I'm currently plating 3 girls. One of them is what I'll call my main plate, as she's LTR potential. We've been dating for 4 months now.

Everythings been going smoothly, no drama from her, very red-pilled relation, fucking awesome sex, yada yada.

During the last month or so, we've basically come to a stand-still. It's a little boring hanging out doing the same things (netflix and chill) so we've been on walks, been out to eat, etc. - which have all been awesome things and good for the relation between us.

However, I think I've made myself too available. I'm actually really busy with music (I play in 3 bands) but she knows I've taken time out to see her. Because of this, I think she's lost some attraction. We've had a talk where we both agreed it's gotten a tad boring and that the "relationship" isn't really blooming as such. Of course that's not something that can be forced, but even though I'm spinning 2 other girls and therefore have a good abundance mentality, I still want this to grow further as we're a great match.

What I think I should do is this: Dread a bit, show SMV (I've invited her to see my band play, this is def gonna work on the SMV), not stay in touch that much on social media (which I told her we shouldn't) and cut down to seeing each other only once a week.

I'm seeing her tomorrow after a week with very limited contact, where we're going drinking. What should be my focus during this night, to basically establish a blooming interest from her again?

Lots of kino, SMV, etc. is like I said what I plan to do, but in case I'm totally wrong here, or I should do something else, please help me out.

Cheers!