attempts to get better at cooking to the list.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:45 PM
1

all good suggestions, sounds like keep on keepin' on with professional development is the way to go. Getting more certifications and bits to list on the business card. I will start looking into investing and business ownership courses/guides and such, good idea. Thanks!
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:35 PM
2

good point. If a lady that I hadn't plated was giving me hell about not responding I'd never respond again.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:24 PM
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I worked an IT gig in college (graduated with an unrelated degree) for 2 years, then a call center for 2 years doing database stuff and application troubleshooting. During the year of monk mode I worked on my resume and more marketable skills as well as completing big projects and shit so I had something fancy (sounding) to talk to employers about. My work place would set a metric and I would diligently work until I blew it out of the water. By doing so I kind of ruined my future at that company…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:22 PM
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I've got a similar*(ish) situation with a lady in another state. by ghost I meant ignore her. If she messages you then wait. Wait for a day or so. If you still want to try it (sounds like there is no harm in trying if you are working to attain that abundance mentality and hooking up with college gals) then I'd start talking to her like normal after that point. Like it never happened. if she brings it up, just play it off and use those feels to strengthen your resolve. I would however begin rando…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:16 PM
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"excuse me, I'm about to free some zoo animals. care to join me?" hesitation at being approached and asked such an odd question. "we could ride into the sunset on a insert animal?" just use any thing like that, something stupid that you say to all girls. what do you say to a lady you match with on tinder? say that.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:08 PM
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While the ladies reaction was legit to your beta behavior. It sounds like there is a relationship of sorts here. I'd ghost her real hard and see if she comes back at all. It may be time to let this plate smash on the floor and find some new ones if she talks to you like that unprovoked.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:04 PM
2

yes! Chance's Acid Rap album is fresh.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 03:02 PM
1

Try breakdown of sanity, I did their stuff a lot and the breakdowns are sick. Jumping genres just a tad, code orange is with a listen.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:47 AM
2

Earl Sweatshirt, Tyler the Creator, Action Bronson, seasick Steve, poor righteous teachers, tech n9ne and so many more. I recently saw a post on theredpillmusic of a song called 'I break horses' I forget who it was by. I want to say the bands name was a single word.. Real slow tune about breaking horses not riding them until the grow old.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:46 AM
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Upvoted to infinity I've been in the gym for a decade. Counting macros making gains and fine tuning my temple. Most cats here don't even know how to calculate TEE or how to eat right or what to even lift at the gym. I respect that OP shared knowledge of gear with this lovely community. But I fear it may not be the best platform or in the best place. There are subs that go into way more depth than this, I'd only hope interested trpers will do adequate research. On the other hand. It's a way to on…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:39 AM
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I feel like theredpill as a community should be against bumble because of how much power it gives the ladies. uninstalls bumble Tinder and Hinge is all you need.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:11 AM
2

Can confirm. In my city pof and okc are garbage. Not worth the effort. It's all tinder and hinge.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:05 AM
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Google what you don't understand. Not just on this sub but in life. Google is your friend. Knowledge is just around the corner if you want it bad enough. But I totally googled 'theredpill LSSW' and I would agree that in formal writings one should explain the acronym before its use. As the say, sidebar sidebar sidebar. -Cheers
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:02 AM
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I'd recommend adding hinge to your list. It's a decent app, plenty of LSSW matched based on common friends. I heard it from the horses mouth ( ex plate), she was more willing to meet folks she matched with on hinge than anywhere else because her friends may be distantly connected. (No we didn't meet on hinge) Note: if you want to fully take advantage of hinge you'll need to sully your Facebook by friending a bunch HB8-10s so their friends match you. You'll also want the chrome extension that rep…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 06:59 AM
3

I'd also recommend the book 'becoming a supple leopard' works on flexibility without the old painful stretching they teach you as a kid.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 06:40 AM
1

Yes the lacrosse ball can get right in there. I had wicked sciatica from a pinched disk and sitting on that little ball hurt so good.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 06:38 AM
1

Get off the ssri when you can. go monk mode and learn to love yourself. Easier said then done but men are mission oriented, make it your mission to improve and learn trp.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:29 AM
1

Good find. I removed Facebook from my phone a few months back noting a significant increase in happiness/productivity. This means when I do hop on to check it I won't be bombarded by others and their lack of discipline and understanding. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 11:24 PM
1

I've got to say hinge was a good find for me a few weeks ago. I was hoping to keep it my secret. I'd recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:04 PM
1

What do you mean by being too different from the losers around you contributing to your own loser consisting. And the genetic factors contribute as well? Do you mean like introvert vs extrovert? I feel like socioeconomic position contributes to a lack or less than optimal social skill set as well. Like if you're too broke to do things and stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 06:07 AM
1

Perfect post my man. I'm gearing up to start my own IT consulting company in the next 2-3 years. I took so many notes and will look out for your future posts. cheers
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:25 PM
0

the ZMA dreams are real. I only take 2 because 3 will give me the craziest fucking dreams. I had to wake this chick up in bed with me to "make sure this is all real" haha weird stuff.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 06:24 PM
3

Haha with a bestiary of betas, branch swinging sloots and societal expectations. DnD night will never be the same.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 03:26 AM
1

So that's a sign to exit. Do other people feel that? Ahaha my social game is no Bueno.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 11:51 PM
2

Perfect post, worthy of the sidebar for sure. I'm nursing a gym injury for a few weeks, about to start building social strength with these things in mind. I'm one that constantly judges and thinks about interactions while they happen rather than be in them. I can even feel the awkwardness it creates. Amazing primer here on getting better. My problem is that I start to feel uncomfortable if the conversation goes too long I get fidgety and start to tune out, break eye contact and check my phone. P…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:30 PM
2

what industry are you in, if you don't mind me asking. I'm curious about the making more overseas bit.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:49 AM
3

Minimalism is like anorexia; if you feel out of control, control what you can see. This resonates a lot. Massive cleaning and craigslist binges have been decent to me in the past. but right now I own adjustable dumbbells with a benchpress, a ps4/TV, a good sized library (maybe 40 physical books), a guitar and some other things that if I don't see improving my psyche or what have you if I sold them? (but maybe that's the point?) Minimalism can be a good thing like nutrition rather than Anorexia b…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:41 AM
5

Can't wait to see him when he rolls through my city. been listening to his podcast for years!
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:25 AM
1

where do you do this hour of approaching. I need to carve out time like that. Anywhere? I was thinking grocery store, book store or something?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 11:59 PM
4

Hell yeah! That album house of balloons is one of the only albums I play when its time to get down.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 11:29 PM
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Okay so my broad generalization definitely has some exceptions. Good points there. I would never dose with a relationship. That relationship would be dead by morning. Ahaha but I'm glad you've had some good experiences man. Lucy is a gorgeous lady.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 12:14 PM
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LSD changed my life. I dabbled in summer of 2013. one particular trip I went a little heavy. I no longer play video games, I quit smoking weed, I got over my oneitus enough to figure things out, I changed state, changed careers I had such an introspective time. I psycho analyzed, I cried, I laughed its the perfect alone time to mull things over and see our world as it is. Same trip I 'touched the abyss' as I call it or had the most frightening moment of my entire life. People who "don't get anyt…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 04:33 PM
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I read number one and left the house. Posting from the patio of some shitty club downtown. But there are people here and that's something. Cheers man.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 05:16 AM
1

SOOO much text!
/r/askTRP17/08/15 09:02 PM
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Cheers! I've added both to my list.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 08:12 PM
1

I really couldn't tell about his political affiliation. I'm guessing republican but who knows. He does yoga do republicans do that? ahaha. but thank you for the primer link. 65 pages is totally worth not sounding like a peasant tomorrow morning.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 06:44 PM
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I think there is some validity to porn being bad 'if' you overdo it. Like if it becomes an addiction or gets out of control, But that could be said for anything people do. I also think the idea that hardcore\fetish porn could diminish your taste in regular ol' reality sex is a decent one. Not that its encouraging you to have bad sex its just that a lot of that shit isn't realistic. There is a Ted Talk by Gary Wilson that sheds some light. for clarification I'm not a nofapper or a religious perso…
/r/MGTOW17/08/15 02:00 AM
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Damn, hitting all the nails on the head. That's a poignant piece of red pill ideology right there, perfect. saves post
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:20 PM
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Good post OP, assertiveness used to feel uncomfortable for me. But since swallowing the pill I've been leaps and bounds more confident and its starting to come more naturally. Quick example: I recently canceled my lifetime membership (starting at a boxing gym that has weights) they gouged me with fine print and two additional months because I canceled on the fourth not the first of the month. It's safe to say I was disgruntled. I said something along the lines of 'Maybe I'll just cancel the card…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:01 PM
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Do you happen to have said Porsche? I need to borrow it... For science.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 04:23 AM
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That's the elusive breed I've been trying to find. The struggle is real.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:42 AM
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Maybe my photos aren't 'alpha enough' but it seems like tinder is dead? before I would like a ton of bitches before bed and wake up to a several matches, with some of them being worthwhile. They would respond and such, Now the matches are all fat and\or fake. Most of the decent ladies I end up matched with only have three photos which has me thinking they are fake. Not too mention they never respond to my 'hey senorita" esque messages. I think women just use it like social media now: "look at my…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:22 AM
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+1 on the thunder cook shirt idea.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:13 AM
2

I'd recommend The Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable by Nassim Nicholas Taleb
/r/askTRP11/08/15 01:46 PM
1

My bad, 60% raise not 160%! Still quite a quality of life increase. I was floating in the mid 40's. -cheers
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:00 AM
1

Adding to the book recommendation OrchidReverie started: How to win friends and influence people. It was just recommended to me and I've only gotten a quarter of the way through but I can't tell you how much its helping. (there is a chance that I was\am just that bad at socializing haha but read it if you get around to it.)
/r/askTRP07/08/15 08:39 PM
1

professional achievements make me feel like more of a "badass alpha" than hitting a new PR in the weight room or finally smashing that young blonde from the coffee shop.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:22 PM
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After working my damn ass off for the last two years for nothing I just landed a gig with a 60% raise. Happiness feels so unfamiliar. Cheers man.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:19 PM
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you read my mind. I was going to say ALWAYS be looking for new gigs just to feel them out and see what you're actually worth.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:58 PM
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Can confirm. I over performed like mad in a support tech role and watched my coworkers get promoted for almost two years because they could do the whole winning friends and influencing people bit. I expressed many concerns and tried to get my actions recognized to no avail. Two months on the job market and I'm bouncing into a new company with a 60% raise! I failed at socializing and that's why I didn't get a nice promotion at the old place. See my post history for the details about that train wr…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:57 PM
2

Do you walk with your chin up and neck exposed? yes, a little bit. Is that a posture I should never assume or just one I shouldn't have when I want to be sociable. Do you wear a serious looking expression? yes. damn you're good, its not aggressive but it is serious\stern by default. I'll try to assume the half smile. That seems easy enough. Is your hygiene on point? haha very much so. I know those stinky folks you speak of. shudder is right.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:06 AM
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Having a) grown up with a single mom (she found a beta after 6ish years. But the mentality is\was the same) And b) dated two single moms I agree with molynuex's assessment. I also agree with part of an earlier comment saying single moms shouldn't be put down so hard. In some instances of his rebuttal I think 'single mom' could be replaced with 'single parent'. He does point out that there aren't enough single dads to know one way or the other. The single moms I dated put out in a second. Since d…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 09:50 PM
1

I'm only on season two but spoilers won't stop me. I'm really digging the show. I know it's partially female fantasy but there are some gems for sure.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:42 PM
1

Acquired it just now. I'm on it! Thanks for the suggestion. I've seen folks mention it a ton!
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:19 PM
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in fact I think most people are stupid and unworthy of my time and words. Oh and there it is. I usually copy and paste quotes as I go and you answered my uncertainty in your next line! Basically, you're a wanker! Well I can't say I was entirely sober in typing this post last night. But I think that's the first and most constructive way I've ever been called a wanker. I'm never rude to people, in fact I rarely speak in the work place and in social situations. Definitely some anxiety there. But I …
/r/askTRP04/08/15 11:30 AM
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Lifting, Nutriton, Pen and Paper RPGs (nerdy as fuck right ahaha), writing, reading, dog training, tech news and blogs, Acustic guitar, EDM shows.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:50 AM
1

I've got the 6'2" part figured out. Just need to cut for a few more months to hit 12% ahaha I'm about 25% now... The dog park was barren. An old dude stopped by for a few minutes, I'm going to try some others.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:05 AM
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9 hours but split into two chunks because I had to do morning things.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:24 AM
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Wow he was very reserved letting her rant for whole minutes. I've never heard of these 'freemen' TIL There is no recorded instance of freeman tactics being upheld by a legal verdict.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:17 AM
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"The fucking jabroni sexually harrased me!!" haha but seriously what a disgusting thing to watch. Especially seeing how she was all obnoxious in the beginning. Seeing how fast she changed to screaming that he harassed her really makes me rage.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:05 AM
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This is water, this is water, this water. I'm glad you posted about this it's actually something I like to listen to every few months. It's a very zen perspective on appreciating life, it helps me practice stoicism and self discipline. Someday I'm going to actually finish Infinite Jest. It's a Behemoth of a book and his writing style is quite complex. Cheers,
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:52 PM
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I appreciate your opinions on bars being the last resort. I'm shit in a bar but at the co-op grocery store or a little coffee shop I can kill it. (Relatively) Dog parks are not something I've tried yet. Just broke out the leash to take my pup to the nearest one. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:44 PM
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Thank you! Damn I haven't heard anyone else say it yet. Meetup.com is the worst! Seriously I thought moving to a new city I could just do some meet ups. That's what people say right, WRONG. These people were in worse social situations than I was. It was fucked. Your comment about hobbies is interesting and I think valid. I do have hobbies like nerdy shit that I won't get into. They make me happy but they aren't to raise my SMV or to get laid. After reading your post I'm googling for some kind of…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:38 PM
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I knew one woman that was intelligent and interesting as fuck, she has hobbies she cooked like a champ. We could talk about politics, science and philosophy. She's getting her phd in neuroscience now. We got married and she ended it a year later.. Last I heard she was riding the CC with older professors from the lab she was working in... AWALT
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:00 PM
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In the same vein I work in a support environment for software company x. I utterly KILLED it week after week month after month. Top ticket closer every damn day and not by two or three a week. Average weekly closes is around 60 I was pulling 130s. I thought this would net me more dollars. WRONG! This net me the exact same shit for two years while slower less intelligent folks who kissed ass better than me got all the love. I tried to point it out to three different managers (tumultuous times) BA…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:12 PM
1

6 hours tracked with the Sleep Time app on iOS by azumio.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:17 AM
1

It's just saying "be careful." Throw a mouse in there first, ask a vet to see the fangs? I'm not the originator of these ideologies. Don't compare me to a feminist? I'm a fellow MGTOW. You know that's rude. I think women can use that analogy to be careful and look out for themselves too. Anyone can: "be careful crossing the street little boy" not all streets will kill him or even be dangerous to cross but it makes him aware and will allow him to make better decisions.
/r/MGTOW31/07/15 10:56 PM
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While I can't speak for anyone but myself I think its more an attitude of caution than a broad generalization. I saw an analogy like this that summed it up: Imagine five boxes with 10 grand and a poisonous snake in each. 1 of the snakes has had its fangs removed but the others will kill you in a minute or two. Would you take your chances and reach into one of the boxes? All these snakes aren't poisonous but all of them 'could' be. shrug
/r/MGTOW31/07/15 05:41 PM
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Soulo, Soulo Say it like you mean it,My demeanor is the meanest, I'm getting meaner by the minute.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:31 PM
1

Epistemic_humility will take part in this challenge!!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:45 PM
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yeah I learned that the hard way lol
/r/MensRights30/07/15 08:08 PM
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Cheerily walking home from downtown last weekend I passed some high heeled ladies walking the same direction, folks everywhere a few minutes after bar close. Me: "How's it going tonight?" Fattest one in the group: "lots of creeps out." Me: "um... right? I'm going to keep walking you're obviously crazy." Bitches
/r/MensRights30/07/15 07:01 PM
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One of my accounts only had two comments here. I'm sure a whole post will get ya on the list. ahaha. But it is so hard to swallow I don't tell people about it because they look at it and immediately get all white knight on me. Just manning up is sometime easier said than done but I agree wholeheartedly with your perspective.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:52 PM
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I had a 7 year LTR with a virgin. I mean she wasn't after the first few months but still. I agree with you in that she was my favorite.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 02:32 PM
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