Out of a 2+ year LTR about a month and a bit ago, much better than I was then. Working on myself and lifting . What I can't get over... My ex was literally a 10 in the looks department for me personally, and it's extremely difficult to find someone that comes close. Looking back there was a lot of other issues that I overlooked because of her looks, but now the difficulty is more in the accepting it will be extremely hard to find another 10. Has anyone ever dealt with this before? How do you get over it. I guess there's still some of my oneitis left over, it's definitely there.